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That’s why there are so many men unknowingly raising some other dude’s kid
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 12:48 PM
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The best way to bridge the gap is 🍆
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 04:27 PM
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If men judged women on their social behavior like women judge men, we’d be extinct.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 01:20 AM
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Women don’t want virgin men not because of the virginity but because of what being a virgin implies about his lack of desirability to other women. That’s why many women give leniency if it’s for religious reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 01:01 PM
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I think red pill is more of a response to a problem between the genders that existed before red pill regarding women and how they interact with men when dating. The root cause is from before red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 04:11 PM
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You do. And my girl does as well. But it’s a struggle to find women that properly apologize. I don’t know what else to tell you. Many men are on the receiving end of the behavior and when they speak out about it, shouldn’t be invalidated and blamed for poor behavior from so many women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 04:10 PM
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Not to their significant other. Women apologize to society outside. But no way wives/gfs apologize more to husbands/bfs than the other way around. Not everything that doesn’t paint women in the best light should be dismissed and invalidated as generalizations. There is some truth to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 03:49 PM
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That’s the problem. More women than men do this. There’s probably no scientific study that has looked into this. Because why would that kind of study get funded. But anecdotally it’s an all too common experience for men when dating women. So shouldn’t just dismiss it and say pick better women. It’s an issue when regular women do this in their relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 03:46 PM
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💯This definitely one thing that is infuriating when dating women. Not all women. But I don’t think it’s outrageous to say most women struggle to admit fault and apologize. The majority of women I’ve been with have tried to move on like nothing happened or appease by action ;) rather than acknowledging their mistakes and owning up to it. Thankfully my girl is not like this but the struggle to find women that apologize properly for their mistakes is real.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 03:42 PM
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Single moms have emotional baggage from either failed marriage, promiscuous history/kid out of wedlock, or grief if they are a widower. It’s much simpler to pursue one of the many available single women over a single mom. Also there is a different vibe because her kid will be number one priority from the start. There is no honeymoon period. And the man usually has no say in any discipline of the child. So will end up just providing financially for some other man’s kid that often doesn’t respect …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 02:55 PM
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It’s also a fear from seeing how women in their lives have treated men who earned less than them. There are some women that treat their man well regardless of finances but a lot of women lose respect or would never have gotten in a relationship with a man who is financially lesser than them. That’s why women often talk about seeking their equal (or better) and the reality that the more successful a woman, the smaller her dating pool becomes due to her rising expectations on her potential partner…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 12:46 AM
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I agree. Women on here are acting like they have these rules set in stone. If the man is attractive enough to a woman then the woman won’t give a shit if he splits the bill whatever. Red flag this red flag that is when women are trying to find reasons to disqualify men they are not that attracted to. If they like you enough, they will find reasons to make it work.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 01:16 AM
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I think you should remove compassion from your flair lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 12:28 AM
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I understand where he’s coming from. He seems frustrated that many women claim they have some thoughtfulness when choosing who to date in comparison to men who are demonized for objectifying women. When in reality, women are just as shallow as men. Men are more willing to admit what attracts them even if it doesn’t make them look good. But women usually say they want xyz PC bs while when you see who they date it ends up being a superficial filtering of men. The lack of honesty is what frustrates…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 01:33 PM
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Women like men that are better than them. That means that generally younger men are disadvantaged when compared to older men. But men don’t care about that as much. They care about beauty and fertility. So young men without much success in life and older women who have lost that youthful beauty are boxed out of the prime dating market. Beautiful young women are matching with successful men (who will usually be older than them).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 03:22 PM
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This is why paternity should be mandatory at the hospital before men sign the papers. So it puts off the pressure on the man and confirms for sure the reality. It’s dumb that only the woman knows it’s their kid. Way too many lying women for this to not be a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 01:10 PM
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I agree. And women in their early 20s look better than women in their 30s. The only difference is younger women prefer older men. Younger men don’t prefer older women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 08:27 PM
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Women lie 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 05:34 PM
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No you are wrong. Men don’t describe their sex life with their gf/wives in detail to their friends like women do. men are possessive and the more they like a woman the less they talk about her sexually with friends. Some men do talk about random women like that. But men don’t do the Saturday brunch sex review that women do about their husbands and bfs
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 08:11 PM
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Yes. Women are attracted to men other women want. They look for social proof. If a man is confident and doesn’t seem desperate, then this man doesn’t need her. So she thinks she’d be getting a good deal dating this guy. This is also why guys who are already in relationships report more attention from women. Women like the vibes of someone who fucks on the regular.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 12:11 PM
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There is a lot of virtue signaling from the ladies on here
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 12:43 AM
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The issue is it’s more socially acceptable to hate on men. Women cry misogyny at anything that slightly criticizes women. But man hating. That’s so commonplace and accepted it’s sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 09:58 PM
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I agree women shouldn’t be proud of going through a hoe phase. Wait.. this is about men?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 05:26 AM
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You wrote it in a way that would make Reddit women angry. But many men operate this way post MeToo movement and don’t assume a woman is interested due to subtle signs until she explicitly conveys interest . It’s risk management. Also a lot of married men follow the Pence rule. The downsides are missing out on potential connections by purposefully ignoring vague signs of interest. But as a man you got to be careful.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 01:41 PM
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Yep. People look out for their interests. Women like men that are better than them and usually this means they are most attracted to men just slightly older than them. So as women age, their preferred age range goes up. But they look around and the men their age that could be potential partners are looking at younger women. Hence the outrage and shaming tactics. Why would these women want to be with men that are too immature and “can’t attract an older women that won’t accept their bs” anyway? L…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 02:15 PM
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It’s hard to convince young people to have children when they don’t feel financially secured yet. Government needs to provide some huge incentives to get more people to even think about this. Like government subsidy on rent for a larger apartment for a family could be one thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 02:16 PM
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Your brother can be a kind man and potentially amazing husband in actuality. But many women don’t seek kindness first and are not looking for the best fitting husband. They’re looking for the most competent man they can get. Then everything else is considered afterwards (appearance, charisma, social clout, family, education, humor) and way down the list is kindness which is also a consideration. Yes women are that picky. Because they grew up watching Disney princess movies. So while yes you’re r…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 05:20 PM
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Women judge other women harshly if they appear to be flirting with men or wearing revealing clothes. On dating apps it’s private so they can reveal their intentions without concern of getting a reputation.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 01:56 PM
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Again you are misunderstanding the meaning of misogyny. I encourage you to learn the definition of misogyny and am supportive of your journey to being more educated on the topics. It is important to not misuse words in a way that undermines the victims of misogyny. Best of luck 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 06:50 PM
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Generalizations are broad patterns that can exist in reality. But there are exceptions of course and it’s not 100% accurate. But that doesn’t mean generalizations aren’t useful. We use generalizations every day in our thought process otherwise we wouldn’t be able to make any actions. Good day to you 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 05:11 PM
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Again you are misunderstanding the meanings of misogyny and sexism and conflating them with generalization which is what people do on Reddit forums. Hope you find healing in your journey to be more educated about actual sexism and misogyny and wish you all the best 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 03:47 PM
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Again you are misunderstanding and claiming sexism and misogyny. Smh. Whatever claims that you have made on Reddit about men then should be misandry and sexism then because they are generalizations? I hope you educate yourself and stop getting so upset about generalizations, otherwise none of us can discuss on Reddit. And again don’t be Peter from Peter and the wolf. Good day to you 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 03:39 PM
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Men care about appearance and personality then career/money. Women care more about money/career and personality than appearance. Hope you understand that this is a big generalization and can learn not to claim sexism for everything that doesn’t paint women in a good light. Good day to you 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 03:30 PM
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Again you are misunderstanding. It has nothing to do with sexism. It has to do with preferences. Women care more about a man’s career and finances. Men care more about a woman’s appearance and behaviors. This is just a tend since cavemen times. Please stop getting in the habit of calling everything you disagree with sexist. Because that really weakens the word sexist and takes away from incidents of actual sexism. Good day to you. Hope you’re not taking this personally and in your feelings about…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 03:18 PM
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Again you are misunderstanding. Women claim men are intimidated. But that’s not entirely true. Often these women come with horrible narcissistic attitudes because they try ink they’re so great. And that is what turns off men. But an easy way to blame men for women’s failures in dating is “he’s intimidated by me”. Yeah no. He just doesn’t like the kind of person you are and doesn’t think you’d be a great partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 03:09 PM
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You again misunderstood. Men don’t care about the amount of money as much as they do other things. Otherwise the most attractive women would be rich and successful women. But you and I both know that’s not the case. So many career women out there complaining that men are intimidated by their salaries and graduate degrees for that to be true. Men don’t care as much about 50k vs 200k as long as the woman is responsible and independent (functioning member of society with a job) not a free loader. W…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 03:01 PM
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A lot. If you are a woman you would know that the first thing women ask when a friend meets a new man is what does he do? Women care more about finances in their partner than men. I don’t think it’s sexist to point out a trend. Please don’t call things sexist just because it doesn’t paint women in a good light. Otherwise I can do the same to you. How many men do you know that actually do that? “That’s pure sexism”. 🙄 And then nobody can have a conversation on Reddit without citing research paper…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 02:51 PM
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No. You misunderstood. I didn’t mean that men prefer women not to have their own career or be responsible adults with jobs. I meant that they don’t care about the money as much as long as she is an independent functioning adult. Whether she makes 50k/yr or 200k/yr doesn’t mean as much as long as she’s not a lazy person. What matters more is her personality and behaviors. That’s what men care more about when determining potential for marriage. But women care more about a man’s success when determ…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 02:27 PM
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I disagree. I think men care more about the person rather than the job title and money. It’s great if she has her own. But that’s not a major factor in deciding if she’s someone he’d want to marry. I find that women care far more about a man’s career and wealth when determining if someone has potential for relationship/marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 02:09 PM
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This is great in concept. But in reality both parties wear a mask to put their best foot forward. Some men will pretend they don’t care about sex and are thinking long term. Women will wear their best makeup and clothes. Remember the conversations on first dates? Painful. Almost always positive and feigning interest in shit that’s not interesting. Then we date for a few weeks and figure out if we really want this to go seriously AKA can I tolerate their bs?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 05:50 PM
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It’s much easier for a woman to be sexually successful than a man. Single moms usually are looking for financial help from men. Single dads don’t require as much from women. That’s why women find single dads less unappealing than men find single moms. But no kids is usually preferred over both.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 02:23 PM
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Many men are lazy and will take the easiest path to sex. That’s why you’re wrong. But feel free to believe what you want. Just know you are talking about above average men who have enough options to be picky about whether or not a woman approached first.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 09:30 PM
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I think it is a solution for both parties. Many of these countries are worse off than wherever the bros are from. Many of these countries have less promiscuous women or highly religious communities where virginity is considered important. And many of the people in these countries have to work harder than people in richer countries in daily life. The green card for her and supporting or eventually moving her family to a richer country is definitely one of the reasons passport bros exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 02:45 PM
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Lesbians are probably more masculine. More aggression. Less fucks what society thinks. More crime? Next question?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 02:54 PM
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Not very groundbreaking news there bud. Women know if they would fuck within a few seconds. Women do the scan with their eyes 👀 and that determines how they will interact. They only feel primal physical lust for men that are more attractive than them. So all other guys have to find other ways to convince them. It’s also why women tend to think they are “settling”. What’s new?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 01:31 PM
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That’s just textbook discrimination though and a lawsuit in waiting. Someone would definitely sue the shit out of any gym that tried to enforce that on men only. I think a better idea would be for you to exercise by yourself in your apartment and let everyone else get their reps in peace. 🙌
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 10:13 PM
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It’s not going to happen because men and women have differences and those differences play out in society. Any women can hoe around. Few men can do so. Thats reality and women play a deciding factor in the reason for that difference. The judgement of female hoes is also not all on men. Women often judge their female competitors and slut shame attractive women for their promiscuity. So your whole desire for this equal treatment of male and female hoes won’t come true unless men and women act the …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 10:03 PM
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No. Nobody gets a pass for their behavior. Past behavior is indicative of future behavior. It is what it is. If you don’t want people to think of you as a hoe, don’t do hoe shit 🤷‍♂️and same goes for guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 09:51 PM
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It means that men would be attracted to women who are on their level or above but most women are only attracted to men above their level of attractiveness, like the top percentages of men. That’s the difference and it makes sense because for biological reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 01:11 PM
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In general, women are not going to like you if you initiate the friendship. If they initiate a “friendship”, there’s more of a chance. You need to be attractive in any case because women are hypergamous. That is one thing the red pillers are right about. Even in your school days, all the girls would go crazy about the one or two most attractive guys. This is a behavior that carries on into adulthood.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 12:58 PM
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Men are not all the same. Some men can handle the betrayal and shock and continue to be a father figure. And some men can’t continue without serious effect to their mental health. And we shouldn’t judge those who can’t. But so many people want to put that pressure on the man in the situation. It’s unfortunate. If a man does stay, he’s a saint. And if he doesn’t, then fair enough I say.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 02:42 PM
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But don’t people sign the papers at the hospital? I just think it’d be much better to just have the paternity test on birth before signing that they are legally responsible as the father.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 10:59 PM
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No I don’t think whatever stuff you wrote. It’s not an absolute black and white thing. It’s a preference. Men prefer younger women. That doesn’t mean older women can’t find love or marry. It just means women over 30 will get less interest than when they were younger and more beautiful / fewer men interested in dating them seriously. Just like women tend to like men slightly older than them but many women disqualify men younger than them. Men also have preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 10:25 PM
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I think it would be ideal if the father continued to be there. But it would be ridiculous to push a moral obligation for him to support financially, and some kids grow up with single moms. It’s just what it is. Not ideal but sometimes the mother is at fault and if the man isn’t a saint and can’t handle it, who are we to judge. And the government certainly would rather some man pay for the child instead of tax dollars. We need mandatory paternity tests at birth.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 09:47 PM
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I think most women would be offended if their partner asked for a paternity test. But I hope tests become more normal in society so women feel less offended at the thought of doing tests on birth/before the man has to sign papers as the father. And the change in attitude toward prenups in recent years offers some hope.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 09:43 PM
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It’s useless complaining about biology. Women like men a few years older than them because they respect men that are better than them in some aspect. Men like younger women for their beauty and fertility reasons. That’s why older women and younger men are boxed out of the prime dating pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 09:38 PM
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I disagree. You should find the biodad to be responsible for supporting financially not the “father”. And finding the biodad isn’t the responsibility of the “father”. If the mom needs child support she should figure out who she cheated with and fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 09:25 PM
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Hopefully paternity tests will be more normal in the future so the men can be reassured and the women won’t feel offended by being asked to do a test. Prenups are starting to become more accepted and common now so there’s hope for paternity tests.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 09:23 PM
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It’s not fair and many on Reddit seem to prioritize the feelings of women and kids before those of men. whether or not the “father” chooses to stay in the kids life is a completely personal decision. If he stays, he is a saint honestly and kudos to him. But men are not a monolith. Some men will have the mental strength to handle the changes and still remain as a father figure. But some can’t handle it. And unless you are that person in that moment you won’t know how you respond. And I hate the p…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 09:18 PM
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Undateable is a bit harsh no?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 07:55 PM
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The main reason is that women want men that other women want. By paying for sex, this man likely has trouble getting women on his own merit. And the whole transactional sex business greatly affects women’s leverage over men due to sex, so women in general are not supportive of it and have disdain for things like male sex toys and future AI sex robots.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 07:53 PM
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This is one of those split the bill questions. Like 80% of women are going to be turned off by it, so why risk your relationship over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 07:23 PM
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Yes. More attractive men are given more leniency. Ex. Pro Basketball players wives gladly do all the housework.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 08:31 PM
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That’s not what I’m saying. I think it’s more likely that someone who is more attractive than you would not commit to you as opposed to someone who is on a similar level of attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 04:49 AM
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Yes. Average women don’t want average men. They usually wont give average men the time of day to find out what’s unique about them. Some circumstances such as age drive women to settle with average men. Red pillers are right about this despite some exaggerations about things like the “wall”. It is generally more beneficial for average men and women to commit to LTR/marriage instead of being used for sex by more attractive individuals.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 04:37 AM
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In general yes, but having more experience with women will help you filter out the good from the bad. There are a lot of toxic women. Men should try to be the best man they can be. Women prefer men that other women want. That is something I admit red pill is completely right. If you become a more attractive man then you will have more opportunities with women. Those experiences will help you in your future interaction with women so you can find and commit to a great woman for marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 04:32 AM
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Both shouldn’t be out past midnight without a good reason already discussed with me. No good happens in the late night hours. I would be more nervous about daughter out past midnight though. Daughter 10 pm curfew. Son 10:01 pm just to get the feminists on here riled up.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 10:28 PM
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You are approaching it from the wrong angle. Are women more attracted to attractive men? Yes. Does having more women available to you tend to increase your body count as a man? Generally yes. So if you ask a woman would they be interested in a man with movie star good looks then she’d say yes. But if you frame it as there is a man that has fucked hundreds of women, of course it would sound negative. But no women is complaining that Ryan Gosling has likely bedded many women. The men that women li…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 10:10 PM
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The wall that red pillers talk about is the sharp decline in men interested in women over 30. Women who used to get dates suddenly find it harder. It’s a bit exaggerated, but it’s not from nothing. That’s why women complain about why all the good men are taken after 30. None of the attractive men in their 30s prefer to date older women and the ones that do are only in it for easy sex or are unable to attract younger women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 11:25 AM
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Roger
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 02:16 AM
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🍿😬
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 02:03 AM
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Women do make the move. If you have ever seen how women act like toward absolute 10/10 men, you will know. My college roommate was just undeniably an extremely handsome guy - and also a great person but that’s irrelevant. He had these women drooling and confessing their feelings to him and all this anime shit. Couldn’t believe what I was seeing at first but it happens. For everyone else, women make subtle signs of interest but the man will need to make the move first.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 05:48 PM
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Many people are not comfortable with it because of how much trafficking and abuse is common in sex industries. Especially in countries where those industries are illegal and have close connection to seedy underworld criminals. Also many women are against it because deep down they understand how much the transactional sex industry affects the leverage sex holds on men. Especially if men can legally pay for a sexual release, that has an effect on dynamics between men and women when dating and hook…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 11:29 PM
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Lucky you! The exception to the trend.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 07:35 PM
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Men are less attracted to a woman if they know she’s married. Women are more attracted to men who are married. Generally of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 07:28 PM
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Not just married men. Women love taken men because they want what other women want. Generally of course. A guy that is successful and attractive could be dating multiple women. If the man is in their 20s that’s the “fuck boy” the women complain about. If the man is 30s-40s, he’s “emotionally unavailable”man. It’s the opposite for men. If a woman is taken, she is less attractive to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 07:09 PM
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Women want the best of the best. Men can love whoever they’re attracted to which usually qualifies a lot of women. Generalizations of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 05:20 PM
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I don’t nice works against you I think being nice correlates to being unassertive which is not attractive to women. Like being nice is great if you are already an attractive and confident person. Unfortunately many nice men suffer from low self esteem and that results in them not showing a confident and charismatic side of themselves to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 03:14 PM
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Women like men who are mentally and physically strong. Men who are competent in their careers. Being kind, nice, good person, and all that is just a bonus. And not even a necessity seeing how so many powerful but morally dubious and even downright criminals have success with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 02:12 PM
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Most of women’s “icks” are not related to a man’s propensity for violence. They are mostly about a man’s lack of competence in some aspect, like a man who is too short or who doesn’t dress well by wearing something tacky like flip flops with socks or a man who can’t maintain eye contact well and is shy etc…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 10:45 PM
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Women.. are more attracted to taken men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 12:30 AM
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Major copium. Women start pressuring their SOs for marriage around late 20s for a reason. Being able to sleep with men isn’t the issue. It’s that they feel a rush to get married before they have fewer options for marriage with a suitable guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 06:30 PM
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Accessibility to attractive men is much easier for women due to social media. Many women gain validation from online simps. And some of the attractive ones are flown out to Dubai by rich people to get dicked down so it’s harder for the average man to compete.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 02:54 AM
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I feel like women in their early 20s are pickiest because they have the most options of men then. Men all the way to 40 would gladly date a beautiful woman in her 20s. Women above 30 tend to look for commitment but the men that are “age appropriate” at that time for her would generally prefer younger women. So it’s more difficult out of supply/demand than the woman being more discerning of the man she seeks. Those men she likes are the attractive mature men the younger women would like as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 02:51 AM
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Women evaluate men strictly and don’t want to entertain any men feels is beneath their level <- which feels a bit sad that we are assigning fellow humans a value but this is what’s happening in real life. Men don’t care as much about that calculus of “is she on my level?” etc.. women tend to date up and in reverse men tend to date down.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 02:46 AM
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Ah I see how you could interpret it that way. To make it clearer I edited. I meant women love more superficially. Like you hinted at in your original comment, women care about the material and societal benefits of getting involved with a man before doing anything. If they don’t see that opportunity, they will not love. Generally of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 03:23 PM
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I think it’s more that men have lower standards/barriers to love a woman. Women love more superficially. If a woman is good to a man and they can see her being a mother of their children, then through time and overcoming hardships in the relationship a man will gain more love for his woman. Women have more initial expectations of the men to even date but once hooked then that’s the man for her. That’s why it’s easier for a man to love another women if a previous relationship didn’t work out. Wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 01:53 PM
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Men are wonderful effect? Is this satire?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 01:45 PM
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No, they have point though. There is a disconnect between what most women say they want and what they actually go for. Practically all women will say they want kind men who treat them right blah blah and yet you will see them complain about why there are so many asshole men that they consciously choose to date with every breakup is essentially default the man’s fault. So for the less charismatic socially awkward men.. those poor fucks struggle greatly with women because they can’t get women exci…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 01:36 PM
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This is generally true. Women tend to care more about how something makes them feel more than the actual contents of the message. That’s why society has conditioned men to soft talk / treat women gently if they want to get what they want from a women. That’s why you see all those married men having affairs with side chicks for so many years. You can tell most women the exact same meaning two different ways and they will take it way differently -ask any man with a wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 01:29 PM
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Marriage generally gives the woman more financial stability. Generally for men, marriage adds liability and a risk for losing a lot in divorce. For both, being married is a status symbol of happy life to show off. But women care more about the optics / wedding events. For most women, the man they marry becomes their power and leverage over other women in their community (the mayor’s wife). So not having a man is a big disadvantage in the games women play with each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 01:21 PM
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Most people believe yes, if a man is not successful with women, he must be at fault. It is ridiculous but most people do have this preconceived notion of men. Virgin men are treated as untouchables by most women because why would a women want a man no other women has desired? Humans are social creatures and women esp care a lot about what others would think before entering into a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 04:04 PM
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Moral character matters but it’s not the most important thing to women. The most important thing for a woman to be attracted to man is typically competence related measured by wealth, power, social status and then physical attractiveness. And after that it’s how they make the woman feel whether that is humor, chivalry, charisma etc.. How good a man is as a person / moral character etc is a consideration after the first couple thresholds of appearance, competence, and fit and many women would sti…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 09:41 PM
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Women in general tend to want men who show that they are confident and that usually comes from prior successful experiences with women. Bad boys and some good guys show this confidence and assertiveness. It just happens that many of the kind guys are too concerned with being respectful that they show indecisiveness or nervousness which is a killer ick for most women. So you don’t have to be a bad boy per se but you need to show that you are not scared of them and that usually comes with experien…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 04:51 PM
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The way you framed it, obviously B. But IRL there will also be kind and trusting women with high self esteem who haven’t left their hometown who would be much better partners than many of the “confident” “knowledgeable” but actually deeply insecure women who have compensated for their insecurities by traveling around the world getting dicked down by entire continents during their hoe phase.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 08:19 PM
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Women in general prefer men their age or older because they need to respect a man in some way to date them and usually that comes from the man being better than them at something. It’s harder for younger men to compete with older men in aspects like wealth, charisma, maturity, social proof etc… So older women keep this trend of raising the bar for the men they are attracted to as they get older. But men like good looking women and younger women are better looking than older women on average. And…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 07:52 PM
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