| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 1244 | This is how it's supposed to be?! | GREEN FLAG 🟢 | LiquidxDreams | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 02:33 PM |
| 325 | This poor girl. | PORN SICK, LIMP DICK | LiquidxDreams | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 04:58 PM |
| 159 | 3 month ago I broke up with my LVM ex thanks to FDS...and still I rise. | LEVEL UP | LiquidxDreams | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 12:05 PM |
| 137 | I broke up with him after 6 years. I'm in pain but I know it will pass. | #KickHimOut2020 | LiquidxDreams | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 12:37 PM |
| 77 | I just found Toni Jones and it's giving me FDS energy! | QUEEN SH*T | LiquidxDreams | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/21 08:22 PM |
| 32 | I have no words | NAH, SIS | LiquidxDreams | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/21 03:11 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 11 | Men wanting to have sex with you is not the compliment you think it is! Men will have sex with a mcchicken sandwichMy ex did this. We had sex on a Sunday, he broke up with me 3 days later. It was absolutely devastating at the time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 04:41 PM |
| 3 | Bill Cosby released after assault conviction overturned by Pennsylvania Supreme Court - just when we thought things couldn’t get any worse...🤢Just another reason to hate the state I live in 😩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/21 03:08 PM |
| 3 | POV: You don’t see women as people. Even therapy can’t help you.That entire post is disgusting. The depravity leaps out from the getgo. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/21 12:22 PM |
| 5 | I just found Toni Jones and it's giving me FDS energy!If I find it I'll share! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/21 01:10 PM |
| 3 | Don’t tell your friends about him too soonThat he likes me and he enjoyed spending time with me but he hadn't developed feelings for me. He said he usually falls in love within the first few months. My question which he never answered was why it took him so long then. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 12:16 AM |
| 26 | Don’t tell your friends about him too soonI started telling people around month 3, we had a wonderful vacation in Mexico last month and 2 days ago he broke up with me after 7 months. We were supposed to drive down in May so he can meet my father. I guess it's a blessing in disguise. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 05:47 PM |
| 2 | Are there any successful women here with tattoos?I have had a tattoo on my left wrist for 10 years and it has never stopped me from advancing. I recently got another one on my right wrist stretching up to the middle of my arm and I also just signed a promotion letter last week. Tattoos are a norm nowadays there are people who have multiples and are still very successful in all areas of their life. Jobs or people who care more about tattoos than the person you are just sort themselves out as those not worth your time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/21 01:58 PM |
| 3 | This is how it's supposed to be?!They weren't plastic shields, and they weren't around the 1 or 2 tables that were in the middle of the room or between or around the piano player. The tables were set apart to still follow precautions. I just thought it added ambience 🤷 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 01:19 PM |
| 18 | Since you joined FDS, what are the ‘pink-flags’ or little LVM behavior you started picking up on that you didn’t notice before or would let slide?100% this. My ex used to do that and it was EXHAUSTING. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 06:32 AM |
| 20 | This is how it's supposed to be?!I had to wait years and experience endless letdowns. I'm still wary as it's only been a few months. I'm going to stay cautious like many ladies have suggested and we'll see! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 06:17 AM |
| 8 | This is how it's supposed to be?!I haven't seen any indication yet of this but then again I stuck with a guy who was no good for me for years. I'm trying to stay realistic but still appreciative. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 05:48 AM |
| 6 | This is how it's supposed to be?!I'm sorry you feel that way. Men who will show they care exist and I sincerely hope you experience something like this one day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 05:45 AM |
| 7 | This is how it's supposed to be?!The tables were six feet apart and it was a small room so not a lot of people were in it. It definitely made the setting feel more intimate as well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 11:38 PM |
| 15 | This is how it's supposed to be?!I've been trying to bring myself back down to earth all day haven't accomplished it yet but I will continue to vet! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 11:37 PM |
| 18 | This is how it's supposed to be?!Yes it was something truly special ☺ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 11:36 PM |
| 20 | This is how it's supposed to be?!Thank you! Heads been in the clouds all day ! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 11:36 PM |
| 51 | This is how it's supposed to be?!I thought about it all day and would randomly smile. He agreed it was the best Valentine's Day he's ever had as well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 11:35 PM |
| 2 | the shit ppl do for cloutI gasped audibly at this one. Oh my goodness just NO! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 12:27 AM |
| 6 | Don’t give away your love too easily.I needed to see this today. Thank you for the reminder! Not everyone loves like you will! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 01:51 PM |
| 31 | "MeN dOnT gEt AnY CoMpLiMeNtS"I just CACKLED omg! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 01:51 AM |
| 3 | Why is financial independence frowned upon?Financial independence is everything. There's nothing like having the freedom to do what you need and want without relying on others. I really have no support system but my mom so if she can't help it's all me. There's something comforting about knowing that you'll be ok because you have your own back. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 09:13 PM |
| 66 | FDS ladies are not dumb AND didn’t text their exes Merry Christmas ✨Oh I'm good, I laughed and left him on read just like I always do. That relationship was over for me long before I actually left. Thanks though boo! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 03:26 PM |
| 109 | FDS ladies are not dumb AND didn’t text their exes Merry Christmas ✨Definitely didn't but he sure texted me! 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 03:21 PM |
| 45 | This one hit me like a ton of bricksI agree with all of it except the Melania Trump part. She is just as cold and calculating as him, saying she is scared of him is simply fabricating something that's not there. At best he is an annoyance to her. Let's reserve our sympathy for real victims please. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 02:49 PM |
| 102 | FACT: Women dont want sex with incompetent manchildren. Which is why a womans sexual interest in her male partner drops off the fucking cliff!This is so true. My attraction to my ex slowly dropped over the years until I realized I had no desire for sex at all and I thought there was something wrong with me. I felt nothing when he kissed me and the thought of getting intimate did nothing for me. Then after getting unexpectedly hit on one day I realized it was HIM I didn't want to sleep with. I still had sexual desire just not for man-children who wouldn't do the bare minimum. My libido has come roaring back since dumping him! Such a re… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 06:09 PM |
| 5 | "My bf is perfect! Except for his violence, abuse and starving me."Wtf did I just read. No words. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 04:20 PM |
| 10 | I’m so disgustedI honestly can't feel too bad for her. This can't be the 1st time this behavior has come up and yet she had not one not two but three children with him. Eventually you have to take some responsibility. The only people who deserve sympathy in this situation are the children. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 10:45 AM |
| 182 | This poor girl.What infuriates me is that she thinks SHE needs help to get over it when the entire problem is HIM. We've been so conditioned to just accept it that she is gaslighting herself. Heartbreaking. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 05:25 PM |
| 3 | I broke up with him after 6 years. I'm in pain but I know it will pass.It's good to hear that. Thank you for sharing your experience it helps and gives me hope. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 12:21 AM |
| 3 | I broke up with him after 6 years. I'm in pain but I know it will pass.Thank you, I'll definitely look that up. Looking forward to leveling up and being the best version of myself! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 12:20 AM |
| 12 | I broke up with him after 6 years. I'm in pain but I know it will pass.I keep telling myself that. I'm really soft-hearted and I held on so long because I couldn't fathom hurting him in any way shape or form. But I had to realize he was hurting me with no remorse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 12:19 AM |
| 5 | I broke up with him after 6 years. I'm in pain but I know it will pass.Thank you! I'm trying to get excited about having my own space to decorate, focusing solely on my diet and exercise routine and finding things to occupy myself with. Funnily enough I've also thought about writing again. I used to write poetry and short stories and now I have time to focus on it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 12:19 AM |
| 30 | Anyone else having a WEEK right now? Need to vent or get something off your chest? Feeling tempted to text or go back to old toxic patterns because you are feeling isolated? Need a "big sister" pep talk for any damn reason? A thread for affirmation, support, virtual love, and healing for any Queen!I'm breaking up with my bf of 6 years in the morning and he's lovebombing the shit out me. Keeps giving me kisses and asking if he can do anything for me. Trying to make date plans. Why today of all days??? This shits hard. Choosing me hurts so bad. But I've given him 6 years to get a license, become financially responsible, get a car etc. When we talked about marriage a year ago he said he wasn't ready. How many more times am I supposed to believe him??? I'm just in tears right now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 12:37 AM |
| 3 | Man to avoid: the insecure narcissistI know he'll try to convince me to stay. He has before by love bombing me and convincing me he can change only to never make good on his promises or he always has an excuse. He doesn't blow me up when I'm not home at least but everything else feels familiar. Thank you so much for taking the time to type this all out and spreading awareness. I'll probably be a miserable semi regretful mess for a few days after but I keep telling myself it's for the best. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 04:45 PM |
| 7 | Man to avoid: the insecure narcissistThis is my entire relationship. Seeing it laid out like this in black and white...oh my goodness. I've been working up the courage and strength to leave him but feeling so bad because "I'm his world" and "I make his life better by being in it" and...this is the final nail in the coffin I needed. I feel so stupid for letting him manipulate me for so long. Nearly 6 years...im leaving on Friday. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 01:55 PM |
| 5 | How has your life changed since discovering FDSIt's giving me the strength I need to leave my bf of 5 years. This sub has really opened my eyes to what I deserve! An equal, not a project to work on! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 01:18 AM |
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