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| 1 | How Was She Supposed To Date You In Her Youth If She Didn't Know You Yet?Precisely, again. I don't delude myself in such fashion. I mean, I won't turn down pussy if it is offered to me. But when a woman who previously blew me off comes looking for me, I know that it is for ulterior reasons. Likely it is because Chad no longer wants any part of her, and if he left her with one or more offspring that he has no intention of supporting and a stack of unpaid bills (which is how it usually works), I run like hell in the other direction. No pussy is worth that no matter how… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/20 06:32 PM |
| 22 | How Was She Supposed To Date You In Her Youth If She Didn't Know You Yet?Precisely. We can't help what you're attracted to. Which means the woman in the hypothetical still isn't really attracted to the guy, but now, post-wall, is desperate for attention and/or $ after all the Chads have abandoned her | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/20 03:24 PM |
| 8 | [Discussion] U.S. Marriage Rate Plunges to Lowest Level on Record!They have good lawyers, who draft good prenups, and to some degree take their chances that the prenup will hold up in court | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/20 04:52 PM |
| 6 | [Discussion] U.S. Marriage Rate Plunges to Lowest Level on Record!That might have been the case before no-fault divorce became the law pretty much everywhere. Nowadays the idea of being bound up for life in a marriage contract is downright quaint | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/20 04:48 PM |
| 2 | What impact would mandatory paternity testing at birth have on society and families?Given the overall state of things as I write this, there isn't much of a society to collapse | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/20 07:50 PM |
| 13 | What impact would mandatory paternity testing at birth have on society and families?Maury Povich is already (sort of) performing this very important public service. Just watch a few of the You Are Not The Father videos on Youtube. I think widespread testing at birth would have much the same as that exhibited on the videos. But hell, it sure would be entertaining | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/20 07:47 PM |
| 1 | Women aren’t necessarily attracted to assholes. Assholes just have the innate qualities that women find attractive.Fortunately or not, when you get to a certain age your testosterone drops and the desire to spin plates wanes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/20 05:24 PM |
| 1 | Has America becoming more secular created any positive outcomes?Religion is hardly "out" in America. Although the number of religious "nones" is on the rise, that number is still but a minority. As for there being a "driving morality", the one driving morality that has been constant is the pursuit of the almighty dollar. As for the rest of the world, taken as a whole, what has become clear is that in the more secular parts of the West, people are happier, live longer, and are freer than they have ever been. Example--in the Netherlands, they are closing both … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/20 06:06 PM |
| 1 | Battle of the Redpillers: Which redpill-based sub is right?All of the above ideas have some merit, and I might add, having a long rap sheet never hurts the guy’s chances either | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/20 04:51 PM |
| 25 | Q4A: If men are so disposable then do romantic relationships even mean anything for us?Except that now that "'til death do us part" has been replaced with "until I change my mind", marriage isn't an actual commitment either | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/20 05:05 PM |
| 1 | CMV: single mothers are not you problem.Of course it's a problem when a marriage goes to shit. But remember, she is the one who wants out, and I would rather have at least some leverage over the terms of the division of marital assets, alimony/child support etc. than be bent over and fucked by the courts | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/20 07:18 PM |
| 1 | CMV: single mothers are not you problem.Nothing would prohibit both parties from mutually agreeing to divorce, and fault-based divorce at least gives you some leverage to negotiate better terms than what the divorce courts impose on you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/20 07:07 PM |
| 6 | What would women caring about sexless/struggling men entail?You could have stopped at "Twitter is literally a cesspool."... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/20 06:44 PM |
| 1 | CMV: single mothers are not you problem.The best way to increase marriage rates is to decrease inequality. The other is to get rid of no-fault divorce and go back to the way it was before. Require proof of infidelity, abuse etc. It is insane that the higher-earning spouse--usually the guy--can be divorce-raped on proof of nothing more than "irreconcilable differences", which means just about anything | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/20 06:34 PM |
| 2 | We are lonelier then ever because everyone is disposableConcur. Welcome to the app-pocalypse | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/20 11:12 PM |
| 2 | Harvard study - Expectations of wives’ homemaking may have eroded, but the husband breadwinner norm persists.No-fault divorce completely changed the dynamic in favor of the woman, especially since divorce courts don't think twice about raiding men's pockets. Fifty years after the first no-fault divorce law was enacted, the marriage rate is at a 100-year low. And that's not by accident | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/20 10:12 PM |
| 1 | If women are so attracted to dominance and fear-inducing behavior, why do they seem to hate men so much because of it?Simple answer. 1) Attraction isn't a choice 2) Women are attracted to sociopaths 3) They inevitably find that living with sociopaths is untenable and incompatible with their long term goals. While not terribly important, my guess is that women's attraction to sociopaths harks back to when we lived in caves, and being eaten by lions, tigers or bears was more than a theoretical possibility. So, over the course of millennia, those traits were bred into the gene pool, and remain, even though they ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/20 05:47 PM |
| 1 | Men do not genuinely find average women attractive. They’re just able to fuck them.That’s the cool movie myth, most psychopaths are unintelligent and socially incompetent. Which doesn’t necessarily make them unattractive as long as they behave badly enough. To women, notoriety is just as good as fame. The more heinous their crimes, the more attractive. See eg https://www.sfgate.com/news/article/No-shortage-of-women-who-dream-of-snaring-a-2689657.php . Myself I’ve been down to the jail on visiting day enough times, and seen enough pretty women waiting for the inmates to come ou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/20 12:07 AM |
| 1 | Men do not genuinely find average women attractive. They’re just able to fuck them.Ability to banter, by itself, will get you nowhere. What I think you are thinking of is charisma, which psychopaths and especially sociopaths have in abundance. But even charisma by itself isn’t nearly enough to attract women for very long. At best it will get you friend zoned | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/20 11:19 PM |
| 1 | Men: do you really believe that sexual frustration is worth deeply empathizing with?What exactly would doing something about it entail? As I mentioned elsewhere, improving your looks, elevating your status, and adopting the traits of the sociopaths that women are attracted to. In the meantime, sex bots, porn, whatever else you want and can get | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/20 09:03 PM |
| 1 | Men do not genuinely find average women attractive. They’re just able to fuck them.My suggestion: Look better, climb the status hierarchy, and adopt the traits of sociopaths that work for you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/20 08:57 PM |
| 1 | Men do not genuinely find average women attractive. They’re just able to fuck them.I would also include sociopathy, not within the narrow clinical definition of the term, but something more analogous to the Dark Triad traits. Which is of course what drives the divorce industry and led to the establishment of no-fault divorce in the first place | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/20 07:07 PM |
| 1 | Men do not genuinely find average women attractive. They’re just able to fuck them.Looks are but one thing women are attracted to. Status, power, and sociopathy are the others. Money can work also but it comes with a caveat, viz. the man must leverage it correctly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/20 07:03 PM |
| 1 | How many men here don’t like to be approached and prefer to do the chasing? How true is this idea? HonestlyDoesn’t matter to me. As long as she is reasonably attractive and not a train wreck (I realize there is some overlap there, but it isn’t complete) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/20 12:04 AM |
| 4 | How does a man wanting to split the bill have anything to do with respect for women?Simple rule. Don’t EVER buy her anything she doesn’t deserve. First date should be something inexpensive that you like to do and that gives you the opportunity to find out if you even like each other or not. If she’s not into what you offer, so be it. Kick her loose, even if it means it’s over before it starts. Let the parasites who see you as only a foodie call find another host to attach themselves to | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/20 04:18 PM |
| 0 | Q4Men: For those who were friendzoned, orbited, or had oneitis for a woman in the past...It had nothing to do with insecurity. In those days, I could easily, and very securely, get blown off by women dozens of times in a row for weeks at a stretch. My career advancement was transformative in that respect, almost like dying and being reincarnated as somebody else. But I’m still the same person I’ve always been | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/20 03:25 PM |
| 3 | Q4Men: For those who were friendzoned, orbited, or had oneitis for a woman in the past...Both. I was skinny and ugly, and have never been the type of sociopath that attracts women. As I alluded, status/power/$ didn’t come until I was well into my 20s and it was only then that I was accepted to any significant degree | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/20 02:50 AM |
| 8 | Q4Men: For those who were friendzoned, orbited, or had oneitis for a woman in the past...It was because, at the time, female attention of any type was extremely hard for me to come by. I have no naturally attractive attributes, only a powerful and lucrative career that took years of painstaking effort to build | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/20 12:33 AM |
| 3 | Men: can you explain why women liking “Chad” is such a shock?False dichotomy. Look, believe anything you want. But you accomplish nothing by lamenting how unfair life is/wallowing in self pity | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/20 01:02 AM |
| 3 | Men: can you explain why women liking “Chad” is such a shock?Suit yourself | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/20 12:53 AM |
| 7 | Men: can you explain why women liking “Chad” is such a shock?You can make as much as a CEO without the Ivy League MBA, and without being over 6’ tall. It just takes a lot more work than most guys are willing to put in. How do I know? I did it myself | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/20 12:48 AM |
| 9 | Men: can you explain why women liking “Chad” is such a shock?The one thing a guy can do that is more within his control is to elevate his status and power, often by landing a lucrative white collar gig. Provided of course that he leverages it properly and chooses women based on character, integrity and what she brings to the table in terms of making him better. Which in turn can, but doesn’t necessarily require, him to trade down as far as the woman’s physical attractiveness is concerned | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/20 12:41 AM |
| 0 | Men: can you explain why women liking “Chad” is such a shock?It’s not a shock. I can’t speak to the inner workings of the black-pill mind (hell, who can?), but red-pill rage stems from having been lied to. I mean, I get it that the high school quarterback was and is always going to be able to pull women like it’s nothing. But being told to buy her gifts, give her expensive stuff etc only to see women walk off on the arm of a sociopath is (one of) the source(s) of the “shock“ you refer to | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/20 12:36 AM |
| 3 | Do good girls like bad boys?Consider Ted Bundy, Charles Manson, or really any other notorious criminal. They have women flinging themselves at them. My favorite example being Richard Ramirez, aka The Night Stalker. He raped and murdered 13 women, got sacks full of fan mail from female admirere=s he had never met, and married while he was on death row. So, hell yes it's real | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/20 09:59 PM |
| 1 | Why do women seem to love damaged men? It doesn’t line up with any “pill”.Yep again. His first post-conviction marriage proposal landed in the mailbag at San Quentin (where California’s death row is) about 24 hours after he arrived there himself. Or consider that Richard Ramirez (the aforementioned Night Stalker) and the Menendez brothers all got married behind bars. Fortunately, death row inmates and lifers-without-parole don’t get conjugal visits, at least not in CA. Otherwise we good tax-paying people would be paying to raise their spawn | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 03:27 PM |
| 3 | Why do women seem to love damaged men? It doesn’t line up with any “pill”.Yep. Every time I go down to the jail on visiting day (I used to practice criminal law) the waiting room is full of hot women. I once appeared in the courtroom in LA where the Night Stalker (who raped and murdered 13 women back in the 1980s) was arraigned, and the bailiff was telling stories about the sackfuls of fan mail from groupies he was getting | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 01:43 AM |
| 1 | Why do women seem to love damaged men? It doesn’t line up with any “pill”.After all, many if not most of their mommy-porn romance novels follow that very script | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 01:34 AM |
| 3 | What is the price tag for a wife ?6-6-6 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/20 04:58 AM |
| 7 | There are a lot of jewelry commercials encouraging men to buy expensive gifts for the woman in their life... why is there no female equivalent to this?Or maybe his pickup truck, boat or hunting rifle | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/20 01:51 PM |
| 1 | Why are a record number of millennial women not settling down, and what will be the resulting social implications of this in 10/20/30+ years time?Even though it was more than 40 years ago, Buzzcocks had a good take on this https://youtu.be/51OB2YoC4sg | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/20 01:22 AM |
| 2 | Why are a record number of millennial women not settling down, and what will be the resulting social implications of this in 10/20/30+ years time?Brazil (I lived in São Paulo for 12 years) is the country of the future. And it always will be | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/20 01:18 AM |
| 18 | Do men REALLY like “good girls”?I’ve only been in LTRs with good girls. It was they who didn’t want me, preferring bad boys and sociopaths instead. I‘ve had felons take what I thought were good women right off my arm | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/20 01:05 AM |
| 3 | Is the average woman simply more attractive than the average man?Are women really not that attracted to their “equals” because they have sky high standards, or do their ‘equals’ just not have innately attractive feats? A distinction without a difference. There is a difference of opinion as to whether attraction is really a choice or not, but as a practical matter the effect is the same. Are men really happy to dive below their league because their sex drives “allow” them to be attracted to most women, or is it just that most women have innately attractive f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/20 05:12 PM |
| 1 | Ending Child Support and Special Welfare Benefits Fixes the SMPBetter to just get a vasectomy and leave problems of this sort for other people to worry about | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/20 09:44 PM |
| 3 | Men are waaaaay more likely to be willing to pay for sex. In what other ways are men's and women's sexual impulses wildly different?Simple. Women get offered dick much more than we get offered pussy. Supply and demand | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/20 01:54 AM |
| 2 | Q4Men: what do you have to say to the women who try to marry a good man before they hit the wall, but fail?Did you ever consider a non-"church guy"? I ask because if you drew a Venn diagram of "nice, stable" guys and "church guys", the overlap might be a lot smaller than you think. Especially if you limit your search to your own church and it isn't one of those mega-churches | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/20 02:30 AM |
| 1 | Are men desperate because women are picky, or are women picky because men are desperate?More like, when they start getting hit on a lot less often | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/19 10:36 PM |
| 1 | A girl I just met called me four times over the weekend. I ignored her calls and she sent me thisEven then it is still a function of your net financial worth. Only difference is, the need for $ on her part is that much more urgent after she popped out a couple sociopaths who take after the Chad she fucked a couple times too many | /r/MGTOW | 20/06/17 06:55 PM |
| 1 | Fathers day NOT SINGLE Mothers DAYI recall seeing a study somewhere that arose from mapping the human genome. The number they came up with was 7 percent, with a confidence interval of +/- 3 percent. Which means it could be as little as 1 in 25 or as much as 1 in 10. | /r/MGTOW | 19/06/17 01:12 AM |
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