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I understand the struggle, but the bright side is that you're recognizing your non-inherent flaws. The best advice I can give is to not focus on romantic relationships for the time being and instead focus on friendships with other guys. The more people you connect with the more you'll feel mentally validated and not think you need to try really hard in an interaction to make it go well. Over time you can carry that more relaxed and self assured mindset into romantic pursuits, and they won't feel…
/r/TheRedPill31/05/23 05:14 AM
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I can't be just nice in the friendly or caring way; I have to be nice in the "dominant and masculine" way (actually I don't have to be nice at all, but I don't want to give up being nice since I feel like this is just common decency in my opinion). I have to be overconfident and a bit arrogant about my opinions, I can't overthink things or put qualifiers on my opinions like I've done all of my life. I have to be fun; I can't be the nerd who's at my computer all day doing work since I won't be ab…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/23 07:21 PM
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I think guy like this feel comfortable in the relationship and usually like their partner enough, but don't feel like making a big commitment. As time goes on and the fire dies down, the issues become more and more pronounced, but they still feel comfortable enough to stay. So they tell the white lie of not believing in marriage, because what guy with a functioning brain tells his girlfriend he's open to getting married, just not to her? This is the same as women claiming "they just aren't that …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 02:27 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 07:47 PM
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How do you think she felt about the whole thing? Also my apologies for asking two questions at once, but how did this effect your romantic relationships? Did either of you pursue other people, and if so, did you keep the cuddling a secret from partners?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 06:28 PM
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You need to be genuinely kind without being a spineless pushover, and be interestingly attractive if you ever hope to have a happy relatioship
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 06:26 PM
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Interesting. For me I would feel uncomfortable cuddling with someone I was not attracted to in some way. It's a very intimate thing for me personally. I'm curious, who often initiated things I your case?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 06:23 PM
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You never wanted to have sex with her again? Or was the sexual desire not unanimous?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 05:07 PM
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Feeling like you have to pay for and support the lifestyle and whims of your partner completely on your own or else she will leave you forever is abusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 03:46 PM
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Financial abuse is a real thing
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 03:32 PM
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Yeah you know what maybe that is laying a bit too much of the blame on yourself. Although to be honest I think what makes it unhealthy or healthy is how you choose to act upon it. If that kind of thinking helps him become a better man then it's a good thing but if it leads to him wallowing in self hatred then it's unhealthy. Personally though I think no matter what happens, every interaction has at least some percent of the responsibility fall on the other party. Thinking of yourself as a victim…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 04:39 AM
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So first I'm a dude bro but now I don't go to the gym and don't understand busting balls? Man you seem like a real piece of work, learn to hear what other people have to say without getting defensive, it'll get you far in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 03:39 AM
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You know my initial comment was that people are going to see you doing that stuff as feminine behavior and that's why they're ragging on you, but you're engaging in a very feminine and emotional way, so I think they're making fun of you for more than just blow drying your hair. If you have anything to say other than emotional insults I'll be happy to talk to you, but otherwise after seeing your responses I think you deserve all the scorn you get IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 02:20 AM
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I really don't appreciate you calling me that you little vegan metrosexual Anyways, considering that most people don't look highly upon someone being obsessed with their appearance, it would do well for your appearance to not seem too carefully manufactured.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 02:15 AM
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Why are you calling me a dude bro? I'm not one at all. I just think that you're not really improving yourself by doing that and you're favoring a superficial appearance. And if it doesn't take you long, then go for it, but I'm explaining why your friends might give you shit for it. People usually look down on a guy who seems obsessed with his own appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 01:57 AM
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The only factor you can change in an interaction is yourself, so it makes sense that if you want to change outcomes you have to look inward, even if what happened was not your fault. If you get mugged at night, deciding to buy a gun and not walk in that area at night is not blaming yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 01:50 AM
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This is actually a very interesting way of putting it and it makes more sense to me
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 01:34 AM
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I think dressing well and trying to eat healthy is one thing, but how is spending lots of time to perfectly style your hair really looksmaxxing? Would you really want a woman you like to see you doing that? This is just me but I think they're ragging on you because you're acting very feminine. To me it's in the direction of getting a pedicure and stuff, you're not becoming more masculine, you're just putting up a false image. And this is coming from a guy who used to blow dry his hair every day.…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 01:30 AM
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And maybe abused women like it that way too, but odds are that they actually don't know any better and don't want to be alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 05:25 PM
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Look man I don't know how old you are or anything but it sounds like you knew about her when she was younger and was the big thing and you're thinking of that when you see her. She's objectively not anything special if you look at her in a vacuum. She's hot for her age but has nothing on girls my own age. If you go to the beach right now you will be surrounded by girls hotter than her. Maybe it's a matter of taste but I don't see anything in her that I couldn't find in someone else my own age.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 05:45 AM
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self righteous dickhead won't engage in an honest discussion when criticized and still thinks he's morally superior
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 01:29 AM
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Because you obviously don't understand the actual motivations and reasoning of your opponent if the concluding thesis is that people who disagree with you are morons. A basic tenet of having a good argument is being able to see your opponents point of view in an honest manner. Right now you're just jerking each other off by agreeing that the people you don't like are stupid, what's even the point of this discussion?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 01:21 AM
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No, most 18 year old guys will not choose a 50 year old woman from TV, and the ones who do will rethink that when they see her up close. Don't know what kind of world you live in but theres a reason those kinds of pairings are exceedingly rare if not nonexistant.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 12:51 AM
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