Litgamenerd Archive

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1	I have trouble accepting a womans sexual past It’s okay, just bring it up again another time when you feel more okay talking about it. I do think you’re jumping the gun a bit presuming sex will make you feel like a loser. Tbh it’s so rare for people to have a truly good first time with no awkwardness or embarrassment. Sex is like anything, we improve after experience, and experience means making mistakes or feeling embarrassed. All that matters is you’re open to learning. I also hope you’re feeling a little bit better self-confidence wise, …	/r/ExRedPill	18/05/22 03:51 PM
1	I have trouble accepting a womans sexual past Fair enough dude, all we can do is take people at their word and see if their actions match. Did you talk to her about what was going through your mind as to why you didn’t want to go any further, or make a move? It’s totally okay whatever your reason, and I’m not asking for details if you’d rather not share. I just want to emphasise how important having that communication is, to ensure no-one get stuck thinking person one is thinking one thing about person two when really person one isn’t think…	/r/ExRedPill	18/05/22 01:53 PM
1	I have trouble accepting a womans sexual past I think the best thing you could do OP is let her know you don’t have any experience, and ask her to guide you through the experience of your first time. I’d stay away from anything other than vanilla for your first few times, just enjoy the feelings, get used to how she wants things to go, and pay attention to your own thoughts and feelings too. Your consent matters just as much as hers. Let her know that you’d like to warm up slowly with a make out session, and just enjoy the feeling of lying …	/r/ExRedPill	18/05/22 07:17 AM
4	Petal Seven... purpose. I think it’s important to remember that that video was just one person’s view point, and if you don’t like it, you don’t have to listen to it. They are absolutely wrong in their opinion by the way, humans are empathetic, social creatures, we are built to try and understand each other emotionally. You deserve to voice your emotions with your partner and have them be sympathetic to you. If they’re not, and you voicing your emotions (assuming you’re doing so in a way that is not violent or threaten…	/r/ExRedPill	15/05/22 02:18 PM
1	24 year old loser. Not sure where my life is going. I understand your concern, but medication should really not be making you numb, I have a few friends who take antidepressant medication and neither of them are numb on them. One of them feels numb normally and the medication helps him not feel so overwhelmed and allows him to focus on thoughts besides the self critical ones. Another friend gets so violently depressed they cannot get out of bed and feel extremely suicidal without medication. That being said, if the medication you are first put on…	/r/ExRedPill	15/01/22 11:09 PM
2	24 year old loser. Not sure where my life is going. Hey friend, I completely understand this, I hope your finances firm up a bit so you are able to get some help.	/r/ExRedPill	15/01/22 11:02 PM
12	24 year old loser. Not sure where my life is going. Please talk to your primary care doctor about your depressive thoughts, you deserve to be happy and sometimes we need outside help to guide us on how to get there. There is no shame in talking to a professional, there is no shame in talking to a therapist or counsellor, and there is no shame in taking medication. If you’re worried about medication it doesn’t have to be a permanent solution but it is a fantastic tool you can use to help you in the beginning. Anyone who says otherwise to any of th…	/r/ExRedPill	15/01/22 07:08 AM
1	Please help...Am I missing something?? Yeah don’t quit something you love for the hopes of finding a lady, your personal happiness is worth more than that.	/r/ExRedPill	09/01/22 10:17 AM
1	Please help...Am I missing something?? That was my point, you don’t need to be diving into 15 different things at once, you start with one or two, apologies for the typo and confusion. As was the nerd location suggestion, it was just to give you an idea of what kind of place you’re looking for. You said you play basketball, which is great. Have you talked to your teammates about catching up for something like drinks after a game? As a way to move things from acquaintances to friends. Or do you train at the same place as women teams? …	/r/ExRedPill	09/01/22 08:32 AM
1	Please help...Am I missing something?? Hella’s advice is great, and I just wanted to add you could look into a local games shop, or arcade group. Things like anime clubs or clubs based around certain shows pop up around these spaces because they offer a spot to meet and talk over a shared interest in a space that is already geared towards that kind of atmosphere and genre (ie. games shops are for “nerds” so you’ll find more “nerd things” in games shops). The important thing I want to remind you of is that you don’t have to dive in an…	/r/ExRedPill	05/01/22 12:20 PM