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There are models who are still naturally beautiful without makeup or surgery but this is rare. Also what is photogenic is not necessary good looking in rea life 3D. I've dated my share. It's nice but as you age and you realize looks is only part of the equation in a relationship. Even if you max out physical sex time it's only 20% of the relationship. That said, nothing wrong with someone who is pleasing to your eyes. One question that I started asking myself: If the girl had all the qualities I…
/r/seduction15/02/24 07:41 AM
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"Sorry, I didn't get the office memo. Have a good one"
/r/seduction23/07/22 10:37 PM
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Interesting observation about pre-internet days. Approaching a girl who only has a small circle is definitely more effective before Most of the guys online also have no communication skills. They say the same things "hey hows it going" and "you're gorgeous". Ask any decently looking female friend and you'll see. Cold approaching is tough but it gives you the skill set to learn proper communication within a dating context which will help on a date / in a relationship You have to be more selective…
/r/seduction25/04/22 05:05 PM
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this.
/r/seduction25/04/22 05:00 PM
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You're on a roll!
/r/seduction25/04/22 04:58 PM
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There's a cycle of falling in love that some guys know naturally. I had to break it down the hard way. If you read "the anatomy of love" by Dr Helen Fisher it's a start. She measured the MRI of brains of people who were falling in love and explain the chemicals and science behind it. I put flirting techniques on top of that and tested it in-field Falling for someone has very little to do with a guys looks. It's how he makes her feel, and his understanding of the female psychology behind liking a…
/r/seduction22/04/22 04:58 PM
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Having good style is really important after college. It can make the effort you put into dating 90% less. In college the currency is fun and it's socially accepted that you're going to date around so it's less important. When you get into the real world, people do judge a book by its cover. *If you want style hacks that work check my profile there's a link there with a free style blueprint.
/r/seduction16/04/22 05:12 AM
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Re: pics. You are attractive man. However I understand. It's hard to talk to women. Sometimes conversations seem so "superficial" or "fake" People don't know how to have real conversations any more. And, you have to learn how to talk in a man-to-woman way. When you are attractive and women still don't "hook" it's like standing outside the cake shop and looking through the window salivating. It's frustrating. That was how a client of mine described his experience to me. So, best advice is to lear…
/r/seduction13/04/22 04:39 AM
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I cant tell if youre just joking around but in my coaching exp. When you look down on someone deep down there is judgement Judgement leads to errors in honest assessments of a person's issues based on your own ego. And it clouds your guidance for them. Just my opinion since you asked.
/r/seduction12/04/22 04:07 PM
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Because when you look down on someone, you can't help them.
/r/seduction12/04/22 07:26 AM
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awesome! GL!
/r/seduction12/04/22 07:09 AM
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I did not! I found in person to be most helpful. However I think virtual trainings can be great these days too!
/r/seduction12/04/22 04:28 AM
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I got pretty lucky, Cara Hale did a training on Google campus and referred me to a voice coach: http://www.speechskills.com/about/our-team/ If you do a quick search in your city you should find some good yelp listings Other than that, filming myself consistently on camera has been the single most useful thing
/r/seduction12/04/22 04:04 AM
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Only you know the answer to that! Short term I was happy achieving a certain goal i.e. my first kiss! My first girlfriend! But long term, I found joy in just becoming better at communicating with people! I felt in control of my communication and the ability to affect and guide my social interactions instead of things happening to me and not understanding why.
/r/seduction12/04/22 03:44 AM
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You will look younger than your age as you get older.
/r/seduction12/04/22 12:09 AM
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You will find this to be a HUGE advantage when you get older, trust me :)
/r/seduction11/04/22 11:36 PM
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WE miss intimacy, the girlfriend experience. People are more connected in technology but lonely in human connections SIMPING is a transactional form of this intimacy It's easier to pull out your CC than go out and actually deal with the pain of learning how to talk and interact with the opposite sex and dealing with rejection In SIMPING there is no rejection. The fantasy of that interaction is enough. It's not an ideal situation, but we shouldn't look down on them either... it's a problem for me…
/r/seduction11/04/22 11:35 PM
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I talked about collecting Pokemons to playmates at the playboy mansion. LOL. A different time in my life I think the keys to relate what you are passionate about to them in a way they understand. For example, "You know that feeling when you find the perfect blend of makeup to put on and you get the color just right? Well that's what it feels like to have a diversified stock portfolio! Now imagine you made money every time your got your makeup game 10/10. Isn't finance cool!?"
/r/seduction11/04/22 10:45 PM
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cool. In that case, I think key is congruence. It's a big part of why dating feels so fake to so many people. If you genuinely believe that its tik tok and shes doing it for likes / controversy, leave it alone If you are genuine bothered by it, I dont see any harm in bringing it up. Being able to have real conversations is what leads to healthy relationship. Perhaps do it in a way that serves her. "Hey, I totally get dating is tough, its hard to put yourself out there. I felt X YZ when I saw one…
/r/seduction11/04/22 10:21 PM
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Dance. Yoga. Anything that moves your body. Motion creates emotion (Tony Robbins)
/r/seduction11/04/22 08:07 PM
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How do you know she's talking about you?
/r/seduction11/04/22 07:04 PM
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I understand you in fact many self made guys don't really know to efficiently use money to setup a good dating funnel. Were so used to working all the time and the things that we do at work are oppposite of what attracts women I.e. logical data analysis. Leading a team meeting. Logical strategic decisions To go from that to flowing at a party.... Being spontaneous and joking that vibe is completely different. The most important thing I discovered for myself and other "Rich" clients is 1. Having …
/r/seduction11/04/22 03:34 PM
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I wonder sometimes why I'm on Reddit so I'll try again. Try to re-read what I wrote and your interpretation of them. Maybe you'll see the jump. I trying to help and you've turned this into a negative conversation. I said: 1. "Abundance mentality is the idea that the world has so many girls that it’s inefficient to focus on one particular girl if she doesn’t want you." [Your interpretation: "I think you're so obsessed with your own needs and desires to the point that you've completely excluded th…
/r/seduction29/03/22 08:03 PM
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can you project your own thoughts somewhere else man My post was simple: treat everyone with respect, but always have an idea of what you want out of your love life, and realize that you have the power of choice to go after what you want. That's the concept of principle of choice. It applies to job interviews, selecting friends, being non-needy about being alone. Your comments about treating people like Pokémon cards are just your own projections about what you think about certain people project…
/r/seduction29/03/22 06:59 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p5YpuWD2BSc&t=155s
/r/seduction29/01/22 06:41 PM
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My ex said "I'm a good size"
/r/seduction26/01/22 06:30 PM
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The fact that she has issues, and this is a job risk, doesn't that tell you a lot already about where we're at in terms of "abundance mentality"?
/r/seduction25/01/22 01:35 AM
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I agree with my mentor Darren Fuji (who's 5'5, Asian) on this one: If your overall SMV (sexual marketplace value) score is a 7, your ability to get a "9" can totally possible with proper skills / "game" Most guys are between 6-8 range, occasionally there's a client who's a 5 either in terms of looks or internal beliefs. Even with a 5, you can work and get a cute 7. The majority of clients, will be able to date 8 or higher. This is what I've seen by experience 10 years in field. A lot of men who …
/r/seduction24/01/22 11:20 PM
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try tossing it around
/r/seduction24/01/22 08:44 PM
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yes. See section about the attraction score variables 2+2+2 My clients range from bald Indian guys in their 20s to 51 year old divorcees. It depends what you mean by "successful", if you goal is to find a girl you dont feel like you have to settle for, yes absolutely unless you have ridiculous, unrealistic standards. Most guys, can find a really cute girl who has the qualities he's looking for regardless of any "limitations". I saw a client fail once with a coach bc he had hearing problems. I al…
/r/seduction24/01/22 08:43 PM
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sometimes there are girls who are super polite in person, esp if you are already friends. They don't want to break the social veil but in doing so, they also don't tell you the truth of how they feel. If she was excited to go on a date she would have already. You can text something like, "appreciate your friendship, open invite to hangout 1 on 1 if you ever decide" and move on
/r/seduction24/01/22 06:17 PM
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The (ugly?) truth is minorities have a lower margin of error - you wont see results until your skills are better than the average guy. And we also have to overcome that unconscious bias. Otherwise a % girls will write us off even with good techniques.
/r/seduction24/01/22 04:42 PM
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yes and yes. "Best girl" and "girl for me" may be too different things, as I've learned the hard way :)
/r/seduction24/01/22 05:24 AM
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6'2 u have to be at least 6 or 6'1 for runway my clients range from 5'3 to 6'3 5'7 is good
/r/seduction24/01/22 04:17 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p5YpuWD2BSc&t=155s
/r/seduction24/01/22 03:17 AM
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my channel is not monetized
/r/seduction24/01/22 03:14 AM
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I appreciate the comment, but you have to take responsibility to seek out the details. You cant expect a comprehensive post to tell you about the stages over 10 years AND teach you the technicals, each of which takes an hour or more I've provided the links for you and my YT and other sources Do some due diligence
/r/seduction24/01/22 01:46 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p5YpuWD2BSc&t=449s (more technical with pics) Here's an interview about it (more entertaining) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rCcl3ySDHXk&t=2591s
/r/seduction23/01/22 10:16 PM
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Certain concepts are easier to explain via video, those vids are 20-30 min long. And free.
/r/seduction23/01/22 10:11 PM
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Why would any coach waste his time teaching someone who's saying "prove yourself to me right but I don't believe it" when I have clients who happily hire me to help them bc they know it's a skill and are seeing results? The level of entitlement you have is pretty interesting. I understand that you may have anger maybe just a lack of hope after so many rejections, but until you can recognize that it's your responsibility to change the variables that are there for you, theres not much anyone can d…
/r/seduction23/01/22 09:36 PM
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I read so many research and anthropology papers that I cannot find anymore but in particular, I loved books that had science to back it up: https://kit.co/Giovanniwan/books-to-improve-your-dating-life-for-men Like how they measured how women rated men on a scale of 1-10 in aborigines' countries where they had no access to TV/any form of media The evolution of desire by Dr David Buss's work is great.
/r/seduction23/01/22 09:31 PM
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If you don't believe that learning to improve the way you relate to people socially is NOT a skill set and purely due to luck or genetics, then we fundamentally disagree and this difference cannot be reconciled. I wish you well.
/r/seduction23/01/22 09:29 PM
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Bro, re-read your comments and really learn from them. I feel like I'm talking to a stubborn younger bro "The biggest hindrance is the lack of substance in this post, and every post here." Reddit is a forum for writing. What I outlined are the broad strokes with some specific examples. Instead of appreciating it, you go straight to the things you're missing in your own journey and blame it on others. You should find nuggets in field reports and others writings for your own life. If you're lookin…
/r/seduction23/01/22 09:24 PM
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Sup. I invite you to read the undertone of your msg and think about it. Just my humble opinion - no thank you, no appreciation, just this urgency to just "gimme the stuff man!" - might it be reflected socially in your interactions in the real world and thus be a stumbling block for you? Is it a sense of entitlement in this era of guys trying to get better with dating? I don't know, just thinking out loud here. How do you let go of your ego? I think I explained this pretty well in my post. Ekhart…
/r/seduction23/01/22 08:00 PM
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I do feel like this should be taught if not in school as a rite of passage for men
/r/seduction23/01/22 07:18 PM
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Matthew Hussey.
/r/seduction05/01/22 10:17 PM
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There are some men/women when you look at them, there's a naturally sexual vibe. Some of this is transitional - for example if you're in your 20s and having a great life, you naturally exude some of the sexual vibe. As you age, some people are more sexual (i.e. Liz Hurley) and others tone it down. Some people have sexual vibes in 2D (pics, instagram) and less in 3D (in person). Some people just exude sex in person. I've met several girlfriends like this. When I was in my 20s I felt similar to yo…
/r/seduction16/12/21 12:32 AM
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I can't sleep easily cuddling. Maybe he just wants to be close to you and not cuddle Or maybe he's not interested. Why don't you just ask him?
/r/seduction20/07/21 05:48 PM
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If 95% of women you are approaching say they have BFs, either you are approaching in the wrong venue (i.e. a daycare lol) or your approach is weak and they are telling you they have BFs when they really don't. In the 90s I was still in middle school/highschool but yeah, times were simpler there is a study by Tyro investments that shows the rate of online dating - it particularly benefits women in the top 20% - because now with technology and reach they can hit up the highest status men in their …
/r/seduction13/06/21 04:56 PM
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I would say that there are guys who try hard but if you run as fast and as long as you can east you will never reach the sunset. You can do the right thing in the wrong time or in the wrong context and NOT get the result. That's why it's so important to match effort with accurate, streamlined feedback.
/r/seduction10/03/21 05:37 AM
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Happens to all of us, me included. For whatever reason, she changed her mind. I never invest too much until after we hangout for more than 7 years total combined.
/r/seduction03/03/21 04:03 AM
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Not at all. It's not for everyone. The skill set exists to help you reach YOUR goals, you should not live in someone else's expectations Also you have the added benefit of less risk of STDs. It's not beta to set your own boundaries and connect with girls that understand. It's beta to pretend to be "alpha" and do something just to look cool or please someone else.
/r/seduction23/02/21 03:28 AM
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There is no substitute for in-field experience. Going out alone was the hardest thing for me. Having wings helps a lot. Having a coach in-person, in-field really accelerated my growth. Back in the day when Alex was hosting the RSD hotseat - I learned so much from him. Was one of the highlights of my journey.
/r/seduction19/02/21 10:55 PM
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X. If you can wake up anywhere in the world and then teleport back home once whenever you want, where would you wake up tomorrow?
/r/seduction19/02/21 10:46 PM
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I think there's a big difference between these 2 type of guys Pretender - guy tells "half truths" or lofty goals / details without anything to show for it. Friend who talks about making millions and 7 years later when I visit back home, he's working the same job. This type of guy is a pretender of high value Hustler - the guy who's not on "top" but he knows he's on a journey - he's building his skills and moving in the right direction. He knows that a journey of 10,000 miles starts with a single…
/r/seduction19/02/21 10:45 PM
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I was 23 and in a similar position as you - focused on my career, work, and just realized one day that I didn't focus at my dating life at all. I told myself it was just something that didn't matter, but in reality, while I was ambitious and into my work it was also a good distraction from my weaknesses (longer version here) The biggest jump in my success was a combination of 3 things: Style - there's no 2nd chance to make a first impression. Most guys don't dress well. Figuring out how to do th…
/r/seduction19/02/21 10:14 PM
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