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I don't think that's a mens right issue. You need to be able to know what you vote on in a democracy. Platner doesn't really sound like someone that you would know were he stands on anything because he hides who he really is. Whatever else you think of Trump you pretty much know what you gets.
/r/MensRights09/07/26 12:06 PM
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That's because those feminists lives in western countries that feels safe. It's an easy view to have when you're not under attack.
/r/MensRights20/03/26 07:08 AM
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Sorry, I didn't see your answer. No, you shouldn't have a therapist that lets her ideology dictate how she sees you. You should expect a therapist to understand you from your perspective. That doesn't mean that they have to agree or validate everything you say or feel men they should be open to your experience of your life.
/r/MensRights12/02/26 09:18 PM
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I think many therapists have a problem with understanding male psychology and the male perspective. I don't think they generally take the mothers perspective though. That's not the same thing. I read your responses and I do think you are looking for a kind of validation that professional therapists don't give. So in a sense you want someone that's willing to pick a side rather than helping you explore your perspective. That's totally understandable but it's generally considered unprofessional.
/r/MensRights07/02/26 06:19 AM
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I'm a therapist and while I do think that many therapists do have a bias and find it hard to understand men I don't think they did anything wrong in your examples. If you ever have a therapist that sais that someone else is a narcissist you should run. It's unhelpful and unprofessional. However, they should have picked up on your resentment over not being validated.
/r/MensRights07/02/26 06:14 AM
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I'm a therapist and certainly not a radical feminist. I'm of two minds here. I think therapists should be neutral but so many aren't so it's kind of refreshing with someone that is honest. You don't mention what you seek help for. If what you are treated for doesn't have anything to do with political views or values, I would stay just because it takes time and money to begin a treatment with someone new. If are thinking of staying but are worried I would mention it to her. Any good therapist wil…
/r/MensRights28/01/26 09:23 PM
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Don't do that. Lots of therapist will think that you are a incel and work to change you.
/r/MensRights28/01/26 09:17 PM
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I thought it was a pageant but it was some kind of event for Hawaiian Tropic. You can read about it in New York Post who printed the original photo.
/r/MensRights13/12/25 05:52 PM
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It's quite obvious that they are redacted to make the picture worse for the man in the picture. The women in this picture aren't victims. They are contestants in a competition. It's a well known picture that has been public for a long time. But masking their faces makes it look sordid.
/r/MensRights13/12/25 02:20 PM
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I'm a male psychologist. I don't work with patients now and I'm from Sweden so I don't know much about those gossip groups. In general I do think you should look for therapists that are curious and open to your experience. If they have an opinion either way about things like this you should probably be wary although it's better if they are protective of you than the other way around. I do agree that lots of female therapists both lack a basic understanding about the male experience and a curious…
/r/MensRights22/11/25 12:46 AM
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It's unlikely an associate dean doesn't share that view though.
/r/MensRights21/11/25 08:38 PM
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That's good to hear but I still feel that she really shouldn't allude to cultural conditioning either, that's small talk not therapy. It might not be a big deal per se but from the reaction you show here it didn't help you either, rather the opposite.
/r/MensRights20/11/24 06:08 AM
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I both agree and disagree. As a problem in society I agree with you but I work with individual couples and there the dynamic in that particular conflict is what matters to me and them. I don't work with feminism and their ideas on how the couples are affected by norms and society either. I work with the people I meet. When it comes to mens rights I find that a hard question. I agree that there has to be some balance and societys understanding of how men and women are affected is severly unbalanc…
/r/MensRights24/08/24 09:45 AM
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Yes and no. I'm guessing that we don't know what might have happened before that particular situation. In my line of work it's also usually not useful to punctuate conflict by trying to find out who started it. It's usually already something the parts are already fighting about and it doesn't help them understand the conflict better. It is useful in court cases or when trying to find out who did something wrong but that's not what I work with. What I see in the conflict you describe is dysregula…
/r/MensRights24/08/24 09:35 AM
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What's threatening is in the eyes of beholder. I talk to my clients and observe their behavior. If someone has neither fear nor changes his/her behavior to avoid something they aren't threatened. That doesn't mean that throwing something isn't bad either way, but it means that the dynamic it creates is totally different. I totally agree that psychological abuse isn't talked about nearly enough especially since it's so common. A majority of couples has a dynamic where the woman is more critical a…
/r/MensRights24/08/24 09:29 AM
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That's the pattern where both are reactive. Both escalated the situation. That's the most common case I had. What suprised me more was the number of men that had experienced act that would be considered violent and out of control if it was the man that did them. I even asked my friends and plenty of well functioning couples had experiences of the woman throwing something at the man. None of them had experienced that as threatening though. If it was the other way around it would have been conside…
/r/MensRights24/08/24 12:06 AM
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Why? I didn't say physical abuse against men doesn't occurs just that it doesn't look the same. There should be protection for men that are physically abused but if you want to see where man has it worse it would be psychological abuse. As a couple therapist you will see much more men that are clinically depressed from their women nagging them than women hurt by men nagging them.
/r/MensRights23/08/24 11:59 PM
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Well, I didn't work with people that killed their partners, there's not much room for couple therapy there. The most destructive part of abuse in relationships is that the abused partner tends to constrict themselves and adopt to avoid abuse. If a man uses violence on a woman there is a higher risk that the womans behavior gets affected by it than when the sexes are switched. It's also my experience that it's much more common that men has experience low level of violence like the woman throwing …
/r/MensRights23/08/24 10:28 PM
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I used to work with couples, sometimes there were violence. If you meet couples like this you can quickly see that there are some different categories. There are couples where both partner get very distressed and have problems regulating their emotions. If both are bad at that they tend to escalate quickly and noone is stable enough to stop the spiral. In other couples one is much more reactive than the other. That's usually a worse problem if it's the man that get violent because the size diffe…
/r/MensRights23/08/24 09:01 PM
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When I studied it was rich people that they couldn't empathize with but yes and it's weird. The job is to be able to connect with the human.
/r/MensRights02/08/24 06:51 PM
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As a therapist I really liked that article, thanks. To me it's a hard question. It is easier to empathize and mentalize some patients than others and it would be better if therapist were more open about that. I also think that a lot of therapist have quite strong values about some subjects that they should be open with gender is one, but sexuality, relationship and political ideas are other. I do think the author is missing that having problem empathizing with men or having stereotypical views a…
/r/MensRights02/08/24 09:01 AM
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There is a difference but it's not absolute. As a group women tend to be a bit more focused on the emotional bond between partners and men a bit more focused on the sexual bond. That plays out in infidelities too but there are plenty of men that cheats because they fallen out of love and woman that does it for sex, or the validation in sex, too.
/r/MensRights25/06/24 03:48 PM
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An article from the Guardian isn't really proof of anything. This subject isn't settled amongst scientists. Most of the push for the blank slate theory has always been from the social scientists and it would be really weird if humans didn't have any psychological differences when most if not all related animals have them. Although, if you don't believe in evolution that's easier to believe perhaps. What's most likely true is that the differences is at a level where they can have different cultur…
/r/MensRights09/05/24 09:46 AM
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No, while there certainly are scientists that believe in the blank slate theory and that want to believe in it it's not a truth. At the group level there are lots of differences in behaviors and interests.
/r/MensRights09/05/24 09:01 AM
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I'm a psychologist although I don't work as a therapist right now. It seems like a good idea to discuss the topic you want to adress and see if they seem to understand you before committing to therapy. Particularly since you have experience of beeing missunderstood by therapist before. I think you should say that too. It's common and it will help them understand where you are coming from.
/r/MensRights08/05/24 07:02 PM
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Because the most common couple dynamic is that the woman is a bit more opinionated or critical in the relationship and the man is showing his love by giving in to her preferences. Being afraid in that context is really just a jokingly way to express that you defer to your wife because you love her. That dynamic was less of a problem when the man had power of resources and a domain outside of the family though. It doesn't work as well anymore. I have met many relationships where this tips over in…
/r/MensRights23/02/24 08:29 AM
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I agree with this but the problem is that the solution will only make it worse. The problem isn't that medical care is designed for men it's that sex differences aren't explored enough. Autism is skewed towards male expression and so is socipathy. On the other hand borderline or depression is skewed toward female expression. Lots of psychological research is like that, often because stereotypichal views of male and female behavior. There are much less research on bullying amongst women as an exa…
/r/MensRights29/12/23 11:45 AM
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I haven't followed him the last years so I'm not up to date but I used to work as a clinical psychologist and I have seen lots of men improve their life because Peterson reached them with his message. That's enough for me to like and appreciate him. There just isn't that many public figures that are able to reach men with problems. As for gender roles. At a group level there are innate diffences and if no one adresses the culture from a male perspective, males will get hurt.
/r/MensRights23/12/23 11:41 AM
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I'm a psychologist. I don't do therapy right now but I used to and I recognize a lot of this. Thank you for the text. Something that I used to think about is that it's difficult as a psychologist to let potential client know about your feelings and interest in some of these subjects. While therapist should be neutral and objective it's realistic to think that they are affected by their views and their interests.
/r/MensRights29/11/23 08:50 AM
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I don't know about mediocre and toxic. As far as kids go I just think most people with kids realize it gives there life a meaning it didn't have before and a lot of us know that we wouldn't have been able to understand the emotions associated with kids until we got them. It's also a necessity for civilisation to continue but I'm guessing that's in our genes.
/r/MensRights15/04/23 10:14 PM
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As a general rule. Managers should always talk to their managers before dealing with a conflict that can escalate. If it's your role to notify her and it might blow up you have your back covered and your manager can help you clarify your role to the team. If it is your role to notify her it's important that you don't avoid important tasks. However, if there are better ways to solve your tasks it a good idea to use them so the advice you got to make another female cabin crew to tell her is a good…
/r/MensRights18/02/23 05:43 PM
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Your therapist is wrong because her job is not to reassure you or tell you facts about how other people are. Her job in this situation is to help you deal with your ideas so that they become less rigid and less inhibiting.
/r/MensRights21/01/23 12:34 PM
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I'm a psychologist, not in US, and I would rephrase the statement. Psychotherapy has had more female patients since the beginning and psychotherapy is a new field that learn by doing. If there are differences between the needs of the sexes at the group level, which I believe, it's only natural that the field get slanted towards the need of women. There is also the addes pressure of the current ideological stance in academia that adds layeres of toxic masculinity and such but that's not the main …
/r/MensRights21/01/23 12:16 AM
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They don't define "nice" though. The problem is that insecure men think nice means giving in to their insecurity. But people that are considered nice usually are more confident and better at reading social cues.
/r/MensRights30/09/22 06:35 AM
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Yes, beeing crazy is also a strategy that works best if you already has the power. But we should try to find strategies that actually work.
/r/MensRights26/08/22 04:15 PM
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Beeing calm and logical is a strategy to convince other people. Is it your experience that it seems to work?
/r/MensRights26/08/22 03:12 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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