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| 8 | Do you think social media has a lot of influence on my future divorce?So many women have been ruined from social media and media targeting women. My STBXW has an instagram reels addiction and there’s a whole lot of divorce content I overhear. She also at one point told me she wanted a relationship like one from her dark romance novels. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/08/26 11:44 PM |
| 1 | Stories of Ex’s Blowing Windfalls Post DivorceS&p500 mutual funds are where it’s at. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/08/26 07:28 PM |
| 1 | A Brief, Humorous Tale of "Mental Load".I’m trying to remain a liberal egalitarianism, but god damn if the behavior I see around me doesn’t make me sympathetic to the red pill. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/08/26 10:13 PM |
| 1 | A Brief, Humorous Tale of "Mental Load".Idk, I’ve been hearing that SAHM is the hardest job in the world and they literally can’t go to the bathroom by themselves. Had a full on argument about it. That a man who works 12 hour days who comes home and cleans still isn’t pulling his weight. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/08/26 09:32 PM |
| 6 | You find out who she really is when you're getting divorcedNo. Do not do that. You are still being stupid. Keep it in their name only. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/07/26 05:29 PM |
| 3 | Three years after divorce - alternative pointI think this is really the key here. I invested time and emotional energy into the relationship. I felt bad when I didn’t spend time on her. Now I can’t wait to be selfish as fuck. Not in a bad way, but in a way of self love. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/07/26 01:46 AM |
| 1 | Can I turn this around or am I kidding myself?That’s the worst thing you can do homie. Initiate, present an unfair agreement. Thats your best chance to save it. I promise you. Women are like cats and children. Tell her she can’t have you. Shell see it as a loss. Then still go through in with it. Fighting for it is like swimming against the current. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/07/26 12:45 AM |
| 1 | Can I turn this around or am I kidding myself?For real. As men we sacrifice and make women happy. She’s narrowly focused on herself. Marriage isn’t a choice educated women make day in and day out. It’s something that’s convenient for now. It’s a party where she’s the center of attention. It’s a life milestone. It’s the end where she gets to be the princess forever, until she realizes you’re a person too. Obviously this is highly generalized, but it’s directionally correct. As men, we need to start ruthlessly prioritizing ourselves. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/07/26 12:40 AM |
| 1 | Can I turn this around or am I kidding myself?I’m also a very, VERY direct communicator “I shouldn’t have to communicate.” Direct quote from my STBXW | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/07/26 12:31 AM |
| 5 | Lost an amazing wife and can’t accept itBruh, which gender monkey branches? | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/07/26 09:35 PM |
| 9 | Lost an amazing wife and can’t accept itStop drinking. Keep hiking up with other women. Lift weights. Find someone to date. Tell your ex about it and then cut her off. She’ll either accept it, or ask to reconcile at which point you’ll have a choice to make. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/07/26 09:34 PM |
| 1 | What to do during free time? mid 30s divorced menI do 4x a week. 6 exercises plus warm up, stretching and abs. PPL splits. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/07/26 05:00 AM |
| 1 | What to do during free time? mid 30s divorced menMy lifting sessions can take from 90 min to an hour. Literally anyone I know that goes for less than an hour and actually looks good used to be an actual athlete and is simply maintaining with great genes. The idea an hour is enough is cope. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/07/26 05:55 PM |
| 5 | My [40m] 5 year marriage to my wife [40F] just blew up and my wife ended up in jail and I don't know what to do.If you paid, you can still get half. Why the fuck are you surrendering already? Gear up and go to war. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/06/26 12:14 AM |
| 3 | My [40m] 5 year marriage to my wife [40F] just blew up and my wife ended up in jail and I don't know what to do.Get a lawyer anyway. Her money is your money legally. Get fucking alimony too. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/06/26 12:13 AM |
| 1 | My [40m] 5 year marriage to my wife [40F] just blew up and my wife ended up in jail and I don't know what to do.Dude, why the fuck would you want to save that? Unpack the bags and see you can get your bond money back. And block her trashy ass family. Find your support system. The one separate from her . | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/06/26 12:13 AM |
| 1 | My [40m] 5 year marriage to my wife [40F] just blew up and my wife ended up in jail and I don't know what to do.In my head I really am still sorta holding out that maybe by paying the bail and packing up and leaving for some time - that maybe time apart can help save us in the long haul This is profoundly delusional and would hurt you legally. It’s the dumbest thing you could possibly do. It sucks. I’m sorry. Follow the advice. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/06/26 12:10 AM |
| 12 | My [40m] 5 year marriage to my wife [40F] just blew up and my wife ended up in jail and I don't know what to do.You’re being stupid. You’re lucky you didn’t get arrested. You should have said yes to pressing charges. And you should have called the police again when her family showed up. Don’t bail her out. Get a lawyer now. Do what she or he says. Stop being stupid. Stop giving a fuck about her. Pursue the charges. STOP BEING STUPID! Your marriage is done. Testify against her. Get full custody. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/06/26 12:04 AM |
| 1 | Wife told me she wasn’t in love with me and wanted a divorce end of march. I moved out 3 weeks ago. Tonight she cried and asked me to move back inShe also changed her mind again once my fling ended 🤷♂️ | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/06/26 02:50 PM |
| 5 | Wife told me she wasn’t in love with me and wanted a divorce end of march. I moved out 3 weeks ago. Tonight she cried and asked me to move back inThis tracks. STBXW initiated separation. 6 months later she saw some hickies on me, broached reconciliation that week. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/06/26 05:31 PM |
| 3 | STBX Being Suspicious. Am I Crazy?Just finish it. She’s cheating and you owe her nothing. It’s not your job to protect her reputation. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/06/26 04:59 PM |
| 5 | Did your (ex)wife’s friends lead her towards divorce?And women wonder why men harp on accountability. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/06/26 03:31 AM |
| 2 | Struggling with STBXW issuesYou need a more aggressive attorney. Have whoever you want around her. Screw that STBXW. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/06/26 02:17 PM |
| 2 | Ex wife still makes me feel guilty - how to deal with itTake control of your life. That $5k a month could go towards your retirement. It could take you on vacation. You could take ladies younger than her on dates? | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/06/26 02:56 PM |
| 6 | Ex wife still makes me feel guilty - how to deal with itGo reduce that shit now bro. It’s your money. She’ll be fine. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/06/26 02:32 PM |
| 2 | Putting myself out there on some dating apps recentlyEarly 30s. Glowing up. I believe this. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/05/26 02:20 PM |
| 2 | Putting myself out there on some dating apps recentlyIt’s legit a game changer glowing up in your early 30s. You also have such a wide net you can cast. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/05/26 02:20 PM |
| 3 | Putting myself out there on some dating apps recentlyDid the exact same. If you’re a fit dude who can dress well and groom well, it’s a good time. The key is actually dressing well and grooming well, and taking good pics. Having been married women do legit “fix” a man in many ways some men do themselves but many never do. A bunch of single friends have no idea that they should actually build a little muscle, wear shirts that are tight in the right places and take care of unsightly body hair and have a solid skin care routine. Doing that makes it l… | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/05/26 08:38 PM |
| 7 | To the men who love for relationships on dating apps why do you pay for the premiums when they can be used for free?Gonna be honest, either pay, or don’t be on them. If you can get unlimited swipes and get yourself pushed to the front of the line, it matters. Visibility matters and that’s what paying gets you. The apps are 70% male. You can be on them and never get seen. Really dial in your profile. Loose weight, get your haircut and skincare in orders. Wear good clothes and be intentional about taking the pictures. So many people put literally no effort into looking attractive and then complain they don’t wo… | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/05/26 10:13 PM |
| 9 | I Hate that She Put me Here: Dating in 2026 is HorrendousSeriously optimize your profile. Hard. There are guides out there but you simply can’t throw up some recent pics of you and expect high quality women. This is a market and you are competing in an uneven market. You must take curated photos explicitly for your profile. Wear the best clothes and have a recent haircut. Lift, and get lean. Shoulders, lats and arms. Appearance matters hard. Airbrush the pictures even. Don’t compete. View them as in competition for your life. Coffee is ok, but not a d… | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/05/26 09:56 PM |
| 1 | 5 years post-divorce and I still feel psychologically trapped/stuck.Really throw yourself into lifting. Fix diet, use creatine, sleep, train smart. Progressively overload. A good side effect is the “revenge body.” | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/05/26 12:44 AM |
| 2 | My wife wants a divorce and she’s the breadwinnerBro, take her to the cleaners. Any woman would, you contributed your part. Get your alimony and child support. There are no femenists in divorce court. Get yours. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/05/26 10:24 PM |
| 9 | I’m a lesbian and this sub is a breath of fresh airAlways felt lesbians and men should have the relationship gays and straight women have. We both put up with the same BS. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/05/26 03:50 PM |
| 7 | Some of These People and What They Say on The r/Divorce Subreddit are kinda funny 😁 😂😭Women are seriously getting suckered in my this algorithmic propaganda. The anti male shit is real and maybe more pervasive than the red pill. But because it’s dressed up as empowerment it doesn’t get attention. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/05/26 03:31 PM |
| 2 | The worst part is seeing them move on like nothing ever happened.Men are builders by nature. Women, for most of history and pre history have not been. Not to knock the amazing women who have built things, but our genes are shaped by prehistoric conditions. They were the ones who had to be ok when the next tribe came over and slaughtered all the males in their lives. Not caring was an evolutionary requirement. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/05/26 10:32 PM |
| 3 | How often do they come back?Heard this really often with women and GLP-1 drugs. It’s either a revealing of them having access where none existed before, which feels unlikely. The other is that since these drugs treat addiction, it’s somewhat of an anti desire drug. But the doesn’t explain the serious how behaviors I keep hearing about. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/04/26 04:38 PM |
| 12 | Post Divorce and Sex?Check your T. Eat clean. Lift weights. Sleep well. Take care of your mind/ meditate if you’d like Cialis. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/04/26 05:37 PM |
| 1 | Honestly, how many of you in a relationship with a woman now that was hotter than your ex?Gotta profile max. Dudes are absolute shit at presenting a good profile. What most men think passes for a good profile is honestly pathetic. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/04/26 05:02 PM |
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