LinenMonk Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
15	A Guy asking a question!	DISCUSSION	LinenMonk	/r/RedPillWomen	18/06/20 06:32 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
56	What is the line between being a girlfriend and being a wife? Don’t live together, don’t take on his debts, don’t buy a pet together, don’t get matching tattoos, don’t try to “change him” so he becomes marriage-worthy (in marriage you both need to adapt so as to grow together and be healthy, but if you are dating a douche then you’re dating a douche. He’s not a fixer-upper. He’s a lemon). Don’t create a fantasy relationship or “play house” where are acting wife-y because it is entertaining but you are paying zero attention to his reactions or contributions…	/r/RedPillWomen	01/05/20 09:07 AM
2	I'm 21 and unmarried. What should I be doing right now to prepare myself to be a good wife and mother? I thought I answered this. :/ Must’ve glitched. Maybe coz I linked to an online bookstore. I recommend the textbook (Building Motivational Interviewing Skills 2nd Ed. 2017. By David B. Rosengren). Motivational Interviewing isn’t about giving life coaching motivational talks, nor is it about interviews. Lol. It is about helping a person find their own internal reasons and drives to change. The motivation is found from within. But the reason why I always recommend learning this is because MI is bu…	/r/RedPillWomen	29/04/20 06:37 AM
3	I’m 20 and I’ve never been in a relationship and I’m terrified that no one will want to be with me after I turn 25 You’ll be fine. Just be excited to meet all kinds of people. Old and young. Guy or gal. Continue to do things that help you feel good about yourself. You’ll find a thing eventually.	/r/RedPillWomen	29/04/20 03:42 AM
9	I’m 20 and I’ve never been in a relationship and I’m terrified that no one will want to be with me after I turn 25 Youtube “Squirmy and the Grubs” and tell me if you still feel undateable. Everybody. EVERYBODY. Is dateable. Unattractive is a personality trait. Not solely a physical trait. If you don’t see yourself as someone you’d date, then it isn’t fair to expect others too. Self-esteem is earned by observing yourself succeeding. Learn new skills, win awards, become a warm conversationalist, volunteer. Etc. Learn to be good at things so you can grow and you can prove to yourself that you have worth in the …	/r/RedPillWomen	29/04/20 03:35 AM
4	I'm 21 and unmarried. What should I be doing right now to prepare myself to be a good wife and mother? MI could probably help with job interviews. It might help you ask good questions, clarify topics. Etc. I recommend MI because, despite it being a therapy model, it is more universal as its founding concepts are entirely good interpersonal skills and connecting. Building Motivational Interviewing Skills, Second Edition : A Practitioner Workbook https://www.bookdepository.com/Building-Motivational-Interviewing-Skills-Second-Edition-David-B-Rosengren/9781462532063?ref=grid-view&qid=1588128728882&sr…	/r/RedPillWomen	29/04/20 02:59 AM
18	I'm 21 and unmarried. What should I be doing right now to prepare myself to be a good wife and mother? Learn the basic’s of MI (motivational interviewing). It’ll help improve your communication skills. focus on improving your health figure out your morals and values and develop a code of ethics for how you want to be in life.	/r/RedPillWomen	29/04/20 12:18 AM
2	Protective of my independence & it’s impacting my dating life Nothing wrong with maintaining your independence. And holding back can be a learned trait, even if it is because you’re just trying to keep up a healthy barrier from people that are indeed crossing a bit of a line. It doesn’t mean you aren’t capable of being warm and connected. I hope you can find people that are more suited and that provide the balance that you want.	/r/RedPillWomen	27/04/20 11:27 AM
11	Protective of my independence & it’s impacting my dating life I wonder if the type of assertive, independent guy you attract are a bit ... controlling? Domineering? Maybe it goes along with their success?? I dunno. Are you typically attracted to the hard-edged, super driven and assertive kind of guy? See. There is a difference between a person sharing themselves with you vs. Taking you over. Like your example, a guy may caringly express his concern over your coffee intake, but he should not TELL you to do it. A partner might make observations, but it can b…	/r/RedPillWomen	26/04/20 01:40 PM
3	His previous online activity is ruining my trust It’s easy for people to become complacent in a relationship and start to forget the boundaries - this is usually a maturity thing. Does not excuse your right to be upset and to call out the behaviour. Part of the reason why you can’t quite let it go is that you don’t know why it started. What was his motivations? Has he done this before the relationship or is it new? Do these girls represent something he wants or is unaware is lacking in his life (misses the appeal, the lust, the risk, the chase…	/r/RedPillWomen	22/04/20 01:41 PM
3	Why is an opinionated woman a thing of repulsion? I don’t entirely think it is gender-specific. I have found some spirited debate attempts from other dudes to be utterly irritating. I prefer the method of comparing and contrasting ideas and perspectives rather than trying to “debunk” the other person. Correction can be done but you can’t just flood them eg “I can appreciate your take on things, but may I share how I think about it?” Etc. An overly, and clumsily, opinionated person - guy or gal, is not my idea of good company. I absolutely love …	/r/RedPillWomen	29/03/20 08:01 PM
2	Problem: I don’t know if he’s attracted to me. I've tried surprising him with 'cute' outfits, waking him up for sex (he's said it's a turn on), teasing him with pictures, and nothing seems like it's working. I'm worried he isn't attracted to me, especially when he's told me he's constantly horny. Is he watching a lot of porn? Because this has been a factor in my past relationships. Porn can lead to a man always being horny, but losing his appetite for the real deal.	/r/RedPillWomen	29/03/20 07:50 PM