LifeIsLoud182 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	How society rewards beta body language. Fix a lifetime of smiling and talking too much Thanks man. It's reassuring to hear it rings true with others' experiences as it's so easy to be put off by BP naysayers, especially in the early stages.	/r/TheRedPill	29/10/14 07:49 AM
95	How society rewards beta body language. Fix a lifetime of smiling and talking too much I would leave social interactions feeling exhausted and not like myself This was me until about 6 months ago. I used to occupy an almost bi-polar existence where I felt like a dancing monkey with some people and a grumpy old man with others (quite often my family) and on my own. Now, whilst I have some way to go, my moods are far more consistent from situation to situation and more congruent with what I regard as "me". It feels liberating but it took a bit of determination, a leap of faith and a…	/r/TheRedPill	28/10/14 08:58 PM
2	Be a full glass. That 'multiplier' concept is great! I might borrow it and give you credit if you don't mind. And yeah you've got to craft the kind of 'character' that best suits how you want to play the game (similar to choosing warrior, thief or mage). I remember back when I was reading Mystery's PUA stuff that he worked on the parts of himself in a way that would make him attractive to a certain type of girl. In his case I think it was porn stars so he created this alternative rock-star/magician persona that …	/r/TheRedPill	17/10/14 03:21 PM
1	Be a full glass. Thanks! And yes you can have an extra re-roll ;) Haha yup it is a slightly absurd and geeky concept and that's actually part of what makes it work. When you're working on becoming this more ideal version of yourself, it's quite easy to become jaded and disillusioned when you have set backs. You can end up feeling impotent and disenfranchised with a world that seems to give the golden ticket to people like Dan Bilzerian while you were born into a fatherless marriage where you were actively discou…	/r/TheRedPill	17/10/14 03:07 PM
21	Be a full glass. You're spot on! lifting is a perfect example of a low cost, high yield activity that develops a range of attributes. As for more, I can think of 4 types of activity that IMO have a similar cost:yield ratio. I've also put examples of the types of goals you can use for each. Work/study: sounds mundane but it can pay dividends even if you're a student or working a dead end 9 til 5. If you start pro-actively setting goals and doing whatever it is to the best of your ability (+1 discipline) you'll fe…	/r/TheRedPill	17/10/14 12:41 AM
29	Be a full glass. I like this concept. I had a similar way to explain attractiveness to guys who weren't convinced they were would never succeed with girls because of their looks, height, wealth etc. I used to tell them that every human is like a character from a role playing game in that they have an array of skills/attributes each ranging from 1-100. Except instead of HP, magica, small weapons skill etc they are attributes like the ones you listed (Frame, net worth, intelligence etc). Your time, energy and mone…	/r/TheRedPill	16/10/14 04:51 PM
1	Marriage Rates Hit All-Time Low That's the one, thanks. I always vaguely remembered hearing about it in high school but never bothered to look it up. It seems quite relevant now as wealth inequality is becoming a hot topic again.	/r/TheRedPill	15/10/14 10:44 PM
1	Marriage Rates Hit All-Time Low I was being sarcastic in previous comment about factories and stuff I know, the yellow people comment put a smile on my face. Today both the husband and wife working have problems just surviving Yeah it's pretty perverse. I wonder if it's to do more with economics (wealth gap and the failure of trickle down economics etc) or society (consumerism, irresponsible borrowing etc)	/r/TheRedPill	15/10/14 12:47 PM
2	Marriage Rates Hit All-Time Low Am I right in saying that Marx had this theory that countries go through certain stages of development ultimately ending in communism? Something like Monarchism > revolution > democracy > communism. Whilst I disagree with the conclusion I am interested in the earlier stages and you seem like you might know something about it.	/r/TheRedPill	15/10/14 12:43 PM
2	Marriage Rates Hit All-Time Low Great stuff. I've always had this suspicion that despite all this anti-colonial rhetoric we hear nowadays that in reality we were pretty popular as far as empires go. What you say about Ghandi and the Burma Campaign back up that feeling. I don't know why there is so much shame over the empire: we weren't that tyrannical, the countries prospered economically on the whole and we empowered smaller countries by making them part of our network. Even now I generally hear people from ex-empire countrie…	/r/TheRedPill	15/10/14 12:41 PM
5	Marriage Rates Hit All-Time Low Yeah China's doing all right, just been crowned the world's largest economy. Better start getting my mandarin up to scratch. You are right though, a booming economy correlates to increased fertility and depression with a declining one. Though paradoxically when a country reaches the top in terms of GDP and education, it's fertility rate starts to peter off. I was under the impression that the UK's economy was in dire straits after WWII, but after some googling turns out we're pretty good at econ…	/r/TheRedPill	14/10/14 11:57 PM
13	Marriage Rates Hit All-Time Low You're right and it goes deeper: populations actually tend to grow at times of economic crisis. People have less money so they stay home and make babies. The baby-boomers were born straight after the second world war. Feminism in its current form will die though. At least in the UK there are some early signs: more guys in the gym trying to better themselves, there are more anti-heroes in popular culture e.g. Walter White, politics is swinging to be more conservative again and psychology research…	/r/TheRedPill	14/10/14 09:59 PM
2	FR: Kicked her out the door And according to OkCupid's data you'd be absolutely right. Well... for men at least. Curiously, that data also shows that female perception of male attractiveness correlates more closely with the way men use the HB scale day to day. But this could be a moot point because perception influences our behaviour significantly more than objective reality. The quantitative appearance of 1-10 scale belies the qualitative nature with which it is implemented. An average guy might rate himself as a 7 or may…	/r/TheRedPill	14/10/14 10:27 AM
4	FR: Kicked her out the door No problem. It's not really associated with TRP philosophy the same way SMV is. 'HB' has its roots in the PUA scene. Phrases like 'Hot Babe' have been replaced by more terse ones like 'plates'. But HB is great short hand so that's probably why it stuck around.	/r/TheRedPill	13/10/14 05:36 PM
1	FR: Kicked her out the door HB: "Hot Babe" and the number is attractiveness out of 10.	/r/TheRedPill	13/10/14 05:07 PM
5	End Game You just put into two sentences what I've been trying to articulate for the last few years. Thank you.	/r/TheRedPill	09/10/14 11:52 AM
1	Male groups/Brotherhoods you can join after college that are like a fraternity, any ideas? No worries. Haha it's interesting you say that. I often felt that way about the US too. I think it's a case of the grass is greener. All cultures have their own social rules only felt by 'natives' whereas people coming from the outside often get a free pass because they're novel. In the UK for instance we have an outdated but still very dominant class system. People will make a lot assumptions about you based on very arbitrary things like your accent, where you grew up, what type of school you w…	/r/TheRedPill	08/10/14 01:58 AM
2	Male groups/Brotherhoods you can join after college that are like a fraternity, any ideas? Really? I mean from what little I know fraternities do seem to be a bastion of brotherhood, but surely not the only one? If that really is the case then obviously I can't offer any specific advice but I would say this: I think a sense of 'Brotherhood' (or perhaps more accurately 'community') can be created anywhere by anyone. You just need to know the basic ingredients: values, loyalty/support and shared experiences. It doesn't necessarily require years to create either, just a leader who knows …	/r/TheRedPill	07/10/14 11:41 PM
1	Male groups/Brotherhoods you can join after college that are like a fraternity, any ideas? I'm from the UK and the fraternity thing doesn't exist here so much. Sports teams are you best bet. The more male dominated and physical the better. Also, they're ready made in their structure, mentality and traditions (i.e. brotherhood and SMV). All you have to do is join them and get involved. Don't try too hard, be loyal and work hard at it and you'll do fine. Examples: rugby, lacrosse, rowing, football (soccer)	/r/TheRedPill	07/10/14 10:15 PM
2	Being a Man vs Being a Dick If you can keep your head when all about you Are losing theirs and blaming it on you, If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you, But make allowance for their doubting too; If you can wait and not be tired by waiting, Or being lied about, don’t deal in lies, Or being hated, don’t give way to hating, And yet don’t look too good, nor talk too wise 1st Verse of 'If' by Rudyard Kipling This is one of the classic poems about manhood. It opens with - amongst others - the qualities of resilience,…	/r/askTRP	06/10/14 09:46 PM
5	Just curious, what kind of benefits could there be for a young girl to grow up with a red pill father? How would it positively effect her life? Would there be any draw backs for her? As u/drrrrrr pointed out, it depends on the type of alpha. A Dark triad alpha father is likely to raise an unpredictable type of girl who could potentially be damaging and unloyal. Personally, not my type, so not something I will concern my response with. The 'benevolent king' - as u/drrrrrr puts it - however has a good shot of raising a great woman. Yesterday u/GoldmundUnleashed posted a blog ("The death of a Patriarch) about the death of a "benevolent king." It was his uncle, whom a even a fem…	/r/TheRedPill	06/10/14 01:08 PM