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| 1 | Pretty new to thisMan, this is a heavy load. The loneliness, regret, and missing time with your kids all comes through loud and clear. But so does the work you’ve done. Almost two years sober, rebuilding your life, and still fighting to stay connected to your kids says a lot about who you are now. I’ve had to start over in my 40s too, just past my 3 year mark post divorce, and it is a brutal, humbling thing when life doesn’t look anything like you thought it would. So I really felt that part of your post. You may… | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/03/26 05:31 AM |
| 1 | Anyone else just feel exhausted…Man, yes. I think a lot of us hit that wall once the adrenaline wears off and life settles down enough for the emotional weight to catch up. It’s exhausting because you’re not just living life, you’re carrying grief, stress, and constant mental processing on top of it. I went through a stretch like that too, and it did eventually start to lift. Be patient with yourself. Take care of yourself. If you ever want to talk it through with someone who gets it, feel free to DM me. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/03/26 05:18 AM |
| 2 | Insurance reimbursementMan, that’s exhausting. The money matters, but so does the burden of being the one who’s trying to follow the agreement while the other person makes it harder than it needs to be. Too often the person following the rules is the one stuck carrying the load. I’d keep everything documented and as clean as possible on your side in case this becomes a bigger pattern. I’ve been there. It sucks. If you ever want to vent or talk through the frustration of dealing with this kind of stuff after divorce, f… | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/03/26 05:10 AM |
| 3 | This is a post from divorced women page… you can’t make this shit up. I will never marry againWhat hit me was “I don't want to change." I wanted to choose myself.” Marriage requires both people to have at least a bit of care and concern for the other person and an ounce of selflessness. Sounds like she decided to focus on herself rather than trying to connect with him. Sad, but better for him that she left as well. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/03/26 12:18 AM |
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