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Because I’m a dental student and currently in exam session. This is currently my most important paper. If you just want to be rude when I’m only looking for advice and have been nice to all remarks so far, please refrain yourself from commenting…
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/26 11:11 PM
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I do agree and have considered this as well. But I wondered if I should only put the work for after being engaged/married. A fear I have is getting to this point after getting married as well so I also see it as an opportunity to grow in that sense. I agree it doesn’t have to be with him, but since I am already in love and projected myself, it’s hard to juste let go…
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/26 10:27 PM
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Maybe that’s what reading this post let out for you but it’s not the usual dynamic here nor his usual state of mind. And I haven’t hand a controlling/nagging behaviour ‘for so long’, hence the context on how the relationship was on a good curve before. There is no necessity here, no kids, no ring, no house,…
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/26 06:34 PM
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What necessity would that be ?
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/26 06:19 PM
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I do agree that I’m not just a victim here, I do however wonder how this went 360 from « I want us to meet my father and get married soon » to « I can’t anymore and it’s been like that for years ». This is the reason I was doubting where his heart was and why we couldn’t have the hard conversation before resorting to this… But as you said, things could have been done differently but it still resulted in us getting a second try at things. I’ll own my part and start from there.
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/26 06:18 PM
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we usually do try to solve problems asap, in a few hours or at least in the same day. But yes, I do realize that it may have been counter productive at times. This has for sure added pressure. I‘ll keep in mind all the advice given and will change my flaws and find the patience. Thank you for these advice, I’ll look them up.
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/26 06:13 PM
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I will, my bad
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/26 06:09 PM
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Hey, thanks for your reply. I do hear what you say, and I am trying to see a way for both of us to not build resentment over it and rather fix it. I can see how it can look like a better option to just move on but since I also am a part of the problem and didn’t mean to make it go this far, I am somewhat giving it some grace. Maybe I shouldn’t… But doing tit for tat wasn’t a solution so far…
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/26 04:39 PM
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Yes I acknowledge my issues and am willing to fix them. I was being this way because of my own issues or anxiety and thought of it as a way to express and fix a little issue, but it wasn’t it.
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/26 04:36 PM
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Hi. I totally hear what you say. I want to stop wondering, believe me, but I don’t know how to stop. This whole situation made me feel uncomfortable and unloved. He apologised For making me go trough it but I have a bittersweet feeling I don’t know what to do about. I don’t want to be the dumper instead of the dumpee. Yes, being dumped felt humiliating, but I owned it and didn’t smooth talked it to anyone or myself. What I want is to not be put in this situation again… I also thought that he sai…
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/26 02:42 PM
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Original post : We have been together for 2 years ans 11 months, our 3 year anniversary would be in 10 days. For the past 10-14 days, we have been in many little argument that got out of proportion. We always had arguments from time to time but it’s has been a lot lately, and the communication doesn't seem to work. I dont understand how we got there. We went to Paris for my birthday 4 months ago, he met my now deceased grandfather 3 months ago, he met most of my family at the funeral 2 months ag…
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/26 02:11 PM
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You were right.
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/26 03:28 PM
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We talked, he is depressed and wants to get better on his own. He refused my help many times but wished I insisted even more. He broke up with me, and said he might regret it.
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/26 03:05 PM
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Okay, thank you, really.
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/26 06:02 PM
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I am honestly at loss of words. I don’t even know what to ask bc, yes, now I do feel like I’m the only problem since I already said that I would forgive him. The thing is, I could ask him to tell me what happened that night once again and he could repeat the same story (That he didn’t know and panicked but would have told me after) and then I would either have to believe it or not. I can’t have his friends point of view since he cut ties with me, I can’t ask the other women who were there since …
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/26 05:48 PM
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It might also be part of the reason… The thing is, I have always been a little nagger, so I was nagging even before what happened with his coworker. But I feel like it worsened after that, bc I was nagging even more and became somewhat controlling bc of the issue and my perception of the said colleague. However, my boyfriend never lied to me (to my knowledge) before that and his explanation seemed plausible so I decided to forgive him, but his colleague’s reaction made me keep some sort of suspi…
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/26 05:25 PM
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I will for sure ! But do you have any suggestions on what else to do in this situation based off your own reading.
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/26 05:04 PM
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Thank you! I hope so
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/26 05:03 PM
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I believe you’re right… I need a way to not verbalize every single thing without feeling like I’m bottling in everything. Constant criticism is not a good thing. Thank you, I’ll read the book that was advised to me and keep that in mind
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/26 04:52 PM
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You’re right, I’ll have a read and will find a way to fight the right battles. Thank you for the advice :)
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/26 04:40 PM
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The colleague had invited 2 women he was dating simultaneously at his place while my bf was at his place. When confronted by me, they both lied and I thought something else was happening at the time. My bf ended up explaining himself and I decided to forgive him. His friend deleted me off social media and it made me even more suspicious of the situation. He can do what he wants, but after the incident, I expressed to him that I wasn’t at ease with him spending so much time with this colleague ou…
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/26 04:38 PM
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Thank you, I do take accountability for my wrongdoings and I wished I didn’t react badly at these times. I myself don’t know when something I say will make things escalate or not sometimes, and then I become careful with my words and lose my natural, which creates some tension as well… I’m looking for a way to regain my cool faster after something bad happens or for a way to say things in a chiller way without feeling wronged.
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/26 04:28 PM
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The most recent one was about him possibly being with the colleague he was with when he lied to me. The said colleague deleted me off socials after this incident. My bf spends less time with him ever since but he wished I would go over it and just let him spend time with his colleague. The thing is, when we argue, he will often remind me of all the past related arguments I initiated or things I may have done wrong. He says it’s a way for him to show me he had no ill intent but I often see it as …
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/26 04:24 PM
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Most of them are. I try to tell him something about something he did but then it escalated into an argument. Example : he is late and I’ve been waiting for him to arrive since 2 hours ago and he didn’t give me a heads up so I tell him. He apologises but reacts lightly (not a big deal), then I react in a way that creates an argument
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/26 03:58 PM
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I will, thank you
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/26 02:41 PM
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Sometimes about little things, or the way things were done/said. For example, being late, not replying to a message soon enough, being unwilling to do something at first, etc… It escalated after an instance where he lied to me about who he was with after work, it was about 3 months ago. I understood and forgave but I had a hard time completely trusting him after and was bickering, honestly.
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/26 02:19 PM
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Oh wow so sorry for you… would you say it was one of the reasons why it didn’t work out
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/26 07:35 PM
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Looks like a 8-9 to me. Why the humility ?
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/26 03:08 PM
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I think you should both have a deep conversation on these matters He is willing to get married but doesn't seem to show the same excitement that you do anymore. However, marriage was delayed for you in the first place (seems like it), so after 7 years that way, he is just used to it now. And while you delayed it, it seems like he wasn't the most involved with the issues at hand and you relied more on others than him. Try and boost your current dynamic to make your couple feel more alive again. G…
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/26 01:42 PM
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Why are you still delaying marriage ? Is your health better ?
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/26 09:55 AM
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Thank you ! Happy for you
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/26 08:16 PM
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Okay I can understand
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/26 11:38 AM
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So you said « But if we’re here in the first place, we aren’t marrying a rich man ». However this doesn’t seem to apply to you, just for everyone else here ? Quite condescending if you’re asking me.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/26 08:57 AM
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Needing advice on woman topics doesn’t equate to it imo. This subreddit is not a « how do I find and marry a rich man when I’m poor and uneducated » one. All types of women ask for advice or share their experiences in many topics other than marriage seeking. Many are already happily married to all types of men, but often the respectful ones. And in your logic, if you need to be well educated to marry rich, education takes time and you would probably not marry young then. Asking for advice from a…
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/26 08:55 AM
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And I don’t see the correlation between being in a redpillwen subreddit and obviously not marrying a rich man. Why is that in your opinion ?
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/26 08:29 AM
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I mean financially speaking, in the context of this post. I wonder if you would consider this being your reality or not. Bc sure it helps to become a flight attendant in order to meet a pilot but having acquaintances can sometimes be enough to meet someone in a different situation.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/26 08:22 AM
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How old are you and what is your partner like ?
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/26 07:44 AM
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I have a few things I’m curious about, you can answer in different responses ! Thank you When did you meet each other, and how long did you wait before being engaged then getting married ? What was the engagement ring and the wedding like ? What did your family think of your partner and new lifestyle ? Would you say it made you closer with them or ´grow apart’ ? Did it create any tension (heard about that before) ?
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/26 07:18 AM
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Statistically it’s true. However you don’t need to be wealthy to marry rich.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/26 06:51 AM
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thank you for this insight and the journaling advice !
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/26 03:19 PM
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