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Thank you!! Wtf, men have been doing this for thousands of years.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 09:53 PM
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At its bones, it is. Not all feminists are the radical kind. I consider myself a feminist, yet also choose a traditionally gender-roled relationship as well. I just can't negate that I do have a choice at least, which is precisely what my feminist forebears fought so hard for. It feels sacrilegious somehow to completely deny feminism as a concept, even if I find its bastardized grandchild abhorrent. All that is to say that you may be eschewing women who are trying to combat radical feminism with…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 09:36 PM
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Hm maybe I do, I definitely see it looking back now. Oops, sorry. This sub makes me extra sensitive sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 09:28 PM
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Funny, don't recall anyone saying the planet was getting colder.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 04:40 PM
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Wow, you should really publish your research!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 02:28 PM
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In what way does contraception damage women?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 02:23 PM
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Well, yeah, Eve ate that fucking apple, so now women are responsible for every bad thing that has happened or ever will happen! Awfully convenient story, like most religious anecdotes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 02:12 PM
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So you automatically think negatively of anyone who thinks men and women should be treated equally and given the same opportunities? That's wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 02:10 PM
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I mean, 95% of r/rapekink is made up fantasy stories, and I wouldn't take what happens on a kink sub as indicative of the nature of rape/rapists in the world. Most people with a rape kink/fantasy would not want to be truly raped, and most people who are raped do not have a rape kink. Real rape is awful, traumatizing, and is generally about exerting power than it is about anything truly sexual. But yes, most rape is committed by an acquaintance of the person who is raped. It happens to women, men…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 02:08 PM
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Wtf do you really think your friends and acquaintances would tell you if they did?? I guarantee you know somebody who has raped someone, even if just in the technical sense of ignoring consent or pushing them to say yes after they started with no. This guy thinks rape doesn't fucking exist. Jesus christ, I hope you're just a troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 02:03 PM
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For real! I love how men want to date narcissistic, attention-hungry Insta-thots because yes, they are beautiful and sexy! But then they act shocked when these same women don't want to give up their other 3 boyfriends and legions of followers to devote the rest of their lives solely to them. Quel surprise!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 01:50 PM
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For real?? You don't see the problems headed our way as a planet if we keep breeding exponentially like this? Or shit, even if we just maintain the numbers we have now? Heads up- the earth is heating up. Soon areas near the equator will start becoming uninhabitable, causing mass emigration to more polar regions. There is not enough fresh water on the planet for everybody; just because we have been blessed thus far with clean unlimited water, does not mean it is truly unlimited. There is not enou…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 01:42 PM
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I'm not upset about shit, I just find it entertaining that you, presumably an overweight, unattractive virgin in your forties, won't accept anyone who has had a struggle in life. I hope you find the 18-year old virgin from good mormon family of your dreams, wish you all the best with that one!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 03:07 AM
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Yeah, idk why none of the "good ones" are wanting you back lmao. I don't know anyone, even people who are fairly religious, that want to be in church for 4 hours every sunday, presumably after working 80 hour weeks to meet your standards. It's a goddamn mystery!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 03:05 AM
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Where did I say anything about sex or romance or any of that?? I'm just wondering how children with terrible parents got automatically crossed off your list because YOU are wanting a romantic relationship. What about people who got jumped by a group of strangers for being in the wrong place at the wrong time? Better yet, how about all the thousands of children who are emotionally and physically abused by priests and pastors every year? Fyi, there is pretty credible evidence that Jesus was marrie…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 04:46 PM
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Right, you've outlined several times what your definition of "degeneracy" is. I'm asking if you honestly think you can tell whether someone is degenerate as you define it by whether they go to a church once a week for an hour or so?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 04:35 PM
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Mmmmm thick legs :D My SOs thighs make me fuckin weak. Everytime I look at them I just imagine myself laid on top of them getting a firm spanking. Yummy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 12:56 PM
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What the fuck. So if some poor kid was abused by his parents, he's automatically blacklisted from marble's list of Good Men? Btw, the "yelling in all caps about how abused children grow up to be no good" is quite eye-opening regarding your issues. Definitely what I would expect from a church lady, though! Mean and judgmental, just like jesus, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 01:28 AM
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Do you honestly think you can tell if someone is a "degenerate" or not based on whether or not they attend church?? What if they go to a mosque or temple, are they degenerates for following a different abrahamic religion? What if they're an atheist with a strong sense of morality, are they still a degenerate just because they're honest about not believing a 3000-year old story about sky-daddy? What about all the "good, church-going" men who end up being outed as wife-beaters, child molesters, an…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 01:07 AM
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*brass tacks, just for future reference
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 06:50 PM
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Yes, in a quirky way. She certainly isn't ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 07:22 PM
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You think women pay for their own abortions 0% of the time? Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 03:39 PM
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Really? Because I'm a woman in what I would consider a more traditional relationship for someone my age, and I hardly consider my life a "free ride." Yes, my SO pays all the big bills, but I literally do ALL of the childcare and housework. I got a part time job just to be able to get out of here sometimes! He works his 40 hours, then comes home and plays video games. Idk, I kinda feel like he got the better end of the deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 04:17 PM
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You think people who believe in the basic idea that women should have all of the same rights as men are inherently part of a misandrist hate group?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/19 02:08 AM
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I mean, it's still a little racist to act like young white, black, Hispanic, and Asian men aren't out fucking as many girls as possible too. That's kinda like saying you can't be racist because you have a black boyfriend or a black niece or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/19 04:01 AM
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I think it's your definition of "career woman" that needs changing. You defined a workaholic, which is not fun to be in a relationship with, no matter which gender is the offender. The only person who would enjoy a relationship with someone who is essentially addicted to work is another person with the same problem. A simple career woman, as in a woman who has carved out a respectable working life for herself, is most often someone who knows how to balance her work, home, friends, etc. properly,…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 05:25 PM
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When are men not held accountable for their actions?? Every time someone asks a rape victim what they were wearing. Every time a Muslim woman gets killed to salvage her owners "honor." I agree that women get a free pass for lots of shittiness that they shouldn't, but so do men. And women have been held to a far stricter standard for much longer than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/19 12:15 AM
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Did I ever say that women shouldn't be held accountable for their actions towards men? Everyone should be responsible for their own behavior. Or is that somehow not good enough for y'all? How are you going to accuse me of solipsism based off of what I've said here? That really makes me question your understanding of the concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 11:50 PM
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specifically referring to their actions towards women. I'm aware of how men are treated in the legal system. Keep being condescending, sweetie, it really furthers the conversation!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 11:29 PM
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yeah, no. Just because we are now starting to hold men accountable for their actions doesn't immediately negate the entirety of human history. stop it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 10:23 PM
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oh, they never have, according to most governing bodies and religions! That's why women are always responsible for driving men to commit atrocities, and why we are taught defensive tactics to keep those savages (/s) from attacking us, instead of boys and men being taught not to act upon their more impulsive urges.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 08:41 PM
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No, not necessarily. I think neither is better at that. I think men are better at appearing to let things go, whereas women show their battle to get over things more openly.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 05:47 PM
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You are right about the yelling! I'm such a quiet woman that I forget how incredibly loud and obnoxious some women are. I don't associate women's yelling with anger the same way I do when men get loud though for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 05:45 PM
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I agree that women tend to hold grudges more and bottle up anger more than men. But have you ever thought about why that is? Men are allowed to express anger, indeed they are encouraged to do so from a young age. Women on the other hand, grow up being told to calm down, be quiet, act like a lady. So we learn that being loud and angry is unacceptable, so in turn we learn to suppress our anger, and it gets let out in ways that are sneaky and quiet. Like the catty behavior you see in female alterca…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 04:37 PM
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I'm sorry, but none of this is based in fact. Men and women can both be grudge holders, or not. Men are taught to suppress their emotions, and women are generally not, but I don't think the tendency to show emotion necessarily connects to the ability to let things go. I'm fact, I would posit the opposite view. Because women can express and work through their emotions, they are more likely to forgive and let go, than is a man who holds it in forever, silently stewing on how he has been wronged. P…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 03:49 PM
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I think there is quite a large difference between women who "lash out publicly," (not even 100% sure I know what you mean by that) and women who express their feelings to trusted friends, family, or significant others. Just like there is a huge difference between a man who pretends he has no emotions, to better portray his idea of the stoic, masculine hero he wants to be seen as, and the man who can express his emotions and resolve the issues causing them. People can be equally emotionally intel…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 03:44 PM
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Microorganisms...like sperm and gametes? It's clear you're not a parent. Maybe you just don't understand how deep the relationship between a father and child is. I can't explain shit to you if you don't see how entirely fucked it is to excuse yourself from the life of a child that you've put your entire self into for a decade or more.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/18 10:11 AM
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Please try to make sense. I never mentioned a friend or custody. At all. We're talking about a very specific scenario where someone has been raising children for a decade or more and then finds out that they are not his biological children. There is absolutely nothing wrong with wanting a biological child. There is something wrong with anyone who would invest that much time and energy and then just walk away from that kind of intense loving situation because of what is essentially a change in mi…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/18 07:51 AM
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Which exact worldview might that be?? I love how I can't get a straight answer about this, specifically because it's nonsense. Simply showing that things exist is not propaganda. Strong women in a show traditionally about strong female witches is not propaganda. Showing one character that struggles with gender identity is not propaganda. Showing a white man in the 1960s that is uncomfortable with women and minorities challenging him is not propaganda. There is plenty of propaganda in the world, …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/18 07:44 AM
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Propaganda for...what exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/18 04:45 AM
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So on that horrific day, after your world collapses, and you get to your feeling of disgust, is that disgust for the spouse that tricked you and has been lying for so long, or is the disgust for the children who have committed no transgressions, and indeed have been equally wronged by the situation? Fuck the mother, she's trash, throw her out and she should get nothing from the divorce, that is a horrible thing to do to the people you are supposed to love most. No one is contesting that it is a …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/18 04:45 AM
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Jesus Christ, we can still empathize with it, though! If someone came to me tomorrow and told me that somehow neither of my two kids share my DNA (wouldn't be overly surprising, they both look like clones of their fathers) I would be horrified, pissed the fuck off, hurt, and I might need some time to get my head together. But ultimately, I've put 9 and 2 years into these little monsters, and the idea of walking away from either of them is not something that would ever be on the table. And when m…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/18 04:34 AM
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Wow Showing powerful women, trans kids, and racism in what I think is intended to be the 1960s is propaganda now? Some people are really too much. Propaganda is not "showing things that old conservative dudes like to ignore"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/18 04:27 AM
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The thing is, I'm pretty sure those graphs were referring to the number of partners a woman had prior to marriage, not the number of affairs or swinging partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/18 09:30 PM
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These graphs can be torn apart to high heaven, most of them look like the correlations wouldn't be significant statistically, and they say nothing about the sample these numbers were drawn from, which could make a huge difference in what the graphs can be trusted to answer. Bar graphs are easily manipulated and these clearly were. I'm not super academic, but I'm educated enough to know that I can't form an opinion on anything based on these graphs alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/18 08:43 PM
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Of course it's all conjecture and anecdotal, but one of my pet peeves is people that know they'll never stay faithful to one person getting into committed, monogamous relationships. In 2018, there's no need for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/18 01:04 AM
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I'm a woman, first of all, and I'm saying I don't believe that being monogamous is any harder for a woman than a man. But I think people inherently can know if they can be happy with one person for life. That idea doesn't stress me out the way it does other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/18 11:34 PM
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I think this fits women the same as men. On an individual basis. Some men and some women are not meant to be monogamous, some are. It's up to each individual to know if they would thrive in a marriage or not. I'm a very monogamous person, and when I need more spice in my relationship, we do something new together; it's not about wanting to fuck someone different.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/18 09:43 PM
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Oh agreed, but I think that risk is less severe if it isn't taken where your livelihood is earned. Being creepy at church, at a bar, on the street, or at the grocery store is a lot easier to come back from than being seen as the creepy guy at the office. And in 2018, poetry has a much greater chance of looking creepy than it does looking sweet or suave. In 1750, I'm sure that would be a panty-dropper (bloomer dropper?), but it's just not viewed the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 03:37 AM
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Not saying that, but if you're not trying to come off as weird or creepy in the workplace, I would leave poetry out of it. Also why I would say not to flirt in the workplace at all, but to each their own. Poetry should be saved for a "love," just my opinion. As a woman, I can't think of any way that would come off as not creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 01:01 AM
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Does that make a difference somehow? If my coworkers become more than acquaintances, I refer to them as friends. And regardless, if you're not my significant other, don't write poems to me or about me, it's creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/18 09:39 PM
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Writing a poem about someone is never benign, regardless of the content of the poem. Poem writing implies a level of effort and focus that is automatically creepy if done by a casual acquaintance like a coworker. And if you were dumb enough to write the poem at work AND to allow anyone else to ever see said poem, then you kinda got what was coming to you. Save your poem and erotic fan fiction writing for home.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/18 03:49 PM
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I agree completely, I just want it to be a choice for everyone involved. I like to be subordinate to my man, but I chose that. And I want my sons to feel able to choose to find a partner that's into that or not, based on their own wants and desires.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/18 02:38 AM
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As a woman who likes a "masculine man", but also doesn't necessarily like "toxic masculinity", I think I can sort of clarify why I don't think those two stances are hypocritical. I don't view toxic masculinity as necessarily toxic to women ; I view it as toxic to men. I want a masculine man for myself, because I like traditional gender roles. But I don't want men to feel forced into that role any more than I would want to feel forced to be a feminine woman. And I don't want my sons to feel force…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/18 01:30 AM
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Oh no, I agree about nasty women thinking they can be sexual with any man with no consequences. I've seen plenty of that myself, and it's ridiculous to me. Although honestly I think that women need to relax a tiny bit and learn the difference between serious harassment and good-natured flirting or joking. It makes the actual cases of rape, sexual blackmail, and harassment less impactful when someone looking at a woman for too long or telling her that she looks pretty is treated the same as slapp…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/18 04:08 AM
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Out of curiosity, do you find it equally creepy when wrinkly old men go after young women in the 18-24 range?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/18 11:14 PM
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False. Judging by the amount of shocked reactions to bills, a large number of adults are mystified. Don't assume that just because you have sense that other people do too
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/18 02:05 AM
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If you ask for something added to your meal, or "extra" of anything, there will be an additional charge on your check.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/18 10:57 PM
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You honestly can't vet that. It's societal, because if the house is dirty, the kids are eating cookies, and you show up at family events (for either side!) without Christmas gifts, it's the mom that gets the side eye. So unless you happen upon a man who really enjoys doing any of the domestic things, the pressure falls on you. No one expects men to take care of those things, but we get looked at like we're lazy if we don't. And the mother is the default parent. For everything. It's changing some…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/18 09:44 PM
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On my second LTR now, I would say yes. I'm sorry, but men have life far easier in a family situation. Just go to work, keep up on car/house/lawn maintenance and once in a while lend a very lackadaisical hand with the kids. Now, he does work more hours at a much more physically demanding job than I do, which is why I cut him some slack with this, but it doesn't explain the rest of the disparity in the division of life labor. As the woman/mom, I somehow have to work, keep up with school events, do…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/18 04:56 PM
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Funny, I've noticed quite the opposite. I've mostly experienced in myself and in my female friends, the tendency to try to do just about everything in a relationship, in a family, and in a household, while men seem to expect to do nothing beyond going to work, watching t.v., maybe play with kids and then going to bed. And on the extremely rare occasions when we ask for help with something, the request is denied or done with such bad grace as to discourage future requests.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/18 08:04 AM
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It does, and that's a huge problem that never gets brought up. I'm a woman, and I've definitely noticed that other women feel free to touch men whenever and however they please, and also feel free to say anything at all to men. When I was in high school, I used to brutally pinch boys, and slap their asses (my immature method of flirting) and I never once got in trouble, or even spoken to, about it. I can pretty well guarantee that if any of the boys had felt free to do the same to any of us, he …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/18 02:19 AM
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Spotted the r/braincels and r/foreveralone poster! ...see how easy that was? And I have a feeling that my comment is far more accurate than yours; while I've never participated in either of the subs you mentioned, but it takes a special kind of goober to post that kind of comment on a 4 month old thread. Feel free to message me if you want to talk about whatever is upsetting you so deeply that you waste your time and energy picking fights with strangers on the internet, or if you would like help…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 11:10 PM
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Ew gross attitude and completely false, wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 08:26 PM
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Idk, I'm kinda like this. I can recognize that other men are attractive and appreciate that, but not to the point of speaking on it or actively flirting with someone. My man is the only man for me, and he is my god to an extent, as in he the only man whose approval I'm seeking or attraction I'm looking for. But I don't think he expects that of me, or honestly would be offended if I said another man was attractive either, and if he was offended by something so minor, it would lessen him a little …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 05:33 PM
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I get that it's not a tough philosophical question, I just meant that it can be tough to be introspective like that for a lot of people, especially since it can be hard to explicitly state things that are pretty intangible, like you said. It's just funny that so many dudes instantly went the pouty route with, "I don't have to answer this, if a woman needs ANYTHING from me, I don't want to be with her." If a bunch of women did that on the other thread, a lot of guys would have been sneering, goin…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 03:11 AM
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Oops, they popped up right as I was posting that. When I decided to comment, the most serious reply was about killing spiders. So thank you, guys that can actually answer a kinda tough question!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/18 09:31 PM
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I love all the butt-hurt mens on this thread! On the women's thread, chicks are giving bullet-point lists to a very offensively-phrased question, but turn it around on men and we can't get one good, confident answer. Why is that? 🤔🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/18 09:27 PM
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Crack, duh
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/18 09:21 PM
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Interesting. I dont know if im the best person to voice my opinion on this one, because i think the family court system is laughably biased in favor of women. I don't think anyone should be "punished" for a relationship ending, with or without children. Custody should be split 50-50 unless completely unviable to do so. My ex and I do this with our son, and luckily we have both been sane enough to handle our split without the courts. Another wonderful argument against marriage; had we been marrie…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/18 07:31 PM
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It's not marriage that does it, and I've never heard anyone claim that being married negatively affected anyone's earnings. It's children. Unless you can afford nannies, housekeepers, cooks, etc., someone has to keep up the house and the children. Women naturally need time off work to birth the children, and even more so if there are any complications, like needing bed rest prior to giving birth, or a complicated delivery that requires extra recovery time. So that immediately dings into a woman'…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/18 05:58 PM
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