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| 1 | Women attracted to personality and confidenceYou are not as great of a person as you think you are. | /r/AllPillDebate | 11/11/23 04:10 PM |
| 1 | Women attracted to personality and confidenceYou resorting to attacking me here already tells me you’re an awful human being. You don’t get to pick and choose who you’re kind to and still be a person to be adored. Guarantee you are not as positive IRL as you think you are.. | /r/AllPillDebate | 11/11/23 04:00 PM |
| 1 | Women attracted to personality and confidenceI’ve known plenty of people like you. Your negativity is exhausting to be around… to the point of being avoided | /r/AllPillDebate | 11/11/23 03:45 PM |
| 1 | Women attracted to personality and confidenceAscended? lol what are YOU talking about? I’m talking about basic psychology and mindset practices. And I think I know a thing or two about living in this world after nearly 50 years on the planet.. Life is short. Don’t sell yourself short. Focus on the positive and what’s working for you, not against you. Bitterness, anger judgment… Won’t serve you in the long run. Ultimately, You are in control of your mindset and beliefs, not external circumstances and others opinions. Own it. Work with it. R… | /r/AllPillDebate | 11/11/23 03:12 PM |
| 1 | “You 👏🏼 aren’t 👏🏼 entitled 👏🏼 to 👏🏼 women’s 👏🏼 bodies” how cringe are the people who say this to everyone who complains about dating?As a woman, I have countless times experienced men who act as if they’re entitled to a relationship or sex. I have also been through some extremely scary and life threatening experiences as the result of men getting angry because they didn’t get that. And before you come after me, I’m a compassionate straightforward and kind person… and treat men with respect. I don’t play with people I don’t lie. Many of these men portrayed themselves to be the same, until they didn’t. Perhaps there might be a … | /r/AllPillDebate | 10/11/23 09:08 PM |
| 1 | Women attracted to personality and confidencelol. Well, yes, I might be slightly leaning on the side of AuDHD… you got that right. Personally, I see that as a positive. Look, you can continue being bitter towards women, but I guarantee you things are not gonna get better if you continue to go down that path. | /r/AllPillDebate | 09/11/23 12:50 PM |
| 1 | Women attracted to personality and confidenceI see a lot of generalizations there and seem to have categorized an entire gender into being a specific way. I encourage you to reexamine your beliefs and perceptions, you will see a change happen too. I for one dislike neurotypical men, I do like neurodivergent men who have their shit together.This esoteric mystical spiritual post-hoc cancer is really just all the emotional awareness insight and inner work that women do that men seem super challenged and often refuse to do. | /r/AllPillDebate | 08/11/23 06:59 PM |
| 1 | There's literally nothing to do in life as an ugly short male?Then what? Enjoy your life? Enjoy the self growth and refinement.. Enjoy the rewards of hard work to improve your self esteem… Enjoy all the people and things that enter your life… get over the belief that women don’t want short men.. I see super short men in deeply fulfilling loving relationships all the time.. Spend some time in the mirror everyday appreciating and loving how you look and that self love will become the reflection you show the world … You are allowing yourself to get caught up … | /r/AllPillDebate | 08/11/23 06:41 PM |
| 1 | Women attracted to personality and confidenceAlso, you focused on one tiny little bit that was more abstract and ignored the whole bit at the end that is relatable and applicable | /r/AllPillDebate | 07/11/23 01:47 AM |
| 1 | Women attracted to personality and confidenceThe electromagnetic spectrum is real, and we only perceive a small percentage of it with our eyes.. same with the inner mechanisms of our body.. Thoughts emotions those are all electrical energetic impulses, happening in the brain… Yes, they can be perceived externally to those who are perceptive | /r/AllPillDebate | 07/11/23 01:45 AM |
| 0 | Women attracted to personality and confidenceAs a woman, I’m a big believer that attractiveness emits out of your energy field. Doesn’t matter if you look like a Chad or not. I try to be open minded when it comes to looks, however, I can get a good baseline on your inner world (your thoughts, emotions, general self care and energy) by a face reading and body language. IT ALL STARTS THERE. Get your inner world in order and you’re going to be a catch. Personally I don’t want to be with someone with low self esteem, bitterness and judgement t… | /r/AllPillDebate | 06/11/23 08:51 PM |
| 1 | Women attracted to personality and confidenceRealistically, there has to be some level of physical attraction between two people for a relationship to work. No, the guy doesn’t have to be a CHAD, and yes Personality and confidence are a part of that overall attraction. | /r/AllPillDebate | 06/11/23 05:14 PM |
| 1 | It’s over if ur 5.5 inches😆 and you wonder why women want nothing to do with you | /r/AllPillDebate | 28/10/23 05:26 PM |
| 1 | It’s over if ur 5.5 inchesI would advise you to start looking at why you choose to hold onto negative perspectives that don’t serve you. It’s a choice. You can take pill#1 and continue on with your miserable life where Nothing changes. Or you can take pill #2 start working on your beliefs, perspectives, healing, and shifting your anger and bitterness while changing your habits and ultimately self, and eventually see your world gets better. Choice is yours. | /r/AllPillDebate | 28/10/23 04:03 PM |
| 1 | It’s over if ur 5.5 inchesOf all the positive things you could’ve focused on, you brought it back to that. I’m a tall woman, I have a long vagina and I need a larger dick. It doesn’t make sense for me to have sex when I don’t feel anything. Trust me, there are many women out there who don’t care about size, so stop focusing on the ones who do, and find yourself one that doesn’t it’s not a factor for her. Are you giving yourself away that you have a small dick and this is at the root of all your insecurity? I’ve known man… | /r/AllPillDebate | 28/10/23 03:41 PM |
| 1 | It’s over if ur 5.5 inchesRespectfully, I think the men here in this sub are focusing on all the wrong things, and digging yourselves into a deeper hole in the process. Anger, bitterness, entitlement, and judgment will only inevitably reflect in your interactions with women. Women especially have a keen instinct to smell that, and it goes both ways, men can smell it on women too. First of all, shallow men and women have existed throughout all time, it’s nothing new. Second, not everyone is that way so don’t focus on thos… | /r/AllPillDebate | 27/10/23 11:33 PM |
| -2 | If you aren't attracted to your looksmatch, then you rightfully should be a genetic dead endEvery human being should be in a relationship with someone that they are happy to be in a relationship with. Stay in your lane and focus on finding that person who’s right for you. Stop being so bitter and judgmental. It’s unattractive. | /r/AllPillDebate | 25/10/23 05:35 PM |
| 1 | RE Female Incel On Lookism and Being UglyYou could argue that… But I also believe no one is truly ugly… And that there is someone out there for everyone. It’s our perspectives about being perceivably unattractive or at a disadvantage that leads people to end up being alone. And this is largely a western societal disease… I notice couples all the time, where I’m amazed how they ended up in a relationship. We all deserve love. And that starts with loving ourselves, and being compassionate to each other. There is someone out there for eve… | /r/AllPillDebate | 20/10/23 11:50 AM |
| 1 | RE Female Incel On Lookism and Being UglyWhat is the point of living this life, if we’re just gonna give in to things never changing, getting worse, and not healing. What’s the point of living? If we don’t attempt and continually strive to make things better? Isn’t that one of our defining human characteristics? The ability to evolve? If we give into stagnation or devolving, it becomes our downfall. Personally and societally | /r/AllPillDebate | 20/10/23 11:21 AM |
| 1 | RE Female Incel On Lookism and Being UglyWe need to have these hard conversations. Or nothing will ever change and will continue to get worse. I know change is hard, I know it’s extremely hard to take a look in the mirror and really see at all the ways Our attitudes and beliefs are not serving us on a personal level or a societal one. it’s extremely hard. But if there’s anything worth fighting for, it’s that. and I don’t just mean motivating people to change, I mean people having the courage to take that hard look at themselves and rea… | /r/AllPillDebate | 20/10/23 11:16 AM |
| 2 | RE Female Incel On Lookism and Being UglySounds to me like you’re extremely bitter about the opposite sex… in fact, that aggressive hateful attitude is no different than the man you witnessed hitting his girlfriend and nobody doing anything about it. What are you doing about it? Your own attitude, your own bitterness? Your own attack on women? How does that help things get better? It doesn’t it only makes it worse, for you and everyone else. And women can pick up on that subconsciously… Women are very energetically intuitive. | /r/AllPillDebate | 20/10/23 02:34 AM |
| 1 | RE Female Incel On Lookism and Being UglyRespectfully, you know absolutely nothing about my life. Nothing about my struggles. Nothing about my relationships. Look it’s not easy out there for everyone. I get that. The best we can do is refine ourselves to be someone who is appealing to be in a relationship with. That does not have to be superficial. So ask yourself, in what ways can I improve myself instead of feeling sorry for myself, complaining about it, and lashing out at others. Start with self-love, look in the mirror every day an… | /r/AllPillDebate | 20/10/23 02:23 AM |
| 0 | RE Female Incel On Lookism and Being UglyObviously, we are humans and slightly more evolved than animals… But do you really want to get rid of the mating dance? that is so beautiful.. As a woman looking for a partner, I don’t want to be with just some dude that doesn’t put in any effort into himself or his life, and just expects me to take him as he is. American men are really good at that . Personally, I’m highly attracted to non-American men, and have a near zero attraction to most American men. Let’s use the example of European men … | /r/AllPillDebate | 20/10/23 01:09 AM |
| -1 | RE Female Incel On Lookism and Being UglyIt goes both ways.. don’t forget.. and it applies in many other ways than sexual attraction. It’s a human infection of toxic ways … we see it in everything.. question is when are we going to start healing it.. | /r/AllPillDebate | 19/10/23 10:54 PM |
| 1 | RE Female Incel On Lookism and Being UglyHave you ever watched any nature documentary… All animals do this… We fight for the best of resources. We are literally designed that way.. some animals have magnificent displays and mating dances to attract a mate.. it’s incredible and beautiful actually.. instead of whining about it.. ask yourself what you can do to increase your value. And please don’t fall into the trap of comparing yourself to anyone or anything.. or hating on what you were born with… just focus on you… work with what you g… | /r/AllPillDebate | 19/10/23 10:52 PM |
| -5 | RE Female Incel On Lookism and Being UglyLol… Dude, have you ever watched any nature documentary ever? The entire animal kingdom behaves like this.. and often it’s the male of the species that is performing to attract the attention of the woman. | /r/AllPillDebate | 19/10/23 10:49 PM |
| -7 | RE Female Incel On Lookism and Being UglyMen have unconsciously through their own toxic behaviors created an environment where women feel unsafe and unsafe with other women. Not all men but a lot of them. It’s been going on long enough that it’s created deep rooted problem . And that’s what’s at the root of this. You can bitch about it, blame, character attack, call people names like Chad… But unless you understand the dynamics of the root cause on why these things are happening… and be a part of dismantling and healing that… In a heal… | /r/AllPillDebate | 19/10/23 09:41 PM |
| -5 | RE Female Incel On Lookism and Being UglyI think you guys are missing the mark on why this happens. Women are competing with each other for the attention of men, because biologically men are visual creatures, whether you want to admit that are not. Women subconsciously or consciously know this and have behaviors towards them selves and each other that will get them selected by men for sex or partnership. Women feel threatened by other women and behave accordingly for self preservation and hierarchy and it all comes down to competing fo… | /r/AllPillDebate | 19/10/23 09:08 PM |
| 1 | It’s over if ur 5.5 inchesMen: I cannot stress this enough… Every woman is different. Different body/vagina size. Different pleasure points. Different preferences for what they determine as their sexual satisfaction. Do not limit yourself in thinking you are undesirable. Find a woman who fits well with what you got to offer. | /r/AllPillDebate | 15/10/23 08:27 PM |
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