LightMyCandelabra Archive

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1	IMO, there's no fixed way to determine whether a man you're dating is actually good. Ugh so true. The last guy I dated had me fooled too because I 'knew' him (was in the friendship circle) for years, he was a good dad to a young adult female, posted all the feminist memes on social media and loved his dog. No. You can still be a womanizer and also do all of the above. I ignored red flags (having a harem of exes as 'friends'/hearing about his having 5 gf's after his divorce/etc) because I wanted to believe his love bombing and future faking. You can love your daughter and post al…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/11/21 07:09 PM
2	Do not let men smother your voice or your opinions, stay strong FDS sisters 💕 I really hate that because you are a black woman you can never be angry without that stereotype. Last time I checked we were all humans and humans come with a spectrum of emotions. I don't think it's fair that you don't feel 'allowed' to correct someone in person or otherwise. That is just straight up garbage. Sorry for the mini-rant but I HATE that stereotype or the thought of that stereotype silencing my strong black sisters.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/07/20 02:09 PM