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The real blackpill is that 100% of people are evil and full of shit and nothing in this world is real. And the blackest part of the pill is that 100% of people are just automatons going along with it cause there's nothing else to do. Women are evil, just as men are evil. When you learn that you stop even desiring women, you stop desiring sex, because that's what life is: pure evil. Repent. That's why Christ said that only virgins would get to heaven. He saved you from these monsters.
/r/AllPillDebate17/10/23 03:21 PM
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Nah, I'm as Chad as they come and even my girl doesn't respect me, there's edge around everything she says and does. Seen it with my Chadlite friends too.
/r/AllPillDebate17/10/23 03:03 PM
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If a woman isn't wet during sex there's a much higher chance of her getting a sex related injury. In normie male-desperation land, anything vaguely negative is considered fan fiction. Y'all are delusional.
/r/AllPillDebate17/10/23 02:23 AM
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The moneypill. I took that one this week. I think a lot of Chads and incels forget that the average guy really needs to have money to get laid. Concerned and confused as to where the emotional disconnect in our relationship was coming from, I asked her about her prior dating experiences to see if I simply wasn’t her type. She said in the past she tended to date men who were older and more financially stable than I was. I asked her why it never worked with those men and she explained there were a…
/r/AllPillDebate17/10/23 01:45 AM
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Ya she will do all the work.
/r/AllPillDebate16/10/23 03:32 PM
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There are tons of eye opening subreddits. /r/deadbedrooms /r/escortclientsonly /r/arethestraightsokay all of them shed light on a problem. There's actually so much reading material, you could fill novels with it. Gay men are particularly astute, they seem to love dabbing on these issues.
/r/AllPillDebate16/10/23 02:53 PM
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Whatever pill you want to call the 95:5 rule, it's going to become mainstream soon. I wonder what's gonna happen with that. The reason we've seen so much of this dialogue creep into the mainstream is because it's just reality. In the most literal sense of the word.
/r/AllPillDebate16/10/23 02:42 PM
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Feminism ironically was defeated by the incel movement because incels pointed out that women are just not all that attracted to men. But will make exceptions. I wonder what's gonna come after that. It's really only a matter of time before the fact that women are only attracted to like 5% of men becomes commonly acknowledged. It's going to weigh so heavily on how we perceive ourselfs as a species that I can't even imagine the repercussions.
/r/AllPillDebate16/10/23 02:40 PM
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Whatever it is, it needs to be addressed. Even the CIA admitted that incels are bad in general to have around. But then again, they're probably part of the problem. Military schools are now admitting that 66% of women are fucking 5% of the men. https://press.armywarcollege.edu/parameters/vol53/iss3/1/ I feel like the clock is rapidly ticking on this.
/r/AllPillDebate16/10/23 02:19 PM
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Collectively I think there needs to be a discussion had about the problem, but until that happens (it won't) I don't think anything will change. I remember a bunch of boomers were like "to fix the incel problem, young men need better paying jobs." Which technically may be true, but it doesn't REALLY fix the problem since that cat is long out of the bag. You either bring about genetic engineering (nobody would want this), sexbots (nobody would tolerate this), or UBI where everyone is rich (nobody…
/r/AllPillDebate16/10/23 02:15 PM
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There's 2 stages to the problem: 1) Women aren't attracted to most men, and even among those men, genuinely sexually attracted is incredibly rare. 2) Society refuses to address this and just has men buying their way out (often to no real avail, since their partners resent them). The only real solution is to tackle it from a biological / scientific standpoint.
/r/AllPillDebate16/10/23 02:11 PM
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Horrible.
/r/AllPillDebate16/10/23 01:11 PM
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Yeah I actually have a bit of resentment towards women because of how they didn't want "me" or at least what my soul was. So now when women check me out (which is daily) I actually get annoyed and roll my eyes at them. The reason? Cause I can get away with it and honestly I think it's inappropriate.
/r/AllPillDebate16/10/23 12:46 PM
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Friendships are disrupted by this dynamic.
/r/AllPillDebate16/10/23 12:39 PM
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One thing is even if you're Chad, if you display emotional weakness it's basically a wrap for you. Which has been my case. I died inside 15 or so years ago, due to being cheated with, and on, as you said. I don't know how to put this: being completely emotionally devoid and cold blooded seemingly has made me even more appealing to women. After I did that was when I started to get stalked in public and other insane things. Worst part about being emotionally devoid is that you fundamentally cannot…
/r/AllPillDebate16/10/23 12:33 PM
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It's just sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 12:31 PM
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Yeah. I can confirm. I'm not even that big of a Chad, only 6'0", biracial, very thin, but the cheating is still out of control and I mean totally out of control. It's literally almost completely insane to me how men can not notice this happening or be caught off guard because it's so obvious. I guess because I'm less of a "Chad" I have a bit of a sore spot about this cause I feel like I could just as easily have missed the mark by a couple inches here or there. If it's happening to me I cannot i…
/r/AllPillDebate16/10/23 12:27 PM
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I was raised devout Baptist Christian, that's why. And my mother was vicious to my father so I have sort of a negative bias against that. I wanted badly to be close to God my entire life and some of the things I've witnessed has been the leading reason why I feel detached from God. And that to me has been my greatest heartbreak.
/r/AllPillDebate16/10/23 12:22 PM
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Got bad news, it ain't even in clubs. I've been followed around in public before. Shit like getting on the subway, and having some girl try to get as close to me as possible, like trying to nestle up next to me, I swear to God this happened. Being just stared at in public minding ones own business, and it's like a long, piercing stare with a creepy smile, like you would imagine George Costanza, but it's a woman, and I'm literally with my girl. For a while I thought I was giving off pheremones or…
/r/AllPillDebate16/10/23 12:21 PM
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It's not that simple. When your friends girlfriends' wait till they go to the bathroom and then ask you to fuck them, it's... not as fun as you think. You wind up being depressed as fuck, especially if you genuinely care for and love your male friends. There's also the fact that your fairweather male friends will dog you out when they find out that you're the guy women want. I have immense mental problems and stress from guilt from seeing some of my childhood friends struggle with women. I'm not…
/r/AllPillDebate16/10/23 12:17 PM
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Yea, my roommate was lined up to make 140k + a year straight out of college. Got engaged to a girl that I never even met before. Never met her once for reference so apparently she must have seen me around. Rumor went around that she was not sleeping with him about a year before marriage. I would log into my social once in a while and for a year straight I saw that it was only her looking at my shit. I was making 0 dollars a year at that point. Among other insane shit that I've done. He was my be…
/r/AllPillDebate16/10/23 12:04 PM
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Not quite, Christ was just very clear about human nature. He hung out with reformed prostitutes, said that taxmen and prostitutes would go to heaven before members of the clergy would, said that human beings were of their father the devil, and was basically such a good and reasonable person that people deified him. Among other things, he said that it was better to not be born, which can be interpreted as saying straight up that human beings and their sexual dynamics are corrupt to the core.
/r/AllPillDebate16/10/23 11:57 AM
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That's cause dudes in my position ultimately wind up coming to the same conclusions. There's only so many married women / pregnant women / women with strollers giving you the eyes when you're just staring off into space when you're like, fuck this. Talk to ANY extremely handsome man and you'll hear exactly the same shit. Excuse my language. A lot of this was on the reasons I left the faith. Even though I pray every night for clarity.
/r/AllPillDebate16/10/23 11:54 AM
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I've been the handsome guy before, believe me it's not only shocking it's actually like, it just removes all trust you have for people and you start not being able to take anything seriously. A long time ago I started just rolling my eyes at women who check me out cause I know for a fact they don't do that to them they're with. Also doesn't help that I was raised Christian and to an extent, still am. So it just disturbs me immensely to the core.
/r/AllPillDebate16/10/23 11:47 AM
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Yeah I realized pretty early on that the guys who were getting play in college were conveniently the guys with the most promising careers or they came from money. Given where I went to college, it was usually the latter LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 10:59 AM
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Don't worry, they'll get revenge when they earn a lot of money, LOL!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 10:34 AM
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AI will never be popular because the main reason it's used for: lulz and porn, are offensive to the zeitgeist.
/r/AllPillDebate16/10/23 09:47 AM
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How's your money gonna be spent if you don't get a girlfriend though?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 09:24 AM
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Just be handsome, or rich, don't be neither. All of these problems just disappear if you fit either qualification.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 08:33 AM
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I think this is partially related to women figuring out they don't even need to sleep with men to get money. They can just open OnlyFans or, even worse than that, do FinDom.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 08:20 AM
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It's just hypergamy. Women don't actually like like men all that much unless you're super beautiful as a male. So they just marry guys who have good careers lined up or at least money to provide. Love need not necessarily apply.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 08:11 AM
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I'm not sub 5, but as you can see by my username I think most of social norms are pretty dumb. Not sure how I wound up here. I am traumatized by a lot of the stuff I've seen, like cheating, etc. A large part of the world is just utter BS, one of them is how people form relationships.
/r/AllPillDebate16/10/23 07:57 AM
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This is like every couple though. Look at /r/deadbedrooms. The reason why these types of articles are rare isn't because the situation is rare, it's because posting this kind of story is extremely taboo because it's basically the reality of how people form relationships.
/r/AllPillDebate16/10/23 07:53 AM
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He probably in therapy already, that's why he's like this
/r/AllPillDebate16/10/23 07:34 AM
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He's just an average dude. Mass of men lead lives of quiet desperation, as the saying goes.
/r/AllPillDebate16/10/23 07:24 AM
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When confronted with negative thoughts, average / middle of the road men don't have many options but to combat them actively. The fear is that he will lose whatever flimsy grasp he has on social inclusion, and the fast track to doing that is by becoming "negative" (which in many cases, is just a simple acknowledgement of reality).
/r/AllPillDebate16/10/23 07:12 AM
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Also I just saw the /r/short post. So just to be perfectly honest, I'm guessing you're a short male who has this over the top optimistic personality just to create a psychological blockage over the somewhat self-awareness you have about being short.
/r/AllPillDebate16/10/23 07:02 AM
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Hmm... just looking at it you come off as just milquetoast mid person with mid range dating experiences, just unremarkable in any way, but it seems you like to fight guys on here cause it makes you feel like you have some kind of moral high ground. Or just, high anything.
/r/AllPillDebate16/10/23 07:01 AM
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Nah it's something else. When I get a chance I'll go through your post history and find what your real deal is.
/r/AllPillDebate16/10/23 06:55 AM
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I don't think so, I think you've got some other kind of psychological issue going on here.
/r/AllPillDebate16/10/23 06:53 AM
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Again that makes no sense. You're claiming to not believe things I say, and I'm claiming to not believe things you say. You have some weird ulterior motive for being here.
/r/AllPillDebate16/10/23 06:51 AM
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You claim to be friends with ex-NFL players and guys who make "Chads" we know look like dorks. This is somehow more believable to us, than simply saying girls will tell you when they wanna smash?
/r/AllPillDebate16/10/23 06:45 AM
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That makes no sense. You have some kind of weird ulterior motive for being this adamantly opposed to people saying this kind of shit happens.
/r/AllPillDebate16/10/23 06:43 AM
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How is a woman saying she wants to just go home and fuck a man, fake?
/r/AllPillDebate16/10/23 06:37 AM
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Even when they're not drunk...............
/r/AllPillDebate16/10/23 06:32 AM
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Women do become very aggressive to men though, do you want to hear stories? I basically write all the time how girls will just say VERBATIM to some guys: "take me home and fuck me." And then I get called a liar.
/r/AllPillDebate16/10/23 06:32 AM
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First time a girl ever called me "hot" was when I was 12. She went through three of my friends to find me. She literally tracked down my AOL instant messenger.
/r/AllPillDebate16/10/23 06:18 AM
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Bruh, this guy's mad that he has to pay for it or something "Not tonight, honey!"
/r/AllPillDebate16/10/23 04:40 AM
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I couldn't think of nothing more degrading than just being used for my body then being ignored and left wondering why you wasn't enough. Women actually do this as much as or more than men do it to women. I've been with women who just wanted to get laid, that's all.
/r/AllPillDebate16/10/23 02:45 AM
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Well, if she wanted to fuck men, she would. That's what's funny about bluepillers, they sit around championing this shit and don't realize that women basically tell attractive men that they wanna bang.
/r/AllPillDebate16/10/23 02:43 AM
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It's happening more naturally. Boys pick up fairly early that girls don't want them.
/r/AllPillDebate16/10/23 02:42 AM
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Because sometimes it takes a while to realize someone is abusive and by then the woman has already invested too much time.
/r/AllPillDebate16/10/23 02:30 AM
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"I didn't like him (at all) at first, but as we hung out i fell in love with him" No, they have a tendency to lie a lot, but it's not malicious, a lot of women are basically balancing trying to survive with forming relationships. Most women wind up with men they're not physically attracted to, and only stay for the money.
/r/AllPillDebate16/10/23 02:29 AM
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The only men who win in life are the men who get a woman's love, sexual affection for free. It's the ultimate form of wealth, because the richest men on the planet don't even get this. This is the one constant of human nature; you're either beautiful to women enough to have them desire you, or you're not.
/r/AllPillDebate16/10/23 02:22 AM
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This was literally me in college. WTF.
/r/AllPillDebate16/10/23 02:18 AM
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This has been going on a while. When I was in college I was one of three males in my art history classes, out of basically 100s upon 100s of students. I didn't really realize why until I came across these forums and realized that I was popular with women, so A) I wound up doing useless education, and B) wasn't intimidated by hanging out only with women. Guys are dropping out of the race very early because if I had to extrapolate, women tell men they're undesirable at age 12 or so.
/r/AllPillDebate16/10/23 02:17 AM
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Actually, there are plenty of subs where you can see "what no pussy does to an mfer", a lot of them are normal subs. Coomer subs, gooncave subs, fetish subs, guys jerking off to Baldur's Gate characters, etc. I don't know why people think the average guy gets laid all that much.
/r/AllPillDebate15/10/23 03:14 PM
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I know guys who were highly educated, handsome, came from fuck you old Connecticut money, and generally could only get golddiggers into them. At the end of the day, they accepted it and married regardless. Is that so different from escortmaxxing? End of the day, the only real love is one where money isn't exchanged.
/r/AllPillDebate15/10/23 02:58 PM
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A) It's normal for women to prefer their own, and abnormal to discriminate against their own B) In Asian culture women actually will purchase gifts and pay for men, and there's an inverse "wooing" culture. C) now that I think about it I doubt I'm Chad at all, but given how I've had western women give me gifts to get my attention, it might just be because I'm Asian
/r/AllPillDebate15/10/23 02:14 PM
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Sounds like you set yourself up. Most Asian girls date their own. You said yourself she was after your money and a nutcase. My current girl is Asian and doesn't like non Asians. 0 chance of her cheating.
/r/AllPillDebate15/10/23 02:00 PM
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Yeah, nothing can go wrong dating a woman who categorically dates only a specific race outside of her own. Nothing at all LMAO.
/r/AllPillDebate15/10/23 01:50 PM
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Yea, I know couples like this. Their kids are fucked up.
/r/AllPillDebate15/10/23 01:43 PM
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I'm half Asian and I've heard the Asian guy thing. It never bothered you that your woman was racist? What would you tell your offspring? Why the fuck would you entertain a woman like that unless you were desperate? Although I'm sure her opinions weren't at all colored by the fact that a 25 year old woman is considered old in Korea.
/r/AllPillDebate15/10/23 01:39 PM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:47 AM
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Also just for reference point I'm guessing you think women don't approach men and ask them out?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:33 AM
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Okay man, you're free to believe whatever you want. You're not being harassed in China for being Asian. You seem pretty worked up. I said this happened BEFORE I moved. Christ, you're like a grandmother.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:23 AM
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Larping about what? You still haven't been clear. You seem to be upset about the fact that I stated that women will follow dudes around in public if they like them... not sure how to prove this to you since obviously it's out of your frame of reference.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 07:49 AM
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Why are you nagging me like an old woman. Stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 07:31 AM
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I'm just reading through the lines here and I think you're most upset that I said that women are very sexually aggressive towards certain men. Trust me, I'm fully aware why this would piss you off especially given ethnicity.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 06:57 AM
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Because they have too many options to bother with following some random dope around, even if he's quite handsome. Well, it happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 06:24 AM
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Yeah, I'm Asian and me and my Asian male friends have had hideous women just randomly blurt out loud random shit like how they don't find us attractive. Meanwhile, my ex was literally a Miss State winner? Also, women in general are really kind to me, except when it's a very mid or unattractive woman, suddenly they start trying to bash me for no reason. A lot of unattractive WoC do this for some reason. Same goes for men, I basically have no friends cause the harassment is basically just constant…
/r/AllPillDebate15/10/23 06:08 AM
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Okay, but I asked you for specifics. Do you not believe that women will follow men around if they find them attractive? For example cause that's the one I most recently wrote about. Would you like to hear other examples? Do you not believe this happens? If you don't, why would you not believe it?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 06:06 AM
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Yeah, also a controversial opinion is that harboring so much of the anger and hate that a lot of women have, actually makes them sick and age much worse. So femcels start off bitter and wind up getting more and more femcelly as they get older, at a much more rapid pace. The most beautiful, kind woman I know is approaching 50 and she still looks amazing. She never has a single bad word for anyone. Meanwhile I have friends my age (roughly 37) who are basically the above kind of woman, racist, rude…
/r/AllPillDebate15/10/23 05:50 AM
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I believe so. You'd be shocked at the sheer amount of hate very pretty women get. And it's usually from girls on the layer of the spectrum like the girl in the video.
/r/AllPillDebate15/10/23 05:34 AM
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Which stands out as a lie to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 05:33 AM
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Keep following then, would love to drop some more knowledge on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 05:06 AM
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I think it's bizarre that you're chasing me around Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 04:27 AM
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Whatever you say, Elliot.
/r/AllPillDebate15/10/23 03:50 AM
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You being serious, or?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 03:44 AM
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Ah yes, another "Asian" who claims all Asians are incel, all Asians have bad personalities, and all Asians support the CCP (well, a lot of us do). Get a life.
/r/AllPillDebate15/10/23 03:39 AM
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I'm guessing it's one corollary that may lead to a determinate of wealth. It's like, for example, a 6'7" guy who doesn't play ball, versus one who is really invested in playing ball. The guy who is invested will have an easier time because he is obviously gearing himself up for a high powered career. Height itself is not a pure indicator of wealth, but is one of a number of factors that could signal it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 03:37 AM
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This is what I mean by femcels being a real thing. Sure, she could probably get laid, but she's so full of hate at random children she's basically on par with a male incel. This is actually pretty common, there's a lot of just purely miserable people out there. I'm Asian and have met women that are above and beyond kind and accommodating to me. Guess what they all have in common? They're all way, way, way above average in the looks department. Same with my male "friends," based on how unattracti…
/r/AllPillDebate15/10/23 03:13 AM
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I have black friends and a lot prefer black women, if not most. It's just that black women are rejecting them.
/r/AllPillDebate15/10/23 02:51 AM
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Racial bullying that included extreme violent physical abuse. That's it. Also childhood trauma. Another aspect is being used and dumped by women. But 95% of it is bullying. Let's just say in the real world it's basically open season on Asian looking males, in terms of what you're allowed to say to our faces.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 02:47 AM
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Not an incel but /r/deadbedrooms is the most eye opening forum on Reddit, and I'm surprised it's not banned.
/r/AllPillDebate14/10/23 04:36 PM
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It doesn't seem right to me, just my gut feeling. I'm thinking back to the rare times that some girl went out of her way to say something cruel to me. I'm very attractive for reference, but there's been a habit of less attractive women being rude to me for no reason. It hurt cause I don't like being mean to people so couldn't understand why they were being mean to me. For a while I considered the idea that they were trying to "reject me" before I could "reject them." Then they went on and just g…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 11:39 AM
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they thought they were too ugly for you! Sure, that's what it was. Even my own mom did that after she got a divorce, thinking back. Yup. That's EXACTLY why she started going to the gym after her divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 11:33 AM
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Because they don't care about getting an attractive wife. SBF hired models for his videos before his arrest. Basically women in the top 1% of looks. You can see them in his old videos. Now you're just being facetious. I'm being told, by you, that SBF or Zuckerberg could have a top 1% woman sexually desiring him cause of his net worth, but they don't want it. This is ridiculous.
/r/AllPillDebate14/10/23 11:23 AM
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The uh... not sure how to say this but I am extremely on the high end of looks. Not sure how to really vocalize that other than I've never asked a woman out in my life despite having been out with dozens. I've had random women stop and stare at me in public and follow me around a couple blocks, things like that. I was / sort am a devout Christian so it's even weirder. The one thing that sort of bothers me about it is that I'm fully aware of the effect I have on women. I'm sort of aware that when…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 11:23 AM
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Women will approach attractive men for sex though. But this leaves out a lot of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 11:21 AM
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Most men are unattractive to women though. I know tall guys who got dead bedroomed by their wives too. The tall thing also neatly lines up with these guys coming from moneyed backgrounds too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 09:55 AM
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A lot of women wind up marrying men they don't really have physical attraction for, simply because these guys come from money. The signs are even there before marriage. I knew couples that just wouldn't even have sex more than once every few months, and these girls went after them because these guys all conveniently came from money or were in promising majors. So I don't know why men are surprised by this. You go into it buying women, thinking that physical attraction isn't a real thing to them …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 09:12 AM
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He COULD get an attractive wife. But he couldn't get an attractive wife who would have any sexual desire for him. He'd be in a dead bedroom. Look at Sam Bankman Fried, those guys were floating in billions and between all 12 or them or so, they were with that one girl.... who was not good looking even if you stretched the definition by a long shot. You really think money buys actual physical attraction?
/r/AllPillDebate14/10/23 08:56 AM
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It's not manosphere men who say that, it's society at large. What on earth are you talking about? The idea that women care about looks is still not mainstream at all and never will be. And marriages will still be initiated with the purchase of a diamond ring. C'mon.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 08:44 AM
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I think you act like most guys have a choice. And please, this reads like a troll, but you of all people should know plenty of young women marry young men they have no intention of sleeping with. They play the sex game at first to rope him in, then cut off the sex even before the wedding date. Seen it 100 times. Reality is, as a "hot" guy who has been on the "alpha fucks" end of things, 99% of guys don't care or have no idea, they just want a girl, they want to throw money at her and provide for…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 08:39 AM
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This doesnt even make sense. Yeah, that's what I thought too until I saw it first hand. My ex girlfriend approached me on the first day of college. I thought she was crazy or messing with me cause she was hands down the hottest girl at uni by a wide margin, known as the absolute hottest there. After we broke up (which was my fault due to low self esteem) she wound up with abusive "Chad" football player types. 15 years later I looked her up and she's back with Asian and half-Asian guys. Contrary …
/r/AllPillDebate14/10/23 08:00 AM
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Seems like high-status people for the most part date their own race. I don't think high status people I don't know, I could be an exception because I'm East Asian. A lot of my girlfriends asked me out and they were way way way out of my league and higher status. (with the exception of sports athletes and celebrities) really want to date the most attractive people, Mark Zuckerberg could get a gigastacy but he has a relatively unattractive wife. No... Zuckerberg could not get an attractive wife if…
/r/AllPillDebate14/10/23 07:58 AM
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Yeah actually from personal experience, less attractive white women are less likely to do it cause they need more social standing. More beautiful white women don't care cause everyone hates on them already so they're more likely to date for attraction. Look up every female model for the new Resident Evil reboots, basically all of them are with non-white guys.
/r/AllPillDebate14/10/23 05:00 AM
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Actually this is the reason most women are pro-LGBT, but behind closed doors don't actually like it.
/r/AllPillDebate14/10/23 03:59 AM
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Most bluepillers aren't having sex, though. It's more, wanting sex = bad person. I wouldn't be surprised if /r/deadbedrooms got banned because of how eye opening it is.
/r/AllPillDebate14/10/23 03:50 AM
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Dual mating strategy is accepting among psychologists and if it's not now, I doubt they'll be able to keep it under wraps for much longer, because truth is truth and always comes out. Women only find a small number of men sexually attractive, but will form relationships with men for resources, the rest of the time.
/r/AllPillDebate14/10/23 03:47 AM
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I have friends who have girls who got married and were still sending them messages like "I love you." I've had girls I wasn't even into, get engaged, cut off sex (rumors got around quick), and then stalk my socials.
/r/AllPillDebate14/10/23 03:40 AM
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Her face lit up like in a way i'd never seen before and she was absolutely star struck Yeah, I'm not even Chad, but you should see how women react when they're attracted to you, and not their partner. I've lost count how many times women tried to cheat on their partners or at least implied it heavily. It's actually extremely depressing. It's crazy what attraction will do, and when you're attractive you sort of think it's normal, but it's almost surreal and sort of depressing when you realize you…
/r/AllPillDebate14/10/23 03:33 AM
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I don't know. I don't know what's going on.
/r/AllPillDebate14/10/23 03:16 AM
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Honestly it's up in the air. I'm half towards they don't like it, versus half towards they only like it with certain men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 03:14 AM
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They cheated with me, though. Most of the time I wasn't even aware that they had a boyfriend. In my case, I'm a good looking guy and a very nice person too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 11:23 AM
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Because I want to post cause I'm bored and I feel like it?
/r/AllPillDebate13/10/23 08:16 AM
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This forum as well as most normal forums are overrun with casual racism. I'm just trying to make a point.
/r/AllPillDebate13/10/23 07:43 AM
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6 feet tall, 5.5" inches
/r/AllPillDebate13/10/23 06:49 AM
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I'm a "beautiful" male and among 100s of experiences, I've had woman sitting across from her husband, basically stare at me for an hour while his back was towards me. I'm not an incel but even I want to really just call people out for denying this is a thing. If I keep getting pushed in this direction I'll just start posting about the dozens of times women in relationships tried to get at me.
/r/AllPillDebate13/10/23 06:43 AM
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You act like this is easy but I know tall white guys with girls way more overweight than her.
/r/AllPillDebate13/10/23 06:28 AM
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What do you look like? They're right, just leave.
/r/AllPillDebate13/10/23 06:25 AM
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I don't think you understand. The reason why society doesn't empathize with you incels is because it doesn't empathize with men at all. The mass of men lead lives of quiet desperation, so they view men suffering as a "fuck you, stop playing the game" so that it increases other men's chances at getting laid. MOST men are incel, even normal blue pilled ones, it's just the nature of our species. The average man on Reddit looks at an incel, being an incel himself, and says "good, more men are like m…
/r/AllPillDebate13/10/23 06:10 AM
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Not sure if that's true. I actually like older women for some reason, like the way they look. But I can't speak for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 05:57 AM
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This subject isn't really the only thing that society turns a blind eye to. In general society just turns a blind eye to all kinds of horrible shit on the daily. That's just what it is. If they're lying about how men and women interact, they're basically lying about everything else. I'm far, far from incel, but I agree that most people are indeed shit. One of the reasons most people are shit, is actually because the average person is simultaneously pretty ugly, and pretty stupid, and so they jus…
/r/AllPillDebate13/10/23 05:49 AM
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I'm not sure if I'm a Chad, I definitely think looking Asian has more to do with it, since my full Asian friends have similar experiences. As someone here said yesterday, Chad doesn't get bullied. I have been bullied and probably still do. But when I talk about my experiences generally other Asian guys can confirm. I probably vastly overrated myself, but my experiences are true.
/r/AllPillDebate13/10/23 05:47 AM
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I just found out about Trevor Bauer. If he has difficulty with women (that's to put it lightly), I don't think most men are doing well.
/r/AllPillDebate13/10/23 05:28 AM
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interested in fucking you, but rather dating. I have a very good American born Chinese friend who moved abroad. He had girls telling him straight up that they wanted to have sex with him and were buying him gifts. As an Asian American myself I've had similar experiences in the west, where girls would take me out for "dates," ply me with alcohol, then take me home. The idea of "dating" is comical to me. The idea that you have to give money to women to woo them is comical. if you don't have women …
/r/AllPillDebate13/10/23 05:26 AM
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Always remember boys, if a woman loves you, you become the fairy tale princess that the prince pines over and writes letters for. Mary Kay Letourneau had a literal diary filled with love letters for her husband that she wrote in every day lol. And here we are believing as a culture that women need to be bought and seduced.
/r/AllPillDebate13/10/23 03:37 AM
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Jeez.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 03:12 PM
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Maybe he just can't do better. I noticed with my wealthy good looking friends the kinds of girls they could get just weren't that great. Was eye opening to say the least.
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 02:50 PM
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Nah I doubt it. I've seen what you're talking about more times than I can count. Guys with totally disrespectful women. I dunno maybe these guys are cucks or something. Maybe they just don't feel they can do better. Could be anything. Like she's a white woman, I've heard rumors about white guys just making infinite excuses for white women, but I'm not sure how that works cause I'm not white and don't like white women. Like maybe the fact that she's white makes him overlook shit. I don't know.
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 02:36 PM
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Is she white too? Maybe he's on the DL?
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 02:24 PM
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The quality of women you can get when you're broke and a nobody basically is the most accurate scale.
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 02:09 PM
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It's crazy you mention that cause I have a very wealthy white friend who is handsome who was pining over this girl who got turned out in college. And he said he didn't care. I never realized it could be a guilt thing?
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 01:59 PM
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Yeah, or online dating stats. Funny because women will approach IRL and OLD isn't even necessary, yet people just use it as proof of... whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 01:52 PM
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I'm a far, far, far above average male and to be honest, I admire a lot of average guys cause they go through the motions. I sort of just lost all trust in people at a young age and can't really take anything seriously, and it's not a great feeling.
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 01:39 PM
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Yeah, no joke, this is not even to humble brag, but I don't like this subject or even talking about it, but women don't care at all about that. I've had girls try to literally just nestle up to me on the subway. It's... actually disturbing since I'm INTP and heavily withdrawn from the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 01:35 PM
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I'm not incel but when I was younger it became so common for some girl with a boyfriend to hit on me, and then all my other friends would notice and become really catty towards me, to the point that it permanently kind of screwed up all trust I ever had for other people, so now it's basically impossible for me to socialize. A lot of my problem is that I can't take people seriously. I'm not even that big of a Chad but am big enough of one to sort of light up a room just by being there, and it's n…
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 01:25 PM
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I talk about it cause it's the only real leverage I have to make the argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 01:18 PM
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she later told me that she'd always thought I was cute but never had the guts to approach me until we matched on Tinder and started talking. I read this far. When I was about his age, I met my girlfriend who was a very beautiful extremely high status leader in her community. I randomly went to event cause I was bored and she just sat down next to me when it was over and asked me out. To make that story worse I found out like three months later she was cheating on her boyfriend who was this huge …
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 01:17 PM
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The whole thing is fucked. One interesting theory I have is that people being delusional about sexual dynamics correlates to them being delusional about everything else. Like, if we lie about something as basic as our reproductive strategies, then we're probably lying about everything else. Like, if you lie about the reason you marry someone (which I've seen so many times).... The whole house of cards comes down when you pick that one out. It's not good.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 01:15 PM
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Actually this is an interesting phenomenon and yeah, I'll give you guys this one, it is racial. Once I was sitting down with my three white friends and my Asian friend, and one of my white friend's wife who happened to be obese and very unattractive. For some reason she starts going "I'd date you, you, you," pointing at the white guys, then said "but not you" to me and my Asian friend (we're both Asian). It was meant to hurt and I dunno why she would say something like that. But basically I unde…
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 01:11 PM
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Yup. I've seen it all. It's literal insanity. But it's not actually crazier than the idiot mass of men who pretend this isn't happening. (Which is like 90% of guys). That's what drives me crazy the most. From what I've seen, I've become so jaded that I'm amazed the world even functions. The most depressing shit isn't that I have no one to talk to about this, it's that people are so delusional that they think this world is a just and fair place.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 01:00 PM
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I had an inkling you were a virgin and I just randomly went through your profile and it looks like you're a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 12:47 PM
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This isn't some conspiracy, people just develop their self image based on how others perceive them. The average woman has boatloads of men gassing her up. The average man has none. At this point I wouldn't even blame sociology, it's more like biology. In the animal kingdom only the prettiest males get laid, generally.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 12:42 PM
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I'm a little biased because apparently I'm on the far echelon of looks on a man, and the amount of cheating I've seen flung in my direction has more or less shattered any illusions I have about this world. But I'd be an absolute idiot to not think that my looks play a part in why women treat me like this, and even more of an idiot to think that most men understand what it's like. Being in this state is incredibly alienating cause it's just not the lived experiences of ANYONE I talk to.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 12:36 PM
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The uh... yeah. Basically yeah. Shit was eye opening to say the least. These were good looking, wealthy cats too.
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 12:04 PM
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Due to male sexual desperation, basically women are held to a different standard, because men at large will always defend women in hopes of increasing their chances at sex. It's always been like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 10:44 AM
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It's a pretty profound topic, I always wondered why nobody really talks about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 10:32 AM
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Well, it is a thing. The "dating" world is ruthless.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 10:04 AM
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I'm old but this was the case 20 years ago. Not just looks, but more so overall physical attraction (there's a lot that goes into this). All you have to do is spend time with women to hear them talk to know that physical attraction matters to them. The guys who claim that looks don't matter have convinced themselves that their money makes up for it.... no man wants to admit the reality, like, for example, his own wife won't bang him. It's just a taboo subject. They're just trying to save face. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 08:56 AM
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These naysayers really come off as insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 08:36 AM
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LOL pornographic delusions, this literally happened to me, no wonder this world is fucked... bad things never happen in your world
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 08:23 AM
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I'm friends with guys who are for the most part "slayers" on paper. One guy is 6'3" has millions in the bank from inheritance, white guy, and the best he could get was random hookups with mid tier women. Wife ballooned up after marriage. Another guy comes from insane amounts of Connecticut money, and he once had a girl string him along for a year without sex, just making out all the time, and she was clearly into it for his money. I noticed that both of these guys while having everything seemed …
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 06:51 AM
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The whole thing is weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 06:39 AM
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I don't really think these terms mean much, in my experience it more aligns with how the animal kingdom works; women don't like or are sexually attracted to most males, except the most beautiful males.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 05:24 AM
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What I think you’re trying to say is, most women aren’t sexually attracted that often until they’ve got to know a person? No. This is hard to explain. There's no "allosexual," no "demisexual," etc. I've never heard these terms. All I can venture is that I'm very beautiful compared to the average male. In my experience I've had girls tell me that they had no feelings for their partners but just immediately were straight forward about their sexual feelings for me. Has nothing to do with "knowing" …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 05:20 AM
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The real reason men don't really do shit about how vicious some women can be is because 90% of men including blue pilled men are incels by default, and social status is all they have. I say that as a guy who lost my virginity at 12, a lot of women are just vitriolic for no reason. But so are men. People are nasty.
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 05:18 AM
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Because peoples' brains are hardwired to accept suffering while simultaneously fabricate feelgood bullshit just to keep going. If our brains weren't capable of incredible warpage of reality, the human species would go extinct.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 05:16 AM
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That's what I meant. They're "asexual" towards 90% of men until they meet a man that they're "sexually" attracted to. I've seen this 10000x in the real world, but most men don't get this because they never see it. Also I mean, getting away with running circles around men and never taking accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 05:08 AM
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She's not a "gold star" asexual. The LGBT community has a controversial term called "gold star" meaning anyone who identifies as LGBT but never had sex with a member of the opposite sex. This is to weed out people who do it because of trauma or failure with the opposite sex. If you don't believe me, look it up, it has a Wikipedia entry. And it's controversial for a reason, because of what it implies.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 05:06 AM
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I think a lot of men believe women are asexual because the women they're around are asexual towards them. I think this is why women get away with so much, a lot of guys never really see women's lust so they don't understand women. As a culture we've come so full circle now with this "everyone is awesome" bullshit that we accept former pornstars as long as they're currently prudes. You see this a lot in the Republican party. There's also this acceptance among the right now of LGBT people, which b…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 05:02 AM
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I don't like incels but saying women aren't crass and crude and almost enjoy denigrating men while embracing casual sex, is comical. I've had a woman have sex with her boyfriend on top of me when I was passed out drunk. Her excuse was that it was "hot" doing that. Bluepilled men try to cover for what a lot of incels are saying because insecure bluepilled men are more concerned with repeating the state line about "women are angels" than actually taking a neutral opinion on it.
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 04:58 AM
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The world is clearly not an okay place. Either address the overarching issue of the western world being infected with feel good bullshit, or blame men as much as you blame women
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 04:48 AM
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This is the game homie, a huge part of the reason why the world is the way it is, is because men get played and keep this shit going.
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 04:45 AM
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Because PAST A POINT people who fall for this shit are just enablers dude.
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 04:38 AM
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Actually current day western society is hopelessly bluepilled, infected with feel good optimism and lies and just world fallacy, and this is the same reason why we get scammed by dudes abroad, and the same reason why men make easy marks for women.
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 04:32 AM
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The Ancient Romans had a word "pusio" (which sounds suspiciously similar to "pussy") meaning a young boy lover, and it was culturally accepted among Roman men. Their justification was that "pusio" wouldn't demand gifts and were less "quarrelsome" than women. For anyone thinking that this is something new. Out of 100s of Roman poets, philosophers and writers, only Ovid claimed that sleeping with women was better than sleeping with boys.
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 04:24 AM
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I know it's fraud, but the point is, that men are tricks that allowed her to do such a basic fraud. It's like boomers being scammed by Indian call centers. They're tricks and after the 1 millionth time you start to blame the boomers, not the call centers.
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 04:19 AM
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I see ur point but the point is any man with discretion wouldn't do this. Desperation clouds peoples' vision.
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 04:05 AM
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Because the only "dates" I've ever been on, they were the ones paying for it. I thought it was normal for a long time.
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 04:00 AM
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You say that but ultimately if men have to choose between being alone, and somehow paying for it in one way or another, 95% of men will pay for it.
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 03:55 AM
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Be real, if men had more discretion she wouldn't be able to do this. One man is an idiot, multiple men is a trend.
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 03:53 AM
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Yes, but men are AWARE that gold diggers exist and don't care.
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 03:50 AM
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But in reality, doesn't it just mean men are pathetic?
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 03:50 AM
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Good for her though, wouldn't you do the same thing? I don't get it, blame men for being this pathetic, these guys are tricks, dude.
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 03:49 AM
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The going idea is that women don't like sex and this is passed around a lot among men, to the extent that the "fact" that men must chase and ply women with money is widely accepted. But then I bring up all the times women have basically asked me for sex and in the same breath tell me they were in love with me, some of these women were in relationships too. And I think about all the women who got furious that I didn't sleep with them. I can't help but sideeye this whole thing. I find it very hard…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 03:46 AM
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Oh my God, you're like a nagging school teacher. Chill. "Noooo... you can't say that!! Shame on you!" Jeez man. I like incels even less than you do but you anti-incels are basically just mirror images of them.
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 03:35 AM
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There is no pill, there's only science, more or less. I don't like people who try to pretend humans are more somehow above animals, which includes both incels and bluepillers.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 03:34 AM
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It's common in Korea and China. For women to ask men out. Actually it was normal for me in the US too, but that might be only partially unrelated.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 03:32 AM
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Yeah and the left also claims that all sex is rape, body positivity, destruction of feminine norms to make women unattractive to men, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 11:52 AM
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"Dating" is difficulty even for tall men I've known. Not sure why people think that being short is better. Women like status. Generally lower height signals lower social status. Women don't even like men that much physically, the whole height thing is just as another metric. If society pushed short men as powerful and popular, women would like short men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 11:35 AM
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I lost mine at 12 years old, it was fairly normal for me. The problem is that other men notice that some guys get it, while they're left out in the cold. It sucks. That's creating a pretty big issue with resentment. Also yeah I'm fairly certain that the reason I lost it at 12 is cause of my looks. I can't stand this Puritan "life is fair" shit just as much as I can't stand incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 11:17 AM
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I'm 6'0" and it's pretty obvious it adds to my appeal to women, a lot are fairly straight forward with it. I don't like incels but I also strongly dislike bluepilled people, cause they have such a naive childish way of looking at the world. That being said I know 6'3" tall white guys with handsome faces who can't really get attractive women or got dead bedroomed by their wives right after marriage. So to say that 5'6" guys are all out there having a great time just seems like wild fantasy. Also …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 11:07 AM
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If you're running drug dealer provider game I've got bad news for you homie. She don't really like you, only likes what you give her for free.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 11:03 AM
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Online dating isn't real, which is why it's 80% males to females. Women will approach and ask out and have relationships with men they like IRL. So women don't need to use online dating. Contrary to what people state, the first requirement to input on OLD sites isn't height. It's income.
/r/AllPillDebate11/10/23 10:35 AM
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Hold up, so you'd be perfectly fine if she did things with other guys, but wouldn't do them with you?
/r/AllPillDebate11/10/23 10:28 AM
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Unfortunately, a lot of men truly are driven by their oppressive need to procreate. It's really ugly business.
/r/AllPillDebate11/10/23 08:21 AM
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If men had standards and weren't so thirsty, 90% of all of the issues talked about on these forums would disappear over night.
/r/AllPillDebate11/10/23 08:21 AM
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The fuck are you talking about? I'm the one here supporting women's right to choose and calling out sexpats and passport bros and dabbing all over these incels. What's your deal, now you're in support of passport bros?
/r/AllPillDebate11/10/23 08:05 AM
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Men do all kinds of horrible stuff to get laid, and unfortunately I'd say it wouldn't be as common if it wasn't somewhat successful.
/r/AllPillDebate11/10/23 08:02 AM
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Western women are overweight way more on average but that's simply because they're reacting to the quality of men around them. Desexualizing themselves, etc. If you've got what it takes, you get access to high quality western women. Believe me homie, when women love you, they will actively work to keep the weight down for you.
/r/AllPillDebate11/10/23 07:49 AM
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I noticed that with a lot of these hardcore serial killer gangbangers like King Von, a lot of these guys are on the shorter, more effeminate side, and they don't even make money doing what they do, and it just comes off as an elaborate mating strategy. These dudes are like the school shooters of the African American community. It's sad. There's a couple of drug dealer "blue pilled" guys on this forum who are doing just that.
/r/AllPillDebate11/10/23 07:39 AM
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Not quite. It's more about respecting yourself. Home boy, there's men out there with extremely high opinions of themselves, and I assure you, this is not shit we even vaguely sweat over. It's an "absolutely not" type deal over here.
/r/AllPillDebate11/10/23 07:33 AM
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Unfortunately, physical attraction trumps all. There's a reason why most sexpats / Passport bros are from western nations. There's nothing wrong with with western women, other than the fact that they're financially free: free to dictate which men are attractive, and which aren't.
/r/AllPillDebate11/10/23 07:30 AM
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I sincerely hope you understand that your reasoning doesn't actually hold water when you come across someone who is picky enough to know that to accept this reasoning, he'd have to be a massive loser. Again, this is such a bare minimum expectation that I'm shocked that people have the gall to even try to argue this point. Not everyone in this planet is a self-loathing, low self-esteem having person who has to take what he can get.
/r/AllPillDebate11/10/23 07:16 AM
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I think a lot of men give up on women before they go the unkempt route.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 07:07 AM
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The problem of women only being physically attracted to a small number of men causes a lot of problems ultimately, and there's no real solution to it. It would mean completely shifting the perception of humans from an evolved species, into one that has more in common with animals. Nobody, not even the left, wants that. What's the solution then? The ancients noticed these things and the Romans even adopted pedophilia and pederasty as a counter to it, on a cultural level. Notice anything? The word…
/r/AllPillDebate11/10/23 07:06 AM
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If you marry a pornstar, the expectation is that she should do those things for you. If you marry a pornstar and she wants to dead bedroom you and remake herself for you, it's a problem. I don't even know why this is an argument.
/r/AllPillDebate11/10/23 06:45 AM
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I had this argument this morning. A woman was telling me that "the past is the past." But that's not the issue. The issue is she did things for certain guys in the past and disrespected other guys. Then she settles with the "other guys" and doesn't do those things for him. From an objective standpoint, it's not fair. It's pretty intuitive, no use in really talking about it.
/r/AllPillDebate11/10/23 06:43 AM
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Yep contrary to what people believe, we're living in extremely Puritan, anti-sexual times, but it's actually being driven by the left, not the right.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 06:40 AM
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I've been with about 50 women and all asked me first. Am not white. I've never been on online dating. Why would I need to be?
/r/AllPillDebate11/10/23 06:05 AM
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Girls will buy gifts for men they like though. I'm so tired about this idea that girls don't like sex. It's so weird to me to see, I'm not even blackpilled but this pervasive idea is everywhere and it really bothers me for some reason.
/r/AllPillDebate11/10/23 06:01 AM
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Yep, women will straight up just tell you they want to have sex with you if they like you. I thought this was normal for a long time.
/r/AllPillDebate11/10/23 05:58 AM
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You can gauge how attractive you are just by going outside. I've had a woman follow me three blocks downtown in a major city before. It actually makes me kind of angry, cause they don't know what kind of person I am.
/r/AllPillDebate11/10/23 05:57 AM
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Women don't "want" men like men want women. They may "want" men with high social status but they don't actually want them. The real winners in this world are the men that women actually want (physically).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 05:44 AM
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I think the onus is on men when it comes to not understanding that looks mean something to women. The amount of poorly dressed, unkempt, men in western countries is really staggering. I think it's borderline offensive to suggest that appearance doesn't matter to the opposite sex. I think there's a trend towards a radical desexualization in society, with a lot of men looking like crap and a lot of women desexualizing themselves through weight gain and weird styles.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 05:28 AM
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OP is more or less correct. I live in a culture where men are actually pursued by women (East Asia), and the men are extremely picky. I've never asked a woman out in my life and have developed an extremely picky, standoffish attitude, inadvertently as a result. I've had unattractive women randomly attack me by saying that "I think no one is good enough." And I sort of emphasize with women like this. So I can see how this is a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 04:35 AM
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I'm not top tier percentile, but I am apparently attractive (I always suspected it's due to my ethnicity), and it's really up in the air, but I can say for certain: The signs generally point to the fact that 90% of the guys I meet out there don't seem to understand that women are capable of genuinely loving AND lusting after a man for free. Most guys out there, and I mean most, really believe it's a combination of chasing women and throwing money at them. So, it's more or less been confusing for…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 04:16 AM
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There's an experiential gap between those who have women sexually desiring them and those who don't. Those who don't, don't think women like sex and don't think women pursue men. And they can't really ever see it.
/r/AllPillDebate10/10/23 08:00 AM
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There's "attractive" and then there's attractive. Just saying.
/r/AllPillDebate10/10/23 07:39 AM
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I wouldn't say it if I didn't have first hand experience with it. And yeah, I'm beyond used to people saying it's not real, because it took me like 3 decades to realize it wasn't normal.
/r/AllPillDebate10/10/23 06:40 AM
1

In my fam we have a lot of very old people (85+) years old. A common sentiment among the men is that they joke that their wives hate them. I think one of the reasons why men die earlier than women is basically because the women resent them a lot. This myth of undying love is just that, a myth.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 04:35 AM
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If she finds you attractive, it will be known in her reaction upon seeing you, if she doesn't then even that becomes apparent as well. If she finds you attractive she'll literally come up to you 20 minutes later and ask you out
/r/AllPillDebate09/10/23 04:34 PM
1

My beef with women is a lot of y'all is nasty and just mean spirited
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 01:57 PM
1

tall requirements are mostly a white boy thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 01:55 PM
2

Actually I noticed the more unattractive a woman is, the more she raises her height standards. I think that they think that by being that choosy, it means they're "beautiful" (they're not).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 01:53 PM
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No, they're out having major says in corporations like Netflix and there are a handful in DC with inordinate amounts of power.
/r/AllPillDebate09/10/23 01:44 PM
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Bruh she doesn't like you, give her some space, damn. Men don't get it, girls will literally chase and literally stalk you if they like you. There's no such thing as "chasing" women. Problem is 99% of men will never see this so they don't understand it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 01:29 PM
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Femcels are more about a mentality rather than a physical thing.
/r/AllPillDebate09/10/23 01:27 PM
1

It's literally impossible to take people's opinions objectively when they're always shaded by anger and resentment. I'm talking about you first, then maybe OP second. But he's right, and you're angry.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 01:20 PM
1

A lot of women actually age worse and have more health issues because a lot of women have serious anger, jealousy, and bitterness issues, even among each other. That shit eats them alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 01:18 PM
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That's just what it is. "Romance" and love is tied up basically in how much a woman sexually desires you.
/r/AllPillDebate09/10/23 09:19 AM
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Why do you guys see everything in terms of "exchange for sex?" IME women used me for sex and were pretty open about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 03:53 AM
1

In my experience if she basically reverses gender roles for you, (i.e., she does stuff that a man is normally expected to do for women), it's genuine.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 05:05 AM
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Same with sex. There's no mechanical reason why sex should have to feel good Because life to any sentient being with consciousness (only humans) is pretty bad, so sex had to be extremely pleasurable to make humans want to reproduce. Beyond sex, life is fairly awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 04:55 AM
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Would you consider yourself a "bluepiller?" It sounds more like "necessity" to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 04:45 AM
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Would you consider yourself a "bluepiller?"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 04:45 AM
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Contrary to what people say, sex is way rarer in college than people like to pretend, only because most women like a smaller number of guys, and the rest of the women probably sleep with older, more established men. Money rules everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 04:01 AM
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A black comedian once said that if black women liked nerds, there'd be "nigg@s on the moon." A lot of these young, short, slightly effeminate looking black guys in the hood catch bodies and gang bang because it's their only real way of getting laid. Look at King Von and the guys who shot him.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 03:32 AM
1

When I was in college I knew good looking guys who could only get very mid women, had girlfriends who wouldn't go past making out, had to buy prostitutes, or would get laid once a year. Sex is everywhere but it's actually not.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:40 PM
1

she’s probably not physically attracted When women are physically attracted there's basically nothing you can say to make them go away. Guys here need to get this.
/r/seduction07/10/23 04:29 PM
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I think it's because financial times are way harder so men are basically pretty much worthless without money.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:24 PM
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Women are attracted to strength. The problem with that is that it's sort of a runaway of evolutionary design. Meaning that "strength" has basically a ceiling-less interpretation to people who value such a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:21 PM
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I know, but women aren't just set dressing for peoples' approach fantasies. Nobody is. What if she's antisocial? If he wants to meet girls he should do it in a setting where it's more casual and people are there to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 03:36 PM
1

Sad reality man, just be more attractive is legitimate advice. "Bluepillers" have all kinds of advice because I'm positive none of them are attractive to know just how easy it is when you're past an attractiveness threshold.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 03:31 PM
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I don't think they are. I think the general plan all along was for less desirable men to accumulate enough wealth and career prospects to settle with a woman who probably doesn't like them that much. It's been this way for 100s of years. I think movies and porn got men all messed up.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 03:25 PM
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Girl was trying to study and my man just started talking to her. It's not good behavior no matter who is doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 03:22 PM
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Approaching women is cringe. Just be more physically attractive. I don't get how guys still don't get that in 2023. Women are people too, girl was literally trying to study and some guy sat down next to her trying to game her... even if I was a dude that would be rude and annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 03:08 PM
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Kanye isn't "alpha." Listen to him talk. He got with a woman who made a porn with another man before him. And he was addicted to porn even while being married to her, probably cause she wasn't sleeping with him. But I get the point. There's so many recorded incidents of women admitting they lose attraction to their male partners if they see them cry or get beaten up in a fight. It's a bad look on their part.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 03:05 PM
1

Number one thing you can do is become so self absorbed and alienated from them, be so completely devoid of interest that they'll find you mysterious. I wish I was joking.
/r/seduction07/10/23 11:29 AM
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I think this is why women are so pro LGBT, because it means that the unattractive men can have sex with other men and leave them alone. I wish this was just an exaggeration but in bisexual and gay circles it's pretty much established that men are less superficial than women when it comes to sex.
/r/AllPillDebate03/10/23 06:27 AM
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Japanese women are notoriously asexual even for white men. There's 1000's of these testimonials online. If I had to guess, her Japanese husband might have cheated on her (something like 70% of Japanese men cheat), and this is her revenge.
/r/AllPillDebate03/10/23 04:21 AM
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that women will happily date married men who still have sex with their wives No, then they wouldn't be with other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 05:27 PM
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