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This :)
/r/seduction29/06/15 01:35 PM
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If you actually believe that you can't meet girls everywhere, you will have a hard time meeting girls. You can in fact meet girls everywhere. Stop thinking so much and just approach! -Lindo
/r/seduction17/03/15 05:30 PM
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What dude who said I've been friends with this girl for months and are in the friendzone? I met her at a party a few weeks ago and we had a coffee date on friday. And shes definetely attracted.
/r/seduction18/02/15 02:57 PM
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Exactly! I texted her that I have some tests the coming week, but I'll text her next week so we can grab a coffee. :)
/r/seduction25/01/15 04:39 PM
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I guess I should start doing this.
/r/seduction12/01/15 04:19 PM
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I dont live in the US but during a quick google search I found out that it lives around 650k people in the boston city (assuming you live in the center of the city) and like 4.5 million in all of Boston. This is just a stupid excuse. You can't possibly know THAT many people. I would understand you if your city had a population of like 5k where most people arent your age. Am i just being a pussy? Yes
/r/seduction11/01/15 10:20 PM
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Glad I could help! :)
/r/seduction05/01/15 06:16 PM
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Her: My boyfriend gave me Dude, there's not much you can do here. She has a boyfriend. There's not really any spesific "mistakes" here to point as at you didn't really try to do anything either. She has a boyfriend and that's why you didn't try to number close which you also shouldnt have done in this case. You overcome your approach anxiety talking to your crush! That's huge and you've already come further than 90% of guys. You find out that she had a boyfriend but that don't bother you because…
/r/seduction05/01/15 04:58 PM
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Wtf dude this is all on her. A girl with a boyfriend shouldnt do this...
/r/seduction27/12/14 10:21 PM
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Germans know english so there should not be any "language barrier". You don't have to know a single german word to fuck girls in germany bro :D
/r/seduction27/12/14 10:16 PM
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So essentially game in general? ...
/r/seduction24/12/14 10:02 PM
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THIS. STOP MAKING THINGS SO HARD GUYS. :)
/r/seduction24/12/14 12:01 AM
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You clearly are focusing to much on if you're being too needy or not, which in the end will actually make you needy. Like other guys said; Dont waste time and effort on social media like snapchat etc. There's no reason to make things harder for yourself. Get this girl on a date asap and escalate. If she "turn's cold" on you again then move to the next girl! Accept her friend request on facebook unless there really is some shit there u dont want her to see. In conclusion: Don't overthink shit and…
/r/seduction15/12/14 12:18 AM
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Yes, if she did not suggest another date and time or wont contact you again very shortly to do so, you can assume that. So I've been FRIENDS with this girl for a couple of months ago This is your problem. Work on building more attraction and a better first impression next time you meet a girl. Make your intentions clear from the first moment. Why are you so bummed out of one girl? Stop. This will get easier when you start getting better results and more alternatives. No biggie. Go say hi to thos…
/r/seduction01/12/14 02:21 PM
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Donnie Darko is amazing! Can you elaborate on why u think it's a good choice with a girl? That is a movie you really need to pay attention to.
/r/seduction25/11/14 05:24 PM
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Actually how bad is your hearing loss? Can you barely talk because of this? It would make it a lot easier to give you spesific tips if you described it more thoroughly.
/r/seduction22/11/14 05:44 PM
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This is exactly why IOI's (indicators of interestest) are overrated and not something you can allways go by. Some girls are simply to shy to show their interest. The girl can be extremely into you, but she wont show it because of this. She can also not be used to showing feelings and not enough experience with guys to know how she should project her feelings. Try and get this girl on a movie date at your place. Escalate. Get close to her. Kiss her. You know where to go from here ;)
/r/seduction15/11/14 04:47 PM
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Lett med! Bor i Sandefjord. Send PM :)
/r/seduction11/11/14 06:54 PM
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That pub sounds perfect! You can meet her at the there and grab a beer. A beer usually light's up the mood a bit. Walk around in the park or do the stuff you mentioned after a while to bring the date to several stages and not making it boring. You want her to remember you in different enviroments, creating the experience for her dynamic and more fun. Three stages for the date is great, but you can also have two. Eventually you can try closing to your house later that night. Great logistics here!…
/r/seduction10/11/14 05:35 PM
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EDIT: Uhm, your post dissappeared? If you didn't get her number, just message her on facebook with something like "Hey XXX, blabla. Let's grab a coffee (spesific day) ? :)" I don't know how much rapport and attraction you built that night but for her to wanna have a coffee with you, she only needs to be a bit curious about you. She doesent need to feel extreme attraction. Grabbing a coffee with new people is normal. There's no reason to get her to come with you at a party/club again where there …
/r/seduction10/11/14 02:54 PM
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I can't stress enough how key this is.
/r/seduction04/11/14 06:43 AM
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I like to say that things aren't akward unless you make them akward! :)
/r/seduction03/11/14 02:26 PM
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Norway
/r/seduction31/10/14 04:15 PM
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I think the main reason pickup don't work for newbies is that they focus way too much on theory and techiques like there is some formula to every interaction. The most important thing is becoming a generally attractive and confident person. Not to master all the theory in detail. Don't become the guy who can get every girl with his techniques. Become the attractive, confident and chilled out guy that every girl wants. Also, 4 dates last summer. Im guessing in the course of 2-3 months? That is no…
/r/seduction29/10/14 06:47 AM
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Why not? He must have built some damn good attraction and rapport during the time he talked with her. We don't know how long that was. Why not try and kiss her if you want to? And OP: I'm not sure what you're asking for here. You seem to be doing pretty well. Just focus on constantly approaching and getting better. If girl's are flaking on you, work on making stronger first impressions. If she flakes, she is not worth your time or a spot in your life.
/r/seduction29/10/14 06:19 AM
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As insidescoop84 said: It's all about rapport. How well you know these girls. How they interpret you. How you communicate these jokes. In an unsecure, akwardly way with permission seeking? Or in a confident way. The wast majority of girls will think stuff like this is funny if you know how to communicate it.
/r/seduction28/10/14 07:01 PM
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As everyone else I also struggle with this from time to time and I guess there is really no other "cure" than having several options . You won't be needy if you have a lot of options and you will really notice how similar characteristics and personalities a lot of girls have, making it harder for you to think "wow, this girl is special" when in reality she's just a cool girl like the other million ones. Also, I like to think of girls as songs. Sounds weird, yeah? Think of it guys. There are mill…
/r/seduction28/10/14 03:27 PM
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I know exactly how you feel when you see her. I often feel nervous like this when I meet a girl im dating or am interested in on school/other situations spontaniusley, even though im completely confident hanging out with them in general. It's just something about meeting them when you are not prepared and you dont quite know how to act and you end up acting nervous. Im guessing this behaviour is actually more in your head. At list it is for me. you are thinking of seeing her in the hallway, you …
/r/seduction28/10/14 02:50 PM
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This is a pretty basic mindset in pickup and my guess was that everybody already had this mindset after reading a bit about it. Its a good point. You should allways assume attraction and that what you have to say has value. You are the price. But I don't understand how this can get about 5 times as many upvotes as other longer, more valuable posts like different FR's etc.
/r/seduction28/10/14 01:25 PM
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Didn't get it? :S
/r/seduction27/10/14 02:00 PM
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I have the exact same problem and im curious to what people have to say about this. Im a lot better at approaching and flirt with girls at house parties where I can actually talk to them. The music is way to fucking loud on the clubs/events i've been to and I usually just try and start dancing with them and see the response i get. I feel like I have to say something and end up trying to scream "whats your name" etc, lol but the girls usually just get tired of me and leave me without saying a wor…
/r/seduction26/10/14 09:07 PM
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No Jeans? Basically everyone wears jeans. What else can you wear? Jeans looks damn good if they fit you.
/r/seduction26/10/14 05:46 PM
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Do you still have a good posture if you stand straight but have your pockets in your jacket/coat etc casually?
/r/seduction25/10/14 06:13 PM
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Are you kidding bro? If not: DON'T FUCKING SAY THAT. Seriousley, it sounds fucked up and will scare her the hell away. Don't focus on what it's called. If you hang alone with a girl and there are sexual intensions it's a DATE in my eyes. Why do a "date" and a "hangout" have to be different? Are your chances better if you label it a "date"? No. Then why bother? You are gonna grab a coffe/whatever with a girl you like. That's it. If she don't wanna escalate with you and don't get why you want to h…
/r/seduction23/10/14 06:17 PM
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You did not come off as a big jerk, not at all bro! Oneitis is a terrible feeling and I feel so bad even if I have it for just some weeks. Can't imagine how you must feel if this has been going on for years. Credz to you for finally putting up with this oneitis and taking life into your own hands! Wish you the best!!
/r/seduction23/10/14 06:06 PM
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I know about that mindset and im trying to keep it, but I still find it hard and I eventually get stressed out with girls im dating. I guess I need to go get some more alternatives!
/r/seduction23/10/14 03:43 PM
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A pretty basic and well known mindset in pickup I think, but damn it's a good one! :D
/r/seduction23/10/14 02:09 PM
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That's kinda dissapointing. If you meet one of the RSD guys you want to have a good conversation and a great time. This guy seemed to not appreciate his fans and try to sell you shit. Like, wtf... I like to think Tyler and Julien are awesome people and probably wouldn't act like this if you met them. But you never know...
/r/seduction22/10/14 05:32 PM
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I've been seeing a girl lately and thoughts like this has gone through my head. I was unsure if I did something wrong or not, when actually all of these small "mistakes" you think you did to fuck things up actually don't mean jack shit. Turned out everything was okay and we had another date together. You need to assume everything is okay, act like that and don't act like something is wrong. If you believe something is wrong, this will become your reality which will make her notice and she will b…
/r/seduction21/10/14 02:21 PM
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I know exactly what you mean. Ive been on a few dates with this girl and I like her a lot but id rather not meet her at school as I feel more pressured if we both are with friends etc, and it just feels to stupid to say hi and walk past her. I dont really know how to manage the situation and seem confident. Conversations like this sometimes feel forced and meaningless but things only get akward if you make them akward. She is probably thinking the exact same as you. If you have to see her a lot …
/r/seduction19/10/14 10:01 PM
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Jack is not surprised
/r/seduction19/10/14 09:16 PM
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Hi guys, an update from me: Last night was okay. I think I had a bit too high hopes and focused to much on that I needed to get results, rather than actually having fun which I know I shouldn't do. I also find it hard to see the positive in things and I usually focus more on the negative, which im working on. I want every night to be awesome, but I know that realistically they of course can't. Didn't really feel the vibe yesterday and had some approach anxiety. I was walking around there chodely…
/r/seduction19/10/14 04:31 PM
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I know exactly how you feel man. Starting to actually date girls after you have already built attraction is extremely exciting and can also be very scary. Im very new to dating myself, but you have absolutely nothing to worry about mate. You did not tell us about how you met this girl, or what kind of relationship that has already been built between you, but you need to know this: you are telling us about how afriad you are of messing things up with her and this will probably be the reason why y…
/r/seduction18/10/14 02:09 PM
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No dude... No...
/r/seduction09/10/14 08:18 PM
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Hi again bro!I realize my reply was pretty shit and didn't give you much but this was the last post I read before going to bed and I wanted to comment on how much you overcomplicate this stuff. I know the party is over now but think about all of this next time. Here's a more detailed answer for you bro. This is a long post but I’m thinking you will find value in this: Before I start I wanna say that I have absolutely no exeperience with frat paries and I have no idea what they are as I dont live…
/r/seduction28/09/14 01:49 PM
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Why fuck girls you don't want to fuck? No one is making you :P
/r/seduction28/09/14 12:09 PM
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"Hi" ;) Don't make it any harder bro.
/r/seduction28/09/14 12:39 AM
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Next time you meet her: Flirt with her. Joke about some random shit. (Im assuming you have already flirted with her) Then:"Type in your number so we can grab a drink next week" hand her your phone. Text her a day or two after to set up a hangout. Much better than "Do you want to grab a drink sometime?" Assume attraction from the beginning. You dont want to "ask her out" and put pressure on it. Instead you make it something casual you two are doing together and you have put no pressure on her at …
/r/seduction19/09/14 06:05 PM
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Wow I had no idea there was an own sub for that. Thanks! :)
/r/seduction02/09/14 09:09 PM
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Oh if it's like a college lecture thing then definetely go for it man. Just would be a lot harder if it was like a small class in a classroom. After the lecture is done you can approach her, try to get her number and grab a coffe later that day or the next couple of days. An opener I can think of is just simply saying "hi! you are the cutest girl in this class. I had to talk to you! im XXX Who are you?" Or ask her for the time or any bullshit. Maybe start making assumptions that you think she lo…
/r/seduction31/08/14 09:33 PM
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Do you need to see this girl often? If so I wouldn't try and date her. Things can very easily become akward and hard when you need to see each other in the same class a few days every week in my opinion. You can still talk with her and flirt ofcourse though.
/r/seduction31/08/14 07:38 PM
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She replied a few hours later. She said she had plans tomorrow and didn't suggest another time/activity so Im forgetting her and finding someone else ;)
/r/seduction22/08/14 11:14 PM
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Looks like I did all the mistakes you just mentioned haha. Now I wont do it again. Thanks man :)
/r/seduction22/08/14 08:44 PM
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Called her. She didnt pick up and I left a text. No reply yet so I guess I did not build enough attraction when I met her as it seemed. My text was pretty standard and boring but that shouldn't have any effect on wether she replies or not imo.
/r/seduction22/08/14 05:09 PM
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If you say this you obviously don't understand how pickup/attraction and human interactions actually work and not how Hollywood movies want you to think they work. And who is lying?
/r/seduction22/08/14 04:18 PM
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I was gonna say something like "not sure if trolling or not" but I want to think of every new reddit user I meet as a good person with a life lol. But you seem cool though. That comment was pretty funny haha. What good do you get out of trolling on r/seduction anyway man?
/r/seduction22/08/14 03:58 PM
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What is wrong with you? Seriously?
/r/seduction22/08/14 03:47 PM
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Hi mate! Tried to call her just now. She didnt answer after a few beeps. Do you recommend calling her again later or leaving a text message? And yeah I know there's plenty of girls and one means nothing but doing pickup in my city is really really risky because of how small it is, meaning that I dont meet girls as often as I should...
/r/seduction22/08/14 03:41 PM
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Fuck no. Big cities ftw
/r/seduction10/08/14 04:28 PM
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Point 2 is a really good one. Especially in my age group yeah... Didn't think about that.
/r/seduction10/08/14 04:15 PM
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Exactly. I think the reason some girls act like this to boys they like is because of a fact we all know: girls are terrible at picking up guys. And they have really ever had any reason do to it either. They are getting picked up by guys instead. These girls can seem secure and behave the way they want with boys they feel they have "control" over. but once a guy who knows pickup shows up, the girl has no idea how to act around him because she feels like he's in control of her and she stresses out…
/r/seduction10/08/14 02:35 PM
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First of all. Stop thinking so much. Seems like you over-analyze a lot. Just by reading the first couple of lines I got the idea that you did. This easier to say than do though, and took me a while to get better at. Stop caring what u say and do and just "be in the mood" with the girl. And if you try escalating and flirting and dont get good enough response or the response you want from that girl, find someone else. No reason to keep trying. Wasted time. "My preferred style of escalation is rapi…
/r/seduction10/08/14 02:12 PM
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Lol good point right here, sir...
/r/seduction10/08/14 01:37 PM
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Yeah I dont have anything against hookups but I just loose interest when I basically dont need to work for her at all.
/r/seduction10/08/14 01:36 PM
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Right before she had to leave I engaged a convo with her and said we needed to hang one day. Then I told her to write in her number.
/r/seduction06/07/14 04:06 PM
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Amen
/r/seduction03/07/14 02:12 AM
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You are overthinking this way too much. It really doesen't matter. People usually call each other stuff, especially girls. It's not that these words don't mean anything to them, instead they have fun and say whatever they want without over-analyzing it. The same with emojis. They look fun, crazy and childish which girls love. I really like the emojis aswell. They make interactions more fun and it's easier to be playfull and flirty with them. Go crazy on the emojis! You should stop overthinking s…
/r/seduction20/06/14 01:59 AM
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Exactly.
/r/seduction20/06/14 01:48 AM
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Sadly, our communtiy has formed social expectations, norms and rules that you should just know how to get women from the start. They dont know that this art has to be learned, just like anything else. And like other people said: Don´t really talk with people outside of pickup about it. They just don´t get it if they dont have the same way of thinking as we do. Im forever happy that I discovered forums like this who helped me see all of this from a whole new perspective. I learned that girls and …
/r/seduction19/06/14 10:07 PM
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Im not being pushy by doing that?
/r/seduction18/06/14 11:11 PM
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Dont worry dude. Dont regret things you should have done. That won't get you anywhere. I also used to think like this some time ago, even when im some years younger than you. Look forward and think of all the amazing girls you will get to know in the near future. Dont focus that much on being accepted and integrated in a social group. Just be a cool guy, and talk to every person that seems interesting no matter where you are. Show them that you are a guy worth talking to. And you hooked up with …
/r/seduction15/06/14 08:49 PM
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This is a joke. Stop trolling.
/r/seduction15/06/14 12:18 PM
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This
/r/seduction14/06/14 10:54 AM
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Haha thanks for the cool words. What's your story bro? Why still a virgin? :S
/r/seduction13/06/14 02:53 PM
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That's a good question guys, and I agree with you. Actually, I really dont know. Im only 17, just started going to parties and getting results with girls because of this pickup thing. I could probably make up a lot of excuses why im a virgin but I guess it's mostly because im being a pussy about my first time. I think it's a bit scary to think that if I succeed on making the girl believe Im a handsome guy who has had a lot of experience with other girls (which I guess you generally want her to t…
/r/seduction13/06/14 06:39 AM
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Im a virgin myself and usually girls won't believe me when the topic shows up at parties. This is awesome because I can start a little flirty game. I can say "yeah, im a virgin" and give them a lure smile. They have no idea if this is actually true or not and are more intrigued to find out. I can start asking "Why don't you believe me? in a fun and "fake desperate" way and we will laugh. Then I can follow up and ask "Am I to handsome to be a virgin?". And the girls will usually respond you with …
/r/seduction12/06/14 07:50 PM
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Definitely work on your clothing style. A lot of people underestimate this and are not taking enough conscious decisions in how they dress. Your style can seriously make you look either 16 or 21. But dont go overboard either. Dress naturally and not like everyone else. Search for male fashion tips online. There are countless of great male fashion blogs ut there. Be creative. By being more aware of how you dress, you will look older, better and girls like boys who know how to dress and take care …
/r/seduction11/06/14 02:36 PM
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