Lifter3647 Archive

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12	Dating coaching - too pricey? worth it. look at it as an investment in yourself. the coach will identify your sticking points to work on which is really difficult to do yourself. I’d opt for in field coaching. At the end of your life, you will not care about 3k, but you will likely regret not having a partner.	/r/seduction	13/09/24 11:00 AM
12	College Campus is still a gold mine. 34yr old back after five years Day Game Good for you dude. I’d try to hang out near the perimeter of the campus rather than on the campus so that you have plausible deniability. Also fuck all the losers and haters who are jealous that you are dating younger and more attractive women. Some of these women absolutely love older men.	/r/seduction	12/09/24 04:50 AM
21	Banned from dating apps forced to approach IRL I was the same way. Lots of OLD experience but little cold approach. You wont become great overnight, but if you work at it, cold approach is like being in god mode. I’ve been cold approaching for 4-5 months and went from nothing to same night lays and day game pulls and insta-dates. Your fundamentals and technique are probably off, and you don’t know why (could be anything). If you are serious i’d suggest getting some coaching so they can identify your sticking points and you can get some ways …	/r/seduction	11/09/24 03:53 PM
2	Never had a girlfriend, how to turn my life around? Good news. Seduction is a skill set that can be learned. It will be a roller coaster, you will have unbelievable highs and equally frustrating lows. Both the highs and lows are part of the hero’s journey. However in the long run, you will have the kind of dating life that most men could only dream of.	/r/seduction	09/09/24 02:20 AM
1	Weird Problem, but You Ever Feel Like You Have Too Many Friends? You may be coming off uncalibrated then. Direct game should work at least a portion of the time. It does lead to a lot of fast no’s, but also a number of true yes’s.	/r/seduction	08/09/24 12:32 PM
1	Weird Problem, but You Ever Feel Like You Have Too Many Friends? Your attitude needs to be “fuck me or fuck off.” Sexualize your conversations with attractive women more. It’s great that you can make friends, but i’m guessing you are giving off people pleaser vibes. Your vocal tonality is probably off. You don’t build sexual tension. You may make a lot of friends that way, and they may kind of like you. But you are not taking enough risks in your conversation and thus are getting friend zoned by the hotties. Risk pissing some women off and getting hard reject…	/r/seduction	08/09/24 01:36 AM
30	Losing confidence after a bad night out Bad nights will happen. Even elite pickup artists get skunked once in a while. A high level pickup artist might pull and close 80% of the time. One bad night does not even mean anything in the grand scheme of things. Recently, I had pulled a girl from the club. Brought her to venue #2. Things are going great… make out, dancing, she’s escalating on me… im about to get laid, and she’s a hotty. We are just about to leave when someone said “hey you dated my brother”… within 60 seconds she then start…	/r/seduction	30/08/24 04:02 PM
6	Woman who act entitled and stuck up maybe don’t judge women by their outward appearance. you can absolutely find chemistry with beautiful women if your game is tight. in my experience the hotter women are often the most feminine and are very sweet. these women are not stuck up for everyone, just the beta males without any game.	/r/seduction	29/08/24 11:55 PM
1	Dating is so draining. Never get second dates. You have to ask yourself why they are pulling away. You might be too logical and are not giving the girl the right emotions.	/r/seduction	29/08/24 02:48 PM
2	Dating is so draining. Never get second dates. Online dating is an absolute crapshoot because you often match with people you have no chemistry with. Cold approach is a better narrative for the girl. I think you should stop settling for kiss closes and start pushing for f-closes. a kiss means nothing. many of these girls are looking to fuck and you are playing the beta nice guy game.	/r/seduction	29/08/24 04:10 AM
14	Tips on getting someone out of your league You’ve already lost. Your frame needs to be, I’m a 10 and she’s a 5. Me = 10. She = 5. Always. She only jumps to 10 when she marries your ass.	/r/seduction	29/08/24 12:56 AM
3	How to overcome approach anxiety? I’ve made it to level 9. I’m a boss.	/r/seduction	28/08/24 02:28 AM
1	Need some sense slapped into me 33m went on a date with 21f you had a really good date? i beg to differ. you might have liked her, but she did not view it as a good date because if she did she’d be more eager to see you.	/r/seduction	26/08/24 07:16 AM
4	I literally cant talk with girls and I need help baby steps. start with small talk to cashiers. give compliments. give compliments to women in passing. i like your shirt, dress, glasses, etc. if it’s a random girl walking I almost always say excuse me first. smile. you can ask for directions to the nearest starbucks and then turn a conversation flirty. then you can start working your way up to direct approaches. “I saw you and I think you are cute.” this will be really hard, but if you have been doing the compliments and everything you will be…	/r/seduction	24/08/24 08:06 PM
2	How do you deal with women that have strong personalities? Ask yourself whether you really want such a woman in the first place.	/r/seduction	24/08/24 07:59 PM
-1	Are girls in their early 20’s more sexually open than girls in their 18-19 why does it matter? they are all young, fertile, and can be dtf if you run good game. it’s a distinction without a difference	/r/seduction	24/08/24 07:56 PM
11	Is age a limiting factor as a man? You are correct that not every girl is open to age gap dating. However there are a lot of women who love it. 20% prefer a guy significantly older, 60% are indifferent, and 20% are not into it at all. it’s like that for a lot of attributes though. tats vs no tats, beard vs clean shaven, height, race, etc.	/r/seduction	24/08/24 10:52 AM
85	Is age a limiting factor as a man? You can bag plenty of young 20s women in your 30s. There are even guys in their 40s that still kill it with girls in their 20s. Many girls prefer to be with an older man and love the experience and wisdom that you bring. It’s a double edged sword though… because you have to run tight game (no neediness or insecurities) or she will look at you like even more of a beta loser than the guy in his 20s who displays the same behaviors. The expectations are higher for the 30yr old than the 20 yr old, bu…	/r/seduction	24/08/24 01:58 AM
1	How to be the person that attracts women? Approach women every single day. Start with compliments in passing and work your way up to a more direct approach. The key is consistency.	/r/seduction	19/08/24 03:01 PM
259	Have you ever regretted going for the kiss No, only regret it if it was poorly executed. In fact I got rejected on a first date kiss… i went for it and she turned her cheek. I was pretty bummed, but she must have respected that i went for it because the next time we hung out I banged her and had the best sex of my life to that point.	/r/seduction	02/06/24 05:24 PM