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No; she accepted his premise for the sake of debate, to show that his premise is self-contradictory.
/r/ExRedPill18/07/24 05:29 PM
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münecat's video is excellent. Long, but thorough
/r/ExRedPill20/05/24 01:26 PM
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Late to the convo, read the comments. It sounds like your uncle hasn't quite hit "bottom". By that, I don't mean "hitting rock bottom" in the normal sense; rather, it seems he still is in his reactive, seeking solidarity in his "self justified" misogyny phase. The problem is simply: hate. People like former neo-nazis consistently say that their exit had to do with empathy or love. Whether they experienced a [moment of empathy with the victim they were beating](https://www.npr.org/2018/01/18/5787…
/r/ExRedPill16/05/24 06:12 PM
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The real point is that it was established precisely because she saw a need for men’s mental heath and men’s isolation, and for male bonding and sense of community. And yet that’s swept aside. It's not swept aside. It simply isn't. These Men's Sheds converting to coed by their own volition and choice recognized it's not feasible to remain men-only. In 20–30 years, they figured out where the men-only times and functions and activities were most needed, and also figured out that some of their funct…
/r/MensRights21/03/24 12:41 PM
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I know you're aware of her, because I made you aware of her. You seem to be a single-issue commenter, and your narrative never includes the full picture, even when I've supplied you facts and supported sources. She was hoping to achieve better retirement socialization and men's health awareness, because of her experience taking care of her father in his old age. There are genuine angels out there, noticing need and actually doing something about it. Both men and women, doing need. And it doesn’t…
/r/MensRights21/03/24 10:24 AM
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Most of the Men's Sheds that are opening up to women are doing so for financial reasons; they need more members, and many of the services they provide don't require full-time male-only membership. They're always keeping more men-only days, a couple of mixed-gender days (for instance, helping teach women to use the shop tools that women are mostly interested in using), and zero or one women's only days. Also, lest you forget, the first Men's Sheds were started by a woman, who was working gerontol…
/r/MensRights21/03/24 09:58 AM
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thank you. That's what I was thinking...
/r/ExRedPill09/02/24 11:30 PM
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Tell us you're not interested in leaving black/red pill, without telling us... This isn't about making women happier. This is about making yourself happier. You have defined your existence around getting laid. As long as you define your own self worth around that, then you're dooming yourself. Learn to value yourself, appreciate things, life, on their own terms, for your own appreciation, and then you'll find joy in things. And once you find joy in things, in life, you'll find people who are att…
/r/ExRedPill09/02/24 10:53 PM
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It would be a waste of my time. You are so confident in your wrongness, it's not worth it.
/r/ExRedPill07/02/24 03:35 PM
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You're so far off base, you have no clue what you're talking about.
/r/ExRedPill07/02/24 03:15 PM
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Where should I search for a partner by the way? You shouldn't search for a partner. You should engage in social activities and meet people. Build social friendships. Do activities and meet people simply for the purpose of doing activities and trying new things for yourself, and meeting people for the sake of meeting people. In doing so, you make yourself interesting to others, doing things and having things to talk about because it's interesting to you. That's when you'll find a female friend wh…
/r/ExRedPill23/01/24 03:17 PM
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No, but they might put up with a US dude bro long enough to get a green card plus the (I think) minimum 2 years before divorcing him, so she can stay in the US and move on with her plans. I knew many young women with those goals while I lived in Czechia for a year when I was 18/19.
/r/ExRedPill22/01/24 08:37 PM
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Oh, so you're not really here in good faith, are you? You can't proclaim to want to exit RP, and then mock us with saying that the koolaid is delicious. Stop trolling us.
/r/ExRedPill21/01/24 06:50 PM
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Hypergamy is a myth. RP/MGTOW/MRA needs to keep saying it's true, because without it, the entire house of cards falls down. Stop consuming it, and go out in the world and actually talk to women and make mixed friend groups. And you'll see that men and women have much more similar issues when it comes to dating, than such simple reductive things like hypergamy that both MRAs/RP and FDS hype up to feed their social media engagement metrics which gets them juicy ad revenue for talking nothing more …
/r/ExRedPill21/01/24 06:49 PM
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Stop consuming RP content. You can't exit cult thinking while still drinking the koolaid. Stop worrying about divorce before even having a relationship that's on the marriage path. You're worried about end-of-relationship issues before the relationship egg has even been laid, let alone fertilized, hatched, and grown. You're dooming yourself to over-analyzing exit conditions before even entering. That's not how you find and nurture a relationship based on mutual trust and respect. Realize that in…
/r/ExRedPill21/01/24 01:32 PM
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You do understand that the Matrix "pill" was co-opting a simple metaphor from Through the Looking Glass, right? All of the other shit in RP, et al, is just a bunch of misogynists in their basements larping as "evolutionary psychologists", pickup artists, and the like. So no, I don't think there's a lot of value in keeping -pill frameworks, when the frameworks themselves are houses of cards built on a foundations of sand. Best to sweep the whole thing away, to remove the mental clutter and crufty…
/r/ExRedPill16/09/23 08:59 PM
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No, I disagree. This isn't thermodynamics. We don't have to play the game. We can reject the game, and we can reject that it's even a game to begin with. If "-pill" is the language that has been set, in a very short amount of time, then it can be unset, or changed or swapped out. That's the beauty of language.
/r/ExRedPill16/09/23 07:04 PM
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I didn't watch it, so my reaction is entirely a gut reaction just to the wording/branding. So I certainly have no qualified criticism other than "reading the book jacket". I should watch it and ignore my distaste for the -pill branding, and see what it says on its merits.
/r/ExRedPill16/09/23 07:02 PM
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Giving it a "pill" name just justifies that "pill-thought" is based in some way. It basically says "you picked the wrong color, but keep on the pill".
/r/ExRedPill16/09/23 06:56 PM
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I assume you're right, and I wasn't assuming a grift or anything. But ultimately, deprogramming should be about deprogramming, not reprogramming using the same patterns but different dictionary. IMO.
/r/ExRedPill16/09/23 06:48 PM
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Honestly, I think it's a mistake to swap one -pill for another. Seems to me that just eliminating all *-pill terminology and thinking is the goal. Otherwise, it's just falling into the trap of dogmatic branded thinking that all -pills, with their lingo, ensnare people in.
/r/ExRedPill16/09/23 06:32 PM
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So if you don't get why RP thinks women are "low-value" and seeking validation for posting nudes and bikini pic, then ask yourself: why did you believe that for so long? Rather than state "I don't get why...", do some introspection, and share why you were susceptible for those thoughts. Share with us what you were going through, what led you believe that, what media you were consuming and how you were pipelined into the RP manosphere. It's easy to disavow a horrible past belief system. But it's …
/r/ExRedPill13/09/23 12:26 AM
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OP's post is dripping in accusatory and presumptive anger. I won't coddle that. It needs to be called out for what it is. This is how the RP and manosphere operate, by death-of-a-thousand cuts and slowly worming into otherwise safe spaces. Stand your ground.
/r/ExRedPill25/08/23 02:36 PM
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This is thinly veiled misogyny, blaming feminism and political or social things you don't agree with as pushing men to RP. This is not an "ex" RP post. This is RP justification. This is RP in sheep's clothing.
/r/ExRedPill25/08/23 02:01 PM
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Best news I heard today!
/r/ExRedPill19/08/23 06:59 AM
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You can't fix a person. You can only support them while they fix themselves. It doesn't sound like he's at the "wanting to fix himself" stage right now. Indeed, it sounds like he's happy descending further into RP at the moment. This is the kind of stuff that you might be able to stick with him while he works his way out of TRP, being grateful to realize he has a patient partner, when you're 23 & 25. But not 33 & 35. Hun, life is too short at this age to settle for his crazy. I don't like to mak…
/r/ExRedPill10/08/23 01:22 AM
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This is searchable on the internet. According to the CDC, women aged 25–44 in the US have reported 3.8–4.2 partners, fairly consistently. That's about as close as you're going to get to your question of "before she turns 30".
/r/ExRedPill27/07/23 09:57 PM
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Do I just talk like how I talk with men? Yes. We just want to be treated like a person. That's all. We don't want to be treated differently.
/r/ExRedPill27/07/23 09:39 PM
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The entrepreneursphere is just as toxic, self-absorbed, and self-promoting as the manosphere, MLM-pushing schemes, or anything else like that on social media. There are opportunities to be had being your own boss, sure. But far and away, most small businesses fail in their first year, and most of the remainders don't survive their 2nd year. Social media is flooded with people making more hype than success, or with groups/schemes that are overfunded with careless money, trying to get people to bu…
/r/ExRedPill20/05/23 04:34 PM
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This is a non sequitur take, because Russia also drafted large amounts of men. Support for Ukraine has nothing to do with valuing or not valuing men; supporting Ukraine is about supporting a sovereign country from being invaded and dismantled by a invading country led by an autocratic regime. Both Russia and Ukraine conscript men. Thus, valuing men is a neutral proposition in considering who to support in that war.
/r/MensRights13/02/23 12:02 AM
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100% agreed that routine circumcision is genital mutilation, no doubt. But I'll quibble with "nobody bats an eye" about it. You're right that most neonatal providers in the US routinely recommend circumcision, but parents absolutely have the right to deny it; it is an elective operation. We certainly need to be spreading the word as much as possible that parents can refuse, and they should be informed. Beyond that, I'd like to see the WHO get over its patronizing attitude to developing countries…
/r/MensRights12/02/23 11:41 PM
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Speaking of eyerolling. Vasectomies are more often reversible than tubal ligations. Additionally, both the vasectomy and reversal are local anesthetic, outpatient procedures that take 24–48 hours to recover. Tubal ligation / bisalp is a 2–4 week recovery process, invasive procudure, requiring general anesthetic. There are substantially more vasectomy reversals than ligation reversals each year, primarily because ligation is not considered a reversible process by most doctors (that is, they won't…
/r/MensRights12/02/23 08:54 PM
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because in general only the very best single fathers get custody. This is just not true. The large majority of modern custody cases that are agreed to, disputed, or adjudicated are not 100% custody cases. They are typically 50/50 or some co-custody mix. Regardless, none of these stats matter. The solution to lower academic (or whatever other metric) performance of children of single-mother households is not necessarily to stop divorce. Children of parents in loveless and acrimonious marriages ar…
/r/ExRedPill02/02/23 07:54 PM
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Women attacking other women, being "not like other women", is the definition of "pick me girl/woman". I'd say that a large majority of the pro-manosphere, pro-redpill women I've seen on social media are "pick me girls". And I feel so bad for them, because eventually, one day, they'll wake up and cringe at their post and video history, and have a lot of atonement to do to women. I just want to hug/slap them, and wake them up from their internalized misogyny. *sigh*
/r/ExRedPill01/02/23 11:20 PM
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I'd like to remind you that this is Ex-RP. I'm going to assume you're trying to overcome RP indoctrincation, but aren't used to questioning the RP statistics and talking points at a fundamental level. You present a false choice of "marriage à la the old ways" and modern "women-initiated divorce culture and single motherhood". I'm not sure where to start picking your comment apart, because there's so many issues. In general, you seem to correlate rate of women-initiated divorces with single-mothe…
/r/ExRedPill01/02/23 10:14 PM
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this sub is Ex RP, guy. You don't seem to be there yet.
/r/ExRedPill31/01/23 05:34 PM
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Except it literally doesn't say that. It's not unrealistic to expect your partner to be emotionally supportive, to work to make the relationship a team, to be obviously mutully beneficial, and to expect honest and open communication. Do you think those are unrealistic expectations? Don't you expect your partner to support you, without requiring you to do all the emotional heavy lifting?
/r/ExRedPill31/01/23 05:12 PM
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Hmm. I'm not sure I agree with your last sentence, at least the "will never" part. It very much depends on the individuals involved, but it's not rare for a pair of friends to develop a romantic relationship that more or less just "happens". I mean, sure, one or both of them will have to confront their feelings and make them known to the other person. But I'd say it's not like a pair of friends had no sexual attraction to each other, then sat down and mutually decided to want to be attracted to …
/r/ExRedPill27/01/23 04:04 PM
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Why do you think you haven't had any romantic success, despite having mostly female friends? What are your expectations of your female friends? Why have most of your friends been women? (I'm genuinely asking here, not trying to ask presumptive or leading questions)
/r/ExRedPill27/01/23 01:31 AM
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Oh crap, sorry for interpreting it that way. Yeah, after re-reading, pretty sure we're totally on the same wavelenth here. 🤝🤗
/r/ExRedPill27/01/23 01:28 AM
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This is a very salient point, and should definitely be highlighted and recognized. But I don't think you're contradicting my point; rather, you're adding nuance to it. Where PUA culture is focused on "bagging" women (pardon the term; it's blunt, but the imagery is apt), successful relationships are not part really part of PUA culture. So the goal should be to identify men with successful relationships, and understand and emulate their attitudes and practices. Right? I'm not trying to minimize th…
/r/ExRedPill26/01/23 10:59 PM
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Wouldn't it make more sense to hypothesize that men who fail at relationships should learn to think like men who are successful at relationships, rather than learn to think lke women?
/r/ExRedPill26/01/23 03:25 PM
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I understand what you're saying. But again, context matters in this case. AT's entire persona was built around disrespecting women, acquiring then disposing of women, etc. So, in response to his troll efforts, Thunberg cut to the very essence of his hateful brand, with a few choice words. I think the lesson to takeaway is, the bad person here is AT. You should think more about his hurtful, hateful branding, and how he had roped in so many young men into his schtick.
/r/ExRedPill30/12/22 04:53 PM
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Be careful about generalizations. You're correct, body shaming and gendered slurs are not okay. And that includes "small dick" jokes etc. But no, Thunberg's slam at AT doesn't show how women truly feel about penis size. It's more a commentary about how much penis size seems to matter to insecure men, IMO. And specifically, it's a conversation between 2 public personas, that was held in the public sphere. There's a lot of context that matters here. Did AT absolutely deserve it? Yes. Will I chasti…
/r/ExRedPill30/12/22 04:05 PM
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That's good to hear that you don't spend time in rp spaces. But I strongly urge you not to rely on it naturally to happen. A lot of rp-adjacent spaces are like pipelines to rp/bp thought, and they seem to prey or rely on "rudderless" men. You might not even be aware of the push/pull from those spaces, and it will seem your direction was "naturally" determined. But there's a lot of algorithmic push to draw rudderless men into their spheres. Direction and steering can be as little as seeking out t…
/r/ExRedPill22/12/22 05:20 AM
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I think I can relate (albeit, differently, obviously). But sometimes, you just have to put your rudder in the water and start paddling. It might not point exactly where you want to end up, but as long as in you're aiming in the rough general direction, when you get energy, motivation, or even lucky winds, you're at least moving roughly towards the destination. So tacking away from analogy, if you want to move away from red pill, then at the very least, don't spend any time in red pill spaces, ri…
/r/ExRedPill22/12/22 04:57 AM
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This is purely a rhetorical analogy, from a woman, no less, so make of it what you will. But if you're a small sailboat in a calm sea, is there a possibility the wind will pick up and take you to the shore you want to be at? Sure, it's possible. But the chances are higher that you'll end up somewhere else. Instead, take control of the tiller, tack or jib to where you know you need to be. And when the wind won't help, start paddling to the desired shore. It takes effort to get there, for sure. Bu…
/r/ExRedPill22/12/22 04:27 AM
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😭😍😭❤️
/r/ExRedPill13/11/22 11:44 AM
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Women in general seem to be raised with better emotional balance than men This is one of the key things that feminists note about men in society, just like men note in men's groups. This is one of the examples of toxic masculinity, that men suffer with: men aren't allowed, socially, to be vulnerable or to be in touch with their emotions. 'Toxic masculinity' isn't a term that means 'men being shitty to women'. That could very well be a part of toxic masculinity, but really, at its core, 'toxic ma…
/r/ExRedPill03/11/22 12:47 AM
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absolutely
/r/ExRedPill02/11/22 03:24 PM
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🫂💜 I'm sorry your so-called friend betrayed your trust and mocked you to others. She is a shit person. You didn't deserve that, at all. Regardless, you should set it in your mind to be done with her. For your own mental health and self worth, resist any urges to message her, get in a last point about how wrong or hurtful she was, etc. Every time you do that, you re-traumatize yourself, letting yourself be a raw wound, and it resets the healing and scar-building process. Because it is just that: …
/r/ExRedPill02/11/22 02:48 PM
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If you keep seeing things you don't like (or don't want to like) in the places you keep looking, then stop looking in those places. But to answer your question, understand that social media, especially places like tiktok, elevates the outlandish and attention-seeking behaviors. Normalcy doesn't get amplified, because it's not interesting or shocking. Don't mistake common-on-tiktok behavior as common or representative for all (whatever subset or group). The plural of 'anecdote' is not 'data'.
/r/ExRedPill19/10/22 05:24 PM
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