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Man I look mich better now inmy 36/37 than I looked in my 20s. In my 20s I was scrawny and balding, which made my look terrible, becasue I have naturally big forehead and awful shape of head. Now I gain mass and I am after hair transpnat, also my face looks much younger. WOmen thinks I am 25, so I look 11-12 years younger. My peak/prime is now
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 02:49 PM
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I mean you are attracted to him, everything is good in your relationship, but your friends think he is physically unattractive and/or poor or whatever societal norm he doesn't fullfilled. BUt you are still somehow attracted to him. Then what?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 07:44 PM
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What if you are attracted to him, but you will find that other women don't find him attractive? Are you going to dump him suddenly?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 07:02 PM
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What if you are attracted to him, but you will find that other women don't find him attractive? Are you going to dump him suddenly?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 07:02 PM
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What if he has no desire to cheat, bu he is also not able to do it, because he is not attractive enough? It looks like you confirm that women want a men who other women want.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 01:15 PM
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It depends. I look 10 times better now at 36/37 than I looked at 25, because I got hair transplant and little healthy mass (I was skinny in my 20s). However my face still looks very young. My girlfriend who is 26/27 thought I am the same age as her, when she saw me first time. But yeah it sucks that balding stole my 20s in some way. However I notice that woman in my age looks much older than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 11:00 AM
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If guy looks younger and good, he can easily attract much younger woman. I am 36/37, my girlfriend is 10 years younger than me, but woman in 20-24 are still attractes to me. And please you all have some steoreotypical view about older man. Guys who are 30-50 can still look good if they care about themselves. Of coruse it is indivual thing, but people nowadays age slower Also AgeGapRelationships subreddit show good examples of this type relationships who looks really cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 06:14 PM
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Somehow you are right and I have to admit it ... as a man :D
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 01:15 PM
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They want capitalism only when it doesn't affect them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 01:11 PM
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Why are you with him?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 12:11 AM
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I am 36/37 and I just started all new hobbies, career, life etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 04:32 PM
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Ok, but it's not because of his age, but his lack of drive. Different reason. Btw. Are you intelectually fullfilled in this relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 11:06 AM
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Why do you assume he can't make more because he is 40? People change job/career everytime
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 10:09 AM
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I am 36/37 and I am only attracted to women in their 20s. Good thing I look much younger, but I can't force myself to date women over 30-35.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 01:01 PM
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WHat if a guy is already in his mid 30s, he didn't devolop any talent/skills, but he just recently started learning new things?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 03:10 PM
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What's bad about dressing like 2015? I am 36 who looves to experiment with streetwear fashion. I mix 90s, 2013-2015 and today styles, different genres/popculture (streeatwear, grunge, hip-hop, punk, sometimes something more ckassy). For me it's some sort of artistic expression. I hate how people are very rigid in terms of what you should wear in certain age or times. Btw. I am also 36 who dates 26 attractive woman who is out of my league. My hair are very thin (however I am already first hair tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 09:21 PM
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I was balding as fuck in my 20s and I have awful skull shape to be bald. At 28/29 I got hair transplant and now I have my prime in my 30s. Fortunetly I have also young looking face and thanks to that I could date much younger women, my current girlfriend is 11 years younger than me. The bad thing balding in my 20s limited my experiences (not only in dating), but it is what it is,.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 02:30 PM
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I am 36 and I have only dated women in their 20s. My current girlfriend is 25, but I dated younger. Not only they look much better and are less jaded, but I love their style - they experiment with streetwear/skate/rock/hip-hop fashion which I have weakness for (I dress it like that myself) and have much more interests in common with them - music, popculture, gaming, streetwear, concerts, Youtubes. Most women in 30s and above are so "normies"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 02:27 PM
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It's not that "t-shirt and sweatpants" are bad clothes, it depends what "tshirt and sweatpants" and who and how wear them. I experiment with streetwear clothes and often wear clothes which should not be accepted by women, but I do in cool way. But of course those clothes should be at least washed :D
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 01:49 PM
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It's not that "t-shirt and sweatpants" are bad clothes, it depends what "tshirt and sweatpants" and who and how wear them. I experiment with streetwear clothes and often wear clothes which should not be accepted by women, but I do in cool way. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 01:46 PM
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My man! It is how things should look like. I am 36 and I enter a relationship with with 24 years old girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 12:24 PM
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WTF? I am 36 male and I am dating a lot women in their early 20s. However I am lucky that I look much younger (people thinks I am 25-26), dress younger (I have been all my life into streetwear fashion) and I am have cool vibe, I am not bitter etc. Also I am not rich and barely have money, so no, they are not golddiggers
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 11:58 AM
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It doesn't matter if my relationships were shorttermn. Now I am dating a lot of women in 20s and one of them will be probalby my future girlfriend (we are almost a couple).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 11:47 AM
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Bullshit. I am 36 male, but I look much younger, fix my mental heath, improved my self, dress younger (I have my own style), I got hair transplant and women in early 20s are still attracted to me, even if I have almost no relationship experience (I had been in few relationships but they lasted 3-5 months, but I was extreme loser then + I also dated a lot in my 20s).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 11:40 AM
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But he still had his way opened, because he was physically attractive. Probably you rejected many average guys who could be smart/funny/interesting, because they weren't good looking enough. The exceptions are average guys who were naturally in your circle, but it shows that you need to be physically attractive to get green light.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 11:19 AM
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I am the 100% the same as you, but 36 years old who looks like 26-27 :)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 03:07 PM
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I think it's good solution for people who are much more attractive in real life like myself (looks better in real life than photos, has sexy voice, has some cool, "it" factor, nonchalant vibe, body language etc.) than photos. In real life I could get even women who are 8/10, on Tinder I couldn't get a match with 4/10 :D. So yeah it would be great solution for people like me :). However it won't help guys who are also unattractive in real life
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 10:35 AM
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WHat about hobbies which are my "pathetic" for most society, but I am extremely passionate about them? I am extremely into tarot and astrology (of course they are not my only hobbies, I like music production, writing scenario for games etc.), but I am extremely ashamed of it, which sucks because I would also like to do it in more public ways and even monetize it (but it's just bonus). I am also big pro wrestling fan and I would like to do a podcast/vlogs about it. It also doesn't help that my ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 03:38 PM
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It's not that they want to participate in hook up culture, they want to be just sexually desired, not only because they have to "deserve" something and "buy" her, when other attractive guys can do nothing to get it. I totally understand those guys
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 11:13 AM
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What if attractive women are attracted to me in real life (I have also very attractive, 10+ yougner girlfreind), but on dating apps (i haven't used them since 2019) I couldn't get even below average women? No, I don't have money also. I just same have "it" factor which is only visible in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 08:29 PM
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He can find younger women. I am mid 30s and date only women in their 20s. (usually 22-28).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 11:51 AM
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Bullshit. If guy is 30s and looks good and much younger (and like to experiment with style, but it must be his authentic style), then he won't have problem getting younger girlfriend. I am 36, I have 10 years younger girlfriend (she is 26), but I also noticed that women in their early 20s (or even late teens, but of course they will never be my target, too young) are interested in me. Of course most of them think I am probably younger than I really am.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 01:36 PM
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WTF? It's idiotic. 27 woman is adult, experienced woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 11:10 AM
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WTF? It's idiotic. 27 woman is adult, experienced woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 11:10 AM
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But only hair system or hair transplant or both? Hair system could be embarrasing, but I don't know what is embarrasing about hair transplant (they are not fake).
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 02:29 PM
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So you would like your potential boyfriend to hide from other people that he wears hair system or is after hair transplant? I quite understand the former, but the latter (hair transplant) are very common nowadays (and it's still your own hair follicles taken from the back of your own head).
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 02:02 PM
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Be honest - would you really accept with hair system (or toupee) or after hair transplant? I am afraid for many women it would be faking "bad genes".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 01:31 PM
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I became much more attractive in my 30s, but only because I got hair transplant at 28/29. n my 20s I was extremely balding with weird head shape and also very skinny. The good thing I have much younger looking face and dress younger (I always loved experimenting with streetwear/skate/punk/hip hop clothes), so I am able to attract women in their early 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 02:23 PM
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Why the fuck do you have so low standard?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 11:19 AM
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Wow. Someone is really butthurt over here, only because I have age preference and don't want children/marriage :D
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 06:55 PM
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So it's why I am looking for a woman who is childfree and doesn't care about marriage. I will inform her about it at the very beginning. If I don't find woman like that, I am also okey with that. Being alone is really cool for me :)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 12:41 PM
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I want long term relationship (not marriage stuff, thanks), but only with women in their 20s. However I know that in my 40s it would be more diffucult (with my younger looking face and streetwear style it's still quite possible), so I know I need to "hurry up" a little bit. However I am not afraid of being alone for the rest of my life (I love single life and I am introverted loner), so I don't feel a pressure to get someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 02:34 AM
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I need to look young, because I am only attracted to women in 20-28 age bracket. Also I hated my balding look (weird shape of head and big forehead to be bald/balding) and I wanted to feel good in my body, so I needed hair transplant AF. I will get a second one soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 07:25 PM
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Less, but still more than I should, because I was balding as fuck and skinny, however somehow I always had some "it" factor, so I was able sometimes attract someone out of my league. Then I got hair transplant at 28 and it definetely change my attractiveness for a better, much better. I always facially looks much younger and I dress younger, so it helps a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 05:40 PM
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I am not bitter or jaded, but as 36 male I am only attracted to women in their 20s. It's what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 05:28 PM
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Third way is the best way. I am 36, looks much younger, looks much better than I was in 20s (I was skinny and extremely balding, now I am after hair transplant which skyrocketed my attractivness), I dress very young streetwear/skate/rock/hip hop style, which was my always natural style (I don't try hard to look younger, it's my natural vibe), so it helps me getting 10-15 younger women, which I prefer. I am not redpiller, I don't want to talk about a "post wall", but I have never been attracted t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 05:23 PM
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Guys in their 30s or 40s can get hair transplant, they are really effective nowadays. Iam 36, I got hair transplant 6 years ago and I was dating much younger women. My current girlfriend is 10 years younger. But yeah, before hair transplant it was tough.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 03:24 PM
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I am dating women of my league, I am not bluepilled, but if you have your own vibe, style and IDGAF attitude and you are outside regulary in cafe/library, then attractive women really started to noticing me and want to know me. Of course it doesn't work on dating apps, but I stopped using them in 2019/2020.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 12:47 PM
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Don't normalize that we should lower standards and go for fat single moms. WHy the fuck we accept so low standards? Guys, rise standards individually and collectively,
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 04:36 PM
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What about guys who are baldindg but they have awful skull shape and being bald is certainbly not for them. However they were/would be quite good looking with hair. So it it acceptable for them to wear hair system/wig?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 04:08 PM
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I am 35-36 and all women think I am 26-28. I dated women in their early 20s and my girlfriend is 22-23. The best relationship I have ever had.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 05:21 PM
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I have never been attracted to teens (as adult male) and I would never be with women that young. However as 35 years male I prefer women in early 20s and I am in relationship with 22-23 woman. The best relationship I have eved had.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 05:18 PM
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Maybe it's why I am 36 old ADHD male extreme late bloomer in terms of developing/discovering hobbies, careers, skills? Damn it sucks, because women don't want male who discovered theselves that late. Good thing I look much younger and I noticed that few very attractive women in their early 20s are attracted to me and I am only attracted to women in their 20s. Also many women will say "she is 18+, she can is adult women women, she can have OF or whatever", then suddenly in terms of age gap relati…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 05:14 PM
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Would you date (or be in relationship with) a guy in his 30s whom you were completely attracted to in every way, but he had zero sexual/relationship experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 05:27 PM
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But your post sounded like inherited place is bad thing. :D I think it's cool thing that I don't have to rent or save tons of money for buying apartament and thanks to that I can save tons of money for other things. Especially if it's quite big apartament and in the centre of big city and it's all for me. Having own apartament is only good if you only buy it by yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 06:48 PM
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I have full time job and passions. I also finished universitires (but both degrees were useless). The problem is that I started almost everything at 35 (last year) and women won't forgive me it and it sucks. Inheriting apartment is great thing, because I don't have to waste money for rent (like I used to do it in the past) or mortage.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 06:23 PM
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Inheritng apartment is being loser? Even if guy has normal full time job? You would still rent apartmanert even if you could get your own apartament ? :D
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 05:07 PM
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So he should volunteryy waste much more money for rent or mortage (as bank slaver) then being happy that he could get apartament after grandma and can save money for many other things? Where is your logic? :D
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 05:04 PM
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Well, he can afford apartment if he inherits an apartment from his grandmother?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 04:46 PM
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What if he has own apartament? I got great apartement (thanks to my grandma death) in great location and I can save much more monthly than most of my friends who have much better paid jobs, but 70-80% of their income goes for rent or monthly mortgage payment, being slaves to the bank for 30 years (most people in my country)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 04:37 PM
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I am 35 years old male in relationship with 22 years female. The best relationship in my life. I also look and dress younger, so maybe it helps too. Also check AgeGapRelationships subreddit, most couples look very happy there. I am only against age gap relationship when one person is below 20, but after that you are an adult and maturity depends on specific person.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 06:06 PM
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You are my type.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 01:22 AM
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I am 35 years old male with attractive 22 years old woman. I am not conventionally attractive or successful, but she loves my vibe, my IDGAF attitude and we are compatible in many ways. I also look younger, so maybe it helped. So yeah in depends from person to person
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:57 PM
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I am 35 years old male with attractive 22 years old woman. I am not conventionally attractive or successful, but she loves my vibe, my IDGAF attitude and we are compatible in many ways. I also look younger, so maybe it helped. So yeah in depends from person to person
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:53 PM
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"A few short term relationships before finding your wife” guy = it means undesirable guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 12:43 PM
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I have no problem in getting women in early/mid 20s. The thing is I look much younger (all of young women thought I was 27 instead of 35) and I have youthful vibe and style (I have been into streetwear my whole life and I love to experiment with different even "unattractive" clothes, but i don't do to appear younger or cool, it's just my natural expression), so it's maybe why I can attract them. The only women who hates age gap are usually women on Reddit or older women who subconsiusly hate you…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 04:06 PM
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Some guys are into streetwear (but I mean oldschool definition of this word) or part of certain "subculture"/lifestyle. I think we should more embrace individual style, authenticity than what a "real men supposed to wear". It's what women most admire in myself that I am not afraid to experiment with different types of clothes (some of them in theory can be awful, but I can wear them stylish) and I have my own style
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 03:55 PM
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Why? Because I told her she will be better than me even if we have the same issues? It should only encourage her
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 07:27 PM
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Please don't compare your ADHD to mine. They are variously different and also people are relly overdiagnosed with ADHD nowadays. Both my psychologist and psychiatrist told me that I have advanced ADHD in this one area of ​​the disorder (there are several areas of ADHD) and I may have problems with daily functioning. I also work (but I have big periods of unemployement between jobs), clean house, but cooking have been unattainable for my whole life. Also my lifestyle looks like I am 90% of the da…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 02:47 PM
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Trust me, our issues are millions time more acceptable in women, so unlike me you will be good.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 02:36 PM
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Is lack of travel history by itself a dealbreaker for you? You don't have to organize for him, but he has never ever travelled anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 10:41 AM
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I tried all of them. They have never worked, so doctors don't know what to do with me. Can you answer my question?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 10:37 AM
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Would you date a guy who has never ever travelled and is already 35 (but he is willing to do it with you)? I have never been able afford to travel - no money in the past and extremely advanced ADHD which makes me extremely unorganized (executive dysfunction). I also don't cook and can't drive a car. It's why I am afraid of long term relationship, because I am afraid women would be repulsed that she will have to organize everything, because I am so extremely inexperienced (and incompetent thanks …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 09:31 AM
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Naah, you should developed your own style of clothes. Most women would advise you what is trendy and now you have tons of man who has basic/boring style and who wears what women tell them to wear
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 03:22 PM
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Is he conventionally attractive? Were you attracted to him from the beginning?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 12:29 PM
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Do other women find hi m attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 12:11 PM
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I am only interested in women in their 20s and they probably care
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 10:18 AM
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How is he dating with hair system? Do women reject him for that? Sooner or later he will be forced to reveal the truth. I am after one hair transplant, but I desperetaly need second surgery to get desirable results.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 09:57 AM
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"That's okay"? C'mon bitch if someone told then you will never be paired up, you would be suicidal in the moment. Don't say stuff like that, becaue it's real problem for low value guys and it will have awful results on collective level
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 11:41 AM
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