LifeIC Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
14	She keeps checking me out but avoids when i try to approach Just be open. If she isn't open with you then she's not interested or unable to. So go talk to her. Looks from a distance or chatting with other females doesn't do it for females. They need mental stimulation through fun conversation.	/r/seduction	18/10/22 11:43 AM
1	As a good looking guy, I’ll never be able to trust a woman in a relationship What you are referring to is hormones. If you appear to be a great specimen to breed with then hormones cause others to want to get intimate with you. You need not worry about finding someone in your lifespan. Hormones only cause these issues in younger humans. It's unlikely you'll find women post menopause finding you of high quality unless you have a lot more going for you. Also, if you start sharing with women how many other women you've gotten intimate with then you'll be able to put a lot o…	/r/seduction	11/10/22 03:27 AM
2	Matched with her on hinge, got her number, but… Try not to think about it. People are unique and whatever the reasons are you'll learn about over time anyway. Keep in mind that meeting up with her is about learning about her. Overthink it and you'll just end up forming an image of her in your head that you haven't based on real facts and time yet. So who knows, who cares... just go with it. If you aren't getting what you want from it then keep on stepping.	/r/seduction	27/07/22 04:23 AM
4	How to find your flirting style? Flirting is being charming. Being attractive in the way you are. You can only ever be yourself but you can be attractive being yourself by being impressed with your own self: your thoughts, your words, your way of connecting with others. It's being happy with yourself that makes you the most attractive as your energy is highly noticeable & appealing. Then flirting is a part of your life naturally.	/r/seduction	25/07/22 04:37 AM
1	Should I just focus on improving or still cold approach? 80 is not 300. 300 is not 3 million. Life is abundant with people. Keep connecting with others and you'll come across the right people for you. Also, always focus on living your best life regardless of a relationship.	/r/seduction	20/07/22 12:58 AM
2	Etiquette for a man going to a bar alone? Go to pubs and sit at the bar. Chat with the other people around you and the bartender. Chat with people in line at the bathroom. Make eye contact and nod your head with people who you feel drawn to. Being alone gives you the freedom to connect without a group expecting your time.	/r/seduction	17/07/22 02:28 AM
1	I sent her too many messages, how do I recover? You don't need to apologize unless you want to. Be yourself. Also focus on other things though because texting in the realm of too much implies that you don't have other interests. Explore everything that life has to offer and you won't get too needy on any one connection.	/r/seduction	17/07/22 02:26 AM
1	Alright I need some advice. Let it all unfold in person. Keep yourself safe just in case kinky is something else entirely.	/r/seduction	17/07/22 02:24 AM
1	I don’t think I’m ready to date. How do I make friends? Don't go down the black hole of depression. It's a waste of a quality life. You make incredible money. You're just feeling a lack of fun and connection. So put your focus on creating it. Go out and see who is out there. Don't put too much pressure on life and let it unfold. It will if you increase your chances by going out and connecting with people.	/r/seduction	17/07/22 02:22 AM
3	If A Girl Constantly Stares, Does She Want You To Make The First Move? Staring is being curious about the other person. Also liking the view. If you want more than these staring moments then go talk to her.	/r/seduction	17/07/22 02:19 AM
3	I’m really struggling with the idea of committing to one person Keep in mind that people tend to pair up to be partners that help eachother in life. Help eachother to raise children, share expenses etc. If you don't need someone to help you with these things then you don't need to commit to one person unless you really want to. Don't stress. Just go with what is right for your life experience.	/r/seduction	17/07/22 02:16 AM
2	Is there a chance for us to hookup again? Why are you questioning it? Just go with the flow. Keep in contact. Message her if you want to and then let it naturally progress by her messaging back if she wants to.	/r/seduction	17/07/22 02:13 AM
1	Alright I need some advice. You don't have to tell anyone that you haven't had sex before. That's your business. If they are asking then you can be open about it. It's just an experience. Nothing to stress over.	/r/seduction	17/07/22 02:11 AM
4	She doesn’t text back that much why? Just call her. Be fun. Create attraction.	/r/seduction	15/07/22 05:14 AM
12	She doesn’t text back that much why? She's probably not understanding why you aren't calling her and resorting back to texting when she specifically said she prefers phone conversations. By texting her she probably isn't taking you seriously.	/r/seduction	15/07/22 05:00 AM
3	Do girls talk about other guys as a test? She either sees you as a friend and is just sharing her life experiences or she doesn't feel confident about your feelings so she is seeing if you would have any noticeable feeling about it.	/r/seduction	15/07/22 02:23 AM
4	I usually tell myself against this but I need some help. You want people you click with. Be yourself. The ones who lose interest would have eventually lost interest anyway. It's not sustainable to not be yourself. You can practice some self control in sharing but don't get too focused or stressed about it. And learn that rejection is fine. Be at peace with it. If they aren't into you then you should think that they're not that great.	/r/seduction	15/07/22 02:16 AM
1	Casual sex by use of dating apps? You ask straight up for sex and make your intentions clear. That's how you get a willing hookup without drama coming after. There are females open to it. Be real and they will too.	/r/seduction	15/07/22 02:11 AM
1	How to feel like I deserve and am worthy of the girls I get Your energy / person is attracting these girls regardless of guys with "better" other things. Don't overthink it. People just like who they like. It's not a competition.	/r/seduction	03/05/22 04:43 PM
3	Does cold approach ever stop feeling awkward? I agree with focusing on being in love with yourself first however you can be real when feeling nervous with the person, laugh a little and say I'm a little nervous around you because I really like what I see. You'll then start to feel more comfortable. The other person will as well and they'll feel happier that you complimented them. Then you move on to creating a fun dynamic. Don't be afraid of yourself but also don't be afraid of being real with others.	/r/seduction	07/03/22 06:02 PM
1	Would you still pursue? You need to stop overthinking. She doesn't sound interested based off of her not reading/replying to your last message. She could also need some time though to reply for whatever reason. So just be normal the next time you see her and focus on if a connection actually exists mutually. Getting to know someone is about figuring this out.	/r/seduction	28/02/22 02:48 AM
2	Rejected, hurt. What did I do wrong? Was she too attractive for me? If you were an outsider reading that you'd feel silly for worrying about it. She's no where near the woman you want. Start focusing and connect with the better options out there. If you get out more you'll find them.	/r/seduction	27/02/22 06:10 AM
2	[deleted by user] I disagree with the other comment. You need to act natural. Be yourself. Don't count the amount of texts you are sending. Also, are you calling? Most women want a man who can call. Texts are impersonal and weak. Did you call and ask her how she is feeling? What have you done to attract her?	/r/seduction	01/02/22 11:25 PM
2	How do I get women? What you need to do is focus on your own charm for your own life. Flirt with literally everyone in the sense that you have fun with them during each and every interaction. Do it for you though. You enjoying your moments. When you feel good then your best self shines. You then can easily interact with anyone since you only feel great (confident & abundant in mindset). When you are out use your eyes and connect with people. Smile. Say something charming. Think of your life like the best & most fun…	/r/seduction	21/01/22 11:48 PM
2	Do you know someone whose life is just an epic wild fun ride? I'd say having that stems from having an abundance of life connections. So never stop connecting with the other lives on this planet.	/r/seduction	21/01/22 11:42 PM
6	Why does she keep texting me after I got rejected? What did you reply to her when she said the drinks weren't here? Keep the fun going. Reply saying not to worry you'll make your own concoction together. If she's sending you messages that's the beginning of any connection. You lead it in the direction you want it to go in and if you two click then it will. You just need to put in more effort. Be charming. Be fun. Make her want it.	/r/seduction	16/01/22 03:36 AM
1	Is it absolutely necessary to be above average inorder to have a decent dating life? It's all about confidence and charm. I'm a female. If a guy is average looking but makes me tingle from our flirty interactions together then for sure I'm digging him.	/r/seduction	15/12/21 04:08 PM