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Marriage/ChildrenLiftsLinage/r/MensRights06/01/23 10:30 AM
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Look I think using porn as an example might be stupid as fuck but all I'm gonna say is there is a reason MILF categories do so well. You're generalizing because of your own personal negativity bias. Most men don't actually feel unattracted to older women. They feel unattracted to 30+ year Olds that have let themselves go.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 09:26 AM
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The only way I can see this working, from a red pill perspective, is by assuring him he is competent already. Men have a desire to feel needed and competent, and he obviously has drawn the conclusion that he can't bring the necessary value to you or your relationship. If you're deadset on making this work, you would likely need to very carefully build up his self-confidence. You would have to avoid offering to mother him first off, you're trying to be caring by offering him money but he is takin…
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/24 09:07 AM
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Imagine expressing interest in talking to a person and the other person responding like a wet noodle. She 100% is the issue here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 11:35 AM
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You wishing for things to go back to the way they were is essentially hoping for him to instantly become so emotionally mature that he is able to find a place within himself for what he encountered in your journal. And judging from what you've said, the fact that he can't do that seems to be the whole problem. He won't just "be okay" with it. And honestly you need to evaluate if you're willing to stick with this fight. Edit: that is to say that he just simply does not have the emotional maturity…
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/24 12:53 PM
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I needed this. Thanks man.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/06/24 06:54 AM
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OYS #2 Stats: 29yo, 180cm, 84kgs, 15-17% bodyfat - Wife 28, married 2 years together 3 years Lifts: DL - 180kg * 4, Squat - 140 kg * 3. Bench - 110 kg * 2 Mission: Grow business. Get to 12% bodyfat. Game harder. Reading: NMMNG - first time, it is life changing. Read: 12 Rules for Life, Atomic Habits, How to make friends and influence people, 100m Leads Lifts: Hit a bunch of PRs this last week while on a cut, which I am so stoked about. Both my squat and my deadlift I can now do multiple reps of …
/r/MarriedRedPill26/06/24 09:33 AM
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Just wanted to add here I've started with this and it is actually life changing so far.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/06/24 09:12 AM
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God. I think you're actually right. Fucking hell.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/24 10:25 AM
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OYS #1 - June 20 Stats: 29yo, 5'11, 186.7315 - Wife 28, married 2 years together 3 years Lifts: 405 DL, 315 SQ, 245 BN. Have some progession photos in my profile went from a fat fuck to somebody that actually looks like he works out. Reading: 12 Rules for Life, Atomic Habits, How to make friends and influence people, 100m Leads Business: Working on building a business, also got a new job. Want to do a lot better here. I make average money as a software engineer in the EU. But there is a lot more…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/24 08:25 AM
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There was no correct answer. He is the problem not you, and I am pretty sure he knows that which is probably why he feels extra bad about it.
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/24 09:09 PM
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It depends on the type of man your husband is. When I gained weight my wife and commented on how I hated it, my wife tried to manage my feelings and make me feel better about the situation. I get it, that's just the nurturing kicking in, but it probably would have helped me get off my ass slightly sooner if she kindly agreed that I needed to get into shape again. It's a hard conversation to have, but for me, a direct conversation is best. For most men I think it would be the same.
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/24 07:21 AM
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I already go to the gym literally 5-6 days a week. And whilst that has dramatically helped. There are still other quiet moments.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/24 06:53 AM
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How do you break away from social media for an hour tops per week? That seems crazy. I don't doom scroll anymore but my day to day can sometimes be pretty bland and in those moments I whip out my phone. I find it difficult to believe that people can just be productive from the moment they open their eyes to the moment they close them at night. Am I missing something?
/r/MarriedRedPill26/02/24 10:41 PM
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Would you say this advice applies to men too? I resonate with many things you said, except the genders are reversed and it's tough.
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/24 11:25 PM
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Dude what? How do I tag a mod
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/24 08:33 PM
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I mean, I think your question is a bit backwards. You're asking if the majority of men tend to want to be providers, tough to say. I think that's likely the case, but they want to play video games, get drunk and be lazy more. It's not a mutually exclusive relationship between these concepts. You can want both things at once. The difference is that high value men, will grow up and will realize that delayed gratification is really where fulfillment is at. Additionally consider the point that men t…
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/23 02:04 PM
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This is a tough post to read. I think that it's great that you're trying to do everything you can to make sure your husband finds you attractive. And I want to remind you that he wouldn't be married to you if he didn't find you attractive. Which brings me to my point; I don't think you can change the specifics of what he's attracted to. Whether or not it's unreasonable or unsustainable in real life. He can probably change his rigid views and the way that he communicates with you about it, but ul…
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/23 08:48 PM
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I don't see how my comment at all ignored that. It seems to me like an entirely separate discussion to what OP was saying or what I was talking about?
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/23 05:28 PM
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Ah, that makes sense. I've lived in coastal cities and I've noticed people there generally focus more on how their bodies look. Makes sense I guess since beach wear is more common.
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/23 07:41 AM
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I think that this kind of applies to everyone. The hardest part about picking up a couple of kilograms is knowing your partner has to deal with it as much as you do. Good for you though. It feels great when you're in a place where you're happy with your body.
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/23 07:24 AM
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My wife and I apply this too. Where are you from? If you don't mind me asking.
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/23 07:19 AM
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We actually met at work. We're both software developers. I honestly can't tell you where to meet another girl like her. I don't really think I have love or relationships figured out to a T either. I got really really lucky and I am fully aware of that. But maybe there's a lesson in there somewhere about dating people within your sphere of hobbies or interests
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/23 08:20 PM
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Also pretty invasive. But to answer your question truthfully, she was conventionally pretty yes. But she was also arguably the least attractive of all my long term relationships. Including my wife I've had 3.
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/23 08:09 PM
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I feel like that's a bit of an invasive question
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/23 06:46 PM
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Yes! Absolutely be straight forward, sit him down and tell him. My wife told me she was developing feelings for me before I did. You can say it without it coming across as needy or like you're chasing him. Depending on what you're comfortable with, my wife did it in a kind of a playful way where she hinted that she had developed a crush on me. That was enough for me. It was kind of like her putting the ball in my court and telling me that she wants me to pursue her romantically. Sometimes guys a…
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/23 05:40 PM
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Absolutely, it's a good question. At the time I was dealing with a LOT of personal stuff, family wise and I knew that any relationship I was going to have at that time could be influenced by what was happening in my life. I decided before I even started dating my wife that if I met somebody before my situation cleared itself up (it was already in the process of being sorted out) that I would just be honest and straight forward on the very first date. And as hard as it was, I just put all my card…
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/23 05:24 PM
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There were many reasons for that, obviously it wasn't hell for 8 years. There were moments that were good which makes you stick around and try again. That, and I wasn't always perfect either made me believe that maybe I deserved to be treated badly. Ontop of some bad examples my parents set for what a relationship should look like made me stick through a lot more than I should have. And honestly, I loved her. I believe in giving second chances because I was given one in life when I desperately n…
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/23 05:09 PM
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Hi, Guy here. 27. I doubt it has much to do with your looks, I was in a relationship for 8 years with a woman and honestly only once thought that I wanted to propose but didn't because she treated me awfully and she just wasn't marriage material. A bit after that relationship ended I started dating my now wife and honestly couldn't wait to lock it down due to how she acted and treated me. The right energy will absolutely give off wife vibes. She was serious about me and our relationship from the…
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/23 10:58 AM
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I am a man, and can honestly tell you that I have no problem with cosmetic surgery (within reason of course), I think that we all owe it to ourselves to be the best version if ourselves we can be. Being a happier more fulfilled version of you, will Ultimately make you a better partner too.
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/23 08:53 AM
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That's such good news. I am really happy you guys talked it out.
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/22 07:51 AM
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He doesn't realize how lucky he is to have you. I think it's a simple matter of telling him that these are qualities that you are proud of and more importantly that he himself once valued, ask him to think critically about what teasing could imply and tell him it hurts your feelings. He absolutely should value you and as a minimum make am effort when you tell him something matters to you.
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/22 01:19 AM
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I'm a man, just decided to come browse this subreddit and I will say that where I am right now I actually kind of relate with this a little with my wife. We've had a crazy year and it was stressful, but whenever something does not go 100% smooth she gets angry, upset and will often take it out on me. I'm sort of at wits end with it. I've dealt with the same stress she has, and have gone through all of the same hardship. We decided to immigrate countries and naturally that puts a strain on anyone…
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/22 06:28 AM
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