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| 1 | You cant survive the modern dating market unless you are good in bedI will probably come back to you at some point mate. Worse uni g though you can do is doubt yourself. Self fulfilling prophecies are real | /r/seduction | 29/04/25 10:08 PM |
| 1 | How to text with a girl that doesn't ask you any questions?Dump the apps and meet more interesting girls who don’t hide behind a screen | /r/seduction | 26/04/25 09:06 PM |
| 3 | Is there anyone here with a 4/10 physical appearance who manages to date women (regulary) with a 7.5/10 or higher physique? What’s your secret?Self love. Or at least they own their shadow | /r/seduction | 23/04/25 11:21 PM |
| 3 | I finally had a one night stand and now i feel miserableSounds like you gotta do a lot of deep work man. You got some conflicting beliefs. Sounds like needed integration. Be curious and compassionate and try to think of the voice that is shaming you… it’s ok to be human! To be imperfect. You had a good time. But focus on the learnings. Don’t shame yourself, focus on the real you now. People who don’t love themselves change. People who do evolve. It sounds like your psyche just trying to reconcile your ego identity. | /r/seduction | 22/04/25 08:34 AM |
| 1 | Why some women reject in a very rude way?Honestly I think sometimes it’s cos you’re a lion that thinks you’re a mouse. There’s cognitive dissonance because most people aren’t aligned with their nature due to the matrix. Be the real you. Then it wont matter. A lion moves on to the lionesses. The journey to embolus the lion is the real work | /r/seduction | 20/04/25 09:00 AM |
| 9 | Why do some men ghost when everything is going well?You don’t really know what people are dealing with under the surface. People will do anything to avoid looking at their own souls. Just focus on seeing yourself clearly. Being present for yourself so you can see him clearly. For all you know it’s going so well he’s self sabotaging. Or he’s off with someone else cos his ego has gone rampant. You can’t know. Surrender to it. Figure out what you want. Communicate it. Build your own heaven and if he’s ok with himself and wants to level up to he will… | /r/seduction | 18/04/25 09:46 AM |
| 2 | Would a 10/10 girl lose interest if she sees you give attention to way less attractive girlsJust BE you. You’ll drive yourself crazy worrying about this kind of thing. Be assertive and unapologetic if you genuinely love your life. If you dont’t, be assertive in your ambitions to change that | /r/seduction | 17/04/25 08:00 AM |
| 3 | Dating with a model is the best self-improvement I could haveWow very open and honest and self aware. Have you considered journalling and reflecting with AI btw? Give yourself plaudits man. You’ve come so far. Celebrate that fucking growth. It is internal stuff. I’m jealous of you! I’m in a place where I’m living at home with parents and no job but it’s inspiring to see you write this bro. Embrace the hero’s journey man. You are your own permission slip. Be there for yourself. You’re aware enough to know you’re triggered when left on red. It’s probably be… | /r/seduction | 15/04/25 03:14 PM |
| 2 | Fumbled while texting, how can I recoverJust make sure you mean it and detach. Let things flow. Easier said then done. Buy it could turn around. You don’t know. Take the win that she was even interested for a long while. | /r/seduction | 14/04/25 03:17 PM |
| 2 | Fumbled while texting, how can I recoverWorst part is beating yourself up for mistakes like that. Realise it’s part of the journey and let go. Maybe try and connect on social media and just concentrate on you being you. Were you authentic when you said that? Just own it and realise you don’t really know her and she doesn’t know you either. No big deal either way | /r/seduction | 14/04/25 02:26 PM |
| 8 | How do I stop pushing girls away by being an emotional bitchBe there for yourself first imo Solid relationship with the self. Recognise your own agency, self belief and love for yourself and others and cultivate it. Look into your soul. Embrace the hero’s journey. Let go of ever becoming Casanova and just be unapologetically you. The universe will keep testing us inviting us to become the people we were always meant to be | /r/seduction | 14/04/25 10:37 AM |
| 6 | I’m 41 - is it too late?No. Never too late | /r/seduction | 05/07/24 11:18 AM |
| 1 | Bit Confused. The More Introverted I Am, The More It Attracts Women.I could see that. It doesn’t feel like that to me in the moment but maybe I need help discerning the difference in the moment. | /r/seduction | 20/06/24 07:44 AM |
| 8 | Bit Confused. The More Introverted I Am, The More It Attracts Women.This speaks to me. The women I’ve liked have often given me interest but when I turn try to pursue them it ends up breaking off or fizzling out | /r/seduction | 19/06/24 08:05 AM |
| 1 | Are you guys in shape ?Feel the same. Think it’s all linked to self love which is key. I’m looking to get into the best shape of my life this summer | /r/seduction | 19/06/24 07:59 AM |
| 3 | should skinny fat guy try getting a partner or he should prioritise getting in shape firstI’m similar and I’m working on me. Always go for yourself first. If it’s an issue for you, it will be an issue for any partner | /r/seduction | 14/06/24 04:52 PM |
| 2 | A quick guide: why you should never try to win back an exI tried it once with a beautifully penned letter. Initial positive response followed by nasty cruel bitter follow-up when I responded. Never again. Go all in on yourself. Seduce yourself first. Someone acts off and doesn’t give you a good reason why, tell them politely to leave you alone until they sort themselves out. Know thyself | /r/seduction | 05/06/24 01:57 PM |
| 2 | I’ve lost more girls to inaction than to overpursuingSo true. Guess maybe if they trigger things in you to act this way it’s not great, but we gotta be our best selves and manage to control the emotions better. We all got trauma. Still not over the way she ended things but determined not to ever find myself in that position again, and if I do… I know it won’t kill me but makes me stronger. I think it’s like when your team loses the big game by small margins. You know the other team were probably better, but some bad calls from the referee and shee… | /r/seduction | 12/08/23 12:06 PM |
| 18 | I’ve lost more girls to inaction than to overpursuingThis is such a hard thing I’ve realised to know the difference between pursuing and chasing, balancing between over-pursuing and acting too aloof. I think I managed to do both with the last woman I fell for (emotional quicksand). Such things as, when you left things in her court for a few days about the next date, or double texting when she’s not replied for a while… when to be direct and when not to be overbearing. Overthinking is usually what does it, am hoping some will school me lol | /r/seduction | 11/08/23 01:46 PM |
| 54 | This one slutty trick will win your lifeSlutty? | /r/seduction | 04/08/23 07:55 AM |
| 8 | Do not give a person power over youI had a girl promise me a ticket for a gig 3 months in advance on a second date. Things went south not long after this and by then she was re-blocking me day after 🤷♂️ | /r/seduction | 17/07/23 05:41 PM |
| 5 | Do not give a person power over youToo big a move? | /r/seduction | 17/07/23 04:27 PM |
| 5 | I got laid!Good job | /r/seduction | 02/07/23 06:12 PM |
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