Lilbitysquirt Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	Rewiring My Brain Get out of my head. Same story for me, almost to the letter. Divorce final this past fall from a woman I no longer recognize. It gets easier, just have patience and grace for yourself.	/r/Divorce_Men	01/03/26 07:26 PM
3	What was your ex wife’s occupation? ER nurse	/r/Divorce_Men	01/01/26 04:12 PM
3	Harder than I expected: Mediation My mediation about a year ago was a complete waste of time and money. We couldn’t agree on anything because the mediator was relaying wrong information back and forth. It caused more problems than it solved.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/12/25 06:22 PM
4	Want to break stuff... What to break? Sage advice from my dad after I punched a wall in a fit of rage. “If you’re gonna punch something, punch something soft…like a pillow”.	/r/Divorce_Men	13/11/24 01:03 AM
4	Soon to be divorce dad. Could use some honest advice. Thanks I’m part of that club too. Turns out a lot of nurses (not all, but so, so many) are not great people. There’s a reason the divorce rate for nurses is high.	/r/Divorce_Men	17/10/24 02:31 AM
8	"I'm not going to help you destroy our life." Speaking from experience, you have to realize that’s not your wife. It’s someone who decided you weren’t the one anymore. I know, it fucking hurts. I felt the same thing for months. But the faster you get past that, the easier it will become. Once you let go of what was the past and what you wanted for your future, you will start down the path of healing.	/r/Divorce_Men	16/10/24 10:10 PM
3	I'm having a really hard time. That’s how I was the first few months until I recognized that it was hurting myself more than doing any good. She didn’t care what I was doing. I had to stop caring what she was doing for my own mental health. I also had to start looking at this as not a separation but a pre divorce. Once I stopped caring I was able to find peace.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/10/24 10:32 PM
5	Today would have been 7 years Possibly. I think a combination of things, prefaced with I’m not a doctor, so who really knows. I know she’s just starting menopause because her doctor wanted to start her on treatment which she refused. She’s been hanging out with a younger single friend from work that can’t keep a relationship so there’s that influence. We’ve been together since we were young so I think she wants to live her own life and now that one kid is an adult and the other is close, so maybe a mid life crisis kind of th…	/r/Divorce_Men	23/07/24 12:35 AM
4	Today would have been 7 years This coming weekend would be 24 years married. We were supposed to be leaving for a 2 week trip to Europe. The once in a lifetime trip. Unfortunately she decided she didn’t want to go after telling me she no longer wanted to be married. So now it’s just me and my two kids. That’s ok, we will make memories without her.	/r/Divorce_Men	22/07/24 07:04 PM
8	I wanted to believe it wouldn't happen...but you guys prepared me. Almost word for word what I’m going through now. It’s a painful process.	/r/Divorce_Men	16/07/24 01:04 AM