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| 5 | Treating your partner different | CMV | LiterallyAFknTroll | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/22 04:59 PM |
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| 2 | Ladies, if you feel like you’ve dropped enough “hints,” but your man still isn’t making the move, then you need to be more direct. Many guys are gun-shy about misinterpreting “hints” due to getting burned/shamed/humiliated in the past.Gottem | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/22 05:48 AM |
| 1 | Most average males should not bother with most women unless they are really willing to lower their standards.How can a man’s body tell when he has a kid? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/22 03:19 AM |
| 5 | The Rise Of International Dating (And The Opposition To It)Well that sounds like none of ur business then | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/22 07:10 PM |
| 14 | The Rise Of International Dating (And The Opposition To It)A lot of women dont get that choice. And men almost never. Would you really complain if u got lifted out of extreme poverty and brought to america by a wealthy woman? Id be licking her toes every day | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/22 07:05 PM |
| 1 | Men pay for sex using resources/commitment, women pay for resources/commitment using sex.I treat my girl as my best friend and equal and i spoil her. And she spoils me. Our relationship is great. Mutual spoiling Started from a hookup | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/22 03:37 PM |
| 2 | Men pay for sex using resources/commitment, women pay for resources/commitment using sex.You do want to be flattered. That means being told you are pretty, taken out on dates, spoiled, cooked for, looked after etc etc. and i love to spoil my gf. Its just that i need to be seen sexually before i do all that. U are free to date men who are not like me in this regard | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/22 03:36 PM |
| 2 | Men pay for sex using resources/commitment, women pay for resources/commitment using sex.If u dont care to flatter me then i dont care to flatter you and we cant date. Thats my point. I need a woman to flatter me by wanting me sexually before I decide to commit. You don’t understand how big of a deal it is to be seen sexually by your woman. Many women here freely admit that if a guy is hot enough they don’t care about commitment or his personality. If a woman doesn’t make me feel like i am one of those guys i wont feel comfortable committing to her. Its not advantageous to date a wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/22 03:20 PM |
| 2 | Men pay for sex using resources/commitment, women pay for resources/commitment using sex.Well if u make us wait that long we literally cant date if u didnt make another person wait the same. If guy a only knew you for 1 hour when u fucked i literally have to bounce. I cannot date u when you dont see me as the alpha male. Ive had relationships where we started off as a hookup and then we ended up dating. In that situation i was more than happy to commit to the woman regardless of her sexual past because at least she saw me as the alpha giy who she wanted sexually. For guys, being wan… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/22 02:07 PM |
| 10 | q4w: How do you SHOW that your current boyfriend is more special than your last?The person you marry should ideally be your best relationship and they’d probably be hurt to know if you dont see them that way | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/22 01:42 AM |
| 1 | Women saying they wear make up, get plastic surgery, and dress sexy for themselves and not for attention or to attract men?Ok schitzo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/22 01:34 AM |
| 1 | Why do women seem to be less bothered by being single than men?Not the really ugly ones | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 11:21 PM |
| 2 | Treating your partner differentIf a guy doesnt get married young to a young low N count girl then its not worth it for him to ever get married with the current divorce laws. Most guys just wanna spin plates forever now cuz its better than committing to a girl who had a hookup phase | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 08:20 PM |
| 2 | Treating your partner differentI literally dont care if she has matured and is ready to settle down. I dont want to settle down with someone who gave the best years of their life to the public. I still have the best years of my life ahead of me which i should give to a woman who wants to share our best years together. Not a girl looking to settle down after her hoe phase. Why would i wanna marry into a relationship where the girl has ex boyfriends, ex hookups, relationship trauma, a past habit of hookup apps and the knowledge… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 07:02 PM |
| 1 | Treating your partner differentIf she never slept around it would be OK to wait. Even if she had previous boyfriends as long as she also made them wait. If she didn’t make another guy wait and she’s making you wait it takes a lot of seriousness away from the relationship. And you can never know if a girl hooked up with someone else or not you just have to guess and judge her based off of her character | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 06:00 PM |
| 2 | Treating your partner differentIf you tell a man “I will not have sex with you until we have a relationship”, but you have had a hook up in the past, he’s going to wonder why you made him wait while you have already held somebody else to a much lower standard and he’s going to be upset. You are allowed to do whatever you want but you should know how it makes people feel and think about you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 05:46 PM |
| 3 | Why do women seem to be less bothered by being single than men?U are right. Ugly single women still seem happy (most of the time) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 05:37 PM |
| 2 | Why do women seem to be less bothered by being single than men?Because woman have sex whenever they want. Until they cant anymore. Then they dont wanna be single | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 05:35 PM |
| 2 | RedPill - sexual deviancy and casual sex is bad for society. Why endorse it instead of building families?Im red pill and i dont idolize tate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 06:24 AM |
| 1 | RedPill - sexual deviancy and casual sex is bad for society. Why endorse it instead of building families?Redpill guys who spin plates only do so because they dont have any good girls in their life to marry. The same can be said for women, causing a feedback loop of people afraid of rejection using polygamy to cope | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 06:04 AM |
| 2 | Treating your partner differentIm encouraging them to leave | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 05:35 AM |
| 2 | Treating your partner differentNo but i know intuitively by being a man that most men see waiting for sex as a losing situation | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 05:31 AM |
| 2 | Treating your partner differentMy point is that more men should leave instead of put up with this bullshit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 05:29 AM |
| 3 | Treating your partner differentI agree wholeheartedly. If i decide I wanna date a girl ill treat her better than any girl i ever had in an effort to win her heart | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 04:58 AM |
| 2 | How often are men honest about their past when it comes to dating?Funny how its the opposite for men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 02:50 AM |
| 2 | Treating your partner differentIt’s not about whether she has to. It’s about whether men should put up with it. And the answer is no man should wait For a girl with a body count of 1000 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 02:49 AM |
| 2 | Treating your partner differentYou are people, and people who frequently hookup are not good LTR material. Im allowed to judge people | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 02:37 AM |
| 2 | Treating your partner differentI seen it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 02:16 AM |
| 2 | Treating your partner differentYou telling me that my life experiences didnt happen isnt gonna convince me. I know its not super rare. I already know | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 02:09 AM |
| 2 | Treating your partner differentUr saying its super rare when it has happened to me and other men in my life. Like im gonna beleive ur anecdotal evidence over my anecdotal evidence | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 02:07 AM |
| 1 | Treating your partner differentThey should treat you better than they treated past women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 02:06 AM |
| 2 | Treating your partner differentIf you haven’t seen it and i have that means it has happened. U not seeing it doesnt prove it dont exist | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 02:06 AM |
| 2 | Treating your partner differentI actually think she should | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 02:04 AM |
| 2 | Treating your partner differentWell i did experience it so youre full of shit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 02:03 AM |
| 2 | Treating your partner differentActually lets do ur scenario. If a guy waited to have sex 6 months with his ex, but he says he wants to have sex with you right away or else he will lose interest, does that inconsistency in his behavior make you think he liked his ex more than you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 02:02 AM |
| 3 | How often are men honest about their past when it comes to dating?Wont date strangers but would you fuck strangers? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 02:00 AM |
| 2 | Treating your partner differentIts not that rare if ive seen it and experienced it. Nothing u can say to convince me its super duper 100% rare. I’ve experienced it from both sides, the guy who fucks right away and the guy who is made to wait. Most girls who make you wait hookup right after the breakup | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 01:59 AM |
| 2 | Treating your partner differentClearly it must not be that rare | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 01:54 AM |
| 2 | Treating your partner differentIf guy B showered his ex with gifts, expensive gifts and affection but now he only wants to watch netflix with his new gf and fuck, is that ok? Should gf B be jealous? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 01:52 AM |
| 2 | Treating your partner differentIf she had 1 body and it wasnt a hookup it wouldn’t bother me at all. If she had even 1 hookup id never date her | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/22 10:37 PM |
| 2 | Treating your partner differentIm dating a virgin and i only have 1 body and it was my ex for 1 year | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/22 10:16 PM |
| 3 | CMV Either sex is presumptively inherently degrading to women OR pumping and dumping a woman is just fine/not immoralWomen are free to feel degraded. Ur point = destroyed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/22 09:31 PM |
| 3 | Treating your partner differentUr not dishonest for leaving after a certain amount of time of no sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/22 09:25 PM |
| 2 | Treating your partner differentNo insinuating i wouldnt wait means i would move on and not date or fuck them And yea even like is better than a stranger but love is best case | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/22 08:48 PM |
| 2 | Treating your partner differentIf hookups and relationships are on the same level for you then i wouldnt want u as a ltr. But im sure theres someone out there for u that wants to commit to you for life after you finish ur hookup phase | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/22 08:46 PM |
| 2 | Treating your partner differentI just said i have no problem only having sex within relationships And i mean it doesnt always have to be love but i gotta at least like them. Someone who is compatible personality wise | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/22 08:10 PM |
| 2 | Treating your partner differentId only wait in a committed relationship without sex for a virgin and i would have no problem with that. And i also have no problem with only having sex within relationships | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/22 08:05 PM |
| 15 | Is There A Big Enough Time Gap To Excuse a “hoe phase”Super based. Cant commit to someone who gave her best years for free to the public instead of giving then to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/22 08:03 PM |
| 2 | Is There A Big Enough Time Gap To Excuse a “hoe phase”Depends how bad is the past | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/22 08:01 PM |
| 2 | Treating your partner differentYea that would be great if you only had sex with people you loved or at least liked. If you picked someone willing to show commitment to you instead of someone who only wanted to fuck you You may have a happier life and happier relationships that way | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/22 07:58 PM |
| 3 | Treating your partner differentLet me explain this to u girls. Not all women hook up with that 10/10 guy. Those woman are the ones we would prefer to marry | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/22 07:56 PM |
| 2 | Treating your partner differentWhen you first DATE a guy you dont know him enough to share intimacy but you can share it with a stranger? If you want to get to know someone long term why not get to know them sexually? Why wait? You may end up in a great relationship with terrible sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/22 07:55 PM |
| 2 | Treating your partner differentIs this at all correlated with your sexual market value over time? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/22 07:45 PM |
| 2 | Treating your partner differentSo that sounds like sex is not always meant to be intimate or a show of trust in your opinion | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/22 07:44 PM |
| 2 | Treating your partner differentBecause if you dont have a strong association between sex and love u are a worse long term partner in | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/22 07:39 PM |
| 2 | Treating your partner differentIf sex is intimate and a show of trust then why would you want to have sex with someone who only wants to fuck you (feeling being mutual) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/22 07:29 PM |
| 3 | Treating your partner differentBut in this scenario i literally mentioned a hot person | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/22 07:28 PM |
| 2 | Treating your partner differentWomen who have always been in monogamous relationships hardly ever cheat as they’ve always had the opportunity to have sex whenever they want. They just want to do it with a monogamous partner every time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/22 07:27 PM |
| 2 | Treating your partner differentNo i mean this for both genders. Its directed at both because i know about dead bedrooms | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/22 07:15 PM |
| 2 | Treating your partner differentMen require good sex to be happy in a ltr and women too Knowing about sexual compatibility is as important as everything else in a ltr | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/22 07:07 PM |
| 2 | Treating your partner differentYou are right. But id like to add that the majority of men would feel more happy and fulfilled and confident of their wife’s love if the wife had sex with them on the first date | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/22 07:03 PM |
| 5 | Treating your partner differentYea its bad if men do it too but for some reason thats never an issue | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/22 06:56 PM |
| 2 | Treating your partner differentYes but if friend 1 and I had more chemistry I should treat friend 1 better than friend 2 and pursue something more long term with friend 1 unless it becomes apparent that friend 1 doesn’t want to be my friend long term. I wouldnt want just a short term friendship with friend 1 if i value long term relationships | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/22 06:56 PM |
| 2 | Treating your partner differentWell then at least upon first impressions, id want to have a longer friendship with the person who became my friend faster And so i would behave that way | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/22 06:51 PM |
| 1 | Treating your partner differentThink about the people who never have had sex with a hot person on a whim the first day they met. Aren’t they a way better option for a long term monogamous partner? Also its not hard to have sex only within monogamous relationships. Nobody is saying to be a virgin till marriage. Just express positive monogamous dating behaviors. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/22 06:48 PM |
| 2 | Treating your partner differentOutside your brain, your actions appear frighteningly like the actions of someone who values sex more than relationships, but im sure you’ve grown as a person since then | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/22 06:44 PM |
| 1 | Treating your partner differentYes so it stands to reason that id have a more long term friendship with the person i became friends with faster | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/22 06:36 PM |
| 2 | Treating your partner differentWe are talking about sexual relationships not fast food behavior If u feel lazy and dont wanna cook thats fine. If you run into a hot person and u are the kind of person who would fuck them on the same day then i dont wanna date you long term never mind marry | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/22 06:32 PM |
| 3 | Treating your partner differentYou judge a hot person to have a shitty personality but you decide to have sex because you want only want sex. Since you are not hot, you would not expect the hot person to want to date you, but you still have sex with them anyways because you only want sex. Why not be in a relationship with someone who isnt hot, like yourself? Oh thats right you only want sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/22 06:29 PM |
| 2 | Treating your partner differentIf sex really made you feel more bonded to a person then hookups would be traumatic. The truth is sex does not always make you feel more bonded to a person. So by waiting when looking for a LTR you are testing the man’s commitment by seeing how long he will wait before sex and also you are showing that you value the man’s commitment to you more than you value sex with your long term partner. This is always bad considering just how important sex is in a healthy LTR | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/22 06:24 PM |
| 1 | Treating your partner differentThen you value sex more than relationships | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/22 06:06 PM |
| 2 | Treating your partner differentMy bad | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/22 05:50 PM |
| 0 | Treating your partner differentAre you aware that this topic is highly discussed because if its relevance to heterosexual dating dynamics? Yea i agree with u tho, there is no reason to wait over a month to have sex with your new girlfriend if u are over 25 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/22 05:49 PM |
| 2 | Does someone’s past matter?Its not what it used to be. I joined redpill 7 years ago when i was 13 and it inspired me to WANT to be in the top 10% of men or get as close as possible. It talked about getting out of ur shell and approaching women. Spinning plates was something to be done before finding the right woman to commit to. Not something to be done indefinitely. It made a big positive influence on my view on women and my subsequent experiences with women. Recently i went back on another account and made a post titled… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/22 05:40 PM |
| 2 | Treating your partner differentWhy wouldnt you want a relationship with a hot attractive person, and so make them wait to have sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/22 05:33 PM |
| 1 | Does someone’s past matter?To better urself until women like you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/22 05:28 PM |
| 2 | Treating your partner differentIf you value relationships more than sex, would you have sex with a hot attractive person right after meeting them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/22 05:26 PM |
| 1 | Does someone’s past matter?Redpill has been infested with people who wanna whine about how hard it is to be a man and hate on women. That doesn’t represent the original purpose of red pill but a lot of those men are in this sub too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/22 05:26 PM |
| 1 | Treating your partner differentI said how long after first meeting them. Not after dating | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/22 05:22 PM |
| 6 | Some guys prefer to be marriage material, some girls prefer to be hookup materialDamn bro | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/22 05:14 PM |
| 6 | Treating your partner differentI agree the right move is to move on Cant be in a relationship like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/22 05:11 PM |
| 1 | Does someone’s past matter?Yea duh, cuz thats the easiest way to get laid. Go to a party, hope to run into a girl whos so fucking high that she will fuck anyone, say “hey baby i got cocaine” and BAM! Virginity lost. Way easier that speaking to that cute girl at the grocery store. Most men just cant get past the awkwardness of talking to a stranger in public | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/22 05:10 PM |
| 3 | Does someone’s past matter?Yes i agree by 25 they most likely have had sex but body count numbers are not always as crazy as some men on here claim. A girl having over 20 bodies by 25 is an outlier, not the norm | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/22 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Would you prefer to have a single monogamous sexual relationship for your entire life with somebody you loved but only found moderately attractive. Or would be prefer to have an endless supply of causal sex with people you found extremely attractive but never formed an emotional bound with?Monogamy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/22 05:01 PM |
| 1 | Does someone’s past matter?Also, if someone (this is a gender neutral statement) has sex with a hot attractive person right away after meeting them, but doesnt date them, then they get into a relationship with someone else and make that new partner wait for sex, presumably to make the impression that they are not easy to have sex with and that they are the type if person who needs to get to know you before being intimate like that, Then thats a dishonest behavior | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/22 04:58 PM |
| 5 | Does someone’s past matter?Means she has pegged 3 dudes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/22 04:53 PM |
| 3 | Does someone’s past matter?Not only religious settings. So many people deny the fact that there are actually women who dont sleep around and have 0 to 3 partners before getting married | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/22 04:52 PM |
| 6 | Does someone’s past matter?So u have no rebuttal? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/22 04:51 PM |
| 1 | "Fat woman dont want to date fat men"I think you are just surprised by how many men are willing to fuck fat women. Most of them arent gonna admit it to you so you wouldn’t know | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/22 01:47 PM |
| 1 | "Fat woman dont want to date fat men"3 of my friends and i only have 3 friends thats 100% | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/22 01:46 PM |
| 1 | "Fat woman dont want to date fat men"Its common for them to fuck. Uncommon to date. I fucked a fat girl, three of my friends have fucked fat girls. Gotta do what u gotta do. It gets lonely out here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/22 01:35 PM |
| 3 | What is something you genuinely find 'weird' and don't understand in modern dating/relationship/gender world?Yea but that goes both ways. Guy dates a girl for a long time, they are happy, then some hot girl (who wouldn’t have even liked the boyfriend had he been single) starts flirting with the boyfriend and they have sex, leaving the girlfriend sad and cheated on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/22 01:34 PM |
| 5 | "Fat woman dont want to date fat men"But some skinny men will still fuck a fat girl, then pretend it never happened and never tell anyone about it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/22 12:07 AM |
| 5 | What do you think the average bodycount is for a 25 year old college girl in 2022 ?Thank | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/22 05:32 AM |
| 5 | What do you think the average bodycount is for a 25 year old college girl in 2022 ?Why? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/22 05:29 AM |
| 1 | CMV: "I'm ugly" is just an easy out for men who can't understand the complexities of human relationshipsSorry but I have to disagree with you on that one. When I was a kid I once had a difficult time talking to women and asking girls out and I also got rejected. It never crossed my mind to murder anyone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/22 01:15 AM |
| 3 | CMV: "I'm ugly" is just an easy out for men who can't understand the complexities of human relationshipsPrime example of this was elliot roger. The man wasnt even bad looking he was just so deeply trapped inside his own shell he could never escape it to speak to any women outside. So he made it his goal to kill a bunch of women for rejecting him to get his revenge for making him an incel Then he killed 4 males and 2 females The man failed at everything | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/22 10:59 PM |
| 2 | girls who don't fall under mainstreamMy gf is from china she spends 24/7 with me and we almost never fight. I treat her better than I’d ever treat an American girl simply because she doesn’t just expect me to do it whilst having a bad attitude. (Like a liberal feminist) She appreciates it. That keeps me going and keeps me in love with her. Shes pretty anti socialism because she thinks china is horrible so she thinks libfems are spoiled and brainwashed | /r/AllPillDebate | 08/09/22 10:49 PM |
| 2 | When you are in the talking phase with someone, should you be loyal to them?Me too. Ayo whatever bro i dont mean what i say. Have a good day | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/22 09:38 PM |
| 2 | American women are some of the most overrated women on the planet.Most of us are dating foreign woman now | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/22 09:28 PM |
| 3 | Are Old Virgins Unattractive?Attractiveness only depends on looks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/22 09:26 PM |
| 2 | When you are in the talking phase with someone, should you be loyal to them?Bro im literally a fuckin troll and u keep replying to me even tho u noticed on ur first comment that im trolling. like of course im gonna keep insulting you until u give up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/22 09:24 PM |
| 0 | Is increased porn use a cause or symptom of sexlessness?CAUSE!!! Quit watching porn it makes you unable to ask out women. Source: i am 19M who was only able to get over the fear of asking out women after quitting porn at 16. Ive had 2 girlfriends and 2 hookups since then, which isnt much, but its honest work | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/22 09:19 PM |
| 3 | When you are in the talking phase with someone, should you be loyal to them?Nah dawg i see whats happening. Ur mom fucked around. Ur woman fucked around. Let me tell u something, that isnt normal. It happens, but its not the norm. Youre just surrounded by bad women. You have never lived in a nuclear family where the father and mother stay together 25+ years so i expect these beliefs about women to come from someone like you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/22 09:18 PM |
| 4 | When you are in the talking phase with someone, should you be loyal to them?Motherly qualities like “fucking other niggas”? Idk about ur mom but that dont sound very motherly to me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/22 09:09 PM |
| 0 | Q4RP: If women are only attracted to hot and/or wealthy men then why are the majority of men still able to find relationships?So average women have sex with above average men and then turn around and date the average men after? Honestly that makes it sound terrible to be an average man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/22 09:08 PM |
| 2 | Q4RP: If women are only attracted to hot and/or wealthy men then why are the majority of men still able to find relationships?Average women usually pick above average men for sexual partners | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/22 09:04 PM |
| 4 | When you are in the talking phase with someone, should you be loyal to them?And if vetting was that easy why did you get a hoe pregnant? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/22 08:54 PM |
| 4 | When you are in the talking phase with someone, should you be loyal to them?No i dont wanna learn to game. I already game. i wanna learn to vet properly so i dont end up a single parent like you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/22 08:51 PM |
| 6 | When you are in the talking phase with someone, should you be loyal to them?So what you said is true about ur daughter and her mom? They would have a fuck buddy on the side that they keep seeing as they start a relationship with a boy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/22 08:43 PM |
| 2 | This sub is horrible advice for online datingShit u got him what an embarrassing moment for u/Blueexpression | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/22 08:40 PM |
| 3 | When you are in the talking phase with someone, should you be loyal to them?Bro thats not most likely the case. Have u ever gotten to know a woman? This reads like you have no female friends and no ex girlfriends | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/22 08:38 PM |
| 2 | Bluepillers, what do you think the redpill offers young men?You might see it as common sense, but many men actually don’t. A lot of men are just glad a girl wants to have sex with him and they don’t want to question it too much. Also this warning doesn’t lead to undue paranoia in men. Any man who feels wanted sexually will not feel paranoid hearing about beta bux. Men who have money and don’t feel wanted sexually will feel paranoid… and they should | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/22 08:35 PM |
| 7 | Age Gap Relationships/Leonardo DiCaprio Mega-ThreadFor real. Its so funny how everyone throws out the phrase “let 2 consenting adults do what they want in the privacy of their own bedroom” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/22 08:22 PM |
| 2 | Bluepillers, what do you think the redpill offers young men?Alpha fucks beta bux boils down to how women treat men and has nothing to do with a man’s self worth. It only has to do with a man’s physical appearance. AF/BB means an attractive man doesnt have to commit in order to fuck because the woman wants him for sex, while less attractive men have to entice a woman into a relationship in order to have sex. This is because women lower their standards for physical appearance when seeking a long term relationship. Some men take advantage of this and see it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/22 08:07 PM |
| 2 | Bluepillers, what do you think the redpill offers young men?Red pill has always had an issue with incels joining the sub. To read about red pill is actually about you need to go to the sub Reddit and read the sidebar. Especially you should read the stuff from about the time redpill was created. The community has gotten worse since then. One of the main tenants of red pill is that if you hate women you already lost, So the main way to differentiate a red pill person from an incel is whether or not they hate women P.S. i have told them before i told you. O… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/22 08:03 PM |
| 1 | Bluepillers, what do you think the redpill offers young men?The point i just made was that some (not all) women lie to take advantage of men for money. Men should we aware of this and try to avoid being taken advantage of. So we have the same point? We agree? Wow this is a first on PPD | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/22 07:47 PM |
| 1 | Bluepillers, what do you think the redpill offers young men?How can you say i dont get it when you have never read the redpill? You’ve already shown twice that you dont understand what the redpill tells men. Now since you don’t understand redpill let me explain it to you. Redpill NEVER tells men to “give up” on what they want. Thats black pill. Red pill tells men that they have a good chance of getting what they want (wether it be meaningless sex or a long term relationship) by working on themselves physically, economically and emotion. Redpill warns men… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/22 07:45 PM |
| 2 | Bluepillers, what do you think the redpill offers young men?He will find that out later the same way most people have been cheated on only find out later. Not all women are academy award winning actresses. Many women don’t lie and don’t use men for money. But some women do and they definitely do exist denying their existence is stupid. There are women who will take advantage of less attractive men for their money and resources. This is because it’s easier to take advantage of men for their resources than getting resources yourself | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/22 07:33 PM |
| 2 | Bluepillers, what do you think the redpill offers young men?You obviously have not read the red pill. The red pill tells the man to have sex with this girl but not commit any of his time money or resources to her. The redpill tell the man to behave this way because of his fear of being used for his resources | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/22 07:30 PM |
| 1 | Bluepillers, what do you think the redpill offers young men?Your source only shows that women are more likely to contract STDs from men. Women who have sex with women are the least likely to contract STDs. The majority of STDs are being carried inside of male bodies. Men on average carry more STDs than women, and men who have sex with men carry the most stds https://www.medpagetoday.com/infectiousdisease/stds/43714 So yes both genders need to worry about it differently but both genders do need to worry about it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/22 07:29 PM |
| 3 | Bluepillers, what do you think the redpill offers young men?You are forgetting about the other situation, where a man is married to a woman and super confident that he loves her and she loves him. However, later he finds out she was cheating on him and only wanted him for his money. This scenario has happened before in real life numerous times | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/22 07:22 PM |
| 2 | Bluepillers, what do you think the redpill offers young men?The men who are more sexually attractive don’t want to date girls who like them sexually. They only fuck the girls that like them sexually. The men who are less sexually attractive wants to date hot girls, but those girls are less sexually attracted to them. This isn’t always the case, but it is the case a lot of the time. This is how we end up with the Beta bucks scenario | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/22 07:19 PM |
| 5 | Bluepillers, what do you think the redpill offers young men?Men and women both have to worry about STDs about the same amount. But men are the only ones that need to be worried about the woman liking them only for money. Rich women rarely worry about that, they prefer to marry guys who also have status and money. Men can’t always tell that a woman only loves him for his money. The same way a woman can’t always tell when a man only loves her for her body. The middle aged man with younger women that you describe is in a transactional relationship where he … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/22 07:15 PM |
| 2 | Bluepillers, what do you think the redpill offers young men?High paying job doesnt make men more attractive anymore than being a virgin makes women more attractive. Attraction is just based off of physical appearance everything else is just stuff we want for a long-term relationship. Men don’t want a woman to see us for a long-term relationship if she isn’t even attracted to a sexually | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/22 06:57 PM |
| 14 | Bluepillers, what do you think the redpill offers young men?Yes the men are afraid of not being loved for who they are. Redpill tells the man to improve and work through it while blackpill tells men that it’s hopeless and women wont ever want them. Not all men can tell why a woman is with them. Some women are good at lying. And the beta bux scenario isnt “made up” to blame women for low self esteem. Its a real scenario that has happened many times. Whats wrong with men being aware of that and wanting to avoid it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/22 06:38 PM |
| 10 | Bluepillers, what do you think the redpill offers young men?Should men be afraid of being beta buxxed? Or is that just not a big deal to get beta buxxed? Do you think men should want to avoid it or just be okay with it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/22 06:28 PM |
| 5 | Women fuck emotionally distant men, and keep "good communicators" in the friendzoneYou also have to be hot | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 07:03 PM |
| 12 | Women fuck emotionally distant men, and keep "good communicators" in the friendzoneU hit it right on the head. Can’t call yourself a good communicator if you don’t communicate what you want from the girl | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 07:00 PM |
| 1 | Why is it misogynistic to not want a girl that’s been with a shit ton of guys?I already met my gf and we have been dating for over a year. So that just shows you cant assume whether someone will have a gf based on their attitude. Its mostly based on looks and you have never seen me. If a woman has a high N count OR she has engaged in hookup culture then THATS when il pass her for not sleeping with me right away. If she has a low N count or at least low N count behavior i wouldn’t pass on her for making me wait. Unless i found out someone else had sex with her and didnt wa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 02:33 PM |
| 1 | Feminists having submissive/degradation kinks is a huge contradiction go their belief systemDoes that also apply to racists who watch interracial cuck porn. Or homophobes that watch gay porn? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 02:28 PM |
| 1 | Why is it misogynistic to not want a girl that’s been with a shit ton of guys?If she has never expressed romantic or sexual interest in response to my advances i have to next her. If she expressed interest but doesnt wanna fuck right away she will have my attention for over a month and the more signs i see that she has low N-count behavior the longer she will have my attention. Eventually I would just express extreme interest and ask her to be my gf if everything goes well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 02:24 PM |
| 1 | Why is it misogynistic to not want a girl that’s been with a shit ton of guys?Young people who are the first to start having sex talk about their sexual experiences a lot. I can imagine this is not normal at later ages. I dont expect a low N-count woman to have sex with me quickly unless i know she had sex with someone else quickly. If she has a low N count and wants me to wait id gladly wait but id have to believe that she makes everyone (or at least most guys) wait. If she has a high N count and she wants to make me wait (especially if I know she didnt make another pers… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 02:17 PM |
| 1 | Why is it misogynistic to not want a girl that’s been with a shit ton of guys?Itd be a total judgement call. Id just have to guess and judge her based in her actions. I would express my interest before trying to date her to get a reaction, if she doesnt like me then move on. If she likes me and wanna fuck then we can fuck and if she claims she likes me but doesn’t want to fuck id just keep flirting with her for as long as i can before I eventually decide if i wanna commit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 02:04 PM |
| 1 | Why is it misogynistic to not want a girl that’s been with a shit ton of guys?I dont only look for people who talk about their history. But many people are really open about it. I dont have to ask to find out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 01:53 PM |
| 1 | Why is it misogynistic to not want a girl that’s been with a shit ton of guys?Bro we all know it off the top of our heads. Priests hate whores they always talk shit about them u kno catholics are all about chastity n shit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 06:31 AM |
| 1 | Why is it misogynistic to not want a girl that’s been with a shit ton of guys?Before we date they often talk about their history. Especially cuz i lead by talking about mine. Yea a bunch of girl’s friends love to talk about the sexual stuff they’ve done in front of the girl and other men present. But im fairly young im in my 20s and i imagine this behavior will become less common as people mature. And I am not a virgin chaser i said that n count wasnt that important to me relative to her seeing me as very sexually attractive. So i expect women who slept with other men qui… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 06:29 AM |
| 1 | Why is it misogynistic to not want a girl that’s been with a shit ton of guys?He only needs a source for scientific claims not for common knowledge like the stuff written in the most printed book of all time. Sorry ur uncultured but u should know at least a bit about the bible even if u dont beleive in it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 06:23 AM |
| 1 | Why is it misogynistic to not want a girl that’s been with a shit ton of guys?I dont want to change my sources of self worth because right now they push me to be more of my own definition of a man. I am happy with my current sources if self worth. They arent uncommon sources at all many men share them with me. I never ask a girl for her body count or how fast she slept with other men. But i also would never date a girl who i dont know that well. Once u get to know someone well u can see how they behave or hear stories from them about their own past behavior. Or even from … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 06:15 AM |
| 4 | A lot of guys think they’re 8’s after fucking a few fat/average girls. I asked my boyfriend why and he said “they’re insecure”Probably they always thought they were average and u just imagined they “thought they were 8s” cuz they got the natural confidence boost that comes with having sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 06:08 AM |
| 1 | Why is it misogynistic to not want a girl that’s been with a shit ton of guys?Ok u can disagree but u cant tell the difference while wearing a blindfold | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 06:05 AM |
| 2 | Why is it misogynistic to not want a girl that’s been with a shit ton of guys?My feelings of self worth are unfortunately primarily decided by my own perceived value as a man which is decided by many factors but the most important one is ability to sexually satisfy and sexually attract a woman. I am a firm believer that women only make a man wait when she wants a relationship with him more than she wants sex. If this is the case, its a deal breaker for me as i need my girl to want me for sex. If we aren’t sexually compatible there cannot be a relationship. I want to be th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 06:02 AM |
| 3 | Why is it misogynistic to not want a girl that’s been with a shit ton of guys?Ok good one 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 05:54 AM |
| -1 | Why is it misogynistic to not want a girl that’s been with a shit ton of guys?If someone cant increase my feelings of self worth then they arent a good partner for the long term. Good partners increase feeings of sef worth within eachother. If i want tobe a good partner i should increase my gf’s feeings of self worth. And yes a very large chunk of my self worth is based on how much i can SEXUALLY satisfy my girlfriend. If i couldn’t satisfy her sexually my sef worth would be in the dumpster. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 05:51 AM |
| 1 | Why is it misogynistic to not want a girl that’s been with a shit ton of guys?So if women are like cars then what are men like? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 05:47 AM |
| 6 | Why is it misogynistic to not want a girl that’s been with a shit ton of guys?A woman doesnt lose any value in my eyes unless she has actively engages in one night stands repeatedly. I dont mind a string of LTRs in a woman’s past and most guys do not. I dont think dating a guy and having sex with him makes a woman less valuable, but if she puts out for a guy as a hookup then ill never be the loser who comes after and dates her for months before having sex. Its a display of inferiority. “Im not hot enough to drop this girls pants so i gotta date her for months to get a shr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 05:05 AM |
| 0 | Why is it misogynistic to not want a girl that’s been with a shit ton of guys?There is no bad pussy. Only bad women attached to the pussy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 04:39 AM |
| 7 | Why is it misogynistic to not want a girl that’s been with a shit ton of guys?Thats why she should wait and pick a good guy for a LTR. Lees chance of making herself “less valuable” to quote u. Not that it makes her less valuable as a person but to many men it makes her less attractive That or she is totally allowed to sleep around and then find a man for an LTR who wont care about her past | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 04:35 AM |
| 1 | How can men "explore" their sexuality?So what? Thats better than a fleshlight, dildo or vibrator. And u can fuck the robot while u watch porn. Arousal is more visual for men anyways | /r/AllPillDebate | 06/09/22 10:54 PM |
| 2 | Why do people here make it sound like it's impossible to find a virgin girl "these days"?My point is it wouldnt be easy cuz he wont know whos a virgin. And there are far more non virgins chasing rappers than virgins. There are more non-virgins larping as virgins than real virgins in his inbox and probably in the world | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/22 07:03 PM |
| 1 | "Looks don't matter, it's your personality that counts."Unattractive women are also women | /r/AllPillDebate | 06/09/22 06:56 PM |
| 3 | Why do people here make it sound like it's impossible to find a virgin girl "these days"?She needs to be hot asf, and compete with many other women. The kind of girl who wins that competition is usually not a virgin. And virgins dont like to compete that hard for sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/22 06:36 PM |
| 3 | Why do people here make it sound like it's impossible to find a virgin girl "these days"?Not in the case of rappers and rockstars | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/22 06:24 PM |
| 4 | Why do people here make it sound like it's impossible to find a virgin girl "these days"?Bro youre so wrong its mot even funny. Rappers would have a super difficult time finding a virgin because all of the girls who wanna smash him will claim to be virgin. Thats what happens when u got a bunch of woman chasing you. A virgin woman cant compete with a skank in terms of winning a rapper’s attention. Virgins have no game, they cave under pressure and they dont put too much effort into starting relationships | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/22 06:18 PM |
| 2 | Why do people here make it sound like it's impossible to find a virgin girl "these days"?No its not. Thats what I said | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/22 06:09 PM |
| 3 | Why do people here make it sound like it's impossible to find a virgin girl "these days"?Most virgins dont know any rockstars and they lose their virginity by getting a boyfriend | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/22 05:52 PM |
| 1 | "Looks don't matter, it's your personality that counts."Below average woman is an attractive woman | /r/AllPillDebate | 06/09/22 12:44 PM |
| 1 | What makes a woman interesting both physically and personality-wise?Physical: skinny. Literally thats it just be skinny and no major scars in your face (minor scars are okay) also must have all limbs (if ur missing one limb i may be willing to overlook it) and have most of your teeth and at least mid tier hygiene. No minimum size requirement for boobs or butt but the more boobs/butt u have the chubbier u can be and still be hot Personality: LOYAL, smart, funny, FEMININE, nonaggressive, independent, educated, etc etc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/22 02:27 AM |
| 3 | "Looks don't matter, it's your personality that counts."Attractive women | /r/AllPillDebate | 06/09/22 01:42 AM |
| 6 | Men don't age like wine. Stop being delusional.Oh yea! 😎 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/22 01:34 AM |
| 2 | Do all men wish their current girlfriend was a virgin before him?Or just swing. But i prefer to be in a LTR | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/22 02:33 PM |
| 2 | Do all men wish their current girlfriend was a virgin before him?Ok | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/22 10:54 PM |
| 1 | Do all men wish their current girlfriend was a virgin before him?Yes thats exactly what im saying so basically u agree with me on all points, and we dont disagree at all, but we are still arguing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/22 10:52 PM |
| 2 | Do all men wish their current girlfriend was a virgin before him?Luckily for me i only have 1 partner at a time So i only gotta please 1 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/22 10:48 PM |
| 2 | Do all men wish their current girlfriend was a virgin before him?Bruh with enough foreplay dick in pussy is good enough for many women, which is what i said. Even if it was only 10% thats still many women which makes your correction dumb, redundant and cringe. I also wrote that it depends on the woman. Which begs the question, why did you write such a useless reply? The main point of my message was that you dont need a shit load of sexual experience to please a woman. Do u wanna contest that or just add more irrelevant details that nobody asked for | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/22 10:41 PM |
| 1 | How can men "explore" their sexuality?Dude they have robot women now | /r/AllPillDebate | 04/09/22 08:45 PM |
| 20 | Do all men wish their current girlfriend was a virgin before him?Let me put it like this, (obligatory this is just my opinion) when a girl has more experience than me its fine for sex but i wouldnt really be comfortable in a LTR with her. This comes from the fact that i would feel, in comparison to her, like i didnt have enough sex in my life. I’d feel lacking in sexual experience. And that would make me unwilling to commit because i still want more sexual experience, which wont be possible if i plan to stay together with her. If she has less experience than … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/22 05:56 PM |
| 6 | what do men get wrong about women have so many optionn and can sleep with a lot of different men?None ever ignored me. We had violently emotional breakups and then never spoke to each other, but i never got ignored. If i text one, im more likely to get an angry reply than be ignored | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/22 05:39 PM |
| 12 | Do all men wish their current girlfriend was a virgin before him?“As an inexperienced man you cant provide women with pleasure” Wtf is this defeatist mentality. You totally can provide a woman with pleasure. How would you even know that it wont give her pleasure? It depends on the woman but for many, dick in pussy = pleasure | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/22 05:38 PM |
| 6 | what do men get wrong about women have so many optionn and can sleep with a lot of different men?Really depends where u r from | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/22 05:24 PM |
| 4 | what do men get wrong about women have so many optionn and can sleep with a lot of different men?Maybe some women treat u this way but that has never happened in my experience as a man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/22 05:20 PM |
| 1 | How old are you and what do you consider to be an average amount of sexual partners for your age group?Ok | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/22 08:12 PM |
| 2 | How old are you and what do you consider to be an average amount of sexual partners for your age group?Ehh i really dont like that kind of behavior. It wouldnt be fine for a man to have a “ho” phase and engage in meaningless sex for a year in my opinion. It takes a lot of seriousness away from future long term relationships. Both genders | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/22 11:34 PM |
| -1 | QFM: If your GF/Wife said you had to go through a birth pain simulator in order to have kids (for anywhere between 2-30 hours randomly picked) would you do it?Parasite is not an appropriate word to call a new born baby | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/22 11:30 PM |
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