| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 4 | Processing. Could use advice. | Need Support | Limp_Gain_8628 | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/05/26 01:30 AM |
| 4 | Vent/advice request? | Rant | Limp_Gain_8628 | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/03/26 02:04 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | Processing. Could use advice.Much obliged. The past few days have been instructive. My kid keeps reaching out through calls and texts. I don’t draw into the web, staying neutral and being supportive. It’s been wild. The clarity from peace chosen has been brutal. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/05/26 01:21 AM |
| 1 | Processing. Could use advice.One party consent state. Already doing so. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/05/26 06:58 PM |
| 2 | Processing. Could use advice.You’re right I can only control myself. I did say all of those things to my kid. Given how raw and fresh this all is, it could only exacerbate the situation, but there’s a tacit understanding that the kid is always welcome in my space. Thanks man. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/05/26 06:58 PM |
| 1 | Processing. Could use advice.Yes indeed. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/05/26 06:56 PM |
| 1 | Processing. Could use advice.Couldn’t agree more. Kid said a few things that hurt. Highlights how I need to put in my own O2 mask first. Hope the kiddos are okay on your end. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/05/26 06:56 PM |
| 2 | D-DayIs what it is. Amazing what about 24 hours of clarity did for me. Right now I’m minimal contact. She hit me up about something stupid today and I grey rocked and employed BIFF worked better than I could have imagined even while trying it while cohabitating. We have an adult kid, so different but similar to your situation. Still working in a place to live and attorneys, but the path is clear for me. Hit me up if you need to vent. It’s healthy. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/05/26 06:54 PM |
| 2 | D-DayJust got hit with it myself. Right there with you guy. Went from zero to 100 in about 15 seconds. You don’t know where to start. I get it. Kind of feel the same; I’m focused on working on logistics. I was passively threatened so am without anything but the clothing on my back and a change of clothes. Long story, so working to get myself unassed as I’m literally flying back from a business trip. *edit* grammar | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/05/26 11:41 PM |
| 2 | Vent/advice request?Solid point. One I’ve considered. Might be sunk cost fallacy. Appreciate it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/03/26 06:47 PM |
| 1 | Vent/advice request?Tried that shit. Second the therapist tried to hold her accountable, she fired them. Appreciate the advice. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/03/26 06:47 PM |
| 2 | Vent/advice request?Rough, than you for sharing. This is my first rodeo, so there is a ton of cognitive dissonance I’m experiencing with it and deciding to pull the trigger. Thank you for your perspective, it is helpful. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/03/26 04:13 PM |
| 3 | Vent/advice request?Thanks man. Sorry you went through something similar. Did you file? If so, what helped you across the line? | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/03/26 03:01 PM |
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