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Lite-brite/r/RedPillWomen30/04/15 11:49 PM
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Question for BluePillLite-brite/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/15 03:06 AM
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Question for BluePillLite-brite/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/16 08:42 PM
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DiscussionLite-brite/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/15 03:31 PM
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Question for BluePillLite-brite/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/15 02:33 AM
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DiscussionLite-brite/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/15 06:08 AM
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DiscussionLite-brite/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/15 04:47 AM
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Question for BluePillLite-brite/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/16 05:28 AM
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DiscussionLite-brite/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/15 08:27 PM
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Question for BluePillLite-brite/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/15 07:38 PM
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Lite-brite/r/askTRP06/10/15 04:41 PM
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Question for BluePillLite-brite/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/16 08:43 PM
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DiscussionLite-brite/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/15 01:47 AM
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DiscussionLite-brite/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/15 07:06 PM
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DiscussionLite-brite/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/15 04:23 AM
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Question for BluePillLite-brite/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/16 04:24 AM
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DiscussionLite-brite/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/15 06:49 AM
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Question for BluePillLite-brite/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/15 01:06 AM
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Question for BluePillLite-brite/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 02:03 AM
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DiscussionLite-brite/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/16 08:49 PM
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DiscussionLite-brite/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/15 10:03 PM
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DiscussionLite-brite/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/15 04:00 PM
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Question for BluePillLite-brite/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/15 11:59 PM
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Question for BluePillLite-brite/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/15 04:51 PM
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Question for BluePillLite-brite/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/16 04:05 AM
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Question for RedPillLite-brite/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/15 11:41 PM
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DiscussionLite-brite/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/15 10:11 PM
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Question for BluePillLite-brite/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/15 01:22 AM
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Lite-brite/r/askTRP15/08/15 03:19 AM
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Question for BluePillLite-brite/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/15 01:28 AM
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DiscussionLite-brite/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/16 02:12 PM
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DiscussionLite-brite/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/15 07:21 PM
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CMVLite-brite/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/15 04:32 AM
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DiscussionLite-brite/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/15 07:14 PM
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DiscussionLite-brite/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/15 12:51 AM
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DiscussionLite-brite/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/15 03:56 AM
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CMVLite-brite/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/15 04:09 AM
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DiscussionLite-brite/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/15 01:42 AM
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Question for RedPillLite-brite/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/15 05:23 PM
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Question for RedPillLite-brite/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/16 05:30 PM
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DiscussionLite-brite/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/15 04:42 AM
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DiscussionLite-brite/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/15 05:19 AM
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DiscussionLite-brite/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/16 07:31 PM
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DebateLite-brite/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/15 08:06 PM
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Lite-brite/r/askTRP21/08/16 05:17 PM
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I was working in an office and was a fairly popular guy. Then a "plump" girl I was FB's with started telling everyone. I could feel the change in status. The strange thing is, I think she did that on purpose. Like she knew, just telling other women about us would give me less options and eventually leave me with no options.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/16 04:47 PM
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Read Devil in the Grove. You can be falsely accused for no reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/16 05:36 PM
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It's not an attack but you are free to disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 07:02 AM
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Thank you. I feel like I understand the blue pill a lot more. In reality, this is a venue to allow people to feel morally superior to people, over things they do not inherently find wrong. Or at least say they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 06:07 AM
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I think the moral of the story is that, at least in your case, the blue pillers and red pillers have the same moral standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 05:48 AM
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I think that's a strange way to look at the world. I also think it's a little disingenuous. You seem to be anything is valid but your methods must conform to moral standards. That's a little silly to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 04:24 AM
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I think that view is disingenuous and extremely self delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 04:20 AM
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Wow
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 02:54 AM
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I see. I guess I would say if you want screw old people out of money, you don't just want you fast money or easy money. In other words, part of what you want is inherently immoral. But I get your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 02:42 AM
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I'm asking what is the difference between completely the TRP's okay purpose but the morality of their methods.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 02:19 AM
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their morality How would you describe that?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 02:11 AM
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I don't agree with the red pill per se but its comforting to know there are other people who have had a similar experience as me. I'm inherently defective. I'm not a failure or doomed to chasing something that is never going to happen. I just have certain personality traits that people react to.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 02:08 AM
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This is the magic of blue pillers they see things that do not exist. No one said this confirmed TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/16 12:16 PM
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I'd love to answer your question but it appears you're setting a strawman. No one is saying "absolute control."
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/16 03:24 PM
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Every relationship has some degree of control in it. Relationships with anyone carry an element of a restriction on behavior. You're trying argue a binary and it's a little silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/16 03:10 PM
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Oh you read "absolute control." Im not sure what to say if you're seeing things that arent there...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/16 02:46 PM
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I'm not sure how you got space out of what I wrote. Can you elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/16 02:36 PM
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Control as in sexual fidelity, financial decisions, etc. I guess all relationships have some restrictions on behavior. The redpill is saying those restrictions are being eroded and therefore you can not rely on your relationship partner as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/16 02:10 PM
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Define "love."
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/16 05:29 PM
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when I first came across this debate, I thought the redpillers were out of their minds. But as I've paid attention, I think they're on to something. We live in a society that says maximize your own, individual potential in whatever you see fit. You don't owe anything to your community, family, spouse, or kids even. If any institution has views you don't conform to, holds you down, or is simply not in line with your current plans, leave and cut ties. I guess, given the world we live in, I think t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/16 03:40 AM
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Either one.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/16 03:32 AM
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I'm not sure what you mean? What is confusing you?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/16 09:31 PM
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I guess I'm asking what that says about me? Why does she view me as someone who would be happy about that, especially after telling me about five tinder dates she hopes to "complete" in some random city?
/r/askTRP21/08/16 05:25 PM
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You're OP covers a broad set of circumstances. Now you're saying you're only talking about a narrow circumstance.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/15 06:49 PM
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I think its just a fear of std's frankly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/15 06:29 PM
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Fair question. i have but not in a long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/15 06:16 AM
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No, we cannot. I'm not saying that to troll. I really think we people have such radical different notions of humans and reality itself, we cannot have common ground. Its to think about. The world is full of people and there are maybe 7 billion different versions of reality. How do hold it all together?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/15 11:21 PM
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Do you have a source for this?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/15 03:40 AM
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Its telling you can't even say one example of what "feminism".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/15 01:48 AM
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You never address anything anyone says, for one.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/15 01:47 AM
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You're cherry picking and arguing a straw man.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/15 11:09 PM
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This is like responding to "black lives matter" with "all lives matter". The groups you mentioned are affected by feminism in a particular way. Why do they need to have grievances they have nothing to do with them? You're diluting their issues with your "argument".
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/15 05:32 AM
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Right, but that because the majority of people on those subs are men. Of course they'll criticize feminism from their point of view.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/15 04:21 AM
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Could this be a problem of confirmation bias? There are women who feel attacked by feminism, just like there are men who feel attacked by feminism. Since most of TRP, MRA's, and MGTOW's are men, if you look at the criticism of feminism from those groups, of course it will appear only men criticize feminism as an attack on masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/15 04:04 AM
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I have no clue what it means but I suspect that will be thrown in my face when we need to compromise and she doesn't like the deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/15 01:01 AM
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Even the feminist agree: don't get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/15 12:58 AM
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I'm not sure how you're determining that. It seems like you're extrapolating too much from your experience and from one thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/15 04:17 PM
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It doesn't have advice for you therefore it has no advice for modern women. That makes a lot of sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/15 04:08 PM
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I always thought this was relative to their own height.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/15 07:25 AM
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another tremendous insight from you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/15 02:54 AM
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It's actually hard to answer Thats all you needed to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/15 01:58 AM
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How did you get that impression?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/15 01:39 AM
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Is that only for gay people or did movie roles represent a more narrow section of society in general?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/15 01:05 AM
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I think that depends on the girls and your own pursuits. Given all the miracles of modern science and technology, why anyone would tie themselves down is beyond me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/15 11:40 PM
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I'll be honest, I agree to a degree. If anyone, male or female, is having trouble having the amount of sex they want or the romantic relationships, they can do one of two things, conform to standards or come to grips with the fact that something fundamental to who they are is so abnormal, there is almost no chance of them getting what they want. My problem with TRP is that it gives the impression there is "something" you can do, when that's simply not true for everyone. A lot the advice is how t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/15 11:28 PM
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That's a wonderful fairy tale to tell yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/15 07:31 PM
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I think it was Larry King who said: "A man goes home and his wife hits him. He goes back the following night, and she hits him again as soon as he gets to the door. He goes back the following night, and she's standing in the door way, and hits him as soon as he gets in arms reach. If he goes back a third night, who is the crazy one?" I think violence is wrong but this woman wanted money. $10 million from what I heard. She got paid. The rationale for continuing to punish him is webpage clicks and…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/15 05:19 PM
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One theory is that gays usually don't have kids, so they have more disposable income. If you look at the gay marriage debate, the pro side was out spending the con side by a wide margin. People are more accepting of gay marriage because the elites told us to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/15 02:59 PM
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One whole girl?!?! Man, you hit it big!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/15 01:04 AM
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Feminism is the ultimate shit test.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/15 12:37 AM
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Anything pro-marriage should be dismissed out of hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/15 12:36 AM
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What group is the target of TRP hate?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/15 05:52 AM
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Is that an idea you think most of the posters or subscribers to TRP hold?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/15 02:54 AM
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Here's my problem with that, no one in her family could move her. No other individual in that school could. Everyone acts like there was "something" he could have done but her entire social network didn't care to do anything.
/r/PussyPassDenied29/10/15 03:34 AM
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I agree but I don't get why a cop was called in the first place. These are people trained to believe they responding to threats to public order and peace. People are so quick to call the police when they feel annoyed or inconvenienced but they don't think of themselves as dealing with those kinds of problems.
/r/PussyPassDenied28/10/15 02:29 PM
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People in general have less stake in society. People who have anti social tendencies have less reason to restrain their anger.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/15 02:47 AM
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Defeat? You've been on here too long.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/15 04:08 AM
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I'll take that as you agreeing with that comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/15 04:03 AM
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So you'd say coontown for TRP?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/15 03:59 AM
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Yes. No one can be happy without affection.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/15 01:52 AM
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The less women have kids, the less people will get married. Society says, at least one person is responsible for each kid. One of those people always includes the mom, therefore, women have a reason to get married. But as more women say no to kids, the more will say, "why get married?" That said, I think these things are a cycle and I think we are at peak "crazy" feminism. I think there will be a few changes to the law in the next ten years and marriage will continue be something people do.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/15 05:42 PM
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I just wanted to talk with you. Not it appears you're paranoid.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/15 05:18 PM
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See what I mean, you are oddly emotional about this topic. Maybe you're relationship isn't perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/15 05:04 PM
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a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/15 04:44 PM
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your hysteria is telling?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/15 04:39 PM
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OK...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/15 04:21 PM
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Have you ever tried asking a question?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/15 04:16 PM
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Who has more expertise and who has more to lose?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/15 04:10 PM
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You asked. They promote accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/15 04:05 PM
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We're a cooperative species, and great things can be achieved when we do.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/15 03:57 PM
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promote captain/first mate You've made up the definition of this phrase.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/15 03:26 PM
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Statisitically, lesbians are more likely to get divorced. What people get married for love? All the women in my family had their kids before they were 30. Now they can do what they want. They have college degrees and grad degrees. Justice Ginsberg had her kids young, I think she's doing fine. Your reasoning on kids doesn't stand up to scrutiny.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/15 03:23 PM
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RPW give advice for a specific relationship dynamic that not all people aspire to Again, they're saying in the context of a relationship, what are you, the woman not doing or allowing to continue. I know people like you have perfect relationships but others require a bit of help reflecting on how their relationship can be more fulfilling.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/15 03:15 PM
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What that means is he is accountable. How many relationships do you see where the woman turns into the guy's mom. I think you've missed the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/15 03:00 PM
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Why does that upset you so much?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/15 02:37 PM
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Again, I think you're misinformed. They're not against women demonstrating their talents. They for holding the man accountable. Constantly fixing your husband's mistakes does not help him or you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/15 02:36 PM
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Oh, well, if you're relationship is perfect, good for you. I think you're misinformed. RPW is aiming for compatibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/15 02:16 PM
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I don't think that what RPW is trying to convey. They're saying ask what your roll is in this situation. They tell women to dump guys or walk away if it fits.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/15 04:26 AM
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Except you have many places saying the same kind of thing, and few places offer a different kind of advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/15 04:23 AM
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Because its the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/15 04:15 AM
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I'm not sure I'd consider you SA. You sound like a normal person.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/15 09:05 PM
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This is what I think of as SA: an individual excessively afraid of social interaction due to some form of peer rejection or personal choice. Presenting a form or different forms of uncomfortability when around others. Would you say this describes you?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/15 08:50 PM
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Ok, wouldn't "social skills" have some overlap with behavior? Does how we communicate involve snap judgements about how someone looks?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/15 07:08 PM
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Ok, could you phrase it a little differently?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/15 06:58 PM
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Why do conversations about "superficial" markers of attraction annoy TBP so much?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/15 06:09 PM
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I agree with this works along a continuum. I just think the spectrum is more slanted by things we see within the first moments of meeting someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/15 05:15 PM
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And neither of these have anything to do with how people act?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/15 05:14 PM
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Are you really socially awkward? Why do you think you are?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/15 04:59 PM
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I am not sure I get what you're saying. Are you saying people have no standards and don't care what you look like or act like, they'll sleep with you anyways, as long as you are articulate?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/15 04:34 PM
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So whats the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/15 07:07 AM
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So don't have kids
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/15 07:01 AM
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What... was that....?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/15 04:24 AM
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So changing the law is different than calling out racists?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/15 02:18 AM
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SLC is not doing what they used to do, which is change the law.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/15 02:05 AM
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Again, the civil rights movement was trying to address the law not point out how mean racists were. You seem to be unfamiliar with the civil rights movement.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/15 01:43 AM
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Do you have proof the civil roghts movement tried to change racist's minds?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/15 11:53 PM
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Can you just acknowlegde the segregation the civil rights movement was addessing was being done by a state body?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/15 11:40 PM
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You seem not understand the government was what MLK and civil rights movement was protesting. In some cases they needed things education and voting rights. Other times they wanted them to enforce the law when the KKK attacked them. Your comparison is insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/15 11:16 PM
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WOAH! You just said there is something as murderous and evil and what was faced by the civil rights movement. Maybe you could let them know and see what they think. Black people have opinions ya know? (Seriously did you know that? Do you care?) I find your efforts at obfuscation are interesting. Predictable, but interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/15 10:48 PM
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So you could ask them. What's holding you back?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/15 10:34 PM
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I'm not a red piller. I just think TBP is so bizarrely presumptous. You're a different side of the same coin. So now that we established you won't telling that to black people. Do you even know any black people?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/15 10:29 PM
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it was about removing power from people that hated them. Wrong. doesn't mean everyone in the civil rights movement shared that view. Really? i'm just consistent in dealing with hate groups. Ok, the civil rights movement occured because of the state. TRP is not a state nor does it have state power. i'm guessing you are unware how many red pillers / manosphere types are race realists / racists. are you black? how long have you been in the manosphere? No I'm not. Let me guess, I'm right. How you to…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/15 10:11 PM
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Right but the civil rights movement was voting rights, murders, protection of the law, not hate. MLK said he didn't care how white people felt about him, he just wanted the law to do something when they hit him. You have one (maybe example), however, it was the state of Alabama that was discriminating against black people (that's just one example). You're analogy is insulting to a lot of people because it minimizes a very serious moment. You can be a victim without shitting on so many people who…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/15 08:27 PM
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You are severely deranged if you think this is how the civil rights movement worked. A lot of people died during the civil rights movement. I hope you learn some thing about history.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/15 08:13 PM
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So what about TRP is analogous to state sanctioned segregation, rape, mutilation and murder of the southern states?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/15 08:07 PM
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You're not really comparing the Civil Rights movement to reddit flame wars, are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/15 07:34 PM
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No. I do not because I don't think you can teach people skills required to get romance or sex or popularity. All you can do is show them how to hide their weaknesses better or highlight their strengths, but on a long enough timeline, who they are comes out either way. Maybe you can put them in different social environments and see if they fit better in one place vs another. I think TRP means well, but I'm not sold on the premise.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/15 06:14 PM
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That's gold level sarcasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/15 05:33 PM
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There you go. except for the part where many of us have shared personal stories of encountering these problems ourselves and getting past them. Never said otherwise. Of course that experience does not preclude you from lacking empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/15 05:20 PM
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Someone's gotta gild this...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/15 05:18 PM
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I think TBP is founded on a lack of empathy. Most of them literally cannot understand why someone would need a strategy to get laid or get a relationship with someone they desire. They don't realize there are people, many people in fact, who go weeks, months or years not having a single a social interaction that doesn't end with a feeling of guilt or shame because someone lacks the ability to be received in a positive way, especially by the opposite sex. Like most bullies they view themselves as…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/15 04:52 PM
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Your threshold adjusts based on what is available. That's my point. This is relative. The only absolute is that you are attracted to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/15 03:51 PM
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If all women fell below your threshold, what then?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/15 03:44 PM
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As a default, yes. In theory I desire "women". If you are a women, I start with the assumption, I desire you. But, for example, if you weight 5,000 pounds, I'll desire you less. I guess I can say, my desire can be reduced to the point of revulsion but I don't start at that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/15 03:30 PM
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All. Whether we bang depends on motive and opportunity.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/15 03:20 PM
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But it's doable That's a faith based statement, IMO. I also don't see doable as any sort of standard to work towards. These people have been over and and over again, over decades, that it is not doable. You seem to be saying, as a matter of statistical analysis that it is. But people don't work that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/15 10:00 PM
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I am not the person you asked but I want to make two points. The amount of change is daunting. You're talking about people who have always had trouble connecting. They probably tried different things growing up, only to realize they'll get the same reaction more or less all the time. People in general, or just the opposite sex, are not things of happiness or enjoyment, they are, by default, things to be avoided. Think of all the things you believe are dangerous, now think of them something to pu…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/15 03:21 PM
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I don't see myself as RP. My only argument is I think this is a bit much.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/15 06:57 PM
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I think they can be admirals. Well at least you have a sense of humor.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/15 06:50 PM
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RPW just want a different kind of relationship than you. Why and how they become targets of your ire, when that sub is more about knitting vs sewing or cost effective recipes than anything else is strange.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/15 06:31 PM
8

That is even sadder.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/15 06:12 PM
8

Whenever women come here angry at RPW. I feel bad for them. I really do. It feels like a desperate plea for help.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/15 05:57 PM
3

I think that's what TBP could offer the world. There is an obvious subtext to their "satire". They could make the argument relationships are worth. Instead they engage in another kind of fear mongering: feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/15 12:49 AM
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I could buy this if they didn't keep this secret and didn't ask on various forums, "should I tell my SO?". That tells me something else is at play.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/15 12:45 AM
1

I'm too paranoid for male birth control. I think if you're for equality, you'd have to be for financial abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/15 04:49 PM
0

How different are these worlds?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/15 08:07 AM
2

Two of the links you've posted are in the context of legal parental surrender.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/15 06:47 AM
0

This is a rhetorical argument designed to make a point because this is what we force men to do now. Men are forced to be responsible for kids from the moment of conception. If that's fair to you, do you agree we should force women to do the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/15 05:31 AM
1

I think TRP would say men and women don't translate so easily because they are inherently so different.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/15 08:54 PM
2

My understanding is that arranged marraiges forced people to deal thier issues. Not saying its the optimal solution but it does jave its benefits and they should not be over looked.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/15 06:07 PM
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I asked what you did, you posted links.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/15 10:00 AM
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You don't do shit. You just take credit for others.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/15 09:53 AM
-1

So.... They contribute...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/15 09:49 AM
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Oh really, how so?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/15 09:32 AM
-1

This is completely idiotic. Please stop talking before someone believes you and a rapist fails to be reported.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/15 07:12 AM
1

Who are you trying to help? Do you really think telling people the law doesn't care if they're raped helps anyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/15 02:47 PM
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Do you have any statistics for how harsh the legal system is on rape victims? Without that, I think what you're doing is fear mongering and highly unethical.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/15 02:13 PM
3

Chris Brown said it first: These hoes ain't loyal...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/15 02:00 PM
1

Can you give me some frame of reference of why you wrote this here?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/15 07:14 AM
2

Dude, you're everywhere. You are God. I'm honored you commented here. I see the error of my ways and shall repent!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/15 07:10 AM
2

If you wouldn't to tell everyone how smart and moral you are, you could just say that. For what its worth, I agree, you are superior to everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/15 06:49 AM
3

You have a choice on if your hair is long, or if you shave your head.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/15 04:10 AM
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Where does that end. Can guys prefer girls with vaginas? Can bald men date long haired women? Can women with jobs date students? If a women likes swallowing cum, does the guy have to enjoy it as well. I'm serious can you create rule for this?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/15 04:04 AM
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I don't see that as by definition hypocritical. She's not saying everyone must be skinny, or that fat people are gross, just that she prefers buff guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/15 03:56 AM
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I guess I don't see how this is different than a guy who likes girls who like dying their hair, even though he doesn't Or a girl who likes guys with a body builder physique, even though she'd hate that look for herself. Its a preference and I don't see why its so different than any other preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/15 03:48 AM
3

How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/15 03:30 AM
6

I don't think its cool to shame people for sleeping around but its naive to think men have the same experience of getting sex as women and vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/15 03:29 AM
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What I've noticed women with the highest partner counts have the most complaints about dating an men. Why? I don't know but its something I noticed. I'd like to hear a few theories.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/15 04:40 PM
3

I want to give them an honest chance to answer questions I think many people who are curious about TRP are asking. Can I change my current situation? Am I doing something wrong? Can it be fixed? How? If not, what are my options?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/15 05:27 AM
8

Can you be more precise? What should they avoid?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/15 04:28 AM
6

What if you're rejected way more than you reciprocated to? Can you infer, women, as a group just don't dig you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/15 04:24 AM
7

So what is their problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/15 04:20 AM
1

This reminds me of Ron Mexico.
/r/askTRP07/10/15 09:22 PM
2

It excited you?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/15 06:22 AM
2

given that you remember that thread so well, i'm not sure i was the one that was really excited.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/15 05:52 AM
2

i dont give out personal information over the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/15 05:48 AM
1

Carly Fiorina. I'd love to get all kinds of sexual deviant with her. Actually, I can think of a lot of conservative commentators I love to go 50 shades of gray with.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/15 02:07 AM
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Dude, I mean this with all due respect. There is literally no point in trying to explain this to you. You seem committed to being last person to understand how the world works. Good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/15 10:25 PM
1

The people you meet on reddit...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/15 10:20 PM
1

Felix Dennis? Now who's cherry picking examples? I'm going to take a wild guess and assume you never went to a place like Eton. If you had, I'm sure you'd find a remarkable similarity between the parents of those students and the ruling families of the UK. You have no tangible legacy to inherit. You're just a kid who's dad did something cool. No one with any power and influence takes this thought process seriously. Besides you, of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/15 09:52 PM
1

You seem pretty even handed. Is this by definition an alpha widow?
/r/askTRP06/10/15 09:29 PM
1

If you think the kids of Fortune 500 companies CEOs aren't putting their kids in great positions and sending them to the best schools, you cra. You think Jobs's daughter is super successful because she's smart? Or that she gave her sons the last name "Jobs" because it sounds nice. The two leading presidential candidates have had family members who were president. At every level of politics, name recognition rules, so families cycle through positions over generations. Al Gore's dad was big politi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/15 09:16 PM
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I'll just say the people who run society care. Jobs is the exception, not the rule. You're playing against a stacked deck if this is not a big deal to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/15 08:03 PM
2

In my own experience, a man hitting on a woman that women deem unattractive make them feel bad about themselves. The logic seems to be that this unattractive trash seems to think he has a shot with her when he is CLEARLY out of her league. What he's right? What if other men agree?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/15 04:10 AM
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What annoys me about this debate is that everyone who says live and live all of sudden has these deep moral and cultural reasons for not allowing this. Why not be consistent? You think its a clump of cells? I should be bound to a clump of cells, either. You're body, your choice, why not your consequences? The law should update itself. Society no longer considers the father-mother relationship an inherent aspect of family. It no longer considers the father-child relationship an inherent aspect of…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/15 03:21 AM
2

Can you elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/15 03:44 AM
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You can't make everyone happy. Do what makes you feel safe and stop being sensitive about people who don't like you're responses.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/15 02:32 AM
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I'm sorry I wasn't more clear. I'm asking you to make up those other conditions.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/15 08:18 PM
1

Same. They just wanted to meet interesting people.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/15 06:10 PM
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I do think that's part of the problem. People want to imagine their virtue matters. It does not in the modern dating world.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/15 04:25 PM
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My theory is that these people systematically have troubled relationships. They are never invited to play ball. They are always laughed at in class. They do not function in human relationships in a way most people do. The feel that rejection most acutely when it comes to romance. Drug dealers get laid. Men in prison get conjugal visits. They see guys who are also weird or outcasts who manage a date every blue moon. Prostitution won't fix that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/15 03:57 AM
1

You're right.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/15 09:20 PM
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I feel like what you're saying is, if they cannot bother me, why should we care. I suspect these people aren't highly functioning socially anyway, their lack of success with the opposite sex is just where they are the most acutely aware of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/15 09:12 PM
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Is that real?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/15 09:09 PM
1

Awww.... I bet they fart rainbows too.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/15 09:01 PM
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Your parents have an ethical system that no one in your dating cohort has. You will not find someone who has the virtues as your mom or dad. They do not exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/15 08:53 PM
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I say this is a problem for women too. They are socialized to believe they should care or do care if their man is a fine, healthy, upstanding, handsome, taxpaying member of society who treats them right, that everything will be okay. It won't be. I'm sure these women feel terrible but they have a powerful and unexplained urge that they cannot rationalize themselves out of. And the bluepillers won't allow this convo to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/15 05:52 PM
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But who did they get bored with? Drunks? Losers? Dead beat dads? No. Someone of them were saying their husband is even handsome. This is beyond counseling or making men better men. There is a reality we cannot talk about.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/15 04:25 PM
1

You're last sentence is just obfuscation and its super telling.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/15 04:25 PM
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So you think only adulters are not attracted to their highly functioning, handsome, and stable husbands?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/15 04:17 PM
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Most people cheat because they lust over more attractive partners. Do you have a citation for that? I'm serious. I think this is a dangerous idea to propagate. It leads people to think, "if only I were different". I think we need to be honest, the modern marriage is not going to react to you doing more chores.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/15 04:16 PM
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Im kidding about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/15 04:12 PM
2

And tin foil hats will protect you from the Illuminati Lizard People... Can I ask what you thought about the thread in general?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/15 04:07 PM
1

Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/15 04:04 PM
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I think the reason people get married is to bind to a person but also a tradition we all recognize. So anytime people say, "I want to get married but I don't [insert marriage tradition/ritual]" I just wonder what the point is. The again, if you get married, you deserve every bad thing that happens to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/15 02:18 AM
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You don't really sound like you want a relationship. You want an ego stroke and an unending streak of happiness where nothing is bad and you never have to compromise.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/15 07:43 PM
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You're living your whole romantic life in an effort to avoid negative emotion, not forge a bond with another person. When was the last time a major news story reported on the blessings of a the "modern relationship".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/15 07:37 PM
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I've seen bits and pieces of this story over the last few days. Why isn't the idea that not having a college degree is turnoff for women? Why do guys keep getting the blame for this?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/15 06:35 AM
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A guy with manners and conforms to social expectations in regards to how treat people, education, and career arc but lacks some combination of charisma, athleticism, physical attractiveness, etc. For some reason this sick bastard has a desire for romantic intimacy and has sexual urges. He thinks the best thing going for him is how he treats people so he thinks that's the way to a woman's heart. Ironically, his problem is a lack of risk taking behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/15 04:17 AM
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I think this is interesting because it does bring to light one issue. We live in a time where you cannot expect anything from people.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/15 12:30 AM
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I think its important to remember that he's giving us a theory. He might be right but I believe in believing in being skeptical when you get this kind of info. I will say, people like Ana are all ready to lap this up. I promise if you said, "lets have the law reflect this" they would go bonkers.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/15 01:33 PM
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I get that. I'm just saying it has more to do with their own vanity than social pressure.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/15 11:28 PM
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The real tragedy there is that he might have to pay child support. That is the next civil rights frontier. Legal parental surrender.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/15 11:26 PM
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I'd agree with you if you didn't know your past experiences would narrow your options. But these people know the whole time and they do this stuff anyway. And you could argue she fought social pressures up until the point she wanted that social pressure's security and prestige.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/15 11:16 PM
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What if he told her about them and she failed to disclose?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/15 10:50 PM
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I'll never understand being in a marriage with someone who you have to lie to about your past.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/15 10:48 PM
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I'm not saying its fake. I'm saying retain a skeptical mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/15 08:54 PM
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All you've stated is we don't know how anyone's marriage is working...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/15 05:39 PM
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...from all appearances
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/15 04:47 PM
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I'm assuming we're incorporating other things like chemistry, life experiences, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/15 01:33 AM
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I don't have a specific number but I do have a red flag theory. Basically, have you had a comparable number of long term relationships to random hook ups?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/15 01:04 AM
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That's irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 09:46 PM
1

No that's a medical determination that encompasses other kinds of behaviors and medical concerns.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 09:32 PM
1

Well I suspect there are multiple words for that
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 09:23 PM
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I understand what you're saying but I'm not convinced.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 05:22 PM
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I think within a few years we will cease to categorize this as a stigma. They'll be ubiquitous and people just wont care. Even 8+ guys get the "baby, not tonight". And frankly, what will push this is biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 05:18 PM
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Ok... Why not just say "not socially aware"?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 05:15 PM
2

What do you have against autistic people?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 05:09 PM
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I'll take even further, the risk of rejection will create this dynamic. In that way, 8+ guys will be just as susceptible as any other guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 05:09 PM
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Yea, I'm not saying that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 05:07 PM
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I hope you continue to mock me because I'd love to see what else you think is funny. Right now, you have admitted to finding humor in pedophilia, people who are dealing with addiction and autistic people. Also, you're now comparing people who go to sex conventions to serial killers. I'm not "TRP". But I do enjoy debate. Even with brain dead morons like yourself. More jokes, please.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 05:06 PM
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I'm not an omega-male, unsocialized autistic serial killer Lets say that's plausible. What makes you think the people you're talking about are? Who else do you shame for how they receive sexual pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 04:26 PM
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That's a cop out. You seem to know a lot about "these people", what are they like?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 04:21 PM
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Plenty of men don't start with rejection That sounds naive as hell. plenty of men experience very little or none of it in their lives This just ignores what I'm saying. I'm saying in the future, this is something we have to think about. You're saying this hasn't happened in the past, so its nothing to worry about.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 04:19 PM
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the kind of people who now go to sex doll conventions What's wrong with these people exactly? What are"these kinds of people" like?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 04:17 PM
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Me thinks the Blue pill doth protest too much. If I said there's technology that could drive a car like a human, we'd agree people who drive will be affected by that. If I said there's technology to could build an entire car, we'd agree people who build cars would be affected by that. If I said there's technology that can make phone calls without being connected to a land line, we'd agree that would have an impact on people who make phone calls. See where I'm going with this? But when I say ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 04:16 PM
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If the rejection is so consistent that the man actually stops initiating and defaults to the sexbot, then the relationship is done Maybe but here's my point: what do most guys experience first? Rejection? Sex? Dates? Marriage? Courtship? If we eliminate "rejection" how likely is it that the guy will experience sex, dating, marriage, etc?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 04:03 PM
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I don't know what you mean by that but I don't think I'm not saying that. I think the situation we have now is that rejection from your partner is just part of the price of admission. Technology is simply in a position to get rid of that. That will be damaging to people's relationships given our current discourse.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 03:53 PM
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Here's when this is going to get bad. Imagine there's a perfectly happy couple. The guy gets a sex doll as a fun novelty. One day the wife says she's not in the mood, go use the sex doll. So he does. A few weeks later, same thing. After a few times of being rejected, he stops initiating altogether. That's when the issues start, because while she does not need sex as often as he does, she does need the validation. Then imagine how many times an average male is rejected over his life time. What if…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 03:34 PM
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Emotionally, I'm partial to being pro-life. The problem is, I think that's a high standard to hold people in reality. Its simply unfair to hold people accountable for their actions all the time. I didn't really feel bad doing it. I'm a personally confused by this. You either or aren't. If you have "conflicted feelings" then I this kind of statement is a little disingenuous. I think a lot of TRP guys feel this way: 1) Are you in favor of abortion? If yes: 2) Are you for allowing men a similar leg…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 05:44 AM
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Here's my issue with using the turing test. For the last ten years, every gf I've had at one point asked me, "are we facebook official". In the American dating experience, facebook is now a milestone. I wonder if some kind sexual robot could be so real, it would change how we experience sex. I truly believe my kids or grandkids will have "sex" everyday of their lives for 30 40 years, but it will never be with another human. In fact, we'll call it "human sex" and "robot sex" because for many peop…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/15 09:14 PM
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I hope that's not what you call whit...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/15 05:42 PM
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Does crap and soda have water in it?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/15 01:15 PM
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How so? I'm just asking. I think its an interesting discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/15 01:11 PM
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At the risk of being annoying, why do you think it wouldn't be a 50-50 spilt? (I agree with you)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/15 01:52 AM
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So the primary factor is when they want to...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/15 01:48 AM
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I still think there would be a large percentage of people who wouldn't have interest in that kind of thing because they would get zero validation from it. Do you think its presumptuous to call most of these people "women"?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/15 01:45 AM
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But those are the exceptions to the rule. Its illegal for most people. Therefore it is stigmatized. If prostitution were legal throughout the country, I think many men's behavior would change. I think this is a fascinating discussion because it forces us to be a little honest. I truly believe if we could create robots that, simulated various sensory aspects of sex, it would be mainstream within a decade of its introduction. Because I think at the end of the day, there is a large segment of men w…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/15 01:40 AM
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A lot of guys who complain about not being able to get laid could afford to see prostitutes No one can afford a solicitation charge on their record. But if weren't illegal...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/15 01:32 AM
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Really? I think the social change on this would happen quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/15 01:21 AM
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No. I saw a Japanese guy hump a virtual blow up doll and thought "this is the biggest thing since indoor plumbing." The people here have differing views, by definition. Just wanted a few different perspectives.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/15 12:35 AM
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Here's my theory: We can condition most men out of linking intimacy with sex. We cannot condition most women out of linking intimacy with sex. ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/15 10:48 PM
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These "things". Can you give them a name or put them in a category?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/15 10:32 PM
1

Where will we get our affection and ego stroking from?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/15 09:55 PM
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That's interesting idea. I think if we all have sex robots and expect them to satisfy our sexual urges exclusively, the genders will actually be much more intermingled because there will be a element of tension removed. Does that make sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/15 09:53 PM
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I'm still confused. I guess I'll put it this way, if you believe in owing a promise to something larger than just you and person, does it really make sense to start holding yourself to standards solely on the basis of having that person? If its not a quid pro quo, and instead an honoring of a much larger idea, why does that only kick in, when you have bargain?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/15 09:16 PM
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I don't know what that means but if it means what I think it means, I was just curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/15 09:11 PM
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Can we go a step further and say you have duty to the concept of "each other"? Its not just a bargain between to people but the notion of "being one"?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/15 09:08 PM
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Do you accept that its wrong to do that if someone is tied to you for the rest of their life? Cheating is still wrong. So is letting yourself go. Right?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/15 09:05 PM
1

I'm scared to ask but... ..what is HSW?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/15 09:01 PM
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I'm not redpill. I think its funny and a little more honest than the popular media but I'm not a redpiller. how a man acts makes his wife more or less likely to be excited by him If you feel the same about the wife, thats fine. Frankly, I think this sort of thinking is a great way to make everyone miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/15 09:00 PM
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I don't think its good to cheat on your spouse, but I guess we'll agree to disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/15 08:55 PM
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I don't mean desperation. I mean, do you feel that way because the idea seems foreign or because there is something innate to human mind brain that needs that sort of connection, to the point where it cannot be replicated for the vast majority of the population.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/15 08:52 PM
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Women have sex when its convenient, or when they want to?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/15 08:49 PM
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he is so wrapped up in his own life I wonder if that has anything to do having to provide for a family?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/15 08:48 PM
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I believe that. I just wonder if that can be socialized out of people by never or rarely being exposed to it in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/15 08:46 PM
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objectively correct. That's a weird phrase. But I'll leave it at that. Society is not saying that. You did. You said, the guys getting laid 5 minutes after "hello" are usually losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/15 08:42 PM
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Could you name the aspects of sex you do not believe can be recreated artifaicilly? I mean, what cannot be "replaced"?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/15 08:36 PM
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personally I would not consider them 'Alpha's' or leaders or top 20%, lots of them are just guys who work in bars or guys they meet at music festivals or on holiday This is interesting in light of: sometimes girls will hold off sex if they really like a guy (both handsome and fun and sensitive and successful), even if they have really sexual pasts because they think the guy will respect them less if they just bang. It seems like these guys are making the exact same calculation as the girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/15 08:23 PM
0

INCEL LIVES MATTER!! I will not stop fighting until every candidate running declares "Incel lives matter!" "Incel lives matter!"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/15 08:54 PM
1

Curiosity
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/15 09:19 PM
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I'm not a TRP'er but I want to make two points: 1) Some people, many will not ever find a loving, romantic relationship. Its not like relationships spontaneously happen. Some people are just too dull, too strange looking, too anxious, too lacking in some fundamental way to find love. I think TRP should get credit for saying, "you can do better, you deserve better" 2) More importantly, we don't live in a society that says, "you, and everyone else, must be in a relationship that conforms to a soci…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/15 01:39 AM
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Ok. We'll just have to take your word for that...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/15 03:47 PM
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I've travelled and I have to tell you, people are people. There is variation out there but socialization works. Everyone feels good after being shown gratitude for giving someone something. That's AWALT is saying, just its important to say please after a request, there basic, phrases, ideas, assumptions, and actions that 9/10 will be appropiate when dealing with women in a romantic or sexual context.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/15 03:35 PM
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I think that's a extreme reaction. All AWALT is saying is, don't go into a situation or do go into a situation, with a baseline assumption of "X". I don't see whats wrong with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/15 03:13 PM
3

That just means you will be better off most of the time if you have a certain assumption when dealing with women in particular contexts.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/15 02:57 PM
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I thought women didnt want to be put on pedestals.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/15 02:55 PM
1

Motivation obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/15 01:18 PM
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There's a Bradley Cooper or Jennifer Lawrence out there for everyone, if only you'd open your heart. I think this has several ramifications. The first is that our standards are not only out of whack, but misaligned. Instead of becoming a reliable person and maximizing my potential, I try to imitate people I have no business trying to imitate.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/15 02:20 PM
6

Ok, how is it separated from reality? Or emotionally driven?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/15 04:54 PM
6

Can you name a particular TRP idea that is like creationism? Or is the whole idea like creationism?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/15 04:51 PM
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TRP is as crazy to me as a flat earth. And yet here you are. I really mean it when I say we, as an society, would be better off if more people said "I believe in and you should too because....." instead of "what you believe in is laughable and I'm just going to laugh". I guess I'm disappointed we have this powerful tool to exchange ideas and people like you shirk at every chance you get to use it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/15 04:37 PM
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The general mindset is that TRP is so absurd there's no point in rationally debating it. This is such a cowardly cop out.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/15 04:26 PM
0

I can't read your mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/15 03:08 AM
1

I think there is a woman is someone from every woman, as long as she isnt obese. Because of that, I think obese women are much less tolerant of lower status guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/15 01:11 AM
2

This is why god created betas.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/15 06:10 AM
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http://www.bloomberg.com/news/articles/2015-03-20/rugby-is-having-an-nfl-moment-as-concussions-bring-legal-scrutiny This is what I mean. "Panic. There a health, um, thing to worry about!!!!"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/15 04:29 AM
2

I think thread by thread would be better...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/15 03:18 AM
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This is why I think you hear so much about the concussion thing. Its a problem but its a fairly rare thing to happen. But wait, now we have something women love to talk about: scary health stories. It scares moms and wives and now the media knows they have women's attention and now we hear about this all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/15 01:13 AM
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I'd say no. I think the age of consent should be sexual, physical maturity.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/15 12:27 AM
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Ok counselor...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/15 07:25 PM
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I'm not saying anything is wrong with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/15 07:16 PM
1

I never brought those issues, you did.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/15 07:14 PM
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I guess the point I'm making is that a lawyer going after a CEO and lawyer going after a car mechanic aren't going to treat their clients pay schedules the same. The lawyers I worked with seemed to give bigger, more lucrative cases, more time, and those clients with more attention and more latitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/15 07:10 PM
2

Unreal. You're not helping your cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/15 07:05 PM
1

So taking care of your kids is like rape.... The lawyers speak is strong with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/15 06:59 PM
3

The man agreed to that because he relied on her not divorcing him, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/15 06:54 PM
2

So her husband raped her?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/15 06:49 PM
2

a compelling reason What would be an example of that?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/15 06:47 PM
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Her body her choice, no one forced her to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/15 06:46 PM
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I want to hear Paul's perspective!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/15 06:44 PM
1

But there's nothing stopping them from doing that?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/15 06:42 PM
2

Does that bar them from accepting their fee until after the matter has been settled?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/15 06:27 PM
0

What does AWALM mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/15 05:57 PM
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Its not the emotion, its the opportunity, I think is what you're saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/15 05:37 PM
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So its not malicious. Its more motive and opportunity.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/15 05:35 PM
1

How easy is this process? You have lawyers, court proceedings, it seems like a complicated process.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/15 05:34 PM
4

But any woman could be a slut. Not any guy could be a stud.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/15 11:43 PM
1

I lived in Asia and they had a nickname for these types LBH. Loser Back Home. Unless you plan on changing yourself first, moving to another country won't help you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/15 05:09 PM
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I lived in Asia but lived on a college campus with people from all over the world. The Russian, and Asian, women I knew weren't exactly submissive, but I would say they were more consistent and predictable. Or put another way, they saw and reacted to leverage more than American women. At least the ones I knew.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/15 05:09 PM
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So you're small group of friends=women in general?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/15 03:05 PM
1

Is that really true?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/15 02:25 AM
3

What about people who are disfigured disabled?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/15 02:20 AM
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This is one guy giving his anecdotal experience, I'm giving you mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 10:36 PM
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I'm don't consider myself redpiller but I think they're trying to have an interesting and important conversation. Why? I've lived in Africa, the middle east and Asia for extended periods of time and the dynamics between men and women are the same everywhere. Powerful men are swarmed by women. Handsome men have an ease with women. Despite what buzzfeed wants you to think, an attractive women in Texas is hot in Shanghai, and vice versa. If she can turn heads in LA, she's likely doing the same in C…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 10:25 PM
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What is "rape culture"? Seriously, what is it. Slutwalks are a strange kind of protest where you basically express your privilege, and then claim victimhood when people express their disapproval, with the most extreme expressions of disapproval being presented as the typical form of disapproval. I think MGTOWs individually are nice people but I feel their existence is a sign of something very dark in our society. Humans are social creatures so hearing them talk about their beliefs sends a chill …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/15 11:13 PM
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estrogen?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/15 06:07 AM
2

Heterosexual women
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/15 02:39 PM
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My enthusiasm comes from this lie we all perpetuate that we see the good in people or that there's a part of brain that rationally discerns what our wants and needs are and that reason beats passion. Of course it would be nice sexist socialization was responsible for why men pursued fit, in shape, feminine women. And wouldn't it be great if the patriarchy was why alpha males were always able to sleep with whatever woman they wanted, no matter what their track record was with other women. I just …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/15 05:36 AM
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Here's my analogy: Malcolm Gladwell did an experiment that tests how unconsciously racist individuals are. Malcolm takes this tests and it turns out Malcolm, like many people who take the test, has a subtle bias against black people. The kicker is, Malcolm is black... The point many RP guys are making is that attractive guys hitting you registers differently in your mind than when a ugly one does. Just like we usually have implicit biases against certain races, men and women make snap judgements…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/15 08:20 PM
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No, I'm not.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/15 12:29 AM
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I'm happy you brought this up because this is what I want to talk about. I think every guy that she does not approve of resembles a piss soaked hobo. So the nerdy guy, who is too shy to look anyone in the eye, who thinks the frumpy hermit girl who he works with is kinda sexy, will be dismissed with the same veracity as a piss soaked hobo. But he doesn't need to ask her out to get that reaction, from the time he started asking girls to play with him in 5th grade to beginning of college he learned…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/15 11:54 PM
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This will fail. The appeal of Tinder is that it lets your imagination run. Maybe this is a quick hookup with some chick across town, or maybe she's a super milf I'll never see again. Maybe this date will be a quickie after dinner, maybe I'll get a squirting orgasm and we'll get married. Tinder allows for options, and you can always attract naive millenials with the illusion of choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/15 07:59 PM
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I always thought we already had purpose but kids, family, work, friends, etc. offered clarity to what that purpose was. If your 50 and still searching for something, nothing you find will give you purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/15 05:42 PM
3

You mean some people aren't happy all the time?!?!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/15 05:38 PM
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I worked in a retirement home in college. We all die alone. What I see is people feeling like they missed an experience. You have plenty of people with great husbands but want to get divorced because they want the single life. There are guys who start banging their young secretaries because their wife doesn't want to have sex anymore, or because they're just turned off by her 65 year old body. Age does weird things to people's self image. There's no way to avoid this regret.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/15 04:46 PM
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What is your vision for society?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/15 07:35 AM
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Or reality...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/15 06:25 AM
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I'm talking about for redpill guys in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/15 06:21 AM
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So they should realize everyone is miserable. No one is happy, ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/15 06:10 AM
2

How much is a surrogate? Does that cost money?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/15 06:09 AM
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Would it be cynical to tell people from a young age that our family linage determines a lot of our life? How attractive we are determines our success with the opposite sex, and not much else. That how intelligent we are is largely genetics the enviroment of our earliest days determines our academic and job prospects.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/15 03:43 AM
1

Men with higher IQs prefer monagamy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/15 02:33 AM
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Has anyone made an effort?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/15 12:47 AM
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so how do we know this isnt bias or some kind self perpetuating feed back loop? What else is real but we have no data for?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/15 03:42 PM
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Let me guess, you have no empirical data for that either?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/15 03:10 PM
0

define plenty?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/15 07:24 AM
0

well, it would help us to know if these nice guys actually exist
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/15 07:09 AM
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R/niceguys. If youre not a swinging dick that cant make a woman swoon on command, most women would like you to die a painful and quick death.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/15 06:57 PM
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Its not a statistic, its a concept that helps explain why most activities, a small minority dominates. Just like hard core TRP'ers, hard core feminists say these men make women feel uncomfortable so they must somehow deserve the treatment they get. The idea youre/theyre not contributing to same angry, internet mob that has polluted civil discourse and is helping to destroy empathy is ridiculous. No reasonto say "but the TRP.." its all the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/15 05:56 AM
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There are claims there that women are manipulative psychopaths, insane , unempathetic , backward retards who crave abuse and despise goodness and that they shouldn't get to vote or make decisions about their lives . Theres evidence to the contrary? All jokes aside, this is an sincere question, what percentage of men do you think will regularly recieve treatment from women like that in r/niceguys? Would you say its crazy to assume 80% of guys have sexual and/or romantic interactions with women th…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/15 05:39 AM
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From my experience, they want to be sluts but they also have have this hope that the guy will turn in to being the great white knight in shining armour.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/15 02:37 PM
0

If I were king for a day, the age of consent would be the point at which both parties body's have reached sexual maturity. If youve reached puberty, you can sleep with anyone else that has reached puberty, and vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/15 03:35 PM

I think TBP having a baseline or some agreed upon ideas tgey cab stand for would help.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/15 03:31 PM
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I think there has to be a better way than online activistism. In democracies, you need to speak to people who disagree with you and hate you. Theoretically, we could talk everyone we disagree with but there seems to be an instinct to segment in every concievsble way. Its wierd.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/15 03:03 AM
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The greatest recipients of affirmative action are white women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/15 02:04 AM
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fake physical appearance?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/15 01:30 AM
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fake what? how would a woman fake it until she makes it?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/15 12:29 AM
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Some do but i think we are being unfair abd dishonest if we say men and women typically want the same thing in thier hook ups or relationship partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/15 12:11 AM
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Im talking about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/15 11:50 PM
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because its obvious. if they cant get laid with the guys they want after changing their cloths, attitude, etc. then they need to lower their standards. Its that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/15 11:45 PM
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Act fuckable.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/15 11:26 PM
5

Maybe those days are over?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/15 09:46 PM
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in my opinion) archaic views of relationships I wish TBP defended this view with more conviction. it would make this sub more interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/15 06:34 AM
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I dont post here often but I lurk all the time. I think the TBP does not a point of view. A lot of you seem offended by TRP but cant or wont say why. It feels like you have ideas you have not sussed out or you lack conviction. I used to lurk here when TBP seemed to dominate but it seems over time, the tables turned. My own thoery is that the people at TRP lost their sense of shame or embarrassment of their strident ideas.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/15 03:33 AM
3

What happens all the time?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/15 05:28 PM
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yup
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/15 03:06 AM
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More evasion. thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/15 03:02 AM
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I'm trying to figure out what your thoery is. I asked what ypur point was and you got evasive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/15 03:00 AM
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Here's my thoery on your theory: we dont want to do hard stuff. We want maximum pleasure and minimal pain and unlike tomes in the past we have the technology and lack of commitment to society. Its not maternity laws, its just a simple phrase we all live by: i want to do, what i want to do, all the time, consequences be damned. fuck anybody standing in my way. When women say that, it becomes "feminism."
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/15 02:53 AM
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What is motivating these questions? A lot of your questions are on this topic. What do you want us to know?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/15 02:16 AM
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Taxes are one thing. Forcing people to buy products they will not ever use for the sole purpose of making it cheaper for other people is another.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/15 03:42 PM
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Its completely fine but why does the government make everyone buy maternity coverage? Why do places like Hobby Lobby have to buy contraception coverage?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/15 07:37 AM
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Kind of defeats the purpose if the draft is optional....
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/15 04:22 AM
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Taxes is an obvious one. The draft. There are certains laws against not helping someone or looking the other way while a crime is committed. The law says a child cant be charged with certain crimes or punished in certain ways, but you're apso not allowed to take on certain burdens.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/15 04:02 AM
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we either have rights that accompany duties or we have neither. One thing that defines modern society is a belief that we just have rights and no duties because we're victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/15 03:40 AM
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I dont say I'm "rp" but i do think the sub is 1) funny to read 2) provides a new/different prespective to the world. It speaks to impulses and observations you cannot talk about in many places because its scary.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/15 01:25 AM
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There's an idea of lying by omission. I think your first two points are effectively lying by omission, and are at the very least, bad things to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/15 11:23 PM
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Yes. You will be connected with resources that will help you in many ways. Plus there's physical evidence for a future crime.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/15 08:10 PM
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of what you just said
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/15 07:26 PM
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whats an example?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/15 07:22 PM
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i dont understand the negative reaction. If a woman wants to be sexually aggressive, never start a family, and be loud about it, we celebrate it. If a guy does this, its a hate group.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/15 01:45 PM
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so their ideas don't stand alone?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/15 11:02 PM
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What are they? Can you list a few?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/15 10:46 PM
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i thought the blue pill was just satire sub. It's not a collection of ideas like TRP and RPW.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/15 10:30 PM
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they give people a baseline of expectations of themselves and other people. That doesn't mean they work for everyone though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/15 02:34 AM
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Control what you can control. I have seen them tell people their relationship dynamics might not be repairable. But even you'd agree if that's the case, acknowledging you're not perfect will help your next relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/15 04:54 PM
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My point is do you really believe: I think anyone should have the freedom to live exactly as they see fit When you're criticizing people of a like mind for talking amongst themselves, about stuff they agree on.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/15 08:46 PM
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How do you know what RPW is saying about other women? Do you seek out people who disagree with you and then scold them for not being open minded?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/15 04:40 PM
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Who is jack russel? It's also a little vague?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/15 03:13 AM
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I guess a lot of things could explain that. In my experience, womens sex drives go in surges. So sex might all the time then slow to a trickle then back up and on and on. The reason I've been given is that guys change or stayed the same or something else. The implication is they would be more willing to have sex if some problem was solved or situation changed. It feels like women say "I have a high drive" becomes a motivator for the guy to take some action. Basically, I've heard women say they h…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/15 11:50 PM
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Do the guys your with have a more consistent and constant sex drive? My personal experience is that women go on binges every now and again. For example, she'll want non stop sex for a week then be less willing later on.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/15 11:23 PM
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