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Cluster B gets attached to anyone who shows them attention. Dark personality people know how to be charming.
/r/BlackPillScience25/09/20 02:27 PM
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Ever notice how guys are nicer during the warmer seasons? Lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 11:12 AM
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SIX years... what does he expect???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 10:19 AM
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Every one of them has a "dad bod" at fucking 18.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 09:55 PM
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They want your advice and pity but if you complain they just say "that sucks" and act like a child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 09:51 PM
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Men are so simple. All a girl needs to be is 1) hot, 2) unavailable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 12:41 AM
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It's true and I hate stereotypes but most of them are addicted to alcohol or tobacco, and if they are lovebombing like this it is a guarantee that they will turn abusive. Culturally it's encouraged to marry and start a family early so they try to lock you down before you get to know them. Many guys neg, are extremely misogynistic and lazy yet entitled. They compare their girlfriends cooking to their mothers. It is sort of a meme where I come from that goes like "if she can not cook these dishes …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 12:01 PM
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Reading FDS made me want to WGTOW, and I have never felt more free.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 10:44 AM
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Natural, but only if she is already strikingly beautiful. Ugly girls can gtfo and will be attacked whether they try or not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 09:16 AM
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They only see makeup if it is dramatic or badly done, yet at the same time believe that any amount significantly changes face structure. Oh those ever so deceptive black eyelashes! She is a completely different woman under all that spot corrector!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 09:13 AM
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That high value people exist and they are not stuck up delusional spoiled snobs. I was so used to being around low value and toxic people that when I got asked out properly by seemingly respectful men, I always assumed it was a ploy to get me feeling guilty about having had an expensive date and at least make out or even sleep with them as a way of saying thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 12:31 AM
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I would be the next major of town, dedicating my life to help the weak, and plant many many trees
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 09:59 AM
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I've had different male friends in between every relationship because they would suddenly get pissed that I got a boyfriend and delete me, then try "befriending" me once I was single again. It's not friendship to them but free attention and emotional labor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 02:13 PM
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The older men I've been with were always more attentive and real when it came to sex. They were healthier and did not try porn antics. The men between 23 and 27 all had some fetish, said awkward porn phrases, and tried to do or at least mention bdsm. Two of them had problems from watching too much porn. One ex was horrible, almost addicted to sex, had gorilla grip so strong my hands went white trying. I barely lost my virginity and he was pushing me to do anal. Another ex could only get it up in…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 01:14 AM
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Even if she did so in self-deprecating humor that's so low of someone else to repeat. This smegstain took it as her handing him a knife to hurt her with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 08:04 AM
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Very true. They are already fat in high school and think going to the gym is for "meatheads and gays". All they eat is junk food and somehow believe it's endearing to have the palate of a child. It's very rare to see a man who looks good after 30.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 11:31 AM
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Demon dicks lmaoo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 01:44 AM
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They got us dickmatized 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 01:29 AM
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Nah, sometimes the sex IS that GOOD, because that is how they get you. He knows he's disappointing so he eats out and f_cks like it's an olympic sport.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 09:18 AM
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Right? It's super embarrassing. I'd delete any history of us on social media. At least those girls could connect through this experience and learn from it to never break their back for a fboy again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 01:57 AM
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She must have an attachment or personality disorder. No scrote is worth that much trouble for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 01:49 AM
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She is in a relationship with gas and lighting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 11:21 AM
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It gives me secondhand embarrassment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 11:20 AM
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What about polyamory where the woman goes on dates with platonic sugar daddies while having a provider boyfriend?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 11:19 AM
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I don't even want their whole bread. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 11:08 AM
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TWELVE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 06:00 AM
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Especially in this situation, he brought the "problem" on himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 05:27 AM
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I dress alternatively and dye my hair when I can. Pairing classy and thrifted items with fashionable accessories helps. As another commenter said, avoid looking cheap. There is nothing wrong with buying cheap items while developing your style, but ordering entire outfits from Chinese online stores has a stigma. Those clothes can make for a fetish barbie goth look. You know what I mean, the short schoolgirl skirt with the fake garterbelt and bondage bra peeking through a tank top. It might just b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 05:02 AM
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If this is every man's opinion, we should create a society without them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 07:45 AM
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I love the way you write. Just needed to say that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 01:01 PM
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Sounds like my last relationship
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 12:54 PM
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It's the virgin weeb stamp
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 07:04 AM
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A grocery store, afaik. lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 06:33 AM
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That's hilarious tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 06:31 AM
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Let's get on it. It's for the betterment of humanity as a whole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 06:23 AM
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Call the police on him and file a restraining order
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 03:40 AM
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Inkwells, the lot of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 12:42 PM
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What kind of drugs did this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 11:41 AM
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Thank you for this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 12:46 PM
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Of course his name is Nick
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 12:45 PM
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Every time a man is bad at something it's because he is clearly just better at the opposite of that thing! 😂 He doesn't express emotions because he is just so logical. 🤡 ​ I'll go upvote!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 10:23 PM
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The whole internet gives this kind of advice. Even real life is geared this way because so many people are gaslit/bluepilled. When I was a teen my then boyfriend was 4 years older and he had a crush on his classmate. He would seek her out to study together at school, to joke with her and to "tickle fight". He called me by her name 2x. I still gave it the benefit of the doubt but couldn't let it go and asked for advice online. All the comments were attacking me for being insecure. They told me I …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 09:53 PM
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They're looking at thousands of porn videos all day yet still can't find the clit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 09:47 PM
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These cumbrains are so stupid they can't even use their brain to imagine something to masturbate to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 09:45 PM
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All this incel bs makes me suspicious of average to ugly men. Ugly young boys freak me out now and I used to not care at all about strangers appearance. These things have me evaluate guys attractiveness and assign a danger score correlated by ugliness. We should call ugly guys ticking bombs. I'm only ever speaking to Chad now, good job incels.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 07:42 PM
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💯💯💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 11:02 PM
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To me it was reading Redpill and experiencing the dating world simultaneously. I followed the RP advice but it never worked in my favor. Who would've thought... "only if I was perfect enough..." I was very young and naive so I tried becoming their ideal bangmaid. I was obsessed with trying to look perfect, overly sexual yet virtue signalling my independence and home making skills. "I was baking cookies last weekend, they were amazing. If only you could've tried them..." I was trying to have sex …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 10:54 PM
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How to get rid of your (online) stalkers: Change your usernames, urls and pictures frequently for a while. Block suspicious accounts. Make your profile private. Never use your full real name. Suspicious accounts are: Without a profile picture. No followers. 0 mutuals. Recent registration. Always watches your stories. No interactions on their profile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 01:37 PM
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I'm a simple man, I see boobs, I upvote
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 11:13 AM
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Get on your merry way lmao bye
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 10:14 AM
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I'm all in
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 10:38 PM
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He types a whole paragraph as if he wasn't thinking about asking for sex the entire time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 11:54 PM
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There are sooo many, I want to go back in time and slap myself across the room. I'll just give some highlights for your cringing pleasure... • Texting a guy 8 years older who stood me up and then insulted me for calling it out. • Ranting about basic girls and feeling superior for being a metalhead tomboy. • Trying to watch every favorite show of my ex even though I hated most of them. He was crushing on his classmate, repeatedly coerced me into acts I didn't want to do, tried to keep our relatio…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 11:04 AM
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I haven't read about that. It wouldn't be a big stretch to assume. Girls born with higher testosterone are more likely to be lesbian. A hormone imbalance, like PCOS which generates more androgens tends to make the patient's sex drive higher as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 10:08 PM
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Male "depression" = my cwush doewn't yike me beckh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 10:03 PM
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Testosterone is the hormone that makes people horny. Women have less. Case closed.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 09:50 PM
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The whole incel thing originated in America and that's already telling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 03:02 AM
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I stopped making excuses and now directly say I don't want to "hang out". Their eyes widen, eyebrows rise, almost take a step back, look down in shame and stutter embarrassingly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 01:09 AM
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Epic dating sim save right here BRO, EEPIIIC!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 02:35 PM
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It's how it should be 💞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 12:38 PM
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If I had never seen porn, I'd think he's doing it as a joke
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 09:49 AM
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He would only consider Kate Upton though
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 06:03 AM
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Which one is Matt Gwynne?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 05:48 AM
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Yes! Giving hope like that and then letting me down used to make me wonder why am I not good enough. Since building my self esteem up and reading FDS this behaviour just makes me lose respect for them. Commitment issues and manipulative behaviour are not attractive... We are in the same boat. I have some of these guys as friends and we have jokes and fun when we're together, but I make sure to keep my distance. As long as you don't let them in too much, draw boundaries and enjoy the friendship o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 05:36 AM
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Yess! Genuine, deep love from men starts with friendship, that's why I never understood the "friendzone"'.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 08:37 AM
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I love the witchy theme of this picture too 💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 08:36 AM
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They look red, swollen like someone shoved botox in them. Dude... when a woman is aroused blood rushed to her vagina. It becomes a little bit bigger and if she is pale, possibly redder as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 05:19 AM
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'wow your short'' This is not an insult, it's surprise. Either you are so extremely short that people are genuinely surprised by it or you lie about your height to dates and then they see you in real life. ​ or say i have a napoleon complex This isn't something people yell at you on the street. Seems something that comes after YOU insult somebody and they attack you back by going after your insecurity. ​ If you have people calling you landwhale, lardass and all others sorts of units without you …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 03:17 AM
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Why doesn't all the trash bother them 😬😬 I bet more than 80% of those things are empty containers. It takes no effort to throw them away or recycle them. Whyyy do they not care for a clean, spacious floor and table that they can actually use without making more mess? 😫 Even as a child I had way more need for cleanliness. Especially before having guests over.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 02:15 AM
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I saw someone say that even average women have an army of simps clamoring for her. Most likely because he was one of those simps to a pretty woman and got rejected. To soothe his ego but avoid belittling himself, he calls the woman average (so his bros don't catch him chatting up an uggo, oh no) and her other friends or suitors simp. It's only the prettiest girls who are showered with attention irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 02:50 AM
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I am not running after anyone who isn't interested in me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 01:20 AM
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Cumback 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 01:07 AM
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Same. I always get super anxious trying not to weird people out. I tend to make fun of myself or find anything to joke about in hopes of making people laugh and like me. Besides that I have a stim that is nearly impossible to control when I'm really anxious and idle. I bite my cheeks. This really weirds people out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 01:01 AM
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"have you really encountered men who want women to be their emotional dumpsters or psychologists? Men that want to go cry to women?" Countless boys, and men do this. From middle school to adulthood. "That would be an awfully small percentage of males, and such guys are quickly dumped I'm sure" Lol nope. They even have long term relationships and wives. Unreliability, unability to show affection and cheating are all unattractive. Cheating is a disgusting betrayal of trust in a monogamous (normal)…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 10:16 PM
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Ok, I can't see flairs from my phone and I am giving my two cents. Oppression lies in getting opportunities denied based on discrimination of skin color or gender. This is the only oppression I believe to be it, not the cringe that everyone says it is today like they WANT to be oppressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 09:46 PM
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Doesn't the red pill y'all so love also teach men to repress their emotions? Lmao. The modern world wants everybody to repress their emotions. It's the new cool thing. Become a mindless productive robot, have lots of emotionless sex, only live for your workplace! #independence And if you are not from America, nobody cares about mental illness either. They are thought of as fakery for attention or plain crazyness, no matter what gender you are. Mothers hug their crying children and coaches tell t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 09:15 PM
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Just because a Stacy someone idolized and projected an ideal persona on doesn't actually care about them doesn't mean that all women act the same. The movie shows this exact problem. Summer is beautiful, Tom gets a crush and expects her to be like his ideal girlfriend regardless how she very clearly stated she wants nothing of the sort from the get go. It's a movie making fun of a movie trope: the manic pixie dream girl, who has no personality of her own and is only there to cheer up the man. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 08:38 PM
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Before my experience with casual "relationships" I thought that waiting for sex WAS prude advice. In my mind if you had to make them wait for it, that was all you had to offer. I didn't know they would view it like if I have sex with them too early, that's ALL I've had to offer. Add in the fact that good sex and cuddles gave me an emotional attachment and this advice really is the best. If only it was phrased right when I first heard it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 07:23 PM
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Hey friend
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 07:10 PM
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Being attracted to Sex w underage men is another total lie. Freudian slip lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 10:01 AM
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he didnt even ask if I was okay Typical. You'd run to him for a paper cut but he couldn't lift a finger for you. Your story is insane. I hope you got away from those toxic people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 06:59 AM
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"anal once a week should be no big deal" Yes, they had me right there 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 02:58 AM
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Why do you think they tried to have sex with you? You were a minor, it must have been a misunderstanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 02:15 AM
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Yep. Ignore & block. Best defense & offense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 03:37 AM
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Running around "spreading seed" is very chimpy behaviour. Humans evolved to pair-bond for successfully raising children. I don't judge people for having a hoe phase but it is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 03:35 AM
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You can experiment safely, at home, by yourself, with masturbation.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 03:31 AM
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He is the April's Fool!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 03:03 AM
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It's such bullshit though that all these types are high contrast extremes. The average woman is never pointed out as a type. If you have black hair, be pale. If you are blond, have blue eyes. If you are black, be curvy. If you are tall, be skinny. If you are athletic, have short hair. If you have glasses, dye your hair red. If your hair is curly, be amazonian.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 10:22 PM
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Texts you but doesn't keep a convo going. It's breadcrumbing. Texts rarely, at weird hours.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 01:20 AM
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What the fuck. Was it his middle name at least? That has happened to me. Otherwise he is a creep and probably a cheater.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 01:19 AM
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Yes. It's not even that they want friendship. That is what I used to think. But they don't care about what is going on with you. All they talk about is themselves, their problems. You might get likes in return. Then if they get a girlfriend you don't exist anymore. Even if your advice helped them. No thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 04:05 AM
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This is so sad. I'd walk and watch movies with her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 06:50 AM
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I agree. Get a sense of style and experiment with fashion already, I want to see uniqueness, creativity! I'm into alternative looks and would love if more guys would try eyeliner or shape their brows! The picture of Harry Styles and Johnny Depp looks very good imo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 11:33 AM
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Thank you! I needed this reminder. My goals for the month are almost exactly the same. I am working on a game for a school project. Eliminating my acne by avoiding trigger foods. Working on my posture and flexibility. Finishing leftover papers and drawings. Keep on rocking!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 02:50 AM
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Expecting people to come to you like that is the reason why everyone thinks depression is attention seeking smh That's supernice, thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 10:10 PM
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Oh sis you are in for a good one. This one, my first ex never washed under his foreskin. Even after I told him to, he just rinsed it a bit with water. Never washed his balls or ass properly either. Constantly smelled of sweat, piss and shit when I got close there. He also had blackheads all over his upper back from not showering regularly and when I kissed him he always tasted salty. Got offended when I asked him to wash himself with soap and tried to tell me it doesn't matter. Should be scary e…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 10:02 PM
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You're put on the back burner and he gets offended when you're not begging for his attention, what an egoistic loser. ​ TIL WhatsApp has a dark theme?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 09:16 PM
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I used to watch porn and afaik there are tons of vids from all kinds of people and companies. How many videos are they watching out of the millions per day to find enough to recognize a theme song???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 07:50 AM
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The picture he used matches his maturity level. I didn't hide the name because the post is public.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 05:52 AM
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Sometimes people just want to complain and be consoled. It can hurt them to then offer solutions. I have been guilty of both the whining and the smartassing. It's all about being mindful of what we want to communicate. Learning how to communicate needs and set boundaries is crucial for dealing with these situations. If the friend is wearing you down, tell them that it's too much. If they are unwilling to change that for the sake of your friendship, ditching them is no loss.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 05:26 AM
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Yuuup. In gaming and anime groups banter is all about dick, jizz, and rape jokes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 04:56 AM
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Me too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 09:48 AM
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Need of an ego boost, desperation for sex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 09:05 AM
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Better yet, never go to his house to hookup
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 05:44 AM
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"Freedom pounds", I'm deceased.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 10:31 PM
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