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What are you doing mate?
/r/seduction06/04/24 09:22 PM
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I can see the argument being made for Liberace just being the prepubescent version of love. The "talking" stage if you will
/r/seduction06/04/24 09:19 PM
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Yeah, I know what do you suggest I do to not come across as desperate in this lovely blessed scenario I find myself in, sir?
/r/seduction06/04/24 09:16 PM
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I haven't really gotten anything about my voice before but I wanted to so voice note because I feel that I can communicate the right energy and tone with it. I can articulate it very well with my voice, so well that it just won't come across the same way in a text. I've never sent her a voice note before so yes it will be out of place but you know what, it'll stand out a little more than a text and she's probably gonna play it more than once. I know if she does respond, she will in text which ju…
/r/seduction06/04/24 05:58 PM
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That would be a great suggestion but the last time I posted anything on isntagram was 9 Years ago 🤦‍♀️. I wanna start using it as the DHV tool it was always meant to be but I'm still figuring out how to start. I used to be very fat, poor, dressed bad etc etc. I always wanted a transformation video or something to be my comeback to posting. Do you think that's cringey as an outsider third party person?
/r/seduction06/04/24 05:45 PM
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I'm thinking do that in the form of a voice note. Text is so needy and off putting to me. Just the idea of writing that makes me squeamish. In all honesty, it makes me a clench my fists a little thinking she's interested in another guy. Wow, what is wrong with me? I wish I had more dates lined up, I'm doing a mini day game session tomorrow and we'll see what comes of it. Have a read of my field reports man, it's been rough. Granted, I've only been in the game for a month but I'm really angry at …
/r/seduction06/04/24 05:28 PM
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I think in half a year I'll honestly just get bored of her, I'm not built for long term things. I only like her because she's new and exciting but I'll get to know her, she'll get comfortable and I'll resent that. I'll chase rhe next exciting new girl I find. That's how my relationships normally go.
/r/seduction06/04/24 05:20 PM
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I was thinking a happy medium where I still accept that I will come across far more attractive girls and get out there more and all that but also send her a voice note (not a long mature text) Just a voice note saying "hey, I just saw your story or whatever and I just really wanted to make sure this isn't about you still thinking I'm a drug dealer. I actually work with the government. It's a long story. Let me know" What do you think about option c?
/r/seduction06/04/24 05:18 PM
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Yeah, you're right man. So she ain't the one but she could be the one for the next couple of months?? How do I do that?
/r/seduction06/04/24 05:08 PM
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My best (and only) night game success was just about a week ago (see field reports #2 & #3). There was this stunning girl sitting at one of the couches on the side of the dance floor. I asked her for a dance, and her face lit up when I did. It's almost like she was waiting for it. I couldn't believe that she said yes, let alone look this happy and excited about it. We danced really close to each other. I did the mystery kiss close, and she said, "Not yet." 5 minutes later, she went in for the ki…
/r/seduction06/04/24 04:32 PM
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I've been trying to do mystery method. It still works. Give it a shot infield.
/r/seduction06/04/24 05:28 AM
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What brand of tampon do you use while sarging?
/r/seduction06/04/24 04:34 AM
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Get pulled***
/r/seduction06/04/24 04:34 AM
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I have had girls hold my age against me multiple times, I am 22. I got rejected by a 26 year old HB9 because of it. The same thing happened with a 6 and a 5... I've learnt from these interactions that it's not my age that does it. It's how I act. When they ask "how old you are you" it's a shit test just like any other "I bet you do this alot". Play it off. The way I'm going to play it off from now on is "That's what they all say, hasn't stopped any of em". Also if I know she's older than me or c…
/r/seduction06/04/24 03:42 AM
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Stop disqualifying me 😢
/r/seduction06/04/24 02:12 AM
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Are you negging me sir
/r/seduction06/04/24 01:09 AM
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Yeah exactly. I think this opener is generally too long. It does start a conversation but it doesn't hook them onto me necessarily but rather the topic. Depending on how well I "perform" this opener, they may get into me but that's all body language, tone, pauses etc etc. I think indirect openers work better than indirect because it's weird getting approached just because of how you look. I can imagine they're thinking that I was staring at them or something maybe I'm in my head.
/r/seduction06/04/24 01:08 AM
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You're probably right. I should delete the app. I guess I'm just hopeful that I can discipline myself into just not opening it. I'll give myself 3 days and see what my screentime is like. If it's anything over 5 minutes. I'll delete it. It's just not worth it.
/r/seduction05/04/24 06:10 AM
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My biggest tip for you is, if your target is in a set. Do not approach your target. Approach the obstacle. Make her like you which should be easy because you don't care about her. Have your back turned on your target or even pretend they don't exist after you get her name. Occasionally neg her, be like "is she always this quite and shy?" Now you and her friend are laughing at her. Try ti include her a little more, not too much. You'll see she starts to butt in, you go like "does she always inter…
/r/seduction05/04/24 06:08 AM
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Yeah but you know what that does, it makes it just that much more special when a guy with guts still goes up to a girl in person. Social media made it very easy for men to lose their balls, why should I approach when I can just DM? Thus leaves the floor open for us. Let the Simps text, let us reap the benefits as even a half assed "You're cute" opener will get you further than the 100s in her dms
/r/seduction05/04/24 02:17 AM
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I'm just thinking about the 10s I try to number close but they go like "let's do instagram instead". Those ones. I want my profile to be a DHV. I want them to have a reason to give me their number. A good profile, good game and a couple of texts om instagram will seal the deal and get to give over the phone number
/r/seduction04/04/24 10:31 PM
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You're right, it doesn't feel good to hear that I have an addiction but you're right. It stops now. I believe I can utilise it as a productive tool though. Hey, we'll see how we go with this. If it's not doable then the answer will be to delete it and instead improve my game to a point where I don't need instagram
/r/seduction04/04/24 10:00 PM
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Agreed with the idea not the execution. My profile should have some good pictures of myself for when girls ask for my insta. I should be texting them as well on there because I haven't gotten their number yet. I'll use it for the tool it is, nothing further.
/r/seduction04/04/24 09:53 PM
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That's a really cool idea. I'm gonna look into it right now
/r/seduction04/04/24 09:52 PM
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Exactly. It's a simple numbers game. Most women actually have boyfriends, some may be lying but that doesn't matter. Improve your approach. That's the only thing you can do. How do you think you could've improved that approach? The other thing is, what was going through your mind before you approached? What made you chicken out?
/r/seduction04/04/24 09:51 PM
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Not even the instathots. It's just attractive women in none sexual contexts too. I can find new spots by meeting new people at places I already know. Also google exists so its fantastic l
/r/seduction04/04/24 09:49 PM
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Excellent. Keep me updated
/r/seduction04/04/24 09:48 PM
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I can talk to the people I know on texts or phone calls. Instagram will only be used as a DHV tool when they look me up
/r/seduction04/04/24 09:47 PM
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Agreed. No usage of the app for any other purpose other than posting every couple of months for DHV and fixing failed number closes
/r/seduction04/04/24 09:46 PM
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My feed is predominantly gym/psychology content by both men and women. It's not that it shows me naked girls all the time, it's just it shows me attractive women in none sexual contexts. I go like wow, she sure is attractive but that thought will lead no where because it's not attached to a real person in real life. Therein lies the problem, liking something that is unattainable because she is likely on the other side of the world. The truth is, attraction is a game to me. It does have statistic…
/r/seduction04/04/24 09:45 PM
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Gets the message across doesn't it
/r/seduction04/04/24 09:41 PM
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You're telling me 💀💀. Porn is next man
/r/seduction04/04/24 09:39 PM
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That's probably what I should do. Only get it back when a girl requests my instagram from real life
/r/seduction04/04/24 09:39 PM
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Yeah but a girl that has nothing from you except your instagram won't know that will she.
/r/seduction04/04/24 09:38 PM
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You got this easy
/r/seduction04/04/24 09:37 PM
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Yes, more reading. More research.
/r/seduction04/04/24 09:37 PM
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Neither is mine, it's full of posts of men and women doing things. That's the point, the woman doesn't need to be doing anything suggestive for me to be attracted to her. If she's hot she's hot, winter coat or lingerie
/r/seduction04/04/24 09:36 PM
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Forgetting about all that brain rot does miracles for you. You'll get your attention span back, you'll find "mundane" things more interesting, you'll save TIME, you'll get more stuff done and you won't feel the brainwashing taking over your inner game. What makes you burnt out? Is it the rejections or is it leading nowhere?
/r/seduction04/04/24 12:26 PM
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Exactly, what's worse is that a girl like that is in all likelihood "attainable". It's just you're looking at her through a screen which means she'll never be attainable... you can find the EXACT same girl at the pool or the beach. I hate that I see a girl online and think she's amazing. I shouldn't think a girl who's not real is amazing because my amazement of her will only lead nowhere every single time. At least being amazed by real girls can lead somewhere if my game is good enough. I'm gett…
/r/seduction04/04/24 12:21 PM
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My relationship with porn is not great either. Media consumption in general should be completely eliminated for optimal game. Improving my game is a very strong motivator and i think I can do it because I am passionate about this.
/r/seduction04/04/24 10:45 AM
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Get off yes, delete no. It can be a valuable DHV tool and a backup for failed number closes. Just don't use the app.
/r/seduction04/04/24 10:44 AM
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It's not practical to delete. It's practical to never use. I should only be using to text girls that I failed to number close and even then, the desired outcome out of texting on instagram will be to take it off of instagram and back onto phone numbers. Maybe post a couple pictures to DHV when they stalk your profile but under NO CIRCUMSTANCE should scrolling or looking at any post (apart from target's instagram) be part of my day. That's my plan going forward with instagram.
/r/seduction04/04/24 10:42 AM
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It's the next day now and I still haven't made any progress on day 6. I'll try my best to get it done today. I'll just brute force it and go up to them honestly. A bad conversation is better than no conversation
/r/seduction03/04/24 09:14 PM
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Yeah you're right man, I try not to think of obscure scaling and rather just if I like her or not because there are some crazy 10s out there that I am not attracted to and vise versa. Some 6s that'll scale mountains for. Day game feels impossible man, it seems no one wants to have a conversation. Thanks for the comment man
/r/seduction02/04/24 09:19 PM
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Teach me
/r/seduction02/04/24 12:48 PM
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It's impossible man, the game is the hardest thing I've ever worked on in my entire life. I am no where near conquering AA, as you might have read. I was not able to make any approaches in that rooftop apart from the HB9 despite there being plenty of options there. This was my third time going out. I've only known about the existence of the game for about 3-4 weeks. I am very new but I am putting alot of energy and effort into it.
/r/seduction02/04/24 06:43 AM
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Tell me about it man, game is hard. It gets easier the more you try though
/r/seduction02/04/24 06:20 AM
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You're right, there was no logic behind my fear and that's what fear is; illogical. In hindsight, I could've just done the most low effort "going in for the kiss" attempts and she would've loved it given how much she anticipated it. I remember when I messed up that routine, she whispered to her friend something about me being a seduction artist or something and that was the just the strangest point in my life 😂😂 2 hot af girls laughing at my failed routine and exposing me as a "seduction artist"…
/r/seduction02/04/24 06:19 AM
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Can't argue with that, I've got a few pointers from that night. Need to sharpen my routines up a bit and have a better variety. Also need to improve Kino escalation etc. Thanks for the comment man
/r/seduction02/04/24 06:01 AM
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Thanks man, I appreciate it. It just felt like a very low point bouncing from girl to girl with the same shit. There was also one girl that I did that marriage opener on and she told me "you already told me that earlier" and that hit hard man. I felt just like every other guy in the club when I know I was far more. Next time 100% will be better. I have alot to learn from. I'm even thinking about learning a little bit of dancing, solo and with a girl. I think that can really elevate my game. Woul…
/r/seduction02/04/24 06:00 AM
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As mystery himself put it. FMAC: Find, meet, attract and close. I really do need to diversify my list of routines and openers. I have mostly been reading stuff from 2000s and alot of that material is dated now, I need to look into more current routines and openers. I do strongly believe that good game is much like a performance or stand up comedy. It is about putting on a show and entertainment the audience enough to have them invested in what you have to say. Would you mind sharing with me your…
/r/seduction02/04/24 02:05 AM
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Yeah that could be a good way to get started off of an opener but my worry with that line of conversation is that's all the conversation ever will be. Logical questioning about where she got her bag, what her taste is like in clothes and before you know it, we're talking comparing convenience stores -_- I want stimulating interactions, emotion charged moments and genuine none-mundane conversations. Could it be said that I am rushing into it? Potentially but take Stella for example. Not once did …
/r/seduction01/04/24 09:33 PM
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Fuck man, you're right. Stella was dying to be with me and I knew that. Some part of my head just wanted her to wait because I KNOW she's never had someone make her wait like that before. I knew she got attention and had much better guys than I at her disposal. I had to make her "wait" and make myself seem like a prize. She grew even more attatched the more I pulled away. I will admit I overplayed that so hard and I struggled to transition from that into gradual escalation in touch. I didn't kno…
/r/seduction01/04/24 09:27 PM
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Haha, thanks man. I've definitely hit a point in my game where I'm looking at stupid mistakes and thinking "I could've fixed that so easily". A part of me is still worried that I won't get the same opportunities I did when I made those mistakes. For example, I'm worried I'm never going to get a HB10 like that ever again. It's an irrational fear or maybe it's not but hey, such is life
/r/seduction01/04/24 09:03 PM
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Elaborate
/r/seduction01/04/24 12:14 PM
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Thanks man, I'd love to read yours too. Hope my writing style made it seem not so long
/r/seduction01/04/24 12:06 PM
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I really appreciate that man, I hope my writing style made this long ass post somewhat readable. I guess I do target 7s and above. I know going lower would probably yield more success but I'm ambitious I guess. I'm playing the game out of refusal to settle for less. I want to be "worthy" of a HB11 one day. I want to be desired by that calibre of woman. While I am happy with the interactions, I'm disappointed that they didn't lead to anything physical or anything that could materialise into a dat…
/r/seduction01/04/24 09:50 AM
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Thanks, feel free to share your own or comment on any thing you think I can improve on
/r/seduction01/04/24 09:42 AM
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You just put this in perspective for me. It makes sense why she would not be interested in going out on a date. It wasn't really much more than making out for a couple of hours and a slither of conversation here and there to fill in the silence and make us each feel better about being this intimate with a stranger. I genuinely cannot get a hotel because it is simply impractical to spend $200 a night on the offchance my game will be successful enough to bring a girl back. Now car makes far more s…
/r/seduction01/04/24 04:51 AM
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I've always tried to take action. You call it cringe, unoriginal and perhaps even manipulative but I do not have the Witt or charisma to come up with these things myself. Being myself means I buy a girl a drink or treat her well just like every other chump who she's been blurring. This game as cringe as you may find it, makes me stand out, makes me unique and special to them. They've simply never seen it before because no guy has the guts to do this anymore. Especially nowadays where PUA culture…
/r/seduction01/04/24 02:06 AM
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I might just do that next time. That sounds much funnier/ outlandish and just on the off chance they believe it, they know they have rough competition. Thanks man
/r/seduction31/03/24 05:09 PM
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Lmao, I just finished reading The game By Neil Strauss. It's been my entry point into the game. She lived with her parents and i did with mine. There was no way it was going to happen.
/r/seduction31/03/24 05:01 PM
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I've had 22 years of being myself with no success. The most amount of success I've had was with this.
/r/seduction31/03/24 10:40 AM
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Alot of reading, research and studying for hours on end in the past month
/r/seduction31/03/24 08:00 AM
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I see, I think you'd have FAR more success with a different kind of opener. You sound like you've pretty much crushed approach anxiety. Not in a sense that you don't feel it but that you still feel it and go for the approach anyways which is impressive. I think these girls hear that they're attractive all the time, they benefit nothing from hearing it from the millionth time. Try maybe just going up and asking their opinion about something or asking why they look familiar to you. Intrigue them e…
/r/seduction31/03/24 07:35 AM
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When you approach them when they are on the move, you said they don't stop. Does it make it weird that you're walking with them all the sudden? How do you feel when you're doing it? Also is your opener "I thought you were cute" if yes, how do you follow up the "thank you so much"
/r/seduction31/03/24 06:43 AM
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I want to move on but it's hard man. She was perfect. I hate this AFC talk
/r/seduction31/03/24 06:09 AM
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Can I ask, are the women you approach just walking about in the street during the day or are they seated somewhere? Are they alone? Are they bothered that you've interrupted whatever they're doing to approach? I know these are all my limiting ideas but I wanted to get your view on them.
/r/seduction31/03/24 05:48 AM
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This is very interesting, do you think you've overcome rhe anxiety of approaching OR the anxiety of going up to a girl and telling her that "I thought you were gorgeous, are you taken etc". Do you find that your approach anxiety would be different if you had a different opener? I think I can get very comfortable with one specific opener and curb the AA somewhat but would that translate to all approaches or just with that opener.
/r/seduction29/03/24 01:06 PM
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Thanks man, just knowing that someone else is reading helps
/r/seduction29/03/24 11:49 AM
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That's actually really good advice. I think your comment is the perfect wording to an attitude I need to adopt to not only get good at this, but to also enjoy it more.
/r/seduction26/03/24 12:09 PM
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Hi, I have also been trying to go out solo but I always get asked the question "are you here with your friends?" Or "are you hear alone" or a million other variations. Did this happen to you at all?
/r/seduction04/03/24 08:14 AM
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That has got to be the dumbest advice ever. You think if being "myself" worked" I'd bothering with all this shit? Glad it works for you man, it doesn't for me and I've been 100x more successful with pua in the last week than I ever have been my entire life
/r/seduction27/02/24 09:20 PM
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Hi, it's not letting me direct message you, saying can't message this account or something.
/r/seduction27/02/24 06:01 AM
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That's probably the only good bit of advice I got so far, I think it's partly because i am just scared of uncertainty. The other part is a genuine lack of knowledge. Do you suggest after any sort of opener (not just this one) to simply react to her words? I keep thinking maybe I should seg way into a DHV because ultimately I am trying to get a close. A close I won't be successful at if I don't engage her enough. I guess my question is, how do you engage straight of an opener? When I get into tha…
/r/seduction27/02/24 02:44 AM
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Alright I get it, it's not an ideal opener, 😂😂. Give me one that you reckon will do better.
/r/seduction26/02/24 09:44 PM
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In hindsight I can see how this can seem like trolling but I shit you not, it's the truth. I've only done 2 Clash of clans approaches and they've worked better than "Hi, i thought you were cute what's your name" or variations of that. I've only done about 8 approaches in total. Regardless, even with other openers, after being received positively I still hit that sticking point where I don't know what to do or to say so I just say I have to go. The clash of clans thing is just like "fuck it what'…
/r/seduction26/02/24 09:34 PM
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You're not wrong, any better suggestions?
/r/seduction26/02/24 09:21 PM
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So here is a little context, I am 21 years old, up until 2022, I was very fat and broke. I never grew up as a natural, I never got attention from women and got bullied most of my life. I took 2023 very seriously and I'm pretty jacked, rich and I dress pretty elegant. I still got no attention unless I was proactive which I sometimes got lucky with, sometimes not. Now I want to get good at this. Any feedback is well appreciated. Thanks
/r/seduction26/02/24 09:20 PM
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