Lilac91 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	My MIL Does Not Allow Her Son to be married before 33 years old. I agree with other commenters that no one else should be deciding the timeline of your relationship except for you two. I do understand not wanting to not rock the boat with his mother and not wanting to put your fiancé’s inheritance on the line but I have a feeling you’re going to have to face these issues eventually even if it’s not about marriage. Even if you wait the 4 years that she wants, is she going to hang this inheritance over his head when she wants to have a say in when you will have…	/r/RedPillWomen	24/09/22 03:10 PM
16	How do I accept that my partner will never be monogamous? It doesn’t sound like you will be able to accept this. If you’re feeling hurt and jealousy (rightfully so) about this arrangement I don’t really think there’s anything you can do to make those feelings just disappear. This also seems like a very unfair arrangement. If he doesn’t want you to be with other people then he basically just wants the benefits of monogamy and of non-monogamy for himself, while you don’t get the benefits of either. Without you being able to also be non-monogamous, this j…	/r/RedPillWomen	15/09/22 03:07 PM
2	Man's view on IUDs All 👏🏻 of 👏🏻 this 👏🏻	/r/RedPillWomen	02/09/22 01:14 AM
5	Boyfriend wants to buy an expensive engagement ring, but I would prefer for him to save the money and buy something cheaper. Do I talk to him or let him lead here? Definitely tell him about Moissanite! My husband also wanted to spend a lot of money on a ring because he wanted me to have something beautiful but we already had our first child and I was pregnant with our second when we got engaged. I expressed to him that I felt the money would be better spend on our family than a ring. I ended up finding a Moissanite ring online that I LOVED and was so cheap so I told him this had to be the one because I loved it and the price was beyond right lol. I love my…	/r/RedPillWomen	30/08/22 12:47 AM
21	Are there more subs for traditional, conserative women? I hate this, people are so sensitive these days 🤦🏻‍♀️. If they didn’t like the sub they could just not join it but nope, they need to report it too. Some people just can’t stand that others think/feel differently from them on certain topics. I wish people would realize how boring the world would be without different perspectives lol.	/r/RedPillWomen	20/08/22 04:58 PM
9	Sharing your husband with other women I don’t know anyone who has this arrangement and I wouldn’t be comfortable with it myself but I’ll give a few of my thoughts on it: It’s possible that this could become a source of resentment towards your husband eventually, especially since you’re not sleeping with other people. I feel that this is a slippery slope that could lead your husband to fall for someone else. It’s easy to set the ground rule of “no strings attached” but I feel that connecting inside the bedroom could easily lead to th…	/r/RedPillWomen	15/08/22 12:14 AM
3	Scared for the future I agree with the previous commenters - if he doesn’t come up with a plan soon, I would consider leaving. I’m a full time stay at home mom/homemaker and will also be homeschooling my 3 year old and 6 month old when the time comes. I would be so incredibly unhappy if I had to send my kids off to daycare and then school because that’s not the life I have envisioned for my kids or myself. Finding a man who can support this if it’s what you want is so worth it. You have lots of time, I didn’t meet my…	/r/RedPillWomen	04/08/22 11:50 PM
2	Bringing Our Toddler to a Steakhouse I 100% agree with this! They can’t be expected to know how to behave in public without some sort of tool or distraction if we never give them the chance to.	/r/RedPillWomen	04/08/22 06:07 PM
14	Bringing Our Toddler to a Steakhouse While this would be an easy solution in the moment, I find it backfires long term. We never have given my son a tablet anywhere (not even at home), he’ll be 3 in 2 weeks and now and he’ll sit through dinners at restaurants no problem but his cousins who are older than him have always had tablets for those kinds of outings won’t sit for more than 5 minutes without asking for the tablet and will have a meltdown if they’re told no. My personal opinion is that it will be harder for kids to be conten…	/r/RedPillWomen	04/08/22 10:56 AM