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Quick Google search. The match group is worth 9 billion. The wedding industry alone is worth 160 billion. This is the problem with conspiracies. The religious "industry"which typically discourages hookup culture is probably worth way more than both combined. There's always people profiting somewhere no matter what happens.. That doesn't mean those people profiting are somehow pulling all the strings of society.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 10:52 PM
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Why does everything have to be explained by some evil group of greedy "elites?" I hate this conspiracy minded thinking that so many people use to explain everything these days. It comes off very lazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 10:42 PM
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I never take too seriously what chicks who are trying to date you say. I am 20 and I dated a 19 year old and she complained about getting approached by older guys. But her last boyfriend before me was 25. I think she just felt like she had to pander to my ego. I had another girl I just hooked up with tell me she's so glad a younger guy finally made moves on her because the only ones confident enough to are usually "creepy old men." When I was skinny and lean I had a girl tell me she liked my abs…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:58 PM
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Home prices are high largely due to local regulations. Point the finger at your local nimbys and environmentalists who pitch a massive fit over any level of building, especially cheap and or dense building. Or move to the Midwest.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:57 AM
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I mean depends on what you mean by "wronged you." But THIS sounds low self esteem to me. If somebody did something very wrong to you, it's okay to hate them. It's okay to seek whatever legal forms of revenge/justice you can, if you think it's worth it. Or just never speak to them again. After you have done A or B, do your best to forget about them and move onto another thing in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 02:41 AM
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My dad is a huge nice guy "just don't piss off your mother or the women in your life, and take care of them" was basically his "advice." My older sister gave me the best dating advice by far. Not framed as advice but as insult... Direct quote "you are a beta male pussy, so it's no surprise you don't have a girlfriend."
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 08:27 PM
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Literally never been a thing I have noticed. Maybe they are a little weirded out if you frame it as you go to a "dating coach" or are following a masculinity guro because a lot of them are legit sexists. But I have told all my girlfriends about my life history. I said I was super socially awkward when I was 18 and had really bad anxiety and social anxiety. But I learned to overcome those fears by travelling a lot and staying in hostels, getting jobs that would force me to be more social, and goi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 08:11 PM
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If any of you guys have social anxiety you should try solo travelling. I think what put the final nail in the coffin for my social anxiety was staying in New York city hostels or random couches or airbnbs and financing the trip by doing ebike food delivery. When I flew back home it was like nothing could overwhelm me, and I was completely unphased and not at all sensitive to other people judgements or criticisms.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 06:05 AM
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Basically this is the false nice guy / asshole dichotomy. How about be a man with actual integrity and self esteem? Also, I would say it's more standing up for yourself and being mentally strong, masculine, and not pedastalizing women that sets off this primal desire. It's not the "emotional dollar coaster."
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 04:36 AM
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Sounds like my Russian grandmother. She started getting on my about not have a gf already when I was 16. Then when I got one when I was 18 she was so excited and said she started to be worried I was gay! Lol. While blocking you sounds pretty toxic, I do sort of think this type of culture can be a good thing. Any maternal figure who cares about her son should not want to see him be sexually frustrated and lonely. I would rather have a family that tells me what's up and what I need to work on rath…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 11:21 PM
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I mean I think school teachers teach a lot of bullshit, but I don't see how any man is going to hear this and decide to be a lazy fuck with no job. If that's what you are implying. Women could literally not exist at all and I would still be interested in getting a good job.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 10:34 PM
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This is so nihilistic. I changed completely from 16-23. I didn't even graduate high school and I was a total loser. I had poor parents who were also really emotionally immature. In college I managed to get straight As and overcome a lot of the social anxiety and mental issues I had. You are right that most people don't change, but that's their choice to not choose to better themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 10:23 PM
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Sorry I'm not religious so this might be offensive. But why don't you just move to a big city and date Christian girls who may not be in the same exact sect as you but still mostly share the same values? Afaik women tend to be more religious and I think some of the more casual churches in big cities are good social places to meet young people. So probably a decent bet.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 10:10 PM
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Yeah I agree with what you mentioned. She was actually yelling at me, my roommates were home so she was disrupting them, and she was pretty pissed. Like I said she went and slammed the door. So I think it was warranted in this situation. You are right though that you don't want to use this over any minor disagreement or slight voice raising or snarky comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 09:49 PM
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My first instinct would have never ever ever been to stand up to her like that. I would have let her yell as much as she wanted. I was also scared shitless doing it, because I was 18 and I never stood up for myself before. Especially to a woman. and I spent that hour scared that I did wrong thing. I had learned about the redpill and watched a lot of stuff about how standing up to women actually makes them MORE attracted to you. When this happened I was thinking, holy shit these guys are dead rig…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 09:34 PM
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I found the redpill when I was a virgin and this was my first big confirmation of it. My gf started raising her voice at me one day for no good reason and I told her that she can't just yell at me, and if she wants to have an actual conversation she needs to leave my place and spend an hour or two calming down and THEN we can talk about what's bothering her. She left my house, slammed the door on her way out, then came back an hour later, apologized for slamming the door, and wanted to have sex.…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 09:25 PM
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Promiscuous young woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 08:05 AM
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If anyone ever brings up politics on the first or second date I always say "I think we should have a fun date and talking about politics isn't fun." I would never directly lie. If she wants to push it any further then maybe we can have a very reasonable discussion, in which case maybe this girl is LTR material, or I can learn she's a usually a far left politics obsessed nutcase which is good to know early on because I can run before any false allegations or drama inevitably pops up.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 07:26 AM
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Not true. I was talking to this slutty girl I hooked up with when I was 21 she was 20 and she told me she fucked this uber driver. I asked about what he looked like and she said he was an 35 year old immigrant who was short and fat. I was thinking uh wtf. She just said "oh well I have always just wanted to fuck an Uber driver it's just always something I have wanted to do. Some of these more "open minded" chicks are absolutely wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 12:40 AM
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Before I had my current girlfriend I was pretty obsessed with getting laid and it worked. I was going to the gym, I was always talking to people and trying to get into parties. I was on 4 dating apps, I was always looking for photo ops to see if I could optimize my pictures. I even paid for a therapist to help me work on my social skills. Sounds like you weren't being completely passive, and women can get away with being more passive then men, but the "whatever happens happens" quote is a ticket…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 10:50 PM
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Part of the problem is they are only looking at guys they notice. Maybe they got approached or stalked in a really awkward way by a guy 20 years older then them who also smells. Then they go online saying men are creepy and they shouldn't approach women in public, and they also need to take a shower. Or when they say they like intelligent guys who are clean, nice, respectful and responsible What they are saying is they sort of wish that the partiers, athletes and fuckboy types they actually slee…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 08:05 PM
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Dang. Is it also a small town? That might actually be a scenario where just being more passive is fine. But hey I would still at least try especially if there's other colleges around with more women or if it's at least a small city where there will be some chicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 07:59 PM
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You do you ig. Idk how old you are or if you are looking to get married at this point, but I wouldn't go seeking perfection. Just have sex and or casually date people you can connect with on some level, and enjoy spending time with at least a little. Until you do find someone you really like then I guess you would get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 07:54 PM
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How is this the right approach to anything in life? If you want women you can't be passive. Or if you want really anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 07:42 PM
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Not a good strategy at all. Even the few times I have been approached they still expected me to be the masculine one and start flirting and escalating. Women also do really chicken shit "approaches" so you need to learn to even recognize you are getting approached. Like for example, a random girl complimented my shirt while I was walking by this apartment complex. If you listen to soy redditors and feminists they will tell you "oh she was just giving you a compliment, you have no right to make a…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 05:49 PM
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Anyone who says that the modern dating market problems are because of the economy needs to take a trip down to Brazil. They are actually poor (unlike the whiney reddittors who want to have no roommates in a nice city at 22 years old). The amount of partying and sex there is insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 05:07 PM
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I mean don't go looking for "help" that's what a therapist is for. I'm just saying hang out with them and learn to become a bit more normal. And I think everyone feels like a fish out of water at first. In BJJ I was insanely intimidated by all these jacked fighter guys with tattoos but I found they weren't really the judgemental type who would write me off as a "loser." They have respect for people there to work hard and learn even if they are nerdy. And it took 6 months before I felt really par…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 05:01 PM
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Seems counter intuitive but I think young guys who struggle with dating need to hang out with men more. Go get a job in construction, join a martial arts gym, dirt biking group, something along those lines. I joined a BJJ gym as a guy raised by a single mother. Walked in on the first day a total wimp. Not only did learning how to fight give me a bit more confidence, but what really helped was getting out of my head and being surrounded by grounded masculine men. The don't give a shit attitude ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 09:18 AM
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Damn dude idk what you look like or how bad your social skills are, but I really doubt you need to date a girl 50 pounds heavier than you. Maybe I'm completely different from you in terms of what my ceiling is for social skills or looks. But once I put on about 20 pounds of muscle and became a bit more grounded in social situations, gained a bit of self esteem, I found I had a pretty easy time getting girls. And idk if this is true or not, but you make it sound like you went to bars and never ap…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 08:48 AM
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5'9"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 02:32 AM
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Completely underrated point on this sub and in other places is quality of tinder pictures. I added some activity pictures to my profile and it went from being a waste of time to being able to actively get several dates a month with hot girls from it. Looking back, I can sorta understand it. Before I hade a bunch of selfies, many of them at home, I looked a bit anxious and awkward in the photos, and I was usually just staring at the camera not doing anything. I watched some videos online about go…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 02:25 AM
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Ya I looked it up what I said is exactly correct. So yes, 14th is one of the highest overall suicide rates, and for teen suicide Utah is #3 and Idaho is #1, the states with the two highest Mormon populations. And New York is also #50 from this source. It's not just me being lazy I'm an exmormon and yes I know these people and tons of them are miserable. https://www.statista.com/statistics/666791/states-with-highest-number-of-adolescent-suicidal-deaths-in-us/
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 02:51 AM
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I have literally never heard a girl complain "oh he seemed cute and nice but we are in the same program so I'm gonna reject him." Business majors aren't engaged in this sort of neurosis and they date each other and go to the same frat parties and hookup and don't give a shit about rumors or maybe being in the same class as someone who they rejected or something. I know tons of people who date someone they met in the same class or god forbid, are in the same department. This sort of stuff is exac…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 02:33 AM
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I don't buy this. Nor do I buy these happiness studies either. As an exmormon, they tell us to show off how happy and amazing our lives are, to put on this fake air of niceness and happiness. It's all fake. Utah is the most Mormon state and has some of the highest overall suicide rates and I think it's top 5 in youth suicide rates. But if you ask a Mormon how happy they are, they will always say they are happy. Ask them on a survey, same thing. Also go to NYC and ask people how they are doing. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 11:15 PM
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Look for roommates on Facebook marketplace or Craigslist. I found a cheap place that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 07:36 PM
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I actually do think putting in effort and failing does make you happier. In my experience. It's not about getting a trophy, it's about knowing in my own heart that I ruthlessly pursue the goals that I'm after. The feeling is great. Dating and relationships just seem like the one area where giving up is insane. This "reality" speech is what you tell a kid who is 5'7" and wants to dedicate all his efforts to getting in the NBA. Sex and love are critical needs to live a good life, idk what is the b…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 06:39 PM
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The problem is most intelligent guys are kinda pussies. Like you get to know some of these more awkward characters and sometimes they end up being really witty and funny once you get to know them. But they are too scared to take the social risk of making some witty comment. Or like I would say if you can always think of fun plans or solutions to problems, stuff to do for cheap, that's probably attractive to women. The problem is a lot of intelligent dudes are overly anxious so instead of doing s…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 06:14 PM
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Is asd mixed in with what used to be called "Asperger's" for that stat? You only live once and the last thing you want to do is just "accept and give up." Pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 05:23 PM
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I would never recommend targeting autistic girls to ask out. I'm not on the spectrum, but I'm pretty nerdy, double major in math and CS, and have had pretty bad social anxiety. When I started making efforts to date and ask girls out when I was 18, the "NT" type girls who were really social were wayyy easier to sleep with, and probably easier to be in a relationship w/ but I never was in a relationship with a nerdy or potentially autistic girl. The nerdy girls want you to be their friend for a ye…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 05:00 PM
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750 No it's not. Not with roommates. Go on Facebook marketplace or Craigslist right now and you can find examples. My current place is 800 with utilities. And it's totally individual if you have great parents it's more enticing. Maybe you buy a house a few years later if you do what I do. I think it's worth it. You are only in your 20s once.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 08:11 AM
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Well good chatting with you, seems like we have pretty deep disagreements. All I will say is, I am not and was not making my landlord richer. I moved to a big city where I could meets lots of women, have lots of internship opportunities, go to a great university, be around some awesome nature. The alternative was staying with my hyper religious, (yet also mentally unstable and drug addicted) father in a boring small town. My rent was 750 dollars with roommates and I was making 18/hr so I spent 1…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 07:49 AM
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Nice guy syndrome takes serious work to overcome. When I was 18 I was the definition of a pushover nice guy and I would say it took me 6 months before I made some improvements (along with getting my first gf) and then another 18 months before I was healthy psychologically. Serious insecurity is a major issue that can't merely be solved with communication. I also disagree that living at home is a economic problem. Sure maybe it partly is but it's more cultural. Btw this is all US centric... I mov…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 07:19 AM
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Okay I shouldn't have used neet because you are right that's not true. 50% of young people do still live at home though, and it is more men that live at home than women. And when I say "nice guy syndrome and basic social skills" I'm not talking about maybe being a bit awkward when you first are talking to someone. I genuinely believe more than 50% of my peers I meet as early 20s guy, do seem like complete pushovers, they pedestalize women, OR they are immature retards. And please she doesn't hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 06:52 AM
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I say this as a guy, there are legit discrepancies here. Let me preface this that anyone who has the complaints without taking action to work on themselves is a loser. These phrases themselves are also pretty cringey. But the general idea I think is fair. Nice guy syndrome is rampant, men being NEETs is rampant, alcoholism or drug addiction. All more common in men. And a lot of the actually intellectual, responsible guys are massive pussies. I have had to deal with male roommates and so many of …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 06:31 AM
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Nah go hang out in a math department at a university. A lot of them are the stereotypical nervous beta but you would be surprised how many of the outgoing ones end up having girlfriends. Hell just come to Seattle the average here is relatively weird. I'm almost certain people do make fun of my uncle and these types but who gives a fuck? I would argue it's much better to be outgoing and find the small percentage of women and men who will be cool with that than just isolate and be a loser. Keeping…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 12:56 AM
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It just seems rare in the data and in my experience. I don't see how it's dishonest when you can Google "average age gap" and every study will show the same thing. This is what I mean by redpill stating this as law. They really drive this point home for some reason when it seems like a fairly niche observation about the dating market.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 04:33 PM
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Yeah if you go through life trying to always avoid negative conversations about you behind your back you will live a truly pathetic life.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 08:41 AM
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Not necessarily an answer to the question but I think people confuse autism and social anxiety a lot. I have an autistic uncle who is a successful tenured college professor at a great school. Really eccentric weird guy who never makes eye contact and talks about weird stuff, but he isn't socially anxious at all. I was on a walk with him downtown once and he greets everyone he passes. And sometimes he will cover his face randomly with his shirt while you talk to him. And the way he talks is just …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 08:06 AM
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Have any of you had any actual consequences from approaching or asking women out irl? On the internet you get this idea that every women is going to record for a cringe compilation or call the cops. Literally worst thing that has happened to me is a chick being slightly rude or standoffish which is totally fair since I'm a random stranger. I have also asked chicks out at work (albeit crappy jobs with other college students) and in classes or school clubs and I have never afaik gotten some horrib…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 07:54 AM
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The age thing and the "status/money" thing are one thing the redpill states as law but just isn't consistent with data. They say huge age gap relationships are super duper common but all studies say that for both casual dating and marriage age gaps tend to be 2-3 years. Or socioeconomic status. Every major study shows that the gap between the man and the women aren't that high usually. Ofc it's way more common to see old man young women and rich man poor women than vice versa. Still rare though.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 07:36 AM
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I agree. The thing is I think these dudes are doing a huge disservice because if they were a little bit more masculine and took more risks with women their intelligence and stuff would genuinely be helpful. I don't think women IDEALLY want some drooling brain damaged football player but they will happily take that over some harmless beta.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 07:51 PM
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Okay to be fair ya I do know a lot of these people fuck up in a lot of ways. I'm more talking about the people who say they are normies and respectful and following all the typical advice but still can't get anything. I had a roommate who was an engineer so made good money, was very smart and well spoken, in very good shape, was good at cooking healthy great food, super clean. But he seemed to have bad social anxiety. I talked to him and he said he hadn't had a gf in 5 years. Like holy shit dude…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 06:21 PM
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Oh ya it's fucking hard advice to actually follow through with. The inner work is harder than something like getting jacked. But it's more rewarding for every phase and aspect of life, not just dating. It's often time also glossed over as some innate trait. Confidence is not innate it absolutely can be worked on.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 05:44 PM
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What? I mean this will lead to some people hating you and some people loving you. Better than being that middle of the road nice guy that everyone likes at least a little bit. This is consistent with my experience as someone who used to be a social anxiety chameleon who tried to please everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 05:38 PM
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I think there's a reason there's so much disconnect between female dating advice for men and reality is because they are usually talking about the certain men they are actually dating / giving a chance. You see stuff like be more clean, more respectful, more intelligent and interesting, more emotionally open etc. This advice might be decent for the average Chad or athlete type, especially if they are looking for a long term relationship, but it's horrible advice for a lot of men. The guy studyin…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 05:27 PM
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