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Not exactly. The reason the US is one of the richest countries in the world is that the work=sex equation here is the strongest. Work=sex equation states that the ONLY way to get sex with an attractive woman is you work really hard and achieve a lot of what society values so a man can finally feel confident in himself and go after the women he wants. In order for this equation to work, men must feel terrible about themselves so they are incentivized to work hard, so they can feel good about them…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 03:26 PM
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Yes, 100%. It’s simple economics. If she’s the only hope girl in a 50 mile radius, chances are her attitude will be ginormous. The hardest girls to get are the ones who are hot and they know it. But if she’s hot and there is one even hotter a few seconds away, there is much more intrasexual competition and less of a chance men will be tripling themselves over her.
/r/seduction31/07/25 09:17 AM
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For you to even ask that means that you are emotionally over invested and always in chasing mode with women. You have already lost and don’t even know it yet But
/r/seduction31/07/25 09:15 AM
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You guys really need to learn to play the game. It’s a mating dance. You can’t express too much interest too early on. Way too many men want to jump from a dating app match into a relationship right away. Slow down. Chill. If you are too horny, go jerk off before you respond to a girl. The rule of thumb is to never want it more than she wants it. Match her interest level and emotional investment and then dial it down just a bit from that. This will ensure that she is the one chasing you and not …
/r/seduction31/07/25 09:14 AM
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If you just want sex, then sleep all afternoon, wake up around midnight, shit, shower and shave and head to the club just before closing time. The only women left are the ones who haven’t found a guy to bring home yet. So you can have your pick. You are trying to fit a square leg into a round hole if you take women out (play the boyfriend role) and try to escalate to sex on the first date. It comes across as scripted, pushy and creepy and I bet you are just a creepy weird guy.
/r/seduction31/07/25 03:17 AM
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Your mistake is believing that the toxic traits are what attracts the woman to the man. Women are attracted to these guys DESPITE them being toxic and antisocial. It’s like guys who will throw their hard earned money at some thot although she treats them like a trick and will never care about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 01:39 AM
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Pay me $99.99 and I will give you the magic word that gets you laid every single time.
/r/seduction31/07/25 01:35 AM
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https://youtu.be/daPXnxOZ28s?si=I_4YLdrcBzspbUR3
/r/seduction31/07/25 01:33 AM
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I don’t know. Your story keeps changing. At first you claimed she was all over you and you put the breaks on it but then you said she was the one saying she won’t have sex with you now and that you were all pushy and aggressive. So I don’t know what to believe anymore.
/r/seduction30/07/25 12:13 PM
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Exactly. This whole “you need to constantly escalate and grope women within 10 mins of meeting them” thing really needs to die. Literally every guy is trying to aggressively push them for sex. They’ve seen it all. And the more pushy and aggressive you are, the more of a turn off it is for them, because they know they have you eating out of the palm of their hand.
/r/seduction30/07/25 10:55 AM
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Go and read the countless posts here of guys putting on the moves on girls on the first date and then wondering why she has ghosted them. When will men understand that the more you push, the more you repel. And the more you pull back, the more you attract. Women want what they can’t get. And a guy who leaves them wanting more is a guy they must have.
/r/seduction30/07/25 10:52 AM
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Remember, when you are on your deathbed, the most important thing you will remember is whether you worked hard and long enough.
/r/seduction30/07/25 10:50 AM
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What are you getting at exactly? That love and sex should be communicated and we should have gangbang orgies with our neighbors every week?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 10:47 AM
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Stop trying to figure out what women are thinking.
/r/seduction29/07/25 08:54 PM
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As much as women with a suppressed gag reflex?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 08:53 PM
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Think about frameworks and not specific lines. For example: Most men think that women have tons of options and as such they have to say the right thing, be funny, engaging, not too pushy, put not let it go on for too long; etc. As a result, most men walk around on eggshells and think one wrong word means the end of their chances of getting pussy. You have to flip this mentality on its head. Assume for a moment that you are an extremely hot guy who has 10 matches reaching out to him to set up dat…
/r/seduction29/07/25 08:36 PM
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I was always a gentleman on my dates. Being a gentleman doesn’t mean you let women get away with BS or that you treat them like a simp. It simply means you are gentleman. It also serves as a good test to see if she’s a lady or a tramp.
/r/seduction29/07/25 08:29 PM
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Point 4 - their pussies feel so warm!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 08:27 PM
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Agreed. Yet you hear it only in the context of an older guy dating a younger woman. But you never hear it used to criticize an 18 year old who chooses to start an OF account and sell her pussy for $3.99/month. That type of woman is often referred to as “an empowered woman”.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 08:26 PM
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Great post. The worst thing about all these pickup tactics is that they are covertly sending the message that you are not worthwhile of a woman. That you are below her and she is above you and you need to somehow work hard to entice her to like you. It’s an extremely damaging mentality, but virtually all pick up was built on the assumption that you as the man, you are nothing, you are a loser, you a nobody and the woman has all the power, status, men throwing money and sex at her, etc etc and sh…
/r/seduction29/07/25 08:25 PM
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Choose to be good to yourself first. Reward yourself with confidence and respect.
/r/seduction29/07/25 08:20 PM
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He is persisting because in his mental model he is nothing but a worm willing to crawl over 10 feet of her shit just to see where is came from.
/r/seduction29/07/25 08:19 PM
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It’s so ironic that you are saying a woman is not a telepath, yet you seem 100% convinced that you know exactly what a complete stranger woman is thinking and what her life is exactly. Quite the self own if you ask me.
/r/seduction29/07/25 08:18 PM
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I have an offer to all women. We will offer you non judgmental acceptance as long as you can offer men the same. No double standards. We got a deal? I doubt it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 08:07 PM
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And it’s only used as an argument in the context of an older man dating a younger woman. But if an18 year old woman chooses to start an OF account having weekly gangbangs with strangers off the street, she is labeled “an empowered woman”.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 07:47 PM
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It’s a gross oversimplification and as a matter of fact the brain continues to develop and change all throughout our lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 07:46 PM
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They gotta make up their minds. They either mature earlier then men, or they are still a half developed retard by the age of 25 when their brain finally develops. So what exactly happens between 25 and 40 that’s makes them so special?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 07:04 PM
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The problem is that men pay on dates for one or more of these reasons: They have been told they HAVE to do it They believe paying will ingratiate them to the woman and buy her good graces They believe the woman is the prize and is doing the guy a favor by showing up to a date
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 05:35 PM
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Do not date women who haven’t had your penis in their mouth. At the very least.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 05:34 PM
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Women absolutely experience spontaneous desire, but it’s tied to their natural cycle, while men can feel horny most of the time. But the problem is completely different. See, men get horny the less sex they have and less horny the more sex they have. Women are the exact opposite. They get more horny the more sex they have and less horny the less sex they have. So the discrepancy in libidos between men and women can be easily explained by the fact that neither gender is having enough sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 05:33 PM
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At least I spent my youth out there getting laid so I can spend my Middle Ages laughing at losers, who never leave their house but can hypothesize about what women are like 24/7, although they are yet to meet one in person.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 12:28 PM
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Like clockwork that book is mentioned at least once a month.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 12:25 PM
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Yes. Take her to a strip club.
/r/seduction29/07/25 12:04 PM
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Our instincts and mate selection criteria have been honed over hundreds of thousands of years. A mere 10-15 years of Tinder existing does not negate 300,000 years of human evolution (and millions of years before that for early hominids). Safety and protection has always been the driving force for female attraction. That’s why women date jerks, badboys, the boss, tall men, buff men, dangerous men, etc. Because these men can intimidate other men and can chase away the dinosaurs trying to eat her a…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 05:30 AM
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Interesting observation. Men: genetic studies show only 1 man procreated for every 17 women. Women have always promoted hypergamy and gone for the chads. Okay. So tens of thousands of years later, you are all the progeny of the biggest Chads that have ever walked the earth. So what gives? Why aren’t you out there fucking 17 girls in a row?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 05:21 AM
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I guarantee you no one who is happy being single and is secure in themselves stays single for a very long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 05:13 AM
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When you understand that pretty much everything that you want from women, you can actually give yourself, all your pain will go away. You want love, confidence, approval, respect, validation from them…you can choose to be good to yourself and reward yourself with these things. Granted, unless you can suck your own dick, you still need women for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 05:12 AM
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No cap, deadass. Learn how to speak jive and wear Free Palestine t shirts.
/r/seduction29/07/25 02:31 AM
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Introduce a third? Have a rotation of fresh pussy? Do role play? Get a wig with a different hair color? Dress differently? Buy her a Halloween police uniform and pretend to be a stupid sorority girl who got stopped for speeding, while drunk and offer to do things to the officer if she lets you off. Watch porn together. Go hunt for new girls. Go to a bar and pretend you are complete strangers and seduce each other.
/r/seduction29/07/25 02:30 AM
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Being good to yourself. I know it sounds easy, but the vast majority of people and men especially are really not good to themselves. Everything you think only woman/women can give you, you can give yourself. Love, approval, confidence, acceptance, respect. All of these you can give yourself. Granted, you probably can’t suck your own dick, so you do need them for something. Just be good to yourself and reward yourself with confidence, approval, respect, charm, being the prize. Why is it so diffic…
/r/seduction29/07/25 02:28 AM
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One day you will figure out that there is nothing more pathetic and needy than being a desperate pussy hound who has to approach every woman he sees.
/r/seduction29/07/25 02:25 AM
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The principle that made you do this is the exact same principle that jerks use to get women. People NEVER want what they CAN get and ONLY want what they CAN’T get. Women LOVE chasing after men they can’t get. The problem? 99.99999% of men are so easy to get it’s not even funny.
/r/seduction29/07/25 02:24 AM
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You guys are so autistic.
/r/seduction29/07/25 02:22 AM
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Google Johnny Soporno.
/r/seduction29/07/25 02:22 AM
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Cafes and cocktail bars are an attractive woman’s playground. They have been asked out to these types of places millions of times. Do something more creative.
/r/seduction29/07/25 02:21 AM
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Trust me. You don’t want women liking you only for your looks. You will be cat called on the street, thirsty women will stare at you at the gym, they will approach in bars after some liquid encouragement, you may even have women running after you asking for your number. Women will blatantly hit on you and give you their hotel room number so you can come over and “have some fun”, although you repeatedly told them you are married. Women half your age will shoot their shot left and right. It’s terr…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 07:50 PM
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Yeah you ain’t getting laid bro.
/r/seduction21/07/25 07:33 PM
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You’ve been friendzoned and don’t even know it.
/r/seduction21/07/25 02:40 PM
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That’s her job to keep you interested.
/r/seduction21/07/25 02:40 PM
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Absolutely. Investing in yourself means you love and respect yourself and that translates into your interpersonal relationships. Not a very hard concept to grasp.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 12:48 PM
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I think you are looking too deep into it. Women are as much victims of social conditioning/brainwashing as men are. Thats why virtually every woman has the exact same story. It’s not because it’s her lived experience, but because it has been programmed into her by countless messages from media, stories passed down from mother to daughter, etc. Of course men operate in a very similar way, believing that the only way to get sex is to work hard, earn money, scale new peaks, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 12:47 PM
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Men would rather start a new world order and promote mass enslavement of women then actually put in the work to make themselves more appealing to the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 12:40 PM
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Creep
/r/seduction21/07/25 12:27 PM
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Like yourself first
/r/seduction21/07/25 12:25 PM
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Stop trying so hard to
/r/seduction21/07/25 12:25 PM
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Whatever matches your personality. But by and large, guys give up too much too early and women lose interest because of that. You are not making them work for your attention or interest at all.
/r/seduction21/07/25 11:49 AM
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Women are already eye raping me all the time. I don’t want to give them any ideas.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 10:54 AM
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Women sleep with total scumbags all the time. Claiming they are picky and selective is the highest cope and virtue signaling I’ve heard in my life. What nobody tells you is that the qualities in men that arouse women are stuff that nobody likes to talk about. The jerk for example that gets the girl and changes them like his underwear, is not objectively a better person than you or any other nice guy that will care about a woman and make her his everything. But the jerk has something you don’t. H…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 10:53 AM
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Just text him at midnight “you up?”. Make sure you shit, shower and shave beforehand.
/r/seduction17/07/25 05:27 PM
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You are dumb. You have to set the rules early on. Tell her that you are not looking for a serious or exclusive relationship right now, but that you promise her that you will respect her and be there if she needs you and if she’s okay with that. Be ready to walk away if she doesn’t. Don’t get her hopes up and definitely don’t talk about other women in front of her. If she asks if you are seeing other women, just say “yeah, so you want to hear all about it?”. She won’t.
/r/seduction17/07/25 05:24 PM
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That’s not how this works at all.
/r/seduction17/07/25 04:59 PM
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Nga really referred to human beings as “leads”?
/r/seduction17/07/25 04:39 PM
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Let me offer you a different perspective. Often the guy is the one worried that the woman will lose interest if she doesn’t hear from him or she won’t show up to the date. My question to you is, why isn’t SHE the one worried that YOU might lose interest in her and not show up to the date?
/r/seduction17/07/25 04:36 PM
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If they are so desperate for anything, they would be okay with ducking a MILF or a GILF. But no; women are the hypergamous ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 04:28 PM
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It is the same thing because both sides refuse to do anything about their situation. While you can’t change your height, there a ton not other changes a guy can make to make himself more attractive. Some of them are drastic for sure, but if you are complaining and wailing about how you can’t get laid and have tried everything, when in reality “everything” means “I crated a Tinder AND a Hinge profile and didn’t get any matches so I gave up”, then you don’t have the right to complain.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 04:26 PM
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You need to squat at least 250 and bench 225 to handle her.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 04:24 PM
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The reviews are the people eating there. They must know something you don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 04:22 PM
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You do understand that’s no different than some fattie complaining about men not finding REAL women attractive and that it’s not her fault she can’t put the fork down, cause the patriarchy made her a victim of the male gaze and she is traumatized and can’t stop eating? Ninja please
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 02:56 PM
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Fact: there are more women than men in western countries. Of course, places like China and India that are know for femicide skew the numbers globally, but that’s man made. Source: https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2022/08/31/global-population-skews-male-but-un-projects-parity-between-sexes-by-2050/ft_2022-08-31_sexratios_01-png/
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 02:26 PM
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That’s human nature. No amount of rationalizing and intellectualizing will make people change their mind. Women want what they can’t get and they are turned off by men who are not desired by other women. If they sense a man can’t get other women, they assume there is a reason for this, whatever the reason is. Think of it this way. If you go on vacation and want to go eat somewhere, do you go to the restaurant that is completely empty although there are crowds of people walking around OR do you g…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 02:22 PM
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Where did I say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 01:20 PM
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Never visit r/AskFeminists or r/TwoXChromosomes
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 11:30 AM
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The line between love and hate is very very thin. As they say, the opposite of love is not hate, it’s apathy/indifference.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 11:29 AM
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I’m not the problem because I can’t afford to pay for my own dinner. The man is the problem because he doesn’t want to be a meal ticket for a broke ass bitch. In a nutshell.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 03:02 AM
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Ew, so needy and desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 03:01 AM
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No idea what you are talking about. Most women are a total mess.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 02:59 AM
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lol 😂 this
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 02:58 AM
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You are completely misunderstanding the appeal of the so called badboy. And no, not all badboys are insufferable assholes like you paint them to be. The true appeal of the badboy is that he is someone who is hard to get. Remember, women never want what they can get (otherwise they would be happy with the millions of nice guys ready to eat 10 feet of her shit just to see the hole it came out of), and ONLY want what they CAN’T get. What makes so called bad boys appealing is that they are usually n…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 02:55 AM
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Dark parking lots at night, all women’s gyms, the lobby of abortion clinics.
/r/seduction16/07/25 08:08 PM
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I’ve found women approaching me way more.
/r/seduction16/07/25 08:07 PM
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Well, I don’t care about your thought process. I care about the woman that I’ve been with and how they behaved.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 07:59 PM
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I think the lack of effort is a byproduct of something way more sinister. The real problem is that men today have grown up in a culture that idolizes female approval. From the second we are born to the second we die, we are trained to not piss women off. At first it’s “don’t piss mommy off”, the “don’t piss Ms Teacher off” to “don’t piss girl in your college class” to “don’t piss wife off (happy wife, happy life)”, etc. This pathological need for female approval is not natural. In our tribal anc…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 07:17 PM
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Look at it this way. There are many people who are depressed and anxious and although they are in severe pain, they often resist the thing that would cure them. You see this phenomena here all the time. Let me give you another example. Let’s say someone is an alcoholic. Their life is a mess, everyone who loves them is concerned about them and is desperately trying to get them to stop drinking. The alcoholic probably knows that alcohol is causing them some problems, but why do you think they migh…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 02:49 PM
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Yeah, it’s a chicken and the egg problem. Both men and women project on each other and completely overestimate the other sex. In essence, men think “oh boy, she’s cute/hot/attractive, I really want to go over and introduce myself, but looking at her she probably only goes for guys who are taller, fitter, richer, better looking than me. So my chances are slim and I will probably get dissed like a cockroach and be completely embarrassed. So I better not approach. But women, on the other hand, are …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 02:06 PM
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Do you really think you are the first negative and downer guy I’ve argued with on the internet? You give yourself way too much credit. Regarding the justice and equality comment, you completely misunderstood the point I was making. I was pointing out that resistance to change is often a reflection of great personal qualities and values. One of those is the staunch belief in justice and equality. The example of resistance I used is something I’ve heard many times before, namely “If Chad doesn’t h…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 10:10 AM
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No, I get it. Your resistance is that you believe you are hopeless and don’t want to suffer disappointment, so you are telling yourself what’s the point of even doing anything. I get it. Look. I can’t motivate you to change your life and who you are so you can be sexually successful. Nobody can do that but you. If you believe you are a hopeless basket case, you know something? You are right. Whatever you believe will eventually become true for you, especially in the realm of interpersonal relati…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 10:00 AM
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So something that has supposedly cost you opportunities with lots of women and could have been easily solved by either turning off notifications on your phone or going on do not disturb while you are a date, but somehow you didn’t think to do any of this? Yeah ok buddy
/r/seduction16/07/25 09:23 AM
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Exactly. It’s like walking on the street somewhere and coming across a store that has a huge line in front of it. Immediately you wanna know what the hoopla is all about.
/r/seduction16/07/25 09:21 AM
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wtf? I live in NYC and there are literally only 3 lesbian bars here, the gay capital of the US. How the fuck can you survive in a rural red area? I wouldn’t even want to be straight in a place like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 09:10 AM
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What can I tell someone who is already defeated before they even left the house? I don’t know. To post on ForeverAlone I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 08:30 AM
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Wow, the world’s first mind reader, everybody!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 08:29 AM
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Correct. I have also found that if you seek love and happiness from women, it will always elude you. As a matter of fact, you will be as attractive as a lepper to them. But the second you learn that you can give love, respect and happiness to yourself and you don’t need others for those things, all of a sudden others start needing you, including women. But men today think “I’m the prize” means “I have the biggest muscles and I make the most money, and I’m the tallest and I’m the most successful …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 02:43 AM
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Aha, you have just found your own resistance to self love. You believe (erroneously) that if you begin to love yourself, you will automatically settle for being mediocre and all self improvement must stop. You (erroneously) believe that the only way to improve yourself is to hate yourself. You resist giving up your self hate because you think it motivates you to do better. If you truly believe this, it might not be a good idea to stop hating yourself and start loving yourself. All I know is that…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 02:40 AM
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As I see that you don’t actually have anything worthwhile to say on the subjects you are now blocked.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 02:34 AM
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Not true at all. Many women who are used to being chased make the first move. But they only do it with select few men who make it clear that they are the ones to be courted and not the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 02:33 AM
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You know something. Women approach men all the time. Maybe not you, but they do approach men all the time. And maybe not in the way you wish they did, such as “hey hot stuff, wanna get out of here”, but they will look at you repeatedly, they will smile, they will position themselves close to you, push up their breasts or just put a hip in your direction, they will dance in your line of sight or otherwise try to get your attention in some way. Yes, women initiate. Perhaps your definition of initi…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 02:29 AM
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I’m a guy, but I feel so exasperated by these complainers. It’s always the same whining over and over and over again. And none of them want to take any action to make their situation better. I know that this is because deep down they see some kind of advantage or benefit to their misery. And because they have mixed feelings about doing the things necessary to make them more attractive. Think about why a person may want to resist changing. It might be because feeling like a victim of feminizing, …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 02:24 AM
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As I keep saying. There are solutions but none of you guys want to pay the price. Complaining about dating inequality on Reddit is pretty much free. Well, you are paying a price. The price is you will be alone forever or settle for some fatty cum dumpster.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 02:05 AM
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Actually it was not satirical at all. Women like being told what to do.
/r/seduction16/07/25 12:29 AM
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I’m a man, so I know for a fact we think about sex 90% of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 10:56 PM
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In her eyes she basically threw herself at you and you rejected her. And then you wonder why she hates your guts now.
/r/seduction15/07/25 08:43 PM
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Next time you schedule a date, tell her to put on something sexy, like a little black dress and heels and take her to a nice cocktail lounge. You can also buy some cheap sex store lingerie that is waiting for you at your place. When you get home, tell her you have a nice surprise for her in the bedroom and let change into it. You can turn her on by taking photos or a video of her and telling her how much she turns you on right now. Then fuck the shit out of her. Of course, if she doesn’t do any …
/r/seduction15/07/25 08:41 PM
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Yes, I would. But usually I don’t, because I don’t want them to hate just because I decided to speak my mind. The world is full of delulu women who think they can demand a 6’5” tattooed jacked guy making $500K a year. Do think any of them will actually invest in losing weight, getting big tits and a BBL and being always willing sex kittens in order to get a guy of that caliber interested in them? I doubt it. But don’t forget that it is men who are willing to eat 10ft of shit just to see the hole…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 08:36 PM
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As I said, most men suffer from delusions of inadequacy. First, you have no idea what women are thinking (assuming here that you are a man). They are women and men can’t figure out what they think. It’s impossible. Even if you knew what a particular woman was thinking, that doesn’t mean that every single other woman thinks the same. So this leaves one option. You are projecting your own thoughts of inadequacy onto women and truly believe they are thinking about you the same way you are thinking …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 06:33 PM
1

A little weird, but also completely misguided. I spent years trying to analyze every single body movement, word coming out of my mouth (or her mouth), whether I was more attractive if my hair was slicked one way or the other. Beyond the very basics of socializing, this is a complete waste of your time. The more you analyze what you did wrong, the more you will find something wrong with you. Look deep enough and the abyss will look back at your kind of thing. I recommend a very different approach…
/r/seduction15/07/25 06:30 PM
0

As I was saying just now….oy vey.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 04:11 PM
2

But see? You chased him, not the other way around and that always works out much better. And yes, only naive teens think relationships are all butterflies and honey. After the honeymoon phase, yes, people tend to get annoyed with each other and start seeing that their partner isn’t the perfect gentleman/lady that they may have imagined. All I’m trying to do is appeal to being realistic and not idealizing others. If my post came across as saying “women are shit and so annoying”, that wasn’t my in…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 03:24 PM
-1

There are a number of other things you can do. Get on steroids (testosterone is enough) and bulk up. Makes a huge difference. Get a bunch of cool tattoos. Invest in getting a douchebag haircut every month. For the record, I’ve seen many shorter guys who look like that with hot girlfriends. Are any of you going to do this? Probably not. Because it would mean giving up your loser nerd identity and that’s too much! So much for whining about dying alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 03:18 PM
1

Here is my advice. You are overly concerned with what hypothetical women are thinking about. Stop trying to psychoanalyze them or analyze their behavior and what they might be thinking. All of this analyzing just makes you reach the wrong conclusions, it makes you anxious and it kills your confidence. Instead focus on what you want. What kind of women do you want, how do you want to be treated and what kind of relationship are you looking for. Make a list. Be thorough and very specific with it. …
/r/seduction15/07/25 02:46 PM
8

Of course! Otherwise if you realize you are the problem, you might have to actually do the hard work of fixing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 02:36 PM
6

How is this disrespectful to some hypothetical high value male that she hasn’t met yet? If a man told you that he went out and had fun and banged a few chicks after he broke up with a gf, would you tell him that he is lowering his value?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 02:34 PM
5

What’s wrong with having fun and sleeping around?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 02:10 PM
0

I’m a simple guy as I said. As long as she’s flexible enough to put her ankles behind her ears, I’m good.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 02:09 PM
6

I will be satisfied with her choosing a nice steak and cooking it properly. No need to slay any animals.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 02:06 PM
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The problem is that those loser nice guys are demanding women treat them differently. You can’t just demand to be loved. You have to actually do the things that will make you into a guy that women will willingly offer rimjobs to. The big issue is that guys want to be loved for who they are just as they are and they are not willing to change anything about themselves in order to become the high value male they want to be treated like.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 02:05 PM
2

lol. Overchasing is what got men into this mess to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 02:03 PM
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Your analogy is not applicable. You have to pick a single product and use the analogy based on that single product. Furthermore you can’t pick a commodity because people are not commodities. We are not interchangeable. Thirdly, if your assumption was correct, then we would never have any luxury goods. People would just go to TJ Max instead of lining up outside of the Versace store. Sure people still need to buy clothes, but pretty much everyone desires high end designer clothes, which is why the…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 12:27 PM
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Men create a lot by of their own problems. They are so desperate for female attention, before pickmes or even worse, completely self isolating because they fear competing for a mate. They have surrendered all their power over to women and then wonder why dating is so hard/impossible for them. Women don’t want to be chased and pursued, no matter how much they claim they do. It always works out much better when the woman pursues the man. Instead, all men do is pursue women aggressively until the w…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 11:30 AM
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I’ve noticed the exact opposite of what you have noticed. I have noticed that there are infinitely more men here suffering from delusions of inadequacy than delusions of grandeur.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 11:25 AM
1

What if I told you I’ve gotten laid without knowing one word of the girls language and her not knowing any of mine?
/r/seduction14/07/25 08:43 PM
1

If the target girls likes your nobody will block you. The fact that the friend is blocking is because they signaled reacher other to tell you to go away.
/r/seduction14/07/25 08:42 PM
2

When I was dating multiple women, probably once or twice a week.
/r/seduction14/07/25 08:41 PM
2

Why do you feel the need to chase after this barely lukewarm lead?
/r/seduction14/07/25 08:40 PM
2

Yes. You are right. 100%. When you chase women, they get the message that they should screen you, qualify you and express their high standards. You put them on a pedestal and they live up to this idealization by acting like they are better than you. But you know what’s the funny thing? You are forcing women to be like that when you chase them. Yes you are the one who causes this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 04:55 PM
1

Stop putting so much weight on approaching women. You have over expectations and a deep need for everything to go well and to have women like you and give you their numbers, etc., otherwise you are telling yourself you will be a loser. This creates immense pressure to perform and only anxiety and depression. Relax. Who cares if you succeed or not. As a matter of fact, why don’t you go out and collect rejections on purpose. Instead of trying to pickup women, make it your objective to get rejected…
/r/seduction14/07/25 02:13 AM
1

How to get over that bitch and grow balls they can’t resist by Anthony Clark.
/r/seduction14/07/25 02:08 AM
1

Virtually all advice here is to out your hands on a girl as soon as you see her and escalate, escalate, escalate in the most socially retarded way possible. Nobody tells these guys they will have a much easier time getting girls in bed if they are pulling away from them instead of trying to creepy pushy overpursuers
/r/seduction14/07/25 02:06 AM
1

A few pointers. It doesn’t sound like you went to a bar but to some kind of a small club. Bars are meant to have music but not loud enough where you can’t hear other people. That’s the point of going to a bar anyway. Second, it sounds like you are going out for the only reason to hunt for pussy which immediately makes you come across as a needy, desperate pussy hound. Women can smell it on you and it seems to make you anxious, so there you have it. Research places better and go out to have fun a…
/r/seduction14/07/25 02:02 AM
3

Of course, all the men in the world are shit and you are the only worthwhile being out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 05:10 PM
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Women are USUALLY the selectors only because men assume the pursuer role and the women have no other choice but to assume the role of the pursued, which includes being the chooser. Men can very easily assume the role of the pursued/chooser first if they wanted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 11:49 AM
1

I wish more women would choose to take up the ass or swallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 04:29 PM
3

Sure Jan.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 03:54 PM
1

Mmmmmkay
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 03:54 PM
1

Who cares? They are fucking them. You can’t marry someone if you are not even attracting them and you can’t have kids with them if you are not fucking them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 03:31 PM
1

I mean it’s all out there just none of you guys want to actually put in the work. Get on steroids, work out, get a whole bunch of tattoos, use minoxidil to grow a beard and dress like a douchebag. I see guys like these, of all heights and races date hot girls. The knowledge is there, just guys don’t want to apply it because they have to give up playing video games and being loser nerds.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 02:04 PM
1

You gape an asshole. The word you are looking for is “gap”.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 02:01 PM
-1

We gave women the right to vote and they voted for Trump. Soooooo…..
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 03:11 AM
1

I didn’t know progressives believed in genders!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 02:58 AM
1

It’s an argument. I’ve never met one. Maybe they do exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 02:29 AM
14

I’ve never met a feminist guy who actually has sex with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 02:26 AM
3

Why don’t you begin by sexualizing yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 12:52 AM
1

Get a life.
/r/seduction12/07/25 12:51 AM
0

If you guys can’t even express what you want in a woman, how are you going to have the balls to approach them and get them in bed?
/r/seduction11/07/25 09:39 PM
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Nobody said anything about being whiney and negative. That exists only in your own head.
/r/seduction11/07/25 06:01 PM
1

Knowing what you want comes off as insecure and ungrounded? lol what are you guys smoking here
/r/seduction11/07/25 05:32 PM
0

You are welcome to continue being the clown in hopes she lets you sniff that pussy from afar.
/r/seduction11/07/25 05:23 PM
-1

Women do this all the time. They have long lists of standards and they somehow end up way more successful din dating than any of you guys here.
/r/seduction11/07/25 05:22 PM
3

There is impact because women want what they can’t get. A guy who is trying to impress her with how funny, social and well travelled he is, is someone she can get easily. A guy who is discerning, has standards and only wants the best is someone she can’t get easily and has to work for. It’s basic human psychology 101.
/r/seduction11/07/25 05:21 PM
0

Another bich ass nga who has no business giving advice is giving advice.
/r/seduction11/07/25 05:15 PM
2

In this scenario, think of yourself as doing her a favor and making this her lucky day. So go over and say hi.
/r/seduction11/07/25 04:59 PM
1

Focus on a psychical flaw she has.
/r/seduction11/07/25 04:58 PM
2

Magic tricks for sure. Also knowing how to suck a dick. For real! You should learn. It’s a big hit with women. Maybe the two of you can suck her boyfriend’s dick at the same time.
/r/seduction11/07/25 04:57 PM
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Show up to the club 30 mins before closing. Only women who want to go home with a guy are left. That and drunk guys that are gross.
/r/seduction11/07/25 04:56 PM
2

Men don’t do this because they think if they keep lots of doors/options open, they will have higher chances. The problem is think about what this says about you if you are going to accept anything and don’t have any choosing criteria? That’s why women are ahead of the game and the ones being pursued. They are doing things the right way. So yeah, I’d write something like “5’3”-5’5”, Latina, 125 lbs, make at least 50k. If you are not this, don’t apply”.
/r/seduction11/07/25 04:52 PM
-2

Okay, tell her that you have fantasized about her every single day for the past year and know where she lives. Better?
/r/seduction11/07/25 03:30 PM
0

Nigha you just said you are being treated for clinical depression and have zero life or a social circle. What exactly do you think you will be bringing women into? What is your world? Depression and emptiness? Fix that first.
/r/seduction11/07/25 03:29 PM
-2

Go up to her and tell her @ive been watching you for over a year…”
/r/seduction11/07/25 03:25 PM
0

Work on fixing your life first before trying to bring women into the dark, depressing hole that your life currently is.
/r/seduction11/07/25 03:24 PM
1

Go out and hour before bar/club closing time. Find the most popular bar with lots of hot women and be there 30 mins before closing time or around then. Then just approach girls and look at them like you are fucking their brains out.
/r/seduction11/07/25 03:23 PM
0

I can tell you who doesn’t. It’s the guys who say stuff like: I’ve approached thousands of women and go out 7 days a week to practice game. The reality is if even a fraction of the thousands of women those guys approached become their girlfriends or even FWB, they wouldn’t have the time or motivation to go out 7 days a week. They would actually be happy getting sex with their girlfriends. But those guys are the least successful guys out there.
/r/seduction11/07/25 03:21 PM
1

That’s because you are actually a loser with no life and you are using techniques to mask your lack of personality and purpose in life.
/r/seduction11/07/25 03:19 PM
1

No, these guys get approached
/r/seduction11/07/25 03:18 PM
3

European women’s pussies are hairier and American women’s pussies are smoother.
/r/seduction11/07/25 03:17 PM
3

Seriously? Just go to any of the dating app subreddits like r/Bumble or r/Hingeapp and look through any of the profile review posts. 99% of those are men who couldn’t even be bothered to put any effort in their appearance or photos complaining they haven’t had a match in months. And then men seriously have the gal to say that we are the more visual creatures.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 10:50 AM
1

Nigga you a pilot and can’t get laid? Lololol
/r/seduction11/07/25 12:58 AM
1

Just when I thought this sub couldn’t get more autistic and regarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 12:57 AM
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The problem isn’t their actual looks. The problem is that so many men think so lowly of themselves. They think they see ugly, unattractive, undesirable, etc. And in a way the universe picks up that message and blasts it through the cosmic waves for everyone to hear. In other words, women pick up on a man’s low self esteem and she concludes that he is actually ugly and undesirable. The other way around works too. Think of yourself as hot and you will be hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 12:55 AM
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Aren’t you guys always complaining that there are more men than women? So here you go. Now there is more women than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 12:53 AM
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I mean your reality is already very strong and for you, it is manifesting exactly what you believe it will. That women are picky,, not attracted to you, they are the prize that you need to chase, etc. That’s your reality and you have manifested it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 05:23 PM
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You create your own interpersonal reality. And whomever has the strongest reality, wins.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 04:55 PM
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You are creating this reaction in women because you treat them like some kind of a prize that needs to be earned. Thats why they respond this way. There are only two roles you can be in with a woman. You can either be the pursuer or the pursued. When you show up and assume one role, the woman has no choice but to assume the other one. I will let you take a guess what the default role that men assume is.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 04:27 PM
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You are creating the very problem you are complaining about. By being “eager” you are pushing women into being choosy and picky. When are you guys going to get this through those thick skulls of yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 04:25 PM
1

The irony is that men are the ones causing the problem. They assume the frame of a candidate provider and women respond by acting like the screener/chooser. And then the man scratches his head why all the women he talks to act like stuck up bitches. Stop acting like a candidate provider and start acting like someone screening g women for whatever qualities he wants form a woman and the roles will be reversed.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 04:23 PM
1

Here is what helped me. Start focusing on yourself and yourself only. Stop thinking about what women wants, how to please them, how to game them, etc. Focus only on what you want and who you are. Sit down and write this down by hand with pen and paper. Write down who you are. What your qualities are. Write down what you like and dislike, what you want and what you don’t want. Then do this exercise with what woman you want. What kind of relationship you want, what kind of woman you like and disli…
/r/seduction10/07/25 11:59 AM
1

lol, are you for real dude? Go to some Ross Jeffries hypnosis stuff while you are it.
/r/seduction10/07/25 11:46 AM
1

People’s minds lie to them all the time.
/r/seduction10/07/25 11:45 AM
5

What’s going to affect your dating is the stuff between your ears.
/r/seduction10/07/25 11:41 AM
2

No need to ask that. Just talk to her like she is one of 15 options you have.
/r/seduction10/07/25 12:45 AM
1

A slut/whore is a woman who sleeps with everyone. A bitch is a woman who sleeps with everyone but me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 07:00 PM
1

If autism was a Reddit post.
/r/seduction09/07/25 06:41 PM
3

You are trying too hard. The person who is trying too hard is the one chasing and the one who chases, gets rejected. You don’t need to make interesting conversations with women. You don’t need to be funny and fascinating and a clown. You will probably have more success if you are a total dick and just engage with one word answers.
/r/seduction09/07/25 06:40 PM
1

I agree that the majority of men do this, but certainly don’t include myself in the majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 05:00 PM
1

Where did I say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 03:05 PM
0

Correct. It’s because men are stupid and have bought into the slut shaming sexual cartel to their own detriment. It’s no different though than women judging fuckboys and players, only to chase after these types. Human nature I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 02:29 PM
0

Men love sluts!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 02:12 PM
0

You are wrong that this is the result of the patriarchy. It’s actually a result of women teaching other women that they must NEVER give away their sex for free. They must ALWAYS charge for it. And any woman who gives it away for free is a slut because she undermines the market for sex. Women use sex in exchange for security all the time. Whether that’s a couple of dinners and a show, having a guy pay her rent to having a guy commit to exclusivity (buying the cow) before he’s even tried the milk.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 01:44 PM
-2

No. Only Mystery Method is recommended. Don’t forget your clown make up.
/r/seduction09/07/25 09:53 AM
5

If I know one thing about women for certain is that they absolutely LOVE desperate guys.
/r/seduction09/07/25 01:22 AM
0

Not giving a shit about them.
/r/seduction09/07/25 12:27 AM
22

Women never want what they can get and only want what they can’t get. An overly interested guy is easy to get, easy to figure out and not interesting at all. He is a “sure” thing and they don’t have to lift a finger to earn his attention. A guy who ignores them and is rarely available and stands up to hot chicks are going to be intrigued by him and will work that much harder to get his attention and his interest. Don’t ever be the guy they can get all of. Be the guy they can have only a tiny pie…
/r/seduction09/07/25 12:26 AM
1

Wrong. You have to start touching her right away and making sexual innuendo subtly pointing to your penis and inquiring if she lives alone. If you get a number, you have to text her every single day multiple times a day, otherwise she will forget you exist the minute she doesn’t hear from you. You have to constantly push to have sex with her and make it your mission.
/r/seduction08/07/25 07:33 PM
2

It sounds like you are an excuser. Stop excusing yourself. Approach women only for one reason: because they caught your attention with something special and caused you stop dead in your tracks and you went out of your way to do them a favor and meet them. It sounds like you are approaching her like she’s the alpha instead of approaching her because you know she wants to meet you and you are doing her a favor. Instead of sending funny messages, tell her “You sound really interesting. Give me your…
/r/seduction08/07/25 07:31 PM
1

You should never chase women. When you chase women, they are always forced to reject you.
/r/seduction08/07/25 07:26 PM
5

Here we go: My first limiting belief is that women simply don't want men the way we want women, the animalistic, burning desire way. Let’s think about this using logic. Humans have existed for several hundred thousand years. Before that, we had hominid ancestors that existed for probably over a million years. Before then, virtually every species on earth has a male and female sex. If women do not desire men the way men desire women, how do you think that humanity survived for so long? Think abou…
/r/seduction08/07/25 07:23 PM
-1

lol. A man who has confidence is anything but average.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 06:27 PM
2

An old Soviet couple is sitting on a park bench and the woman sighs heavily. “Vat? Vay are you sighing?” asks the old husband. The wife replies: “I just wonder who will take care of us when the kids pass away.”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 01:27 PM
2

Being the provider is the least sexy thing a man can be. Dwell on that for a minute.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 10:48 AM
4

Did you read my post? He had a kid at that age. What woman have you heard having kids at 74? 64? 54? Even 44 is exceedingly rare. Whether the kid is a retard or not is another question.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 10:48 AM
4

I just heard Yakov Smirnoff, the weird Soviet era comedian, became a new father at 74. 74!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 10:42 AM
4

Start with inner game. Repeat to yourself that you are too hot for these women and that you are doing them a favor by even talking to them. Externally, you need to dress in a more sexual way. Think your stereotypical badboy look. Dress like this. Dress provocatively. You want to look and smell like sex.
/r/seduction08/07/25 01:13 AM
1

It could be this or she just recently had the baby and probably felt like a fat fatty whale for a while and wanted to flirt with a guy who took interest in her to feel better about herself. I do this with women all the time and I’ve been married for 10 years. And yes, I get offers all the time.
/r/seduction08/07/25 01:07 AM
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Talking doesn’t matter one bit. A woman can see across the room if you are a man or not. I’ve banged women that don’t even speak my language. If you are having this problem, it’s a problem with your identity, not with talking.
/r/seduction08/07/25 01:05 AM
1

I see. Just ignore her for a week, see if she reaches out. If she does, just say you’ve been super busy with work. Don’t offer anything or ask her out. If she inquires about when you are going to hang out again, tell her “it’s really crazy with work right now and I’m a bit burnt out on going to bars. But happy to do a quiet evening at my place this Thursday. You bring some wine, I will get takeout.” If she’s down, send her your address and what time to come. Don’t offer to take her out, no dates…
/r/seduction07/07/25 07:20 PM
3

Actually……..you are right! Except that the woman’s innate reproductive strategy doesn’t quite manifest in the way you think it does. If a woman wants to secure the sperm of the most dominant male, she would actually try to get impregnated by multiple dominant males and let their sperm fight it out inside her vagina so the strongest sperm reaches her egg.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 07:07 PM
5

You guys do understand that if women were so averse to sex as you claim, that humanity couldn’t have possibly survived for hundreds of thousands of years and that we wouldn’t be at the highest level of human population in history of mankind. Right? Right?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 07:03 PM
-3

You may want to check your testosterone levels.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 03:27 PM
-1

If you have working genitalia, you are able to fuck and date people of the opposite sex. Hobbies, interests, career, etc., are irrelevant. These things are a nice to have but they absolutely have nothing to do with primal sexual attraction, which concerns itself with one thing and one thing only: is this person good for making healthy babies. Because this is the only concern sexual attraction has, it makes sense why men care so much about looks (they are a proxy for reproductive health and ferti…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 02:59 PM
1

Mmm kay
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 02:50 PM
0

I am not referring to physical security. Read again.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 02:37 PM
-1

The majority of men and women don’t seem to be having any sex, so they are irrelevant to the conversation. And just because a girl feels more promiscuous when she’s younger, doesn’t mean she is actually having lots of sex. It just means that the desire is there.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 01:56 PM
1

Exactly! When I was in though school, none of us had jobs, income or any kind of status and yet we were getting laid. Somehow, female high standards and requirement were not a thing at that age, hence they are not something intrinsic to female nature. As a matter of fact the reason most girls in high school weren’t having as much sex as they would have wanted was because they were either 1. Virgin and just scared and nervous about it OR 2. They didn’t want to get a “reputation”.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 01:45 PM
1

Wrong! Slut shaming is primarily a female domain. Think of it as a sexual cartel. If from time immemorial, women have been conditioned to use sex in order to get security, a woman who gives her sex away for free (just because she enjoys it as opposed to giving it to someone so she can secure commitment, marriage or sponsorship), then this woman is effectively bringing down the price of sex. The same way that OPEC countries get together and decide the price of oil, so no producing country can com…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 01:42 PM
-1

Because you’ve talked to all women across all ages?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 01:36 PM
9

For one, stop acting like a child. Next time, just tell her “I understand that what I did was wrong, but I will not tolerate you or anyone else scolding me like a child.” If she doesn’t stop, that’s when you dump her ass.
/r/seduction07/07/25 12:01 PM
5

Then be resigned to spending the night with your hand.
/r/seduction07/07/25 10:38 AM
1

Correct! You become the most interesting man by taking active interest in them. Nobody cares about how much you can impress them with stories about yourself. People get bored of those types very fast. They only care about the most interesting subject - their own lives.
/r/seduction07/07/25 10:35 AM
1

Nah, don’t do it. I tried the David Deangelo cocky funny stuff and honestly, the amount of women I lost to that cringe was staggering.
/r/seduction07/07/25 10:31 AM
5

I thought you guys complained that you can’t get ANY pussy at all. Now you all wanna be dating knockouts?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 10:29 AM
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The problem is how men define personality. They think personality means they are pleasant, can talk about The Office and they haven’t abused any children or animals and that this is what is desirable. The reality is that personality is much more than that. And it’s all internal, really. A desirable personality is valuing yourself, respecting yourself and not letting others disrespect you. Having a sense of humor and being honest and playful. Being all serious and sincere is not personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 10:28 AM
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Women have been lead to believe that sex should only be used as a bargaining chip to get security. Since security is something women deeply crave, the same way men crave approval, it is a powerful force to contend with. Securing a man who is exclusive and committed to them is a form of security. So woman have been socialized to leverage their sex to get that, even if it goes against their biology saying “go get that dick girl”. Also, women have been socialized to believe that their entire value …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 10:25 AM
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I was exactly like this when I was young. And I got interest from women. But deep inside I was depressed and incredibly shy. I guess women saw me as a brooding, mysterious guy and wanted a slice of this. But you may have some fantasies that women just threw their panties on my face and forced me to fuck them without me uttering a word. Except, that’s not how the real world works. They still want you to be the man and take charge, but if you are asocial or shy or whatever, that’s super scary. So …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 10:20 AM
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Women go through phases. From teens to about 23, they are all about experimenting and having different sexual partners. In other words they are way more promiscuous. In about mid to late twenties and early thirties, they get baby fever and most want to get “serious” with a guy and become way more monogamous. But once kids are done and they are either divorced or just over the biological urge to have children, they return to promiscuity by their late 30s or so.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 10:17 AM
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That’s BS. Most women WANT to have way more casual sex than they do, but only if it doesn’t COST them anything. Unfortunately, most women shame each other for having casual sex (calling each other sluts), because society conditions women to maintain a high price for sex. Thus, casual sex costs women their reputation among other women. Sex is seen as something a woman exchanges for security, since security is the thing women crave the most. Security can be anything from: “he bought me a bunch of …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 10:14 AM
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So if she agrees to a second date, what’s the problem? I don’t get it.
/r/seduction07/07/25 09:54 AM
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lol, autocorrect. I mean to write “the biggest balls”. And yes, it’s a euphemism for being fearless, not a reference to the actual size of your gonads.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 09:51 AM
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You are too easy. Women never want what they can get and only want what they can’t get. By hanging around her like a good puppy all night, you just showed her how easy you are. Have a chat, go and do something else then come back to her or let her come to you. At the end of the night, tell her “I’m going home for a nightcap, welcome to join me if you want”. And just split. Don’t give her insta or anything. Also, if your goal is to get laid, start going out 1 hour or so before closing time (at mo…
/r/seduction07/07/25 02:31 AM
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What’s with all the touching? Don’t understand that this is the worst advice in this subreddit? To immediately start groping your date like a guy who hasn’t been laid in 2 years? Stop with the groping and limit your dates to an hour, hour and half at most. You kept dragging it out hoping it will turn into something more, instead of being mysterious and calling it a night early on, leaving her wanting more. You guys are so desperate in your pursuit of pussy, that you make it the real prize and th…
/r/seduction07/07/25 02:28 AM
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Why do you need to keep the conversation going?
/r/seduction07/07/25 02:20 AM
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I find it hilarious that the crowd that says “I’ve tried everything and nothing has worked” when pressed for details, have very little to offer. Or men who claim they struggle with women, when you ask them have you exhausted all avenues for becoming more attractive, such as taking steroids, getting tattoos, getting a fresh haircut every 3-4 weeks, wearing trendy clothing and going out to bars and clubs, what do they say? Naaaaah, I ain’t changing for no bitches .
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 11:40 PM
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Wrong. For most of human history, the majority of which spans way beyond what’s been recorded, humans fucked like animals based on animalistic, primal attraction. We were closer to the way primitive tribes today live than the way someone in NYC or London lives. In most tribes, raising children is a communal endeavor and most other things are shared as well, including sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 11:38 PM
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Women: don’t assume anything about us by the way we dress and look without getting to know us as a person. Also women: everyone I come across looks unintelligent, not sharing the same interests, socially awkward, dumb jock, unclean nerd, boring, stupid, bad in the sack, etc. Oh, and I have never ever interacted with these people.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 11:36 PM
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They do. But there is a reason why most men don’t elicit this reaction and it’s not because they are ugly. As much as men want to believe it’s all about looks and height, in the evolutionary scheme of things, these things matter somewhat but are not the decisive factor. Looks matter in a woman, because looks reflect her ability to bear a healthy child. Since the child is not in the man’s body, his looks don’t matter as much. What matters is the size of his balls. In nature, a woman is attracted …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 10:04 PM
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Damn! The women here should go check their pussies because if you only get aroused by one guy every three years, there is something definitely wrong with that thang!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 10:01 PM
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You know they tried the opposite in China and India and created several generations of incels. In other words, they kept killing off the girl babies because they were seen as undesirable and now mommy’s precious son can’t get a wife, cause they killed all the girls his age. So the problem is solvable, but not sure if you would like the solution if you catch my drift?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 09:59 PM
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If women have it easy in dating, aren’t the men they are dating having it easy too? Who exactly are all these women dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 09:58 PM
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It’s the same as guys saying they want a wholesome virgin while jerking off to a tattooed slut with fake honkers and a BBL being air tightened by three BBCs. What we say turns us on is very different from what really turns us on.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 09:56 PM
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So did you think of taking actual interest in her and having, you know….a conversation first?
/r/seduction03/07/25 07:01 PM
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You literally walked up to her and said “can I has your Instagram?”
/r/seduction03/07/25 06:00 PM
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You up?
/r/seduction03/07/25 04:49 PM
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It’s not that. Right now you are trying to court them. They should be ones courting you.
/r/seduction03/07/25 04:41 PM
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The only flattery you should use is complimenting women on their excellent choice in men (you) and what a good job they are doing of sucking your dick.
/r/seduction03/07/25 03:57 PM
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You have the wrong idea about all of this. You are still stuck on the mentality of you having to prove yourself to HER, having to win HER over, having to keep HER interested in you, etc. Only when you accept that the ONLY way for women to be interested in you is if they are the ones worrying about having to prove themselves to YOU, having to win YOU over and having to keep YOU interested, that’s when you will finally succeed.
/r/seduction03/07/25 10:56 AM
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My advice for apps is the same advice as for IRL. Be very specific about what you want and make no excuses for it. Don’t listen to this “leave all doors open” crap. This makes you indecisive and unfocused. Instead, focus exactly on what you want. If you can’t even express what you are interested in and stand by it, how do you expect to succeed with women? Be very specific. If you want casual dating, say that you are not in the headspace for anything serious. Say what kind of a woman you want: “5…
/r/seduction03/07/25 02:55 AM
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