LightBearCares Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
6	The story of Timmy Lol they're barely of legal age, it's more hilarious than anything	/r/TheRedPill	13/11/18 09:16 PM
2	Met girl in court. Used 2nd language. Fuck 1.5hrs later. Plate. Great FR, lol'd at the American Psycho moment	/r/TheRedPill	28/09/18 05:46 PM
1	February 23 - Weekly Improvement & Progress Thread -Put a few hours on my day off to learn how to sample music tracks, combining them, etc. -"Ran" 3 miles for the first time in a while. Ankles and feet were and are still not cooperating with me, so taking it really easy and getting a lot of rest -Went to the gym 6 times this week, walk a mile everyday as the bare minimum, no matter what -Tried to hook up with some chick I met, didn't go through, glad to get that out of my chest -Work on decompressing at the end of each day and meditating/silence…	/r/TheRedPill	25/02/18 05:46 PM
1	What do YOU want? Found TRP around January of 2015. I mostly lurk here and rarely do I post. I like reading a lot more and then applying some of the lessons from here. To be honest, I've only had sex about three to four times all of last year, all with different women. Sex barely registers as a necessity for me, and oddly do I get an itch for it during a few days out of the year (I'm only in my late 20s). I don't hate women at all, but I'm enjoying the MGTOW route more than anything right now. For now, dating see…	/r/TheRedPill	16/02/18 02:44 AM
1	Making myself less available I like the changes you've made so far. As long as you stick to your guns for the long run, you should see some changes in her attitude.	/r/TheRedPill	02/01/18 07:36 PM
2	Can't afford a gym? THAT'S JUST AN EXCUSE. Stop with the EXCUSES I'm living in my car and still have enough for a $20 gym membership. Doing the 5x5 program as well as cardio. What's your excuse?	/r/TheRedPill	30/12/17 12:42 AM
3	You will Lose - But you're not a loser Very concise and well condensed for digestion. Fucking love this shit. Saved/bookmarked/etc.	/r/TheRedPill	18/12/17 04:42 PM
2	Dost thou even Hoist, gentle sir? I remember being stressed about something a few weeks ago and suddenly, I realized that hitting the gym not only increases testosterone, but also lowers cortisol and helps you manage stress a lot better. It wasn't even that I wasn't going to the gym already, but the fact that that basic fact stared me in the face this whole time light up a bulb over my head. I can assure you that lifting does fucking wonders, especially in this day and age of dwindling testosterone levels.	/r/TheRedPill	08/12/17 07:24 PM
1	Holding frame means EVERYWHERE One way I practice with holding frame is starting conversations with short responses and then throwing a tidbit of my views here and there. I am mostly asking questions and engaging in listener mode, genuinely. I'm mostly quiet and affirm their answers with a "I see", "Understandable", "fair enough", etc. I like to get as deep as possible with a certain topic with them until I exhaust it and have no questions in regards to the topic. It helps to build rapport and even open the floor for more con…	/r/TheRedPill	08/12/17 07:14 PM
2	I've lived on TheRedPill for years, I still get depressed TRP is not meant to solve all of your problems. I don't mean to say this in a in-your-face attitude, it's the reality of it. TRP can help you navigate life up to a certain extent. Even so, I break the rules as I see fit. I couldn't give two shits if I did do something that isn't along the core teachings of TRP. Be your own witness to your own greatness. Make your own love story. I know the sadness that you describe, yet this is the best way I can put it.	/r/TheRedPill	28/11/17 02:41 AM
1	[FR] Female coworkers around the water cooler From my standpoint, I still would've seen the chick that lied to me. Why? First off, I'm at the bar because I want to, not because I'm solely there to see her. I want a drink and she just so happens to meet up with me. Whether she shows up or not doesn't matter. I go with no expectations. Second of all, let's say she does show up. If she's ugly as fuck, it'd still be a hell of a story to tell. I'm witness and storyteller to my own fable. Would I bang her? Who knows, we might just enjoy our time …	/r/TheRedPill	24/11/17 11:14 PM
1	The Authentic Red Pill Well put. For some, TRP is their first ever epiphany. For others, it affirms us of the path we already are in life. For a rather few number, it's a stumbling block.	/r/TheRedPill	10/10/17 12:49 AM
1	AWALT - My Sister Can confirm. Living with a female roommate (I'm not fucking her for good reason). She has a boyfriend, but brings a guy over here and there. You see it unfold like the Hollywood red carpet.	/r/TheRedPill	23/09/17 05:32 AM
1	Yes, Virginia, you do have to be an asshole. "I'ma get mine". That's always something I used to tell myself while in the military too. Helpful indeed.	/r/TheRedPill	21/09/17 11:01 PM
3	"Why so many women cheat on their husbands" What does your wife do in the day, when you're gone? Does she work, is she just a housewife? Is she does work, can you imagine her coming home from work and she has all these issues but you drown her voice out with your worries? If she stays home all day, imagine how she's bored out of her mind, waiting to see you but you drown her out with your worries and she loses her excitement? It's a double-edged sword. You need to read the sidebar again, if you said that you guys had an amazing sex life p…	/r/TheRedPill	21/09/17 10:57 PM
1	Medical issue kept me out of the gym for nearly 2 months. Returned to the gym today and learned that lifting is by far the most important part of TRP. Don't take the gym for granted. I had 4 month of hard work flushed down the drain as well, starting as a newbie doing 5x5. I got really tangled with debt and thought I should work more and ignore the gym for the time being. In retrospect, I didn't even make more money, got depressed, and lost my progress. It all tumbled into a negative feedback loop. Now I've started again, and getting back to where I need to be.	/r/TheRedPill	21/09/17 11:04 AM
3	On dating, an esoteric spiritual perspective. It's hard to describe it, but it's almost all a paradox: we can choose just how we spend our day, yet there's a natural trajectory in which we all take that may have already designated our partners in life, our careers, our teachers, mentors, etc. Personally, I do believe that we have all chosen all of these people and situations prior to our incarnation onto this world. The system we see in our everyday lives, whether portrayed on television or with our own two lives, is a giant machine that ke…	/r/TheRedPill	17/09/17 09:11 PM
1	"Do the women around here get to talk?" A short lesson in how women completely control men and the dialogue In some ways, it doesn't matter if she has the floor to speak (this can also be applied in a general way). You can just ignore whatever the hell comes out of her mouth, or take whatever you find valuable from her rant, however grand or miniscule that may be.	/r/TheRedPill	16/09/17 11:32 PM
1	Orlando Karate Teacher Sent Nude Photos To 11-year-old Boy In Her Class ROFL this gave me a good chuckle, not only this post but also some of the "serious" replies here. Come on guys, liven up a bit.	/r/TheRedPill	15/09/17 07:19 AM
2	Called up all the chads from high school, this is what they said to me. You need a personal blog/diary, for your own sake. It's fine that you get to write out your personal distress but before you consider posting here, I suggest you post this on your own blog or something and probably edit your post to make it more geared towards this subreddit afterwards. I have a blog myself, as well as a personal diary, for when I want to share certain thoughts, with myself and/or others. Try it out, it should help.	/r/TheRedPill	10/09/17 01:59 AM
14	Living with a female roommate after swallowing the Red Pill Can't say much but I have a similar situation as well, except that she's my landlord that lives with me and my other guy roommate. I come home from work and she's having a "talk" with some good-looking dude that has his Range Rover parked outside, and they're sitting pretty close to each other. It gets me a little heated that she has a boyfriend that she broke up with and got back together with, only so that he can take care of her son (on top of his two other girls from another relationship) wh…	/r/TheRedPill	08/09/17 11:26 PM
2	Where the red pill might actually hurt - perpetuating bad behaviors on both sides. She probably never had a sliver of compassion shown to her by another man, perhaps even her father. But one can ruminate for eternity all the "what-ifs" and whatnot. The Red Pill, for the most part, works. Can it be used in malicious ways? Yes. Can it be utilized in a positive fashion? Most certainly. However you utilize the means to reach your end goal with TRP is what will define your character as a person. TRP is a toolbox with an array of assets, indeed, but these kinds of questions do still…	/r/TheRedPill	08/09/17 07:30 AM
3	How to deal with depression, and what NOT to do. Thanks man, I do notice that slippage in myself and I have to keep things going consistently. Fall out of a routine and it all messes things up.	/r/TheRedPill	07/09/17 09:01 PM
5	How to deal with depression, and what NOT to do. Can relate, as one of my depressive episodes came from my lack of acceptance from moving forward with my life. I originally wanted to stay in the military another enlistment. Long story short, I took a gamble with a different career choice, lost, left the military, tried the Reserves twice, wasn't for me, and made peace and found closure. Now it's behind me and it feels good to move on.	/r/TheRedPill	07/09/17 11:34 AM
6	How to deal with depression, and what NOT to do. 1) Stress without distress: I managed my depression and crawled through it by always having the notion that although my emotions were whacked up, my body felt fine physically. It sounds weird, but knowing that I was doing everything to take care of myself, at least physically, helped me cope through the rough 5- 6 weeks of hell. I always told myself, "All is well, nothing is lost." 2) Dating while depressed: did it myself, and IT IS A FUCKING TERRIBLE CHOICE TO MAKE! You WILL end up destroyed, b…	/r/TheRedPill	07/09/17 11:30 AM
6	How people treat you is a direct reflection of who they are... Acceptance of self and others are paramount in the removal of judgment of the self and others, but you'll find it easier to accept others than to accept the self. So what do you do? I can't say that it'll be done in a matter of days, perhaps weeks. However, it starts with seeing others as having a shared similarity with you. Know that the faults in others lie within you as well; that is, you commit those faults to an extent as well. You may not murder, cheat, steal (to such extremes) but you def…	/r/TheRedPill	29/08/17 07:54 PM
1	There's No Such Thing As Personality I'll take it a step further and say this: Truths are subjective in their own nature. Just as personalities can change, truths decay as well. Some truths last for a lifetime, while others stay with us for a day or so. Personalities can never be pinpointed down. "I'm am ambitious, colorful artist." Won't last forever, and will be replaced just as truths come and go.	/r/TheRedPill	24/08/17 10:31 PM
2	The Female Narcissist - leads men to their demise I'm currently reading "Rethinking Narcissism" by Dr. Craig Malkin and it's definitely a fascinating topic. I'm reading it because I have more the reason to believe that I am a narcissist. Anyways, the book goes on to say that narcissism is not entirely negative and is like a spectrum, with the goal being to find moderation and balance rather than a "just don't have it at all" choice.	/r/TheRedPill	11/02/17 02:33 PM
1	Marcus Aurelius said - “If you are distressed by anything external, the pain is not due to the thing itself, but to your estimate of it; and this you have the power to revoke at any moment.” I like this concept. It sounds a lot better than masochism, which I thought was what I practiced every time I threw myself in uncomfortable situations for my own "benefit".	/r/TheRedPill	11/02/17 03:09 AM
1	Easy Tinder Text Game, The 6 Message Rule Thanks for the post, it really helps.	/r/TheRedPill	08/02/17 09:08 AM