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Lily-in-the-Valley/r/MGTOW17/06/20 10:29 AM
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⩞⩞⩜⩞⩞Lily-in-the-Valley/r/MGTOW18/06/20 12:14 AM
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Legal RightsLily-in-the-Valley/r/MensRights19/06/20 11:26 PM
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Nah, Xi Jinping will make sure that every young person who doesn't get married by 25 to be sent to jail and every young couple who don't give birth to minimum 5 kids to get a hefty fine if he's running out of slaves.
/r/MGTOW223/02/21 11:49 PM
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Can't see this happening in the East yet, at least not in the next 500 years in a country like China where every young girl will get a tap on their shoulder from their mum saying "My darling daughter, you are turning 25 next year...." And followed by weekly reminders since that talk. "Remember Auntie xxx? My primary school friend, she was a grandma with 2 grandkids when she was 45! And look at me! I'm nearly 50 and still not a grandma! You really don't care about me...."
/r/MGTOW223/02/21 01:37 PM
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Because they are stuck with tons of bills to pay.
/r/MGTOW205/02/21 09:34 PM
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Or 5%
/r/MGTOW205/02/21 09:30 PM
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He's probably referring to the monthly period pain, risky pregnancies and difficult childbirths when he says "women's reproductive health " issues.
/r/MensRights14/08/20 09:34 AM
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Yes they will. They will understand and love you back one day. Just hang in there.
/r/MensRights07/08/20 08:24 PM
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You have been through a lot , but please don't kill yourself. Your children will come back to you when they grow up, you can rebuild the relationship with them then. There's a future you can look forward to.
/r/MensRights07/08/20 12:46 PM
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This ☝️. I can give advice for managing a LTR but not for quick hook ups. And I have almost 0 experience in that area myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 01:00 PM
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Yes exactly. In reality, she's really not "the one" (who has rejected him), or his dream girl (who he probably didn't have the courage to ask out) but just one of his many attempts who he finally managed to woo and didn't run away. Any women who don't realise that is just too much into romance novels and chick flicks. It doesn't mean that he's not into you, but he's just not THAT into you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 09:29 AM
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Nope, when they know they got it, they've got attentions thrown at them , they don't need to constantly seek validation through sleeping around. That's probably why.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 09:00 PM
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Agree. But as I said before, because irl cases, it usually are men who do the chasing, and men are visually stimulated homo sapiens, they probably won't continue talking to you when you first meet if they aren't finding you attractive, that assessment takes a mere 0.25 second. And how long does it take to find out if someone has an interesting and lovable personality and decide on each others compatibility? Quite a few weeks right? So unless he's being forced to stick around (like in a work plac…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 08:35 PM
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Yes that's true. If I were given a second chance, I would probably get married when I finished high school and be a stay at home mum to raise babies. But the pressure from family and friends were pretty big on girls to not to be "just a housewife ", because it certainly would reinforce that "women are useless" point of view surrounding us. It would not make my parents proud. For the first time in our history, being a housewife is no longer good enough. Sometimes it makes me feel sad thinking abo…
/r/MensRights05/08/20 01:14 PM
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I can't be with a man who isn't physically attracted to me. And after all, men's assessment on a woman's attractiveness only takes 0.25 second, so it's not hard to find out.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 10:24 AM
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My SO told me he would never chase/ be with a woman he's not physically/sexually attracted to. So I guess the situation you describe is probably unlikely to happen in real life? Especially when in most of the cases men are doing the chasing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 09:57 AM
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I think when the Western feminism arrived in the 50s, it wasn't very strong initially, because our local traditions were too ancient and strong. People thought how was it possible? Women working in factories and building dams and bridges like men? You must be joking. So the first generation of young women dashed out and tried to prove they could, but they also paid a big price for what they did, suffered work place injuries , premature death and other health issues that stay at home wives didn't…
/r/MensRights05/08/20 08:10 AM
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My grandma passed away when I was 15. But her words and what she went through in her own life were what drove me to study and work hard all these years. I cherish the education and work rights I am given and also the opportunity to choose my own husband (I was very scared of arranged marriage when I was a little girl). When I was little she kept telling me how lucky I was to be able to go to school but of course I didn't understand why and didn't think so because I wanted to stay home and play l…
/r/MensRights05/08/20 07:21 AM
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It's difficult for us to choose. My own grandma was sold to my grandpa when she was 15 and never went to school so never learnt how to write. She kept popping out babies from 16yo and stayed home her whole life, endured physical abuse and wasn't allowed to seek employment because my grandpa told her she was too stupid to work outside. So she was very happy to see me having a good education and had the opportunity to work. She was always there encouraging me to study hard so I could have a much b…
/r/MensRights05/08/20 06:54 AM
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Where i came from (not India), girls from big cities probably are slightly more Westernized but once they hit 28, their parents will give them the reality check. Country areas are the same old same old, boys will be sent to school for education and better job prospects and girls marry and have kids young. When I was in high school we had this "Hope" project where one class helped out a rural family with their daughters education fees. Our class sponsored 2 girls from the same family whose parent…
/r/MensRights05/08/20 05:50 AM
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Unfortunately the fear was deeply planted. We were told from a young age that if we chose to just be a housewife and relied on our husband to be the sole income earner of the family, the chance of him becoming successful in his career, making a lot of money and turning around to divorce us and marry a younger woman when we are 45yos stuck with a few kids at home and unemployable is almost 100%. So all the young girls got scared and anxious about what career path we should choose, even when we wa…
/r/MensRights05/08/20 12:19 AM
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Yes that's true. Feminism is everywhere "empowering " women. When I grew up I could feel that the definition of a good housewife was already rewritten, a stay at home mum would be laughed at as someone "boring and useless", which gave pressure to all of us to study hard and seek employment after school as none of us wanted to be seen as "a burden to the society ", and meanwhile our grandmas aunts and mums kept telling us not to be promiscuous and train us on house keeping skills in our teen year…
/r/MensRights04/08/20 07:30 PM
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Interesting. I didn't grow up in the West so I can't relate. But that sounds like boys have very different expectations on girls when they start dating. I wonder what caused that mismatch. I mean in the East , traditional expectations of women heavily focused on being good wives to husbands and great mums to our kids, and I can see most of my girlfriends followed that path faithfully.
/r/MensRights04/08/20 07:11 PM
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What about when you were with your school mates? Or male cousins? Any such discussions took place about women's nature?
/r/MensRights04/08/20 06:41 PM
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So are there any men raised in a red pilled environment at all?
/r/MensRights04/08/20 01:06 PM
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Post your videos on Twitter #KarensGoneWild
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 04:02 AM
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Basically that's what's going to happen. Rich single men in their 60s after working their butt off for decades chasing career sucess will have no problems getting young girlfriends, while women will have nothing much left after years of living an expensive lifestyle while striking for a "work life balance" (Working PT on low skilled jobs, constantly planning for the next holidays etc). And if they don't see that coming they are simply delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/20 11:56 PM
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Therefore, no one is really seeking a solution, but will continue to complain until it becomes a common lifestyle choice for many.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/20 05:21 AM
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But OP seems to be concerned about the growing number of cat ladies by choice as those who have sky high standards give up earlier than before and convert to the WGTOW way. My observation on both groups have been that they aren't going to drop their standards any time soon. It's either marrying Mr Perfect or boxed wine and cats.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/20 04:07 AM
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Yes and there are psychological factors affecting sex drive too, for example, "nymphomaniacs" who probably have a damaged past therefore need constant validation through sex, and low libido men who are probably suffering from depression. Biologically women aren't hard wired to think about sex as often as men but exceptions applied.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 02:34 PM
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OIC. Yes the title is a bit misleading.
/r/MensRights22/07/20 02:05 PM
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There's another book called "The Male Brain " written by the same neurologist. Some women naturally have more T than others. That's for sure. In fact there are successful cases of increasing women's libido by injecting T, although there's a price to pay. Also bear in mind that nymphomaniacs probably have a psychological condition, e.g. excessive attention or validation seeking, and do not represent the majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 01:03 PM
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Lol. Please don't ever bitch sluts, as they are such a rare minority, they should be cherished by all men. 200 years ago their high sex drive sisters were still being sent to psychiatric wards to receive treatments to cure their special condition.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 01:01 PM
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"Testosterone naturally rises—along with sexual urges—during the second week of the cycle, right before ovulation occurs at the peak of fertility. Estrogen does not cause increased sex drive by itself but peaks along with testosterone at the midpoint of the menstrual cycle. Estrogen tends to make females more receptive to sex and is essential for vaginal lubrication." From "The Female Brain" - written by Louann Brizendine, M.D., a diplomate of the American Board of Psychiatry and Neurology and t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 12:40 PM
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Doesn't drive it as strongly as testosterone, which is the #1 hormone for sex drive and aggression.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 11:59 AM
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The problem isn't being a nice guy, it's more about not knowing how to set boundaries at all.
/r/MensRights22/07/20 10:11 AM
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Well I don't approach any men...and neither do any of my girlfriends.
/r/MensRights22/07/20 06:13 AM
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I usually want it once a week but my SO supplies waaaay more than that lol. When I was not in a relationship I went months without and was fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 06:12 AM
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Yes agree. The examples you quoted are in deed some extreme cases, not a representation of the majority. Yet a high sex drive is prominent in many men. That's all.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 04:06 AM
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And discussion on male vs female sex drive will be pointless if we disregard the biological differences, it will be like arguing my upper body strength is as strong as Dwayne Johnson's, and it's because I think so, and whether you believe it or not it doesn't matter. While in fact it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 03:49 AM
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True that. But women don't have as much of a sex drive as men's and it's now backed by science, facts not fiction. Men's brains have twice as big a area as women's to process sexual needs and desires. It's just biologically impossible for women to catch up with men in regards to sex drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 01:17 AM
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We've all heard about these horny women folk stories, but here are scientific research for you, done by leading neurologists : "Thoughts about sex enter a woman’s brain perhaps once a day, but may enter a man’s brain about once every minute." "In both males and females, testosterone is the chemical fuel that gets the brain’s sexual engine going. When there’s enough fuel, testosterone revs the hypothalamus, igniting erotic feelings and arousing sexual fantasies and physical sensations in the erog…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 10:22 PM
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Yes, but they are thinking of adopting or using other methods instead, and only when they are ready.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 09:59 PM
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True but the good thing is, women don't have to have a strong sex drive to have sex, as long as our men can take some time to warm us up, we can still start the engine lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 09:54 PM
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I think so too. Which isn't a bad thing as long as we can manage to pop out some babies still.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 09:49 PM
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Agreed. Only a few days each month we want it lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 09:46 PM
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Sounds like some of my girlfriends. They seem to be happily pottering around their house all weekend, not going anywhere and they are fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 06:10 AM
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Unfortunately it's biology to blame, for the lower desire in women. And yes I can confirm with some of my girlfriends who choose to be single they aren't even bother to date anyone, there's no desperate attempt to be partnered with a man in the near future. As long as they have a job and a pet they are happy. There's no more pressure from society to push them to find a husband so they are cool with being single. TRP keeps talking about how if women have such high standards they will become cat l…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 05:57 AM
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Yep. Those days are over for me. Never really single since I turned 16.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 02:33 AM
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Yes but I can't just go, I can't leave my SO behind, he'll be heart broken and I don't want to see that. "What the hell are you moving to Japan for? Stay with me!"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 02:19 AM
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You mean in another 100 years there will be only Middle Eastern countries left...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 05:47 PM
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Yep, like locking up all the lions in one cage lol. Disastrous.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 03:56 PM
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Yeah that's right. A great loving relationship is fun and beneficial for both man and woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 03:22 PM
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You know when I first heard about MGTOW men complaining how life sucks and it can be so lonely sometimes, I thought about the sisterhood straight away, like why can't all these MGTOW men move in together so they have someone to share their hobbies. But you are right, men need to have a purpose for them to live together peacefully or it won't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 03:18 PM
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I miss my girlfriends all the time. But we have all grown up and have our own life now. Maybe in our 60s we can do it again! But it's hard to choose because I do love being loved and adored and cared for by my SO like a babe and enjoy sex with him a lot too. So not in a hurry to go back to join the sisterhood lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 02:56 PM
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😂😂😂 For some reason whatever we wear there's always someone somewhere think it's hot. I think we women are overly concerned about how we look and what we should wear 99% of the time.
/r/MensRights20/07/20 02:54 PM
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That's why they are encouraging dresses and stockings on men? Lol
/r/MensRights20/07/20 02:49 PM
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True. Sadly I don't look good wearing cargo shorts or utility jackets so I will stick to my handbag.
/r/MensRights20/07/20 02:48 PM
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It was agreed upon by all the the girls that we would appreciate to have a place where we could just have no make up on no hair done up , dressed as little or as comfortable as possible no fear of being peeked at by perverts , can walk out of our showers naked and not being touched or teased etc etc, a true sanctuary.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 02:41 PM
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Really? But what about those in the military or in some big construction projects or mining sector. Those men manage well right? As for our girls we didn't allow anyone to bring their partners in. Any quick flings should be done outside of our " sanctuary ". And if we found a new bf we could live with him for a while and come back after when the fling was over. It was strictly a female only place where we could walk around with only comfy pjs or even just undies on and it was fine lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 02:26 PM
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I am amazed how lack of respect these women have for most men tbh. No idea why they think it's ok to laugh at men acting manly. At the same time they think men on heels or in a dress are being progressive so should be encouraged....weird. So glad my SO is a manly man and has no sense of fashion which I totally adore lol.
/r/MensRights20/07/20 02:10 PM
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I don't know if men enjoy living with other men but it's definitely an option. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 01:58 PM
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Lol. I can have sushi everyday! Maybe I should still move there.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 12:24 PM
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Exactly. And they look comfy to wear too.
/r/MensRights20/07/20 12:23 PM
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The sisterhood never disappoints us.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 12:22 PM
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Sad....I really love eating sushi 😂 and was thinking of moving there once.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 10:58 AM
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I'm not quite sure I like to live the Japanese way either. But I can see why the attraction for young generation not to get married and start a family. It's just easier that way for both men and women. You get up and work and look after yourself, and socialise with your friends after work, play computer games all weekend that's it. Get a couple of pets. Too easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 10:07 AM
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Lol. I had no idea. I personally have no problems with men's clothing choice. I only don't like looking at those super tight/skinny jeans on men. But again it's not me to stop anyone from wearing anything they like.
/r/MensRights20/07/20 06:22 AM
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Same here. I thought those cargo shorts and utility jackets for men are really practical too with all the extra deep pockets for carrying things around. Literally eliminate the need for a handbag! Envious. Lol
/r/MensRights20/07/20 05:53 AM
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What? Why? What's wrong with cargos?
/r/MensRights20/07/20 04:25 AM
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Lol I guess I am and so are many of my girlfriends. I found living with other girls incredibly easy and enjoyable. We had 24/7 access to chat/ babble buddies when we felt like chatting, hugging and bonding. We also had high hygiene standards so our communal areas were pretty much spotless plus we had similar hobbies to share and practice together. It was soooo good. Also it's completely different from living with parents coz nobody can boss you around.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 02:57 AM
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No they don't live with roommates, they have individual living spaces but then share communal areas like lounge room and kitchen etc. It can be fun actually. I lived in girls dormitories for 10 years and loved it!! I made soooo many friends and some become my BFFs. It was awesome!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 01:53 AM
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History tells us that women who refused to get married would end up living with their BFFs until they died. And it was once a popular choice for many women. They formed their own villages for the sisterhood. Check out the "Comb sisters". https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Comb_Sister Currently this practice is having its popularity back in Japan, South Korea and many parts of China. I read stories of 8 career women in their 50s who bought a big block of land in central China and built their own mul…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 01:29 AM
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Lower class women have been forming sisterhood living arrangements with their BFFs. It's happening in Japan and Korea already. Historically it was a common practice in some Asian areas like around the Pearl River Delta. They were not lesbians but just women who preferred to live with other women than getting into a marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 01:18 AM
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I heard that most young people there no longer bother themselves with looking for a partner too. Women have their careers sorted, want no kids, and some live in shared accommodation with their BFFs, seems to be happy and having fun. Marriage is no longer necessary for either gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 01:10 AM
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It's already happening in Japan and South Korea. But yes that's pretty much what the future looks like.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 01:24 PM
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This ☝️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 12:51 PM
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No worries. Been cruising around uncharted water since 13yo when I left home.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 04:58 AM
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Seriously. Some men are deeply hurt when they find out you are seeing someone else at the same time and they are totally not ok with that. It's for the protection of everyone's feelings (And safety in some cases) that transparency is there from day 1. My personal experience is that men can be very possessive if they like someone, even before any commitments are made. Went through a 3 years relationship in high school and experienced some intense mate guarding. TRP is right , mate guarding is for…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 01:52 AM
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No I promote ethical dating practices to minimise game playing and hurting too many people's feelings. Because I've seen enough people doing that and they can't stop hurting others
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 01:34 AM
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What? That's not my understanding of "juggling" at all. Ok that bit I don't agree on.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 01:31 AM
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Go back to OPs original post, juggling men/Women = sleeping around with multiple people at the same time. I don't know what you are on about.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 01:13 AM
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That's exactly my initial statement....people who play games with others hurting their feelings and use someone else to fix their own personal problems are terrible and shameful, that's all. You need to read it again. If you aren't those people then stop reading too deeply into it and feel insulted
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 01:04 AM
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Ok you do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 01:01 AM
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Insulting those who sleep around without a purpose? You better don't step in a church or you'll feel even more insulted and butt hurt lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 01:00 AM
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No I am not forcing monogamy on you, but it's a default in many people's mind so you need to communicate that with them early on that you are dating multiple people and they aren't the only one. Its all about honesty and transparency.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 12:58 AM
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You can ignore me. No one force you to debate with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 12:55 AM
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Lol. Well maybe it's just you but all the dates I met asked for exclusiveness very early on therefore I had to decide If I could give it to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 12:36 AM
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You mean you can't figure out someone within 2 weeks of being together? That's a pretty long time for me. All my relationships started with intense chatting day and night and we went through from personal goals to future careers to kids to religions to interests to hobbies to what they like for dinners etc etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 12:30 AM
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Game playing , fooling around with many different boys and drama stuff are for teenagers. Yes I did plenty of that in high school years and by the time I was a young adult I already knew what kind of men I was after. I dated each person exclusively and gave out my notification pretty much within 2 weeks so we could both moved on. There's no need to play with anyone's emotions, put them on the back burner or use them as a backup plan.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 12:23 AM
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Lol. Or maybe because I socialised with boys from a very young age and had always been friend to many of them throughout primary and high school years. They taught me many things from climbing trees to playing basketball to maths. That helps too. Never been a man hater once. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 12:10 AM
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Lol. Yep, things I love men for...another woman brainwashed by the patriarchy, the type feminists hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 11:55 PM
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100% !! Those are the masculine qualities I'm after. Chads with their inflated egos are just a bunch of insecure babies and they refuse to grow up. Real men never seek such validation as counting how many women they can sleep with or who can lift heavier and with bigger muscles etc, boasting those achievements instantly put me off.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 11:34 PM
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Hard to tell really, I personally don't want to get close to a chad with a high body count, it just puts me off straight away, on top of numerous other toxic personality traits like being super arrogant and thinking they are invincible etc etc, (e.g. those sports stars we met in high schoo, like they can sleep with any women on earth). I know what I'm after so I never went near one. I prefer a humble quiet achiever like my man.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 11:24 PM
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Yes I'm not quite sure why some attractive women sell low and put up with some really awful people either, being with bad company would have killed me. As for the sex part, I truly believe it's not that hard to figure out if the men are here "just for sex" and again I don't understand why many women complain about those guys and yet still give in? Or maybe they are signalling wrong and got the attention from the wrong kind of guys? I was super honest about my dating intention when I was dating "…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 11:06 PM
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People who's feelings got played with got hurt , because they figured out that they are being treated as a back up, more so just a number in some people's dating game.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 10:18 PM
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Lol. You are over complicating things a bit. When I said "mutually beneficial " I simply meant "giving someone a hug when they need one" sort of benefits, or "be there for them when bad things happened " or just simpler things like "Hey what do you want for dinner tonight? Let me make you your favourite lamb shoulder roast "....etc etc
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 10:16 PM
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No idea what you are on about. Our discussion is over.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 04:16 PM
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This is a public debate on general relationship issues, no need to get personal. I never do personal attacks on anyone either.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 04:08 PM
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I made up nothing against you. Please focus on OPs statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 04:03 PM
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Not the first date but within 2 weeks we were. I am judgemental of anyone who sleeps around for no reason , men or women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 03:58 PM
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Same here 😂. Been married since very young lol. Didn't get into the dating world but saw many nice people getting frustrated by all those games some people play.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 03:50 PM
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Well if you are clearly not that kind of person who's after exclusiveness in a relationship then this doesn't apply to you. Or you are hesitant or not sure what you want, it'll be months or years of going back and forth with different people, then this will make it very difficult for you do too.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 03:36 PM
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Yes that's it. Smaller people trying to get ourselves noticed and heard lol. Especially when I'm trying to talk to those very tall people, they always bend over to try to hear what I'm saying, it's embarrassing lol . I do learn a lot from my man although I can never speak with such a deep voice or look so muscular and intimidating like he does, he's my guardian angel. 😌
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 02:53 PM
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It's quite difficult tbh, when I speak people usually talk over me because they can't hear me plus I am kind of short and petite so always been overlooked. 🙄 But i am very lucky to have my man encouraging me to be firm and brave and confident. Also just knowing that he'll be there to negotiate for me gives me comfort. He's very strong, masculine and confident in handling any sort of negotiations so I just stick to him like glue.😂 We are like the complete opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 12:35 PM
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😔 Yes it took me years to summon enough courage to walk out from my first rather toxic relationship even though I knew everything wasn't right. For a very agreeable person like myself, the difficulties are always on how to express my disagreement in front of others without feeling overwhelmed. I figured out I just need to stay away from those who have the tendency to take advantage of this trait.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 09:39 AM
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This is exactly what I was trying to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 08:04 AM
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You see sometimes the problem with a female brain is that I read OPs statement and it quickly stired up emotions and past experience with some very selfish people who didnt want to contribute anything ro the relationship and claiming they were just feeling lonely so they dated. But yes I should analyse deeper and see the problem is being selfish not the act of dating itself. Next time I should put down the arguments clearer.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 07:00 AM
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Yes I realised it now. But I got sucked into it so quickly I lost control. It wasn't good, I should have backed off. I wasn't very good at rejecting people. I just never knew how to say no.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 06:42 AM
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The act OP describes, to me it's an act of playing with many people's feelings more than just "Seek human company " which is to me a total legit reason for dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 06:37 AM
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Ok let me go edit it to clear the confusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 06:30 AM
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There are lots of selfish people out there who only want to take from others, those are the ones i meant. Sorry if I didn't say it clearer.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 06:28 AM
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No not at all. Maybe i should say it clearer: I am against those who position themselves to take from a relationship only and have no intention to give. They can't be good friends or lovers long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 06:26 AM
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It is, because you have the potential to hurt someone else, and I don't want to hurt anyone for the sake of my own loneliness. I would rather not trouble people.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 06:19 AM
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Nope. End of the day we need to walk away with something from a relationship, otherwise it's not going to be sustainable. I am just saying it should be mutually beneficial, not one sided for yourself. I'm only against those who come out dating only when they are lonely and need someone to fix it, then they dump that person after using them for a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 06:10 AM
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As long as you don't date for the sake of killing the loneliness feeling and only take from people, you are not selfish. And seeking human company is a legit reason for dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 06:09 AM
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As long as it's mutually beneficial you are not dating with selfish reasons. I'm talking about people who only "take" from a relationship but never "give". That's selfish.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 06:05 AM
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I am all for monogamy once a relationship started so multiple partners just not a game for me. I find building relationships quite a time consuming practice. But good luck to those who have the energy to juggle a dozen.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 06:02 AM
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I quite enjoy my own company too tbh. Since I was always alone growing up with no siblings, I love spending time alone doing many things I like to do. It's total freedom.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 05:56 AM
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If you haven't met that's not even counted as dating anyone. Those are just empty numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 05:51 AM
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It's not. Building a meaningful relationship means you seek to help each other out in life. Listen, be useful, try your best to be there when they are not feeling the best. Those were things I did in my relationships. You don't have to be selfish.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 05:50 AM
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Yes that's true. And I'm aware of that too. Reasons why I am always trying to be a helpful friend instead of just take take take, or approach them when I'm in trouble.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 05:45 AM
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I did. And I'm purely expressing my concern for people who are hurt by this practice, nothing else.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 05:41 AM
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For me each time I met a new guy, the relationship took off, I didn't have any spare time to find anyone else, and that one relationship just kept going for a very long time. So I wouldn't know what it would be like dating multiple people.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 05:38 AM
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Because I respect people in general and I don't think I can build a meaningful relationship with too many people at once.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 05:25 AM
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I'm not against dating, Im against dating practice where people put a list of others as options and juggle that list all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 05:23 AM
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I believe seeking out human connections is fine as long as there's a genuine interest in building a relationship that's mutually beneficial. But there are too many people out there who are dating for rather selfish reasons, like just because they can't handle loneliness.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 05:21 AM
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That's very true. And bad company is worse than no company. Books are my best friends for years.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 05:11 AM
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Agreed. People really shouldn't date people like they are just numbers and play with so many people's feelings (as described in OPs statement). They should figure out how to juggle their own loneliness and have a better relationship with themselves first before trying to establish a connection with another human being. But then I never put myself "on the market " once, so I don't really know what it's like in the dating world. When I was lonely, I turned to do reading or knitting. And I could be…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 04:47 AM
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What a sad world we live in....
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 06:51 PM
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Your fisherman vs fish story/analogy is pretty impressive, I like it. It does work that way a lot of the time. So the key is to let him go fishing, and as long as I stay as his biggest catch the relationship will be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 01:25 PM
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True. But wouldn't you rather live? Is there nothing worth living for? The world would never provide me with everything I want but I am ok with that. At least I have people I want to care for.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 07:46 AM
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I see. I hope the world treats you kindly. I do have sympathy for men as many of you don't know how or where to express your feelings. To me that would be very hard to deal with because I'm a very emotional person but luckily society lets women cry whenever we want.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 07:12 AM
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Lol. I enjoy being a woman 100%. Although I did dreamed about being a boy when I was a young teen. But now I have grown up and I feel that the world around me has treated me gently because I'm a woman. And I prefer it that way. Sometimes I do wonder why many men have such a pessimistic outlook towards the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 05:28 AM
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Interesting to see that not many people call it a mental illness...But in a way it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 01:01 AM
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Yes that's true. Although I would assume most people these days are polite , respectful and more accepting of others.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 12:41 AM
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I can't believe there are people out there who hate trans people.....
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 11:16 PM
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Right now if you tell them the truth it becomes a hate speech.
/r/MensRights15/07/20 01:34 PM
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If I said to them, it's really not a good idea to put on so much weight for health reasons, will they call me "Fatphobic"? When I look at those big girls the first thing that crosses my mind is, how are their joints coping with the body weight they are carrying? I always feel the message of "Big girl you are beautiful ", "Love the way you are " etc etc , can do more harm than good to people.
/r/MensRights15/07/20 01:07 PM
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Absolutely....if that's what they want...Personally I would never do anything that crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 12:47 PM
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It's difficult to explain to those people but to me, the demand for respect is fair because we need to have socially acceptable behaviours towards other as we live in the same society. But sexual attraction is more of a private/personal space matter, so no one should be allowed to invade that space really. Like, I just can't look at a trans man the same way I look at a real man....I just don't feel attracted to "him". But I fully respect "his" choice to be the way "he" is.
/r/MensRights15/07/20 12:45 PM
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Probably not. It's quite a crazy idea tbh, I mean this whole transgender thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 12:40 PM
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Respect and sexual attraction are two different things, right? Like I respect trans men, but I will never be attracted to one.
/r/MensRights15/07/20 12:37 PM
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Yeah I really don't think those tissues will be remotely as sensitive as a real clitoris. Vaginal canal is still fairly sensitive though, PIV sex is pretty pleasurable for many of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 12:29 PM
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Yes I believe every man/woman, at some point of their life would have dreamed about being a woman /man. It's just a common fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 12:16 PM
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Unfortunately they don't feel a thing during PIV sex right?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 11:48 AM
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Yep, usually as soon as they talk I can tell. Also they're generally stronger looking, with bigger arm muscles.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 11:43 AM
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Somehow I can still tell they are trans women no matter how well they disguise it. Maybe because I used to live in girls dormitories for 10 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 11:42 AM
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If the man can't tell "she" was a man once, he must be very drunk. So that assault could be more likely induced by alcohol than by hating trans women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 11:37 AM
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Exactly right. When I was a 14 yo teenager I wanted to be a boy so I could join the military for fun (You know, being a pilot, traveling around the world, driving big tanks etc etc, all the cool stuff lol). But now I'm a mum and I fully enjoy being a woman in every way. Just imagine if my parents allowed me to go through some radical treatments to stuff up my hormones and my body back when I was 14..... the damage would have been irreversible.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 11:23 AM
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Your imagination is too vivid...... now I can't wipe it out of my mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 11:15 AM
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My man is both: a masculine, strong and powerful leader , and a tender, supportive, encouraging and giving lover. That's why I love him to the moon and back!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 04:07 AM
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Yes that's really what it is. It's just that feminism has been brainwashing young girls into believing many different things and turning them to act like men, putting careers over family, smoking, talking loudly, tattoos, short hair...etc etc, and call these behaviours as "empowerment". Really doesn't make sense to me. Why would behaving like a man makes women stronger? I am glad I get to know TRP concepts and have confirmation that what I have been doing is right. I had a lot of self doubts in …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 03:43 AM
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I met my man before I understood any of these TRP concepts and norms like alpha beta males etc. But now I see things more clearly and understand what drew a masculine alpha like him to me in the first place. It all makes sense: I was modest, non competitive, submissive and I stayed in my feminine self, he felt at ease and calm around me. There's this great masculine vs feminine polarity between us that makes the relationship work.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 03:29 AM
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Not all women are looking for perfection. But I have to admit most of us do have more than one tree to choose from. Perhaps that's the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 09:21 PM
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If you were given multiple trees to choose from, are you not going to choose the stronger and more hospitable one to stay for life?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 08:51 PM
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Probably. Any big cities will be the same
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 12:10 PM
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We are probably in the 0<N<5 range.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 11:08 AM
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Yep. My man is one of them. He just won't do anything that goes against Christian values and also very family focused.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 11:03 AM
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Yep ok he's quite handsome but then not the most handsome I went out with. I find a handsome face can look pretty boring once I figure out there's nothing more to it. I find an intelligent mind extremely attractive though. I always got drawn to intelligent guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 10:48 AM
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Can confirm, we are able to get away with what we do easily, and I did a fair bit of that when I was a student.
/r/MensRights13/07/20 10:10 AM
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That's true too. I'm a Christian and although i mingle with lots of non Christians, I choose friends who share similar values like being family focused. We just don't have the need to sleep around.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 10:05 AM
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Well I can only say I am not in that category and neither are many of the women I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 09:59 AM
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Very hard to draw a conclusion on this sort of things. Also, it says "10 partners before their first marriage".... Seriously? Who would have enough time for that? Unless they count ONS as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 09:54 AM
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Sample size too small. Method of selection unknown.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 09:46 AM
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More than 20% of women.. So how many of women in total did they survey, 3.85 billion?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 09:44 AM
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Again, world population of 2019 was 7.7 billion.....50% was 3.85 billion.....
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 09:41 AM
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Let me tell you something. Men constantly underestimate themselves as good trees and they think women are looking for a perfect tree. We are not. My man isn't perfect either and he's certainly under 6 foot, isn't looking like Ken (from Barbie), and doesn't own a company or any massive amount of money. But the masculine qualities he possesses attract me to stay with him for life and we both have what each other is looking for in a partner, and we keep communicating to better ourselves. That's pre…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 07:50 AM
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Well TRP men call women monkeys. But as monkeys we don't want to keep looking for the next tree if the current one is very hospitable right? I'm happy with my tree, it's strong and reliable and I don't look at other trees at all, have something better to do than tree hopping all the time. TRP men underestimate significantly many women's psychological need for stability. How do you raise children if your relationship doesn't last over a year?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 07:00 AM
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To start with, women don't need that much of sex. I wonder what % of women were actually actively engaging in casual sex is? I doubt it would be that high at all. Most women I know are happily committed and not sleeping around. I know TRP guys keep accusing women sleeping around and are unfaithful etc etc, It'll be difficult to make such a claim without real data to back that. For most of us, sex is not that much of a need.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 06:40 AM
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Exploitation on humans.....rather wait for robots.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 06:32 AM
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Yep and then they want work life balance and want to work 10am to 4pm 4 days a week then companies start collapsing and everybody ends up jobless lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 10:41 PM
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Good point. I really hope Covid 19 can take away half of its power but with the amount of money it accumulates over the past few decades, it will still survive for quite some time and dictates the scripts used for even small scale productions.
/r/MensRights12/07/20 07:26 PM
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Hollywood is rotten to the core with its pro radical left feminism and pro China (dirty money) approach especially in the past 10 years. They have sold their souls to the commies.
/r/MensRights12/07/20 12:47 PM
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I won't call psychos kind tho. They are just 80% peaceful (pretentiously) + 20% brutal. Kindness is when you are fully aware of your own power to be 100% dangerous and brutal but you choose not to, not even 1% . My man is the perfect example of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 11:18 AM
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That was terrible indeed. Its a shame that you don't get to know any good ones who are both beautiful and kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 06:32 AM
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The beautiful girls I know have the best temperament because everyone around them treat them so gently. They are less likely to get angry with anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 02:04 AM
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Be kind to people and love children.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 01:08 AM
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Ok so they are basically waiting for machines to replace men.
/r/MensRights11/07/20 12:17 AM
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It won't be easy, especially when technologies are giving an upper hand to big corporations and governments. They are taking an unfair advantage of us the ordinary people.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 06:43 AM
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Probably never. But still a much better form than communism.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 05:57 AM
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Corporations are profit $$$ driven, they don't really care about people's work life balance, even though they do their best to pretend they do care.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 05:13 AM
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Absolutely, that's insane. I wish we could somehow stop these radical left fems progressing any further.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 04:15 AM
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Yes, either that or kids from single mum households. I heard of a case where a woman's mum AND grandma were both single mums with the same "Why does a fish need a bicycle " attitude, and her own relationships with men inevitably failed, multiple times, and she's now a single mum raising 2 kids from two different men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 04:11 AM
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Well, maybe we can hope that with many women now joining the work force there are more cases like that where the woman is paying child support to the man, and maybe only then will the radical left wake up and scream "It's injustice on women!" Lol. They are mostly hypocrites unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 04:06 AM
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Exactly right. At the same time they don't tell young girls that a killer career would probably mean working 75hrs a week, which is wrong. Any girl who takes up those career paths needs to be forewarned.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 03:47 AM
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Yes I get what you mean. But in the US the education system is very different where radical left feminists continue to promote killer careers for girls and told them they could manage motherhood at the same time . It's a totally different world.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 03:07 AM
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Yep, I'm all for equal rights but I just don't like that radical left feminists brainwashing all young girls to believe that women can handle a killer career and motherhood at the same time. It's a lie. And this lie needs to stop. I have uni friends who finished their medical school and got all the training done to become a doctor only to realise they were turning 30, fed up with the work load and wanted to find a husband and be mums before it was too late, so they either had to give up having k…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 01:44 AM
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Exactly right. Child support money should be in the form of a company expense claim. So instead of throwing $10k a month fixed amount, it should be claimed by presenting the receipts for proper auditing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 01:40 AM
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You know many radical left feminists who claim they don't need a man, they've most likely never been with a masculine man, so sadly never experienced the masculine energy in full force or how it makes a woman feel like a natural woman. I feel sorry for them. Women can never replace men, and we don't even have 10% of that beautiful masculine energy in a real man, which is why so many women can't handle a 75hr a week workload, period.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 01:37 AM
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Absolutely agree. The CHILDREN should be protected first and foremost. And the notion of protecting the wife's previous lifestyle using ailmony is so cringe worthy. She has decided to leave her man. She then needs to take full responsibility of her own actions which includes getting a job herself. Just because she married a millionaire once doesn't mean that she's going to get half of his assets AND $60k a month ailmony to maintain her lifestyle. That's like leeching someone's wealth for life. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 01:24 AM
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If you could, go ahead, but most likely your masculine husband would want to pursue a high end career and in that case, someone has to be home for the kids. You must find a husband who only wants just a job and not too keen about climbing the corporate ladder.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 01:15 AM
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Im not against any job that gives women the option to be both the main family carer AND be financially rewarding. But I'm against pursuing a high end professional career and being a mother at the same time. I've met women who went back to work full time after a week of giving birth. No kidding!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 01:01 AM
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Again let me be clear on this. I'm not here to say the world should only be made up of women who follow traditional gender roles and not one of us pursuit a career. What I'm saying is, pursuing a career comes with a cost, and young women who want to be mums and want masculine men as their husbands need to understand that to pursue this dream they want to stay in their feminine energy to attract masculine men. If family and motherhood are not their thing and they want to go full on pursuing a pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 12:46 AM
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http://silasreinagel.blogspot.com/2010/05/on-masculine-and-feminine-virtues.html?m=1#:~:text=Examples%20of%20feminine%20virtues%20include,%2C%20helpfulness%2C%20care%20and%20prudence. Add not being promiscuous, smoking like a chimney and full of body piercings & tattoos to the list.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 12:21 AM
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Well if motherhood is such a curse to them, no need to worry about it, they should definitely focus on their careers and enjoy climbing the corporate ladder to get their big $ package. But no they are unlikely to attract masculine men who want to be fathers and have a feminine wife at home to take care of them, that's all I'm trying to say. It's EITHER , OR for women and young girls need to be informed when they are choosing their paths so they don't end up like my law school grad girlfriends wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 12:05 AM
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Different take on housework/homemaking standards plus when you own a biz with your husband you are the luckier few but for majority of women out there who want to pursue a career in professional fields it literally mean 75hrs + a week non negotiatable, there's no option of AND but OR regarding their top end jobs and motherhood. THOSE are the careers I am talking about. Think law school and medical school grads. Just working in a ft or pt job doesn't mean a career, it's just a job to make ends me…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/20 11:27 PM
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Most of the so called "careers" pursued by these women are in fact just jobs. When they figure out they need to literally sacrifice 75 hrs+ a week to carve out a career in any professional jobs, to become a lawyer, a doctor, a CFO, a CEO, they quickly decided that that's not the life they want, this kind of life sucks, and they want to be a mum instead. That's exactly why we still don't have too many women in top jobs over 4 decades of radical left feminists movement.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/20 07:30 PM
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I never mentioned anywhere that being what men want make women happier. I mentioned femininity attracts men and if any women want to attract masculine men, they should consider staying in their feminine and value feminine virtues, because masculine men are biologically attracted to femininity. But if you don't believe in any of those virtues and feel you are much happier in your masculine self and want to totally abandon motherhood and embrace climbing the corporate ladder , go for it, no one ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/20 09:58 AM
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The assumptions you are making here, are that women do not enjoy staying in their feminine (to be), and that femininity (what men want) is a weakness therefore not for women to embrace, and I disagree on both. Feminism in my opinion, has forced women out of our feminine to embrace masculinity traits, which becomes the root of unhappiness for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/20 06:40 AM
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And IMO, the most cringe worthy of all feminism ideas is that single mums can raise boys to become men. The damage done to the society is almost irreversible. Also the notion of a woman wanting a strong masculine man in a her life has become such a laughable thought as if she's reducing herself to slavery.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/20 05:05 AM
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Yes this is one of the best discussions between the two.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/20 04:54 AM
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Absolutely. Showing no respect for the men in their family is now the most politically correct thing to do. And anytime when a woman says she needs her husband to lead the household and needs a strong masculine role model to guide her son, she gets looked down upon and laughed at as some kind of idiot from the medieval age.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/20 04:52 AM
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I listen to Camille Paglia every day to remind myself of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/20 04:29 AM
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Exactly right. The role of a father, the respectful provider and protector of a family, has been downplayed by numerous Hollywood films and cartoons and mocked about in TV commercials and magazine ads etc etc, to a mere useless and clumsy couch potato.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/20 04:26 AM
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As long as who you are/ the way you are now makes you feel happy, then no, you don't need to change for anyone else. I can't remain single, I want a strong masculine man in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/20 04:19 AM
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Every time when I mention how I enjoy serving my family , I get downvoted, proof that society no longer value feminine virtues.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/20 03:57 AM
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I think the red pilled men here are talking about the woman as a nurturer and carer in a relationship, rather than just fixating on who's going to do more chores around the house.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/20 03:54 AM
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Indeed. The role of a mother and a homemaker is now generally being sneered at. People no longer take motherhood seriously, more just as a part time job at best. The standard of care for children has dropped significantly as a consequence. Children are the victims of these radical changes brought upon by feminism, which not only destroyed femininity but also motherhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/20 03:47 AM
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I find doing housework relaxing and a clean house rather comforting. I truly enjoy cleaning and getting my house looking tidy and clean, regardless of how my husband and kids think about the surroundings. And cooking for the family is another level up on feeling accomplished.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/20 03:41 AM
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Serving your man and your children doesn't make you a French Maid. Homemaking and motherhood are about giving with LOVE. I feel the happiest when i am with my children.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/20 02:25 AM
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Do check her out. If the world had more Camille Paglia in the 70s to 90s, it would have been a much better place for men and women. Unfortunately the sisterhood is destroyed now, and I don't even know where to start to repair the damage.
/r/MGTOW208/07/20 02:21 AM
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Jordan Peterson and Camille Paglia are enough for me.
/r/MGTOW208/07/20 02:07 AM
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Good to hear.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/20 01:56 AM
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That form of fake happiness is being brainwashed to young girls unfortunately. The true happiness for women, IMO, comes from motherhood, which the society has undervalued significantly. But motherhood is our true calling.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/20 12:05 AM
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Prefer J Peterson
/r/MGTOW207/07/20 11:59 PM
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Spot on. It's femininity that attracts men. If only more women understand how much men value feminine traits and start embracing their femininity, the gender war will be over. Unfortunately it's not easy to undo the damage done by decades of radical feminism. We need more feminine women in the sisterhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 08:07 PM
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End of the day, your wife will most likely betray you and side with her parents as the culture tells her to do so. I just know she will.
/r/MGTOW207/07/20 07:39 PM
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Not worth the fight. It will be a battle of many decades until you are depleted of your resources.
/r/MGTOW207/07/20 07:34 PM
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Avoid Chinese women at all costs. Their whole family will come after your bank account.
/r/MGTOW207/07/20 05:12 PM
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So do Asians living in Asian countries. Shall we then call it "Yellow Privilege"? If you have to call it a privilege, a "Majority Privilege " is more accurate.
/r/MensRights06/07/20 04:46 AM
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Spot on. A real life example of why white privilege doesn't exist. In fact white privilege and male privilege are both stemming from Marxism: “Men are oppressors of women, as women , you should hate men. Men have been suppressing women's freedom from the dawn of time through building patriarchal societies. Women should now fight against their fathers brothers and husbands. Firstly, women should be financially independent, should seek employments, because you are otherwise men's slaves at home!" …
/r/MensRights06/07/20 04:01 AM
3

"White privilege" is largely a Marxism created concept which seeks to divide people based on race, gender, and class etc. Its fundamental goal is to create victimhood mindset to start wars among ordinary people so as to replace men with governments.
/r/MensRights06/07/20 03:54 AM
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See below link from a speech delivered by Jordan Peterson on why white privilege is a Marxism constructed lie. https://youtu.be/PfH8IG7Awk0 I'm Asian by the way and anti-Marxism/communism.
/r/MensRights06/07/20 12:25 AM
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"White privilege" doesn't exist, white men need to stand up and say no to this racist abuse against white people. See below link of a speech delivered by Jordan Peterson on why white privilege is a Marxism constructed lie. Explanation starts 1hr :45 mins in. https://youtu.be/PfH8IG7Awk0 I'm an Asian living in a western country by the way.
/r/MensRights05/07/20 11:57 PM
-3

Well said.
/r/MensRights04/07/20 03:04 PM
7

The oppressor vs the oppressed is simply a Marxist idea. It doesn't actually exist. Men and women have been collaborating with each other to build civilizations since the beginning of human history. We are not enemies, we compliment each other.
/r/MensRights04/07/20 03:02 PM
3

Feminists don't want to know that, they ignore reality and live in their Marxist ideas of men being the oppressors so can't wake up to see the truth.
/r/MensRights04/07/20 02:53 PM
3

You only need to have a quick look at the discussions going around Reddit's /askfeminist sub to see that mentality of "men get everything " is everywhere.
/r/MensRights04/07/20 02:33 PM
2

100%. Girls who are the youngest kid in the family or whose fathers treated them as princesses are total bitches and feel entitled to ask anything from us without even bothered to say "thank you" . I always stayed away from them. They don't just treat men badly, they treat every human beings badly.
/r/MensRights02/07/20 01:44 PM
2

I spent 10 years living in girls dormitories, I know exactly what the Sisterhood is like. All the catfights, bitching about other people's habits, gossiping, etc etc, I know them all. But then I did manage to meet some really amazing girlfriends who went through hardship when they were little girls and were not treated like a princess by their dads, they were diligent, kind, lovely to be with and to work with. This female boss probably had no experience in handling relationships with other women…
/r/MensRights02/07/20 01:26 PM
2

You are right, the market will punish their stupidity lol.
/r/MensRights02/07/20 01:07 PM
4

Yep. Not sure how to fix the system tbh. Companies should hire capable people, and never favour any particular race or gender.
/r/MensRights02/07/20 10:50 AM
3

That's terrible...
/r/MensRights02/07/20 10:23 AM
35

I know. I am just kidding, laughing at those feminists' push for equal outcome. If they did that the company would have collapsed and they know that too. Just like when they try to encourage girls to join the military....
/r/MensRights02/07/20 08:25 AM
36

I hope your company isn't trying to replace 50% of its current crew with women lol.
/r/MensRights02/07/20 06:34 AM
2

No I mean physical appearance. Once I get to know them better and find out about their personalities, and more importantly, being EMOTIONALLY bonded with them, I will start feeling the attraction. But honestly it would have taken me months and months to build that feeling. The chance of me meeting someone new and wanting to have sex with him is 0. If he looks like Ken from Barbie but is a total A hole, nah, no attraction built on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 06:18 AM
3

I understand. I was oblivious about this impact women have on men growing up so didn't understand the attention i was getting from the opposite sex since the first year of high school. And when I finally found that out, I almost feel sorry for you lot. But honestly there's nothing much we can do about this biological difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 06:13 AM
3

Because almost all women attract some kind of male attention regardless of their sizes and shapes. But only a handful of men attract the attention of women. This is caused by the level of testosterone flowing through men's bodies being 11 times more than through women's. It's just biology. I personally am not sexually attracted to majority of men, probably 99.99999%, yep, including all those Calvin Klein male models lol. But I just treat everybody as respectful human beings, regardless how they …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 04:01 AM
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Women desire emotional connections over sexual needs. We aren't too hard to understand. Looks aren't everything to us. My man doesn't look like a Calvin Klein model but I desire him OVER a male model because of the qualities he has as a strong masculine man.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 08:12 PM
2

Also in the East, mother in laws will make sure their daughters in law how to do proper cooking and cleaning for their husbands. They will come to the new couples house to teach them, if not already living together lol. They will make sure their sons new wifey knows how to look after their sons. That was also one of my girlhood nightmares: my future mother in law breathing down my neck teaching me how to cook my husband's favourite dishes and got angry with me for my clumsiness. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 04:39 AM
2

Maybe you can write a post to the Purple Pill sub and summarise these points lol. Education for the West.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 04:36 AM
2

They have lots to learn from the East indeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 04:33 AM
2

Yes, absolutely. I can't find any one male cousin who can cook, clean and look after babies lol. Strict gender roles applied.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 04:26 AM
2

The East has been telling it's young people the most realistic expectations on marriage really. No hiding anything untruthful. Women know their husbands want children, especially boys, and their mothers will start ringing them the second month after the wedding day and ask that question:" Are you pregnant yet?" Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 04:24 AM
1

Well the alternative version wasn't ever revealed to me and I knew nothing about men or the world. Like, a husband who could cook and clean? So I was quietly freaking out just like many of other young girls did. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 04:17 AM
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Yes. Born and raised in the East, I can tell you how realistic marriage has been for young people. When girls get near 25, they will be told over and over again how they should now drop most their standards and accept that marriage is coming their way, with another ordinary man like themselves. No more fancy lovey dovey stuff, it won't work. Just get on with making babies and work together as a couple to raise kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 04:14 AM
1

When I was 20 yo, the wedding day sounded more like a doomsday to me. Lol. It was like the end of all of my girlhood dreams and from that day onwards, I was going to cook and clean for a man for life , bear children for him, and look fat and ugly. A total nightmare. And if I was lucky, he might love me for a while before kids, but definitely not after.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 03:58 AM
1

Exactly right. The West sells marriage in this fancy wrapped up fairy tale style box that so many young people fall for it. Whereas in the East, young people are thoroughly taught about how unromantic a marriage can be. Personally I was freaking out about getting married throughout my teenage years, the day I needed to be someone's wife and serve my husband and kids. Although it turned out better than I thought in the end. As young girls we were told that marriage was when all the fairy tales en…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 03:47 AM
1

The problem with modern day , Western style marriage is that players from both sides have 0 understanding of a marriage contract. In the East, this contract is taken seriously, its terms negotiated by both families over the engagement period to work out who is going to contribute what and what happens when a divorce happens. And who gets to keep the children (Usually the husband keeps the son, and daughter goes to the wife, because men marry to have sons) The bride's family receives betrottal mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 01:30 AM
1

And this should go the same way for the woman. We need to understand that the reason we are chosen by men for marriage has very little to do with LOVE but for our breeding capacity (Thus being young and attractive matter a lot) Marriage is pretty much a business deal, players from both sides need to have this full understanding before they sign up on this contract.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 01:23 AM
3

I am shocked. Your story makes me cry. I feel so sorry for you and your children. I hope you can stay strong through this.
/r/MensRights30/06/20 02:19 PM
3

Well no one can stop her from being an engineer or a CEO, so I don't understand her complains really. She should get a job , work her way up, spend 70+hrs a week at work, become the CEO, get domestic help to do all cooking and cleaning, problems solved. I'm sure her personal assistant can help order dinners for her every night.
/r/MensRights30/06/20 01:54 PM
0

Male slaves?
/r/MensRights30/06/20 01:44 PM
0

This is the exact reason why I didn't sleep around before I got married.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 08:54 PM
2

Sounds like an awesome job!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 12:21 PM
2

People have many choices today, and getting married is only one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 10:10 AM
2

Lol. Its called self mockery.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 07:32 AM
3

You can't even take that as a joke? I'm not going to be a helicopter parent but it doesn't mean the worries will go away by themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 07:29 AM
1

I feel for you lady. That will certainly push up your worries even more so.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 07:29 AM
1

Will understand only if you were a mum.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 07:26 AM
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Because I do want him to have his own family one day and enjoy fatherhood ? But the current system is not great for men. And then for the obvious reason: because I'm a mum I worry about EVERYTHING my kids might encounter since they were born. From choking on their sippy cups to alien abductions. When they were tiny babies i woke up at night for no reason and had to check that they were still breathing before I could go back to sleep again.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 06:19 AM
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Well I don't quite understand why men will have kids they don't consent to have ? Aren't condoms invented long time ago? I thought that problem was solved for men if they don't want to father any child. I don't believe in unexpected pregnancies, only unsafe sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 04:34 AM
3

Recently discovered the Red Pill and got curious. Have a son, worry about his future at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 04:31 AM
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Btw, I support the men's rights movement and there's no denial of how broken the current system is. It destroys men and families. And being raised in an Asian country means I have the most pragmatic view on marriage, and understand that it has very little to do with LOVE.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 01:25 AM
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My question: Who's going to bear the responsibility of raising children? The society as a whole, free childcare services, mothers take 3 months off for childbirth and back to the workforce on the 4th, taxed on everyone, think communisim, no individual ownership of assets. The mother, she stays home for the kids, has no paid job, father's the main income earner, father's assets passed on to his children after he dies ( Regardless of what happened to the marriage). The father, he stays home for th…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 01:05 AM
4

Music , singing , dancing, spending time with my kids playing, and cooking a three course dinner during the weekend for my family.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 12:02 AM
1

No its not. Breastfeeding is exclusively a mums job for the first two years of a baby's life. Grandmas can help out with other tasks but mums should always be the main carers for babies and toddlers.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/20 04:17 AM
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Lol. That's done before not after kids are born. Once kids are here, they need THEIR OWN MUM, not their grandma to look after them. The idea of using grandma is absurd.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/20 01:24 AM
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Well in that case it's really not easy to decide because a woman's bio clock is ticking, if she meets this unemployed man in her early 30s? Probably not possible for her to select a mate who can't provide, even though he might be an excellent dad long term and has the best qualities as a man. But lacking the resource will still mean it's impossible to start a family with him, as this woman needs to be absent from the work force for an extensive period of time. Both parents being jobless but havi…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 10:49 AM
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My question isnt about should we choose men for being an ATM machine, it's about who is better placed to provide for the family when kids are young, and if the answer is the father, then why blame women for selecting a more capable husband to look after the future family? And if a woman is to raise kids with a man, should she choose A. An unemployed man, or B. A man with a secured job? If she chooses B, is she supposed to be blamed for practising hypergamy? I'm confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 08:15 AM
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Funny that I also just asked a question on the same thing under a previous post but got down voted. I mean, if we can't even find a good partner who can provide, the whole family will end up on the street in no time when the wife is going through childbirth and raising young kids at home. How do we avoid poverty? Do women get blamed for practising hypergamy when we simply want the best for our kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 07:12 AM
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One of the points MGTOW men make is females constantly practicing hypergamy and they hate it. So as a mum with young kids, I just want to understand this hypergamy hating mentality. Are women now supposed to marry 18 yo boys when we are in our mid thirties and have a successful career to be the family's main income earner first to fight against hypergamy ? When we get pregnant and have 2 or 3 babies to start our family, will we then need to quit our jobs, stop being the main income earner, queue…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 05:50 AM
2

And what's your take on MGTOW?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 05:34 AM
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The one who is completely happy by oneself and doesn't really need any relationships to start with has more leverage in any relationships. And I always believe we all need to learn how to get along with ourselves and how to handle being alone BEFORE we start a relationship with someone else. We can then at least be self sufficient in making ourselves happy, so that we can be emotionally mature and start thinking about what we can do to make our partner happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 02:08 AM
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"We used to get up half an hour before we'd gone to bed!" LOL 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Going to watch it again with my kids. ("Hey kiddos, this is what life used to be like.") Thank you for sharing!
/r/MensRights26/06/20 11:10 PM
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Lol. Hey at least you got to choose to watch something. While my dad was watching TV, the remote was with him and HE was the only one allowed to touch it lol. So no discussions needed. If you are not happy with the channel he picks, well how about you go to bed and have an early night. 🤣
/r/MensRights26/06/20 08:31 PM
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You probably could've made the local news headline:"Enraged Father Killed 12 yo Son with a Remote Control while Watching TV."
/r/MensRights26/06/20 12:00 PM
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Well technically although not emotionally. But I got to ride on his big police motorbike from a young age sitting in the front! SOOOO much fun! I could pretend that I was steering it. Oh and I was a friend to all the police doggos. Sometimes I spent an entire afternoon reading stories to them.
/r/MensRights26/06/20 09:00 AM
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Why not? Lol. Hence so far I haven't met one human being whom I got attracted to straight away. Doesn't it make sense? Btw I think the number should be 77.95 people out of a 2020 world population of 7,794,798,739
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 08:21 AM
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Lol. I can imagine your dad standing there with a knife and a gun " Here, pick one"
/r/MensRights26/06/20 07:43 AM
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My dad would have said "What? You want to kill yourself? Go do something useful! Look at your room! What a mess! Clean it up now!" Me:" Yes Sir! Right away, Sir!" I love my police officer dad. Kids these days are too protected.
/r/MensRights26/06/20 07:07 AM
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Short answer is "No". But that's because I am not sexually attracted to 99.9999999% of the human population. No sexual thoughts or fantasies whatsoever. Yep, everyone will be "Friendzoned" The world is more peaceful that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 06:45 AM
0

Interesting tag you have on
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 06:00 AM
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I didn't actually knew RP and this alpha beta concept when I met my man, i was totally oblivious to it. But when I learnt it, I suddenly realised my man is an alpha, from day 1 I met him, he's the man's man: a rugged man physically strong, looks intimidating, commanding, intelligent, knew what he wanted to do in life from a very young age (construction), good at handyman tasks, loves ALL sports, played ALL sports at school, coaches sports, highly competitive and ambitious, highly protective of m…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 10:19 AM
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No he didn't exhibit anything at all. I opened the path way to his heart and found it out myself through his stoic facade that there are so many emotions hiding inside and the yearning for love and respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 05:03 AM
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Exactly right, if a relationship doesn't bring any benefits, and it's totally going one way you will end up crashed and burned anyway. Who would do such things to themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 02:10 AM
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I will try my best to serve him love him and respect him. I will never want to lose him. But you are right, alphas aren't stupid or heartless. They know what they want from a relationship. Just like they know what they want in their career and in life. They want feminine women in their life not someone they need to constantly negotiate or argue with or bring the warrior out of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 01:29 AM
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I locked in an alpha in distress. I'm lucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 01:21 AM
2

Pretty sound advice. My man suggested something very similar: Give him a hug when he needs one Be there for him but don't need to probe too deep He's a big boy now, he knows how to fix many things, so be patient with him when he has his down days and doesn't want to talk much, but rest assured that he will get out of his cave soon. My responses when he's not feeling the best: Make him more chocolate brownies to take to work. Hug, kiss and have sex with him when he needs it. Quietly listen to him…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 10:51 AM
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Yes uni days were good fun. I got to know a lot of girlfriends and after the first year we started to see the different paths we were taking. Some girls enjoyed the freedom of being away from their parents and totally took the "partying hard, studying just enough to not to fail" approach. Many got sugar daddies to support their expensive lifestyles (LV handbags and Dior perfumes can be a bit expensive you know lol) . Some girls with big plans worked super hard to get ready for climbing the corpo…
/r/MensRights23/06/20 09:23 AM
1

Crush is over, there's no fairy tales in real life, back to reality now lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 08:24 AM
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Because it's always the radical few making the loudest noise, they however do not represent the majority of women. As a mum myself, I see plenty of working class feminine women who have chosen motherhood over careers, and actively improving themselves to be better wives and mothers. I also see modest young women who have dreamed about being a mother from a young age (I myself was one), and therefore work hard towards that goal by learning homemaking skills , but are intimidated by the current ho…
/r/MensRights23/06/20 05:28 AM
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Radical feminists are not getting the results they want simply because they again ignore biology and facts and don't realise there are many girls who are born nurturing and caring in nature, want to pursue motherhood and become a better wife and mum instead of the next female CEO. Take myself as an example, I've been dreaming to be a mum and to have babies since I was very little. Therefore, how to be a good mum one day, was what I thought about through my teenage years. And I am definitely not …
/r/MensRights23/06/20 03:13 AM
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Radical feminism has been actively suppressing feminine virtues since its inception. Feminine virtues like prudence, modesty, gracefulness, peacefulness, innocence....they are now being looked down upon and laughed at by many. But what would this world become if we eliminated femininity?
/r/MensRights23/06/20 01:31 AM
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Aritifical wombs are here soon... Women aren't needed anymore eìther. Edit: People who just downvoted this comment need more humor in their life lol.
/r/MensRights22/06/20 11:56 PM
2

Exactly. I remember before vaccinations were widely used, child mortality rate for under 5s was over 50%. It was horrific. Btw, most modern medical inventions were invented by men, obviously to save their mums, wives and daughters lives too. Feminists need to check these facts before accusing men as oppressors.
/r/MensRights22/06/20 09:13 PM
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Because we have fathers, brothers, husbands, sons and male cousins in our life
/r/MensRights22/06/20 09:49 AM
2

You are welcome. For further reference you can search "Jordan Peterson Patriarchy" in YouTube. Here is one of his talks: https://youtu.be/8w4OXOXDcNM
/r/MensRights22/06/20 09:20 AM
2

Appalling. I worry a lot for my son's future and what kind of evil world he's going to deal with when he becomes a father one day.
/r/MensRights22/06/20 08:55 AM
1

The world needs him even more so right now to fight the radical left & communists...
/r/MensRights22/06/20 08:05 AM
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No, older generation of men didn't oppress women. Women and children had always been protected from the beginning of time for the survival of the species. Life was tough back then for BOTH genders. Women were killed by difficult childbirths and tied down by lots of manual work around the house while men worked physically demanding jobs and died like flies in wars and mines.
/r/MensRights22/06/20 07:26 AM
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Somehow the Western society is telling everyone that the patriarchy is evil, men are disposable, masculinity is toxic and fathers are unnecessary for raising kids. I am not sure what went wrong.
/r/MensRights22/06/20 07:13 AM
2

😂
/r/MensRights22/06/20 06:16 AM
1

You are right. Communism is winning at the moment. But there's still some hope. I'm waiting for China to collapse and together it brings down Wall Street, Germany, a few other EU countries and all the rotten branches around the world.
/r/MensRights22/06/20 06:15 AM
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It's not just Sweden that is embracing communist ideologies, it's the whole lot of Scandinavian countries. The Vikings are turning in their graves.....
/r/MensRights22/06/20 05:58 AM
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True, but i believe anything remotely resembles communist ideologies should be banned. Radical lefts have been destroying the world since early 20th century.
/r/MensRights22/06/20 05:51 AM
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So true.
/r/MensRights22/06/20 05:34 AM
3

Yes sometimes it just happens. We can't avoid it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 03:07 AM
1

Yes he was one of those very quiet ones in the class. None of my friends talked to him. But he enjoyed scaring off or intimidating other boys in general too. Might had family issues indeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/20 10:23 PM
1

Yes that's right. I do all the cooking and cleaning for him and he says he feels chilled and relaxed around me. He loves being nurtured after he finishes his long day at work dealing with mainly men. His job needs him to do a lot of negotiatiing and fighting, dealing with difficult situations etc, so he loves to come home, drops his tough guy facade and softens down with me. We can just cuddle kiss and have fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/20 08:50 PM
1

100% correct. 🤗. And I am so glad I have my masculine man to compliment me and does all the fighting and arguing part for me when I just follow his lead. I feel safe and protected around him.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/20 08:27 PM
1

And possess majority of the feminine traits, not by choice but just born this way. Like never being competitive or argumentative, very agreeable etc, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/20 08:02 PM
1

Thank you.😊
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/20 07:56 PM
6

The Yin Yang symbol shows us exactly that. And for every relationship to be successful we need to have a masculine vs feminine polarity, whether it's for heteosexual or same sex couples. Men and women compliment each other with our different traits, we aren't competitors and the ancient Chinese knew that, hence the concept of Yin and Yang.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/20 07:51 PM
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Same here. The rest of the boys were absolutely fine and I made friends with them happily too. But , yes , just this one terrorising me and a few other girls. No one knew the reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/20 07:34 PM
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He was an older boy but somehow in the same class with us. He was physically taller than all of us too, literally a head taller than me which made him look even more intimidating when he ran towards me. But when I was in primary school i had 0 idea about boys and never heard anything about sex or sexual harassment. I was too ashamed and scared back then to tell my teacher or my parents what happened. Luckily he moved elsewhere after that year.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/20 02:25 PM
3

100%. I would have contacted a lawyer or got some legal advice. There are free legal advice services out there somewhere too.
/r/MensRights21/06/20 02:15 PM
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I got my pussy grabbed by a boy in my class when I was 9yo, I was stunned , didn't know what happened or how to react. He chased me a few more times after that and he touched my breasts once. I was terrified of him.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/20 02:00 PM
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I suggest you to have a proper talk with police officers in your local police station. Explain to them exactly what happened at school (falsely accused) and how many attacks you have received so far from people etc. They can work something out for you so next time they can intervene quicker and also already know your story. Maybe ask them if you can press charges on the girl too for defamation? You must take action now to protect your reputation, for your future jobs especially.
/r/MensRights21/06/20 01:37 PM
2

Yes unfortunately that will take a long time to invent.
/r/MensRights20/06/20 09:15 AM
2

That's a long wait. No alternatives in between ? What about VR girlfriends?
/r/MensRights20/06/20 07:10 AM
1

There's nothing to regulate that online market at the moment. Maybe the message should be sent from school to teach young men how to protect themselves online.
/r/MensRights20/06/20 01:05 AM
4

Horrible. But how can we stop these things from happening?
/r/MensRights20/06/20 12:31 AM
1

Well that sort of things are history, those women were "rejected " so without a husband they didn't have a choice but to live together as a community because life was harsh back then. I wouldn't say relationship is a complete waste of time when you find the right partner. I feel very grateful to have my boyfriend in my life because he's all I ever wanted in a man, masculine, handsome, kind, and we have so much respect for each other and great sexual chemistry. We cuddle and kiss and chat and lau…
/r/MGTOW218/06/20 11:12 PM
1

Where I came from, those "rejected "women are called Comb Sisters (some of them lost their virginity before marriage, or had teenage pregnancies , others were widows) historically shared a few adjacent houses together in the far corner of the village and put on black colour clothes to show to the world that they would not marry. They usually looked after kids from the orphanage and formed their own social circles. I watched a documentary on that before. Just a small community of women looking af…
/r/MGTOW218/06/20 12:14 PM
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Because it represents a phenomenon that the radical left feminists hate the most - men taking actions , in this case, not signing a marriage contract to fight back a court system heavily influenced by the radical left to disadvantage men.
/r/MGTOW216/06/20 08:45 PM
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My grandma was sold at the age of 15 by her uncle to my grandpa's family as a wife and maid. Later on she gave birth to 5 children. It was a sales contract, nothing else.
/r/MGTOW215/06/20 06:40 AM
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This is true. In traditional Asian culture , marriage is purely a contract between 2 families to create offsprings and to strengthen their social economic stance in the society. It has nothing to do with love or companionship, which are Western take on marriages.
/r/MGTOW215/06/20 06:36 AM
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My first boyfriend did exactly the same thing to me. I was 16yo and didn't understand that his reason for approaching me was to get his sex needs met. I felt deeply hurt and was suicidal at one stage. I was confused about relationships many years after that. My current boyfriend however, stated nice and clear from the first time we met that he wanted to have his sex needs met before he would take this relationship any further. His honesty won my heart over.
/r/MGTOW215/06/20 01:46 AM
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I think if all men do what my current boyfriend did and state that you want sex first and foremost before you will consider taking this relationship any further, it would make things so much easier for everyone.
/r/MGTOW215/06/20 01:30 AM
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