Limes-Over-Lemons Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	Since men outnumber women, male loneliness is not the fault of women and cannot be solved through partnership with women.	Discussion	Limes-Over-Lemons	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/23 04:28 PM

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–	"No one owes you anything" is another battle women are going to lose Perhaps I misinterpreted OP point 1 But that mean we every bullet point have no solution. I asked what can women do to change the path we are on. And OP answered with “solutions” that women already do (and op said were the issue) and other points which women don’t collectively control points. So women cannot help? OP? What say you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/23 06:13 AM
–	"No one owes you anything" is another battle women are going to lose You don’t owe children support to women… You owe child support to #YOUR #CHILD Your child that was created when #YOU left your genetic material inside a woman. If you don’t want children don’t leave your dna hanging around. But how does children not being taken care of, improve the situation. Surely some of these children are young boys. Women should just take care of all the children with 1 income and men should contribute nothing to their children. Is financial neglect best for children? How c…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/23 06:02 AM
–	"No one owes you anything" is another battle women are going to lose (1) Is there a form of patriarchy that doesn’t seek to oppress and own women as property? Or do you want women to support being oppressed and owned as property? Be complicit against themselves. (Not a crazy idea , as people do it all the time. I just want to clarify) (2) I believe women agree that patriarchy causes suffering to men (and women) alike. (3)Women understand attraction is cultural. However controversial, but women are not adhering to strict physical attraction standards. Everyone can…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/23 04:33 AM
–	"No one owes you anything" is another battle women are going to lose So what is the solution! If women heeded the warning… what actions are you looking for women to take. Have sex with any man that approaches them, so men can won’t be sexless and by association lonely? Should women partner with men they don’t want to partner with? Would men be happy in such an arrangement? Also, there are not enough desirable women for all men, so some men will have to be with undesirable women. Men want women they don’t want? What are the task for the pretty women that all the m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/23 03:55 AM
1	Since men outnumber women, male loneliness is not the fault of women and cannot be solved through partnership with women. Ohhhh so you are of the bat saying than men under 30 will without partners as the women in their age bracket should partner with older men. Bold statement. Do you think young men would agree to that? They seem to want partnership as well, particularly at that time in their life…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/23 03:38 AM
2	Makeup plays an enormous role in women’s upper hand and allows them to play several leagues up, many of them look unrecognizable without it. But is the makeup an irrelevant issue? If there women were not wearing makeup and looking for men above their league… it wouldn’t matter anyway. Because men don’t want ugly women…. So she would never be considered at her own league because she is ugly. So the makeup simply makes her visible and able to compete. Actually adding more women to the pool of available women. Perhaps the thought is that if an ugly girl wears makeup and is “pretending” to be pretty, she should NOT aim to a higher league…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/23 01:34 AM
1	Makeup plays an enormous role in women’s upper hand and allows them to play several leagues up, many of them look unrecognizable without it. Women wearing makeup benefits men, as it creates more available women. We all know men do not like UGLY women, and ugly women do not exist in the calculation of “women” as no man wants an ugly woman. So woman increasing her attractiveness with makeup, actually increases the pool of viable women for interested men. OR… Is the issue that men feel like makeup tricks them into dating ugly girls instead of ignoring ugly girls and focusing of their effort on the “naturally” pretty girls. After all, ug…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/23 10:55 PM
6	What are your actual dating requirements? (Single Women Only) Not watching porn is a pretty low standard. Most men not being able to qualify doesn’t mean it’s some high standard. Not watching porn takes no effort. And it’s a pretty wholesome request, considering that men claim to be looking for “good girls” with low body counts (RP). Why would anyone reasonably want to partner with an avid porn watcher, knowing that it desensitizes people and leads to viewing even more perverse and extreme content. It’s pretty common for people to consider viewing porn and…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/23 04:21 AM
1	Since men outnumber women, male loneliness is not the fault of women and cannot be solved through partnership with women. “Even in countries with massive gender ratio gap, like China, you can match one on one by lowering women's age and highten men's age.” Are you suggesting the numbers issue could be solved by pairing younger women with older men? If so, what about the men in the young age group with the women. What do younger men do if younger women are partnered with older men. That’s doesn’t solve the issue for younger or older men. It actual exacerbates the issue as younger women is an even smaller pool than w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/23 03:37 AM
9	Why do single women seem so happy compared to single men? They don’t even want 50/50 walk dates… they want you to sit in their car with them…. And then have sex with them…. In said car … unless they offer the step up “Netflix &chill”/ let’s watch a movie at your place But I’m also an ugly woman, maybe the pretty women get offered outside 50/50 walk dates 😂 We all know NO man can be caught outside with an ugly woman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/23 10:00 PM
4	What would the ideal conditions for financial abortion look like? Because they get divorced	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/23 07:50 PM
–	Men don't need to reveal that they plan on paternity testing. I think paternity test should be done at the hospital, just mandatory so that no one has issues moving forward. And, maternity should be tested/confirmed as well, just for the record in case the mother has unknown condition and DNA does not match the child she birthed…. And to hopefully deter babies being switched at birth (not sure how big of a problem this is today, but during the 80s there were a few high profile cases). Should the relationship dissolve between the parents, paternity is alrea…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/23 07:41 PM
3	How common are men having "parallel families"? The vast majority of mistresses/sides terminate the pregnancy… And I would also like to add, that several women DO NOT KNOW that they are the mistress/side woman. Some know, but a healthy chunk are clueless to their position on the outside of a primary relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/23 02:24 PM
2	Are assumptions around women based on lack of exposure? K bye… 🫠 Don’t forget to not support OF and not have sex before marriage. Every OF creator you subscribe to is now a woman with financial independence and choice. Every woman you sleep with and don’t marry is a woman who is now no longer a virgin.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/23 10:43 PM
0	Are assumptions around women based on lack of exposure? Totally agree. However men are complaining (not you), men are suffering (not you). Women are choosing to be without men… at every turn when given the option women have chosen to move forward towards autonomy. Upon winning the right to vote, women voted, when given the choice to work outside the home and earn money for financial independence, women chose work. It’s clear that male leadership is need as women can’t be trusted to live and operate in the best interests of men. Women need men to put …	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/23 10:27 PM
5	Are assumptions around women based on lack of exposure? Men have the power to control this. Men can take charge and make this decision for women, by NOT participating’ Women aren’t working for free. Men are paying for OF. Being “passed around” doesn’t commonly refer to pervasive lesbian orgies. The men are having sex with women. Men are actively engaging in behaviors that contradict what they say they want. Obviously women wouldn’t use OF without economic gain. Obviously if men only had sex within marriage, women wouldn’t be able to access a man for …	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/23 04:00 PM
5	Trendline established, as of 2023 top 5% responsible for 50% of all sex; sexual loneliness seen as public health concern So when “female autonomy in selecting a partner” is restricted”. Are you suggesting financial dominance like before? Also, will men be better? Meaning will they be sexually faithful to their wives and not domestically abuse their wives. Or will be also have the option of multiple families/partners. Will men ALSO be required to stay with their wives and financially provide since the women can’t work. And how will the men treat their ugly wives they get, instead of whatever hot wife they wanted? U…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/23 08:17 AM
12	The problem with “Women would rather obey their boss than their husband” In regards to companies training leaders… this 💯 When we are being asked to “obey” our husbands, for the most part it’s without training, reason, or expertise. A husband or a man, is usually our equal. He doesn’t have specialized leadership, risk analysis and financial management training or years of experience. So why would he have the ultimate final say, with no extra information or special skills. If men had specialist training… about how to run a family, leadership, decision making even a bu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/23 03:12 PM
3	4 things I feel men should always remember. This 💯 The idea of sex with one partner, a FWB, is 1000% more ideal than a random one night stand… And understand the FWB is not the one night stand person. Usually you know them, and transition into that. The idea of one or multiple one night stands, just seems disgusting and sexually irresponsible. The quantity of partners would open to up to an increased risk of STI/STD and heaven forbid you got pregnant. Actually, all it takes is one pregnancy scare to make you seriously consider your sexual…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/23 12:39 AM
0	The fact that so many women have a problem with a man who goes 50/50 is proof that most women just want to use men and don't actually care about them. I was fine with 50/50… But then we started planning for a kid… and between my time off from work to paying for childcare so I can return to work… I realized that each partner needed to do more than 50/50… more like 75/75 minimum if you want to comfortably move into a future with a family and not live in poverty and stress. Someone has to/ should… be there for the kids. Or you will have to pay someone to be there, which can be cost prohibitive. Starting to plan a family really makes you realize t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/23 11:18 AM
-1	Loneliness has nothing to do with gender This is a HUGE part of the issue… “ugly” women don’t exist in their equation of viable partners and to an increasing percent, “average women” do not exist. Ugly women including nearly 100% fat and overweight women, who they recommend as objects to be used for sex and general socializing practice… but never as viable partners. And average women are simply any woman who is NOT gorgeous.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/23 02:11 AM
3	Q4men: how old are you, and what is the oldest age of woman you are willing to marry? Wouldn’t you question the self respect of a woman who DATED someone for 15 years. And from the time she was 20. That seems like a large investment of her youth for someone unwilling to commit to her after a decade plus… and sure you are a great guy. But if as a 20 year old she didn’t have the life experience to choose a great guy (most likely option)… now she is 35 and single without much time to invest another 15 years into someone… What would be the motivation for her to wait 15 years for comm…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/23 06:49 PM
–	It’s rough online dating for American Pakistani. When you say women… do you mean white women? I find that POC men in particular who have trouble on dating sites are somewhat exclusively looking for white women. (1) I think all men have issues on dating site (2) if by women you mean white women. Then NO nothing against Pakistani men. I have white female friends who love in particular dark Pakistani/Indian men (3) if you are not exclusively referring to white women, then also NO. However is seems that Pakistani/Indian men usually marry within th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/23 03:30 AM
–	Do you think older women are wiser? The thing is… unsuccessful people can surely tell you what NOT to do with 100% certainty. At least that’s my logic as an unsuccessful person.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/23 06:28 PM