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| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - March 08, 2022Good questions. What mean here is that I’ve been avoidant. Avoiding my wife, avoiding work, avoiding owning my shit. I’ve been working out and losing weight and following a number of other disciplines, but not really engaging with the world and my woman. What really inspired this comment was Chapter 47 of TWOTSM. I have stopped engaging or creating polarity with my wife. If she rejects that, so be it. I’m not here to suckle from the teat of validation. But I’ve moved from desperately wanting her… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/03/22 02:19 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - March 08, 20224 Basics: Late 30s, married 15 yrs, 2 kids, 6'2" 210.2 lbs (down 2.3 this week) 19.6% BF (strongur) Lifts: (5 Rep Max) DL: 280; Sq: 225; BP:185; Row: 170; OHP: 120 Mission: To embrace the world and stop avoiding and dissociating I wrote this last week: “I realized this week that while I’m doing well with the practices below, I’m not owning my shit completely. I’m avoiding things that need doing because I don’t feel like doing them and it’s time to stop. I often feel like my goal is just to get t… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/03/22 02:35 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - March 01, 20223 Basics: Late 30s, married 15 yrs, 2 kids, 6'2" 212.5 lbs (down 1.7 this week) Lifts: (5 Rep Max) DL: 275; Sq: 220; BP:185; Row: 170; OHP: 120 Mission: To develop the authentic self discipline that leads me to truly respect, trust, and love myself. I realized this week that while I’m doing well with the practices below, I’m not owning my shit completely. I’m avoiding things that need doing because I don’t feel like doing them and it’s time to stop that. I often feel like my goal is just to get … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/03/22 11:59 AM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - February 22, 2022Sometimes will power alone is not enough. You seem to have figured that out and you’re now looking for tools other than will power to address your binge eating. That’s good. A man is honest about his shortcomings and pursues new methods for growth when the one’s he’s tried don’t work. You’ve been trying willpower for 15 years. Like for many people, it sounds like it’s not an effective tool, on its own, for you on this issue. Good for you for trying to find additional tools. On your search for a … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/02/22 10:47 PM |
| 3 | Own Your Shit Weekly - February 22, 20222 Basics: Late 30s, married 15 yrs, 2 kids, 6'2" 214.2 lbs (up 3.3 this week) Lifts: (5 Rep Max) DL: 270; Sq: 215; BP:180; Row: 165; OHP: 115 Mission: To develop the authenitc self discipline that leads me to truly respect, trust, and love myself. I've been rereading TWOSM this week, and I had a realization about my mission. In my first OYS, I posted the above as my mission, but I thought of it more as "the thing I am working on right now" or just a "stepping stone" to my real mission. And not t… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/02/22 12:05 PM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - February 15, 2022This is an interesting take away I wasn’t expecting, and it really gives me something to chew on. Thank you. I’ve definitely passed through some anger phases, but after passing through them, I’m left at apathy. I’m definitely at stage 2 here: https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/l23n9p/timeline_escaping_sex_for_validation_and_quitting/ I did the stage 2 and back to stage 1 thing a few times over the past 6 months as my dancing monkey plan worked quite well and I felt so very validate… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/02/22 01:42 AM |
| 6 | Own Your Shit Weekly - February 15, 20221 Late 30s, career beta, 250k+ income, married 15 years, two kids, 6’2”, 210.9 lbs (down 3.1 this week). I’ve been lurking for 7 months, lifting and losing weight for 5 months. I fell off the weight loss wagon hard in Mid December and got back on mid January. I’ve read basically the entire sidebar and the big three books. Thanks to Ragnar for giving me the push to start OYS posts through his FR. I need the accountability and the help. Lifts - 5 rep max. DL: 265; SQ: 210; BP: 175; Row: 160; OHP: … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/02/22 03:59 PM |
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