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LifeAtPeace/r/TheRedPill16/03/15 03:33 PM
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If it were 5 years ago, I would have dismissed a post like this as troll. But based on my experiences with women in the past 5 years, I cannot help but believe everything written in this post. Good job OP!!! No matter who she was, your friend, coworker, relative, girlfriend or wife, women can and will you use anything they have against you to destroy you. This is the lesson I have learned.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/15 12:09 PM
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Don't try to understand why she cheated you, really it is a waste of time These are golden words. Never try to understand the reasons for a woman's actions. There are none.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/15 02:13 AM
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This is the most common behavior I have observed with all the women who cheat. I have to say you explained it so perfectly and precisely.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/15 10:04 AM
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Ignore what they say, observe how they act/ react towards this behavior.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 03:48 AM
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ALL women will do what they do. I would say ALL women can do that.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 03:58 AM
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Excellent analogy. Men should throw these kind of examples in the face of women once in a while to make them understand what they are asking for.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/15 03:27 AM
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I agree with you. I once had a female coworker tell me how she is going to stop working out and going to the parlor once she is married. Women become lazy once they got the man locked down.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 01:39 AM
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Good post buddy. My favorites being - 1.) Control ALL of your emotions 2.) Being straight forward with what I want 3.) Keep your promises
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 02:22 AM
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When your woman is feeling low, she’ll try to access your “human” side, whether that’s trying to make you angry, trying to make you sad, trying to make you horny, trying to make you apologize or admit something – she wants you to reveal a chink in your armor, because she feels bad about herself and needs you to look more human so she knows she’s still good enough for you. That chink in your armor means she still has some control over you. This makes perfect sense to me now. Whenever my ex was fe…
/r/TheRedPill26/04/15 03:10 AM
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This is good. It shows how strong you can be.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/15 03:03 AM
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When I was down and depressed, I asked my gf of 2.5 years if she can take care of me for a month. He response was 'yes' and I felt so happy. But the next morning, she sent an email that she cannot be with me and cut all contact. That is how women are. We have to accept it.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/15 02:58 AM
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Although your explanation about gratitude holds good for women, I cannot help mention that your first words to a her ("Hey, the last time I saw you, you were passed out on the bathroom floor of that pub!") were not very polite.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 02:23 AM
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I'd argue one of the most common mistakes plugged-in men make is in assuming women value and respect honour and integrity the way men do. That naturally leads to frustration when you see women acting the way they do without remorse, like in your example. Absolutely true. This is the mistake I made when I was BP. I believed her to keep her promises to me the way I was ready to keep mine. But women can never held up to the standards of a man.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 02:18 AM
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I respect your opinion. It is possible that a woman might have jumped the ship after a while in a relationship, but that would have been because of different reasons. I can tell you for sure that all the women/ girls do not know what they want. They just say what they feel at that moment. I was in a relationship with a girl who got married to another rich guy and was in contact with me even after marriage. She used to tell me she hates her husband and the guy hit her multiple times. She wanted t…
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 03:30 AM
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All I can say is "Well done bro". That is how you treat a whining woman.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/15 03:49 AM
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On a serious note, this is something men must simply accept. Women lie. Coldly and without remorse. If you accept that they lie about partner count - something they know matters to most guys- then you have to ask what else they lie about. Exactly. It should not come as a surprise that women lie all the time. Any man who has had 2-3 women in life will vouch for this. And these lies are not conscious most of the time. They just say things as they feel at that moment, ignoring the truth.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/15 05:44 AM
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This is the truth. Women's stories are always narrated portraying themselves as victims.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/15 03:00 AM
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I cannot help but agree with you on this. But it is also good for kids (boys) to have their father's guidance. Boys should not always be left to the mother.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/15 04:14 AM
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Tirelessly remind yourself that women are children. When a woman makes you angry, look for the place where you made the mistake of thinking of her as an adult. Stop looking for adult women. They don't exist, and you wouldn't want one if they did. These lines will go on to my wall. Excellent post.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/15 02:53 AM
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Hats off to you sir. Never saw someone explain things so clearly. I can just recall every single situation where women were asked a question and they tried to think of aspects you mentioned.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/15 05:50 AM
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When she's not getting fucked in your bed, she's wondering if some other girl is. This is the ultimate truth I heard from all the girls I ever slept with. None of them never said no to sex because they were scared of this.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 02:28 PM
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Well good to have someone with a lot of experience here. Do you mind mentioning your age group?
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 03:20 AM
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It's all just a game and TRP is the strategy guide to winning. That should be the attitude. Play the game and guard your emotions.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 03:19 AM
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You are lucky to have found this sub at such a young age. You have a lot of years to enjoy your life with this knowledge. My advice would be not to become bitter and aloof. Instead try to put to use what you have understood about women and benefit from that.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 03:15 AM
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Age definitely is related to wisdom. A person does not see/ understand things better unless he/ she has experienced them. And people you are old enough would have experienced things multiple times in life. They would have a better understanding of life situations and solutions to the problems. For instance, a doctor with 20+ years of experience is preferred over the once with 2 years of experience.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 03:14 AM
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Well, I would say you are too paranoid. You don't need to give the exact age. You can just mention your age group (like early 20s, 30s). And even without specifying age, your past posts about experiences reveal the same amount of info about you.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 03:10 AM
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My motivation is to teach my newborn son how to make his way in the world, and help him avoid being a loser with work, women, life itself. Great to know that your son has good guidance as he grows up. This is what all the boys need.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 02:30 AM
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My old man told me most of this stuff years ago.. You were lucky sir. This again emphasizes the importance of a strong male figure for guidance in the life of boys. I lacked it as I grew up.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 02:27 AM
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It would be really helpful if you can share your experiences and the lessons learned from them. We need people of your age group helping us out here.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 02:12 AM
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But yeah, I think TRP is a thirties thing. Very true. My view of the world also changed a lot after 30.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/15 04:23 PM
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I don't think something insightful will be disregarded if the post is written well. But without specifying the age, all the posts can be categorized as the ones from teenagers. We have majority of RPers from the age group of 30-45 and their posts are being considered as the ones from teenagers. For instance, I am in my 30s and I have enough (if not a lot) experience of relationships with women. Anything I say is well thought and practically applied stuff.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/15 03:41 PM
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That's the point of this sub. Not to hate women, not for mens rights, just to understand how the world works and make the best of it. Well said. It doesn't help hating women. It only helps if you understand them and try to use it to your advantage.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/15 04:20 AM
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I agree with this. Marriage is a bad deal not just in the west but even in the east. Asian countries which were considered to be full of traditional RP women are also polluted. The laws being made in these countries are also slowly killing the institution of marriage.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/15 03:52 AM
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Exactly. This is what happened in my case. Heroes become villains eventually.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/15 03:06 PM
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I agree with this. It is better to be aware that relationships can end (sometimes in a few months and sometimes in a years). But they will ultimately come to an end, in a sad and bitter manner. If you make up your mind to accept this before entering a relationship, it saves a lot of emotional energy. But having said that, it is really difficult to experience the happiness of being in an LTR if you think it can end any day. You will not be emotionally connected to the woman, if you think she is j…
/r/TheRedPill22/02/15 04:20 AM
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never seriously date a woman who needs to be told she is pretty In that case, you will have to date a man. All women crave to hear such things.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/15 04:03 AM
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Excellent post. You are just brilliant and experienced man. I wish I found this sub a few years ago. How old are you?
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 07:39 AM
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Get out of your comfort zone and live. Girls, friends, all that will follow. Don't worry about someone following you or being there for you. Be aware that you will always be alone in the journey. Be prepared.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 04:47 AM
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Well said man. I too do not regret the years of my life that helped me unplug.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 04:46 AM
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Absolutely true. A woman uses sympathy as much as her sexuality. I learned this the hard way. I helped a female coworker (a bitch) with everything and she used sympathy to get things from me. But I got to see her real character only when I had nothing to offer her.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/15 04:58 PM
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Alright, I see three ways to handle the situation. 1.) Being nice (as your roommate is) and not creating a scene/ fight out of what she said. Some people call it maturity. Women say things just out of emotion and they don't really mean any of those. Your roommate was nice to her and she just calmed down to realize that she was selfish (once her emotions subside). So this approach works very well with women in the short term but over a few years (1 or 2), she will slowly lose respect for him. She…
/r/TheRedPill15/02/15 03:13 AM
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This is best advice while dealing with women at work. You cannot treat men and women equally.
/r/askTRP07/02/15 12:51 PM
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you're a prospective useful orbiter. Or you can replace the boyfriend if you prove yourself. Most of the girls are looking to upgrade. So,girl having a boyfriend is not the same as a boy having a girlfriend.
/r/askTRP01/02/15 12:09 PM
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This is the truth. Although you don't say it directly, they are servants to serve you and they will be happy to do that.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/15 03:33 AM
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I am from Asia and I can't guarantee that kind of loyalty from the women here too. In fact women from my country are more materialistic and choose men exclusively based on their financial capacity.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/15 12:46 PM
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Men look at fellow men as human beings whereas women look at fellow men as utilities/ resources. So when the man becomes less useful or the woman finds another man more useful, she will swing the branch or the man becomes invisible. I am not saying this just about women in relationships but even women at work. I have observed that my former male colleagues still treat me as a person and I can rely upon them. But female colleagues just look at me as a resource to extract knowledge or work from.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/15 11:44 AM
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No self control, no self reflection, no pride, no sense of decency. Just a big grown up teenager. Very true. This is not the problem with just western women but with all the women these days. A couple of years ago, I was still reluctant to believe that AWALT. I trusted two girls I work with and thought of them to be different. But a year after knowing them I could see that they are all the same.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/15 07:02 PM
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This is true. Marriage is longer what it used to be. A lot of things were overlooked earlier for the sake of keeping the family together (for the sake of kids). Now marriages are all about "what I can get by marrying this person". Men think of getting great sex from a hot woman (consistently) and women think of a big house, SUVs, foreign trips and lavish lifestyle. I am yet to meet a woman who wants to marry without expecting any of the above.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/15 06:47 PM
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Attraction is not magic. It’s not some random spark you either feel or don’t. Attraction can be generated. You can make women want to fuck you. This is exactly why marriage is a bad idea. Attraction is lost or attraction is generated. Women can lose attraction for husbands after a few years in marriage and they can fuck other guys that attract them. To keep a woman attracted to you for life time is impossible. At some point in life (may be 10 years, 15 years or 20 years after marriage), attracti…
/r/TheRedPill26/01/15 06:35 PM
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She was never yours- it was just your turn. Fucking awesome quote. I was thinking about this quote today as I watched a BP guy pamper his wife at a restaurant.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/15 05:33 AM
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The Shutdown is incredibly effective for women at work because its politically infeasible to call them out on it. I had to quit because of calling them out. Actually being unresponsive (Shutting down) makes them seem like a victim while the other person is talking.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/15 06:14 AM
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Marriage is like a swimming pool: the first guy jumps in it, and the water is fucking cold. He tells the others that it's very nice in there, just so he isn't the only idiot that goes out of the pool shivering. Good one. I feel the same about marriage although I know there can be a few exceptions (good marriages).
/r/TheRedPill21/01/15 02:33 PM
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Following your authority is merely a game to bring things back to the way they were. It's a woman's form of manipulation. Exactly. Women hold things inside for years before you see them erupt. They pretend a lot and manipulate the man into believing she is the one he wants to be with. Having said that, I suggest never give yourself again to this woman completely. Keep her around but be always prepared to walk out. If she can do it once, she can do it again.
/r/askTRP21/01/15 05:48 AM
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Do you think that's why people are so drawn to activities like extreme sports, MMA, etc.? It touches upon something primal. I'm a climber, and when I'm out climbing I'm not thinking about that report I have to right at work, or my lousy ex-gf, I'm just focused on "survival." Good one. Made me think about the activities I do. You are 100% correct. I just never noticed it.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 07:05 AM
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Exactly. Your past matters especially if I am still living around those people who know it.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 06:22 AM
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That's not true. If you did not understand the logic behind this, you are a woman for sure.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 06:19 AM
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Well said. I had experienced this female colleagues as well. When they fuck up, no matter how you deal with it, you are mean, rude and non-cooperating.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 05:37 AM
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Well, parking aside the emotions involved in this scenario, I strongly believe every woman expects her man to defend her even in worst cases. That is why women need a man. To fight for her even when she screws up. Having said that, the husband did the right thing in this case. Just ignore and walk away. Never ever take on somebody's fight even if it is your wife/ gf. You will only regret having done that.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 05:26 AM
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He was always there though. Obviously, women have a ton of orbiters and potential mates. He was around even while we were dating unexclusively, but I was her priority until the attraction fizzled out. True. Women always have at least 3-4 orbiters who they claim to be "just friends". And all the guys including you have the same significance to her. So that makes it easy for her to choose another if she loses one.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/15 12:48 PM
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I agree with you. AWALT. I am from an Asian country and see girls fucking other men although they are engaged/ committed.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/15 06:03 AM
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The men tend to be more calm, stoic, and robust. That is true. No matter what level women get, they never mature.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/15 10:14 AM
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Try to avoid working with or for women at all costs. Seriously. I would say nothing better than this. You neither grow nor learn anything from working with women. You just get overburdened with all their work while they sit behind the veil of team work and take credit.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/15 10:13 AM
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Well, I am in STEM and I guarantee you that once the female enters the team, it is full of drama. I had 3 females on my team and could not bear that shit.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/15 07:27 AM
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A therapist will tell him how poor of a husband he is for not showing emotions like a baby and that he should embrace his feminine side, while excusing all of the behaviors of the wife. Well said. These therapists know nothing about relationships with women and they talk to you like they have lived their entire lives in marriages. I am sure they would have read some books on psychology which would have preached how important it is for men to show emotions to their wives. Stupids.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 11:31 AM
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Not just women in personal life, even women at work have this habit of running to management for every silly reason. He smiled at me the wrong way (Now what is the wrong way of smiling!!!!). He was in my way and did not step aside even after seeing me (Bloody ask him to clear your way than complain about it). He did not assist me with something when I asked (the coworkers don't cooperate with me). He all of sudden avoids me and does not come to lunch with me (hostile work place). He was rude to …
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 08:40 AM
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To add to my comment, this is why I tell boys not to cry if their girlfriend breaks up with them. IF he really has to cry then at least avoid doing it in front of her at all costs. Great advice. Crying for a girl only makes you look like her bitch. And if at all you cried in her presence (for her), don't continue the relationship.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 08:36 AM
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Well, it is very simple. Women often try their best to provoke men and get a reaction (emotional one) from men. They like to see their men break, lose confidence and come back to them crying. Don't believe me? Watch this. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=opqSk7E2xcY&t=123m40s Watch from 2:03:40 to 2:08:12.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 08:02 AM
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Awesome explanation. Red pill is about unlearning lies and seeing the obvious truth. This is exactly why RP is a bitter pill to swallow. It is easier to learn something new than unlearn something that has been ingrained into the mind from childhood.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 05:51 AM
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Never expose too much. Do things on your own time. They love the long game and hate anything that ruins the show for them. Keep playing the game and drop mini spoilers about your life here and there. JUST mini. Never ruin the show for them. These are golden words. No matter what the girl says, she enjoys the game. I would rather say, she needs the game to be attracted to you. Why do you think women lose attraction for men once they move in with them? They get to know a lot more about the man.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 06:15 AM
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Sex is a powerful weapon, isn't it? A man is confused about a woman who is denying sex with an excuse that she might fall in love. But she does not want to commit. 1.) She wants to spare herself the pain of getting hurt (by not having any feelings for you). 2.) She does not want to have sex with you now. That means she is not dependent on you for sex as much as you are on her. 3.) You don't want to commit but need sex from her. So, just find sex somewhere else, don't commit to her and spare her …
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 06:08 AM
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I have not read the article but I can tell you that falling in love is something that happens to teenagers (or once in a life time). It happens when you have not understood women well and have not fucked more than one woman. Hang out with 3+ girls for a few weeks and fuck them well. I will guarantee, you can't even think of love.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/15 12:00 PM
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You can defer the truth from coming out for a while but cannot hide it for ever. RedPill is the ultimate bitter truth not just about relationships/ women but about life. I feel ashamed to say this but I was one of the bluepill guys trying to put the woman in my life on pedestal, making her happy, sacrificing my goals and ruined my career and health. But finally I am here and became aware of the RP truth. Just to prove the RP truth, these are the words from my ex - "A woman can make a man do anyt…
/r/TheRedPill13/01/15 04:44 AM
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This guy has described it excellently. People might call you paranoid with this kind of thought process but believe me, this is exactly what saves me most of times in my life. If I have a feeling that more than 50% of the things about a person/ event are suggesting me that something is wrong, I know there is something wrong. I constantly apply this at my job, personal life, dealing with associates etc.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/15 04:35 AM
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Totally agree with you. And people who forgive the cheating spouse do not understand this at that moment. They think the cheater can change if they love him/ her more. But over a period of time as the remorse of the cheater subsides, he/ she will again get back to their original way of thinking (cheating for fun/ thrill). Bottom line, remorse in a cheater does not last long enough (not at least for life time). Giving cheater another chance is nothing but risking getting hurt again.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/15 01:21 PM
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Well then, it is too early for you to fall in love (serious relationship). If you are not into girls who smoke weed, it is better you tell her about it and breakup with her. Do not expect a 19 year old chick to give up something for a guy. She has lots of opportunities now and trying to make her give up weed will only create more drama.
/r/askTRP12/01/15 01:15 PM
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Friendship is a lot more valuable than a pussy. Women often try to fuck their bf's/ husbands' friends to test the strength of friendships. It is a part of their mind games. And I am not a 17 year old offering advice here.
/r/askTRP12/01/15 06:49 AM
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Your only reason to believe her is that her friend is married and will not cheat??? Buddy, your reason to believe her should be things related to her (past history, flings, impulsiveness, level of control over herself when drunk, honesty etc). And you want to think about being in a relationship with a girl who parties all night and talks to men about dick sizes. Good luck with that.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/15 06:08 AM
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Whatever marriage used to be, nowadays for a man it's just a raw deal. Agreed. Marriage is slowly taking a totally different form. If you plan to get married now, imagine what it would be like after 10-20 years. And men who think can shield their wives' minds from being corrupted are wrong. You cannot control a person's thought process or capacity to become aware of new things. Given the fact that women are more social, they will become aware of and crave for things you might not want them to kn…
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 04:13 PM
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Well, I would say marriage is constant hard work. You will have to go through a lots of ups and downs. And the time of ups or downs is not the same in all marriages. Some people experience the downs in 3 years, some in 5 and others after a decade. But if you have the patience and strength to steer through those difficult times, you will have a successful marriage (according to the society). Instead if you experience too many downs (ill health, financial woes, job loss, cheating of wife, lack of …
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 03:48 PM
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You seem like a wise old man.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 03:37 PM
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Although I don't agree with everything OP has written but there is an element of truth in it. 1.) Women who are good relationship material don't hide the relationship from family and friends. Because if she is proud to have you, she will show it off. 2.) She will wait to have dinners with you and will cook to please you. 3.) She does not hesitate to tell you the truth about anything because she knows that if she wants to spend life with you she has to be honest. You will eventually know about th…
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 02:41 PM
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A woman who was beaten up by her "father" figure and wants to be with the same is no woman for me. Well, I don't agree with you. Women love to stay and fuck guys who display a little bit of violence. Especially, they love it when men put them in their place when they are out of place. Every woman I have known falls into this category.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 06:11 AM
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It seems like women enjoy being fought over both literally and figuratively Well, that's a known fact. Women enjoy the battle between men to determine who is the strongest. Old Indian epics (Ramayana, MahaBharat) explain this clearly in the form something called "Swayamvaram". Kings used to compete and fight each other to win a chance to marry a woman. I too had my ex instigate me to fight her current husband. She even yelled "kill him", I love you" multiple times. You know what happened, she ha…
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 06:08 AM
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I agree 100% with this. Programming is a mentally exhausting job and leaves you with little to no energy for other activities. People also tend to become more socially isolated and cannot build circles easily. Ever seen a programmer sleep all day during a weekend. There is the proof.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 04:07 AM
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This. A man will rip off your arm and beat you with it, end of story. A woman will shit in your soul if you let her. True words were never spoken. Women have the capacity to sabotage your soul. It is your responsibility to never give your soul to a woman. Look at the all the men who committing suicides after breaking up with the love of their lives. That is because their souls are so fucked up that they find it easier to let the soul leave their body.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/15 03:48 PM
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Watch it. There is so much more red pill in that movie. I only told a snippet of spoiler that is on comparison to the average trailer. Kids, there is a lot of RP truth everywhere around you. You just need to open your mind to see it.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/15 03:45 PM
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Never make a woman or relationship a "cornerstone" of your life. Call me dumb but I was 29 when I realized this. Wish I found TRP earlier in my life.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/15 12:53 PM
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Ultimatums can have two outcomes - either she accepts or she rejects. For when you are in the process of self improvement and raising your SMV, this action is in itself an ultimatum. It means that you wont be a beta anymore and she needs to accept it. I agree. TRP does not go well with all the women. I have know some women who are just too closed minded to understand that the changes are for their own happiness.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/15 04:50 AM
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Thanks for the FR. I believe it is much easier and advantageous to implement TRP in marriages. Because women value marriage more than a simple relationship with a guy. They know deep down that they made public declaration to the society, friends and family about their commitment and they will not easily walk out of it. Having said that, all husbands have to do is make sure the wives are not totally abandoned. They need to do what they want to do, but just talk to the wives about it (to make the …
/r/TheRedPill10/01/15 04:38 AM
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Yeah. Divorce in my country is considered a taboo. When people marry here, both the families get involved. So it is difficult for the woman to leave the husband easily. Initially, I tried to understand her or help her, but then I understood women better. :)
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/15 11:08 AM
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1.) Practice mindfulness breathing. This helps you to focus on the task you are doing and prevents your thoughts from straying onto her. 2.) Smile at everyone you meet and try to have a small chat. Just ask, how they are doing? How their day was? Don't engage in deep conversations. 3.) Start lifting and breathe properly while lifting. This is another way to achieve mindfulness. 4.) Stay away from alcohol, weed and smoking. They do not help you in anyway. 5.) Eat healthy and maintain a diet chart…
/r/askTRP09/01/15 11:02 AM
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I don't think that most people would take her side considering the fact that she cheated on him. Even the reddit hamsters are saying she fucked up. All I can say is that I wold have left her stranded and then pretended like she's air at work. I agree. Women are very good at pretending to be helpless and weak. Don't buy that shit. They are the strongest and you can see that when the need arises. My ex used to pretend like she cannot even hire a taxi in my town (I live in an Asian country). But af…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/15 10:52 AM
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I think I will go crazy if I read the responses in the original post. https://archive.today/Cpx25 I cannot believe people can think of all those excuses to make it sound like the woman was the victim,
/r/TheRedPill09/01/15 10:48 AM
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I don't think everything that has been quoted as BP behavior is BP. Has a smoke (for first time in 5 years) which is something he prided himself on avoiding This is a coping mechanism or immediate reaction when something like that happens. Some people drink, some smoke, some fuck a hooker. Sulking out in public This is also a sort of reaction people exhibit based on their capacity to handle anger/ displeasure. It is not BP behavior. Buys cruise ticket for gf he has had for a few months He might …
/r/TheRedPill09/01/15 10:27 AM
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Although I would agree that I like the concept of marriage and family (that good feeling of coming home to a loving wife and kids), marriage these days is more risky than it was 20 years back. I am not from a western country. But I notice the change in women and their attitude even in Asia. Education, jobs and laws to protect them have given women too much power. Forget marrying, I even find it difficult to work long term (more than a year) with women. Their entitlement, childish behavior, lazin…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/15 08:01 AM
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I agree with this guy. Girls/ women enjoy gaming more than men. I remember a girl having sex with me in the afternoon and going out with her fiance in the evening. She told me he kept sucking her boobs (I had cum all over her boobs) so long that she laughed in between. She did not shower after I fucked her. :)
/r/TheRedPill09/01/15 06:04 AM
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Would you hang around with a girl who was doing this to you? It depends on whether the girl is a wife or gf. And you are wrong about woman leaving a man if he is happy. A woman leaves a man only if she has found someone who can provide something better to her or the man she is with is a loser (broken, unhealthy, unhappy etc). Or else she will fight, argue, cry, throw tantrums and then have sex with the same guy every night. Source: Personal experience (In fact the woman I know was even slapped m…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/15 03:19 PM
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How old are you both?
/r/askTRP08/01/15 03:18 PM
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Lazy, inefficient female coworkers are in every field. Even if you make it to a STEM field, you will find these bitches living off the hard work of men hiding behind the guise of team work. I just fucking hate working with women on a team. All they do is talk about how hard their task is or how much they try to do their best.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 10:30 AM
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"Harassment" is a term women use to their benefit (when they cannot deal with a situation). For example, a woman who cannot do her job complains of harassment at work place if her colleagues do not help her (experienced this). To cover up her inefficiency she tries to distract the attention of managers by claiming harassment. I still remember a bitch at my job (not sure if she was fucking the manager but was able to retain her job). Another example is what OP has quoted. Call out a woman on her …
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 10:24 AM
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She's frightened and making a desperate effort to please you as she's sure you are cheating. She will leave you as soon as she has the capital behind her to do so. I understand what you are saying. But it does not work that way with wives. Wives are scared to leave their husbands when they know that their husbands are doing better in life (health, looks, finance and happiness wise). All she can do in this case, is try to improve her life and looks to compete with her husband. She will try and tr…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/15 04:15 AM
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Better response would be to smirk and stay quite. If she does not get an answer, she will keep thinking about it all the time she is with you. That will keep her more interested in you. Golden rule: The more mysterious you are to a girl, the more she wants to talk to you (and is interested in you).
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 01:43 PM
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I had a virgin who had only held hands with her boyfriend (and never kissed him) rip my shorts open and give me a blowjob then drag me to the bedroom, all because I was the man slut at work. I had a girl who claimed to be a virgin talk dirty and let me fuck her, after she knew (I did not say it directly) I had been with women before her.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 01:41 PM
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To reach that goal, they will resort to manipulation, try to isolate you from your friend, put you in a state of mental weakness so that she can do what she wants with you. This way, she can still cheats and get away with cheating, because she fucked your brain up and you became a disgusting puppet who would take all of her shit. Although this sounds like it is being said with a lot of anger and hatred, there is an element of truth in this. And all this done by the woman is not a conscious proce…
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 01:39 PM
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Well, men get to learn things the harder way. Her bf will know about her one day. There is nothing you can do for him. And I agree 100% with you on the last paragraph. Every girl can be seduced to be fucked (single/ engaged/ committed/ married/ western/ Asian/ Indian). All it takes is a man with higher SMV, who can give her tingles (in female slang - someone who can sweep her off her feet).
/r/TheRedPill06/01/15 07:52 AM
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If a woman isn't pressuring you for anything, then she simply knows she can do without you. True words were never spoken. I can say this is 100% true based on my personal experience.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 06:08 PM
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Or learn to compromise and live with a cheating gf/ wife. I know someone who forgave his newly wed wife and lived with her for four years. But she cheated again and he is ready to divorce her now.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 06:06 PM
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Buddy, I enjoyed reading your post. It was like a warning to everyone who want to be the protector for a damsel in distress. I used to believe in women being the victims until I found this sub. Keep posting.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 04:32 AM
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I am sure I know this kind very well.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/15 07:34 PM
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Women kill pets for the same reason... they don't like competition. OMG, this is something really scary to know.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/15 07:30 PM
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Man, this is stupid shit to deal with. Something of this sort happened to me with a female co-worker on my team. She fucked up something in the code of a module and silently hid it. When I found it and questioned about it, instead of accepting the truth and giving me an honest answer, she gives vague answers. They do this to avoid responsibility for their faults and make it sound like you are a jerk for asking them.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/15 07:27 PM
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Have you ever heard of women ditching their friends after they get married or once they enter a relationship? Women crave for new things and people in life. If a guy can make her tickle, she will forget everyone in her life (be it friends/ parents/ boyfriend).
/r/TheRedPill03/01/15 02:11 AM
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Well, I am not sure about the authenticity of this biography, but I can assure you that you can never go to your wife/ gf for comfort when you lose. They despise weak men (either physically or emotionally). When I was going through a lot of trouble in my life and my gf was in another country, I asked her if she can take care of me for a month (she was planning to come to me). Her immediate question was "- "Will you take care of me if I come to you?". It is not a wonder that she dumped me immedia…
/r/TheRedPill02/01/15 01:07 PM
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What OP says brings up to my memory a few of my female colleagues. One of them used to deploy the manipulation techniques so frequently that I once called her out on it. She used to get me to say what she wants to say or do what she wants to do. She never did anything creative but used to talk to people around to get their ideas and duplicate them to the management as hers. I am sure she managed to stay employed only because of the manginas in the management. The only thing I regret is that I wa…
/r/TheRedPill01/01/15 03:22 PM
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Divorce in pathetic marriages is the path to happiness for everyone in the family (even kids). I have personally experienced the kind of psychological impact bad marriages (narcissist mothers and BP fathers) can have on the kids. It is a very bad decision to stay together for kids because it does no good to kids who witness the ugly fights, terrible name calling, accusations of infidelity and psychical abuse.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/15 09:42 AM
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I totally agree with this. Having kids is selfish if one thinks deeper into how the world is going to shape by the time they grow up and have to live on their own.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/15 09:35 AM
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Well done dude. Do not look back at her or you will be the one in tears.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/15 05:32 AM
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Excellent point. Women lose desire when they know they are not competing to win their man.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/14 06:23 AM
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I do know that my guns are responsible for many deaths around the world. But if they weren't my guns then they would be someone elses guns. I agree with this. A girl who cheats while in a relationship, would do it with someone if not you. Just make sure you do not develop oneits for her. Once a cheater always a cheater. Source: Personal Experience.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/14 01:15 PM
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Just imagine if he said the opposite? PR is everything when you're at the level this guy is. When you're a celebrity, you cease just being a person - you become a brand. True. That is what he is doing.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/14 06:34 AM
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Bro, this is exactly my story too. I was blue pill, I cried and begged her to come back. She immediately lost all her attraction and love for me. And coming to the communication part, women do not communicate/ ask for things like men do. They drop subtle hints and communicate covertly. They never take responsibility for their actions or think of keeping promises. So consider anything a woman says as something she feels at that moment. She might make a promise to be with you for ever, but that is…
/r/TheRedPill26/12/14 05:32 AM
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How we value women is not based on the quality of their personhood. It is in the pleasure they provide us. This should be in ingrained into the mind. Always look for how a woman can please you and not what she is. She can change her behavior/ personality in the blink of eye. She does not drive us to greatness, she is the comfort we enjoy when we accomplish our goals and attain greatness. This is exactly how women should be treated. You attain a great success on your own and come home to fuck the…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/14 12:58 PM
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My ex was exactly the kind of woman author refers to in the article. Always looking out for something amazing and fun. But my experience with her has helped me gain a lot of insight to the true nature of women. It was an opportunity for me to become something better.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/14 04:09 PM
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Truth is, you really do not know the character of someone until they are rudely tested by life. Cannot say anything better than this. True character of a person comes out only when there are difficult times. Notice how a person treats you when you have nothing to offer to that person.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/14 09:10 AM
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As someone already mentioned, these kind of women are way too much fun in the beginning. It is impossible for your friend to see the reality now, unless presented with good evidence. Just be there for him when the wreck happens and help him get on with life. People can only learn good for their mistakes.
/r/askTRP17/12/14 02:24 AM
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Is this what all girls are like? All the girls I have known.
/r/askTRP07/12/14 07:07 AM
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Don't hedge your bets based on any woman behaving in any particular way. Enjoy fucking your girl today, because no matter how alpha and attractive you are, she may change her mind tomorrow. These are the words every man should plant into his mind. Even without a slightest change in you, the girl can move on to another guy (if she finds the other guy more alpha).
/r/askTRP29/11/14 01:40 PM
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Very true. Girls carry a lot of baggage and have no idea how to handle it.
/r/askTRP29/11/14 01:38 PM
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Exactly. Respect and honor are for men.
/r/askTRP22/11/14 01:17 PM
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Most cheaters don't cheat just because they are curious. Exactly. Cheaters are addicted to the adventure and fun involved in affairs. If they feel life is monotonous (and get an opportunity), they will be back in the field for fun.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/14 12:52 PM
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its an epidemic lately dude. Never been into Indian chicks, but now I might start scouting them out, since they are clearly nasty as fuck and can keep a secret. Keeping it secret!!! Are you kidding me? Indian girls are the best at keeping sexual secrets. No one can doubt their virginity by the way they act. But take my word on this, Indian chicks are sluts too.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/14 12:38 PM
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Women do not feel remorse for actions. Women only feel remorse for having been caught. This is the universal truth every man should know. No matter what kind she is, a woman never feels remorse for the worst of things she does.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/14 08:44 AM
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Well said. It is the psyche of the cheater to satisfy his/ her thirst for adventure through cheating. A cheater when caught, may exhibit remorse and feel it for a few months/ years. But few years down the line, you can expect the person to be tempted to cheat again (if he/ she got away with cheating the first time with no big loss/ punishment).
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 09:43 AM
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Women talk. Telling one is like telling all of them. True. You tell something to your girlfriend and all her friends, family, neighbors and colleagues will know it.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 06:58 AM
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Every BP guy needs a friend like you. You provided for her in excahnge for companionship and sex... now that's off the table. This should be good enough for him. You pay for what you get, not for something someone else is going to get.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 12:36 PM
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Agree. Introverts are very good at hiding who they really are. They just observe you and say/ do things you like (until they decide to swing the branch).
/r/TheRedPill16/11/14 12:24 PM
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Firstly, if she'll cheat WITH you; she'll cheat ON you. Perfectly said. Not a relationship material.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/14 11:41 AM
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Trust your instincts. I knew something was wrong but I ignored my gut because of my scarcity mentality. This, my friend, is the mistake most of us make. We ignore all our screaming instincts about the woman and trust her blindly. If you have feeling that something about her is wrong, pay attention and find out if your instinct is correct. That will save you a lot of time and energy.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/14 04:03 AM
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A woman will look at you as boy, not a man, when you overly emote. Their nurturing instinct comes out. However, that same instinct dries up their pussy big time. Agree with this. The minute a man shows his emotions, he becomes useless to a woman. I did this mistake in an LTR of 2.5 years. I was the rock for 2.5 years and she was running after me. As soon as I started showing emotions to her, she dumped me for another guy who treated her like dirt.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 12:24 PM
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Oneitis. Had put my ex on pedestal and I was playing the nice guy to her. No matter how much I convince that AWALT, there are moments when I think of life with her. I am working on it.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/14 05:55 PM
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