| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 4 | Help me think rationally | ADVICE | Lina4950 | /r/RedPillWives | 12/10/19 10:17 AM |
| 3 | Please tell me I’m just being anxious | LTR/MARRIAGE | Lina4950 | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/10/19 08:24 PM |
| 1 | F | Lina4950 | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/10/19 01:04 PM | |
| 1 | Help me validate or invalidate my feelings | ADVICE | Lina4950 | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/10/19 11:07 AM |
| 1 | Please tell me I’m just being anxious | Lina4950 | /r/RedPillWives | 01/11/19 06:06 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | Help me think rationallyMy stance is more of a if you can’t/don’t want to do this tell me now. Don’t waste my time. If you’re happy the way you are that’s fine and there’s nothing wrong with it. | /r/RedPillWives | 02/11/19 12:44 PM |
| 1 | Help me think rationallyI thought I posted this back on the old thread. We had the talk and now I’m not seeing him for a week so he can decide what he’s going to do. I miss him though. | /r/RedPillWives | 01/11/19 09:33 PM |
| 1 | Please tell me I’m just being anxiousI had the sit down and spoke with him. I asked him when do he want to try and start having kids. He said soon, maybe even after getting married, which will be in June next year. I asked how are we going to afford this. He said he was already thinking about sucking it up and looking for a job that can align with his future goals. It’s funny how he said all the right things but I just didn’t believe it. He then said he wanted to wait looking for a new job until the end of the year in hopes that hi… | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/11/19 06:08 AM |
| 2 | Help me think rationallySo far I want to thank the majority of you for your thoughtful responses. Thank you for your opinions. I’m going to think this out more clearly. I can’t deny that I’ve been emotional. I am definitely going to have a sit down with him soon, maybe not tomorrow as I had planned. I welcome anymore comments but I will keep you all up to date with whatever happens. | /r/RedPillWives | 15/10/19 11:39 PM |
| 1 | Please tell me I’m just being anxiousThanks for your response. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/10/19 11:36 PM |
| 2 | Help me think rationallyI honestly hate that I sound this way, I just hate the situation I’m in because he honestly is a good person. I get angry because of the lack of communication on his part on what he plans to do so I really don’t know what’s going on in his head. | /r/RedPillWives | 15/10/19 11:34 PM |
| 2 | Please tell me I’m just being anxiousWait wait wait. I will say this. If I have a house husband, it will end in no husband. In my culture that is not seen and it will be mentally detrimental to me. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/10/19 12:27 PM |
| 2 | Help me think rationallyAt this point I was planning to meet him at Starbucks, talk to him about how he has not made any sacrifices to improve himself and put himself in a better standing to have a house and children and the person that I am going to marry needs to make me feel confident that he can do this. These are the crossroads. This is the ultimatum. I am going to leave the apartment for a week so he has time to think. If he wants to continue to be comfortable with his current life position I am ready to walk out… | /r/RedPillWives | 15/10/19 12:01 PM |
| 2 | Help me think rationallyI do not believe he would stop working. That’s something I strongly believe. However, what I can see happening is him sticking to what he already knows and just keep working at his seasonal job full time. The job pays ok, just enough to contribute but not enough for a family. | /r/RedPillWives | 15/10/19 01:09 AM |
| 3 | What do you look for in a guy?I agree. The things he wants to achieve should be based on what he has already done. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/10/19 12:32 PM |
| 5 | What do you look for in a guy?This. I don’t think it’s a rare trait if you are actively looking for it. By taking responsibility for you our actions you can find a man who is capable of leading. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/10/19 12:30 PM |
| 1 | Help me think rationallyHow old are you (and how old is your partner) and how familiar are you with RPW? 32F, 36Mm, generally familiar What is your relationship status? Engaged What is the problem? (Don’t badmouth your SO!) I do not want to end up supporting the family I want a captain but I don’t want to find out after marriage and kids this is not possible with my SO. How have you contributed to the problem? Maybe not putting my foot down earlier in the relationship How long has this been an issue? Maybe 2 years What… | /r/RedPillWives | 12/10/19 10:54 AM |
| 2 | How to best support my husbandThis is amazing advice | /r/RedPillWives | 12/10/19 10:44 AM |
| 1 | Advice on relocating for a better family enviornmentMaybe Owego ny or the surrounding area | /r/RedPillWives | 12/10/19 10:32 AM |
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