Limerence1976 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
6	Ex-wife got married but told the kids not to tell me? I think it indicates she’s not fully over your relationship and feels uncomfortable in the marriage. For whatever reason she wants you to still see her as an option. That’s my take.	/r/Divorce_Men	23/10/25 12:32 PM
13	Well the Shit Hit the Fan Delete this post ASAP homie you admit to drinking and driving with your kiddo and you’re about to go through a custody battle. Heed my advice friend. And don’t post anymore.	/r/Divorce_Men	23/02/25 04:35 PM
3	Went overseas to date women... kind of stunned really. No honestly you. Just keep your wits about you, it’s always good to be cautious.	/r/Divorce_Men	06/12/24 04:42 AM
12	Went overseas to date women... kind of stunned really. Yes and paying doesn’t mean much at this stage. Most love scammers pay for extravagant things at first, with the previous mark’s money, and that’s how they keep it going. There is a documentary on Netflix- the Tinder Swindler	/r/Divorce_Men	06/12/24 02:22 AM
1	Struggling with adult daughter, similar to relationship with ex-wife Holy cow. Was she like that when you dated or did she not reveal this until after marriage? Just blows my mind these types of people can find someone who will marry them knowing they have the ability to treat others like that.	/r/Divorce_Men	13/11/24 08:45 PM
1	Struggling with adult daughter, similar to relationship with ex-wife Ooof. Yes this answers the question then. Wild behavior and I am sorry you dealt with it. It’s almost inhuman.	/r/Divorce_Men	13/11/24 08:44 PM
2	Struggling with adult daughter, similar to relationship with ex-wife Fascinating. Do people do this when they aren’t married? I feel like this is only possible when you’re legally trapped with someone. I cannot imagine I’m in the minority of people who wouldn’t, I hate to say the word tolerate but ok, tolerate this in a dating relationship. If someone I was dating didnt speak to me for an even just a few days I’d probably go ahead and try to forget they even exist and start working on moving on. If they resurfaced I’d explain “I thought we broke up because you di…	/r/Divorce_Men	13/11/24 08:10 PM
3	Struggling with adult daughter, similar to relationship with ex-wife I have never encountered anyone who stops talking entirely, but the fact people like this exist is fascinating to me for some reason. Do they really not say a word to you for weeks? Not a single one? Not a “yep,” or a “sounds good,” or a “whatever?”	/r/Divorce_Men	13/11/24 07:25 PM
5	Dating is a nightmare Personally, yes. I was ready to fall head over heels for a wonderful man I dated post-divorce. He lied to me about a lot of stuff and after 3 years still didn’t really want to commit. I found out later he would deny our relationship to people while telling me he loved me and having me hangout with his family and calling me his girlfriend. Shattered me. I won’t be able to trust anyone for a long time but I know that and so I’m not dating. But I did go out in 1-3 dates with other guys before I fig…	/r/Divorce_Men	14/09/24 08:25 PM
1	Would you ever reconcile with your STBXW just out of obligation to your family/ kids? I have a buddy who doesn’t live in the same city as his ex wife but he goes and stays there for a weekend every 2 weeks and they take family vacations together. On paper it seems so nice for the kids, but these people do not love each other romantically and their kids were so little when they divorced that the kids have never seen what a REAL loving relationship looks like. I say you do you, man, but if I’m honest I think pretending to play happy family when that’s not what you actually have has…	/r/Divorce_Men	30/07/24 11:01 PM
2	Dating a Divorced Single-Mom that has 100% custody of her Children... You can do it online LOL. Google the name the county where she got divorced + “civil records” and it should take you to a portal where you can search for cases. Plug in her last name (+ a date range if it’s a common last name like smith). Some places let you see all the documents but most don’t- but you’ll be able to see if there was a protective order, or if it was contested etc. if you want the docs you can request them in person but that’s a bit much in my opinion. Very intrusive.	/r/Divorce_Men	06/05/24 09:35 PM
2	STBXW drinks and drives Yeah this guy was served w his divorce papers in rehab but he is a US Attorney and seems to be invincible to DUI. Allegedly he has been stumbling drunk in court, the judge has had to call his boss to pick him up, and he still has a job. Very unlikely he will get a DUI- sadly will probably kill someone for anything to happen to him. So she made the clause a hill to die on in the divorce and didn’t take any pushback (she is also an attorney). Honestly, if you think it’s a battle you need to fight,…	/r/Divorce_Men	23/01/24 12:15 AM
1	STBXW drinks and drives Get it put into the order. It’s near impossible to impose stuff like this after the divorce is final and I have no clue why. I have one friend whose ex drinks and drives and lost her recent hearing to require an interlock device on their car. But I have another who got it put into the initial order just fine and turns out their ex would rather drink than see their daughter, which is so sad, but at least there won’t be a tragedy involving the daughter now.	/r/Divorce_Men	22/01/24 09:53 PM
1	Advice on dating younger women 100%! That’s why they get pissed. It usually works haha	/r/Divorce_Men	31/10/23 11:00 AM
2	Advice on dating younger women They’re just young homie. Mid 20s is young.	/r/Divorce_Men	31/10/23 10:00 AM
2	Advice on dating younger women Yes but they still think you’ll change your mind for them. That’s crystal clear from the examples you gave. You’re saying it to them, I believe you, but it just doesn’t occur to them as an actual possibility bc you’re older and they’re so young and hot. That’s why they get so pissed.	/r/Divorce_Men	31/10/23 12:37 AM
1	Advice on dating younger women The thing is, most women that age do want kids and marriage, and think you’ll totally change your mind for them bc they’re so young and beautiful and awesome! It literally does not compute that you would not budge. So basically you have a choice to make: date just a wee bit older or put up with the drama.	/r/Divorce_Men	31/10/23 12:30 AM
-2	Did I fuck up? 🖕🏻we do just FYI. OP, sorry you’re going through this.	/r/Divorce_Men	29/09/23 04:39 AM
3	Child not Biologically mine Even with a DNA test in my state you’re still on the hook financially if you’ve treated the child as yours and supported it. You have to fight it in court within 90 days of finding out, or you’re toast until the kid is 18. “Best interest of the child.” I’m not a family law lawyer but I did a solid for a buddy of mine, and the Attorney General was not happy that someone actually met the crazy deadline. Honestly think it was the first time this AG had seen someone make it. OP I’m thinking you’re g…	/r/Divorce_Men	07/07/23 12:49 AM
6	Severe depression after wife dumped me and divorce. Homie you need r/BPDLovedOnes	/r/Divorce_Men	04/06/23 04:21 PM
1	Does the old contact every attorney in town trick still work? Yup. I did it. Cost me an average of $300 per consultation. What I did is I asked my own lawyers who the most insane, unreasonable family attys in town were and they gave me a list. Luckily the list was only about 4 lawyers, so I’d say it was the best $1200 I ever spent to make sure my ex didn’t hire them. One of the lawyers got on the list by continuing to oppose custody for a mother who by that point was in hospice with cancer and ended up dying without having her desired visitation. When lawy…	/r/Divorce_Men	22/05/23 08:50 PM
1	Every day is a new beginning I used to watch the sunset every evening with my mother, and she would say this just as the sun set: “Each moment is a new beginning; The sun rises even as it sets; Lord Jesus, sink your spirit into my heart, like the setting of the sun” I am not particularly religious, but still I think of her words all the time when I feel like hope is lost. Each moment is, indeed, a new beginning. I’m glad you’re doing the best with this moment. Keep your mind focused on moving forward with each new moment.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/05/23 07:38 PM
3	So much anger Soon she will be asking the kids to ask him for her and claim it’s good for them to see a “united front.” I mean, of course the kids want to see mom and dad back together. Before he knows it he will be so enmeshed that he doesn’t have independent relationships with the kids and she controls everything even though they’re divorced. It’s manipulation disguised with good intentions, playing on the guilt parents feel when they divorce. Seen it happen so many times.	/r/Divorce_Men	19/04/23 04:11 PM