Lisavela Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
13	CMV: Men are no longer the "prize" by default due to the rapidly changing landscape of womens' rights and equal pay, and they're now having to be equal partners and hate they it. Women need to increase their standards the type of men I see people dating scares me, when women stop participating in hook ups hold men accountable dating will get better for all	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/22 04:39 PM
-2	CMV: Men are no longer the "prize" by default due to the rapidly changing landscape of womens' rights and equal pay, and they're now having to be equal partners and hate they it. Other way around lmao	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/22 04:37 PM
3	Q4W: Do you care whether or not a man has been “run through”? Yes I care, not about to date a h0e.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/22 08:32 AM
2	Is there a married man that doesn't masturbate or watch porn? Who doesn’t watch porn yes, but doesn’t masturbate very very rare	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/22 09:32 PM
2	Are women happy with the current state of dating? Sadly that’s what majority of women are getting	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/22 05:38 PM
2	Women need to stop justifying their life choices and have fun Most people lie about their body counts so at this stage I need to find me a morman or something	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/22 03:45 PM
8	Men need to stop justifying why they don't want to date women with high body counts I know a lot that do, most people don’t like promiscuous people it’s a turn off no matter the gender and shows a lack of self respect	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/22 08:06 AM
1	Women tell men to stick to their league, but women are attracted to the type of men - those out of their league If the women you like don’t like you, you are dating out of your league so you should upgrade yourself	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/22 06:46 PM
1	American women are some of the most overrated women on the planet. For a stalker your not very good at your job, but I am sorry for hurting your feeling.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/22 03:45 PM
3	How common is this? "I have an amazing career, make almost 6 figures, have lots of friends and family, fit and physically active, many hobbies and talented, but I can't get a single date" Honestly with your logic you could say every woman is a gold digger some expect more and some less	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/22 01:19 PM
1	American women are some of the most overrated women on the planet. True, I should probably slide in your moms dms 😋	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/22 01:17 PM
0	Why do women seem to be less bothered by being single than men? Sex and a relationship isn’t the same thing, getting laid is the easiest thing a woman can do but getting into a relationship alot harder	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/22 08:55 PM
-2	Why do women seem to be less bothered by being single than men? Agreed lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/22 08:54 PM
3	Why do women seem to be less bothered by being single than men? This !!!	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/22 08:54 PM
2	Why do women seem to be less bothered by being single than men? I hear a lot of men complain about not getting laid also being single is just so much less stressful	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/22 08:51 PM
3	Why do women seem to be less bothered by being single than men? This is so true	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/22 08:49 PM
5	Why do women seem to be less bothered by being single than men? Honestly I’ve noticed my life quality decreases everytime I’m in a relationship. I end up spending lots of time and money and getting nothing beneficial in return so now I just enjoy being a student and spending time with my family and friends which is much more meaningful	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/22 08:48 PM
1	Would you prefer to have a single monogamous sexual relationship for your entire life with somebody you loved but only found moderately attractive. Or would be prefer to have an endless supply of causal sex with people you found extremely attractive but never formed an emotional bound with? Haha true	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/22 10:18 AM
1	What's your "hot take" or unpopular opinion when it comes to dating? Agreed and these same men, then want a woman who is going to go half’s on everything	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/22 08:36 AM
0	What's your "hot take" or unpopular opinion when it comes to dating? Most men don’t want a partner they want a sex toy and most men want to do the bare minimum to get laid also netflix and chill isn’t a date.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/22 08:35 AM
-2	why does a man stay in a relationship from a male perspective? That’s true my mom works as a nurse she says 90% of the female patients husbands leave when they find out, while majority of the women stay to take care of their husbands.	/r/RedPillWomen	11/09/22 08:31 AM
1	why does a man stay in a relationship from a male perspective? That’s your leg. If something happens to your face, I bet he won’t be this kind and helpful. I don’t understand why you are being in denial you literally stated he’s with you because you are younger and sleep with him.	/r/RedPillWomen	11/09/22 07:54 AM
1	why does a man stay in a relationship from a male perspective? Probably because he only cares about you being hot attractive and good in bed. I bet if you were to have an accident and loss your appeal he’d be gone in a flash too	/r/RedPillWomen	11/09/22 07:42 AM
1	This sub is horrible advice for online dating Honestly this is Reddit can’t expect much	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/22 01:34 PM
-1	When you are in the talking phase with someone, should you be loyal to them? No gf tittle no loyalty carry on dating other people till you have the exclusivity talk	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/22 01:12 PM
11	He’s spending a lot of money on me and I don’t know what to do… He likes you a lot that he wants to impress you, I think this is a huge green flag	/r/RedPillWomen	08/09/22 11:01 AM
2	Would Short Men (Under 5 ft 5) Have More Dating Opportunities In A Country Where The Average Woman Is Shorter? Yes you’ll have better dating oppurtunities	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/22 10:33 AM
2	American women are some of the most overrated women on the planet. Lmao I’m a lesbian but nice try	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/22 06:51 PM
2	Where did you get your opinions about women? The internet happened	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/22 04:48 PM
2	Women deserve absolutely no sympathy for their issues. Most women don’t own a gun but they should.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/22 04:13 PM
1	American women are some of the most overrated women on the planet. I’m not going to tell you where I live but a lot of Americans love to claim to be from the said country	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/22 04:12 PM
-1	Women deserve absolutely no sympathy for their issues. Well I guess woman could just date guys they meet on dating apps or in person and pray they don’t get killed 😁	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/22 02:14 PM
-2	Women deserve absolutely no sympathy for their issues. Very slim I don’t date men but if I did I have a 38% chance of being murdered by a partner or a previous partner, while for men it’s only a 4% chance…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/22 01:00 PM
0	Women deserve absolutely no sympathy for their issues. I’d rather someone make fun of me for being short than being murdered but each to their own	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/22 10:50 AM
2	Women deserve absolutely no sympathy for their issues. Is murder not harm ?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/22 10:49 AM
3	Women deserve absolutely no sympathy for their issues. Agreed men do commit more harm to women than women do to men	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/22 08:49 AM
11	Why is it misogynistic to not want a girl that’s been with a shit ton of guys? Reddit is basically a porn site so makes sense most guys are in support of slutty women and the women support promiscuous lifestyles but if you go outside this isn’t a popular belief	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/22 08:13 AM
6	American women are some of the most overrated women on the planet. I think women from everywhere are attractive and the USA is very diverse when it comes to race gender etc and a lot of people in the USA are from different country’s. The only attractive thing with the USA is the salary’s and the potential to make crazy money besides that it’s not a great country, the men who talk about foreign women being better typically like to date women from 3rd world countrys who are less likely to argue back or have an opinion,so it’s more of a greed for control and power…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/22 09:17 PM
2	American women are some of the most overrated women on the planet. The comments are killing me lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/22 09:00 PM
6	American women are some of the most overrated women on the planet. You do realise there are better countrys than the USA, not everyone wants a visit and isn’t interested in getting randomly shot or seeing homeless people everywhere.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/22 08:57 PM
34	American women are some of the most overrated women on the planet. Lmao the minute a guy says he’s American, where I live the whole vibe changes and everyone’s suddenly bored	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/22 08:56 PM
2	Why do women participate in the hook-up culture if they aren't getting the outcomes they want? I think some people feel peer pressured into sleeping around because it’s the norm but study’s say people are having less sex so I’m not sure who everyone claims to be sleeping with	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/22 08:24 PM
3	You can't complain about female promiscuity if you aren't willing to marry the virgin that you say you want and provide for her It’s not draining your bank account if you can afford to have a stay at home wife.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/22 12:19 PM
5	You can't complain about female promiscuity if you aren't willing to marry the virgin that you say you want and provide for her Diffrent cultures different types of conservative people, where I come men provide fully	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/22 12:10 PM
2	You can't complain about female promiscuity if you aren't willing to marry the virgin that you say you want and provide for her More like marraige doesn’t benefit women so they should get married anyways	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/22 11:14 AM
6	how do you feel about modern marriage? Agreed a lot of people stayed because they didn’t have a choice	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/22 08:44 AM
5	You can't complain about female promiscuity if you aren't willing to marry the virgin that you say you want and provide for her Agreed, honestly what I’ve learnt is people can lie don’t believe anything until it happens	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/22 08:43 AM
6	You can't complain about female promiscuity if you aren't willing to marry the virgin that you say you want and provide for her Agreed lol even though I’m no longer a virgin, he sounds like a disaster. I know lots of virgins and they would be disgusted by him too. Most virgins also want people who are not promiscuous and actually have self respect and don’t sleep with everyone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/22 07:46 AM
-1	You can't complain about female promiscuity if you aren't willing to marry the virgin that you say you want and provide for her Are you a virgin ? If not stop the hypocrisy	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/22 07:42 AM
2	You can't complain about female promiscuity if you aren't willing to marry the virgin that you say you want and provide for her Agreed I was a virgin and realised I was out here depriving myself to please a future partner that probably won’t even be able to please me sexually, I lost my virginity realised how terrible and overrated sex was but at least I know now	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/22 07:41 AM
2	You can't complain about female promiscuity if you aren't willing to marry the virgin that you say you want and provide for her Agreed	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/22 07:39 AM
5	You can't complain about female promiscuity if you aren't willing to marry the virgin that you say you want and provide for her They are the same guys	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/22 07:39 AM
4	You can't complain about female promiscuity if you aren't willing to marry the virgin that you say you want and provide for her Agreed most men that was virgins are the lesser appealing catch	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/22 07:38 AM
12	You can't complain about female promiscuity if you aren't willing to marry the virgin that you say you want and provide for her Agreed too many boys are just liars	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/22 07:35 AM
14	You can't complain about female promiscuity if you aren't willing to marry the virgin that you say you want and provide for her Agreed when I was a virgin I would get ghosted the minute I would tell guys, it was good because it blocked out all the trash	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/22 07:35 AM
15	You can't complain about female promiscuity if you aren't willing to marry the virgin that you say you want and provide for her Agreed I grew up in a religious conservative household men and women were expected to be virgins to get married but by 18 most men weren’t virgins and the girls were and it was like are you serious we are following the rules but you guys can’t so why should we	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/22 07:33 AM
4	You can't complain about female promiscuity if you aren't willing to marry the virgin that you say you want and provide for her That’s a lie, I’m from a conservative back ground and 90% of women I know are stay at home moms including my mom and my dad provides for everything and even gives her a shopping allowance and me too	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/22 07:30 AM
7	You can't complain about female promiscuity if you aren't willing to marry the virgin that you say you want and provide for her You can	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/22 07:29 AM
4	You can't complain about female promiscuity if you aren't willing to marry the virgin that you say you want and provide for her Not true I was a virgin I left because the sex was so bad	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/22 07:28 AM
1	You can't complain about female promiscuity if you aren't willing to marry the virgin that you say you want and provide for her I agree, most guys I meet want a low body count but want to sleep with you after the first date like what ??	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/22 07:27 AM
3	What's the cringiest thing you've seen a guy do in order to impress a woman in a group or public setting? Lie about how much they make, where they live or what they do for a living etc very funny	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/22 04:54 PM
4	Is it possible to turn down sex with a woman and not lose a fan Don’t sleep with them and avoid them	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/22 04:17 PM
1	Do all men wish their current girlfriend was a virgin before him? Do you shame guys who are sex digging ?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/22 01:17 PM
2	CMV: Wanting a virgin/low body count woman isn't about pussy Do you also have a low body count ? As someone with a low body count I don’t even entertain people with high body counts	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/22 08:14 AM
1	Do younger women actually like older men? You can keep my implants when I die lonely ☺️❤️	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/22 10:16 PM
1	Do younger women actually like older men? No because I’m a gold digger and I’m allergic to brokeness, I also am allergic to old men so I’ll be single forever and ever because men don’t like gold diggers 😁 time to go buy cats and cry or whatever	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/22 10:12 PM
3	Do younger women actually like older men? Agreed same	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/22 09:11 PM
3	Do younger women actually like older men? No, they might be attracted to money but not you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/22 09:10 PM
8	Do all men wish their current girlfriend was a virgin before him? Agreed as long as they are also doing the same	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/22 06:03 PM
1	While women are sexually objectified, men are emotionally objectified, they're both wrong. So true	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/22 01:44 PM
1	Are Women aged 18-25 adults, that are capable of making decisions that will impact their lives? You as the 30 year old who is smarter and has common sense Would know not to entertain the child	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/22 08:51 AM
5	Are Women aged 18-25 adults, that are capable of making decisions that will impact their lives? No I am 19 and I know I am not mature enough to make smart decisions like my parents etc and I know friends that end up in abusive relationships with older men because they don’t know any better and are young and naive, I don’t think anyone over the age of 25 should be even looking at someone 18 it’s very disturbing and distasteful	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/22 08:27 AM
6	Disclosing Dating Other Men? -- A story and a question Don’t say anything till you end up in a relationship	/r/RedPillWomen	03/09/22 07:47 PM
3	Depressed Partner I highly don’t think it would be wise to get engaged let alone have a family with a partner like this	/r/RedPillWomen	03/09/22 06:58 PM
1	Romantic/Spousal relationship is redundant if you've found peace/contentment in being single. I 100% agree	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/22 12:18 PM
19	My husband doesn’t want to get a job Let him hit rich bottom move out stay with family or get the marriage annulled because this is craziness	/r/RedPillWomen	03/09/22 10:17 AM
1	In general do men really get better with age and become more attractive to women? No most people don’t age well, probably it’s to do with not having money to get the best treatments etc	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/22 10:11 AM
1	The average man isn't attracted to the average woman either. I see similar posts every week	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/22 07:56 PM
6	people who have high n-count, do you find it difficult to maintain ltr relationships? Swinging wow	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/22 02:49 PM
1	What will happen to current dating situation in the future ? After looking at your posts I’ve noticed you are going through something and I wish you are able to find friends or family to talk to for help, if not possible call 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline. They can help prevent suicide. The Lifeline provides 24/7, free and confidential support for people in distress, prevention and crisis resources for you or your loved ones, and best practices for professionals in the United States. Wish you the best of luck!!	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/22 11:08 PM
1	Women need to be taught at a young age how to treat men the same ways young boys are taught to treat women Agreed	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/22 08:14 PM
1	What observations do you get from an average girl having her pick of men? What does this say to you about women’s standards for men and what can men learn from it? Does this debunk the idea looks don’t matter? Then your blind	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/22 04:57 PM
0	What observations do you get from an average girl having her pick of men? What does this say to you about women’s standards for men and what can men learn from it? Does this debunk the idea looks don’t matter? Never said she wasn’t fat but you can be cute and fat	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/22 04:30 PM
-2	What observations do you get from an average girl having her pick of men? What does this say to you about women’s standards for men and what can men learn from it? Does this debunk the idea looks don’t matter? Agreed I don’t think she’s average	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/22 09:52 AM
-1	What will happen to current dating situation in the future ? I don’t partake in astrology but whatever makes you sleep at night.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/22 08:40 PM
-7	What will happen to current dating situation in the future ? Whatever makes you sleep at night	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/22 08:00 PM
-9	What will happen to current dating situation in the future ? Whatever makes you sleep at night	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/22 07:24 PM
-11	What will happen to current dating situation in the future ? Most men can barley keep up a conversation, lack social skills like crazy	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/22 07:07 PM
-2	What will happen to current dating situation in the future ? Most average men aren’t average though when it comes to looks personality and profession, they are typically struggling in life	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/22 05:38 PM
6	What will happen to current dating situation in the future ? Agreed most men are only bitter because they haven’t found someone to date	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/22 05:37 PM
1	It doesn't matter that men of all ages are attracted to 20 year olds I think that’s amazing, I recently started talking to a guy who is less than a year older and he’s great so I think it’s always best to date closer to your own age	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/22 03:39 PM
7	It doesn't matter that men of all ages are attracted to 20 year olds Really I entertained a guy that was 25 for 3 weeks and he was so immature for his age and I realised I might as well just stick to guys my own age. So I don’t know if that counts as dating.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/22 02:46 PM
2	It doesn't matter that men of all ages are attracted to 20 year olds You sound irresistible already 😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/22 02:32 PM
7	It doesn't matter that men of all ages are attracted to 20 year olds No, I should probably say I don’t date guys over 24. 5 year max age difference even that is rather big in my opinion.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/22 01:58 PM
12	It doesn't matter that men of all ages are attracted to 20 year olds It doesn’t matter if they like 20 year olds, most 20 year olds don’t want or like older men, I personally am 19 and I don’t care how much money you have I’m not entertaining someone over 30, I typically date men my age or a few months or a year younger than me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/22 01:55 PM
2	Women here, what advice would you give to your sons going into dating? I’m not going to discriminate you but I will give you good life advice, talking to people in such a degrading manner is very unappealing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/22 02:59 PM
0	You will never be a high value man. Honestly stop focusing on being a high value man or women or whatever, just live a happy life and aim to be the best version of yourself	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/22 02:11 PM
3	Women here, what advice would you give to your sons going into dating? Oh my god, is this the language you use daily?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/22 10:34 AM
3	Women here, what advice would you give to your sons going into dating? Be respectful and make sure you know what type of woman you are dating before going on the date, figure out if they like 50/50 or expect you to provide you will save yourself a lot of embarrassment and disappointment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/22 07:58 AM
1	How would you feel about your children struggling with dating? True	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/22 10:45 PM
1	How would you feel about your children struggling with dating? I am not a parent but I would be worried if my child was struggling romantically, I would try to encourage them to become the best version of themselves and to not stress	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/22 08:25 PM
2	How would you feel about your children struggling with dating? Sometimes attractive people produce ugly baby’s and ugly people produce beautiful baby’s it’s all about luck	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/22 08:22 PM
1	What's Something You Respect About Your Man? I currently don’t have one but I loved my ex’s worth ethics he was all about making money and treating me like a princess and that will probably be the feature I will also love about my next partner	/r/RedPillWomen	27/08/22 08:11 PM
2	Women prefer toxic men Please stop talking for all of us	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/22 03:27 PM
2	Do women in relationships go out for attention from other guys? Different women different behaviours	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/22 09:58 PM
1	I discovered I want marriage and children a bit late in the game. Where to go from here? Nobody said people aren’t allowed to change their minds or grow as a person.	/r/RedPillWomen	26/08/22 09:57 PM
4	Am I a RPW? I mean you can label yourself as anything you want	/r/RedPillWomen	26/08/22 07:38 PM
5	What do successful and educated men (lawyers, doctors, men in finance) look for in a partner Most doctors I know marry other doctors or well educated women in high paying fields also ex. My neighbour is a doctor and his wife is a buisness analyst. Most people in my neighbourhood are well educated and what I’ve noticed is educated men like to date plain women who are educated. There is a guy who lives in my estate that’s well off but got lucky financially and has a very attractive wife who is a lot younger so that’s interesting.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/22 07:32 PM
9	What do successful and educated men (lawyers, doctors, men in finance) look for in a partner This is very common in tech, I also work with engineers and most have wife’s that are educated such as lawyers or doctors etc and their wife’s aren’t very attractive so medium or slightly ugly but intelligent and funny.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/22 07:30 PM
2	Husband is a HVM who doesn’t think he’s one. How do I help boost his confidence? You don’t need to do anything let him figure out what he is and don’t put labels on him he doesn’t agree or think he is	/r/RedPillWomen	26/08/22 05:58 AM
12	I discovered I want marriage and children a bit late in the game. Where to go from here? Finally someone speaking common sense in the comments, I do feel sorry for OP but this is something you discuss early on in a relationship to prevent yourself from being in a similar situation as OP, but I do hope she ends up finding a solution that works best for her.	/r/RedPillWomen	26/08/22 05:55 AM
1	I discovered I want marriage and children a bit late in the game. Where to go from here? 6.5 years and he doesn’t want to marry you….	/r/RedPillWomen	26/08/22 05:53 AM
5	How have you found like minded woman to be your friends? Nope most of my friends are liberal, I’ve got a few moderate and conservative ones and that’s okay	/r/RedPillWomen	26/08/22 05:48 AM
1	Women of PPD, if you had a son... I don’t want children but if I did have a son I’d want him to be respectful of his body and only sleep with people he is emotionally connected with and trusts.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/22 05:45 PM
5	Insights from a getting a commitment-phobe to firmly commit Good luck but he sounds interesting...	/r/RedPillWomen	25/08/22 04:43 PM
6	What if some people just want to play the field? For fun True but I judge both for equality reasons	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/22 02:08 PM
1	Women's standards in men aren't getting any higher (except for the physical one) Y'all do realise you can be friends with woman without trying to bang?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/22 12:58 PM
2	A common response to criticizing the current state of dating is “they want us to just fuck ugly dudes” when literally no one is suggesting that. Suggesting average women date in their league or slightly above is not the same as telling them to fuck fat guys. I'm not religious but cool	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/22 09:37 PM
2	A common response to criticizing the current state of dating is “they want us to just fuck ugly dudes” when literally no one is suggesting that. Suggesting average women date in their league or slightly above is not the same as telling them to fuck fat guys. Whatever makes you sleep at night.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/22 08:53 PM
2	Freely available sex may be the issue of a lot of problems in society Honestly it's social media the people who are having lots of s3x are very vocal and the people who aren't are vocal too so it depends on what side you end up on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/22 08:08 AM
1	Is your current partner the best sex of your life? Agreed honestly I don't think that's benefitual or valuable at all, personally that would have been the reason we broke up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/22 08:06 AM
2	A common response to criticizing the current state of dating is “they want us to just fuck ugly dudes” when literally no one is suggesting that. Suggesting average women date in their league or slightly above is not the same as telling them to fuck fat guys. Agreed honestly if we look at friends/family members who are promiscuous they aren't happy and typically have very little self love and regret majority of the people they slept with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/22 08:03 AM
3	A common response to criticizing the current state of dating is “they want us to just fuck ugly dudes” when literally no one is suggesting that. Suggesting average women date in their league or slightly above is not the same as telling them to fuck fat guys. I agree nobody talks about this it's not that there y are unattractive its that they have no idea how to talk to women	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/22 08:00 AM
1	Men trip about n-count, but the average number of sexual partners for men and women (based on millennials) is about the same. Agreed personally I'm s3xually conservative so I would never entertain a s3xually promiscuous man which is kinda funny because they think women like me prefer men like them and that's further from the truth. Conservative people typically date other converatives vs versa so all this I want a sl0t that's a virgin is unrealistic and delusional	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/22 08:48 PM
2	Men trip about n-count, but the average number of sexual partners for men and women (based on millennials) is about the same. If we are going to talk about biology aren't men like supposed to protect and provide? Clearly it seems biology only comes to play when it involves women having s3x	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/22 08:46 PM
8	Is Alpha Fucks - Beta Bucks dynamic the equivalent of Madonna Whore Complex? Oh I agree alot of men are jealous women can get laid easier but if they were to become women they’d realise it’s a curse	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/22 06:30 PM
2	Is Alpha Fucks - Beta Bucks dynamic the equivalent of Madonna Whore Complex? Agreed I don’t care how attractive a guy is once I find out he’s a slut attraction is out the window	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/22 06:29 PM
1	[Q4W] Build your perfect partner with the following attributes and limited points. Looks: 7 Money:9 Personality:7 Social circle:3 Intangibles: 4	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/22 05:51 PM
1	This trend of women feeling entitled to a man of much higher SMV will end up with a lot of women getting cheated on and/or replaced. Poor people cheat, middle class people cheat and so do the upper class. I’ve noticed cheating happens a lot more with people that are less educated.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/22 05:46 PM
1	How do some guys get laid or dates without having to make much effort or doing anything special? I see a lot of unattractive guys getting laid they just have crazy confidence and are very charming.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/22 05:44 PM
1	Women think they have it harder in romantic interactions with men because they compare themselves to the highest SMV men Nobody wants to have s3x and not orgasm I don’t even participate in hook ups because it’s a waste of my time and energy. Even getting in a relationship with a man is likely to be a waste of time too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/22 05:40 PM
7	Why do you think gay men and lesbians don't need to use red pill, fds and debate on subs like this? I think lesbians have higher divorce rates because alot of them don’t feel forced to stay in a marriage unlikr heterosexual women	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/22 05:37 PM
2	Redpill seems to be exploding in popularity Redpill logic is growing thanks to people like Andrew tate at least these redpillers believe men should provide which is at least the bare minimum	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/22 05:35 PM
6	Men trip about n-count, but the average number of sexual partners for men and women (based on millennials) is about the same. Honestly I doubt the men in this subreddit care if women and men typically have similar body counts they just want to find freaky sl0tty virgins that somehow know how to do everything in bed without practicing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/22 05:34 PM
7	Q4W: What are your thoughts on meeting men tipsy/drunk? Having some alcohol in your system doesn’t mean you can’t consent but when you reach a level of intoxication that you can barely function that’s when you can’t consent. I personally don’t drink so can’t neccesarily talk too much on this topic	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/22 05:30 PM
2	[question for red pill] what strategy would you advise for a woman seeking a relationship to be able to meet your standards and not be either ghosted or placed as “recreational use only”? How could she prove she meets your standards if she really did? Yup and I find that very alarming because there's a 99% chance if she's sleeping with you on the second date she's probably used to doing it with others too	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/22 02:07 PM
15	I got to feel how my husband felt when I was a stay at home wife. Really showed me the value of a housewife. That is very cute	/r/RedPillWomen	22/08/22 08:26 PM
1	[question for red pill] what strategy would you advise for a woman seeking a relationship to be able to meet your standards and not be either ghosted or placed as “recreational use only”? How could she prove she meets your standards if she really did? The messenger for who brain dead men ?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/22 04:52 PM
1	General attractiveness Agreed when you are attractive you know it because of the way you get treated and see the way others are treated.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/22 09:43 AM
2	"Teddy bear" romance So now a 5’2 120lb woman should protect a 5’10 190lb man ? I don’t understand. Men and women are not the same and never will be. Instead of halves there should be equity.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/22 09:41 AM
6	Intimate Partner Violence That’s not true men literally cheat more stats wise.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/22 09:34 AM
2	CMV: Modern Redpill is the male equivalent to modern feminism Originally feminism was about empowering women and to give equal opportunities to men and women, that hasn’t happened instead it has tricked women to becoming corporate slaves and household slaves so no it has done more harm than good.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/22 09:26 AM
5	[question for red pill] what strategy would you advise for a woman seeking a relationship to be able to meet your standards and not be either ghosted or placed as “recreational use only”? How could she prove she meets your standards if she really did? She can’t have a lot of previous sexual partners but she needs to be willing to sleep with you on the second date, do you hear yourself?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/22 08:49 AM
2	Guys complain about being lonely/sexless but isn't it just survival of the fittest? That’s not true but whatever makes you sleep at night.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/22 07:37 AM
2	Q4W: How often do you make very attractive men wait for sex to vet him? Failing ways ? How is having self respect and choosing not to be a rag doll for sexually deprived men failing in life?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/22 07:36 AM
3	Guys complain about being lonely/sexless but isn't it just survival of the fittest? When are men held for their decisions when it comes to s3x last time I checked women have the highest risks of STDs pregnancy’s getting assaulted during the deed etc. stop pretending as if casual sex has any benefit towards women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/22 10:13 PM
4	Guys complain about being lonely/sexless but isn't it just survival of the fittest? I doubt if men and women were similar sexually then there would be lot more men being sexually assaulted. A good number of women don’t even care about sex, it’s not a need more like a mmm okay. While majority of men go crazy when they can’t have sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/22 10:00 PM
5	Q4W: How often do you make very attractive men wait for sex to vet him? This forum is for mutual discussions and I won’t change my beliefs because you personally enjoy hook ups and think every women should too. Also that’s disgusting so I should become promiscuous to please men ??	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/22 09:57 PM
1	How much are you concerned with your partner's sexual history? Doesn’t you pretending to be a bum attract women that are less stable? In all fairness nobody wants to date a bum unless they are mentally unwell or in a similar situation. Also in a sense you can’t blame your friends for not having unconditional love for you because that doesn’t exist unless maybe it’s a parent/child relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/22 09:54 PM
9	I’m on holiday with my SO and I’m considering ending our relationship - how do I do it? Dump him when you get home, or book a flight home early but please don’t dump him midway throughout the trip you might end up stranded	/r/RedPillWomen	21/08/22 09:33 PM
-1	Men cannot talk to women the same way they talk to men, it is bad advice to tell men to treat women like they would their guy friends. I don’t have male friends and it’s not about choosing better men, I’m an engineering student I’m surround by men daily I hear the stuff they say and laugh about and 99% of the time it’s disturbing disgusting comments.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/22 09:25 PM
1	Guys complain about being lonely/sexless but isn't it just survival of the fittest? Well men say that they are attracted to 80% of women so there still won’t be enough unattractive women to go around.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/22 09:23 PM
1	Guys complain about being lonely/sexless but isn't it just survival of the fittest? You said going half on bills is equality but women doing majority of the housework is what females in the animal kingdom do lmao don’t males in the animal kingdom provide? You are clearly one of those losers I talk about you want the beneifit of having around a woman and to just be useless. You clearly feel very pressed that women don’t want to date losers like you. I honestly don’t care if you have 50,000 prostitues or eat cat food. You are the type of male women should avoid but sadly some wom…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/22 09:21 PM
1	How much are you concerned with your partner's sexual history? I mean you can’t be surprised that all types of women or men will be attracted to the flashy cars and expensive items you have it’s normal to want a lifestyle you don’t have or to want to date a partner that is financially well off. So in a sense majority of people are golddiggers and rightfully so. Also how do you meet that person if you basically flaunt your wealth? In all fairness you have one advantage when it comes to dating and that is that you have more money than some but at the same tim…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/22 09:15 PM
2	What exactly qualifies as a high n count "bodycount" to people on this sub? For me it isn’t about them having a similar experience level it’s just I personally would loss all interest in a person I’m seeing if they have a promiscuous past and have participated in hook ups as I personally dont think our values will allign. It’s not an experience problem it’s a values problem.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/22 09:10 PM
6	Men cannot talk to women the same way they talk to men, it is bad advice to tell men to treat women like they would their guy friends. Most men don’t know the difference between joking around and saying straight up disturbing comments.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/22 09:01 PM
4	Q4W: How often do you make very attractive men wait for sex to vet him? I don’t participate in casual sex or believe there is a time frame but I don’t sleep with anyone I’m not in a relationship with and don’t have the gf/bf title with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/22 08:53 PM
9	Guys complain about being lonely/sexless but isn't it just survival of the fittest? Last time I checked it isn’t women who are ending up sad and lonely it’s men, while women are most happy when single. Personally I couldn’t give a flying f if I end up single or not, in fact life’s easier when you are single you don’t have a grown baby to look after that wants you to go half’s on bills but expects you to do majority of the house work and be a personal pornstar and cook because majority of men weren’t thought basic life skills. When women hate men they avoid all men. When men hat…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/22 08:39 PM
5	Guys complain about being lonely/sexless but isn't it just survival of the fittest? Exactly, men love to say women are gold diggers etc but if they got the oppurtunity to become a woman they’ve be only dating men of quality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/22 08:34 PM
1	How much are you concerned with your partner's sexual history? Everything you said besides making good money was the bare minimum, every functioning adult should have good hygiene and should know how to do basic tasks like cooking and cleaning. You having a low body count just shows you are more conservative which is great for vetting out promiscuous people when getting in the dating scene. What do you think a woman should bring to the table or should I say your table because everyone’s bare minimum is different.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/22 08:31 PM
8	Guys complain about being lonely/sexless but isn't it just survival of the fittest? It’s more of an entitlement issue men feel entitled to have access to women. The problem with men like this is that they think that even though they are losers they still desire to have a lady. It’s as if women are objects.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/22 08:13 PM
1	How much are you concerned with your partner's sexual history? What do you bring to the table?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/22 08:08 PM
2	How much are you concerned with your partner's sexual history? It’s like saying all men are desperate sex deprived creeps some are willing to pay more than others so let’s not discrimste against them	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/22 08:07 PM
1	How much are you concerned with your partner's sexual history? If you were a woman would you prefer to date someone broke that was attractive or someone rich that was attractive? Let’s use some common sense. Having money will always be a benefit every sane person would prefer to be with a partner that is financially well off.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/22 05:37 PM
1	How much are you concerned with your partner's sexual history? I wouldn’t date a promiscuous man or a man that has paid for sex and doesn’t get checked when having a sexual partner.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/22 05:34 PM
1	Do you think men or women are more open minded? Women are more open minded	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/22 05:33 PM
2	Does unconditional love truly exist? No it would be stupid if you had unconditional love for your partner. Unconditional love may exist between parents and their children	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/22 05:32 PM
2	what truly dictates promiscuity ? They would be promiscuous if they have lots of different partners and participate in casual sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/22 05:30 PM
2	Is a person a hypocrite for being attracted to qualities they don't possess? Do they have an obligation to not be attracted to those qualities, or possess them themselves? Agreed	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/22 05:29 PM
2	Q4W: Unmarried women, why do you think the men you want aren't asking to marry you? It’s probably because majority of men are below average when it comes to thinking being affectionate, being a good listener knowing how to do basic chores or how to cook, while women do all of that and work just like men, it’s kinda hard to want to marry when you know you are getting the short end of the stick.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/22 05:27 PM
1	Q4W: How often do you get approached and asked out in public? A to B it depends on how I am dressed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/22 05:24 PM
1	CMV: I believe lacking "Daddy vibes" (sexually) is a big reason men get cheated on / dumped, and why women gravitate away from men without that side to them I think masculine men are attractive, I don’t think calling your partner daddy is very appropriate it’s fairly disturbing	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/22 05:23 PM
1	Attractive men are really rare I think 80% of men are h0rny desperate creeps that will sleep with any woman with a hole. Let’s not confuse datablity and hooking up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/22 05:22 PM
1	FDS (female dating scam) and the irony of how women always say the manosphere only exists to scam young men out of money True onlyfans is s3x work so is being a sugar baby etc. we need to call it as it is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/22 05:20 PM
3	What exactly qualifies as a high n count "bodycount" to people on this sub? Anything over 10, personally I like someone who is picky with who they choose to sleep with as I am too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/22 05:17 PM
1	do you feel the need to walk on eggshells when you turn people down ? if so why ? I used to feel bad but now I don’t.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/22 05:16 PM
1	Do men lose attraction to their partners over time? Everyone likes young beautiful people but that doesn’t mean that they won’t find their partner attractive because they have aged	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/22 05:15 PM
1	Do women want guys to be confident or what? There is delusion and confidence, people need to learn the difference	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/22 05:13 PM
3	Ladies, let's talk about....hair! I’m 19 so I prefer a full head of hair maybe when I’m like 30 I’ll like bold heads as most men will be bolding by then	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/22 07:29 AM
1	Do women need to have a hoe phase Then only hang out with people that share the same values as you	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/22 08:29 PM
1	Do women need to have a hoe phase Why do you care, it’s not as if you being against it is going to stop people from sleeping around	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/22 08:13 PM
3	The concept of "the bar is in hell" is a psychological prison for men. A good number of women lower their standards all the time and average women typically end up with average men, how do you all think you were born look at your parents, half of the world population is in a relationship and I know for sure a good number of the men in relationship are terrible partners and women still date and marry them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/22 08:13 PM
1	Do women need to have a hoe phase Don’t have one, it’s not a force base matter many people including myself don’t participate in hook up culture	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/22 08:10 PM
1	Do women need to have a hoe phase Nobody needs a hoe phase but some people like to have one and that’s okay	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/22 05:27 PM
1	Are there immoral dating standards/dealbreakers? You clearly didn’t read my original comment because I mention that it’s normal to have a preference but it’s weird to only date a specific race.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/22 03:08 PM
1	Are there immoral dating standards/dealbreakers? That is literally racist in its self not liking how someone’s eyes are shaped is just racist. A good number of people are racist so this isn’t shocking it’s like me say oh I don’t date where people because they have pasty skin it’s just racist point blank.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/22 02:44 PM
2	The average man has poor dating prospects in comparison to the average woman, what is something men can do to improve their SMV Agreed	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/22 12:40 PM
3	Scared of starting this new stage of life If you don’t know if you want to marry someone that’s a good sign you shouldn’t marry them	/r/RedPillWomen	18/08/22 07:35 AM
-1	The average man has poor dating prospects in comparison to the average woman, what is something men can do to improve their SMV What you as a man can do to stand out is best emotionally intelligent become a better listener be empathic and be romantic, what I’ve noticed most men have difficulty treating women like actual people and if you are able to do that you’ll have probably more success	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/22 07:28 AM
1	Are there immoral dating standards/dealbreakers? Most people don’t understand the word preference, most people will only date race x because of so called preferences and not race C because of preferences, which doesn’t make sense because you can’t say out of all the people from race C there is non that are attractive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/22 06:46 AM
1	Are there immoral dating standards/dealbreakers? I mean it just shows you can literally be the most appealing candidate and someone will still be desperate enough to date you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/22 06:44 AM
-2	Are there immoral dating standards/dealbreakers? Race is a immoral dating standard because it’s mostly due to racism	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/22 06:39 AM
1	Bluepill people, do you agree with the redpill views on female attraction? As a woman I think this is false	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/22 08:12 PM
5	I feel like social media has fucked women's perceptions of the opposite sex, far more than porn has for men. I agree	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/22 05:29 PM
5	I feel like social media has fucked women's perceptions of the opposite sex, far more than porn has for men. I agree highly with this comment	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/22 05:29 PM
1	What do you advise a young woman (18-21) to do? Agreed when you have s3x with someone early their is a high chance it won’t last and you will likely end up feeling used etc to avoid that you should only have s3x with a man that has given you commitment and a gf title	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/22 09:09 AM
2	What do you advise a young woman (18-21) to do? Prioritise your school work and build meaningful friendships and relationships with family. Pick up a hobby or two and learn how to build boundary’s. Lastly a partner is a want not a need so don’t rush into relationships with people you aren’t sure about. Don’t participate in things that can tarnish your reputation and go easy on yourself if you end up doing something you regret.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/22 09:06 AM
6	Do men in general envy women? What is wrong with you ?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/22 10:19 PM
2	Do men in general envy women? They only envy the fact that women can get laid easier but in reality if they had to experience and through what women do they’d hate it	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/22 10:16 PM
3	Men and Women - Would you accept your 18yr old daughter to marry a wealthy man significantly older than her? I’m 19 and wouldn’t want my 18 year old friends marrying anyone at that age, she is too young for marriage,when you add the age difference it’s even more concerning.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/22 09:20 PM
2	Does a man who's a leader mean he's controlling too? He is controlling and low-key showing scary behaviour he is forbidding you from going to your graduation, you need to leave this man, there’s a difference from controlling and being a leader, he is not a leader	/r/RedPillWomen	16/08/22 05:21 PM
3	29F and I can't find a hot, educated boyfriend You aren’t even red pilled	/r/RedPillWomen	15/08/22 07:02 PM
1	Boyfriend of 2 years told me that he doesn’t see himself with me long term… not sure where to move from here Honestly it sounds like the relationship is over, it is not your fault he doesn’t want to marry you, should move on he won’t change.	/r/RedPillWomen	15/08/22 02:16 PM
1	If women are fed up with dating men, isn't it on the men to change? Love this comment	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/22 02:13 PM
4	He cheated because he “liked me too much” 🥺🥺🥺🥺 Not him trying to get you to feel sorry for him	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/10/21 01:49 PM
11	Racist scrote had it coming Lots of POC women are like this it hurts my soul they are so desperate to date a white dude they settle for rubbish the same one I step on everyday	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/10/21 04:54 PM
11	Pickme dates. He brought to the gym and for a walk? How romantic… Thoughts? 😂 Might as well do it on your own	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/09/21 09:04 PM
1	A man who is into casual sex and hookups won't give a damn about your sexual health. Stay away from community dick. Reasons why I will never participate in hook up culture and will never date a man with a high body count they typically don’t participate in safe sex.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/09/21 08:28 AM