LiquidDreamtime Archive

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2	World's first women-only beach opens in Dubai - with night swimming, fitness zones and all-female staff OP: Male hate is spreading Wow, how gracious. As long as their ownership escorts them, they can stand around in a full burka.	/r/MensRights	13/05/26 05:56 PM
5	World's first women-only beach opens in Dubai - with night swimming, fitness zones and all-female staff OP: Male hate is spreading Yes. Every beach and public space in Islamic countries caters to men.	/r/MensRights	13/05/26 05:39 PM
6	An innocent man was attacked and humiliated after a woman falsely accused him of trying to steal her bag, only to later claim she was “confused” when police found his belongings and ID inside. That guy was so excited to punch a black man. No one believes the sane and normal dressed dude speaking English, they all believe the insane woman screaming nonsense while dressed like a 1950’s babushka.	/r/MensRights	10/11/25 04:00 PM
-1	It amazes me why men choose women Does blatant misogyny help the rights of men somehow? Did someone ask you to pontificate about how much you hate all women?	/r/MensRights	18/07/25 09:40 PM
-6	Serious: Why do you think people on reddit (and the real world) are so disgusted by the MensRights subreddit/movement? These comments are chock full of copium and a gross misunderstanding of gender in our society. Men’s Rights are important because men suffer in our society in a few ways that are specific to our gender. The reason the world mostly dislikes or laughs at MRA’s is because the vast majority of you have no academic understanding of the machinations of our society. Most of you blame women, feminism, and leftists for the very personal ans anecdotal ways you’re angry, and then pretend that anger is for …	/r/MensRights	23/06/25 08:17 PM
0	Michelle Obama says she’s ‘glad’ for not having a son I have 3 girls and I’m glad I have 3 girls. Raising a kind, successful, well adjusted young man is more difficult in this world than it is to raise kind, successful, well adjusted young women.	/r/MensRights	21/06/25 12:21 PM
-27	Hopefully they can finally start to understand You say that like it’s a choice. Edit: Why downvotes? Do you all really believe that being Trans is a choice? What year is it?	/r/MensRights	13/06/25 05:47 PM
-2	Why so many people still think that Patriarchy currently exists when men and women both have it hard in today’s world with governments creating many laws which discriminate either men or women or both at the same time??? “Male privilege” is a lie intended to deny men’s problems and put us at fault Well at least we have established that you don’t know what the patriarchy is. The Patriarchy is a society established by men, governed by laws written by and intended for men as the default human being, where men face fewer barriers than women in regard to ascending to positions of power / influence. This creates a lot of problems for both men and women.	/r/MensRights	20/05/25 12:30 PM
-1	I'm not another man. I'm one of 30,999 who don't kill This sub is digressing into a persecution fetish.	/r/MensRights	19/05/25 05:19 PM
-3	Why so many people still think that Patriarchy currently exists when men and women both have it hard in today’s world with governments creating many laws which discriminate either men or women or both at the same time??? “Male privilege” is a lie intended to deny men’s problems and put us at fault “The patriarchy” is not a deity pulling strings you mushroom. It’s hilarious ironic that all you are employing male privilege by denying the reality that we all live in	/r/MensRights	19/05/25 03:29 PM
-7	Why so many people still think that Patriarchy currently exists when men and women both have it hard in today’s world with governments creating many laws which discriminate either men or women or both at the same time??? “Male privilege” is a lie intended to deny men’s problems and put us at fault The patriarchy is an academic fact. I feel like I’m debating flat earthers who talk in circles. There is no explanation that refutes a patriarchy	/r/MensRights	19/05/25 03:12 PM
-8	Why so many people still think that Patriarchy currently exists when men and women both have it hard in today’s world with governments creating many laws which discriminate either men or women or both at the same time??? “Male privilege” is a lie intended to deny men’s problems and put us at fault It’s just logic. Why have men penned essentially every law and held essentially every position of power and influence if not for a patriarchy?	/r/MensRights	19/05/25 03:03 PM
-10	Why so many people still think that Patriarchy currently exists when men and women both have it hard in today’s world with governments creating many laws which discriminate either men or women or both at the same time??? “Male privilege” is a lie intended to deny men’s problems and put us at fault Your position is predicated on a gross misunderstanding of what a patriarchy is and what “privilege” means in the social context. Given that most world leaders and CEOs are men, nearly all billionaires are men, essentially all religious and military leaders are men, and most judges and every US president has been a man; is an undeniable set of circumstances that present us with 2 possible causes. Men are superior to women Men have few barriers that prevent them from attaining power Scientific ev…	/r/MensRights	19/05/25 02:26 PM
1	How to argue like a feminist in 10 easy steps. What’s the worst that could happen? We might be treated like women?	/r/MensRights	16/05/25 04:12 PM
0	How to argue like a feminist in 10 easy steps. You’re doing all of my work for me chief. I’m actually trying to help you out. Stop saying these inane things, you’re embarrassing yourself.	/r/MensRights	16/05/25 02:05 PM
1	How to argue like a feminist in 10 easy steps. Would you like women to tell us the best way to advocate for ourselves? Do they have that authority?	/r/MensRights	16/05/25 02:02 PM
1	How to argue like a feminist in 10 easy steps. I responded to a person who stated a lot of insight. And this is a hilarious ironic demand from the person who made the original post, which is completely devoid of any insight. Your red pill manosphere misogyny shouldn’t go unchallenged or exist without ridicule. You’re an idiot and they things you’ve said are as incorrect as they are regressive for the rights of men.	/r/MensRights	16/05/25 02:01 PM
-1	How to argue like a feminist in 10 easy steps. I’m a man and I advocate for the rights of men. Shitting on women who advocate for the rights of women doesn’t help us.	/r/MensRights	16/05/25 01:56 PM
-1	How to argue like a feminist in 10 easy steps. That’s way too many words for the women hating knuckle draggers who use this sub. Maybe put it in a YouTube video and have men who don’t have a single woman friend also weigh in? Then they’ll watch it.	/r/MensRights	16/05/25 01:34 PM
-3	How to argue like a feminist in 10 easy steps. So this is just a full mask off feminist hating sub now? WTF does this have to do with Men’s Rights?	/r/MensRights	16/05/25 01:32 PM
2	Debunk the "Feminist" claim that female leaders supposedly protect the environment much more than men, who are in return responsible for climate change? Right. Who says this?	/r/MensRights	10/05/25 08:09 PM
1	Is There ANYTHING Men Are Allowed to Expect From a Woman? He said “All women are whores”. Which I hope you don’t need to ask why it’s misogyny.	/r/MensRights	03/05/25 01:44 PM
-4	(US) Is it really that easy for a woman to get a man thrown in jail over just words alone and no further investigation? For example, false allegations? (R*pe, domestic violence) I’m not trying to “start” a war. I’m attempting to educate you all on how entrenched you already are in this faux war. Pretending that women regularly lie and men end up in jail because of those lies is both false and misogynistic. So stop acting like it’s a major problem that must be addressed.	/r/MensRights	01/05/25 02:41 PM
-4	(US) Is it really that easy for a woman to get a man thrown in jail over just words alone and no further investigation? For example, false allegations? (R*pe, domestic violence) So the falsely accused fought back and there was an investigation and it all worked out? https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Category:People_wrongfully_convicted_of_rape 38 people and some of these cases are VERY old. NYC probably had at least 38 cases of rape last weekend. I’m not saying it never happens. I’m saying, statistically, it won’t happen to you. You’re more likely to be killed by a serial killer than falsely accused of rape. More likely to die in a terrorist attack. And statistically, abo…	/r/MensRights	01/05/25 10:43 AM
-5	(US) Is it really that easy for a woman to get a man thrown in jail over just words alone and no further investigation? For example, false allegations? (R*pe, domestic violence) That’s an anecdote. I don’t really follow your story very well but it sounds like you were falsely accused, I’m sorry that happened to you. If you go over to r/personalfinance and search for “windfall” to see dozens of stories of people winning lotteries and inheriting millions. Those are exceptions, they’re an extremely rare situations that none of us realistically need to prepare for.	/r/MensRights	01/05/25 12:52 AM
-51	(US) Is it really that easy for a woman to get a man thrown in jail over just words alone and no further investigation? For example, false allegations? (R*pe, domestic violence) You can’t find any examples because MRA’s greatly exaggerate false allegations. You’re more likely to be struck by lightning. This topic is one if the bigger reasons why MRA’s are a joke. It’s a boogeyman based on nothing.	/r/MensRights	01/05/25 12:08 AM
-7	Is There ANYTHING Men Are Allowed to Expect From a Woman? They often use some thinly veiled advocation for men to hide it. I wish more of them would go masks off, it would at least make the discussions honest for once.	/r/MensRights	28/04/25 12:38 PM
-17	Is There ANYTHING Men Are Allowed to Expect From a Woman? Jesus Christ dude. How is this not just blatant misogyny?	/r/MensRights	28/04/25 02:08 AM
0	Is There ANYTHING Men Are Allowed to Expect From a Woman? Men can expect anything we want from women. Ragebait YouTube videos don’t really help anyone. Expecting a woman to be kind, supportive, and loyal is reasonable and often met in kind. Don’t buy into the online negativity and despair.	/r/MensRights	28/04/25 02:07 AM
0	Mens Rights are Not at Risk. At what expense of men? Why do you think rights are a zero sum game, whete one gender has something and the other gender loses it?	/r/MensRights	27/04/25 04:56 PM
-1	Mens Rights are Not at Risk. “I know what this thing is!” defines it incorrectly We can’t move forward with helping men when dunces like you are enraged at feminists. Women advocating for the rights of women doesn’t hurt men. If you cared about men more than your own ego, you would educate yourself on the well defined and throughly explored social structure of the patriarchy, and you’d understand how prevalent it is in our way of life and how much it hurts men. It’s hilariously ironic that the patriarchy enables your arroga…	/r/MensRights	27/04/25 03:50 PM
-6	Mens Rights are Not at Risk. You having no understanding of the patriarchy doesn’t make it a misandric conspiracy theory.	/r/MensRights	27/04/25 02:42 PM
-7	Mens Rights are Not at Risk. I’m a 42 yr old man brother. I am passionate about my own rights and the suffering of other men. You said the exact opposite of what I said. Men across the world are suffering every day.	/r/MensRights	27/04/25 02:29 PM
-1	Mens Rights are Not at Risk. Are you responding to the right person? I didn’t say any of the things you’re refuting.	/r/MensRights	27/04/25 02:27 PM
-26	Mens Rights are Not at Risk. I agree with you but the young men of this subreddit are often entrenched in the alt-right pipeline and have been radicalized to be arrogantly ignorant of the world. So you won’t find any worthwhile discussion on this topic. They’re absolutely convinced that western governments operate on a feminist agenda and men are a hated and oppressed minority group. Their position is beyond reason or evidence. You’re absolutely correct. Men suffer plenty, but it’s under the expectations and pressure applie…	/r/MensRights	27/04/25 01:30 PM
-1	Marriage statistics are showing that its generally equal between the genders, how can that be? That’s not true. https://www.census.gov/library/stories/2024/10/marriage-and-divorce.html Divorce rates are down, marriages have been mostly flat for 13 yrs.	/r/MensRights	26/04/25 10:20 AM
1	Marriage statistics are showing that its generally equal between the genders, how can that be? How so?	/r/MensRights	26/04/25 01:11 AM
5	Marriage statistics are showing that its generally equal between the genders, how can that be? I’m glad you’re asking these questions. The answer is that the online communities that claim men have no hope, are incorrect. The incel “support” communities are just a negative cycle that encourages each other to hate themselves and women. In the real world, most people are out meeting people and falling in love and building lives together. Edit: https://www.census.gov/library/stories/2024/10/marriage-and-divorce.html Divorce rates are down and marriage rates have been flat for over 10 yrs. So …	/r/MensRights	25/04/25 09:46 PM
1	According to feminists, why the violence against men doesn't matter if it's perpetuated by men? Recognizing the economic and educational privileges of the Jewish community doesn’t make one a Nazi. Ao now Nobel prizes are a poor measure? You brought it up. I never said such a thing. Your example is a perfect microcosm of how groups find success in an area where they are well represented. Which is exactly what men have done on a global scale in positions of power. I’m not arguing that every human being is identical. I’m arguing that every human being is unique with a diverse skill set, and h…	/r/MensRights	25/04/25 11:31 AM
1	According to feminists, why the violence against men doesn't matter if it's perpetuated by men? But there are reasons and explanations as to why Jewish people are over represented in Nobel Prize winners. The patriarchy is not a “conspiracy” or some sort of nefarious plan by men to advance men. It’s the natural path and society for one created by and formed by men. European science education and prizes dolled out as a result of, has historically been close to or within jewish communities. It logically explains why Jewish people have won a lot of these prizes. Using YOUR logic, are Jewish pe…	/r/MensRights	25/04/25 01:14 AM
1	I feel that polygamy will be more common in the near future I support men. Encouraging incel behavior and infantilizing young men struggling to understand the world is NOT supporting them. It’s enabling behavior that can lead to hatred, radicalization, and self-harm. I’m happy to discuss real issues faced by men. But a bunch of ignorant little boys fabricating incel conspiracy theories about “chads” and polygamy and women only “choosing” the top 5%, it’s as stupid as it is dangerous. How many young men take their own life each year believing this absurd …	/r/MensRights	24/04/25 01:48 AM
0	I feel that polygamy will be more common in the near future Well by definition that’s not an incel. I’m married and had a few wild years in my early 30’s. I’m proud of who I am today and have a few events in my past I’m not proud of, and many I am. But those things don’t define me, I define me. All im saying is that spreading dumb AF incel conspiracy theories should be below the men here. But I suppose I’m wrong, nothing is below you losers.	/r/MensRights	24/04/25 12:14 AM
-23	'Your face looks grotesque': How looksmaxxing can harm young men and boys. New study says members of online community encourage surgeries, suicide Is this an incel subreddit now?	/r/MensRights	23/04/25 11:27 PM
1	I feel that polygamy will be more common in the near future “Benefits AND advancement” were your words. Billions of people exist in a contentment that does not require advancement. Romantic relationships do not exist to provide you with advancement. You must provide that for yourself. Relationships essentially all hinder your advancement, by the nature of obligation to another person.	/r/MensRights	23/04/25 04:39 PM
-1	I feel that polygamy will be more common in the near future Haha. What purpose does it serve for me to lie about this?	/r/MensRights	23/04/25 01:18 PM
1	I feel that polygamy will be more common in the near future 49.9% of men are married. WTF are you talking about?	/r/MensRights	23/04/25 01:18 PM
1	I feel that polygamy will be more common in the near future Spoken like a child who has never been in love. You people need to get out of your holes and go interact with some real human beings. This capitalistic view of romantic relationships as a side-hustle thst exists to give you personal gain is perverse	/r/MensRights	23/04/25 01:15 PM
-1	I feel that polygamy will be more common in the near future Why do I think the guy who says “Chads” are going to be polygamists because women only want the “top 5%” of men and thr rest of you are going to be left with nothing? You’re an incel because you’re spreading ignorant incel talking points like a weirdo.	/r/MensRights	23/04/25 04:22 AM
1	I feel that polygamy will be more common in the near future I got divorced when I was 30, it was miserable. I remarried at 34 and the last 8 yrs have been a dream. This cynicism and negative doesn’t have anything to do with the rights of men or the struggles men face,	/r/MensRights	23/04/25 04:19 AM
-10	I feel that polygamy will be more common in the near future Jesus Christ you incels and your obsession with “Chads”. Go out in public dude. There are couples everywhere. All sorts of gross ass loser men dating gross ass loser women, and every other possible combination you can imagine. You’re wrong because most human beings don’t see their romantic partners as an opportunity for advancement. They just meet a human they like, fall in love, and build a life together.	/r/MensRights	23/04/25 02:36 AM
0	According to feminists, why the violence against men doesn't matter if it's perpetuated by men? What an amazing coincidence that men have written our laws, drawn our borders, lead our nations, and created all of civilization without the input of women; and them being men completely irrelevant	/r/MensRights	22/04/25 09:31 PM
1	According to feminists, why the violence against men doesn't matter if it's perpetuated by men? I’m specifically talking about positions of power and influence. You’re using broad definitions. I feel like it’s 1860 you’re arguing that “actually black folks like picking cotton.” Power and influence steer our society. Nearly all positions of power and influence are held by men. It’s undeniable and you’re being deliberately obtuse.	/r/MensRights	22/04/25 09:03 PM
1	According to feminists, why the violence against men doesn't matter if it's perpetuated by men? So men don’t run the world? How about our militaries? Religious organizations? Companies? Elected leaders? Are men really just intrinsically better than women that they’re 5x-10x more likely to have a leadership position like the ones I mentioned? Or are men and women equal, but the world enables men to ascend better than it allows women?	/r/MensRights	22/04/25 07:49 PM
1	this is the simple question how do republicans help males and why should a male rights advocate support them considering these facts and also is free from the issues i have with dyslexia and i would like for people who actually care about males and transgender people to answer this. Men make up 53% of the workforce. 89% of construction is done by men. Workplace safety is a men’s issue by the nature of the workforce who is in unsafe conditions. Democrats (who I dislike for a number of reasons) are better on pay, workers rights, workplace safety, retirement benefits (which are overwhelmingly necessary for laborers w/ broken bodies), and employment security. Republicans loathe the working class and actively make our lives worse every cycle. They are the enemy of men.	/r/MensRights	21/04/25 03:00 PM
0	this is the simple question how do republicans help males and why should a male rights advocate support them considering these facts and also is free from the issues i have with dyslexia and i would like for people who actually care about males and transgender people to answer this. Republicans decrease funding for mental health programs, education, healthcare, public services, they fight to reduce work safety oversight, environmental regulations, and fight to decrease pay and worker rights. Republicans are more than happy to use men are fodder in mines, in wars, or as security defending the ultra wealthy from starving families or the homeless. Republicans do not care a single iota about the poorer 99% of men. This sub is so obsessed with limiting the rights of women that y…	/r/MensRights	20/04/25 09:39 PM
-8	Feminists: I'm tired of having to carry keys between my knuckles when I'm walking home at night!!! Men: We don't feel safe either walking at night. Feminists: This isn’t really a gender thing. I know plenty of small town conservatives who are absolutely convinced everyone who enters a large city will be raped, mugged, or murdered. They’ve been infected with FoxNews brain worms are see the boogeyman around every corner. They’re racist and have completely dehumanized anyone who isn’t a straight white Christian conservative.	/r/MensRights	20/04/25 06:49 PM
-7	According to feminists, why the violence against men doesn't matter if it's perpetuated by men? This subreddit exists in a delusion. These young men don’t even believe we live in a patriarchy. Until we all live in reality, there is no path forward for men to be better.	/r/MensRights	20/04/25 06:43 PM
-2	According to feminists, why the violence against men doesn't matter if it's perpetuated by men? Who said “socialist matriarchy”? We are fully capable of cherry picking all the good parts of any historical socio-economic system and discarding the bad parts. We do not have to live in a dichotomy. Feminism isn’t advocating for a matriarchy. It’s advocating for the fall of our patriarchy. It’s not seeking to reverse sexism, it wants to do away with it.	/r/MensRights	20/04/25 06:41 PM
-12	According to feminists, why the violence against men doesn't matter if it's perpetuated by men? I’m a feminist but I’m also a man, so violence by men against men matters. I think many feminists disregard it because of misandry, as well as them feeling unable to curtail this violence. But their goal is the end of the patriarchy and ultimately, equality between all genders. The patriarchy hurts us all. Capitalism hurts us all. Ending those things will liberate all of us from the forces that drive men to be ultra competitive with one another (a big source if the violence) and so hard on thems…	/r/MensRights	20/04/25 01:36 PM
-1	"The Emphathisers of patriarchy are also enemies of mras" -How you guys resonate with that statement? You hand picking an elected leader that’s a woman proves my point. Most of them are men, so you have to reach to find a woman. Why are men taking more risks than women? Do you say the same about white men? They take more risks than black men, why is that? You’re not good at root cause analysis. You’re at the surface of these questions but have not yet learned the tools to understand them on a deeper level.	/r/MensRights	18/04/25 01:55 PM
-9	"The Emphathisers of patriarchy are also enemies of mras" -How you guys resonate with that statement? So you believe that men are just inherently better than women? Or at least, better at navigating the systems of our world to their gain? Or is society better suited for men? And are our systems better at allowing men to be successful? Queen Elizabeth is dead. Her power/influence were minimal.	/r/MensRights	18/04/25 01:37 PM
-9	"The Emphathisers of patriarchy are also enemies of mras" -How you guys resonate with that statement? Who are the 100 most powerful people on earth today? Is more than 5 of them women?	/r/MensRights	18/04/25 01:22 PM
-1	"The Emphathisers of patriarchy are also enemies of mras" -How you guys resonate with that statement? I’m a man, and have experienced and exploited all the privileges of white men. I’m not arguing for a world as it should be, I’m stating how it is. Every oligarch is a man. There is a reason for this common denominator, and the reason is that we have existed in a patriarchy for a millennia. You denying it doesn’t make it less true.	/r/MensRights	18/04/25 01:21 PM
0	"The Emphathisers of patriarchy are also enemies of mras" -How you guys resonate with that statement? I agree with it. Most men in this subreddit are entrenched in alt-right propaganda and wrongly believe that there is no patriarchy. They are so thoroughly convinced of this, that any mention of the patriarchy throws them into a fit and they dig their heels in and dismiss anyone as a misandrist who says it. It’s an absolute fact that we exist in a patriarchy. Which is also an oligarchy. And we live in a capitalist world. Which is why all power and influence is concentrated in the hands of just a …	/r/MensRights	18/04/25 01:19 PM
-11	"The Emphathisers of patriarchy are also enemies of mras" -How you guys resonate with that statement? Rich men. It’s always rich, and it’s always men. It may be inconvenient for you to recognize the men part, but that doesn’t make it any less true.	/r/MensRights	18/04/25 01:09 PM
-4	"The Emphathisers of patriarchy are also enemies of mras" -How you guys resonate with that statement? Except essentially all oligarchs are also men. Both things can be true.	/r/MensRights	18/04/25 01:08 PM
1	Again with the "all men are the problem". Men are stronger than women though, that’s a fact. We can explore why. It’s mostly biological. Facts are what they are. It serves no one to ignore them. And men also commit nearly all murders. Why? It’s because of our relationship with violence. And black peoples are more likely to be arrested for a crime. Why? Because of slavery/jim crow that puts that community disproportionately in poverty, and systemic racism that over-polices them, and a Justice system that’s more harsh on them. Women on av…	/r/MensRights	18/04/25 11:16 AM
-2	Again with the "all men are the problem". Is that not true? Are murderers not mostly men? You’re here defending men as a group. When I point out that men do something abhorrent, we are suddenly not a group so that’s not relevant. Which is it? Are men an oppressed in-group that happens to commit nearly all murders? Or are men not a group, thr murdering is a coincidence, and society doesn’t oppress us because we’re not a targeted group? You’ve painted yourself into a logical corner.	/r/MensRights	17/04/25 11:26 AM
-2	Again with the "all men are the problem". “Men commit a lot of murder.” “Well women probably commit a lot of unreported domestic violence!!” Good talk. You hate women so much that we can’t even talk about why men commit murder so much.	/r/MensRights	17/04/25 11:21 AM
-4	Again with the "all men are the problem". The black community is not running our country, nor did they write the laws they are subjected to. And there is a lot of nuance to your claims, they don’t commit more crimes, they’re just more likely to be caught. Systemic racism, a Jim Crow legacy, poverty, and many other factors influence the higher rates of incarceration in the black community. Which is my point. The entire system is broken and over-penalizes the black community. Men have had a super majority at all levels of modern society f…	/r/MensRights	16/04/25 09:55 PM
-8	Again with the "all men are the problem". So murdering people is a personality flaw the same way being bad at chess is? I want fewer people murdered. When I look at the data, the most common trait of all murderers is the fact that they’re men. It’s worth understanding why that’s true and what we can do about it. Do you know what does not keep men from getting murdered? When discussing murder, don’t say “welp, women are bad at chess, men murder, nothing we can do about it”.	/r/MensRights	16/04/25 08:43 PM
-28	Again with the "all men are the problem". This is a “whataboutism”. All I said, which is a fact, is that men have a monopoly on rape and murder. And their victims are also mostly men, so by stopping men from committing these crimes; we’re also sparing men the tragedy of being a victim. Then you go on a rant about homelessness and things beyond the scope of my statement to satisfy your bias and ego. That’s not necessary unless you’re deflecting on behalf of rapists and murderers.	/r/MensRights	16/04/25 06:53 PM
-14	Again with the "all men are the problem". I am a 42 yr old man. I have a wife and 3 kids. I love myself, my life, and plenty of men who are important to me and all people who have good intentions. I do not hate men, nor am I saying anything to indicate that I do. I did NOT say men have a monopoly on violence or abuse, purposefully. I did say men have a monopoly on murder and rape, because we do. You’re moving the goal posts to satisfy your ego. That’s unnecessary. I don’t think you’re raping or murdering anyone. But it’s weird that you …	/r/MensRights	16/04/25 06:48 PM
1	Again with the "all men are the problem". I agree. This sub is mostly angry young men digging for something to be offended about. When someone says anything negative about men, I take no offense because I’m not doing those things nor do I want to, and understand that men are mostly thr ones committing these acts. Taking offense is kind of telling on yourself, imo.	/r/MensRights	16/04/25 06:46 PM
-62	Again with the "all men are the problem". Is 1/2 of the human population really a targeted group? Men have a near monopoly on rape, murder, and violently rape and theft in the streets. This woman said nothing incorrect. School shooters have all been men. Serial killers are nearly all men. Men, US, we have a problem with violence. Denying it doesn’t help the men who destroy their own lives by committing this violence, and it certainly doesn’t help the victims of it (which is also mostly men). No one stands to gain more than men, if men c…	/r/MensRights	16/04/25 06:12 PM
-71	Again with the "all men are the problem". The people here are uninterested in reason or reflection. It’s a rage bait subreddit now.	/r/MensRights	16/04/25 05:58 PM
1	This woman dated only far-right men for a year: ‘They were so insecure’ I’m not triggered. I’m replying to someone that asked a question. I enjoy discussing these things, my life is full and I’m fortunate to have so much. I care a lot about these topics, you’re the one here that’s trolling and spreading lies about “western government feminist dogma” whatever the hell that is.	/r/MensRights	14/04/25 11:06 PM
0	This woman dated only far-right men for a year: ‘They were so insecure’ https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/s/GhyMo579vq This week imbecile is claiming world governments adopted feminist dogma decades ago.	/r/MensRights	14/04/25 10:02 PM
0	This woman dated only far-right men for a year: ‘They were so insecure’ You’re so angry at women thst you’re willing to sacrifice all of humanity to spite them. I’ll never understand you people.	/r/MensRights	14/04/25 09:59 PM
1	This woman dated only far-right men for a year: ‘They were so insecure’ What feminist ideals is our government pushing out right now?	/r/MensRights	14/04/25 09:58 PM
0	This woman dated only far-right men for a year: ‘They were so insecure’ I’m not in your inbox. You came at me saying I don’t defend myself, I’m defending myself. I’m a man who cares a lot about myself, the world, and our society. Right wing dogma perpetuates many harmful ideas and notions that hurt us all. Feminists have no control on this earth, not really in any meaningful way. But men, mostly right wing men, control and decide nearly everything. Humanity is going to die in climate catastrophe. And preceding our demise there will be famine, wars, and immeasurable …	/r/MensRights	14/04/25 09:14 PM
0	This woman dated only far-right men for a year: ‘They were so insecure’ If someone was critical of my behavior, I would consider what they’ve said. I don’t subscribe to any dogma that I must defend. Grow a spine? You mean be a REAL man? I should punch anyone in the face that says anything I don’t like? I defend things that have merits. I release things that do not.	/r/MensRights	14/04/25 08:08 PM
1	This woman dated only far-right men for a year: ‘They were so insecure’ I’m speaking of common claims and popular posts from this subreddit. It’s devolved the last ~8 yrs into just misogyny and anti-feminist claims. I was frequent here years ago when it seemed like MRA’s might have good intentions, but that’s proven to be untrue and it’s just a movement of entrenching ourselves into gender norms and expectations.	/r/MensRights	14/04/25 02:57 AM
-1	This woman dated only far-right men for a year: ‘They were so insecure’ How is exposing a group of men as toxic / ignorant / misogynistic bad for men? We, men who are presumably not those things, have a responsibility to hold them accountable and show them how/why they’re wrong. But we’re not doing that, people here are defending them, dismissing the whole piece as hate, and doing exactly nothing to take accountability. Men commit most murders. They also mostly murder men, so it’s hurting us two-fold. Men commit the most suicide. Men are more likely to be homeless. …	/r/MensRights	14/04/25 01:33 AM
-3	This woman dated only far-right men for a year: ‘They were so insecure’ I answered the question asked. This post has nothing to do with men’s rights. But men here think it does, because they see any criticism of their right wing dogma as an attack on all men. It’s no different than Christian’s who find the “anti-Christian” sentiment boogeyman writer between any lines of news. And also similarly, this idea is rooted in privilege. The assumption that right wing, Christian, white men are the default MAN, so any criticism of those things is an attack on all men. Again, …	/r/MensRights	13/04/25 11:03 PM
-8	This woman dated only far-right men for a year: ‘They were so insecure’ That’s my point though. The men of this subreddit believe men are a monolith. So when someone criticizes right wing men, guys post here crying about men being persecuted. I take no offense when right wing douches are mocked. I’m not one of them.	/r/MensRights	13/04/25 10:55 PM
-25	This woman dated only far-right men for a year: ‘They were so insecure’ Most men here are very right wing and assume offense for all men when snow flake right wing losers are exposed as such.	/r/MensRights	13/04/25 07:58 PM
6	Who are perfect role models for men according to you guys? Ted Lasso	/r/MensRights	09/04/25 03:55 AM
0	Who are perfect role models for men according to you guys? He’s a rapist who punches old men.	/r/MensRights	09/04/25 03:55 AM
1	Would you date a single mother under this conditions? If I were single and we had good chemistry, I’d propose an open/uncommitted relationship with her. It doesn’t hurt to have a date sometimes with a person you like. But I would not be any more committed to her than she is to me, which is to say not committed at all.	/r/MensRights	02/03/25 03:06 PM
-2	DEI Dying is Great for Men This stupid hateful initiative hurts transmen, men with disabilities, gay men, black men, indigenous men, immigrant men, and poor men. When you say this is a win for “men”, you’re saying black / trans / gay / Muslim / poor / etc men are not REAL men. I wholeheartedly disagree. The end of DEI is regressive and sets our society back. I’m a straight white man working at NASA and we’ve had many great programs and groups unjustly shut down. I’ve had my job threatened by a South African and I’m dealin…	/r/MensRights	23/02/25 11:52 PM
9	69% of marine biologists are female yet males express a slightly higher interest in becoming one. Does this indicate gender bias? I think the social pressure put upon men to provide for a family has them often avoiding careers they want en lieu of careers that earn more. Most folks who have the intelligence/ drive to be a marine biologist have other options as well. Women mostly only are motivated to provide for themselves, and that’s only up until they want to have a family.	/r/MensRights	23/11/24 06:46 AM
2	Studies show that fraternities are beneficial to men's mental health. So why do so many people hate fraternities? In what way? I graduated in 2006. Some of my best friends on the planet were in the same fraternity I was in. I saw one guy this weekend even at a party with mutual friends. My career has gone well and the skills I learned while doing work at the fraternity house and managing the interpersonal relationships of living together have been a well of knowledge I’ve always been able to pull from. I attended a small private engineering school in the Midwest. I honestly hate the school due to its exorbi…	/r/MensRights	18/11/24 02:55 PM
16	Studies show that fraternities are beneficial to men's mental health. So why do so many people hate fraternities? My college Greek fraternity was the single biggest influence to my success in college. There is no reason to downplay “frats” as less than the other fraternal orders mentioned.	/r/MensRights	17/11/24 07:54 PM
0	I voted blue but I honestly didn’t think Harris had a chance in hell. Trump has said a complete sentence or articulated anything in the past 8 yrs. I’d bet $10k he cannot explain the 3 branches of government. wtf are you talking about?	/r/MensRights	06/11/24 02:09 PM
2	What is going on in the Two X chromosomes sub Reddit? Why are they panicked and calling all men Incels? I’ve enjoyed that sub over the years as really the only the feminist space that was open to the worldview of men. But the last few months is really descended into just misandric venting and shitting on men. It sucks real bad lately.	/r/MensRights	06/11/24 01:55 PM
2	Why does male entertainment have to be inclusive to women while female entertainment just gets to exist as is? Living in the fraternity house is not a requirement. It’s a fraternal brotherhood; academic standing and gender are the only requirements. There is no direct counterpart for women, although sororities do exist. I’m not sure what you’re so angry about. Most exclusive spaces are not hate groups (although some certainly are). I can’t speak for every group that exists, I was only speaking to the high level influence that capital has on literally everything. Profit centers are exploited. Always.	/r/MensRights	30/10/24 02:50 PM
2	Why does male entertainment have to be inclusive to women while female entertainment just gets to exist as is? I’m a man. I was also in an all male fraternity that specifically excluded women. It isn’t a hate group at all. You’re really reaching here.	/r/MensRights	30/10/24 11:34 AM
3	Why does male entertainment have to be inclusive to women while female entertainment just gets to exist as is? I understand and don’t disagree. I think we all are entitled to spaces where we can exist without expectation.	/r/MensRights	29/10/24 05:38 PM
-5	Why does male entertainment have to be inclusive to women while female entertainment just gets to exist as is? Right. And all the things you’ve mentioned are available to anyone and everyone. The question was about women exclusive events. Which do not sell well unless they are exclusive to women. And to your last point, we all experience societal pressure one way or another. Many women do not like the social expectations often put on women, and similarly want to exist beyond the male gaze in a “safe” space. It’s exactly the same idea behind a gay club, or even a religious place of worship. It’s just a pl…	/r/MensRights	29/10/24 01:55 PM
-7	Why does male entertainment have to be inclusive to women while female entertainment just gets to exist as is? Capitalism. Entertainment is sold. People buy it. “Women’s entertainment” doesn’t sell well. And exists mostly as an exclusive event where women can gather, exist outside of the patriarchy, and express themselves free from the judgement of men. These things are very rarely profitable. If the event/subject/sport is actually profitable, it becomes inclusive of all people. “Men’s” entertainment isn’t a thing, because there is no economic incentive to create men’s only spaces. They make far more mon…	/r/MensRights	29/10/24 01:33 PM
4	Which candidate will be the best for men's rights? The liberals and the conservatives see most men (especially poor men) as fodder for the industrial military complex. As long as we continue to die and make rich folks richer, they will keep our rights to the absolute minimum. If you go far enough left; ending poverty, ending mass incarceration, raising the social floor, and providing better access to all health services are priorities. But there isn’t any politicians in the US advocating for any of those things.	/r/MensRights	27/10/24 02:02 AM
6	Journalists now saying the Joker movie was just made to upset incels If you make a movie bad enough, everyone will hate it. So it’s incel-inclusive in its hate	/r/MensRights	08/10/24 06:29 PM
7	"Herbivore men": your thoughts Plenty of men and women “go their own way”. It’s an outcome of a society that puts a lot of pressure on people to be something narrow. Good for them all. We should all be able to choose our own path.	/r/MensRights	09/09/24 03:42 PM
1	Gwyneth Paltrow on the 100 Israeli Hostages: "There are still 17 women being held by Hamas. Where are the feminists?" Plenty of good people are concerned for and advocating for a cease fire. More than 40k people have died in Gaza this past year at the hands of Israeli violence.	/r/MensRights	06/09/24 11:56 AM
2	Hating Men Is Now The Democrats' Campaign Strategy. If republicans had their way, REAL men would all work 60 hours every week, happily die in wars, shut up about our problems, live in the streets when we have mental issues, and quietly die of suicide of overdoses instead of expressing ourselves, like REAL MEN are supposed to. Don’t be a stupid complaining woman that can’t even suffer a lifetime of oppression with no hope of escaping the shackles of consumerism and forced gender roles. This article is a complete piece of shit.	/r/MensRights	08/08/24 01:06 PM
6	Democrats are advocating for Hillary Clinton replacing President Joe Biden as the 2024 Democratic nominee: Reminder of five reasons no man should vote for her I’m a leftist and a feminist. I’ll never vote for Hilary Clinton. She’s an abhorrent human being.	/r/MensRights	21/07/24 06:28 PM
1	Feminist logic: Blame all men for the actions of the minority ‘When You’re Accustomed to Privilege, Equality Feels Like Oppression’ https://www.huffpost.com/entry/when-youre-accustomed-to-privilege_b_9460662/amp	/r/MensRights	17/07/24 07:32 PM
1	Feminist logic: Blame all men for the actions of the minority I saw your capitalized word. And like every poor argument, you’re focusing on the briefest and most elementary definition possible of a word to defend yourself. And even if we pretend that “feminism” is entirely encapsulated by the definition you posted, nothing about that definition precludes advocating for men’s rights. But let’s play the google definition game. I said you’re ignorant. That’s not an insult and this isn’t the playground. “lacking knowledge, information, or awareness about a par…	/r/MensRights	17/07/24 03:22 AM
-1	Feminist logic: Blame all men for the actions of the minority Did you know that people can do two things at once? Like, actually care about more than a single issue? There are problems faced by men, because of their gender. And similarly, there are problems women encounter because of their gender. These things sometimes even have the same root cause but play out socially in opposite ways. I’m not asking for or seeking the approval of a bunch of kids who don’t seem to know much about life. I define who I am. What part about anything I’ve said gave you the i…	/r/MensRights	16/07/24 05:58 PM
-1	Feminist logic: Blame all men for the actions of the minority The evil demonic man hating feminist trope is mostly just perpetuated by misogynists. If you believe it, I’d encourage you to leave your bubble and “touch grass” as the kids might say. I can’t be responsible for ignorant misogynists trying desperately to redefine a word.	/r/MensRights	16/07/24 05:18 PM
-2	Feminist logic: Blame all men for the actions of the minority This guy in a wheelchair did murder this woman though. I’m not sure what you’re asking anyone to do? Have you condemned every man that does anything wrong and loudly make sure that we all know he doesn’t represent you? Of course not. My point was that OP is hilariously stupid in the irony of their post. They simultaneously condemn a woman making men a monolith and in turn makes feminists a monolith. You can argue any point you like, but try not to be absolutely moronic in your blatant hypocrisy.	/r/MensRights	16/07/24 05:06 PM
-4	Feminist logic: Blame all men for the actions of the minority I advocate for both men’s and women’s rights. You’re under the illusion that this is a sport or a game, where any gain by women is a detriment to men, or vice versa, it isn’t.	/r/MensRights	16/07/24 04:55 PM
-11	Feminist logic: Blame all men for the actions of the minority I’m a man, I’m a feminist and I advocate for men. I don’t hate myself at all.	/r/MensRights	16/07/24 11:50 AM
-17	Feminist logic: Blame all men for the actions of the minority Are you ironically allowing this single woman to represent all feminists?	/r/MensRights	16/07/24 04:36 AM
-16	Does the "Patriarchy" Harm Boys? That’s a poor understanding of the word. The patriarchy exists and it still hurts most men. Your denying it only perpetuates it, and prolongs the ways it hurts men.	/r/MensRights	19/06/24 09:28 PM
0	We should wear the man vs bear as a badge of honour. Where is it written that humans all have sense? Have you met people?	/r/MensRights	04/06/24 09:43 PM
0	We should wear the man vs bear as a badge of honour. These men are unironically proving the point though. Those saying dumb shit like you just set are monstrous men. “If she thinks men will hurt her, I’ll hurt her to prove…I wouldn’t?” They’re weak. They’re cowards.	/r/MensRights	04/06/24 06:50 PM
-1	We should wear the man vs bear as a badge of honour. The answer is the fragile masculinity all these men swear they don’t suffer from. Any small criticism of men and they go full assault to prove they’re tough or strong or whatever it is they believe they’re not. “Look at me," Sanders said. "What about me would make you think that I care about your opinion of me? Your opinion of me is not the opinion that I have of myself. You ain’t make me, so you can’t break me. You didn't build me, so you can't kill me.” Deion Sanders absolutely isn’t mad about…	/r/MensRights	04/06/24 06:46 PM
-3	We should wear the man vs bear as a badge of honour. Ultimately men are responsible for the narrative and how society see’s us. I don’t see any value in you or any of us doubling down and ignoring the criticism. Of course a man is safer than a bear. But if so many women have been hurt by, and distrust, men that they’d irrationally choose a bear, we have an image problem. Ignoring that imagine problem, or writing off these women as misandric, doesn’t help anyone. In these polarizing arguments most people sink their heels in and get defensive. If yo…	/r/MensRights	04/06/24 05:18 PM
-1	Is it true that ALL women are victim of grape? Literally none of your quotes say all women are the victim of rape though. Which is what OP claims.	/r/MensRights	31/05/24 01:47 PM
-5	Is it true that ALL women are victim of grape? The women in my life that I’m closest too…My mother was sexually abused by her grandfather as a child. My ex-wife was sexually abused by her grandfather as a child. My wife was violently raped and hospitalized as a teen. I’ve never heard anyone say that all women are victims of rape. Who says that? Do you have any source? If it happens all the time it must be easy to point to. This isn’t a good source of laughs for this sub, or for anyone. Anyone posting facetiously here about this topic needs t…	/r/MensRights	31/05/24 12:25 PM
-9	Hysterics for Hamas: Why have young women been so prominent in the recent campus chaos? The primary loss of life in most military conflict is men. Women are rarely compelled to advocate for men in mass. But the genocide Israel is enacting upon Palestine is killing innocent men, women, and children indiscriminately. I believe the loss of life of women and children has compelled a lot of women to speak up on their behalf.	/r/MensRights	14/05/24 03:20 AM
1	UK: Male sexual abuse charity sees staggering 80% increase in calls following Baby Reindeer release I don’t disagree. I mostly watch fun or fictional things.	/r/MensRights	10/05/24 04:20 PM
-2	UK: Male sexual abuse charity sees staggering 80% increase in calls following Baby Reindeer release It’s an interesting story. And a subject rarely tackled. Men very often do not report sexual assault because of the shame and self blame. He was a victim and really was falling apart because of that assault. Him being stalked was unfortunate too. But it’s really just a vehicle to show just how broken he was. He enabled and encouraged his stalker, let her linger because he was desperate for attention, and his self loathing convinced him that he deserved the attention of a gross crazy violent woma…	/r/MensRights	10/05/24 04:00 PM
-4	UK: Male sexual abuse charity sees staggering 80% increase in calls following Baby Reindeer release Uh…no its not. It’s about a man who hates himself because he was raped by a man. He enjoys the attention of the stalker, he gets off on it even, because he’s broken inside as a result of his sexual assault. It’s about a broken man who blames himself as the victim of a man who raped him multiple times. Did you even watch it?	/r/MensRights	10/05/24 03:05 PM
-19	UK: Male sexual abuse charity sees staggering 80% increase in calls following Baby Reindeer release It’s about a man spiraling because he was raped by another man. The comment you’re responding to has absolutely nothing to do with the show. Edit: I think most of you didn’t finish the series.	/r/MensRights	10/05/24 01:17 PM
7	How to know if a woman sees you as a retirement plan Partners depend on each other for life. If you don’t see your partner providing anything to you for life, find a partner whom you love and respect.	/r/MensRights	06/05/24 05:35 PM
-1	Majority of "Incels" began as "Allies..." There is no faith. It’s entirely science based. My life is amazing and successful by any measure.	/r/MensRights	06/04/24 12:43 PM
-7	Majority of "Incels" began as "Allies..." I’m (41M) married and have 3 girls (aged 7,6,4). I’ve been a feminist for 15 yrs and really care a lot about equality for all, particularly ways that society hurts men and makes life difficult for working class and minority men. Whatever situation you’re describing isn’t something I’m familiar with. I think some young men may pretend to care about equality to get laid, but quickly tell on themselves and start down the path of hate and resentment that is incels and the alt-right. Feminists are no…	/r/MensRights	05/04/24 05:50 PM
5	Men are blamed for beauty standards but women refuse to associate with other women who dress a certain way or have too many ugly features. Men almost universally want and encourage low cost, natural, simple aesthetics. The expensive, time consuming, complicated look so many women seek is for other women,	/r/MensRights	23/02/24 08:47 PM
-6	California woman who fatally stabbed boyfriend 108 times receives probation, community service https://youtu.be/84phU8of02U?si=LQtQzHVxfBpIgKd2	/r/MensRights	24/01/24 08:03 PM
2	Is it just me? Any woman who "stands up for a guy" seem fake? I agree, most are absolutely fake. It’s pretty be weird for a man to pretend to be a woman for attention.	/r/MensRights	23/01/24 10:35 PM
1	This subreddit is not going to fix anything You could enjoy the free discourse of Parler.	/r/MensRights	17/01/24 09:11 PM
-1	This subreddit is not going to fix anything Expanding your empathy for “others” and being a better boss and colleague with the newfound perspective is an answer. If you don’t think expanding your knowledge of the world; and learning more about the experiences of those who are less able, of a minority race, or a minority background, or of a minority culture; makes work a better place to be for those people, you’re just dense and not really qualified to work in the modern world. If you really think learning and education are discrimination,…	/r/MensRights	17/01/24 03:37 AM
-6	This subreddit is not going to fix anything In one of my DEI courses, we watched a video about the disadvantages a blind person faces, and how much the world is dependent on our ability to see. I got a cool perspective on it with some real examples. How the fuck is that discriminatory?	/r/MensRights	17/01/24 02:47 AM
-5	This subreddit is not going to fix anything Who has been “cancelled” for saying any of those things? Who has been cancelled for saying anything?	/r/MensRights	17/01/24 01:36 AM
-4	This subreddit is not going to fix anything DEI is about education, not hiring. I think you’re confusing it with affirmative action.	/r/MensRights	17/01/24 01:35 AM
-4	This subreddit is not going to fix anything You’re 2nd point is mostly correct, I’ve never heard of anyone being cancelled for talking about domestic violence against men though. Do you have any examples of a person’s career or imagine being hurt by this? And have you been through any DEI training? I have been through a DEI course that was about 4 hours a week for 10 weeks. I’m a white man btw. There wasnt a single part of that training/education that was sexist or racist in the least. It was great, we all learned a lot, and it offered so…	/r/MensRights	16/01/24 10:39 PM
4	This subreddit is not going to fix anything What things can you not say?	/r/MensRights	16/01/24 07:53 PM
7	Why do feminists blame beauty standards on men? They say things like "we have to wear makeup" and you "wouldn't make it a day in heels" I don’t know, I can only speak for myself. I am married for 7 yrs now. I don’t care if she does those things; it’s entirely up to her. My wife rarely wears any makeup, doesn’t get her hair done, and generally just cuts her own nails. She’s blessed with being naturally beautiful and is very “natural” in her day to day. We discuss my dislike of plastic surgery and body modifications either to be different or to appear younger, none of which are my preference.	/r/MensRights	08/01/24 10:19 PM
-6	Why do feminists blame beauty standards on men? They say things like "we have to wear makeup" and you "wouldn't make it a day in heels" Many people are confused about the relationships we all have with the patriarchy. “Society” dictates that women must adhere to a certain beauty standard. But in nearly every case, these are standards created by and maintained by women. The fact is that women by and large are MORE likely to uphold the patriarchy imo. Men literally do not want women to care about fashion, or makeup, or a complicated / expensive / time consuming aesthetic. And women for the most part don’t do these things to appeas…	/r/MensRights	08/01/24 07:42 PM
-5	UN study finds almost 90% of men and women are biased against women I don’t have any reason not to believe this. But an important data point when anyone is talking about how men treat women. It’s not only men with the negative bias, it’s everyone. It’s not men vs women. It’s systematic inequality that’s perpetuated by all of us.	/r/MensRights	01/01/24 07:31 AM
1	Please be carefull. Subs general direction Thanks for saying this and I’m happy to see it has positive up votes and some discussion. I’ve posted here rarely but I have seen the same thing. It’s been slowly drifting right the past 4 yrs or so and gotten away from “let’s discuss issues men face, and how to solve them” and is by-and-large “feminism is evil and they want to subjugate men, we must stop them or else!”.	/r/MensRights	30/12/23 05:49 PM
1	Bari Weiss: Why DEI Must End for Good These courses were very literally called DEI. I’m not confused. At the time I was an engineering manager at a mid sized company and there was company wide DEI training for all people with direct reports. DEI is a liability initiative. It’s like safety in the workplace. Sure it might be boring to some people, and the company only does it to protect their liability in discrimination cases, but it also happens to be good for us to be better educated on the experiences of a wide range of people from…	/r/MensRights	19/12/23 12:38 PM
0	Bari Weiss: Why DEI Must End for Good I’ve been through a number if DEI courses the past few years and gender is not often discussed. It’s more about religious and ethnic background, sexual orientation / gender identity, disabilities, and indigenous populations. I understand that a DEI rating exists. But it doesn’t amount to anything or mean anything to anyone within a company or applying to it. You’re acting like it’s a big conspiracy to push men out of the workplace. Most if the people coordinating the DEI meetings I attended were…	/r/MensRights	19/12/23 03:21 AM
0	Bari Weiss: Why DEI Must End for Good As? Have you been through any DEI training? Or are you just getting enraged at headlines?	/r/MensRights	19/12/23 12:12 AM
0	Bari Weiss: Why DEI Must End for Good I’ve been through a few DEI trainings. It’s all pretty good stuff imo. What’s your problem with it?	/r/MensRights	18/12/23 11:54 PM
2	Bari Weiss: Why DEI Must End for Good Bari Weiss is a scumbag. She’s the misandrist that pushed the “Bernie bro” narrative during the 2016 election. She openly mocked men as ignorant sexist for not supporting the war mongerer HRC.	/r/MensRights	18/12/23 10:07 PM
0	For the “by other men” argument that feminists love to use, Because we want to analyze the systems that enable men to be the victims of violence. And those same systems also encourage men to use violence. You’re conflating helping victims with the discussion about our society. These things are entirely different. And we can do both. Feminists often encourage those in power to listen to victims and to follow through with justice and treatment for those victims, this is true irrespective of the victims gender. But if we’re analyzing the world we live in wi…	/r/MensRights	17/12/23 06:05 PM
-1	For the “by other men” argument that feminists love to use, Men’s Rights are not predicated on refuting feminist claims. And if you dig into them, most feminist ideals align well with the rights of men. And it’s perfectly valid for us to point out and acknowledge that men are often the perpetrators and victims of violence, in almost all cases. This is NOT the situation women face, so while they face an external threat, we face an internal one. By dismissing the fact that men are the perpetrators of violence, you undermine our movement. It makes us look s…	/r/MensRights	17/12/23 03:20 PM
0	Men In Relationships/ Married Men, Advice to Younger guys? I’m 41M, married twice, still very happily married to my 2nd wife. Good on ya for recognizing the negativity of the “manosphere”. The world is chock full of kind loving people who only want the best for themselves and their family. Step one for any human being seeking a lasting relationship is to be the best version of yourself. That means setting up a life that lifts your spirits, rejuvenates your soul, challenges you to always be better, and gives you room to learn and grown and change as we a…	/r/MensRights	16/12/23 08:21 PM
2	If you could gain a significant role in the politics of your own country what would you do to help improve mens rights situations USA I would do what I could to make rape and sexual assault allegations and claims a priority. Unprocessed and unaddressed legitimate rape cases perpetuate rape culture; which protects those who exploit the system as either the false victim or the actual criminal. This situation actually hurts men and women both. Actual cases of rape would be handled more expeditiously, and false allegations would be dismissed as false. I would institute national parental leave for both parents. The bonds parent…	/r/MensRights	14/12/23 04:32 PM
6	Why does nobody talk about biphobia against bimen? Even the mild supportive comments are prefaced with “I don’t know anything about being gay or bi but…”. Literally so insecure in themselves that they can’t even talk about this issue without a declaration of absolute straightness.	/r/MensRights	11/12/23 12:34 PM
6	Why does nobody talk about biphobia against bimen? These comments are telling on a lot of you guys. It’s pretty apparent that “men’s rights” means “straight men’s rights” to most of you.	/r/MensRights	10/12/23 10:29 PM
0	Why are more men not standing up against feminism and the way women are today? I’m a 40M, I’m white. I grew up in poverty but have had a lot of fortune and done some hard work so I’m solidly middle class. The world I live in is not as you describe. Neither feminism nor women at large have held me back or hindered my path to success. It’s quite the opposite, being a man has given me a set of privileges that many women are not afforded. Guys, this sort of extremist language and post on this subReddit is why men’s right are not taken serious. This is why men’s rights groups a…	/r/MensRights	17/11/23 02:39 PM
1	What are the biggest issues in the Men’s Rights activism today? You said it better than I did. The Venn Diagram of MRA’s has a lot of overlap with the more nefarious groups you mentioned. And I think if we care about improving the lives of men, it’s worth addressing that overlap and discouraging men from going that direction. It’s easy, and intellectually lazy, to blame women and feminists for the issues that men face. But if you dig into the “why” of many issues faced by men, you’ll discover that men and women are not adversaries. Privilege and equality are…	/r/MensRights	26/10/23 02:11 PM
-4	What are the biggest issues in the Men’s Rights activism today? This sub has been pretty quiet the last couple years, so the conversations are less than they once were. I’m not mistaking anything, you replied to my comment. Did it have a question in it? If you’re denying the link between MRA’s and the alt-right pipeline, perhaps you’re already lost.	/r/MensRights	25/10/23 07:34 PM
-5	What are the biggest issues in the Men’s Rights activism today? I advocate for men’s rights all the time. I’m not saying that every MRA becomes a Nazi, but many white supremacists started their journey here. It’s just something we need to be cognizant and weary of. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Alt-right_pipeline The Alt-Right Pipeline is fairly well studied. There is a lot of information about it and how it often leads to far right extremist positions. A little digging will turn up a lot of information to help you.	/r/MensRights	25/10/23 06:45 PM
-8	What are the biggest issues in the Men’s Rights activism today? Men’s Rights Activists are often indoctrinated into the alt-right. MRA is a part of the alt-right pipeline. A lot of Nazi’s and far right violent activists started with “men’s rights”.	/r/MensRights	25/10/23 06:28 PM
-11	More Male Bashing: 27 Women On What Men Need To Know About Raising Daughters What are you talking about? Is that a thing?	/r/MensRights	25/09/23 03:57 AM
-14	Isn’t calling any man you disagree with an incel hate speech? Aren’t some incels disabled, disfigured, rape survivors, and other marginalized types just like women? I don’t mean men who hate women. This is a popular trope pushed by the right. “You can’t just call anyone you disagree with an incel / Nazi / fascist” Literally every time I see this line used, the accused has demonstrated some significant traits common with the group in question. We cannot disagree on a woman’s ability to make decision about her body any more than we can disagree that men should be afforded the same autonomy.	/r/MensRights	11/09/23 07:52 PM
1	A woman yelled at me for checking my watch during the Barbie movie. The whole theater felt cult like. You did something rude Someone told you to stop being rude. They were also rude but you earned that. You came here complaining that you’re innocent and a big mean woman hurt you. You’re not innocent. No one hurt you here. Their gender is irreverent. You’re insistent that you’ve done nothing wrong and that you’re a victim of being yelled at. Both are incorrect. Then you bring up a 100% unrelated situation of your past to further enforce your victim status. You’re weird dude. If you believe your o…	/r/MensRights	22/07/23 03:54 PM
-2	A woman yelled at me for checking my watch during the Barbie movie. The whole theater felt cult like. Way to bring in a completely unrelated thing to maintain your victim status. I’m a man, and I don’t open up electronic devices in the movies, and even if I did and was called out for it, I wouldn’t come on line to cry about being yelled at. You need to grow up and take some personal responsibility for your actions.	/r/MensRights	22/07/23 03:40 PM
-6	A woman yelled at me for checking my watch during the Barbie movie. The whole theater felt cult like. Wow you’re such a victim. I hope you find a support group.	/r/MensRights	22/07/23 03:00 PM
-1	A woman yelled at me for checking my watch during the Barbie movie. The whole theater felt cult like. Was it a deadline for something you needed to write? Or an important reminder? Looking at your device in a dark movie theater is a selfish thing to do. Stop doing it. It’s rude af and it pisses off everyone around you. This person was right to tell you to stop it.	/r/MensRights	22/07/23 02:32 PM
-2	A woman yelled at me for checking my watch during the Barbie movie. The whole theater felt cult like. Bringing up a light in the theater is rude. This has nothing to do with men’s rights, you’re just selfish. If you have to know the time, don’t go to the movies dude.	/r/MensRights	22/07/23 01:48 PM
-1	My sister is a toxic feminist and I have reached my breaking point. No idea what to do. She might be willing to read The Will to Change by Bell Hooks. Any feminist interested in wholesale societal change must recognize the need for men to participate in said change. It would behoove her, as a straight woman and as a sister, to put in some work to better understand and empathize with men	/r/MensRights	20/07/23 09:17 PM
3	Men's survival guide to Marriage What a depressing take. If you read this and think it’s valuable info, just don’t get married dude. It’s so cynical and negative that you’re doomed to fail with this worldview.	/r/MensRights	30/06/23 01:11 PM
22	Fathers of r/MensRights, have you ever been given a side-eye when bringing your child to a playground? I have three daughters aged 6, 5, and 3. People are surprised when I have them out, especially older women. No one has ever said anything cross. A coworker once said I was going to “babysit” them, and I corrected her.	/r/MensRights	26/06/23 09:23 PM
0	Why do so many men hate this sub I had an anti-Andrew Tate post get like -30 votes a couple weeks ago. And this sub is crawling with Jordan Peterson fanboys. Good on ya for not being familiar with their toxicity, but you should familiarize yourself with it so you don’t get pulled down by it.	/r/MensRights	19/06/23 06:47 AM
-1	Why do so many men hate this sub I’m 40 yrs old. I’ve been a feminist for 12 yrs. Learn when? Since becoming a feminist I’ve lived in 4 states, traveled to a dozen countries, had 3 jobs, married twice, divorced once, had 3 children, gotten in the best shape of my life, met dozens of amazing romantic partners, bought 2 homes, sold one home, and doubled my salary. My life is great. I’m a happy man, fortunate to be loved by the people closest to me. My career and life are blessed by fortune and the work I’ve put in to get to this …	/r/MensRights	19/06/23 06:43 AM
-5	Why do so many men hate this sub OP had a question and I answered it. Perhaps people hate this sub because anyone not contributing to the echo sphere is dismissed as a bad actor or troll. I’m neither. I care a lot about men and our rights, and I see that the patriarchy and toxic masculinity are the primary forces that hurt men. Most men on this sub deny either of these things even exist, so it’s impossible to have a conversation about how to help men when so many of you are willfully ignorant of the world in which we exist.	/r/MensRights	19/06/23 12:40 AM
-1	Why do so many men hate this sub Not at all. I’m entitled to opinions without providing a dissertation or scientific study to back them up.	/r/MensRights	19/06/23 12:19 AM
1	Why do so many men hate this sub Yes.	/r/MensRights	19/06/23 12:16 AM
-1	Why do so many men hate this sub I didn’t say “you guys are cultists”, I said cultists can’t be reasoned with. So when a Jordan Peterson or Andrew Tate Stan starts demanding proof, it’s not worth anyone’s time to address those demands. They are beyond logic in their thoughts.	/r/MensRights	18/06/23 07:29 PM
-2	Why do so many men hate this sub I’ve not once dimished men’s problems or men. MRA’s do not represent all men. I’m a man, you don’t represent me. You’ve caught me in nothing, except another inane argument about how you care oh so much about men but I go not, while you’re going nothing to discuss issues that face men or the forces that create said issues.	/r/MensRights	18/06/23 07:24 PM
-3	Why do so many men hate this sub “We live in capitalism. Its power seems inescapable. So did the divine right of kings. Any human power can be resisted and changed by human beings. Resistance and change often begin in art, and very often in our art, the art of words.” Ursula K Le Guin	/r/MensRights	18/06/23 07:22 PM
0	Why do so many men hate this sub Such nuance. A man of culture I see. Please explain why you’re better than me.	/r/MensRights	18/06/23 06:35 PM
-2	Why do so many men hate this sub I care about Men’s Rights. It’s fascinating how misguided many of you are, and I like to understand why you believe many of the very incorrect things you believe. Ultimately I want to be better at communicating what I believe to be important. And understanding the arguments that support my position is just as important as understanding the arguments that oppose it. I’m not sure why you think I exist to educate you. Demanding evidence is funny since many posts on this sub are just misogynists wit…	/r/MensRights	18/06/23 06:35 PM
-1	Why do so many men hate this sub You think we live in a matriarchy? One that overwhelmingly has elected and promoted men into literally every position of power?	/r/MensRights	18/06/23 06:30 PM
3	Why do so many men hate this sub Men are targeted by violence of the police. The black community is targeted by the violence of police. So black men bring the most targeted group is no surprise. Our justice system aims to keep prisons full and the poor, poor. The simplest way to do that is to over-police the poor, and the most efficient way to do that is to over police poor densely populated neighborhoods (where most minorities live).	/r/MensRights	18/06/23 06:29 PM
-11	Why do so many men hate this sub So how is feminism encouraging men to kill men? If i understand y’all, feminism is the biggest problem in our society.	/r/MensRights	18/06/23 06:25 PM
-5	Why do so many men hate this sub If you’re including yourself in my “cultists and people heavily invested with grifters”, you’re kind of telling on yourself, right? If you’re neither of those things, what’s the problem?	/r/MensRights	18/06/23 06:23 PM
-14	Why do so many men hate this sub I’ll stay, thanks. I’ve been here for years advocating for men’s rights and I’ll continue to do do.	/r/MensRights	18/06/23 06:22 PM
-11	Why do so many men hate this sub This is exactly what I mean. In nearly every case of police violence; a man is the one committing the atrocity on behalf of the state. A few rare cases of women doing the killing are more publicized and she universally is penalized; which is not the case for male officers (especially white male officers). So what’s the shocker here? Men kill men a lot. And white men disproportionately kill more black men than black women? And this is a PRIVILEGE for women? Racism is absolutely a problem. Men bea…	/r/MensRights	18/06/23 05:13 PM
-23	Why do so many men hate this sub No. Everyone one of these conversations is pedantic. I’m not on stage in a debate with an MRA pseudo-intellectual. Cultists and people heavily invested in grifters have no interest an any information that may change their mind. I don’t have the energy to engage in such a fruitless endeavor on this Father’s Day anyhow. I’m sure you’ll respond with some predictable quip about this being convenient for me or something. Men have problems. Our society puts far too much burden on men to protect, provi…	/r/MensRights	18/06/23 05:01 PM
-26	Why do so many men hate this sub I wouldn’t say I hate this subreddit. It’s one of the few subs with socio-political commentary that’s not heavily moderated or quick to ban folks. For that I’m grateful. I’m personally very critical of “Men’s Rights Advocates”. Many of their ideas are based upon poorly represented statistics or a worldview that’s clearly ignorant of how women and minorities exist in the USA. And the leaders of the movement are all pretty much misogynistic grifters who get 15 minutes of fame before they are expos…	/r/MensRights	18/06/23 04:47 PM
1	"Nor Vincent, book Self-made Man, after disguising herself as a man for 18 months, her perceptions were rocked The entire post is about an anecdote.	/r/MensRights	11/06/23 05:11 AM
-1	"Nor Vincent, book Self-made Man, after disguising herself as a man for 18 months, her perceptions were rocked So you don’t like a number because your goal posts you’ve arbitrarily decided upon are not the same as that of the study. (A study that is in conflict with your bias) But you do really like a single anecdote from a single author who committed suicide , which is a pretty strong indicator of being unwell. (An anecdote that confirms your bias) Do you see how these two things could be seen as logically inconsistent?	/r/MensRights	11/06/23 04:10 AM
-1	"Nor Vincent, book Self-made Man, after disguising herself as a man for 18 months, her perceptions were rocked 1% of transfolk regret their transition. If being a man is significantly more difficult than being a woman, wouldn’t we see a larger percentage of regret? Especially in the group AFAB that transition to be men?	/r/MensRights	11/06/23 02:48 AM
-6	"Nor Vincent, book Self-made Man, after disguising herself as a man for 18 months, her perceptions were rocked Right. Men have struggles that are unique to men. I never said that isn’t the case. But 1% of transfolk regret their transition. So the “my gender has it harder than your gender!” Doesn’t hold a lot of water, when 99% of the people who swap are happy with the results. Men and women each have their unique struggles. It’s not the oppression Olympics, one doesn’t have to be worse than the other.	/r/MensRights	11/06/23 02:46 AM
-3	"Nor Vincent, book Self-made Man, after disguising herself as a man for 18 months, her perceptions were rocked So maybe some of you bemoaning how difficult it is to be a man are actually suffering gender dysphoria? My own experience as a man has been easier than the experiences of the women close to me. I like who I am and can recognize ways that it’s difficult to be a man, ways it’s difficult to be a woman, and acknowledge that women often get a more difficult time of it for some big items. These arguments always just feel like I’m talking to losers who are desperately reaching for any excuse for their …	/r/MensRights	11/06/23 01:19 AM
-3	"Nor Vincent, book Self-made Man, after disguising herself as a man for 18 months, her perceptions were rocked https://www.reddit.com/r/asktransgender/comments/tu0n48/trans_men_what_was_something_you_didnt_expect/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=2&utm_term=1 Plenty of anecdotes there	/r/MensRights	11/06/23 12:09 AM
-51	"Nor Vincent, book Self-made Man, after disguising herself as a man for 18 months, her perceptions were rocked It’s interesting how MRA’s love Nora but actively ignore the countless testimonies of Transmen who admit to living a much easier life as a man. It’s called confirmation bias and doesn’t help anyone, it just makes us look foolish.	/r/MensRights	10/06/23 05:01 PM
-1	One in four young men agree with misogynistic influencer's views on women, poll finds You’ve piqued my interest. How would you define a successful man?	/r/MensRights	06/06/23 02:24 AM
2	One in four young men agree with misogynistic influencer's views on women, poll finds I’m not interested in arguing with a bunch of cultists about their flawless leader. If the insane things he says and does hasn’t turned you off, there’s nothing I can do to help you. Good luck.	/r/MensRights	06/06/23 02:15 AM
-3	One in four young men agree with misogynistic influencer's views on women, poll finds Haha. I’m sorry the bald headed loser you worship isn’t in jail anymore, my mistake. Y’all weird AT fans are hilariously aggressive. Zero percent chance anyone who is successful in life is empowered by any of the nonsense he is peddling. But please, keep buying into his grift. See how far it gets you.	/r/MensRights	05/06/23 11:49 PM
-20	One in four young men agree with misogynistic influencer's views on women, poll finds Haha. Ok. Defending a guy in jail for sex trafficking isn’t a great position. Regardless, Tate is a scumbag. He says the dumbest possible shit that appeals the most insecure and weak boys.	/r/MensRights	05/06/23 08:09 PM
-33	One in four young men agree with misogynistic influencer's views on women, poll finds It is if the only way to do that is to sex traffic women (like AT) or otherwise demean/belittle women. Pushing down women so that you appear higher up isn’t masculine or good. It’s the weakest men that follow these turds, weak men chasing a strength they don’t understand.	/r/MensRights	05/06/23 07:41 PM
0	Dear President Trump: please stay strong and never give in (to E. Jean Carroll) Trump is a rapist and a blatant misogynist. He’s a racist. He’s a classist who was born to outrageous wealth and has done almost nothing positive or meaningful with the influence he has purchased.	/r/MensRights	18/05/23 05:00 AM
5	Random question : I am expecting a son in 7 weeks should he be circumcised or uncircumcised ? I am circumcised, thankfully it’s ok and worked out. I implore you to NOT mutilate the genitals of your infant son. Respect his autonomy and let him decide if he wants to do this when he is of age	/r/MensRights	16/05/23 06:36 PM
-1	European Space Agency study suggests that NASA should send an "all-female" crew to Mars because women are more "efficient" than men and need less resources It would be reasonable to choose candidates for body size/mass. Women are smaller on average.	/r/MensRights	09/05/23 08:11 PM
-4	Feminist author charged after dumping drink on Rep. Matt Gaetz at Florida wine festival Do we really think this type of this is criminal? I do not.	/r/MensRights	05/05/23 03:46 PM
-6	Feminist author charged after dumping drink on Rep. Matt Gaetz at Florida wine festival Do we really think this type of this is criminal? I do not.	/r/MensRights	05/05/23 03:45 PM
1	How Femboys, and men in dresses expose discrimination towards men A few outlier and clearly inappropriate instances where children are involved don’t warrant the non-stop discussion and multiple laws being created. The governments make no attempt to protect children from known and tangible threats like gun violence, religious leadership, and the like; but they spend an inordinate amount of time on extremely small percentage cases of abuse or inappropriate conduct by drag queens. It’s a red herring and yet another idiot (you) has distracted a more important con…	/r/MensRights	20/04/23 01:53 PM
1	How Femboys, and men in dresses expose discrimination towards men I know a lot of people that have been sexually assaulted or groomed at church, church camp, 4H, and youth Christian events. I’ve never met or heard of anyone who had anything bad happen to them at a drag show. You’re a sucker for propaganda. Falling into the “they” trap meant to de-humanize the political opposition. Drag shows, drag queens, cross dressers, trans folk, and everyone else lumped into this vitriol is not my enemy and they’re not yours either.	/r/MensRights	20/04/23 12:32 PM
1	How Femboys, and men in dresses expose discrimination towards men Drag shows are men who dress up as women. What the fuck are you talking about?	/r/MensRights	20/04/23 03:39 AM
1	How Femboys, and men in dresses expose discrimination towards men The bills are vaguely worded enough that essentially all drag shows are illegal.	/r/MensRights	20/04/23 01:21 AM
1	How Femboys, and men in dresses expose discrimination towards men Intersectional feminism is much larger than TERFs. Terfs just happen to be the loudest	/r/MensRights	19/04/23 09:43 PM
2	How Femboys, and men in dresses expose discrimination towards men Sure, shitheads exist in all spaces. And in the UK especially, TERFs are pushing a lot of hateful legislation. But in the US TERFs have little to no power or influence, similarly to all feminists in the US. So a few hateful jerks isn’t a societal issue.	/r/MensRights	19/04/23 04:29 PM
9	How Femboys, and men in dresses expose discrimination towards men Effeminate men or men in women’s clothing are absolutely emasculated and shamed. But not by feminists, and certainly not by the left. The right, conservatives, and those appealing to “traditional” gender roles are the ones doing the shaming. The US Republican Party is trying to make it criminal for men to wear women’s clothing in public. Interestingly, a large portion of this sub are conservative men who fight to maintain the status quo. They want to uphold the patriarchy that shames men who don…	/r/MensRights	19/04/23 02:40 PM
1	"Alabama shooting: Brother died saving birthday girl Alexis Dowdell’s life". There is a lot of talk about toxic masculinity but I get the impression more males than women do heroic acts like this for others (excluding their children) This is the exact opposite of everything I’ve said. Are you agreeing with me? If we get the accolades of heroism, then we should also carry the blame for the violence. We get both, or we get neither. Everyone here seems to be advocating for congratulating men for being heroism, but dismissing the violence created by men as unrelated to their gender. It’s inconsistent.	/r/MensRights	19/04/23 05:17 AM
1	"Alabama shooting: Brother died saving birthday girl Alexis Dowdell’s life". There is a lot of talk about toxic masculinity but I get the impression more males than women do heroic acts like this for others (excluding their children) You don’t think society, circumstance, and desperation motivate any murders? So you advocate for public healthcare and access to mental health care for men? Which politicians do you support that are talking about giving these “psychopaths” access to the care that they need?	/r/MensRights	19/04/23 05:13 AM
-1	"Alabama shooting: Brother died saving birthday girl Alexis Dowdell’s life". There is a lot of talk about toxic masculinity but I get the impression more males than women do heroic acts like this for others (excluding their children) I think it’s bad for men that so many are inclined to commit murder. I’d like to understand why men commit violent crimes at higher rates than other genders. It’s absolutely a problem men face. Being honest with ourselves about the issues we face is the first and most important step to being better. And most of you here can’t even admit that we need help.	/r/MensRights	19/04/23 03:53 AM
-1	"Alabama shooting: Brother died saving birthday girl Alexis Dowdell’s life". There is a lot of talk about toxic masculinity but I get the impression more males than women do heroic acts like this for others (excluding their children) I’m a man. Im on this god forsaken sub arguing for men’s rights every day, and at every turn im met with men who are fighting to keep things exactly the same.	/r/MensRights	18/04/23 11:22 PM
0	"Alabama shooting: Brother died saving birthday girl Alexis Dowdell’s life". There is a lot of talk about toxic masculinity but I get the impression more males than women do heroic acts like this for others (excluding their children) Your brain is always on asshole. How do I do it?	/r/MensRights	18/04/23 11:21 PM
-1	"Alabama shooting: Brother died saving birthday girl Alexis Dowdell’s life". There is a lot of talk about toxic masculinity but I get the impression more males than women do heroic acts like this for others (excluding their children) Uh…what? Who did I blame? Who is the victim?	/r/MensRights	18/04/23 10:06 PM
0	"Alabama shooting: Brother died saving birthday girl Alexis Dowdell’s life". There is a lot of talk about toxic masculinity but I get the impression more males than women do heroic acts like this for others (excluding their children) That’s what u/wntk is doing here. He’s celebrating men because of the actions of 1 man. I just pointed out the hypocrisy of crediting men with the save, but not crediting men with the crime. It’s either or. The actions of one represent us all, or they don’t. I’m arguing that they do not. The rest of you are saying they do (if it’s good) but do not (if it’s bad). You’re logically inconsistent.	/r/MensRights	18/04/23 09:19 PM
3	"Alabama shooting: Brother died saving birthday girl Alexis Dowdell’s life". There is a lot of talk about toxic masculinity but I get the impression more males than women do heroic acts like this for others (excluding their children) Are you agreeing with me? I’m the one saying “just because this person is a hero and a man, doesn’t mean we can celebrate men as hero’s” You just elaborately saying what I’ve been saying from the start.	/r/MensRights	18/04/23 06:39 PM
-20	"Alabama shooting: Brother died saving birthday girl Alexis Dowdell’s life". There is a lot of talk about toxic masculinity but I get the impression more males than women do heroic acts like this for others (excluding their children) How is “man attacks people and a man heroically stops him” a positive thing to highlight for men? I takes some mental gymnastics to focus on the food here and say “look what men can do!” And completely ignore the bad as exactly what men can also do. Celebrate the individual, sure. But if men are taking credit, don’t we also have to take the blame?	/r/MensRights	18/04/23 05:49 PM
-25	"Alabama shooting: Brother died saving birthday girl Alexis Dowdell’s life". There is a lot of talk about toxic masculinity but I get the impression more males than women do heroic acts like this for others (excluding their children) It’s difficult for me to celebrate men as a gender for heroically saving people from the violence of men. It’s dishonest to attribute this heroism to men, and not attribute the violence to men.	/r/MensRights	18/04/23 05:32 PM
-36	"Alabama shooting: Brother died saving birthday girl Alexis Dowdell’s life". There is a lot of talk about toxic masculinity but I get the impression more males than women do heroic acts like this for others (excluding their children) So men are heroes because they save people from….men? I support men’s rights but this isn’t it. If men stopped killing so many people all the time, men wouldn’t need to save people.	/r/MensRights	18/04/23 04:38 PM
0	MIT Study shows evidence of teacher being biased against boys So women just naturally are attracted to a subservient positions in society? To careers with less money? To positions with less power? You’re oblivious to your own misogyny. You’re pretending that it’s some sort of natural order of things but, you’re wrong. You think less of women. And you’re angry that women are encroaching upon your privilege, so you’re blaming feminism for removing your supposed natural rights. Why are there entire schools of academic study and scientific data to support my c…	/r/MensRights	11/04/23 03:25 AM
-1	MIT Study shows evidence of teacher being biased against boys What the explanation for men holding a vast majority of wealth (86.5% of billionaires are men) , and are a large majority in leadership positions in business and politics, and essentially every leadership position in our military? Why has the US elected a man for president 100% of the time? The only logical conclusions are one of two things; A. men are simply better than women B. A system exists that gives Ken and advantage over women. I choose B.	/r/MensRights	10/04/23 11:16 PM
-7	MIT Study shows evidence of teacher being biased against boys Based on what? What type of society do we live in?	/r/MensRights	10/04/23 10:39 PM
-9	MIT Study shows evidence of teacher being biased against boys I think our society and the forces that drive it are why men suffer. What do you have to gain by denying the fact that we exist in a patriarchy?	/r/MensRights	10/04/23 09:25 PM
-10	MIT Study shows evidence of teacher being biased against boys I feel like this reinforces the notion that we live in a patriarchy. Our education system sees women as less capable, needing more help, and requiring education in order to succeed. But our education system, and our society at large, expects men to be leaders, protectors, and stalwart emotionless individuals that don’t need help, don’t need coddling, and don’t need higher education to succeed. Feminists have done well to advocate for the rights of women. MRA’s have not done a good job of advocat…	/r/MensRights	10/04/23 08:00 PM
-1	The patriarchy doesn't exist. Misogyny and misandry do exist. Feminists pretend to be victims to gain power over men. Pointing at 15 people who happen to be women but have those things doesn’t change the fact that most people in power; be it wealth, political influence, title, or military rank; are in fact men.	/r/MensRights	10/04/23 03:47 PM
0	The patriarchy doesn't exist. Misogyny and misandry do exist. Feminists pretend to be victims to gain power over men. If patriarchy isn’t a thing, then why are patriarchal expectations of men (provide, protect, endure for the sake of women) the reason so many men die every day?	/r/MensRights	10/04/23 03:46 PM
-2	The patriarchy doesn't exist. Misogyny and misandry do exist. Feminists pretend to be victims to gain power over men. You really don’t believe that men suffer challenges because of their gender identity? Certain things in life are made more difficult because of the social expectations put on men.	/r/MensRights	09/04/23 03:02 PM
0	The patriarchy doesn't exist. Misogyny and misandry do exist. Feminists pretend to be victims to gain power over men. What??? Where did I blame “other men” for anything? Can you even read? It’s like you are trying very hard to miss the point of everything I’ve said. Are you trolling? Did you get all C’s I’m high school by chance?	/r/MensRights	08/04/23 11:20 PM
0	The patriarchy doesn't exist. Misogyny and misandry do exist. Feminists pretend to be victims to gain power over men. Ok. Let’s just toss out all science and evidence and pretend I’m wrong. What can be done to alleviate the suffering of men? Because my entire first post was focused on the suffering of men in our society, the forces behind that suffering, and the path forward to correct it. And all you jackasses can do is be semantic about the word patriarchy. Men die every day. In war. In the streets. Under untreated addiction. To suicide and untreated trauma. What are YOU doing about it? I’m trying to advocate…	/r/MensRights	08/04/23 10:56 PM
1	The patriarchy doesn't exist. Misogyny and misandry do exist. Feminists pretend to be victims to gain power over men. Men do hold the power. From my first comment (reading comprehension is a privilege too): “…..we men DO suffer a lot under the patriarchy. The pressure, expectations, lack of empathy between ourselves, and ways we are valued; all are to our detriment. The patriarchy is the source of this suffering. The patriarchal society we live in tells us to provide, to protect, to sacrifice, to persevere, and to do all of these things with strength, pride, and unwavering emotional stability. The patriarchy, o…	/r/MensRights	08/04/23 10:29 PM
-2	The patriarchy doesn't exist. Misogyny and misandry do exist. Feminists pretend to be victims to gain power over men. Zero surprises from me that a misogynistic kid uses the R word. Good luck, I hope you grow out of this.	/r/MensRights	08/04/23 09:25 PM
-2	The patriarchy doesn't exist. Misogyny and misandry do exist. Feminists pretend to be victims to gain power over men. You said I suffer from the apex fallacy, with the implication that I’m “evaluating a population based only on its apex, its best members.” And YOU said this, you’re implying that men are our “apex” and “best members”. If you’re going to say dumb stuff, I’m entitled to use your words against you. You implying that men are the apex of our society is not something I agree with The fallacy you believe I’m using is ignorant because I don’t believe men are the best members of society. It’s silly to ju…	/r/MensRights	08/04/23 07:49 PM
-4	The patriarchy doesn't exist. Misogyny and misandry do exist. Feminists pretend to be victims to gain power over men. You’re telling on yourself by labeling men as “apex”. Unlike you, I don’t think men are better or worse than women or any other gender.	/r/MensRights	08/04/23 07:15 PM
-2	So a "helpline" I called, to talk about a woman making up claims of me being abusive on the phone, has barred me after the female person I spoke to... made up claims against me being abusive on the phone. Couldnt make this up. Haha. I know the other guy isn’t your brother you dunce. But your comment and chiming is is related. MRA wants to be taken seriously and everyone here is always so damn stupid. It’s frustrated. Men are suffering every day in our country and the only small movement intended on helping men is loaded with morons and misandrists who are mad at their moms. It’s a shame. I want there to be progress and I advocate for it here, and you’re all more interesting in cutting off your nose to spite your face.	/r/MensRights	08/04/23 07:13 PM
-2	The patriarchy doesn't exist. Misogyny and misandry do exist. Feminists pretend to be victims to gain power over men. Oh, I apologize. I’m not proselytizing a faith based system like you are. I’m speaking from a position of evidence and facts. We live in a society forged by and run by men, with the primary participants always intended to be men. If you’re too delicate to read the word “patriarchy” without seething into rage, we can call it whatever you like. The Patriarchy is as much an argument as climate change. They are facts denied by only the ignorant or those who seek to gain from their dismissal.	/r/MensRights	08/04/23 07:00 PM
-3	So a "helpline" I called, to talk about a woman making up claims of me being abusive on the phone, has barred me after the female person I spoke to... made up claims against me being abusive on the phone. Couldnt make this up. Still not great with words my man. “Unrelated” is another I used to describe OP’s situation.	/r/MensRights	08/04/23 06:57 PM
-2	The patriarchy doesn't exist. Misogyny and misandry do exist. Feminists pretend to be victims to gain power over men. If men don’t have it easier, why do men own everything and hold the highest offices in the land? Are you implying that they are simply better than women?	/r/MensRights	08/04/23 06:36 PM
-8	The patriarchy doesn't exist. Misogyny and misandry do exist. Feminists pretend to be victims to gain power over men. You’re still viewing our society from a juvenile perspective of men vs. women. Women could not own land, vote, initiate divorce, have a bank account, or any number of RIGHTS that men had for decades if not centuries. The claim that they had it better than men throughout history is demonstrably false. You refusing this doesn’t make it less so. I hope you find your way out of your dark position if blaming others and hating women. Good luck.	/r/MensRights	08/04/23 06:35 PM
-2	The patriarchy doesn't exist. Misogyny and misandry do exist. Feminists pretend to be victims to gain power over men. You’re not asking questions in good faith. I replied to the original post, I’m not interested in your smug questions that are ignorant of all academic study on these topics. If you want to learn something, or if you’re advocating for men in some way, please do so. But repeating inane questions in some thinly veiled attempt at a “gotcha!” Isn’t worthwhile. Good luck.	/r/MensRights	08/04/23 06:32 PM
-4	The patriarchy doesn't exist. Misogyny and misandry do exist. Feminists pretend to be victims to gain power over men. “Are you suggesting things we be different if most people in positions of power were women?” Nope. You asked if I was suggesting that. I said I wasn’t. I definitely answered your question. I think any society governed with gender as a majority characteristic is going to be difficult for any gender under it, especially the gender that is not in the majority of positions of influence. It will put undue pressure on the leading gender, and undue disadvantages on the lagging genders.	/r/MensRights	08/04/23 04:04 PM
-9	The patriarchy doesn't exist. Misogyny and misandry do exist. Feminists pretend to be victims to gain power over men. Nope. Dismantling the patriarchy doesn’t mean men will not be in positions of power or influence. The world is not a binary system that must be either patriarchal or matriarchal. We could, and should, live in a society irrespective of gender identity and absent of gender roles.	/r/MensRights	08/04/23 03:57 PM
-13	The patriarchy doesn't exist. Misogyny and misandry do exist. Feminists pretend to be victims to gain power over men. The standard definition in this context: a system of society or government in which men hold the power and women are largely excluded from it. The US constitution and nearly every amendment was written under 100% men (and 100% white). Right now men account for 65% of leadership roles in the US and this number has gone down significantly the last 20 yrs (meaning that until 20 yrs ago, it was an overwhelming majority of men.) Every US President has been a man. The richest people on earth are all m…	/r/MensRights	08/04/23 03:55 PM
-22	The patriarchy doesn't exist. Misogyny and misandry do exist. Feminists pretend to be victims to gain power over men. There’s a lot of data and tangible stats to demonstrate that men have certain advantages over men in our society. Denying it simply makes you, and all of us, look uneducated and unaware of the world. That being said, we men DO suffer a lot under the patriarchy. The pressure, expectations, lack of empathy between ourselves, and ways we are valued; all are to our detriment. The patriarchy is the source of this suffering. The patriarchal society we live in tells us to provide, to protect, to sacrif…	/r/MensRights	08/04/23 02:38 PM
-4	So a "helpline" I called, to talk about a woman making up claims of me being abusive on the phone, has barred me after the female person I spoke to... made up claims against me being abusive on the phone. Couldnt make this up. Do you understand what “multiple unrelated” means? And I’m the idiot?	/r/MensRights	08/04/23 01:09 PM
-9	So a "helpline" I called, to talk about a woman making up claims of me being abusive on the phone, has barred me after the female person I spoke to... made up claims against me being abusive on the phone. Couldnt make this up. If multiple unrelated unmotivated people are claiming that you’re abusive, you’re probably abusive.	/r/MensRights	07/04/23 11:42 PM
1	It seems to be pretty common especially with dating apps, etc that young girls are lying about their age to sleep with older men.. That’s unrelated to this post and my comment. I also don’t think women should be having sex with children. Why are you inclined to let them get away with doing that?	/r/MensRights	06/04/23 12:12 AM
-6	It seems to be pretty common especially with dating apps, etc that young girls are lying about their age to sleep with older men.. Because they’re children. Men shouldn’t be having sex with children, no matter how old the children say they are. What are you going on about? Edit: Do you all expect MRA’s to be taken seriously? You’re advocating for statutory rape with an ignorance defense. This sub is a joke and it appears to be filled with pedophiles.	/r/MensRights	04/04/23 11:47 PM
1	What are you guys thoughts on people who call men privileged? We do possessive some privilege. But men have disadvantages as well. It’s worth asking about details. Race, Sex, economic resources, education resources, familial support, region of origin, Gender Identity, Sexuality, Able-ness, cognitive ability, temperament, age, height, weight, looks; these all offer various levels of privilege and disadvantages. Life is not a contest of suffering. Each of us has our own set of struggles and triumphs.	/r/MensRights	11/01/23 03:40 PM
-1	How come there are so many subreddits helping women be proud of themselves while there isn't a single one encouraging pride in men.(except for this one) I’m an outlier here. These comments essentially answer your question. Any hint of this topic and the violent misogynists come out of the woodwork. Any Reddit group that promotes health behavior in men is quickly inundated and overwhelmed with incels, misogynists, Andrew Tate or Jordan Peterson cultists, and many of those individuals are VERY active, loud, and obnoxious. So if a sub is started with good intentions, it quickly devolves into a cesspool that laments the downfall of society and blame…	/r/MensRights	08/01/23 02:33 PM
-5	“Incels” are not particularly right-wing or white, but they are extremely depressed, anxious, and lonely, according to new research So hire an escort. What’s the problem? That sort of sex won’t scratch the itch you and other incels complain about. And the idea that intercourse will solve any of your problems is entirely incorrect. I’m concerned for young men, it’s why I’m here. I’m concerned with their inability to form lasting romantic relationship; and the entitlement and arrogance that hinders those relationships from forming.	/r/MensRights	13/12/22 05:09 PM
-4	“Incels” are not particularly right-wing or white, but they are extremely depressed, anxious, and lonely, according to new research Because consent exists. You can have sex with yourself at will. You really believe another person should be forced to have sex with you? This is sex you’d enjoy? Neither of those things are healthy. Mental health is important. If you have mental or physical issues that have hindered your ability to find a sexual partner, sexual surrogacy exists. But there is no guarantee or obligation for a sexual surrogate to hand sex with you.	/r/MensRights	13/12/22 04:53 PM
-1	“Incels” are not particularly right-wing or white, but they are extremely depressed, anxious, and lonely, according to new research No. Sex is not a basic need or a right. Jesus, what’s wrong with you?	/r/MensRights	13/12/22 04:37 PM
-5	“Incels” are not particularly right-wing or white, but they are extremely depressed, anxious, and lonely, according to new research You’re talking about human being like they are a currency. There’s nothing socialist about Incel ideology.	/r/MensRights	13/12/22 04:36 PM
1	If you have dodged child support, how did you do it? Why can’t you see your kid?	/r/MensRights	30/11/22 02:16 AM
-3	If you have dodged child support, how did you do it? Don’t be a dirtbag. Take care of your kid.	/r/MensRights	29/11/22 03:13 AM
2	1 in 6 hiring managers have been told to stop hiring White Men, survey finds It’s not “my bs”. I’m a manager of engineers, and I recruit/interview/hire people to fill open positions. I’ve only spoke of my own experience. Our team is 85% white men, myself included. For our open position, im specifically trying to find a candidate who is not a white guy. We have plenty of those, and we don’t need another perspective from more people like us.	/r/MensRights	10/11/22 08:19 PM
2	1 in 6 hiring managers have been told to stop hiring White Men, survey finds I’m not in charge of you or the group you’re in. So it’s impossible for me to answer the question. It sounds like you work in a diverse group, one that might benefit from local talent and local perspective. It’s not my fault you seemingly voluntarily work for a shit company. Find a better one.	/r/MensRights	10/11/22 06:24 PM
0	1 in 6 hiring managers have been told to stop hiring White Men, survey finds I’m an engineer as well, we’re in the US South. That’s up to the hiring manager. We have corporate / HR goals for diversity, but I do not care about them or adhere to them, they are just suggestions after all. What I care about is making our team as good as it can be. And where we are weak is diversity in background and experience. So that’s what I’m looking for, and 9 times out of 10, ANOTHER white guy doesn’t bring enough fresh perspective to make our team better.	/r/MensRights	10/11/22 04:46 PM
-1	1 in 6 hiring managers have been told to stop hiring White Men, survey finds He is a very dark skinned man. He would be perceived as black. Im not sure what you’re upset about. I put black in lower case, is is not a Black American. Which is an entirely different experience/culture/worldview. As a department, we could improve. We don’t need more of the same worldview/perspective. I’ve hired 2 white guys and 1 Hispanic guy the past 12 months, the Hispanic guy left after 6 weeks for reasons unknown. Diverse groups need people of diverse backgrounds and life experiences to s…	/r/MensRights	10/11/22 04:11 PM
-10	1 in 6 hiring managers have been told to stop hiring White Men, survey finds I’m a white man. I work in a department that is 16 white men, 1 black Haitian man, and 1 black man New Zealander (of Indian descent). We have open positions available and I’m actively hiring and recruiting. We do not need another white male perspective in our department. I’m trying to find qualified candidates that are women or minorities or both. This isn’t the “oppression” you’re pretending that it is.	/r/MensRights	10/11/22 02:09 PM
-10	Can men not use all gender bathrooms? I don’t believe this story. It feels like it was written for Fox News and something boomers will tell their family about.	/r/MensRights	06/11/22 05:28 PM
1	I need resources and arguments against the gender pay gap for class tomorrow. Google is hiding articles against it so I’m here panicking, any help please? I went to a very conservative engineering school in the mid west. I didn’t take any courses related to any politics. You’re stuck in a bubble of assumptions and speculation that are simply incorrect about every single point you’ve made. And I literally refuted your point with a a study. The “I think for myself” shtick isn’t the flex you think it is when you’re literally a parrot of the alt-right.	/r/MensRights	29/10/22 05:38 AM
1	I need resources and arguments against the gender pay gap for class tomorrow. Google is hiding articles against it so I’m here panicking, any help please? https://www.acslaw.org/analysis/reports/dark-money/ These courts? You’re lost. College doesn’t make anyone “a proxy for politicians and their globalist agenda”. It educates people, and teaches us how to discern bullshit propaganda from real information. I’ve said zero lies. And even though I believe you think you’re saying the truth, virtually nothing you’ve said is rooted in fact. You’re proudly and arrogantly ignorant. There’s no amount of information or facts thar can convince you of how lost…	/r/MensRights	29/10/22 04:16 AM
1	I need resources and arguments against the gender pay gap for class tomorrow. Google is hiding articles against it so I’m here panicking, any help please? Haha. If you think the police are leftist…god damn dude. How far right are you? You’re literally the top right corner of the political compass. You need to get out and live a little dude. What are you? Like 23? You go to college? You have any friends that are not exactly like you? Have you moved out of your home town? Your parents’ house? I’m happy. My life is wonderful, and I have plenty to offer young men searching for a place in the world. I’m not a nihilist, I’m not confused, and I’m as far …	/r/MensRights	29/10/22 03:07 AM
1	I need resources and arguments against the gender pay gap for class tomorrow. Google is hiding articles against it so I’m here panicking, any help please? Haha, oikophobic? You learn a new word today and want to use it in a sentence? I’m an engineer. I earn a great living, own a home, have a wife and we have 3 kids. She doesn’t even work, we’re very fortunate. Don’t pretend that I’m some down and out jaded loser who selfishly just wants more for himself. Fascism is more than on the rise in the US. It’s here. The GOP advocates for fascist policy daily. There is a fascist motivated news propaganda network poisoning the brains of the worthless boomer…	/r/MensRights	29/10/22 02:27 AM
1	I need resources and arguments against the gender pay gap for class tomorrow. Google is hiding articles against it so I’m here panicking, any help please? “Fascist” isn’t an insult that you just hurl at people you don’t like. Prager runs one of the most prominent alt-right recruiting platforms on the internet. What I’m saying isn’t particularly outstanding or insightful. It’s well known that the far right recruits and indoctrinates mostly-young mostly-white men into the far right mindset. The alt-right is based on fear, misogyny, white supremacy, hyper-capitalism, and an ethno-state of “judeo-Christian values”. It’s precisely what fascism is, and …	/r/MensRights	29/10/22 01:21 AM
0	I need resources and arguments against the gender pay gap for class tomorrow. Google is hiding articles against it so I’m here panicking, any help please? Christina Hoff Sommers is a described as “anti-feminist” by feminists, her co-opting the word doesn’t make it true and she is a propaganda writer for a conservative think tank. Yes. Dennis Prager is a fascist.	/r/MensRights	28/10/22 06:25 PM
0	I need resources and arguments against the gender pay gap for class tomorrow. Google is hiding articles against it so I’m here panicking, any help please? Why would I consume a propaganda piece? It’s not worthy of views or critique. I’m not reading Mein Kampf either, but I know Hitler was wrong.	/r/MensRights	28/10/22 06:24 PM
3	I need resources and arguments against the gender pay gap for class tomorrow. Google is hiding articles against it so I’m here panicking, any help please? An early claim is that the math is wrong because it doesn’t account for occupation. But saying “nurses make less than programmers, so they’re not comparable” isn’t true. Nurses MAY make less because it’s a field dominated by women, and programmers MAY make more because it’s predominantly men. I’m not arguing for or against the wage gap, I think it’s a red herring topic that is multi-faceted and not a math problem. I’m simply saying that PragerU has a clear agenda, and they are flexible with the …	/r/MensRights	28/10/22 06:22 PM
-2	I need resources and arguments against the gender pay gap for class tomorrow. Google is hiding articles against it so I’m here panicking, any help please? PragerU spreads dis-information and presents the far-right position on every topic. It’s racist, hyper-capitalist, and misogynistic. It has every read flag of fascism. The info is cleverly delivered to be “indisputable” to the scientifically illiterate; which is exactly their target demographic. https://harvardpolitics.com/alt-right-pipeline/ It’s discussed a bit here. If you’re indoctrinated to the Prager “University”, there’s not a lot I could say to convince you that it’s misleading.	/r/MensRights	28/10/22 05:03 PM
-3	I need resources and arguments against the gender pay gap for class tomorrow. Google is hiding articles against it so I’m here panicking, any help please? Unfortunately most Men’s Rights “sources” as misogynistic propaganda, created to lure frustrated men into the alt-right pipeline. It’s a large, organized, and concerted effort to foster fascism in the US. There is no motivation for equality or the betterment of men’s lives in these sources, it’s just anger, confirmation bias, and indoctrination.	/r/MensRights	28/10/22 04:45 PM
-9	I need resources and arguments against the gender pay gap for class tomorrow. Google is hiding articles against it so I’m here panicking, any help please? That’s an opinion piece published by a right wing think tank. That’s not a “source”.	/r/MensRights	28/10/22 03:16 PM
-5	I need resources and arguments against the gender pay gap for class tomorrow. Google is hiding articles against it so I’m here panicking, any help please? Prager U is not a “source”. It’s a fascist propaganda channel.	/r/MensRights	28/10/22 03:14 PM
2	Should men teach boys/Men to 'look away' Huh? Men shouldn’t look at women? What do you mean? Where did you hear this?	/r/MensRights	28/10/22 11:47 AM
0	We are fighting a war without any support. I just need to rant. I apologise if that’s not allowed. It’s completely relevant. You’re using words that imply violence, like “war” and “rising”. You believe men are currently under a threat, and you said you think men will respond with violence. And you’ve explained that you think it’s inevitable and feel justified in your belief. It’s like you’re reading from an incel manual but denying it. You can’t see how lost or how wrong you are.	/r/MensRights	19/10/22 10:31 PM
0	We are fighting a war without any support. I just need to rant. I apologise if that’s not allowed. “There will be a rising…” haha. As if you and your incel-vibe nerds are going to change anything by hurting women.	/r/MensRights	19/10/22 10:19 PM
0	We are fighting a war without any support. I just need to rant. I apologise if that’s not allowed. Framing is as a “war” is useless. There is no war on men. Violence won’t help, and the end of your comment here sounds like a threat against women on behalf of men.	/r/MensRights	19/10/22 10:02 PM
1	Is this a safe strategy for a man to have a family with a woman these days? You’re taking many things you’ve read here very literally, when the context implies that they were not literal comparisons. I thought it was obvious that I’m not truly accusing OP of murder.	/r/MensRights	11/10/22 03:57 AM
2	Is this a safe strategy for a man to have a family with a woman these days? Any person who insists on these arbitrary rules will absolutely be single in short order. That’s not how relationships work. Loving, caring, supportive marriages exist. They are wonderful, and I pity anyone who does not have such a marriage. OP as written an advice column and I’d bet money that he has no experience in any of the things of which he speaks.	/r/MensRights	11/10/22 03:15 AM
2	Is this a safe strategy for a man to have a family with a woman these days? You’re really giving OP a lot of leniency with his words. He said to leave your SO immediately when they show any undesirable trait. He said that if all responsibilities are not 50/50 and she doesn’t do her half, leave immediately. OP is a complete coward. Incapable of resolving conflict, zero confidence in his ability to judge the character of his partner, and is planning an escape plan from the mother of his (non-existent) child. It’s unhealthy. It screams “I’m a misogynist and I don’t interac…	/r/MensRights	11/10/22 02:47 AM
3	Is this a safe strategy for a man to have a family with a woman these days? If, for the purpose of procreation; move to Kentucky, don’t marry but have kids, and intend to abandon the mother and file for sole custody immediately when something doesn’t go your way; you’re a psychopath. The dunce who wrote this list does not have children, nor are they in a loving relationship. It’s apparent by just how out of touch with humanity it is. Its the type of thing you’d find on an incel’s tumbler after they killed a woman who rejected them. It’s sick dude.	/r/MensRights	11/10/22 02:18 AM
-5	Is this a safe strategy for a man to have a family with a woman these days? The list OP created is straight up serial killer shit. Any man writing that has nothing to worry about, because there’s no chance any person is interested in being in a relationship with them.	/r/MensRights	11/10/22 01:51 AM
-6	Is this a safe strategy for a man to have a family with a woman these days? It’s just wild to think that you need to “protect” yourself if you’re having a family. It’s such a cold, selfish, and negative outlook. If you’re so overwhelmed with paranoia and distrust in people that you’re strategizing to minimize your financial loss if a relationship fails, you should work on yourself before bringing a person into the world. These types of posts are why MRA’s get no respect. It’s a bizarre, negative, and absolutely moronic worldview that helps no man.	/r/MensRights	11/10/22 12:51 AM
-8	Is this a safe strategy for a man to have a family with a woman these days? What’s wrong with this sub? What kind of post is this? Edit: To answer your question OP, if you hate and distrust women at such a degree that you believe these measures are necessary; you should spare any woman from interacting with you. I’m a man, I’ve been married twice, I have 3 kids now. You’re ignorant of relationships and love, and you’re looking at this through a cold hard lens of self preservation. Being vulnerable isn’t weakness.	/r/MensRights	10/10/22 08:34 PM
-21	What stops any random woman from accusing any random male acquaintance of like sexual assault? A man raping his friend is significantly more likely than a woman making a false rape accusation. This is only something internet dweebs concern themselves with. Men have serious issues we all face. This is not one of them.	/r/MensRights	10/10/22 12:39 PM
7	should men Cry? I’m a dad, husband, and brother. I earn a good living as an engineer, played college football, and I’ve had the privilege to travel a bit as an a adult throughout the US and abroad. Pixar movies make me cry. My kids (3 girls) accomplishing something makes me cry. Me retelling heartfelt stories from books or movies I love make me cry. I’m all man baby.	/r/MensRights	09/10/22 02:01 PM
1	What’s wrong with MGTOW? I’ve never seen this claim. WGTOW is a popular sub. Who said this?	/r/MensRights	08/10/22 11:33 PM
0	Help this feminist understand. Great post. I’m a man, a father, a husband, an advocate for men’s rights, and I’m also a feminist. As you said, feminism is loosely defined. It means different things to different people. So I don’t think such a vague movement and overall sentiment can “go wrong”. Feminism has struggled to unify under some sort of code or mission, because it has no organization or leadership. Many men or women may claim to be leaders of feminism, but they hold no authority or recognition. And many people who wri…	/r/MensRights	06/10/22 05:02 PM
9	Speculation: Why is Tom Brady's wife filing for divorce NOW? Uh…she’s more wealthy than him. She probably left him because he’s a narcissist and looks like he eats 1 almond a day.	/r/MensRights	05/10/22 07:06 PM
0	What are you guys' thoughts on Jordan Peterson? JP has always been creepy and weird to me. I attended a prestigious school, have a degree in electrical engineering, my first wife is a medical doctor. I’ve been around plenty of very smart and intellectual people. JP seems like the type of dork that speaks in a weird way and used words in a way to try and look smart. I’m not fooled by it. He’s a grifter, appealing to mostly uneducated white men by using dog whistles and confirmation bias to make them feel like he’s their leader. I think guys li…	/r/MensRights	30/09/22 06:38 PM
-6	What are all the ways feminists in power have harmed men? What feminist is in power?	/r/MensRights	07/09/22 06:24 PM
6	Why don’t we delete Twitter for deleting Dr. Peterson’s tweet and suspending his account I thought JP was a champion of free speech? I thought he admonished the weak liberal agenda? Now he’s a big fucking crybaby who is reaping the fruit of what he’s sowed. His grift is over. Thank god for that.	/r/MensRights	07/09/22 02:49 PM
0	Don’t Worry Darling: Olivia Wilde says Jordan Peterson is a “hero to the incel community” No one is silencing anyone.	/r/MensRights	03/09/22 01:42 PM
1	Don’t Worry Darling: Olivia Wilde says Jordan Peterson is a “hero to the incel community” What has he said that ring true to you?	/r/MensRights	03/09/22 10:14 AM
-2	Don’t Worry Darling: Olivia Wilde says Jordan Peterson is a “hero to the incel community” You don’t think incels love JP? And the misogyny he represents?	/r/MensRights	03/09/22 10:10 AM
-1	Don’t Worry Darling: Olivia Wilde says Jordan Peterson is a “hero to the incel community” So you’re defending incels because they haven’t killed that many people? I don’t understand your point.	/r/MensRights	03/09/22 10:09 AM
-7	Don’t Worry Darling: Olivia Wilde says Jordan Peterson is a “hero to the incel community” Incels are not Volcels. That’s an entirely different situation. Being asexual or having a low libido is fine. That’s not what we’re talking about. If you’re not an incel, what’s the problem? Or do you just really like Elliot Rodger?	/r/MensRights	03/09/22 02:38 AM
-15	Don’t Worry Darling: Olivia Wilde says Jordan Peterson is a “hero to the incel community” Imagine defending incels. Since they shut down r/braincels , this sub has devolved to be filled with anti-feminism hate speech and oblivious ignorance.	/r/MensRights	03/09/22 12:29 AM
-16	Don’t Worry Darling: Olivia Wilde says Jordan Peterson is a “hero to the incel community” Incels are responsible for more than a few mass murders. They’re not poor helpless victims, they’re creepy entitled violent weirdos.	/r/MensRights	02/09/22 11:19 PM
-5	Don’t Worry Darling: Olivia Wilde says Jordan Peterson is a “hero to the incel community” He is though.	/r/MensRights	02/09/22 11:18 PM
-1	Feminist logic: I care about Men’s Rights. I’m a man, our experiences have plenty of challenges specific to our gender. But the constant feminism-bashing and blatantly ignorant comments/perspectives holds us back.	/r/MensRights	01/09/22 08:23 PM
-7	Feminist logic: You’re creating a bunch of straw man arguments or willfully misunderstanding the position many women have on these topics. What you’ve is so stupid and so wrong on all accounts, I’m concerned that you’re trolling to make Men’s Rights look ignorant. Unfortunately I think you may be honest in your ignorance, which is actually worse. Men’s rights will never progress or be anything other than a laughing stock until people like you make the smallest attempt to educate yourself on gender roles, the pa…	/r/MensRights	01/09/22 03:35 PM
1	Women are more likely to cheat than men Monogamy sucks.	/r/MensRights	24/08/22 09:51 PM
-30	All women that said "no uterus, no opinion" and are now begging for mens support on abortion can go shove it. Can you turds stop with your vindictive and childish “hot takes” on Roe vs. Wade. Diminishing reproductive rights hurts men. And the doors been opened to limit the rights of the LBBTQ+ community as well as access to contraceptives. None of these things benefit anyone other than wealthy straight married older cis men.	/r/MensRights	25/06/22 11:11 AM
-1	My coworkers wife left him, after he sustained a brain injury at work. No one seems to have reacted. I can't help but feel if the man left his wife, after she had a brain injury, society would ridicule him. Did I thoroughly read a 60 page study? No, and neither did you. I did read a good bit of it, and even looked for the gender specific points and couldn’t find them; as they were not the focus or the point of the study. Please direct me to the part where it says there’s no disparity. I searched for men, women, and gender and came up with nothing. I didn’t “derive my worldview” from anything you loser. I presented information that contrasts OPs lame ass anecdote. You’re a boring person. Thanks for …	/r/MensRights	01/06/22 03:42 PM
0	My coworkers wife left him, after he sustained a brain injury at work. No one seems to have reacted. I can't help but feel if the man left his wife, after she had a brain injury, society would ridicule him. What’s your point? A few million samples prove that divorce rates slightly decrease with a cancer diagnosis? What does that have to do with what o said? Or what OP said? Your link said nothing I could find about the disparity of genders. Except that cervical cancer caused an increased rate of divorce, which actually supports my study.	/r/MensRights	01/06/22 03:13 PM
-2	My coworkers wife left him, after he sustained a brain injury at work. No one seems to have reacted. I can't help but feel if the man left his wife, after she had a brain injury, society would ridicule him. 2009 is old? 500 patients is a “small” study? Whatever confirms your bias I suppose, but I disagree on both points. And the study you linked has absolutely nothing to do with my point or OP’s point, and refutes absolutely nothing.	/r/MensRights	01/06/22 03:06 PM
-2	My coworkers wife left him, after he sustained a brain injury at work. No one seems to have reacted. I can't help but feel if the man left his wife, after she had a brain injury, society would ridicule him. https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2009/11/091110105401.htm The opposite is typically true. “A woman is six times more likely to be separated or divorced soon after a diagnosis of cancer or multiple sclerosis than if a man in the relationship is the patient”	/r/MensRights	31/05/22 04:54 PM
3	Is no one else annoyed by the Nude scene in the Thor "Love and Thunder" Trailer and the blatant double standards and hypocrisy it represents ? He’s funny and makes great stuff. What are you mad about?	/r/MensRights	25/05/22 04:01 AM
-1	What are your thoughts around this? ‘Jordan Peterson sparks outrage after declaring plus-size model 'not beautiful'’ By listening to the things he says. He doesn’t claim any of those descriptors, those are my words. He says a lot of things that are dog-whistles for Christian-white supremacy, misogyny, and racism. He wants to be a cult leader, has a history of drug abuse, and generally just makes up the things he says in regard to his social commentary.	/r/MensRights	20/05/22 12:38 PM
-2	What are your thoughts around this? ‘Jordan Peterson sparks outrage after declaring plus-size model 'not beautiful'’ JP is a white supremacy misogynistic grifter. So if this tantrum of his spares the world his voice, great.	/r/MensRights	20/05/22 12:31 PM
0	Can we agree all genders have issues that need solving? Well you may not know, but the US doesn’t have a single elected official at the federal level that identifies as a feminist. Our last 2 presidents have had legitimate sexual assault claims against them, both with a history of long documented history of misogyny. US politics are very far right, we just passed some legislation that will likely make abortion illegal in 1/3 of the country or more. Several very conservative states are trying to outlaw birth control. We are controlled by Christian’s t…	/r/MensRights	11/05/22 02:58 AM
0	Can we agree all genders have issues that need solving? I’m a little left of center on the political compass. I’m a “radical leftist” by US standards. Your ignorance of politics isn’t really your fault, the us education system is woefully inept at political education by design.	/r/MensRights	11/05/22 01:15 AM
-2	Can we agree all genders have issues that need solving? What’s a “modern feminist organization”? Feminism isn’t a club or a political party. It’s a set of ideals based upon equality. This constant framing of feminism as a political party that’s running on a specific platform or oppressing men is absurdly ignorant at best, and willfully misrepresentative at worst. This is just a circle jerk of hating feminists and women who advocate for equality. You all cite these edge cases or antiquated lawsuits as the rule of the law. Do men have struggles specifi…	/r/MensRights	11/05/22 01:14 AM
-4	Can we agree all genders have issues that need solving? You think feminism is the “authoritarian dogma”? In the US, a significant portion of the population are fascists. The “left” is a Conservative party that serves corporations. There is no feminist representation or discussion at any level in the US government. But there are dozens of blatant misogynists passing laws that limit the rights of women. The “feminism is ruining our culture!” Claims are pretty weak in our current environment.	/r/MensRights	11/05/22 01:05 AM
-5	Can we agree all genders have issues that need solving? So you decide what it is? And I do not?	/r/MensRights	10/05/22 11:14 PM
-16	Can we agree all genders have issues that need solving? There is no mainstream feminism. Feminism is demonized across the spectrum. Pretending to be enlightened while parroting conservative misogynistic views isn’t as edgy as you think it is.	/r/MensRights	10/05/22 11:13 PM
-32	Can we agree all genders have issues that need solving? Misrepresenting feminism is about half of the posts on this sub. I’m a man and I care about Men’s Rights, I’m also a feminist. They really have no idea what feminism is, and have no desire to learn.	/r/MensRights	10/05/22 08:58 PM
1	Incels aren't to be laughed at – they're only going to get more dangerous Or maybe they’re just entitled little nerds who are mad that no one likes them. And instead of some introspection and actual self improvement, they blame women.	/r/MensRights	26/04/22 08:50 PM
-1	Incels aren't to be laughed at – they're only going to get more dangerous Technically it stands for “involuntary celibate”. Meaning a person who is celibate because of circumstances rather than choice. But “incel” as a descriptor is much more than that. There are online communities, and an entire subculture of incels who exist in a destructive cycle of “support”. They have their own lexicon that demeans nearly everyone except other incels (Chad, Stacy, foids, normies, etc). They often celebrate mass murderer Elliot Rodger. They often subscribe to “red pill” and “black…	/r/MensRights	26/04/22 07:53 PM
-1	Incels aren't to be laughed at – they're only going to get more dangerous You’re inability to understand what creates incels has nothing to do with feminism or men’s rights. Incels, the subculture that these men subscribe to, is violent hyper-misogyny. They hate women, they hate most men, they hate themselves. They focus on the patriarchal physical definition of a “man” (jawline, muscles, Dick size, wrist size (lol), height, etc etc) and claim they will never meet this standard. Incels need help, they need to be de-radicalized. Their belief system is extremely patriar…	/r/MensRights	26/04/22 01:56 PM
-1	Incels aren't to be laughed at – they're only going to get more dangerous Huh? Incels are hyper-misogynists who subscribe to patriarchal ideals in regard to women. Exactly zero feminist men are incels. Incels are a direct result of the patriarchy in every way.	/r/MensRights	26/04/22 01:47 PM
1	[Srs] Can someone explain how exactly to get consent to sexual activity? I don’t consider myself an MRA. I appreciate that this sub allows discourse. If I can warm a single young man of the dangers of the typical MRA mindset, and deter him from the alt-right pipeline; it’s been worth it. Men have a lot of issues we face that are near and dear to my heart, I do care about those issues and advocate for better equality for everyone.	/r/MensRights	22/04/22 05:21 PM
-3	[Srs] Can someone explain how exactly to get consent to sexual activity? I’m not sure I understand your question. Simply ask for consent for any action. “Can I kiss you” is less attractive than “I’m going to kiss you now, is that ok?” And only do so if you receive enthusiastic consent. A positive yes or head knod would be enthusiastic, a lukewarm “I guess” or “if you want” is not enthusiastic. You’re framing this situation as a protection of yourself. Which I understand, but do not agree with. Consent isn’t about protecting yourself, it’s about respecting the rights …	/r/MensRights	21/04/22 01:27 PM
72	Warning to feminists on this sub I’m a feminist and banned from pretty much every social or political sub. I’m grateful that r/MensRights allows civil discourse.	/r/MensRights	20/04/22 01:20 PM
0	Question about feminist men Feminism isn’t a club or ideology, it has no dogma or leaders. I’ve been consuming feminist ideas and listening to the perspectives of women for more than a decade and I couldn’t tell you a single name of a prominent feminist. To me, and what I’ve seen of it, feminism is just a set of values that ring true with me and help me understand the world. So to answer your question; it’s not something that can be exclusive or inclusive, any more than a life philosophy can be. So it’s perfectly applicabl…	/r/MensRights	20/04/22 01:19 PM
-3	Question about feminist men I don’t define it. It has a definition that exists. Our country (the US, and really all of civilization) is and always has been a patriarchy. Our country was founded by men, our borders and laws defined by men, our leadership/legislatures/governors were exclusively men for ~200 yrs and are overwhelmingly men the remaining 50 yrs. Today men hold the majority in nearly every level of government (cops, sheriffs, jail admins, judges, lawyers, and all elected leaders/public servants are held by a mal…	/r/MensRights	20/04/22 04:38 AM
1	Question about feminist men What feminist politicians are there in the US?	/r/MensRights	19/04/22 01:41 PM
-2	Question about feminist men Your post is very condescending. I’m a 39 yr old white man. I grew up below the poverty line but wasn’t starved or abuse, a little neglected in hindsight but nothing too traumatic. I’m fortunate to have a sharp mind that’s capable both intellectually and emotionally, which I’ve worked hard to take full advantage of as an electrical engineer in customer facing roles. I’m a feminist. Not because of any of the condescending reasons you’ve implied here. I was not abused by men, I do not hate men at …	/r/MensRights	19/04/22 01:40 PM
3	What do you think of the redpill and the blackpill? They are both creepy and give men a bad name. They’re also the worst possible generalization of men and women.	/r/MensRights	19/04/22 11:41 AM
-2	Society doesn’t care about men’s issues, it just wants men to become ‘better men’ when criticising masculinity You talk about men and society as if we are entirely separate groups at odds with one another. I don’t understand what you’re saying or your perspective, at all. I’m a 39 yr old man that’s lived in the US my entire life, and as an adult in the Indiana, Iowa, South Florida, California, and Georgia. I don’t see this disrespect or admonishment of men that of often read about here at r/MensRights. And when I ask for examples, I’m without fail, provided at best vague hypotheticals. I’m a man. I have …	/r/MensRights	15/04/22 08:07 PM
-1	Society doesn’t care about men’s issues, it just wants men to become ‘better men’ when criticising masculinity I think it’s fair to criticize people who don’t know when violence is appropriate or not. You’re example presents men as infants who don’t know right from wrong.	/r/MensRights	15/04/22 06:25 PM
-1	Society doesn’t care about men’s issues, it just wants men to become ‘better men’ when criticising masculinity What? Masculinity is a huge collection of characteristics, actions, and ideas that not defined well. I just want to know what OP is being criticized for. Providing for a family. That’s masculine, and it’s put on a pedestal by all. Violence is often defined as masculine (albeit toxic), which is adequately criticized. There are hundreds of examples, both ways. I just asked for 1. But OP, like do many people posting here, love to generally be the victim of some perceived oppression, and often canno…	/r/MensRights	15/04/22 05:21 PM
-2	Society doesn’t care about men’s issues, it just wants men to become ‘better men’ when criticising masculinity I see masculinity celebrated every day. I’m not sure what you mean. I’m happy with myself and my family, I feel masculine and secure in myself. The things I do are supported and reinforced by our society. Rather than saying masculinity is being criticized, it’s worth examine specific parts that are being criticized.	/r/MensRights	15/04/22 01:19 PM
-4	Is Reddit the right place for a men's rights forum? I’m a feminist, I’m also a 39 yr old married man with kids. I think men have plenty of issues that are specific to men. I want to advocate for men who suffer under the undue pressure and unfair treatment we sometimes get from society. But most of the men here deny the existence of the patriarchy, believe feminism is a women’s supremacy movement, and are blatant misogynists who deny how much they hate women who don’t fit into their subservient white Christian worldview. It’s a bummer, but I comme…	/r/MensRights	12/04/22 02:03 AM
2	Is Reddit the right place for a men's rights forum? Oh, gotcha. Yes, I agree. The “they’re censoring us!” Claim is always met with silence when I ask for examples.	/r/MensRights	12/04/22 12:10 AM
2	Is Reddit the right place for a men's rights forum? Subs exist for all sorts of diverse content. I’m not sure what you mean.	/r/MensRights	11/04/22 11:46 PM
2	Is Reddit the right place for a men's rights forum? What’s censored that you think should not be censored? The individual subs are moderates as they see fit. Reddit isn’t censoring very much.	/r/MensRights	11/04/22 05:51 PM
0	Thoughts on Jordan Peterson ? I agree. Jordan Peterson peddles misogynist and Christian centric white supremacy. His love affair with “western civilization” and the “nuclear family” are dog whistles for the things I’ve mentioned. He’s a grifter and he’s selling propaganda. He’s a conduit for the alt-right pipeline and attempts to radicalize young men.	/r/MensRights	09/04/22 02:06 PM
2	The Fact That " You Should Smile More " Is Seen As Oppression In Feminist Circles Is Ridiculous “Smile more!” And “Man up!” Are equivalent micro-aggressions stemming from antiquated patriarchal notions that women should be pleasant/pretty/subdued and men, conversely, should be stoic/resilient/tolerant of oppression. Both things suck, both are gender specific problems.	/r/MensRights	01/04/22 04:35 PM
6	does modern feminism enable women to be irresponsible and lazy Another “hot take” that has nothing to do with men’s rights.	/r/MensRights	01/04/22 11:58 AM
1	why don't more women and feminists support men's rights I literally told you how to find the information I’m talking about. I’m not writing a technical paper ya nerd.	/r/MensRights	01/04/22 11:57 AM
1	why don't more women and feminists support men's rights Google the “alt-right pipeline”. Or see the sources I linked above.	/r/MensRights	01/04/22 04:37 AM
1	why don't more women and feminists support men's rights So the women in your life know they must adhere to your personal definition of feminism? Because it’s literally “the advocacy for women’s rights on the basis of the equality of the sexes”.	/r/MensRights	31/03/22 08:11 PM
1	why don't more women and feminists support men's rights The path to fascism is clear. Men’s Rights -> Alt-Right -> White Supremacy It’s well documented.	/r/MensRights	31/03/22 07:44 PM
0	why don't more women and feminists support men's rights So if these things cannot exist together, as an MRA, do you NOT support equality? Do you think this is a game where it’s men vs women? Do women in your life know that vehemently hate feminists? That you loathe the thought of women advocating for women’s equality?	/r/MensRights	31/03/22 07:26 PM
0	why don't more women and feminists support men's rights Feminism and men’s rights are separate issues. I don’t support men’s rights because I’m a feminist, I support men’s rights and I’m a feminist. I’m a man. Of course I care about the social/political/economic challenges that men face. I advocate for laws/candidates/ideas that diminish the disadvantages men face. I do the same for women. For a bunch of people who proclaim yo want equality, it sounds an awful lot like you want to live in a patriarchy.	/r/MensRights	31/03/22 07:06 PM
2	why don't more women and feminists support men's rights So original. I’m sure you’re terrified of the impending feminist new world order; but most countries and literally every single military on earth are controlled entirely by men. So rest easy there buddy. Good luck with this fictitious war of which you’re such a huge victim.	/r/MensRights	31/03/22 05:39 PM
-1	why don't more women and feminists support men's rights And MRA’s have murdered sorority girls, and justified rape. What’s your point? MRA’s are quick to point out that extremists don’t represent them, but somehow the most extreme possible radical feminists represent all of feminism. Meanwhile feminists only talk about these things, and MRA’s have actually murdered women. Your entire position is the typical disingenuous argument that’s just misogyny cloaked in “well some feminists want to hurt men, so they are all satan”	/r/MensRights	31/03/22 04:16 PM
-6	why don't more women and feminists support men's rights See. Even your own post isn’t done in good faith. The venom you spit toward feminists at every turn, like most men here, just feels like thinly veiled misogyny. You just equated a feminist talking head to a violent dictator responsible for millions of deaths. You’re ignorant of feminism and you’re pretending that you hate it, because you hate women that don’t fit into your worldview.	/r/MensRights	31/03/22 02:24 PM
-6	why don't more women and feminists support men's rights I’m a feminist, I support mens rights. A good portion of the posts on r/MenRights are men complaining about or demonizing women and feminists. By your logic, MRA’s should also be feminists, right? As a man that is a feminist, I’ve been called all sorts of juvenile names, ridiculed, and blamed for nearly every problem society faces by MRA’s here. Despite this, I do absolutely support men’s rights and want men and the world at large to care more about the suffering and challenges men uniquely face…	/r/MensRights	31/03/22 12:38 PM
3	My father finally paid over 12 grand in child support.. I’m 21 years old now, is there any way I can access that money? I’m in IOWA. My mother hasn’t supported me for over 6 years and Is now a alcoholic.. I’d rather her not have access to 12grand that is supposed to go to the child. My mom kept saying “well I have debt from when he didn’t pay child support” which was from 1988 to 1990. He paid child support from 1990 to 2006. I started college in 2001.	/r/MensRights	28/03/22 02:00 PM
16	My father finally paid over 12 grand in child support.. I’m 21 years old now, is there any way I can access that money? I’m in IOWA. My mother hasn’t supported me for over 6 years and Is now a alcoholic.. I’d rather her not have access to 12grand that is supposed to go to the child. My father paid child support for the 5 yrs I was in college. Neither parent supported me financially while I was in school, I lived on about $60-$100/wk for everything while in school, and as I got older was able to save a little working over the summer. My mom wasted every cent on Diet Coke and cigarettes. So gd frustrating.	/r/MensRights	28/03/22 01:48 PM
3	If a man agrees with the principle of "put women on lifeboats ahead of men", in what way is this not internalized misandry? It is misandry. The patriarchy promotes the loss of men’s life, over the lives of women and children. It punishes men, it infantilizes women, and it has no place in an equitable society. It’s also a patriarchal “bravery” or “chivalry” notion.	/r/MensRights	22/03/22 02:42 PM
-1	I think I've figured out Male Feminists I don’t think everyone here is an incel. But I think a lot of Incels frequent here to reinforce their misogyny.	/r/MensRights	21/03/22 11:43 PM
-3	I think I've figured out Male Feminists I’m a male feminist. I love myself, I’m happy to be a man. I have a great relationship with my wife, children, and family. I’m an engineering manager, I played college football, I grew up poor in a rural area, and have lived extensively in a few big cities. I’ve had direct reports that are men and women both US born and immigrants of a handful of racial and ethnic backgrounds. I also advocate for men’s rights because men face a lot of challenges in our country (and the world at large) that are m…	/r/MensRights	21/03/22 10:58 PM
1	I think I've figured out Male Feminists Great post about Men’s Rights.	/r/MensRights	21/03/22 07:50 PM
-1	It is acceptable by society for a woman to say "I'm proud to be a woman!", but it is not particularly acceptable (or at best, favorable) for a man to say "I'm proud to be a man!" What about being a man makes you proud? If you’re proud of what you’ve accomplished or done, no one would admonish you for this. If you’re proud that you’re a man because you’re not a woman….we’ll they’d be right to say you’re sexist. It’s all about context and what’s motivated your statement. “All lives matter” is not a belief that all lives are important. It’s a counter-point to the statement “black lives matter”. ALM is a position held almost exclusively by racists who get upset when the blac…	/r/MensRights	20/03/22 01:48 PM
10	What is the biggest issue facing men in America in your opinion ? The number of broken men spit out by the military is a travesty. The US military and its violent imperialism is one of the worst things to happen to both the US and world at large.	/r/MensRights	18/03/22 07:33 PM
-4	Why is the extreme inequality of conscription rarely talked about? Death is inevitable. An overwhelming majority of men have not been drafted and never will be drafted. It’s like saying a disease that hasn’t existed in 40 yrs is a non-factor. Because it is inconsequential to anyone alive and is unlikely to ever appear again.	/r/MensRights	18/03/22 01:55 PM
-12	Why is the extreme inequality of conscription rarely talked about? I’m the US, the draft hasn’t been used in over 40 yrs. It’s not talked about because it’s a non-factor in the life of everyone under the age of 60.	/r/MensRights	18/03/22 12:11 PM
-4	How do you raise boys in this toxic culture? None of that has anything to do with the claim that society tells boys to be ashamed of being a boy.	/r/MensRights	18/03/22 04:21 AM
-8	How do you raise boys in this toxic culture? The “I’m going to be a victim, I just know, so I’m going to cry about it preemptively” thing that’s popular on this sub is frustrating. And OP implied that “ashamed of being boys” is prevalent in our culture. It’s absolutely not. It’s a fabricated martyrdom. Men face real and serious issues. This absolutely isn’t one.	/r/MensRights	18/03/22 01:41 AM
-16	How do you raise boys in this toxic culture? I’m a 39 yr old man and for not a single moment of my life have I been told, implicitly or explicitly, that I should be ashamed of being a boy. Wtf are you going on about?	/r/MensRights	17/03/22 10:46 PM
1	Saudi Arabia has executed 81 men over the past 24 hours. Every single headline says "81 people executed", not men. It’s oppression for that individual. But this isn’t a subreddit for indivisible liberties, I guess I wrongly assumed the implication is that it’s an example of men being oppressed. Not just an isolated case of oppression a few men faced, if so, why this sub? Because if men as a group are oppressed victims, as OP implies, it’s worth looking into how and why the system that governs them has oppressed them. But we instantly see that the government and rulers of SA are 100% men. So…maybe there is ob…	/r/MensRights	14/03/22 07:55 PM
1	Saudi Arabia has executed 81 men over the past 24 hours. Every single headline says "81 people executed", not men. No, I’m not racist and I don’t misrepresent stats, so “black on black” crime isn’t relevant to me. Of course men can be victims. But this is not an example of oppression if we can assume that most men are not executed in SA. You really don’t think the gender of those in power in SA is relevant? But you DO think the gender of the victims is relevant? Don’t you see how that’s logically inconsistent?	/r/MensRights	14/03/22 04:16 PM
1	Saudi Arabia has executed 81 men over the past 24 hours. Every single headline says "81 people executed", not men. Haha. What a bizarre thing to lie about? What am I scamming here, downvotes?	/r/MensRights	13/03/22 10:26 PM
-8	Saudi Arabia has executed 81 men over the past 24 hours. Every single headline says "81 people executed", not men. I’m a white man in the US. I have a healthy relationships with myself and the people I love. I care a lot about men’s rights and the struggles specific to men in our society, some of those things impact me personally but fortunately many do not. I’ll still advocate for those men. The system that allows so many men’s lives to be discarded frivolously is a system I’ll oppose. The men of this sub love to bitch and moan about the men’s victimhood but vehemently oppose any changes to the power struct…	/r/MensRights	13/03/22 10:09 PM
-11	Saudi Arabia has executed 81 men over the past 24 hours. Every single headline says "81 people executed", not men. It seems disingenuous to lament the victims as men while ignoring to social and governmental constructs that had the men executed. Yes, the men here are victims. Their gender is likely relevant. But the system that persecuted them is super patriarchal, so this fact is also relevant.	/r/MensRights	13/03/22 07:29 PM
-24	Saudi Arabia has executed 81 men over the past 24 hours. Every single headline says "81 people executed", not men. Saudi Arabian men execute 81 men in Saudi Arabia. If gender is relevant here, the gender of both the victims and perpetrators is important. Saudi Arabia is also hyper-misogynistic. Run and governored entirely by men. We (men) truly are our own worst enemies.	/r/MensRights	13/03/22 06:25 PM
1	hey guys should I give a chance to a girl who had rejected me previously? Are you ok? You’re ramblings read like a person who is unwell. I hope you seek out some help. Good luck.	/r/MensRights	11/03/22 02:18 PM
1	hey guys should I give a chance to a girl who had rejected me previously? If your conversations with women are as coherent as what you just said to me, I 100% believe the “major turn off and awkward” part of your little story. Relax you little nerd. She’s just being nice, you’re being a jerk. If you didn’t want honest feedback, go to a safe space that will coddle you.	/r/MensRights	11/03/22 02:05 PM
1	hey guys should I give a chance to a girl who had rejected me previously? You were a loser, she wasn’t interested. She thinks you’re no longer a loser, now she’s interested. You called her a bitch because you were insecure then and you’re insecure now. Did I miss something? Do her a favor and don’t contact her. This isn’t r/FreeCompliments. You’re not being nice at all and deserved ti be called out for it. Grow up.	/r/MensRights	11/03/22 01:15 PM
1	Will mens rights ever become mainstream like feminism? You didn’t ask me a question. You asked me to present evidence that supports claims you’ve made. Your words indicate that you believe men to be superior to women. When you believe that, of course you fight against equality.	/r/MensRights	10/03/22 10:04 PM
0	Which gender has it harder? Change my mind: It's harder to be a man than a woman What social structures exist that make being a man difficult. It’s not women, imo.	/r/MensRights	10/03/22 05:42 PM
0	Will mens rights ever become mainstream like feminism? Why is it my responsibility to educate you on these things. I starting asking these questions 10+ yrs ago and sought the answers. I also don’t believe you’re asking these questions in good faith. And even if I did answer inane questions, you’d just try to spin things to “prove” me wrong. I’m not interesting in arguing with you.	/r/MensRights	10/03/22 05:14 PM
1	Will mens rights ever become mainstream like feminism? You’re allowing a few recent fringe extremists to define a movement that spans 100+ yrs and has liberated women from a place of social and economic powerlessness. You’re wrong. I’m a feminist and I do none of those things, and believe none of those things. What you don’t seem to understand is that your position is itself a misogynistic one. It’s no different than a racist saying “BLM only wants to destroy private property and cause chaos” because a 1/2 dozen protestors did that during a BLM even…	/r/MensRights	10/03/22 12:31 PM
-1	Will mens rights ever become mainstream like feminism? Well you just equated women seeking equality with bigots. So there that. The intellectually dishonest misrepresentation of feminism on this sub is exactly why Men Rights will likely never be taken seriously. It’s a bizarre situation where the people supposedly advocating for men’s rights loath the group (feminists) that’s attempting to tear down the system (patriarchy) that is the source of essentially every issue men face. I advocate for men’s rights, I’m a man, I love myself, and I’m also a fe…	/r/MensRights	10/03/22 04:50 AM
-4	Will mens rights ever become mainstream like feminism? Well most here deny the existence of the patriarchy. Mens Rights is convoluted, and it’s a mix of men who want to address the issues men face, and straight up anti-feminism misogynists. These two groups are starkly divided, and see the other as the source of their problems.	/r/MensRights	09/03/22 07:17 PM
1	Why cant I as a man, talk about the struggles that me and other men go through, without tiktok canceling me? Why are divorce rates bad for men? I’m a man, my divorce was great. You’re upset that women have high standards? In relation to what or who? I see plenty of scummy men and women in relationships, they found love. What’s your problem? False rape and sexual assault, is that a big concern? Has this ever happened to you? It’s never happened to me. It’s never happened to any man I know. I do know a couple women who were raped though, and I’m sure I know many who haven’t told me. Why can’t men follow …	/r/MensRights	07/03/22 06:45 PM
15	I heard a feminist say that war is a feminist issue, after a woman died. HRC never met a war she didn’t like.	/r/MensRights	25/02/22 12:29 PM
1	I don't understand this. Can someone explain it to me? Longer Sentences: The courts respect men, they judge men harshly and view the actions of men as those of an individual who acts on his own accord. It’s unfair and it hurts men when extenuating circumstances are not often considered. Similarly, the justice system system has little respect for women. It infantilizes them, and treats them as a product of society, NOT as respected individuals who act on their own accord. Women are viewed as weak of mind and action, viewed as lesser, and viewed as ch…	/r/MensRights	26/01/22 04:11 PM
1	The use of the phrase 'Toxic Masculinity' is in and of itself toxic “Masculinity” is not a synonym for “all men”.	/r/MensRights	20/01/22 02:32 PM
-4	Comically cruel Is the Bing-Bong Scene from Inside Out an acceptable cry scenario?	/r/MensRights	11/01/22 09:24 PM
0	The word that doesn't fit I said that if a person succeeds, they are more likely to be a man. That’s very different than what you keep saying what I said. You’re twisting my words to fit your own ignorant definition of patriarchy. Women exist in, support, and often benefit from the patriarchy. Many women oppose feminism, their lives are comfortable and blessed, why would they change? They don’t want equality any more than you do, the system serves them well in their position of privilege. The police and military represen…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	08/01/22 01:35 PM
1	The word that doesn't fit “73% of Congress is men. That’s the lowest number ever. 96% of Supreme Court justices have been men. 91.9% of Fortune 500 CEOs are men. 81% of US military officers are men 84% of US enlisted soldiers are men 87.4% of all police officers are men Men are 64%, 85%, 80%, and 75% of judges in the appeals, third circuit, eight circuit, and tenth circuit courts; respectively. 88.1% of billionaires are men 55% of millionaires are men” Did you miss that part?	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	08/01/22 02:23 AM
1	The word that doesn't fit So, if essentially every position of power is held by men, how did they attain this power? Do you believe that men are inherently better than women? That women are not in these positions of power because…what exactly? If the system was setup, as you say, to the detriment of men, how have so many men ascended the strata of society to be in control? Are these men simply better than every woman they’ve passed along the way? You really don’t believe our society has given these men an advantage? Sinc…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	07/01/22 05:45 PM
-4	The word that doesn't fit But the individuals who hold all of the power are of the class of men. We will never make progress for men or be taken seriously in our concern for men when so many advocates deny reality. We exist in a patriarchy whether you want that to be true or not. It’s an absolute fact that can be tested and demonstrated as a fact in countless ways.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	07/01/22 04:54 AM
-10	The word that doesn't fit The obsession men have over the word patriarchy is frustrating. You get so upset by the notion that we live in a male dominant society that you throw logic out the window. 73% of Congress is men. That’s the lowest number ever. 96% of Supreme Court justices have been men. 91.9% of Fortune 500 CEOs are men. 81% of US military officers are men 84% of US enlisted soldiers are men 87.4% of all police officers are men Men are 64%, 85%, 80%, and 75% of judges in the appeals, third circuit, eight circui…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	06/01/22 08:26 PM
8	Men are 93% of prisoners and 97% of those executed globally. Should this be considered a men's rights issue? Absolutely, the justice system is far too harsh against men. The cold justice men are served is vastly different than the warm infantilization that the courts serve women. Women deserve more justice for their crimes, men deserve less. Equality is somewhere in the middle for them both.	/r/MensRights	04/01/22 03:06 PM
1	Teen boys are being made to think they cannot be raped under any circumstances. Which feminist talking point am I parroting?	/r/MensRights	02/01/22 10:00 PM
1	Teen boys are being made to think they cannot be raped under any circumstances. So you think the justice system is harsh against men because of feminism? And the 250+ yrs of laws and enforcement of that justice system by primarily men has always been a feminist tool to oppress men? I’ve almost given up on you guys here. Every day this sub strays further and further from men’s rights and it’s just a place for denial and misogyny,	/r/MensRights	02/01/22 02:54 PM
-1	- “What is a sign a guy hasn’t matured?” So one thing defines a man is how successful his suicide attempt is? Wtf is wrong with you guys?	/r/MensRights	02/01/22 12:17 AM
-1	- “What is a sign a guy hasn’t matured?” It’s kinda psychotic to wish someone would commit suicide, but keep pretending that you didn’t do that. Where have I been spineless? You challenged me with your words, I responded. You said I’m not a man, you said I don’t have balls, I’m just asking you to clarify why you’d say that. Because I’m absolutely a man, I’m also a feminist. And I’d like to understand why creepy ass MGTOW types like you think you get to define what a man is. Of course I’m not welcome here, I’d be ashamed of myself if a …	/r/MensRights	01/01/22 11:50 PM
-6	- “What is a sign a guy hasn’t matured?” I didn’t say some men are not “real” men. You did. You pulled your cock out and said it’s bigger than mine cause I’m a feminist. Now I’m challenging you, and you’re shriveling up like the little coward you are. You’re pretending to take the high road when I step up to your bullshit claim. Gtfo out of here you loser, please “go your own way” and stfu about what makes a man a man, because you don’t know shit about fuck. And you think suicide is manly huh? What a piece of shit you are.	/r/MensRights	01/01/22 10:51 PM
-2	- “What is a sign a guy hasn’t matured?” Haha, you’re a real “alpha” huh? Lol. Can any of you list anything tangible? Or just made up internet words coined by pickup artists?	/r/MensRights	01/01/22 10:45 PM
-26	- “What is a sign a guy hasn’t matured?” I have plenty of self respect. I love myself, my wife, my children. I grew up in a crappy trailer in the Midwest, I have a great job and a nice family, we live 20 mins from the beach in the US south. I think you’re a coward. You’re projecting your own insecurities, you don’t think you’re a real man and put down other men to reassure yourself. Good luck you little dip shit. You’ll need it.	/r/MensRights	01/01/22 10:44 PM
-32	- “What is a sign a guy hasn’t matured?” I’m a feminist. I’m also twice the man you are. I was wondering how you’d measure it, so I could put you in your place.	/r/MensRights	01/01/22 10:26 PM
-24	- “What is a sign a guy hasn’t matured?” How do you define a man?	/r/MensRights	01/01/22 10:19 PM
1	Teen boys are being made to think they cannot be raped under any circumstances. Before feminism, women and men rarely attended the same school. Women also couldn’t vote, own land or a bank account, or publish scientific works (for the most part, there are exceptions). Your denial of a patriarchy is absurd. Nearly every position of power, both large and small, is held by men. You’re giving feminism far too much credit.	/r/MensRights	01/01/22 03:04 AM
0	Is this true? Well you don’t get to tell me what has and hasn’t affected me, you moronic little shit. Someday, hopefully, you’ll grow up and get your head out of your ass.	/r/MensRights	31/12/21 08:04 PM
1	Teen boys are being made to think they cannot be raped under any circumstances. Men are graded more harshly in school for the same reason that they are penalized more harshly by our justice system. Our entire society expects more of men, and conversely, less of women. So any subjective measurement of a man and a women puts them on a different scale. High expectations for men and the infantilization of women is omnipresent. In education, the justice system, the workplace, the military, etc. Because we all exist in a patriarchy. The patriarchy is not a conspiracy by men to op…	/r/MensRights	31/12/21 08:03 PM
0	Is this true? I was the perfect age for drafting during the last major conflict in the US, it was the only time in the past 48 yrs that a draft was considered. The “looming” draft for me was a far bigger deal that it has ever been in your life. And it was a non-factor in mine, just as it will be in yours.	/r/MensRights	31/12/21 05:02 PM
-11	Texas man gets gunned down by his Ex-Wife's boyfriend for HER not following the custody arrangement for their son. A guy who ran a cult and encouraged others to murder is wildly different than this case. Can you come up with a less extreme example. Can we at least agree that the guy who pulled the trigger is a murderer and responsible for the life he took?	/r/MensRights	31/12/21 04:00 PM
1	Teen boys are being made to think they cannot be raped under any circumstances. The pressure on men to provide, the pressure to remain unemotional or to suppress our emotions. The struggles men have with insecurity, inadequateness, and unattractiveness are rooted in patriarchal social expectations. Learning about my privilege has helped me tremendously to be grateful for what I have, and to be proud of what I’ve earned. This is related to my gender but as well as my able body, intelligent mind, my race, my temperament, my socio-economic status, and my familial support. All …	/r/MensRights	31/12/21 03:52 PM
-14	Texas man gets gunned down by his Ex-Wife's boyfriend for HER not following the custody arrangement for their son. A man used a gun to murder another man. And it’s the woman’s fault? I mean, she does bear some responsibility as an agitator, but the guy shot the other guy.	/r/MensRights	31/12/21 03:24 PM
1	Teen boys are being made to think they cannot be raped under any circumstances. You’re not understanding me. The courts are brutal against men BECAUSE they respect them. They want to hold men accountable for their actions, to teach them harsh lessons, and to penalize them from not complying with social standards. Women are infantilized by the courts. Given seconds chances and the benefit of the doubt, because they have no respect for women as adult individuals, they view them as weak or ignorant or easily influenced by others. Men suffer because of this. It’s a perfect exam…	/r/MensRights	31/12/21 03:23 PM
0	Is this true? Is it looming? I’m 39, not for 1 second in my life was there a legitimate concern for a draft. My brother enlisted in the guard in 2000 (to pay for college) and deployed during the Iraq invasion in 2003. I was 20 and I watched every major news outlet coverage of that invasion all day every day for 6 months, the draft was never even mentioned as an option.	/r/MensRights	31/12/21 01:13 PM
0	I shouldn't have to lock my doors at night, we just need to teach people not to rob I do agree with that. And of course everyone should exercise caution and a certain level of vigilance. Over 40% of women in the US have experienced sexual violence. My mother and first wife were molested as children. My current wife was violently raped by two 20 yr old men when she was 15 yrs old. You’d be hard pressed to find a single woman that hasn’t dealt with unwanted sexual attention, and every single one of them does things to protect themselves from harm. OP’s premise is a straw man, mea…	/r/MensRights	31/12/21 01:08 PM
-1	Is this true? I care a lot about people reading things that are true. When things are willfully misrepresented or grossly exaggerated, I feel compelled to speak up. Selective Service is stupid, no one should have to sign up for it. Or everyone should. The infantilization of women by our government is sexist, and men are forced to make up the difference. It hurts men and women. But, to pretend that selective service is an atrocity against men, is ridiculous. The fact is, a draft hasn’t existed since 1973. Not …	/r/MensRights	31/12/21 06:13 AM
1	Teen boys are being made to think they cannot be raped under any circumstances. I learned about mens issues by studying feminism. Feminists advocating for men educated me on the struggles men face in our world. I know you’re not asking me questions in good faith but I’ve entertained you regardless.	/r/MensRights	31/12/21 06:05 AM
1	Teen boys are being made to think they cannot be raped under any circumstances. Equal treatment of men and women in our society. Equality in expectations of work, parenting, providence, and protection. Equal treatment by civil and criminal courts. A social belief and promotion of these things as intrinsically true in all aspects of life. Men and women and other genders have their differences, those differences can exist aside from a competition. Men get screwed over in a number of very important ways. Women do as well. We have the capacity to address all of these things sim…	/r/MensRights	31/12/21 04:39 AM
-2	Teen boys are being made to think they cannot be raped under any circumstances. Well at least you acknowledge that you don’t know anything about this. You should read about it. The patriarchy, and the reality that we live in a society that’s been established, run by, and governed by men for a millennia exists. Every sane person accepts this fact, Outside of fringe right wing indoctrinated mens rights groups who deny it to satisfy their confirmation bias. It’s impossible to have a reasonable conversation here, or advocate for mens rights with any sort of progression forward,…	/r/MensRights	31/12/21 04:34 AM
0	Teen boys are being made to think they cannot be raped under any circumstances. Keep demonizing feminists and ignoring the cause of male suffering, I’m sure that will help.	/r/MensRights	31/12/21 01:57 AM
1	I shouldn't have to lock my doors at night, we just need to teach people not to rob So using you and OP’s logic, that society has no responsibility to educate people on wrongdoing; but individuals all bear the burden of protecting themselves…do you want to abolish the police? Prisons? Where does your line of thinking end?	/r/MensRights	31/12/21 01:56 AM
1	Teen boys are being made to think they cannot be raped under any circumstances. Of course it matters. I’m here advocating for men and doing my best to address the root cause of the issues we face. Feminists are NOT the problem with our justice system. To say they are is just blatant ignorance of the people who write and enforce our laws.	/r/MensRights	30/12/21 11:39 PM
-1	Teen boys are being made to think they cannot be raped under any circumstances. You said it, not me. I don’t agree with either of those things. I’ve said in multiple posts that the justice system heavily favors women. That’s because it has no respect for women, it infantilizes them. Men are screwed over by the justice system every day, because the patriarchy views men as fierce individuals that act on their own merits and should be harshly punished and judged for deviating from social expectations.	/r/MensRights	30/12/21 11:36 PM
0	Teen boys are being made to think they cannot be raped under any circumstances. I said “like” for a reason, i just looked it up and 67% of judges are men. Still an overwhelming majority, of those, how many do you think are feminist intent on ruining the lives of men?	/r/MensRights	30/12/21 11:33 PM
-6	I shouldn't have to lock my doors at night, we just need to teach people not to rob His point makes no sense. The “teach people not to rape” is valid. Consent, what sexual consent truly is, was NEVER taught to me. I ignorantly was too forward with women when I was younger. Only after educating myself and learning about the experiences women have did I understand what consent truly means. To my knowledge, young people are still not taught about consent. So yes, as a society, we should educate everyone about consent. This benefits men and women both. As a society, we can teach pe…	/r/MensRights	30/12/21 11:31 PM
-3	Is this true? I oppose selective service. It’s dumb. There hasn’t been a draft since 1973.	/r/MensRights	30/12/21 11:25 PM
-5	Is this true? It’s a fact. I oppose selective service, but for every man under the age of 67, it’s been a complete non-factor in our life. So let’s no pretend that we’re out working chain gangs or some shit.	/r/MensRights	30/12/21 11:25 PM
-2	Teen boys are being made to think they cannot be raped under any circumstances. Well you’re the one pretending that women control everyone and everything. Judges are like 90% men, ~85% of cops are men. Congress is ~75% men, and most written laws were written by men.	/r/MensRights	30/12/21 09:00 PM
-25	I shouldn't have to lock my doors at night, we just need to teach people not to rob So society should do things to reduce the chance of men being hurt? But women bear the responsibility of protecting themselves? You’re not being logical.	/r/MensRights	30/12/21 08:18 PM
-25	I shouldn't have to lock my doors at night, we just need to teach people not to rob So using your logic, men should learn to protect themselves from rape/murder/work related accidents better? It’s their fault for not being tougher or smarter or whatever? You’re an idiot dude. Blaming victims, and putting the responsibility of the safety on victims; is not the solution. Should children learn to protect themselves from abuse?	/r/MensRights	30/12/21 07:52 PM
-1	Teen boys are being made to think they cannot be raped under any circumstances. No. Why?	/r/MensRights	30/12/21 07:16 PM
-5	Is this true? But that draft hasn’t been utilized for over 48 yrs. The US military has been 100% voluntary since 1973.	/r/MensRights	30/12/21 06:40 PM
0	Teen boys are being made to think they cannot be raped under any circumstances. I’m a 39 yr old man. I have a degree, lived in 5 states, played college football, done CrossFit for years. I’ve been around, in plenty of social circles, and lived all over the place. I realize it’s only an anecdote and my experiences are not yours, but it’s bizarre to me that the last few weeks is the first time I’ve ever encountered this notion. You keep calling me a feminist as if it’s a slight. I gave myself that designation you dolt. It’s simply a belief in equality.	/r/MensRights	30/12/21 06:35 PM
-3	Teen boys are being made to think they cannot be raped under any circumstances. I am a feminist. I’m also a man and I advocate for men’s rights. I honestly see more equality out of feminists than I do MRA’s.	/r/MensRights	30/12/21 06:10 PM
-8	Teen boys are being made to think they cannot be raped under any circumstances. The patriarchy is large and complex, it can be both of those things. I’m sorry that it doesn’t fit the narrow definition you want it to. What feminists write our laws? What feminists are judges who don’t sentence female rapists? What feminists cops are not arresting female rapists? What feminist prosecutors are not charging female rapists? Our justice system; top to bottom, was created by, is enforced by, and is followed thru by men. Men that are NOT feminists. Why does this system penalize men …	/r/MensRights	30/12/21 06:09 PM
-6	Teen boys are being made to think they cannot be raped under any circumstances. Me too man. I can’t help but feel the entire “women don’t think men can be raped” is just an internet thing used to get young men angry. Men are rape victims all the time and the legal system helps them as often as it helps women (which is to say, not much at all).	/r/MensRights	30/12/21 12:43 PM
-6	Teen boys are being made to think they cannot be raped under any circumstances. But this idea destroys the victim complex the men here are obsessed with.	/r/MensRights	30/12/21 12:41 PM
-9	Teen boys are being made to think they cannot be raped under any circumstances. Subs like this tell men all the time “people don’t think men can be raped”. I’m a feminist, I read about this stuff all the time. r/MensRights is literally the only place where I’ve come across this notion. I’m a 39 yr old man. Not in my entire life, before this sub, has anyone ever said men cannot be raped. And I’m not a protected delicate flower; my mother’s work had her encountering male rape victims of all ages that I’ve always been aware of. Nor has any locker room or social circle ever pre…	/r/MensRights	30/12/21 12:40 PM
-13	Teen boys are being made to think they cannot be raped under any circumstances. Especially to simple folks who are ignorant of these things.	/r/MensRights	30/12/21 12:33 PM
1	Why cant I as a man, talk about the struggles that me and other men go through, without tiktok canceling me? What topics did you bring up?	/r/MensRights	29/12/21 03:44 PM
0	Why is there such a lack of accountability for female criminals? It is. Most of our laws are written by men, most judges are men. We are our own worst enemy. We can’t improve our lives if we deny the reasons why they suck sometimes. The justice system from cops, to judges, to jail operators, to legislators; are by and large men. We, MEN; create and enforce the law. And if men suffer more from it, who else should we look at for blame. I’m a man. This isn’t self loathing, I feel no shame or responsibility in this. I’m advocating for change and equality, and it …	/r/MensRights	28/12/21 03:28 PM
-6	Why is there such a lack of accountability for female criminals? Most judges are men, ask them. The justice system favors women because the patriarchy promotes accountability in men, but treats women like children who must be coddled and given 2nd chances. I am not sure if the justice system is too harsh on men, or too lenient on women, but it would be better if there were no disparity at all.	/r/MensRights	28/12/21 12:49 AM
-2	Northside Middle School mentoring program aims to help young men realize potential So ignoring young boys is bad. But teaching them is bad too. Do you wonder why young men are left behind?	/r/MensRights	23/12/21 05:44 PM
0	Northside Middle School mentoring program aims to help young men realize potential Why shit on a good thing?	/r/MensRights	23/12/21 05:24 PM
1	The "Man Cave" - a disguised negative thing for men? I agree. The prevailing sentiment that men having so little to do with their own home, that they require a separate space for “their” stuff is frustrating. I cook more than my wife, she cleans more than me, I take care of our yard 100%, and we have a pretty even split of household duties and responsibilities. I don’t need a secret/hidden place to be who I truly want to be in my own home. It’s my fucking house, it’s just the way I want it to be.	/r/MensRights	19/12/21 04:09 PM
1	So i made a post on off my chest about how I wanna be strong and a women said i am a mysoginyst. The fuck? I empathize with men. I am a man, I love myself and feel fortunate to have the things I’ve been gifted due to fortune, and proud of the things I’ve worked for. I only say this because im not self loathing or scorned by men. I empathize with the struggling working class. We have a corrupt system that’s been spilling out propaganda about individualism and white nationalism since the end of WW2. It’s created an entire generation of ignorant boomers who consistently vote against their own self inter…	/r/MensRights	18/12/21 06:24 AM
-7	Well it's been fun boys But here we are, talking about it, unhindered.	/r/MensRights	18/12/21 01:26 AM
-30	Well it's been fun boys Your entire post is you planning to be the victim of censorship.	/r/MensRights	18/12/21 12:15 AM
-31	Well it's been fun boys The “omg I’m gonna be a victim I just know it” is lame.	/r/MensRights	18/12/21 12:00 AM
-68	Well it's been fun boys So you’re claiming to be a victim before anything has happened. Based on what?	/r/MensRights	17/12/21 10:53 PM
-2	Who is a good role model that speaks for mens issues? Most of his fans and people that support him don’t give a rats ass about the psychology work he did early in his career. He’s selling his name and image to people that are being fooled into thinking he’s an expert. His grift is the typical conservative “the liberals are all wrong, academia is a leftist conspiracy, and you’re being screwed over…but my book and tickets to my show to find out more” He denies facts around the oppression of women, white privilege, and male privilege. He romanticizes …	/r/MensRights	17/12/21 10:53 PM
0	Who is a good role model that speaks for mens issues? Sure. But while drug addicts are abusing, everything they’ve said and done at the time should be under heavy scrutiny. He’s still a grifter and wrong on almost all accounts. He’s playing against the bias of men who feel wronged by society.	/r/MensRights	17/12/21 06:04 PM
-2	Who is a good role model that speaks for mens issues? All the JP sycophants here is no surprise. He’s a grifter and a wanna-be cult leader. Not to mention a drug addict who makes incoherent and unfounded claims about everything.	/r/MensRights	17/12/21 02:17 PM
1	So i made a post on off my chest about how I wanna be strong and a women said i am a mysoginyst. The fuck? You’re conflating “protecting” with “not murdering”. There is an enormous difference.	/r/MensRights	16/12/21 09:05 PM
1	Are you scared of marriage too? That’s a great speech but taxes, insurance, religion, and social groups don’t care what you think about marriage. There are plenty of reasons to get married and plenty of reasons why someone may not want to. Presenting it as a situation with no value is incorrect.	/r/MensRights	16/12/21 12:41 PM
2	So i made a post on off my chest about how I wanna be strong and a women said i am a mysoginyst. The fuck? “Women face zero consequences for their actions. They behave like criminals because society doesn't hold them accountable when they do bad things. It hurts and people don't like it but it's the fucking truth.” This is the 3rd highest upvotes comment on this post. It’s blatant misogyny. MRA think all women behave like criminals and society doesn’t hold them accountable. Elliot Rodger said shit like this before he murdered a bunch of women. You idiots may not know it, but you’re fostering violence…	/r/MensRights	16/12/21 02:18 AM
-2	So i made a post on off my chest about how I wanna be strong and a women said i am a mysoginyst. The fuck? Spoiler Alert: MRAs are mostly misogynists. The votes in this thread are proof.	/r/MensRights	15/12/21 03:59 PM
-1	So i made a post on off my chest about how I wanna be strong and a women said i am a mysoginyst. The fuck? I literally said FDS is incorrect and an extreme position. You twisting that as me condoning FDS is nuts. FDS is very misandric. And you sound upset that r/braincels was shut down.	/r/MensRights	15/12/21 12:30 PM
4	Are you scared of marriage too? Don’t marry a total asshole and you’ll be fine. You will hear countless tales of woe from scorned ex’s of any gender, but the fact is that they were bad at choosing a partner and they’re paying the price for it. Meet and marry a kind, mature, and loving woman who you would trust with anything, and you’ll be fine. Please don’t let the jaded internet people rob you of the greatest parts of life. Love, children, and building a life together is the greatest thing I’ve ever participated in and has ma…	/r/MensRights	15/12/21 05:44 AM
-5	So i made a post on off my chest about how I wanna be strong and a women said i am a mysoginyst. The fuck? It’s sexist to think FDS is a hive mind while MRA is not. Misogyny gets upvoted here just as often as misandry is upvoted there. The ironic part is that both FDS and MRA are vehemently fighting for a romanticized past (that never existed) where their respective genders are put on the pedestal. The entitlement to their privileges makes them feel like any encroachment of said privilege is an assault on their rights. Both sides are very incorrect and thankfully a small minority. Most adults recogni…	/r/MensRights	15/12/21 05:38 AM
4	So i made a post on off my chest about how I wanna be strong and a women said i am a mysoginyst. The fuck? I’ll give r/MensRights a lot of credit there, they allow discourse. It’s more than just about any other political or social subreddit.	/r/MensRights	15/12/21 05:32 AM
-10	So i made a post on off my chest about how I wanna be strong and a women said i am a mysoginyst. The fuck? MRA and FDS are opposite side of the same ignorant coin. Both are full of rage and animosity toward the opposing gender and both perform mental gymnastics to justify their position.	/r/MensRights	15/12/21 12:26 AM
-21	So i made a post on off my chest about how I wanna be strong and a women said i am a mysoginyst. The fuck? Well they are upvoted on this sub because it’s full of blatant misogynists.	/r/MensRights	15/12/21 12:24 AM
1	It is hard to support Mens Rights knowing that there are many Men who oppose it. So the patriarchy doesn’t exist? But men have ruled the earth since the dawn of civilization because…why? I’m not sure what you think patriarchy means, but it’s an undeniable fact in the USA. 92.9% of US generals are men 84% of the military are men 87.4% of police officers are men 91.8% of Fortune 500 CEOs are men 73.3% of Congress are men 100% of all elected presidents were men So are all of these men in power brainwashed by a feminist demonic conspiracy? Or maybe the people who control our soc…	/r/MensRights	14/12/21 02:11 PM
0	It is hard to support Mens Rights knowing that there are many Men who oppose it. “Injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere. We are caught in an inescapable network of mutuality, tied in a single garment of destiny. Whatever affects one directly, affects all indirectly.” Women’s rights are human rights. If you cannot see that for what it is, you cannot see anything that I might show you. Feminists want to tear down the patriarchy. They want to dismantle a system that sends young men to war, that doesn’t help young men when they come home (if they do). To remove th…	/r/MensRights	14/12/21 01:09 PM
-8	Feminist retelling of Nineteen Eighty-Four approved by Orwell’s estate Jesus Christ you dudes get triggered by the smallest possible things. A retelling of a story from a different perspective is super commonplace. Relax.	/r/MensRights	14/12/21 12:58 AM
-5	Feminist retelling of Nineteen Eighty-Four approved by Orwell’s estate Huh? What history has been rewritten? Conservatives are the ones fighting against the teaching of history.	/r/MensRights	14/12/21 12:56 AM
2	It is hard to support Mens Rights knowing that there are many Men who oppose it. Feminism has helped me understand the world and has actually brought attention to men’s rights and the suffering of men in our society. Feminism is laughably misrepresented on this sub as some sort of demonic force of evil that wants to enslave men. Many feminists agree that men suffer under the patriarchy, which I learned and agree with entirely.	/r/MensRights	13/12/21 01:54 PM
-3	Why don't cases like these make national news? If the genders were reversed, it would be on all media outlets for several days, and we'd be having conversation about teaching men to stop murdering You’re correct. It’s not noteworthy because it’s rare. Most murderers are men, most murder victims are men. Interpersonal or criminal murders are commonplace. Murders motivated by race, gender, or ethnicity are less common and make the news.	/r/MensRights	10/12/21 12:40 PM
0	Why don't cases like these make national news? If the genders were reversed, it would be on all media outlets for several days, and we'd be having conversation about teaching men to stop murdering I read “no one is talking about this!” For a week straight. Literally everyone was talking about it, Fox News told you that no one was talking about it.	/r/MensRights	10/12/21 12:36 PM
-1	How do feminists deal with the conundrum of maintaining a masculine working-class within a feminist society? Promoting an antiquated and inaccurate perception of “men’s work” vs. “women’s work” is why fathers struggle to get custody, it’s why male teachers are told they make parents uncomfortable, is why more men die in the workplace, and why more women are going to college than men. It holds back men, it actively hurts men, and it’s wrong. What you’re saying and what others on this thread are supporting is just good old fashioned misogyny, it’s the opposite of equality, and it hurts men. Please educat…	/r/MensRights	08/12/21 08:44 PM
-4	How do feminists deal with the conundrum of maintaining a masculine working-class within a feminist society? Women are capable of doing that work. I’m not sure what you’re asking. There is nothing masculine or feminine about physical labor. Edit: It’s exactly this line of thinking that the courts employ when fathers are rarely granted custody. You’re all dipshits and exactly why no one takes MRA’s seriously.	/r/MensRights	08/12/21 06:41 PM
1	How do we know that the statistics on 97% and 1/3 of women have been sexually assualted are false? You were accused of assault for looking at someone? And you believe this is the same as being raped? And you’re 15/16 yrs old, but have written papers on this topic?	/r/MensRights	06/12/21 03:24 PM
1	How do we know that the statistics on 97% and 1/3 of women have been sexually assualted are false? I’m 38, I went to college, I’ve lived in a half dozen states as an adult. Dated dozens of women, worked with women, and worked out with women. I’ve never been accused of sexual assault. You’re fabricating a problem that doesn’t exist. You can’t be a victim of a “what-if” scenario.	/r/MensRights	06/12/21 03:03 PM
0	How do we know that the statistics on 97% and 1/3 of women have been sexually assualted are false? Oh, I never considered your feelings. I’m a man, saying 97% of women or even 100% of women are victims of assault doesn’t bother me in the slightest. Because i don’t sexually assault women. What does the 97% mean to you? Why would that bother you? Do you think there is an implied 1:1 ratio, so that 97% of men commit assault? (I hadn’t even considered that). I guess I don’t get offended by these numbers because I don’t feel the need to defend men. Good men that don’t do anything wrong have nothin…	/r/MensRights	06/12/21 02:44 PM
1	How do we know that the statistics on 97% and 1/3 of women have been sexually assualted are false? Your issue is that “97% of women still free sexual assault” is not true, correct? You’re very worried about the 97% number, and seem very determined to prove that it’s incorrect. Fine. I accept that it’s not an accurate figure. Now what? What number is accurate? Can we assume that it’s at least 60% then? Say 60% of women are sexually assaulted in their life. That’s a ton of women, a number that justifies a significant response. So what have you done by such great efforts to disprove the 97% numb…	/r/MensRights	05/12/21 09:31 PM
0	How do we know that the statistics on 97% and 1/3 of women have been sexually assualted are false? “Spread” is relative. Literally the only place I’ve encountered this info is on this sub. And back to my point, it IS a serious topic, but why is saying 97% such a terrible thing if the real number is 90% or 70% or even 50%? Isn’t it too much. I feel like someone said “There are 97M starving children, we should feed them.” And the MRA’s are screaming “Uhm achtually it’s just 90M children. Clearly your study is flawed” Like, no one cares dude. It’s only a problem for people who feel compelled to …	/r/MensRights	05/12/21 08:54 PM
0	How do we know that the statistics on 97% and 1/3 of women have been sexually assualted are false? So you have to sit in a class and hear things you disagree with? That’s the atrocity? I’m not ok with it, and I’m not not-ok with it. The “problem” you just pointed out is one of the most irrelevant things I’ve ever heard.	/r/MensRights	05/12/21 08:48 PM
0	How do we know that the statistics on 97% and 1/3 of women have been sexually assualted are false? What huge impact does this have? Does a 90% or 70% rate change anything? I didn’t realize this was a peer review sub. My mistake. Keep splitting hairs, it’s helping men a lot.	/r/MensRights	05/12/21 07:02 PM
0	How do we know that the statistics on 97% and 1/3 of women have been sexually assualted are false? I’m saying that if everyone here cared about sexual assault half as much as they did about nitpicking the details of sexual assault studies so that men look better, the world would be a better place. You can’t see the forest for the trees. It’s a predictably defensive position from an offended person who doesn’t want to believe the results. Every person here is suddenly a data scientist and Im embarrassed for you all. Sometimes someone on this sub will ask “Why are MRA’s laughed at?” Or “Why doe…	/r/MensRights	05/12/21 01:46 PM
1	How do we know that the statistics on 97% and 1/3 of women have been sexually assualted are false? Yes. Why wouldn’t I? Is that some sort of gotcha question?	/r/MensRights	05/12/21 01:03 AM
-1	How do we know that the statistics on 97% and 1/3 of women have been sexually assualted are false? Huh? You’re putting words in my mouth. I didn’t say anything about the legal system. I’m not a juror or a judge. I believe victims unless I have some reasons not to.	/r/MensRights	04/12/21 11:22 PM
-4	How do we know that the statistics on 97% and 1/3 of women have been sexually assualted are false? 15% of women have been raped. I think we can all agree that sexual assault is more common than rape. Saying it’s 10% is just ignorance.	/r/MensRights	04/12/21 10:07 PM
-8	How do we know that the statistics on 97% and 1/3 of women have been sexually assualted are false? So what if it’s 90%? Or 70% Being focused on the numbers misses the major problem of prevalent sexual assault. Disagreeing with the methods in a study doesn’t nullify the results entirely. I guess I just don’t care if a study employs a liberal definition of “assault”. I do care that people listen to victims. diminishing the results of a study accomplishes what exactly? It only fuels the “see! Feminists are liars!” And the notion that sexual assault victims are not to be believed. And a bigger po…	/r/MensRights	04/12/21 09:32 PM
-13	How do we know that the statistics on 97% and 1/3 of women have been sexually assualted are false? I don’t think anyone knows. So rather than focusing on issues that face men (one issue, ironically, is that people don’t believe them when they report sexual assault); MRA’s would rather pretend they feminists just want to lie about everything and women are collectively answering surveys as a grand conspiracy to oppress men. They “know” because they don’t believe women. They “know” because they’ve found an obscure study that gives them a confirmation bias. It’s thinly veiled misogyny, no differe…	/r/MensRights	04/12/21 08:17 PM
1	Another twitter 'DR' leading the hate campaign None what you said has anything to do with what OP posted. Experiences matter because it’s irrelevant what the outside world thinks, because the trauma is real to the person perceiving it. Saying “well it wasn’t really very bad, it’s YOUR problem” does nothing to help a victim. And is precisely what men victims are told. And it’s exactly what men here are saying about women who feel sexually harassed. It’s toxic. The men here don’t give a rats ass about the experiences of women, but expect women…	/r/MensRights	04/12/21 05:58 PM
-1	Another twitter 'DR' leading the hate campaign I don’t think i get to decide when a person feels violated. A lot of men here claim that most of the situations here are not “real” harassment. Which is insensitive at best. The same men who complain constantly that society is not sensitive to the needs of men. The same systems that dismiss harassment against men are play with the comments here. The inability to empathize with others is commonplace, the men here are claiming that these women make up harassment claims and don’t understand that wo…	/r/MensRights	04/12/21 04:32 PM
-14	Another twitter 'DR' leading the hate campaign This has nothing to do with Men’s Rights and it’s things like this that makes MRA’s not be taken seriously. Laughing at or diminishing the harassment women experience is misogyny.	/r/MensRights	04/12/21 02:25 PM
0	So I am new to the idea of “men’s rights” and am genuinely curious what you guys are advocating for. Could someone provide a couple of rights you guys want to see passed? (Serious replies please) Do you believe women should have the right to vote? To serve their country? To own land? To have a bank account? Attend school? You know what happened to give them these rights? Do you know who opposed these rights? What have MRA’s done for men?	/r/MensRights	03/12/21 09:18 PM
1	So I am new to the idea of “men’s rights” and am genuinely curious what you guys are advocating for. Could someone provide a couple of rights you guys want to see passed? (Serious replies please) It’s great that you acknowledge MRA as a reactionary opposition to feminism, it’s the first time I’ve seen it honestly portrayed by a participant. And you’re correct, MRA would not need to exist, just like it didn’t exist, prior to feminist movements. Have you considered why that is? I’ll help. The answer is because men had every right prior to feminist movements, and women had essentially none. The expansion of the rights of women has been an encroachment upon the monopoly of power that men onc…	/r/MensRights	03/12/21 09:15 PM
2	So I am new to the idea of “men’s rights” and am genuinely curious what you guys are advocating for. Could someone provide a couple of rights you guys want to see passed? (Serious replies please) This entire sub is a litany of anecdotes by men who have been wronged in some way. And if my experience is irrelevant, why is yours relevant?	/r/MensRights	03/12/21 07:48 PM
2	So I am new to the idea of “men’s rights” and am genuinely curious what you guys are advocating for. Could someone provide a couple of rights you guys want to see passed? (Serious replies please) Many reputable news sources identify him as an MRA. I’m not sure why I’d believe you over them. https://time.com/134152/the-toxic-appeal-of-the-mens-rights-movement/ https://nypost.com/2014/05/26/killers-links-to-the-mens-rights-activist-movement/amp/ https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/the-intersect/wp/2014/05/27/inside-the-manosphere-that-inspired-santa-barbara-shooter-elliot-rodger/ There are many others as well.	/r/MensRights	03/12/21 07:47 PM
1	So I am new to the idea of “men’s rights” and am genuinely curious what you guys are advocating for. Could someone provide a couple of rights you guys want to see passed? (Serious replies please) What falsehood am I preaching? I’ve mostly just expressed my experiences here and my own takeaways from interactions with MRAs. It’s interesting how many men here are experts on the definition of feminism, and how it amazingly aligns perfectly with what you want it to be.	/r/MensRights	03/12/21 07:33 PM
1	So I am new to the idea of “men’s rights” and am genuinely curious what you guys are advocating for. Could someone provide a couple of rights you guys want to see passed? (Serious replies please) According to who? He thought he was. He consumed a lot of MRA content. He was actually how I first learned of MRA at all. My point is that him being an MRA doesn’t mean he represents MRA’s.	/r/MensRights	03/12/21 07:16 PM
0	So I am new to the idea of “men’s rights” and am genuinely curious what you guys are advocating for. Could someone provide a couple of rights you guys want to see passed? (Serious replies please) I specifically say I advocate for men’s rights, I am not an MRA. My experience here and elsewhere is that MRA’s are generally willfully ignorant of social issues, unaware of their own bias, and generally lack empathy and perspective. They are the center of the universe and have a very typical position of a controlling majority (which is true for white men in governance, military, and business situations throughout most of the world). It’s difficult to take them seriously, I find this sub interes…	/r/MensRights	03/12/21 05:35 PM
5	So I am new to the idea of “men’s rights” and am genuinely curious what you guys are advocating for. Could someone provide a couple of rights you guys want to see passed? (Serious replies please) I hope the responses to your genuine question have exposed this sub for what it is. I’d love for it to be centered around the rights of men, but it’s mostly just anti-feminism. Don’t let the people here discourage you, men do suffer under the patriarchy and it’s important to me that we all work to quell this suffering where possible.	/r/MensRights	03/12/21 05:02 PM
-2	So I am new to the idea of “men’s rights” and am genuinely curious what you guys are advocating for. Could someone provide a couple of rights you guys want to see passed? (Serious replies please) Which ones are doing this? And no, I’m saying that individuals who identify as feminists don’t necessarily represent feminism. Does Elliot Rodger represent all MRA’s?	/r/MensRights	03/12/21 05:00 PM
8	Man Jailed 13 Weeks For Uploading On Facebook A Photo Of His Wife Having Sex With Her Supervisor Adultery isn’t a crime in most places, nor should it be.	/r/MensRights	03/12/21 02:29 PM
2	So I am new to the idea of “men’s rights” and am genuinely curious what you guys are advocating for. Could someone provide a couple of rights you guys want to see passed? (Serious replies please) Why do you believe that white men the most disadvantaged group?	/r/MensRights	03/12/21 02:23 PM
-2	So I am new to the idea of “men’s rights” and am genuinely curious what you guys are advocating for. Could someone provide a couple of rights you guys want to see passed? (Serious replies please) To be fair, your average person (man or woman or otherwise) is mostly ignorant of all social issues. In the US, our education system teaches us nothing about anything of consequence. It’s just 13 yrs of nationalist and billionaire worship propaganda so that we die in the military or work hard to make money for someone else.	/r/MensRights	03/12/21 01:50 PM
-11	So I am new to the idea of “men’s rights” and am genuinely curious what you guys are advocating for. Could someone provide a couple of rights you guys want to see passed? (Serious replies please) It’s really not. I’m an engineer, a scientist, and a problem solver at heart. My experience consuming feminist information and materials extends beyond a decade. I can say from a not-shallow experience in either group, feminists are more positive and topic focused than MRA’s. Feminists are far less misandric than MRA’s are misogynistic. As a man, I’ve been MORE welcomed by feminists than I have men here in this sub. That is my experience.	/r/MensRights	03/12/21 01:43 PM
-20	So I am new to the idea of “men’s rights” and am genuinely curious what you guys are advocating for. Could someone provide a couple of rights you guys want to see passed? (Serious replies please) I think if you just read feminist takes posted here, you will only see the extremist/misandrist positions of radical feminists. That’s not the norm in my experience, at all. Many MRA’s ignorantly believe feminists are the enemy, that they seek female supremacy and male oppression, and that men must fight them at every turn to preserve our position. It’s a position motivated by fear, isn’t rational, and not based in reality. The control and power of men is well established, that is not under any …	/r/MensRights	03/12/21 01:40 PM
-38	So I am new to the idea of “men’s rights” and am genuinely curious what you guys are advocating for. Could someone provide a couple of rights you guys want to see passed? (Serious replies please) I’m a man, a feminist, and I advocate for the rights of men. I disagree with what you’re saying, my experience with feminism is equality and addressing the negative societal pressures and expectations of both men and women.	/r/MensRights	03/12/21 01:26 PM
-19	Saying a patriarchy exists is no different than saying a nebulous Jewish power exists to dominate Christians. It’s nonsense. And it’s designed to normalize violence against men. Yes. It’s a complex situation of power that hurts and benefits individuals of every gender, depending upon the specific situation. “Wait! You’re saying guns hurt people? But guns also save lives? How the hell does that make sense!!!??” There are countless examples of situations being beneficial to some, but detrimental to others. It’s not a difficult concept. The patriarchy exists. Only a very small sub-set of people deny it’s existence, and most of those are entirely uneducated on social issues…	/r/MensRights	28/11/21 09:46 PM
-20	Saying a patriarchy exists is no different than saying a nebulous Jewish power exists to dominate Christians. It’s nonsense. And it’s designed to normalize violence against men. “Give me an example!” -MRA’s “Ok, here are 7.” -Sane, educated people “Not good enough!” -MRA’s	/r/MensRights	28/11/21 09:36 PM
2	I saw this on Quora and if this is true, it's fucked up “90 percent of perpetrators of sexual violence against women are men. Moreover, when men are victims of sexual assault (an estimated one in 71 men, and one in six boys), 93 percent reported their abuser was a man. It’s true that women also assault men, but even when victims of all genders are combined, men perpetrate 78 percent of reported assaults.” https://www.cdc.gov/violenceprevention/pdf/nisvs_report2010-a.pdf	/r/MensRights	19/11/21 04:52 PM
8	I saw this on Quora and if this is true, it's fucked up That counts. So 80% of male rape victims and 99% of female rape victims have support. It should be 100% though. Edit: I found some numbers, looks like men account for 73% of all sexual assault, and 93% of the cases of assault on men is by men.	/r/MensRights	19/11/21 04:19 PM
1	What is your take on Jordan Peterson? Haha. Ok history buff. God damn it you’re arrogantly ignorant. The Nazi Party was far right authoritarians, capitalists, and fascists. They were defeated by communists in Russia. Communists and Fascists are opposite ends of the political spectrum and have historically met each other with violence. Where communists sought equality for all, fascists preached a white ethnic-state and committed genocide. You need to read…a lot of things. Preferably anything not written by a misogynistic white suprem…	/r/MensRights	16/11/21 02:36 PM
1	What is your take on Jordan Peterson? Is fascism just stuff you disagree with? Or is that communism? Or are these the same thing to you?	/r/MensRights	16/11/21 02:29 PM
0	What is your take on Jordan Peterson? I’m well respected, I’ve never wondered that. Do you identify as a fascist? Do you know that fascism is the far right you hold do dear?	/r/MensRights	16/11/21 02:16 PM
1	What is your take on Jordan Peterson? Uh…fascism is far right bub. “Communist” isn’t the insult you think it is. I wouldn’t deny it if I was. I’m a libertarian socialist, but recognize that the countries you label communist are doing a few things right that we should try to model. There are not any communist countries or any even trying to be that. You’ve proven that you’re ignorant about pretty much everything you speak of.	/r/MensRights	16/11/21 12:21 PM
1	What is your take on Jordan Peterson? I’m not a communist, and certainly not the authoritarian communism that fascists misrepresent willfully at every turn. I was just trying to warn you that you’re following a drug addict cult leader who is a raging misogynists and likely a sociopath, and certainly a grifter. Good luck.	/r/MensRights	16/11/21 05:27 AM
1	What is your take on Jordan Peterson? I’ve lied about nothing. I am far left, i never denied it. And I was worthy of your reply. You’re not correct about anything so far tonight. Maybe we can talk about something you’re more informed about. What’s something you’re into?	/r/MensRights	16/11/21 03:07 AM
1	What is your take on Jordan Peterson? But a huge portion of the content he’s created was fueled by drugs. It was illogical and drug fueled then, and it’s illogical and drug fueled now. JP is a predator preying on weak minds with confirmation bias and propaganda. He’s a fool and a laughing stock to anyone who knows anything about what he’s claiming expertise in, and to many who can see thru his grift. Stay away from him dude. He’s toxic.	/r/MensRights	16/11/21 02:21 AM
1	What is your take on Jordan Peterson? Drug Addict: https://nypost.com/2021/01/31/jordan-peterson-says-he-was-suicidal-addicted-to-benzos/amp/ Wants to start a cult: https://www.thestar.com/amp/opinion/2018/05/25/i-was-jordan-petersons-strongest-supporter-now-i-think-hes-dangerous.html	/r/MensRights	16/11/21 01:00 AM
-1	What is your take on Jordan Peterson? The drug addict who wants to start a cult? I’m skeptical.	/r/MensRights	13/11/21 11:57 AM
2	Mississippi Senators Oppose Compelling Women to Register for the Draft Why would they? It sucks. Men shouldn’t either.	/r/MensRights	08/11/21 12:09 AM
13	How do ya'll feel about paternity leave? Every adult should get 12 months 100% paid maternity/paternity leave. The bond it would foster between fathers and children would be priceless.	/r/MensRights	28/10/21 08:53 PM
4	Why are men required to shave their heads in basic training but not women? Which service are you in? You have a combat MOS?	/r/MensRights	27/10/21 06:52 PM
1	There is no patriarchy. The only gender bias that exists in the West favours women. Anyone who tells you otherwise wants to break you. Stay unbroken. So fate puts men in leadership roles. But society lets men kill themselves. Why isn’t it the reverse? Maybe society elects men and fate kills them. Your logic is falling apart,	/r/MensRights	25/10/21 07:28 PM
-1	There is no patriarchy. The only gender bias that exists in the West favours women. Anyone who tells you otherwise wants to break you. Stay unbroken. Wut? How many men are born vs women raped every year? See how pointless and weirdly arbitrary comparisons mean nothing?	/r/MensRights	25/10/21 04:37 PM
-1	There is no patriarchy. The only gender bias that exists in the West favours women. Anyone who tells you otherwise wants to break you. Stay unbroken. Hillary was and is terrible. That’s not the point. The notion that our society favors women but somehow-someway, men manage to fight and claw their way to the top of every business, political, and military organization is absurd. Our society very very clearly values men in leadership roles over women. I can’t even begin to understand how anyone could believe otherwise.	/r/MensRights	25/10/21 11:32 AM
-6	There is no patriarchy. The only gender bias that exists in the West favours women. Anyone who tells you otherwise wants to break you. Stay unbroken. And 100% of elected US presidents are…wait a minute.	/r/MensRights	24/10/21 10:21 PM
0	why is mens rights/such groups always ridiculed and labelled and how do we stop it? You do all of your academic research on YouTube? I don’t need to watch a dumbass YouTube video to learn something from someone like you. I’m aware that my experience doesn’t represent most men out there. Most people never move out of the town they grew up in. That’s my point, my experience is more broad that most humans I know. And that experience has granted me the perspective of people other than myself or the small bubble most live in. My experience with feminism has been respectful toward me…	/r/MensRights	21/10/21 01:23 PM
0	why is mens rights/such groups always ridiculed and labelled and how do we stop it? I’m a man, I’m 38 and have lived a full life in numerous states and been privileged to travel a bit as an adult. I’m not believing anything anyone is telling me, I’m seeing the world with my own eyes. I’m an engineer, my career for the last 16 yrs has been evaluating problems and proposing solutions, and I’m fucking good at it. The biggest problem in the world is capitalism. It’s predicated on consumption and the hoarding of wealth for the few, by the exploitation of the many. Every prominent ca…	/r/MensRights	21/10/21 10:34 AM
-2	why is mens rights/such groups always ridiculed and labelled and how do we stop it? When you can’t honestly look in the mirror, nothing will progress. Good luck.	/r/MensRights	21/10/21 09:35 AM
-1	why is mens rights/such groups always ridiculed and labelled and how do we stop it? “They make us the punching bags.” I think it’s pretty reasonable to assume that you feel like a punching bag after reading this. “People with victim mentalities don’t know what real adversity is” You’re really not making any sense dude. Can you say anything clearly? What do you actually mean by all of this?	/r/MensRights	21/10/21 02:52 AM
-1	why is mens rights/such groups always ridiculed and labelled and how do we stop it? So you’re sick of being a punching bag and don’t like people who think they are victims?	/r/MensRights	20/10/21 11:21 PM
-2	why is mens rights/such groups always ridiculed and labelled and how do we stop it? You said “they” don’t know what real adversity is. I didn’t put words in your mouth. Who is “they”? What’s the faux adversity you’re talking about? What’s real adversity? Why are you qualified to know what real adversity is? Your statement was very vague, I just don’t understand it at all, and I honestly have no idea what you’re talking about.	/r/MensRights	20/10/21 10:56 PM
-8	why is mens rights/such groups always ridiculed and labelled and how do we stop it? But you know what “real” adversity is? Why do you know this, but others don’t?	/r/MensRights	20/10/21 10:12 PM
0	why is mens rights/such groups always ridiculed and labelled and how do we stop it? So become a woman. Where did I say anything is anyones fault? “A Problem Well Stated is Half Solved”. I’m attempting to state the problem, and you’re already whining about your lack of involvement. Do you really wonder why men’s rights are not taken seriously? What’s your goal?	/r/MensRights	20/10/21 10:01 PM
-10	why is mens rights/such groups always ridiculed and labelled and how do we stop it? I think the first step is being honest with ourselves. Men built the world. If the world is hurting men, we have to acknowledge the systems that perpetuate that hurt, and hold its creators accountable.	/r/MensRights	20/10/21 09:46 PM
1	It’s time we talked about male-only universities No. But your position is that it IS happening, I’m arguing that it’s not. Men collecting and presenting the data that men are overwhelmingly responsible for abuse isn’t “all men are rapists”. It’s just a fact, most rapists are men. I’m 38, I’ve lived in numerous states, had numerous jobs, 2 wives, a life full of human interaction with people of many ethnic, racial, and social-economic background. I have a college degree. Society is NOT demonizing all men. The position that men are victims of som…	/r/MensRights	19/10/21 04:42 PM
-1	It’s time we talked about male-only universities “Men” is not a class, race, or culture. It’s literally half of the planet. So no, I don’t get offended by the facts stated here. I’m not sure why you feel the need to defend men, we are well represented in every government, university, military, and history book on earth. You’re framing this question as some sort of trap question, where you can say “gotcha!” And call me racist or sexist or a bigot of some sort. But you’re assuming, incorrectly, that men are a monolith that can be falsely represe…	/r/MensRights	19/10/21 12:40 PM
0	It’s time we talked about male-only universities “From” is an important word. What I quoted is from the first two paragraphs, and were pertinent to my point. You’re not discussing anything here in good faith. You want to believe false accusations are a real problem (despite YOUR source stating clearly that the number is unknown). So you make up the 28% number by, either ignorantly or maliciously, combining inconclusive stats to reach that number. If you want to go to an all boys school to protect your feels, by all means, go for it ya weirdo.	/r/MensRights	19/10/21 04:30 AM
-1	It’s time we talked about male-only universities “According to a 2013 book on forensic victimology, the true percentage remains unknown due to the varying definitions of a "false accusation".[2] Rates of false accusation are sometimes inflated or misrepresented due to conflation with terms such as unfounded. These designations, which allow law enforcement to close cases without arriving at a conclusion, are used to describe reports without enough evidence, as opposed to cases where the accuser is not credible or says that the account is untrue…	/r/MensRights	19/10/21 04:18 AM
-2	It’s time we talked about male-only universities What are you talking about? Are you claiming that for every 100 rape accusations, 28 are false? And I’m the one lacking empathy?	/r/MensRights	19/10/21 03:05 AM
-13	It’s time we talked about male-only universities Cool anecdote about a guy you know being called something he maybe wasn’t. I don’t see how that has anything to do with anything. You can’t even be sure he was being honest. The instances if Women falsely accusing men of sexual assault is a small fraction compared to sexual assaults that occur.	/r/MensRights	19/10/21 02:58 AM
-20	It’s time we talked about male-only universities I don’t get upset when sex offenders are discussed because I’m not a sex offender. If you feel like the men who are violent/abusive represent you, you need to look into your soul and ask why you identify with those men. I’ve also never been called a sex offender, because I don’t commit sex offenses.	/r/MensRights	19/10/21 02:42 AM
-26	It’s time we talked about male-only universities “It’s not pleasant to sit through classes, especially in the humanities and social sciences, where the male sex is singled out for its role in violence and inequality. And as more schools seek to implement what they call “victim-centered” policies for complaints of sexual misconduct, young men worry with good reason that an unfounded complaint can smash their educational dreams.” I’m a man. This author doesn’t speak for me. These facts don’t hurt my feelings. You all really want a safe space whe…	/r/MensRights	19/10/21 01:47 AM
1	Why is "but men are the majority of perpetrators" brought up when talking about male victims? Toxic Masculinity is the root cause. The notions that men are violent and unemotional is promoted by our society to men from the earliest age. It’s toxic, omnipresent, and a big part of how media defines masculinity. Chivalry , the notion that men should sacrifice their body/mind/life for women and their loved ones, is not healthy, it’s a masculine idea, and It’s toxic. I’m a man, I’m white, I’m 38, I’m bisexual but live a straight life (I’m happily married with 3 children), and I’m an engineer.…	/r/MensRights	16/10/21 03:28 AM
1	Why is "but men are the majority of perpetrators" brought up when talking about male victims? Sure. I’m a man. I advocate for men in places where men are disproportionately affected. But I don’t use this forum as an outlet to complain about being a victim, I use it as a place to better understand the root cause of these disparities and to assemble thoughts on how to prevent them. In this specific case, the gender of the perpetrator is far more important than the gender of the victim. Adult and children men and women all are victims of abuse far too often; and the perpetrator is very very…	/r/MensRights	15/10/21 01:54 PM
-8	Why is "but men are the majority of perpetrators" brought up when talking about male victims? I understand your point, but I don’t agree with what you’ve inferred. The entire MRA position exists as a response to women’s liberation / feminist movements. There was no men’s rights advocates before women’s rights advocates; because men were the only gender that could own land, vote, hold a title for pretty much anything, or own a bank account. Men owned and ruled the world, but with that power also came the position of partaking in wars, dangerous jobs, and generally risky human behavior lik…	/r/MensRights	14/10/21 11:37 AM
-3	For all men who are misunderstood This is racist and misogynistic incel shit. Is this sub r/redpill now?	/r/MensRights	02/10/21 07:08 PM
1	I was talking to this person about why feminists don't call out the rampant misandry within their group So are men dogs in this metaphor to prove that men…deserve respect?	/r/MensRights	23/09/21 03:11 AM
3	What did Jeff Bezos' wife and Bill Gates' wife do to deserve so much of their husbands' hard earned money in divorce settlements? It answers the question. Stolen money can be justly stolen. That’s what they did to deserve it, they stole it.	/r/MensRights	27/08/21 02:08 PM
5	What did Jeff Bezos' wife and Bill Gates' wife do to deserve so much of their husbands' hard earned money in divorce settlements? Gates and Bezos steal money from people. Their wives stole a portion of it.	/r/MensRights	27/08/21 11:07 AM
4	What did Jeff Bezos' wife and Bill Gates' wife do to deserve so much of their husbands' hard earned money in divorce settlements? Nothing about the mountain of wealth Bezos or Gates have is “hard earned”. They stole that money by exploiting workers and the socio-economic political situation in the US. Their wives simply did the same thing.	/r/MensRights	27/08/21 11:06 AM
-6	This isn’t about you @thetinmen This is a strawman argument. I’ve never encountered any claims that men are not the victims of the issues mentioned. And aside from some insane misandrists, most humans recognize that victims exist across the spectrum. You’re ignoring the sex of perpetrators of the sexual assault and street assault. Because you’re being disingenuous. The fact is that committing sexual assault, violent assault, and countless other forms of violence are acts monopolized by men.	/r/MensRights	26/03/21 04:24 AM
0	Tired of the "Men are evil" narrative and self-victimisation of women Come on man. Why are you being obtuse? Men are people, are they not? And the “people” that hurt people just happen to be almost exclusively men. Why does 1/2 of the worlds population account for 99.9% of the violence we are speaking of? You really think that men and how our society defines masculinity has NOTHING to do with it?	/r/MensRights	08/02/21 09:49 PM
-2	Tired of the "Men are evil" narrative and self-victimisation of women Haha. Ok. Please find a statistic where random assaults on the street are even at least 10% women. You won’t, because every single one of us knows that 99.9% of the time, the perpetrator will be a man. I’m not hating on “all men”. I’m a man. I don’t assault people in the dark or on the street, so the fact that other men do this doesn’t offend me. It disgraces me. Rather than address the issue of men holding a monopoly on violence, you’d rather both men AND women be scared of men on the street. B…	/r/MensRights	08/02/21 09:30 PM
-11	Tired of the "Men are evil" narrative and self-victimisation of women Sure thing bud. Anyone with any sense at all knows that what you’re afraid of is a man intending to harm you. You’re lying to yourself if you say otherwise. Random acts of violence are a “man on whomever” problem. As men, we need to accept the reality of the world if we wish it to improve.	/r/MensRights	08/02/21 07:23 PM
-8	Tired of the "Men are evil" narrative and self-victimisation of women What gender is it safe to assume these creeps and kidnapper, who would hurt you, are?	/r/MensRights	08/02/21 04:34 PM
0	Tired of the "Men are evil" narrative and self-victimisation of women What are you afraid of?	/r/MensRights	08/02/21 03:16 PM
0	this post with nearly 175,000 likes on instagram is the epitome of sexism. it’s disgusting. I know, which is why it’s a dumb thing to say. “I like hanging pictures.” “Oh really, replace pictures with “black people”. Real nice.” “Wut?” You can’t swap a majority/controlling sex for a minority/oppressed race and expect the words to make any sense.	/r/MensRights	22/01/21 11:44 AM
1	this post with nearly 175,000 likes on instagram is the epitome of sexism. it’s disgusting. So in your scenario, men are an oppressed minority?	/r/MensRights	21/01/21 08:33 PM
1	Why do people automaticaly identify the topic of "gender equality" exclusively with feminism? “The modern men's rights movement emerged from the men's liberation movement, which appeared in the first half of the 1970s when scholars began to study feminist ideas and politics. The men's liberation movement acknowledged men's institutionalized power while critically examining the consequences of hegemonic masculinity. In the late 1970s, the men's liberation movement split into two separate strands with opposing views: the pro-feminist men's movement and the anti-feminist men's rights moveme…	/r/MensRights	12/01/21 10:25 AM
1	Why do people automaticaly identify the topic of "gender equality" exclusively with feminism? Cool. See how that works? You talked out your ass and was dead wrong. I was simply following your lead.	/r/MensRights	12/01/21 02:56 AM
0	Why do people automaticaly identify the topic of "gender equality" exclusively with feminism? This is no naive beginning. My thoughts and ideas do not align with all things feminism or all things men’s rights. But my objective opinion is that, overall, feminism has been a good of force in the world that has fought for decades to expand the rights of women and to address the oppression of all working class people. In my experience, MRA are mostly ignorant misogynists who only want to “equality” where it services men, and blame women for inequalities that favor men. I’m not kid nor am I na…	/r/MensRights	12/01/21 02:35 AM
2	Why do people automaticaly identify the topic of "gender equality" exclusively with feminism? So by supporting “men’s rights” and using your logic, you support male supremacy?	/r/MensRights	11/01/21 11:06 PM
0	Why do people automaticaly identify the topic of "gender equality" exclusively with feminism? I’m 38. I grew up poor in the country of Indiana. Have worked as an Electrical Engineer in Iowa, Indiana, south Florida, Southern California, and coastal Georgia. I’ve traveled to Colombia, Vietnam, a few Caribbean islands, and a handful of European countries. Please explain to me how much more worldly and superior your experience is to my own. Let me guess. You’ve lived in the same 200 mile radius your entire 35 yrs and your wife left you. Your mom is subservient to you and your dad.	/r/MensRights	11/01/21 09:23 PM
-1	Why do people automaticaly identify the topic of "gender equality" exclusively with feminism? I’m speaking from my experience as a man with an interest in feminism for 10+ yrs. I guess you can call me a liar if you wish, but you’re only confirming your own bias.	/r/MensRights	11/01/21 08:35 PM
-4	Why do people automaticaly identify the topic of "gender equality" exclusively with feminism? I’m a man. And why wouldn’t you believe a fact? The military commercials, military propaganda movies, even marvel superhero fetish shit. I love it when men bury their head in the sand then blame women when their nose is full of it.	/r/MensRights	11/01/21 06:45 PM
-6	Why do people automaticaly identify the topic of "gender equality" exclusively with feminism? Who blamed men exclusively? Do you think “the patriarchy” is a boys club with weekly meetings on how to oppress women? It’s impossible to have a fruitful discussion in this sub when so many of you are arrogantly ignorant of basic definitions. The patriarchy does not mean I “blame all men”. That’s insane because I’m a man. Please explain how every US president, nearly every military leader on earth, most Fortune 500 CEOs, and countless other positions of power are occupied by men. If we live in a…	/r/MensRights	11/01/21 06:27 PM
-14	Why do people automaticaly identify the topic of "gender equality" exclusively with feminism? That’s not what I asked. How are men at a disadvantage?	/r/MensRights	11/01/21 03:11 PM
-23	Why do people automaticaly identify the topic of "gender equality" exclusively with feminism? Feminists have always opposed classism and the oppression of capitalism. The patriarchy, capitalism, and classism are all closely related and have always worked together to oppress the working class.	/r/MensRights	11/01/21 02:55 PM
-49	Why do people automaticaly identify the topic of "gender equality" exclusively with feminism? Because the antiquated notions of chivalry, bravery, and “manliness” encourage men to take dangerous jobs, sign up for war/violence, and to act in a stoic and unemotional way that discourage them from expressing feelings or seeking emotional support. What are some of the ways you believe men are at a disadvantage?	/r/MensRights	11/01/21 02:03 PM
-65	Why do people automaticaly identify the topic of "gender equality" exclusively with feminism? I’m a feminist and I seek equality. Every feminist I’ve met recognizes that the patriarchy hurts men. Edit: this guy: “Zero feminists want equality!” Me: “I am, I do.” downvotes	/r/MensRights	11/01/21 01:57 PM
0	Actor Craig McLachlan found not guilty of all 13 assault charges \| This case looks like four feminist actresses deciding to go after a guy whose lewd jokes offended them. How many times have you been accused of assault? And you really don't think MORE accusations don't make it more likely?	/r/MensRights	16/12/20 04:20 PM
0	Actor Craig McLachlan found not guilty of all 13 assault charges \| This case looks like four feminist actresses deciding to go after a guy whose lewd jokes offended them. But thats not how evidence and the law works. Assault can leave no evidence, and 13 allegations seems like he is guilty or there is some sort of large conspiracy to bring him down.	/r/MensRights	16/12/20 03:37 PM
1	Actor Craig McLachlan found not guilty of all 13 assault charges \| This case looks like four feminist actresses deciding to go after a guy whose lewd jokes offended them. You could use logic to say that 13 allegations means its likely at least a few of them are true.	/r/MensRights	16/12/20 12:50 PM
12	Actor Craig McLachlan found not guilty of all 13 assault charges \| This case looks like four feminist actresses deciding to go after a guy whose lewd jokes offended them. I agree, but being found "not guilty" doesn't mean the allegations were proven to be false. They just cannot be unquestionably proven to be true. There is a big difference and without all of the details, we won't ever know what actually went down.	/r/MensRights	15/12/20 07:37 PM
0	If feminists actually believed in the theory behind toxic masculinity, they would support the men's rights movement. MRAs are giving men a voice and a safe space to express themselves. Such atrocities. How can I donate to the memorial fund?	/r/MensRights	15/12/20 12:24 AM
0	If feminists actually believed in the theory behind toxic masculinity, they would support the men's rights movement. MRAs are giving men a voice and a safe space to express themselves. Huh? You brought it up. You literally said "feminism has been a shitstorm for men". So i pointed out a few things feminism has accomplished. Whats an "undeniable fact" exactly? I've taken no credit, i appropriately gave credit to the feminists who fought and died for the rights they deserved. So I'll ask you again, how exactly has feminism hurt men?	/r/MensRights	14/12/20 11:32 PM
-2	If feminists actually believed in the theory behind toxic masculinity, they would support the men's rights movement. MRAs are giving men a voice and a safe space to express themselves. Feminism has accomplished the following: Women's right to vote, women's ability to open bank accounts, equal pay for women doing the same work as men, sexual harassment laws that protect us all, and countless other things that allow women to exist as equals in our world today. How has this hurt men?	/r/MensRights	14/12/20 11:11 PM
0	If feminists actually believed in the theory behind toxic masculinity, they would support the men's rights movement. MRAs are giving men a voice and a safe space to express themselves. What laws? Who are you talking about? You know the US currently has a blatant misogynist as president?	/r/MensRights	14/12/20 11:05 PM
-3	If feminists actually believed in the theory behind toxic masculinity, they would support the men's rights movement. MRAs are giving men a voice and a safe space to express themselves. It doesn't hate me. Hating men is called misandry and not a part of any feminist discussion I've ever been a part of. There are misogynists and there are misandrists. Why fo you believe a few vocal misandrists represent all of feminism, but a few vocal misogynists do not represent MRA?	/r/MensRights	14/12/20 10:50 PM
-2	If feminists actually believed in the theory behind toxic masculinity, they would support the men's rights movement. MRAs are giving men a voice and a safe space to express themselves. Haha. I love your "being nice to women is only worth it if they fuck you". Masks off, right out the gate. At least we know what you think.	/r/MensRights	14/12/20 09:34 PM
-4	If feminists actually believed in the theory behind toxic masculinity, they would support the men's rights movement. MRAs are giving men a voice and a safe space to express themselves. Your experience matters. Our opinions on a woman's experience is irrelevant and better left unsaid. I hate no true scotsman fallacies, but any woman who calls a man weak for showing emotion is no feminist at all. Its so absurdly over the top not-feminist, that it sounds like some sort of troll just trying to make feminists look bad.	/r/MensRights	14/12/20 04:51 PM
-7	If feminists actually believed in the theory behind toxic masculinity, they would support the men's rights movement. MRAs are giving men a voice and a safe space to express themselves. Toxic masculinity is definitely reinforced by many women. I never said it is not. In my experience and many years involved with feminism, I've never witnessed or experienced any of the things you're talking about.	/r/MensRights	14/12/20 04:32 PM
-9	If feminists actually believed in the theory behind toxic masculinity, they would support the men's rights movement. MRAs are giving men a voice and a safe space to express themselves. "Rules for thee, not for me" is very prevalent everywhere, especially with zealots of MRA or Feminism. I see a lot of positive, supportive, and encouraging stuff from feminist subs. I see, almost exclusively, complaining and demonizing of other from MRA subs.	/r/MensRights	14/12/20 04:13 PM
-16	If feminists actually believed in the theory behind toxic masculinity, they would support the men's rights movement. MRAs are giving men a voice and a safe space to express themselves. I'm a feminist. I'm also a man. Feminism is inclusive and the equality we seek benefits both men and women. MRA, in my experience, have a message of anti-feminism and whataboutism. Spending your time complaining about feminism does not help men. Toxic masculinity is real. There is no "theory" about it. Many of the more prominent and encouraged "masculine" traits defined by our society are toxic, to all people involved. Violence, lack of emotion, being a "real man", or being with a "real woman", …	/r/MensRights	14/12/20 04:11 PM
1	Killed her six children in a fire. Only served 7 of 17 years in prison and is now released. The "burden" of accumulating all the money, making all the decisions, and controlling everything. Poor us.	/r/MensRights	30/11/20 10:32 PM
0	Killed her six children in a fire. Only served 7 of 17 years in prison and is now released. With women have had zero say in the formation of our society, essentially zero influence on our current laws, near zero control of our capital, our militaries, our labor, or our corporations; i disagree with your claim. I'm providing examples of how men rule. You're saying "nut uh!"	/r/MensRights	30/11/20 06:42 PM
0	Killed her six children in a fire. Only served 7 of 17 years in prison and is now released. You're arguing semantics. I don't really care what word makes you comfortable to describe our society. Make up a new word if you like. Our society is controlled by men. It benefits a few men and a few women. It hurts the majority of men and women with antiquated gender roles and ideals.	/r/MensRights	30/11/20 04:38 PM
0	Killed her six children in a fire. Only served 7 of 17 years in prison and is now released. People vote against their own self interests all the time. Women uphold the patriarchy as much as anyone does, I've never said otherwise.	/r/MensRights	30/11/20 03:45 PM
1	Killed her six children in a fire. Only served 7 of 17 years in prison and is now released. Sure thing bud. Have a nice life.	/r/MensRights	30/11/20 03:23 PM
1	Killed her six children in a fire. Only served 7 of 17 years in prison and is now released. Why can't women perpetuate the patriarchy?	/r/MensRights	30/11/20 03:22 PM
1	Killed her six children in a fire. Only served 7 of 17 years in prison and is now released. Wtf are you getting at? Who appointed you "Aggressive Asian Ambassador"? I'm confused by the point you're attempting to make and i won't answer your absurd questions, as they are not asked in good faith. Are you Andy Ngô by chance?	/r/MensRights	30/11/20 03:16 PM
1	Killed her six children in a fire. Only served 7 of 17 years in prison and is now released. Yeah, i know. That burden to provide is a part of the patriarchy and is unfair towards men. All of you seem to think this is some sort of adversarial relationship where you believe I think all men live a life of luxury while all women toil away as our servants. The social norms you described ARE the patriarchy, and they are unfair towards both men and women.	/r/MensRights	30/11/20 03:01 PM
0	Killed her six children in a fire. Only served 7 of 17 years in prison and is now released. Yes. Calling a woman you don't know and clearly don't respect "Honey..." in a condescending and asinine way is very sexist. You're arrogantly ignorant of yourself and reality. The only thing being drug around here is my nuts across your face you coward.	/r/MensRights	30/11/20 02:13 PM
0	Killed her six children in a fire. Only served 7 of 17 years in prison and is now released. I loved that you tried to use sexist condescending language by calling me "Honey...". Take your bullshit back to MGTOW you scab.	/r/MensRights	30/11/20 01:46 PM
1	Killed her six children in a fire. Only served 7 of 17 years in prison and is now released. Most people I know that are from an asian country or are of asian descent, identify as such. So thats up to them. I don't know how the police/justice system interact with the various asian communities throughout the US. Asian's (i hate that blank description, it poorly represents several billion people) in general have lower rates of poverty than other minorities in the US. Asian communities spend their money in asian owned businesses at a much hirer rate than other minorities. They are also the…	/r/MensRights	30/11/20 01:43 PM
1	Killed her six children in a fire. Only served 7 of 17 years in prison and is now released. Group A and Group B are different. There is no inconsistency here. This isn't a logic problem you nerd. You're trying to equate women with black and brown men in some sorted if convoluted justification for how you wish the world to be.	/r/MensRights	30/11/20 05:47 AM
-2	Killed her six children in a fire. Only served 7 of 17 years in prison and is now released. I'm not talking about 5.6% of the population. The asian population in the US has grown quickly as well, so we don't have a huge sample set of sentencing data across all demographics over the span of decades. You're just arguing for the sake of it. If you don't think sexism and racism exist, great. Have a nice life.	/r/MensRights	30/11/20 05:28 AM
-1	Killed her six children in a fire. Only served 7 of 17 years in prison and is now released. Our justice system treats women like children that need the guidance of men, but could maybe grow up to be useful to us as child bearers. Our justice system treats POC like dogs that must be broken to behave properly, and they will never have any value unless they are trained. Is that simple enough for you to understand?	/r/MensRights	30/11/20 05:17 AM
-1	Killed her six children in a fire. Only served 7 of 17 years in prison and is now released. The part that gets me is that I appear to be one of the few people here actually advocating for men. The patriarchy and the lessons it teaches us all about how men are supposed to be; is the root of almost every issue that plagues men. Yet many here think feminists are the enemy. Their disdain for women is so strong that they would rather sacrifice their own happiness just to see women "lose". MRA are a laughing stock in academia because they do not argue anything in good faith or with good info…	/r/MensRights	30/11/20 05:10 AM
-1	Killed her six children in a fire. Only served 7 of 17 years in prison and is now released. What percentage of the laws that we live by today, were written by women? Its absolutely less than 1%. So how is it that men have created our entire system of governance and control, but you refute the claim that we live "a system of society or government in which men hold the power and women are largely excluded from it.".	/r/MensRights	30/11/20 04:18 AM
-4	Killed her six children in a fire. Only served 7 of 17 years in prison and is now released. That's 100% expected here. MRA types are more obtuse than your average redditor. They are extremely pedantic and cling to their limited worldview even more than most.	/r/MensRights	30/11/20 04:16 AM
1	Killed her six children in a fire. Only served 7 of 17 years in prison and is now released. I understand that the issues that face us all are multifaceted. You're trying to oversimplify issues into "man or woman" and that just isn't how it works, and we all know this. A wealthy affluent woman is obviously better off than a poor man. The fact is that men have (mostly) written our laws, governed our (the US at least) country, run our companies, started and engaged in our wars, run our universities, written our books, and had a hand in every other aspect of our lives. And you're asking wh…	/r/MensRights	30/11/20 04:14 AM
0	Killed her six children in a fire. Only served 7 of 17 years in prison and is now released. I never said "women are more gentle", i used that phrase as an example of the bullshit the patriarchy would have us believe. And I'm not your honey. I'm a 37 yr old man. Good luck dude.	/r/MensRights	30/11/20 04:06 AM
2	Killed her six children in a fire. Only served 7 of 17 years in prison and is now released. You're implying that the only opportunities that exist are homelessness or not-homeless. This goes back to my original statement. Society judges men more harshly because it respects men more. A man can "make his own way" whereas a woman can be taken in as if she's a lost child. A man shouldn't ask for help, but women are encouraged to do so. This is an aside to the homeless issue and how likely it is to impact veterans and those suffering from mental illness. I want fewer people to be homeless. …	/r/MensRights	30/11/20 04:01 AM
2	Killed her six children in a fire. Only served 7 of 17 years in prison and is now released. Why are more men homeless? Is it because of women? Or because of a broken capitalistic system created by, maintained by, and perpetuated by men in power?	/r/MensRights	30/11/20 03:50 AM
1	Killed her six children in a fire. Only served 7 of 17 years in prison and is now released. FDS is the most awful/toxic crap I've ever seen. Its hype-patriarchy stuff and pretty much the exact opposite of feminism.	/r/MensRights	30/11/20 03:31 AM
1	Killed her six children in a fire. Only served 7 of 17 years in prison and is now released. You can talk about whatever you want. But let me be clear, i use the word "patriarchy" like a normal human being who subscribes to standard word definitions. "a system of society or government in which men hold the power and women are largely excluded from it." It's not more complicated than this.	/r/MensRights	30/11/20 02:40 AM
-2	Killed her six children in a fire. Only served 7 of 17 years in prison and is now released. Recognizing the underlying theme of our society, how it hurts men, and why it hurts men; is critical for the necessary change that can help men. A lot of the arguments about the word "patriarchy" are pedantic. Call it whatever the hell you want man. But our society, its laws, and our social structure has been run by men for thousands of years. The systems that prevent men from pursuing their passions in order to provide, are the same ones that prevent women from pursuing their passions in order …	/r/MensRights	30/11/20 02:33 AM
-7	Killed her six children in a fire. Only served 7 of 17 years in prison and is now released. So you're ok with high suicide rates, high incarceration rates (and harsher penalties), and a shorter life expectancy for men? Just so you can "own the libs"? I'm not ok with those things. But I will ask you, can you shut the fuck up?	/r/MensRights	30/11/20 02:24 AM
-1	Killed her six children in a fire. Only served 7 of 17 years in prison and is now released. You expect women to advocate for and work to help men? Why?	/r/MensRights	30/11/20 02:20 AM
-2	Killed her six children in a fire. Only served 7 of 17 years in prison and is now released. Gotcha. I do disagree with that. If you were correct, the balance of power in the world lean toward women. And since men are in control of almost every aspect of every society on earth, it seems like men are benefitting. But the issue of sexism is intersectional with many other "ism's". Classism, sexism, racism, ableism, etc all have interactions across their respective "-ism's". A physically disabled black woman who's father is a senator is likely going to have a better life than a white msn bo…	/r/MensRights	30/11/20 02:19 AM
0	Killed her six children in a fire. Only served 7 of 17 years in prison and is now released. I feel like you just agreed with me. Of course men should not bear that burden. A burden that existed before women that could even vote or own property. That burden is the patriarchy, and unless you're a king or an oligarch, it is your enemy.	/r/MensRights	30/11/20 01:05 AM
0	Killed her six children in a fire. Only served 7 of 17 years in prison and is now released. Nope, I won't unless the mods ban me. I'm a man, here advocating for the rights of men. I'm explaining how and why men are treated poorly by our justice system when compared to women. Men should get fair treatment, if you don't believe that, perhaps you're in the wrong place.	/r/MensRights	30/11/20 12:58 AM
0	Killed her six children in a fire. Only served 7 of 17 years in prison and is now released. "Essentially, the case for closing women’s prisons is the same as the case for imprisoning fewer men. It is the case against the prison industrial complex and for community-based treatment where it works better than incarceration." I can't say I disagree with this statement. Why shouldn't we incarcerate fewer people?	/r/MensRights	30/11/20 12:55 AM
1	Killed her six children in a fire. Only served 7 of 17 years in prison and is now released. I do mean society. Our laws are mostly genderless now. The social prevalence of patriarchal ideas and notions are exactly what I'm referring to. Our society is full of little minor nudges for men and women to be "real men" or "real women". As a society, we've improved tremendously with our language to empower women. But we still put far more emphasis on their aesthetic than we do men. And the language men hear has improved too, but I'm just 37 and my childhood and formative years were rife with …	/r/MensRights	30/11/20 12:53 AM
-6	Killed her six children in a fire. Only served 7 of 17 years in prison and is now released. Why don't you believe that? Men control most of the money, most corporations, and every military on earth. Men have never had to protest for the right to vote, or the right to drive a car or own property. Men have never had to allow a woman colleague to take credit for their scientific work. Recognizing the privileges of men does NOT mean that men do not suffer. I'm a man. I've had trials in my life, I have accomplishments I am proud of, i have enormous amounts of privilege that have afforded me…	/r/MensRights	30/11/20 12:45 AM
-3	Killed her six children in a fire. Only served 7 of 17 years in prison and is now released. I consider myself a feminist and have read a lot and discussed a lot about many topics that pertain to equality and feminism. I have no clue what you're talking about.	/r/MensRights	30/11/20 12:28 AM
1	Killed her six children in a fire. Only served 7 of 17 years in prison and is now released. There are history books of proof. If women are truly inferior, our system is just (which is what you are implying). If the system is rigged against women, it would explain why they have existed in a 2nd class role throughout history. I apologize, I don't understand what you don't understand. Isn't the fact that men are overwhelmingly in control of the money/military/governance of earth, proof to you that the system hinders a woman's ability to lead/accumulate wealth/govern? What else could expla…	/r/MensRights	30/11/20 12:26 AM
-3	Killed her six children in a fire. Only served 7 of 17 years in prison and is now released. I'm a man. You're choosing to be offended on my behalf and I give you the right to not be. We live in a male-dominant society. This is indicated by the fact that our entire history is almost 100% governed/shaped/controlled by men; and the current state of the world is nearly 100% governed/shaped/controlled by men. We all, humans, have a social responsibility to improve our civilization. A system that is unfair to anyone due to an intrinsic attribute they posses should be changed to NOT be like t…	/r/MensRights	29/11/20 11:34 PM
0	Killed her six children in a fire. Only served 7 of 17 years in prison and is now released. I don't want more women leaders. Women are not inherently better than men. I want more qualified leaders. I happen to think that men and women both are capable of leading. But the patriarchy has only elected men thus far. We will never know how many capable women were passed over simply because of their gender. My point, which you missed on purpose, is that I believe men and women are equal. So the lack of women in leadership roles would indicate one of the following two scenarios I am wrong. Wo…	/r/MensRights	29/11/20 11:14 PM
0	Killed her six children in a fire. Only served 7 of 17 years in prison and is now released. Please elaborate.	/r/MensRights	29/11/20 11:09 PM
-9	Killed her six children in a fire. Only served 7 of 17 years in prison and is now released. Please provide a source for these demands. I have not experienced them in any dealings with feminists or anyone who seeks equality.	/r/MensRights	29/11/20 11:09 PM
-21	Killed her six children in a fire. Only served 7 of 17 years in prison and is now released. I'm a man. The rights of men are important to me. I see the patriarchy as a hindrance to equality and recognize how it hurts men. This exact post, about a justice system that is cruel towards men but forgiving towards women, is the result of the patriarchy.	/r/MensRights	29/11/20 11:07 PM
-51	Killed her six children in a fire. Only served 7 of 17 years in prison and is now released. So you believe men are superior to women? That would be one of the most honest statements from a MRA I've ever read.	/r/MensRights	29/11/20 10:17 PM
-9	Killed her six children in a fire. Only served 7 of 17 years in prison and is now released. We elected the 46th straight man as president 26 days ago and someone said that example is outdated. Haha	/r/MensRights	29/11/20 10:15 PM
-81	Killed her six children in a fire. Only served 7 of 17 years in prison and is now released. Because its real. You think the US has had 46 straight men as president because no woman has been qualified? Why are 463 Fortune 500 CEOs men? Did men protest for the right to vote? Were they always allowed to open bank accounts? If you really cannot see the countless ways men are privileged in society over women, you're not looking. The patriarchy exist and by and large, benefits men. But there are cases and situations where it hurts men. The justice system (men are held accountable), parental …	/r/MensRights	29/11/20 09:24 PM
113	Killed her six children in a fire. Only served 7 of 17 years in prison and is now released. I know you're being facetious, but this IS the patriarchy. The patriarchy would imply that men are the dominant sex with more agency than women. Which means women are the simpler, gentler, LESS ACCOUNTABLE gender. Our justice system penalizes men and goes easy on women because our society systemically has less respect for women than it does for men. That lack of respect means we can easily dismiss their actions, like we would the actions of a child. We exist in a patriarchy and in many ways it H…	/r/MensRights	29/11/20 09:08 PM
1	This chick literally confessed of hurting johnny depp and he’s still the one getting punished. I guess being abusive only has consequences if you’re a guy 😬 OP said "abuse only has consequences if you're a guy". But thats demonstrably false, since many men suffer no consequences for their abuse. Being disingenuous in our arguments does advance men's rights.	/r/MensRights	07/11/20 02:25 PM
-1	This chick literally confessed of hurting johnny depp and he’s still the one getting punished. I guess being abusive only has consequences if you’re a guy 😬 Johnny Depp is totally getting screwed by Amber Heard and a biased justice system and public opinion of abused men. But the POTUS has multiple sexual assault victims. The POTUS elected has a credible sexual assault suit against him. Dozens if not hundreds of men in TV/Film/Politics/Academia have been convicted of physically abusing (Sean Connery), sexually abusing (Roman Polanski), or even killing women (Chappaquiddick incident) and their careers/lives were not even hindered let alone ended.	/r/MensRights	07/11/20 03:11 AM
4	UK: Women have 'right to know' male colleagues' pay, says Labour's Stella Creasy as she introduces Equal Pay Bill. Women will be able to demand to know what men are earning. In the US, it is legal for employees to discuss salary, and that right is federally enforced. Hiding our salaries from one another only serves the business owners who want to underpay people. Women and minorities are often paid less for the same work for a number of complex reasons, but a man could get stuck in an underpaid situation easily if he is in a situation where he is easy to exploit. Unless you own a company and write checks, this type of hush-hush salary stuff hurts you.	/r/MensRights	20/10/20 11:28 PM
1	Circumcision is forced in infants despite men being averse to having their genitals cut I tried to google such a thing and came up blank. I have no idea what you’re talking about, have never encountered it, and can’t find much on it. Are you in Israel by chance? Maybe NY?	/r/MensRights	17/06/20 12:26 AM
0	Circumcision is forced in infants despite men being averse to having their genitals cut Toxic masculinity really has no relation to male circumcision. I’m not sure how you came to that conclusion.	/r/MensRights	16/06/20 11:08 PM
1	Circumcision is forced in infants despite men being averse to having their genitals cut Toxic masculinity hurts women. What are you talking about? I’m not even sure what you’re arguing.	/r/MensRights	16/06/20 07:46 PM
1	Circumcision is forced in infants despite men being averse to having their genitals cut Yeah. I’m a man, I’m circumcised. I understand what it is and I’m aware of FGM. I’m not sure what you’re not understanding. Issues that impact only men are not something feminists expend much energy on. Nor should you expect them to. And FGM is very uncommon in the western world, from what I’ve read it’s mostly an issue in Africa. Feminist groups have done plenty of work in this area but western feminism mostly focuses on issues that impact women in the western world, which is both reasonable an…	/r/MensRights	16/06/20 07:07 PM
2	Circumcision is forced in infants despite men being averse to having their genitals cut It’s not an organization and I’m very much a feminist. But intersectional feminism obviously focuses on women’s rights. A lot of their goals and aspirations happen to align with equality for men. And it’s intersectional with men’s rights, so genital mutilation is important for us all. But specifically, Circumcision isn’t a feminist issue. Why would it be?	/r/MensRights	16/06/20 05:52 PM
-8	Circumcision is forced in infants despite men being averse to having their genitals cut Feminism in general doesn’t spend a lot of time discussing men’s issues. That’s like complaining that BLM doesn’t do enough to protect white victims of police violence. I think most of both groups care about these issues, but they are not necessarily within the scope of the change they advocate for. Similarly, I’m not upset that Susan G Komen doesn’t say much about prostate cancer. It’s reasonable to assume that everyone working for and donating to this organization does wish for less prostate c…	/r/MensRights	16/06/20 03:24 AM
5	Circumcision is forced in infants despite men being averse to having their genitals cut You chose circumcision as an adult? If not, how can you “prefer” something when you have no comparison?	/r/MensRights	16/06/20 03:09 AM
10	Circumcision is forced in infants despite men being averse to having their genitals cut I’m a feminist and I oppose circumcision.	/r/MensRights	16/06/20 03:07 AM
1	More men die of violence than women, more men are victims of sexual assault (CDC), more men die of workplace injury and suffer shorter lifespan as result of harder working conditions. More women sue men when sexual relations fail. Don’t let feminism steal your human rights. I don’t think you understand what victim blaming is. “Men” are not a collective mind that all operate as a dingle unit. It’s not an identity, creed, ideology, political affiliation, or anything else. We have absolutely nothing in common aside from our basic anatomy, which also has a ton of variance. The OP was framing the situation as men are victims of tragedy more often than women. And claiming that society doesn’t care because men are demonized unfairly. But the fact remains that MOST victim,…	/r/MensRights	29/05/20 11:08 AM
1	More men die of violence than women, more men are victims of sexual assault (CDC), more men die of workplace injury and suffer shorter lifespan as result of harder working conditions. More women sue men when sexual relations fail. Don’t let feminism steal your human rights. How does talking about the abuser blame the victim? I don’t follow what you said.	/r/MensRights	27/05/20 04:42 PM
-2	More men die of violence than women, more men are victims of sexual assault (CDC), more men die of workplace injury and suffer shorter lifespan as result of harder working conditions. More women sue men when sexual relations fail. Don’t let feminism steal your human rights. I didn’t even read it all because the opening statement is a straw man and incorrect. I’m a man and that’s not how I define masculinity. And masculinity in and of itself is neither toxic nor akin a my soul. What’s the BS you’re spouting?	/r/MensRights	22/05/20 04:12 PM
-3	More men die of violence than women, more men are victims of sexual assault (CDC), more men die of workplace injury and suffer shorter lifespan as result of harder working conditions. More women sue men when sexual relations fail. Don’t let feminism steal your human rights. Many women demonstrate, exploit, and benefit from the patriarchy and toxic masculinity. You’re right, the world we live in exists irrespective of your gender. It’s the patriarchy for us all, toxic masculinity is omnipresent. Too many here get so defensive about these topics. Until you’re honest about our environment, culture, and society; it won’t progress.	/r/MensRights	22/05/20 03:51 PM
-24	More men die of violence than women, more men are victims of sexual assault (CDC), more men die of workplace injury and suffer shorter lifespan as result of harder working conditions. More women sue men when sexual relations fail. Don’t let feminism steal your human rights. You’re only talking about the victims, it’s important to also talk about who hurt them or why they put themselves in harms way. More often than not, the person hurting the man is another man. And the person sexually assaulting the man is another man. And the man decides, due to antiquated patriarchal notions of chivalry and braver, to put himself in harms way. We can simultaneously discuss the victim hood of men and acknowledge that the patriarchy and toxic masculinity are huge components of the…	/r/MensRights	22/05/20 10:49 AM
1	Feminists should be allies to the men's rights movement but have instead shown themselves to be traitors By what metric? The world has improved for men by almost any measure.	/r/MensRights	07/04/20 03:02 PM
0	Feminists should be allies to the men's rights movement but have instead shown themselves to be traitors That’s fair. So why do you hate women when they do exactly that. Isn’t feminism mostly just advocating for women? Isn’t that what we’re talking about? Your argument seems hypocritical.	/r/MensRights	07/04/20 03:02 PM
1	Feminists should be allies to the men's rights movement but have instead shown themselves to be traitors Well for context I’m a white man. And I think if we take a hard look at a lot of the issues that face men, most are based upon societal expectations. And our society had been defined by and run by men pretty much since the onset of civilization, that’s especially true of the history of the US which has held some very Puritan inspired views of women as subservient house keepers meant to rear children. Our own Vice President is a religious zealot that is hyper-traditional in his familia views. Fem…	/r/MensRights	06/04/20 06:04 PM
0	Feminists should be allies to the men's rights movement but have instead shown themselves to be traitors That’s fair. But that hasn’t been my experience with feminism. I’m told her, on r/MensRights how horrible feminism is almost daily. But my experience with feminism, those within the movement, and those casually interested in it, has been almost entirely positive. So I don’t see the claims you’re making as reality. However, Feminists absolutely have a problem with censure. Anyone and everyone that doesn’t provide to their echo chamber is completely shut out, so it ends up being a bunch of “yes!” …	/r/MensRights	06/04/20 12:53 PM
-1	Feminists should be allies to the men's rights movement but have instead shown themselves to be traitors Using your logic, what issues do women face that MRA have been an ally? How have MRAs helped women?	/r/MensRights	06/04/20 02:40 AM
2	A tweet outlining feminist dishonesty. No problem brother. Stay safe and have a good day.	/r/MensRights	04/04/20 06:51 PM
1	A tweet outlining feminist dishonesty. You think a lot of single dads were getting their kids in the 60’s?	/r/MensRights	04/04/20 05:57 PM
1	A tweet outlining feminist dishonesty. But most of the issues that face men; workplace mortality, the pressure to provide, stunted emotions, custody, and homelessness ALL were far worse when feminism was smaller and had less influence on society. How is feminism to blame? What problems has the rise of feminism created or exacerbated?	/r/MensRights	04/04/20 05:50 PM
1	A tweet outlining feminist dishonesty. My point is that every movement has extremists that don’t represent the vast majority. That’s true for feminism, MRA, Islam, and everything in between. This sub would “catch more flies with honey than vinegar” if it laid off the feminist hate and talked about issues that face men.	/r/MensRights	04/04/20 05:33 PM
2	A tweet outlining feminist dishonesty. He murdered a bunch of sorority girls. https://nypost.com/2014/05/26/killers-links-to-the-mens-rights-activist-movement/ If the people I’m arguing with get to define feminism and use the most extreme example they can find and use her as their feminist poster child, can’t I do the same for MRAs?	/r/MensRights	04/04/20 04:42 PM
-1	A tweet outlining feminist dishonesty. As I’ve said, I’m not new to feminism. In my experience it’s a set of ideals based around equality, and the feminists I know and have engaged with have all been kind and empathetic people who seek equality for women and men. The “disdain towards true equality” isn’t something I’ve encountered in my 10 yrs of interest in feminism and only hear about such negativity from MRA who push the negative fringe brand of feminism that isn’t widely adopted or accepted. I’m told by you and other MRA, every t…	/r/MensRights	03/04/20 01:38 AM
1	A tweet outlining feminist dishonesty. Thank you for answering my question. I’ve never heard of this women, I’ll check it.	/r/MensRights	03/04/20 12:16 AM
-1	A tweet outlining feminist dishonesty. Have a good day. Please don’t murder any women to prove how alpha you are.	/r/MensRights	02/04/20 07:28 PM
-1	A tweet outlining feminist dishonesty. Save me? From what? A bunch of jaded misogynists? I don’t need any saving. Your hatred will find no footing with me. I hope some of you come around though.	/r/MensRights	02/04/20 07:22 PM
1	A tweet outlining feminist dishonesty. So you decide who a real MRA is and who isn’t? But im responsible for the words and actions of every feminist? Can you not see your own hypocrisy or do you purposefully commit it to serve your purpose?	/r/MensRights	02/04/20 06:51 PM
1	A tweet outlining feminist dishonesty. That’s my point, I have not lied. What actions require defending? I only speak for myself. Elliot Rodger was a MRA. Are you proud of him?	/r/MensRights	02/04/20 06:17 PM
2	A tweet outlining feminist dishonesty. I’m glad to see a little sanity here. Thanks.	/r/MensRights	02/04/20 05:05 PM
2	A tweet outlining feminist dishonesty. You think I am proud of a women’s march (which one?) and a speaker (who?) that I’m not familiar with? Is this what you claim I’m lying about? You’re not well. Good luck and stay safe.	/r/MensRights	02/04/20 05:05 PM
-4	A tweet outlining feminist dishonesty. Yes. Which ones are you referring to? MRA seem adamant about protecting gender roles. Which is the opposite of choice imo.	/r/MensRights	02/04/20 03:56 PM
3	A tweet outlining feminist dishonesty. There have been many women’s marches. Which one had the speaker you refuse to name? I’m not a fucking feminist leader or anything, I can’t be asked to speak on behalf of every detail you jerk off about. I don’t know what the hell your talking about or how a women’s march that recently happened somehow defines an entire movement that’s been around 100+ yrs.	/r/MensRights	02/04/20 03:55 PM
0	A tweet outlining feminist dishonesty. Please point out “the lie”.	/r/MensRights	02/04/20 03:53 PM
0	A tweet outlining feminist dishonesty. Haha. You’re so confusing. What was my lie? What is my defense? You’re not making any sense dude.	/r/MensRights	02/04/20 02:15 PM
2	A tweet outlining feminist dishonesty. What am I being dishonest about? I honestly don’t know who you’re talking about or what March you’re referring to. Why would I be proud of a bunch of white wine mom’s walking around with absurd hats and stupid signs? What did they accomplish? It’s just posturing and it’s a waste of time.	/r/MensRights	02/04/20 02:12 PM
1	A tweet outlining feminist dishonesty. I’m not proud of whatever women’s march you’re talking about. I’m not the member of any cult and I don’t subscribe to any feminist doctrine. Yet I’m a feminist. How does that work?	/r/MensRights	02/04/20 02:03 PM
-4	A tweet outlining feminist dishonesty. It’s interesting how much this time spends talking negatively about feminism, and how little time it spends talking about men’s rights. Why do you think that is?	/r/MensRights	02/04/20 02:01 PM
0	A tweet outlining feminist dishonesty. Sure thing dude. Please stay away from civilization if you think you’re just an animal.	/r/MensRights	02/04/20 01:51 PM
-9	A tweet outlining feminist dishonesty. As I said, that isn’t my experience with feminism at all. And it’s not what I believe as a feminist. Why is it that you’re allowed to define feminism, but I’m not?	/r/MensRights	02/04/20 01:50 PM
-5	A tweet outlining feminist dishonesty. I’m not even sure what you’re talking about, feminism isn’t religious doctrine or cult. That woman sounds like a piece of shit.	/r/MensRights	02/04/20 01:49 PM
-30	A tweet outlining feminist dishonesty. I’m a white man and I identify as an intersectional feminist, and that hasn’t been my experience from the feminism side. But that has absolutely been my experience from the MRA side. It just feels like thinly veiled misogyny. In a perfect world feminists and men’s rights activists would be allies, as they claim the same goals at a high level. Instead they are entrenched in a “I’m right and your wrong” attitude that doesn’t help anyone, except for the misogynists and misandrists that’s want to so…	/r/MensRights	02/04/20 01:19 PM
-40	A tweet outlining feminist dishonesty. I think it’s safe to assume we all recognize that we are more intelligent than animals though. So the purpose of feminism is to simply give all humans a choice, to decide if you do or do not wish to subscribe to the cultural/religious/social gender roles that have defined us for so long. Men can decide to be an at home caretaker for their family. Women can decide to be the protector and provider for their family. Or any other role reversal a man or woman may choose and mix-match them at will. Th…	/r/MensRights	02/04/20 01:00 PM
-35	A tweet outlining feminist dishonesty. Typical female oppression of men is an exploitation of patriarchal gender roles. I’m not sure I follow this tweet.	/r/MensRights	02/04/20 12:35 PM
0	A rape relief center lost funding because it excluded trans women. They're excluded because the feminists running the shelter believe they're men. Regardless of whether you agree, that's misandry because they believe it and act on that belief. Who made me, or you, the authority on definitions? We all have a different definition of who is an asshole. Why must genders be written in stone? It has nothing to do with me if any human defines their gender as whatever they wish. I’m just of the option that someone else’s personal business isn’t mine. So they should be allowed to live their best life as I wish to live mine. Forcing my own ideology upon them isn’t good for anyone and is a waste of time.	/r/MensRights	16/03/20 01:32 AM
-8	A rape relief center lost funding because it excluded trans women. They're excluded because the feminists running the shelter believe they're men. Regardless of whether you agree, that's misandry because they believe it and act on that belief. You’ll get not love for that here. These dudes are worse than TERFs. And their transphobia is one of the few things they side with TERFs on. Transmen are men. Transwomen are women. It’s not up to us to decide who gets to be what.	/r/MensRights	15/03/20 03:11 AM
1	Probably because rape isn’t the hottest bragging topic, idk? It’s often a matter of perspective. A woman can leave a sexual encounter feeling like the victim of a rape. And men can leave the same encounter feeling like they just had a consensual sexual experience. Plus, as OP said, it’s not like there is any amount of bonding men can create by sharing, where as trauma bonding is a very valuable coping mechanism. Rape and consent are very complex issues that are not nearly as black and white as both sides often paint them and it would behoove us all to bet…	/r/MensRights	02/03/20 05:17 PM
3	Woman calls out news source for hating on male firefighters But shouldn’t women and minorities share in these risks?	/r/MensRights	02/03/20 05:00 PM
-10	Let's highlight some good today Men protect us from...men. So can we really celebrate this?	/r/MensRights	29/02/20 05:48 PM
2	This mindset actually angers me Underage women can absolutely pursue and enjoy relationship with older men. That’s also rightly illegal and shouldn’t happen.	/r/MensRights	20/02/20 08:42 PM
9	Bronx teacher who performed oral sex on 14-year-old gets 10 years probation, avoids jail, keeps teaching certificate (2018) The word is “raped”.	/r/MensRights	20/02/20 03:49 AM
22	Japanese woman to white women r/menwritingwomen	/r/MensRights	19/02/20 03:48 PM
11	Woman hates men who ask for consent I’ve ruined a few sexual encounters by reaffirming consent. So be it, most women appreciate it and the ones that don’t probably aren’t my style.	/r/MensRights	14/01/20 03:01 AM
-4	This movie theater has a women’s restroom an a gender neutral one, no men’s But there is a bathroom for everyone. What’s the problem? You want more than 1 bathroom? Why?	/r/MensRights	02/01/20 12:45 AM
0	I was banned for merely mentioning a right that men don't have while the subreddit is filled with women's need for "rights". Somehow we are "far right" and want "supremacy". I’m a white male. Why would I advocate against myself?	/r/MensRights	28/12/19 03:32 PM
0	I was banned for merely mentioning a right that men don't have while the subreddit is filled with women's need for "rights". Somehow we are "far right" and want "supremacy". Well the loudest voices of the movement are. I’m condemning those voices, you’re defending them. I’m not sure what you’re upset about. I’m a white man and obviously I don’t want my rights eroded, but as a group we need to do a better job of differentiating between our rights and our privileges, and I think many of you often confuse the two. An encroachment upon our privileges as men is NOT an assault upon our rights. But privilege is a difficult thing to see and understand from the inside of our…	/r/MensRights	28/12/19 03:29 PM
0	I was banned for merely mentioning a right that men don't have while the subreddit is filled with women's need for "rights". Somehow we are "far right" and want "supremacy". I’m just posting from my own observations. I see a lot of misplaced anger, misogyny, and ignorance from MRA. Their education on social and gender issues is lacking and a lot of their opinions are ego-centric. Men’s Rights are important. I subscribe to this sub to learn and advocate for men. But the vast majority that identify as Men’s Rights Activists are actually advocating for white male superiority, which I obviously don’t agree with.	/r/MensRights	28/12/19 03:21 PM
-9	I was banned for merely mentioning a right that men don't have while the subreddit is filled with women's need for "rights". Somehow we are "far right" and want "supremacy". MRA are notoriously far right and often white supremacists and misogynists. If you deny this or don’t believe it, you could very well be some or all of those things.	/r/MensRights	28/12/19 01:27 PM
15	Centuries of adultery exposed: New DNA evidence suggests that the historic rate of women committing paternity fraud is between 1 and 4%. In the US it is common to bracelet the child and mother with matching ID Numbers before they are separated.	/r/MensRights	15/11/19 04:29 PM
40	Centuries of adultery exposed: New DNA evidence suggests that the historic rate of women committing paternity fraud is between 1 and 4%. I would say the unknowing father is the “victim”. The children are just fine.	/r/MensRights	15/11/19 02:28 PM
-1	Real talk “Men” is a very broad type of category. What are the commonalities between men that commit suicide? What are their reasons? What systems exist that create such despair for men that they see death as their only outlet? The patriarchy, and a society that teaches men that we are MEANT to be strong, be leaders, be providers, and be survivors often puts men who are not some or all of these things in an awful position. Sexism hurts men and women. It’s perpetuated by both men and women. Just as women a…	/r/MensRights	15/10/19 03:01 AM
1	I am a feminist. At least I thought so. If someone described whites men as “generally disinterested in the hard work it takes to be a leader” you’d fly off the rails with offense. You’re completely blind to your own sexism and privilege.	/r/MensRights	30/09/19 11:23 PM
1	I am a feminist. At least I thought so. It’s only used 1 way because we are talking about CEOs, presidents, generals, and billionaires. Which are like 99% men. You’re cherry picking comparing linemen to nurses to fit your whiny narrative.	/r/MensRights	30/09/19 05:21 PM
1	I am a feminist. At least I thought so. “....not a lot of people really want tackle the responsibilities it would take be in those positions...” Yet primarily men do this. So you do think women are just lazy? You’re masking your disdain for women poorly under a guise of “disinterest”. Why would men, but not women, be interested in controlling all of the capital, business, government, and militaries of the world?	/r/MensRights	30/09/19 05:12 PM
0	I am a feminist. At least I thought so. So you’re saying that men rule the world because women are lazy? Yeah, sure. You don’t hate women at all. /s	/r/MensRights	30/09/19 04:29 PM
1	I am a feminist. At least I thought so. So it’s not about gender then? Equality is about class. That’s my entire point.	/r/MensRights	30/09/19 04:27 PM
-1	I am a feminist. At least I thought so. How is that clear? Men hold almost every position of power and influence on earth. If men were at an inherent disadvantage, why wouldn’t the people who control our society, our capital, and the militaries of the world use these resources to help themselves? Having privilege and advantages doesn’t mean that we don’t have disadvantages or struggles. Life is difficult for every member of the working class (that’s to say, anyone who isn’t a billionaire or an heir to one). But there are distinct adva…	/r/MensRights	30/09/19 02:22 PM
-6	I am a feminist. At least I thought so. But it’s not a zero sum game. You’re comparing suffering. In order to solve problems we have to understand WHY they exist. Women are not the cause of higher rates of homelessness, suicide, and incarceration. Men are victims of these things. But the cause of them; capitalism , disparity of wealth, imperialism, and machismo are not propagated by an oppressive matriarchy. These things are still a part of the patriarchy. As I said multiple times, this system hurts men and women. Why do you expect wo…	/r/MensRights	30/09/19 01:55 PM
-12	I am a feminist. At least I thought so. Well women do have it worse. This sub is 100% better about not banning people, but that’s also because it’s not brigaded by trolls (like many feminist subs have been). I appreciate the opportunity to speak openly here. Look at wealth, positions of power in business, military, leadership, and government. These positions are overwhelmingly held by men. Why? There are really only two conclusions one can draw from this fact. A system exists that benefits men. Women are inherently inferior to men. I …	/r/MensRights	30/09/19 01:18 PM
-14	I am a feminist. At least I thought so. I’m a man and a feminist. Feminism isn’t at odds with men’s rights at all. Most reasonable feminists (not misandrists) recognize that sexism hurts both men and women in very different ways, and equality means that both men and women get a better deal in life. Men’s Rights groups are rife with misogyny and rarely acknowledge the struggles that both men and women face under sexism and the patriarchy. It’s great you’re expanding your world view and learning.	/r/MensRights	30/09/19 12:26 PM
-2	Felt like this needed to be seen by more people I’m a man. My ego is fine, as is my ability to express emotion in a healthy and constructive way. You’re the one that is telling me to “Get out!” At the mere mention of fragile male egos. Until we can speak earnestly about these issues, they will continue to plague us.	/r/MensRights	27/07/19 11:41 PM
-2	Felt like this needed to be seen by more people I think you have a poor understanding of these comments friend. Ridiculing an adult man for lashing out violently in defense of his fragile ego is NOT hindering his ability to express emotions in a healthy way.	/r/MensRights	27/07/19 10:52 PM
1	Christina H Summers is my favorite feminist You think “negative masculinity” exists??? You’re sexist. Masculinity is fine.	/r/MensRights	05/06/19 12:30 AM
1	Christina H Summers is my favorite feminist I’m neither black nor Jewish, so I wouldn’t have any insight into what parts of their cultures are toxic. There is certainly toxic Christianity, there are toxic relationships, there exists toxic work environments and toxic friendships. I’m having trouble providing any more examples. Masculinity doesn’t exist in a vacuum. It’s a vague concept that we all choose define how we see fit. Some men think that abusing their wife makes them a better husband and man, and contributed positively to their ma…	/r/MensRights	04/06/19 11:42 PM
1	Christina H Summers is my favorite feminist I’m seriously asking. Did you do well in school? I’m fascinated at the lengths you’re going to purposefully not understand what I’m saying in an attempt to prove me “wrong”. I chose the word toxic for obvious reasons. Switch it with sugary or unhealthy or whatever the hell else is simple enough for you to understand. Masculinity exists and is fine. Toxic Masculinity exists and is not fine. You denying this changes nothing.	/r/MensRights	04/06/19 10:32 PM
1	Christina H Summers is my favorite feminist Food is essential to life. Too much of the wrong food will kill you. Toxic food is bad. Food is fine. See how those things are different? Or do you think I hate ALL food?	/r/MensRights	04/06/19 09:34 PM
2	Christina H Summers is my favorite feminist “Masculinity is not the problem here, it is the cure.” Interesting finish for a guy complaining about straw men. No one has said masculinity is the problem.	/r/MensRights	04/06/19 06:37 PM
0	Christina H Summers is my favorite feminist Omfg. Do any of you know how adjectives work? “Toxic masculinity” is different than “masculinity” because the word toxic precedes it as a descriptor of a specific subset of perceived (by the actor) masculine traits that are harmful to the person acting them out and possibly those around them.	/r/MensRights	04/06/19 02:00 PM
0	Christina H Summers is my favorite feminist Uh.. “...It was actually about how society treats men more than how we now use it to blame men.” I know. That’s what I’m saying. Society treats men, and has expectations of them, that can be harmful to both men and women. Masculinity is fine. So many of you very ignorantly (I honestly can’t tell if it’s willful or not, perhaps you’re just dense) frame toxic masculinity as “aLl mAsCuLiNiTy bAd”. It’s as if you don’t know what an adjective is.	/r/MensRights	04/06/19 01:58 PM
-2	Christina H Summers is my favorite feminist Well you’re just arguing semantics at this point and diluting the message. Behavior that is toxic because of an exaggerated view of what it means to be masculine (or feminine) exists and there is nothing sexist or bad about associating these things with their root motivations. You’re doing nothing to help anyone or anything (except fragile male egos) with your droning on.	/r/MensRights	03/06/19 08:37 PM
-5	Christina H Summers is my favorite feminist You’re stating your (ill educated) opinion as fact, toxic masculinity exists and it is not sexist. Only an insecure person who believes their toxic traits are valuable would be offended by this term. Too Masculinity and toxic femininity are social constructs that are reinforced or encouraged by the ignorant. We have to recognize and identify this behavior if we wish it to end. You’re in denial so there is no progress to be made on your part until you accept it.	/r/MensRights	03/06/19 05:59 PM
1	Christina H Summers is my favorite feminist Masculinity and Femininity are not exclusively a gender thing either. Toxic masculinity can’t absolutely be displayed by women and should also be shut down.	/r/MensRights	03/06/19 05:25 PM
-3	Is this what Male privilege looks like? Sorry tough guy, I can see you’re triggered. It’s ok, no one here is going to hurt you. But have you asked WHY men sacrifice their bodies/health? It’s not because women ask them to. It’s because we are socially expected to. Men do have struggles. Men have their own set of challenges that women do not. But many men here fault to understand WHY these challenges exist. Instead of getting all pissed and defensive as you have just done. Be constructive. Talk about the challenges men face, why they fa…	/r/MensRights	22/05/19 06:20 AM
-9	Is this what Male privilege looks like? Most of these guys have no interest in being educated about men’s rights, they just want to complain about the patriarchy while claiming it doesn’t exist. They want to maintain their privilege but end all of the downsides that come with it. Their ego is too fragile for the idea that they could improve their lives and the lives of other men if they would only let go of their pride and chauvinism.	/r/MensRights	22/05/19 04:36 AM
1	Feminists want all the rights and none of the responsibilities I enjoy learning about feminism and I really do believe it is about equality. I have not heard this topic come up with any feminists honestly. I’m curious about how many feel on the topic.	/r/MensRights	24/03/19 10:43 PM
26	Feminists want all the rights and none of the responsibilities I’m a feminist and I completely agree with this. If the father asks for an abortion and the mother refuses, she should be on the hook for support.	/r/MensRights	24/03/19 02:54 PM
1	I hate it when they say how ‘privileged’ we are But what situation puts men into this? It’s the patriarchy. We perpetuate a system that hurts us too.	/r/MensRights	17/02/19 06:59 AM
-3	Is there such a thing as toxic masculinity? Does this serve as a counter argument? https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sex_differences_in_crime 2011 arrest data from the FBI:[51] Males constituted 98.9% of those arrested for forcible rape[51] Males constituted 87.9% of those arrested for robbery[51] Males constituted 85.0% of those arrested for burglary[51] Males constituted 83.0% of those arrested for arson.[51] Males constituted 81.7% of those arrested for vandalism.[51] Males constituted 81.5% of those arrested for motor-vehicle theft.[51] Males constituted 79.7% of those arres…	/r/MensRights	20/01/19 09:29 PM
-5	Is there such a thing as toxic masculinity? Does this serve as a counter argument? You’re wrong. I’m a feminist and I’m interested in equality. Men’s Rights are an important part of equality that are often overlooked. I’m not trolling. You opened your long argument with a definition of masculinity that is not within the context of how it is often discussed/perceived. You’re either very dense or pushing a misogynist agenda. I think it’s a combination of the former and an unconscious attempt at the latter. I am also surprised i have not been banned. All of bro-flakes of this sub…	/r/MensRights	20/01/19 08:41 PM
-4	Is there such a thing as toxic masculinity? Does this serve as a counter argument? If you’re going to be willfully ignorant, we have nothing to discuss. Good luck clinging desperately to these antiquated ideas.	/r/MensRights	20/01/19 07:52 PM
2	Is there such a thing as toxic masculinity? Does this serve as a counter argument? Many men believe that showing emotion is not masculine. This leads them to suppress emotions to the point where they turn to alcoholism, domestic violence, drugs, or even suicide. They believe that being anything less than their imagine of “a man” is the worst thing they can be. They sacrifice their happiness or lives to maintain this image. There are traits that movies, music, and TV often promote that make men masculine. Young men see/hear these things and society pressures them to fill that r…	/r/MensRights	20/01/19 04:03 PM
4	Is there such a thing as toxic masculinity? Does this serve as a counter argument? “This is a perfect analogy because the target is fake and he put it there himself” Masculinity can be toxic. It doesn’t have to be.	/r/MensRights	20/01/19 05:33 AM
8	"Toxic Masculinity isn't the problem. Lack of Masculinity is." Women are not conditioned to be emotionless. Men are, in order to be more “masculine”. Women are not asked to put themselves in harms way to protect men. Men are, because it is “chivalrous”. There is absolutely toxic femininity.	/r/MensRights	18/01/19 09:10 PM
6	"Toxic Masculinity isn't the problem. Lack of Masculinity is." The lack of a positive male role model (aka positive masculinity) can lead young men to subscribe to toxic behaviors that they believe make them more masculine, typically from media.	/r/MensRights	18/01/19 09:07 PM
7	"Toxic Masculinity isn't the problem. Lack of Masculinity is." Do all of you really have this poor of an understanding of “toxic masculinity”? Adjectives are words that describe nouns. Masculinity is the primary word here. There is a type of masculinity that encourages men to display toxic behavior as it relates to their masculinity. It’s not a difficult concept to grasp and the moron who tweeted this is being willfully ignorant.	/r/MensRights	18/01/19 07:47 PM
1	I was banned from another subreddit. Only excuse given is 'No men allowed' (reposted with title update due to mod) Nope, just the first one. If you were actually interested in this topic you could find a litany of ways that feminism has benefited both men and women. But you’re not, you just want to prove me wrong so you can continue being a willfully ignorant misogynist.	/r/MensRights	06/01/19 08:55 PM
1	I was banned from another subreddit. Only excuse given is 'No men allowed' (reposted with title update due to mod) https://mic.com/articles/88277/23-ways-feminism-has-made-the-world-a-better-place-for-men This person already did.	/r/MensRights	06/01/19 07:31 PM
1	I was banned from another subreddit. Only excuse given is 'No men allowed' (reposted with title update due to mod) Radical Christianity, today, is about murdering gay people and chastising women. I didn’t say I’m a radical feminist and the extremists of feminism don’t represent the movement.	/r/MensRights	06/01/19 06:47 PM
0	I was banned from another subreddit. Only excuse given is 'No men allowed' (reposted with title update due to mod) “the advocacy of women's rights on the basis of the equality of the sexes.” That’s literally the definition. It’s based on equality, not establishing a matriarchy.	/r/MensRights	06/01/19 06:25 PM
1	I was banned from another subreddit. Only excuse given is 'No men allowed' (reposted with title update due to mod) You don’t know what “suffrage” means.	/r/MensRights	06/01/19 06:23 PM
-9	I was banned from another subreddit. Only excuse given is 'No men allowed' (reposted with title update due to mod) Why do you believe you are an authority to define feminism , but I am not?	/r/MensRights	06/01/19 06:31 AM
-5	I was banned from another subreddit. Only excuse given is 'No men allowed' (reposted with title update due to mod) I’m a man. Feminism, in the academic sense (not always in practice, every movement has extremists, I can’t answer for them) is about equality for women AND men. The patriarchy is a real thing that puts both men and women at a disadvantage in various situations. Feminism is about unveiling and destroying that patriarchy, and with it the undue pressure it places on both men and women to follow social gender roles or be deemed a lesser member of their sex. Through the years, most of the feminists I…	/r/MensRights	06/01/19 06:03 AM
15	I was banned from another subreddit. Only excuse given is 'No men allowed' (reposted with title update due to mod) She will be lucky to live to 55 yrs old at her weight. It’s akin to calling a heroin addict ‘brave’ for posing for a magazine with track lines on her arms. Her unhealthy addiction is killing her and it’s an awful thing to promote. Just because a huge portion of society is just as willfully ignorant as her about that addiction doesn’t make it ok.	/r/MensRights	06/01/19 05:30 AM
18	I was banned from another subreddit. Only excuse given is 'No men allowed' (reposted with title update due to mod) I’m actually a feminist. I was also banned from that sub for disagreeing with the idea that Tess Holiday is a positive representation of women.	/r/MensRights	06/01/19 05:05 AM
2	Bernie Sanders forced to apologize for reports of sexism in his 2016 campaign that are mysteriously just being reported now that the 2020 campaign has begun The industrial military complex wants Beto and Biden to win. So no, they won’t.	/r/MensRights	03/01/19 04:48 PM
0	Titanic privilege Well almost every employee in the bows of the ship was a man. I would guess that most of the people who lived were wealthy, and of them, maybe a slightly higher percentage of women because of “chivalry”. These numbers don’t tell the story.	/r/MensRights	02/10/18 10:54 PM
-4	"Toxic" masculinity? Kids say otherwise. Children without personal masculine influences are left to learn about masculinity via TV/movies, which often portrays an exaggerated and toxic version of masculinity. The author of this quote is ignorant of pretty much everything.	/r/MensRights	26/09/18 06:24 AM
2	Bronx teacher who performed oral sex on 14-year-old gets 10 years probation, avoids jail, keeps teaching certificate - NY Daily News Raped*	/r/MensRights	13/09/18 03:16 PM
2	I know when I was in school, elementary was female majority, middle school was 50/50 and high shool male majority. My kids schools are all female majority even in the high school. Thanks! I appreciate the good faith discussion. Have a good one.	/r/MensRights	16/08/18 03:26 AM
1	I know when I was in school, elementary was female majority, middle school was 50/50 and high shool male majority. My kids schools are all female majority even in the high school. Yes. Again, I understand. Toxic masculinity is very real, young men learn that it’s what it is to “be a man”, and it’s most definitely a problem. As others stated, she’s also wrong. 69% of children live with both parents and I would guess that many of the 31% have a positive male role model. She’s also kinda saying that women are failing men, despite doing most of the rearing, which is insulting to mothers everywhere and let’s deadbeat dads off the hook. But finishes with blaming men for not bei…	/r/MensRights	16/08/18 02:58 AM
-3	I know when I was in school, elementary was female majority, middle school was 50/50 and high shool male majority. My kids schools are all female majority even in the high school. I get that. I’m saying I disagree, because toxic masculinity is most definitely a problem.	/r/MensRights	16/08/18 02:47 AM
-9	I know when I was in school, elementary was female majority, middle school was 50/50 and high shool male majority. My kids schools are all female majority even in the high school. No. Toxic Masculinity is definitely the problem.	/r/MensRights	16/08/18 02:35 AM
15	I know when I was in school, elementary was female majority, middle school was 50/50 and high shool male majority. My kids schools are all female majority even in the high school. This moronic tweet is equating all masculinity to “toxic masculinity”. Toxic Masculinity is not saying that all things that are masculine are toxic. It’s saying that parts of what society considers masculine is actually toxic behavior. Women often promote and reward this toxic behavior as much as other men do, it’s a SOCIAL issue, not a man issue. A man can be masculine but not participate in toxic behavior.	/r/MensRights	15/08/18 10:04 PM
1	Repost. Gun deaths are overwhelmingly male suicide Having easy access to guns makes all gun violence more common. There are mountains of data to support this claim. There are sound arguments on both sides of the gun control debate, but gun violence is directly related to gun access.	/r/MensRights	01/06/18 04:21 PM