LifeIsAdreamGoLucid Archive

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3	Lost my virginity on vacation Wow cool man. Sounds almost to good to be true. But then again my first time was like "hey, want to have sex?" "ok if you want" i go to the bathroom and put the condom on. We do it missionary, im so in my head i cant come, 45min go by, brother walks in, says sorry, then 5 min later girl says "can we stop its hurting". Ahh magical.	/r/seduction	04/07/19 03:06 AM
2	Nice Guys Finish Last...? No, They Are Not Even In The Race! Man i was at this work Christmas party and one of the kitchen staff was this indian guy who got real drunk and cried because some award was given to some guy who didnt even work there anymore. Just for context the crying dude was known as kind of the lovable creepy guy to the girls. So as hes getting helped to his ride, everyone trying to be nice and give him a goodbye. Then this this sweet as pie chick says to quiet for him to hear " yeeah see you, you fucking faggot" i was gob smacked at the h…	/r/TheRedPill	29/06/19 07:21 AM
1	did anyone else get into game, work on it, start getting lays and hook ups, then realise that the whole casual sex thing wasn't for them? Hey man i can relate. Ive never been a ONS guy, did it for the story, the notch, to fill that space. Everyone is different. I mean even personality types play a role. Some are real analytical and logical. They want to fuck the pretty girl, they do and then move on. Then others are more intuitive and feeling based so fucking with detatchment just doesnt come naturally. I personally need an emotional connection. Yeah that sounds like a chicks thing but fuck it, the sex is way better for me. The pa…	/r/seduction	27/06/19 08:09 AM
2	What is it like being an attractive dude? Far out man. Alot of what you said hit home. Especially the part where your dad was projecting his own insecurities onto you after your mum left. Happened with me when my mum left... after dad tried to take her back after she cheated. So fucked. I get angry as well when people treat you differently based on your perceived worth. They dont know me and who i am or what ive done. It just all seems disingenuous. I grew into my looks so i know how i was treated before. It can really mess with your he…	/r/askTRP	27/06/19 01:07 AM
18	What is it like being an attractive dude? There is this thing called "the halo effect" where people assume youre smarter, more capable or more trustworthy than you actually might be. Easier to get jobs and really amps your charisma if you can hold a convo. You have abundance mentality because of the steady IOIs and comments on your appearance. The other side of that coin is that it inflates your ego so rather than risk shattering it you may not approach or take risks with girls. People just assume youre getting laid all the time even wh…	/r/askTRP	26/06/19 05:27 AM
2	what are the benefits of meditation? Imagine you're sitting on the train, but you're sitting on the seats that face backwards. The scenery passes by your window quickly without a chance for you to observe the scenery approaching. This is how most people spend their lives. Things happen and they react without much awareness. In a state of auto pilot. Meditation trains you to observe without judgement. Suddenly your seat is facing foward. You notice the scenery coming. With enough practice Meditation gives you a moment to observe wha…	/r/askTRP	26/06/19 04:52 AM
1	Brother Issues Fuck man! Your bro has set himself up for the perfect life, from his perspective that is. He definitely wont change a thing when hes living in a stoner's paradise. Honestly as a former stoner, he would be able to adapt and accept what ever shit you throw at him regarding things at home. Plus having all that bad energy between you would just be a drag. Looks like eventually moving out by yourself or shipping him to mar and pa`s is the best options. Good luck dude.	/r/askTRP	23/06/19 03:38 AM
1	How to deal with girls in clubs? Being drunk just gets you out of your head so you DGAF and make moves. Im currently practising this without drinking because i want to actually learn. As a good looking guy, girls will gravitate to your personal space. Yeah its strange AF when they don't even face you and it happens alot, pretending to bump into you etc. You will know if they are down when you put a hand on their hip and respond by usually grinding on you or just not wigging out in general, but it pays to be sure she is giving y…	/r/seduction	22/06/19 08:50 AM
5	How to get laid even though you're ugly "Depends on what you consider ugly" yeah dude i guess it does. You have nothing that would be seen as ugly. Your "weak" chin is hidden by a beard that gives the impression of a strong chin. Youre a white dude with blue eyes. Anyway man, maybe start focusing on what you like about yourself more. Doesnt mean you live in a fantasy land but the more you see the shit you dont like about yourself the more it shapes your perception of yourself and your reality.	/r/TheRedPill	20/06/19 01:12 AM
4	How to get laid even though you're ugly Wtf you're not ugly at all. Man, from your comments i was expecting to pity you once i clicked the link. You look like your walked off the vikings show. OP might be right, the view of your self image is off.	/r/TheRedPill	20/06/19 12:43 AM
2	What’re your experiences with gay guys? Haha far out man that would ruin anyones trip!	/r/askTRP	17/06/19 01:52 AM
3	Do you ever stop feeling hollow inside? The Buddha taught that all suffering comes from craving and avoidance. Two sides of the same coin really. Acceptance is said to be a path to true lasting happiness that comes from within. As others have mentioned. Meditation is a great start. Also practicing mindfulness in daily life helps. Not saying you should give all your material wealth up. I was in banking/sales and doing well. Now i live in campervan at the beach while i study. Each to their own. Listen to that inner guidance though. Brea…	/r/askTRP	16/06/19 10:41 AM
2	A summary of the most attractive traits in a man? To break down signs of being physical attractive based on the bases of looking " healthy ". After all that is what mates are looking for in each other. white teeth, preferably straight. healthy hair, shiny, thick. low body fat, athletic build. clear bright skin. smell nice, breath, body odor. These are attributes that are attainable by anyone. Most of this can be accomplished through a clean, whole food diet.	/r/askTRP	15/06/19 07:03 AM
37	some motivation for myself to put me in the driver's seat rather than tied up, gagged, and in the trunk of my own life ;) I think op is referring to dopamine addiction/instant gratification. I mean you could order a pizza, smoke a j and put on some rick and morty... But its a slippery slope.	/r/seduction	09/06/19 09:54 AM
2	Stare down oneitis to enter the Matrix Great post, man! I appreciate the combination of eastern philosophy/spirituality. I feel its all closely related. In essence, it all comes down to living life with non attachment. Or outcome independence as is said on this forum. It took me some time to differentiate between detatchment and non attachment, which mindfulness practices certainly did. All the best.	/r/seduction	02/06/19 12:05 AM
1	I got friendzoned pretty hard. She was my best friend, but I had to move on and cut contact. Man i feel ya. Went through my first legit friend zone at 30! I put her on a pedestal and thought being a kind compassionate dude was the way to go and she was worth it, haha. I was so deluded. Like you i was always available. To her calls, txt etc. As others have said. Cut her out completely. Focus on yourself. Grow and move forward. At least youre aware so this wont happen again!	/r/seduction	31/05/19 05:41 AM
2	Do I(17) look creepy? I was called vampire boy and Dracula by my mates. They would actually introduce me to girls " dont you think my friend looks like a vampire?" was a little embarrassing, being tall, skinny and pale with dark hair. Then twilight came out. Vampire's were all the rage. There is a movie coming out staring zac efron as ted bundy... So ya might be sweet.	/r/askTRP	02/05/19 12:56 AM