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I like this, and this is what I’ve been doing more recently actually. I have found a good girl, I have learned what I have needed to here, and I am beginning to distance myself from these forums as a result of the anger these stories cause. Funny enough, she is the one with the Disney princess story in her mind about how we met. Thank you for your comment
/r/TheRedPill01/06/22 06:04 PM
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I like this response a lot more than the other one. I agree with you, as men we have to be the rock and solve our own problems. Women weren’t born to have such responsibilities. Thanks
/r/TheRedPill31/05/22 07:13 PM
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I like what you mentioned about wrong expectations, and that is the basis of why we are all here. We were all lied to about the true nature of women, and after understanding what they are really like we go through the many phases that red pill talks about. However, your first recommendation on stop with the falling in love shit sounds retarded. How can we control one of the strongest emotions that have led us to create families, civilizations, and children? And also, to recommend that we stop fa…
/r/TheRedPill31/05/22 07:10 PM
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Reading posts like these just fill my mind with anger. Though I have been accustomed to these ideas for a while, does the anger phase really ever go away? I’m trying to date this girl now, and try and fall in love with her, but going back to things like red pill and stories like these just make me pull back more. Knowing that you can get hurt as soon as a better option comes a long - that when the fun is over she will move in - sparks the fear of abandonment inside of me and makes it difficult t…
/r/TheRedPill31/05/22 06:11 PM
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It’s about what you think of your self, your confidence or self worth. Thanks for this
/r/TheRedPill20/04/22 04:11 AM
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Spot on Karl, tried this today with success. Much more effective than pushing for it and forcing it like you mentioned back then. Thank you
/r/TheRedPill18/03/22 06:38 AM
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Can you touch on lacanian psychoanalysis and in general things you have learned about the psychology of women , approaching , or yourself? Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/22 06:10 PM
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Hey man, thanks for the advice. First two lessons are really important, many people here miss those. Can you touch on more of rock hard frame? What do you come off as/ why do you think frame is all that matters? Could you provide some examples? Thanks
/r/TheRedPill20/01/22 06:11 PM
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Best post I’ve seen you write, bravo.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/21 11:44 PM
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Great advice, gonna try it
/r/TheRedPill05/01/21 11:20 PM
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That was hilarious, thanks for the wisdom
/r/askTRP20/12/20 08:26 AM
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I don’t think looks are the problem
/r/askTRP20/12/20 08:26 AM
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This is some really good content, thank you man. I’m going to read this over a few times. Seems like I got to be a bit more challenging in my approaches, after I build the comfort I can do something like this: you know what , you really are such a nice girl. I just wish you also played the piano too 😔. This could start the qualification and teasing stage. What do you think on that?
/r/askTRP19/12/20 08:32 PM
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I watched the video, really didn’t learn a lot from it. Seems like a washed down version of how to win friends and influence people. What did you learn from this video that you could highlight?
/r/askTRP19/12/20 08:28 PM
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Only thing I can think of is the challenge them and tease. When I said question mode in the title it’s not like I say x?, answer. x? Answer x? Answer. I offer some intro into my life, make statements too, but try to get to know about the girl as well and make herself qualify to me. In this set I said things like I live an awesome life and I’m just trying to find a girl that improves it and things like this to come off as DHV. I didn’t really do too much teasing (I said one thing I mentioned in a…
/r/askTRP19/12/20 06:07 PM
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In real life. It seems that the two main ways to get girls is OLD and social circles. I don’t have the right social circles, and I don’t think I will ever try OLD I hate it. Cold approach and night game are my best bets, but both have become a lot more tough recently (though I have had the same sticking points)
/r/askTRP19/12/20 06:01 PM
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I agree. One thing I have learned about girls in any scenario is that conversations flow super well with some compared to others. This is never dependent on me, but rather the other girl. Same exact day, I approached a girl where we had a great conversation (she truly had a bf), but it’s those conversations I know that can lead to something. This one was giving massive IOIs for a shy submissive girl, but it’s just hard to get them into the same type of great conversations an extroverted girl can…
/r/askTRP19/12/20 06:00 PM
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I usually have better responses texting same day
/r/askTRP19/12/20 05:56 PM
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Also, just want to add something from earlier today maybe someone could offer good advice on. I approached a girl working at a fashion store. Totally my type, tall blond and feminine. We talked, had a ok conversation, but I got so many IOIs. Crossed legs, brushing hair, smiling at my jokes, told me i major in fitness for school(liked my body), complimented my height, and a bit more. I got her number, texted her, and just 0 response. This gets so frustrating getting rejected over like this so fre…
/r/askTRP19/12/20 09:36 AM
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Thanks, quite an informative video. Also wanted to say I appreciate your recent post about America hating it’s citizens, I too plan to make money and leave this dump
/r/askTRP28/11/20 09:07 AM
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It is luck, your talking hindsight bias now. I also got in Tesla early. I got a call options three months out at $58 split adjusted. This was last year in august I believe. The timing was luck. I believe that you think Tesla will take you to become a millionaire(probably even multimillionaire) but it is heavily overvalued right now. I doubt I can convince you to take your money out, as that is near possible, but I suggest you start thinking of the possibility of a looming market recession and wh…
/r/askTRP28/11/20 06:50 AM
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I’m in crypto heavily, but it’s only one income stream. What else?
/r/askTRP28/11/20 05:53 AM
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This was a great comment. I wonder, what are your recommendations to change this mindset.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/20 01:37 AM
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It’s been a little more tough, but make your game tougher
/r/askTRP08/11/20 06:52 PM
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Dumb people downvoting this, great wisdom my friend
/r/TheRedPill03/11/20 05:36 AM
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Have you done cold approach? Are there any fundamental things you changed from getting a lot of numbers and no dates to getting a lot of dates?
/r/askTRP02/11/20 04:11 AM
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I think I am at this level for the most part. However, I am told I have a quiet and monotone voice
/r/askTRP02/11/20 03:48 AM
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Good point with making it more sexual. What do you mean by the I am... part. Could you explain a bit more there?
/r/askTRP16/10/20 11:00 PM
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Could you define a nice guy approach and what approach you think is better?
/r/askTRP16/10/20 06:44 AM
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I’ll try that out. I have done this before, but don’t notice anything different in results. The only thing that changes in a woman’s mind would be wow he is confident, but they already think that just from my approach. Nonetheless, I’ll try it out. Thanks man. Any other advice or things you changed that significantly improved your results?
/r/askTRP15/10/20 06:09 PM
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I do try and set up a date in person, say we will figure out the time over text. I have noticed that with successful daygame I usually get a certain look when saying bye to the girl. Now I’m starting to think that this look conveys sexual attraction. When it is missing, it goes nowhere. Thanks man
/r/askTRP15/10/20 06:01 PM
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This is good advice, thank you for this. I think showing sexual intent is one of the main issues I have now. For now, all I really ever do is say your pretty / I like your style and then show dominant eye contact. I know of the escalation ladder, however it’s not like I can use that one someone working a job. How would you recommend escalating?
/r/askTRP15/10/20 04:11 PM
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Yes, but not enough. I tend to hand out a compliment to state my intent, but don’t go too far into it after that. I believe sexual intent is one of the issues I have
/r/askTRP15/10/20 04:09 PM
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Don’t think this is good advice, but I appreciate your comment
/r/askTRP15/10/20 04:07 PM
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Probably to finish the conversation and move on, or as a source of validation from a man texting her. Usually, the numbers I get are not fake numbers.
/r/askTRP15/10/20 06:51 AM
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Thanks for the advice my friend, that approach method of yours sounds like a great idea I’m glad it works out for you. How would you recommend expanding ones social circle? Most people my age, 20, are caught up in social media and other wastes of time and so it is difficult to meet people I value and would genuinely want to be good friends with. Especially when we bring in the topic of meeting hot girls,I just don’t know how to get in a social circle with hot girls. Any advice you would recommen…
/r/TheRedPill14/10/20 10:17 PM
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Advice for game in LA? I’m having difficulty with cold approaching at places like Venice beach I’m a bit young and don’t have too big a social circle, and so I’ve been relying on trying daygame
/r/TheRedPill14/10/20 01:55 AM
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Serious question: where are you finding these 10s in LA? I have been there, and have noticed far hotter women in different parts of the world
/r/TheRedPill13/10/20 07:13 PM
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I am nexting, as I am not going back to this place and can’t see her again( reason why I pushed for casual sex) but there was no doubt she was into me. I have had lots of experience with daygame and body language and there was attraction.
/r/askTRP20/08/20 06:56 AM
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Yes, but my number to date ratio right now is <5%. That’s why there is a problem. I can go back and look at each specific scenario, but it starts with recognizing that I am the problem and have to fix some part of my game. I appreciate your advise, do you daygame often? We can share notes
/r/askTRP18/06/20 10:23 PM
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Useful video, but not exactly what I’m looking for. I like Todd V, but seems so simplistic. Many people on here don’t do the self analysis / ask the difficult why questions. I am trying to find the answer to my why question
/r/askTRP18/06/20 04:37 PM
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I can hook in person. I am quite charismatic and know how to make em laugh. That ain’t the problem. So I’m questioning what is. I think I’m too forward ( which would work well in bars / alchol) but not day time
/r/askTRP18/06/20 04:36 PM
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Trying to find a good split, thank you. Any suggestions on ways you have been self improving over break other than the common ones?
/r/askTRP08/05/20 07:52 PM
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I appreciate the kind comment. Your second response is more so what I was looking for with this question. I have tried computer science, and am not a fan. Any other suggestions?
/r/askTRP08/05/20 07:52 PM
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I’m not necessarily claiming I’m happy or unhappy. I’m saying I’m bored, and am just waiting on time to progress which is bad because time is valuable. Therefore, my question is what suggestions do others here have to enjoy my time now and learn from it
/r/askTRP08/05/20 07:36 PM
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I’ve read it. I understand the purpose aspect of life, but my current career purpose involves going to work which will start in a year after I graduate. That’s the problem, my time now is just waiting for things to progress. I want to make the most of my time, so I was looking for new suggestions to try to enjoy my current time before getting to the rest of my life
/r/askTRP08/05/20 07:34 PM
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Best country for feminine talk white girls with blue eyes?
/r/askTRP29/09/19 07:43 AM
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I think behavior in general shows who is the prize in the relationship. Man hugging girl? He’s needy. Girl kissing guy? He’s a better option, showing him she is his. Would you agree? The problem is how often the guy mate guards. And which such high smv differentials, that is a problem...
/r/askTRP29/09/19 06:03 AM
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See what I mean?
/r/askTRP29/09/19 05:33 AM
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Thanks for the comment, I get the whole escalation ladder thing so I’ll use your advice. Quick note, although I 100% agree to your post, I feel as if there is something missing. In the cases where a guy can go home with a chick what is happening. Large smv gap so she thinks this is the best she can get? Friend went home so she doesn’t want to feel lonely? I know there are lots of extraneous factors, but if you were to sum it up what would that be.
/r/askTRP21/09/19 05:07 PM
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Quick add on. Last two numbers seemed pretty good, decent IOIs not amazing, but both agreed to hanging out after I asked for their schedule. Yet when I text then no response. First was somewhat entertaining, second was boring but with a more traditional girl so it made sense
/r/askTRP19/09/19 07:32 PM
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I lost a friend
/r/askTRP15/08/19 02:26 PM
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In my opinion it gives it a more playful tone, in mind is “treat them like your little sister”, but I see where your coming from.
/r/askTRP14/08/19 06:55 AM
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Hey man, I often think about what you were talking about with identifying your pool. I want to find what pool do chicks find me the most attractive, so that I can get the highest smv girl I can from this group. How can I find what pool is after me other than just keeping a tally of IOIs from certain groups of girls. If it helps, I think the hottest girls I get IOIs from are at the gym.
/r/askTRP04/08/19 07:10 AM
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