| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 152 | Opinion | If You Ignore Porn, You Aren’t Teaching Sex Ed | PORN SICK, LIMP DICK | LifePop | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 05:08 AM |
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| 70 | Ali Wong’s “Don Wong” ShowSomewhat— if we label her based on the way we label men, she would be considered LV since she has one huge red flag. I think this has been discussed briefly in another thread, but it echos a lot of FDS principles. Like a lot of other ladies have said, the only glaring flag is that she sounds pretty pornsick based on the special 😕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/22 02:35 AM |
| 7 | Valentine's Field ReportYour last line KILLED me! It’s actually my birthday today- I’ve gotta see these couples while I cackle in my birthday splendor 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 09:19 PM |
| 4 | STRATEGY: How to Emotionally DetachIf you use notes on Mac, you can also set a password to all your journal entries! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/22 04:49 PM |
| 48 | Dating Strategies for Asian WomenThank you for this! I definitely struggle with part 2, so I really appreciate that you put that into words. I’ve previously been self-guilting myself for being attracted to non-Asians because of my own perceived shame that surrounds Asian women dating outside of their race instead of dating within their race (something that I am working on). But the fact of the matter is that Asian men will not treat you better than any other man. There’s still more to unpack here for sure, but it’s great to rea… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/21 02:56 AM |
| 84 | Is anyone else sick of seeing YouTube recommend these types of videos to you?Yes! I’m sick of seeing these— it looks like they’re hiring pickmes to create clips and title them. 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/21 02:05 PM |
| 37 | Everyone is losing their minds at what a perfect man she has found and all I can think is how he made HER drive them to the date in HIS city. Do not EVER go to a man even if he pays for it. If he really wanted to see you he’d come to youThis! He’s using it to keep track. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/21 06:06 PM |
| 5 | How many red flags can you pack into 1 profile? LET'S COUNT!On topic but kind of off topic- what’s the likelihood that we could do this sort of activity on the sub weekly? I think this could be a great resource for women, especially those new to FDS and overcoming pickme tendencies, to practice spotting red flags by learning from other more experienced members! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/21 02:12 AM |
| 77 | Waiting tables tonightThere are some LVMs out there who are TELLING women that it’s rude when they take a girl out on a date and she doesn’t whip out her wallet as a showing of “courtesy”. Tell me how I know. 🤡 we need to save our sisters. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/21 03:12 PM |
| 64 | Here's something for your midday coffee break: watch Graham Stephen roast a "pickup artist boot camp"On top of that, he makes her pay rent at his giant house. Unfortunately LVM- I can’t imagine him being generous with her, given his brand of frugality. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/21 11:52 PM |
| 50 | The visuals or thoughts that are helping me move on. Add yours to the list!He wanted to continue to see me but continue to see other girls too, and break up with them when he got bored with them. Trash human behavior to treat other people as disposable beings for their own use. He was seeing another girl at the same time during the pandemic (pre-vax times) and purposely omitted that information until I initiated the "what are we" conversation. He could have killed me. I'm still seething. He got upset when I set the boundary that he couldn't have the same access to me a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 03:56 PM |
| 40 | Questions on Social Media & Cyber StalkingI deleted my Instagram account a little over a year ago and have not looked back. I personally went through some withdrawal from all of the parasocial relationships that I had subconsciously become accustomed to, so that might be something to keep in mind. I’ve also found that deleting my socials (ig + snap) actually helped me strengthen my friendships with some friends because we are both now having to put in the effort to maintain contact and keep up with each others’ lives. In turn, I weeded … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/21 12:11 AM |
| 40 | 90% of my OLD matches’ Instagram is female followers.It’s definitely a fake one. I had a guy I matched with from OLD from my pickme days follow me on his main account and then switch me to his photography account once he had a girlfriend. Scrotes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/21 10:00 PM |
| 11 | Moving cities for a better dating pool? Looking for advice on what to consider. (city ratio of women:men is too high)What’s your strategy for recognizing quickly when men are being insincere? I’m in my mid 20s and often find myself struggling to determine if someone is being genuine towards me these days. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 02:48 AM |
| 3 | 🚨Vetting Strategy: Watch how a man drivesThis! 👆I genuinely believe that you can tell a lot about someone’s personality and demeanor based on the way they drive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/21 11:39 PM |
| 31 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 14 - Dr. Gail Dines & the Queens Rage Against the Porn MachineDr. Gail Dines is a QUEEN. This pod was just straight queen shit and so validating in terms of the effects of porn sickness in men today | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 04:44 PM |
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