| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 1334 | Makes me laugh now 😂 | FDS MEMES | LittleBitchyBanana | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 10:26 AM |
| 48 | ‘Eleven-year-old Amy (..) enthusiastically embrace an increasingly sensual dance routine’- Jeffrey would be so happy... 🤮 | TRIGGER WARNING | LittleBitchyBanana | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 07:09 PM |
| 13 | Just LVM things 🙃 | FDS MEMES | LittleBitchyBanana | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 10:29 AM |
| 4 | Girls, we have a lurker 🙂 | SCROTES MAD | LittleBitchyBanana | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 03:55 AM |
| 1 | #JustLVMThings | FDS MEMES | LittleBitchyBanana | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 09:03 AM |
| 1 | #JustLVMThings | FDS MEMES | LittleBitchyBanana | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 09:04 AM |
| 1 | Don’t fear to be alone. Flourish and grow Queens 😎💪 | QUEEN SH*T | LittleBitchyBanana | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 09:57 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | She is not replying to your texts? MOVE ON instantly.Woah. 😂 Do you, but what you are saying is not true. Some women work, study, go to the gym, not to mention me-time (self care) and simply are not on the phone 24/7 because they have better things to do. I am not saying replying after 1 week to someone because it’s disrespectful, but also I almost never reply instantly. If you want a girlfriend tied to the phone, do you. 🤷♀️ | /r/seduction | 14/09/20 05:03 PM |
| 1 | All The People Who Judge This Sub are FULL OF SHITAlso don’t ever call me bitch. Trash. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 03:22 PM |
| 2 | Would you date a man who likes game of thrones?My point is, I wouldn’t judge the man based on the fact that he likes the Got. If further into discussion he will emphasise all the bad things you say happen in GoT then yes, that would be something for me to pay attention and potential red flag. However, GoT was a great show to some point with an interesting and engaging plot. So my point still stands, in general I wouldn’t care. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 12:27 PM |
| 1 | Remember ladies, if he wanted to, he would.This is so sweet ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 09:15 AM |
| 6 | This should not be normalized 🙄Awww she is such a cool girl ❤️❤️😍😍😍 /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 09:08 AM |
| 7 | Would you date a man who likes game of thrones?I like breaking bad for example, but that doesn’t mean I like to implement any of the lifestyle choices the characters made in my life. I wouldn’t be bothered. I like game of thrones (season 1-6) myself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 08:52 AM |
| 205 | Don't worry, he's very attentive, buys her gifts and is not all abusive. The woman is risking her health, going through all the pain, but "oh no, what about my dick? :(("He is not abusive because he hasn’t physically hit her? Woah standards. 😳 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 08:50 AM |
| 35 | SIS.. trust me when I say absolutely NOBODY wants your LVM. Embarrassing.Yes, hundreds of women want to be with your drunk AF man. 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 08:48 AM |
| 5 | I think the Netflix Cuties movie may have just ended my relationship.Trust your guts, always. I didn’t and was with LVM for 3 years. 🙃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 09:21 AM |
| 5 | Anyone else find the facebook group “X” full of pick mes?No I’m not. The only groups I am in are the groups related to my work field. I cannot stand nor have the time to write comments in the groups you’re talking about. Seriously, I am done with cOmMuNiCaTiNg advice which is all these groups are basically. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 09:11 AM |
| 10 | DAE think that the ratio of attractive women to attractive men is truly insane?Definitely not all of them, and I met also a lot of good and fun male friends in tech so it’s possible and all depends. 😅 from my personal standpoint I do not encountered a lot of NVM in tech compared to anything else so I have a overall rather positive impression. Don’t get me wrong, it’s a bare minimum but it was a nice refresher compared to average Joes in everyday life ;) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 10:06 PM |
| 4 | Le PoWeR woRDs...😂Until I got on reddit I didn’t realise how shitty men can be. Subreddits like relationship advice or am I the asshole are truly opening my eyes 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 03:55 PM |
| 6 | What would you do if...Just reading this made me want to vomit. I don’t want to imagine what this poor woman has seen.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 02:18 PM |
| 1 | "A man being rich is like a girl being pretty." Marilyn is speaking nothing but facts. 🗣️💯 What are your thoughts Ladies?What movie is it? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 07:47 AM |
| 5 | Another reason to delete OLD: His dating options are “short or long walk” 😂If I were golden retriever I would be happy 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 07:39 AM |
| 1 | UPDATE: Woman dumps broke boyfriend who insisted she sell her condo so he could get put on the deed to a new flat. He now wants full custody of their fetusStrong queen 👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 07:35 AM |
| 14 | I joined this subreddit not because I'm looking for a HVM, but because this is a safe space for women calling men out on their bullshit unapologetically.I’m on reddit because of this sub and cats. 😄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 07:32 AM |
| 3 | What would you do if...Divorce. 🙃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 07:24 AM |
| 7 | Am I the only one who does not consider videocall, zoom, facetime, etc "dates" and think it is lowkey an excuse for lazy men to be lazy?To be honest, I just cannot be bothered to date right now. I am spending my quarantine time on self improvement and relaxation (and work - remote) and I am happy, truly just happy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 07:24 AM |
| 6 | "Hi" is not sufficientAlso multiple men are admitting, especially in other subreddits 🙃 they are swiping right on everybody. Be above that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 07:19 AM |
| 15 | Don't "act" busy be busy! Have your own life.It’s true but also a bit sad it needs to be even reminded. Women have tendencies to give everything up just to get some mediocre d... Just be you - be the best version of you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 07:17 AM |
| 14 | My own design of one of my favourite quotes ✨Can I love Rihanna even more? 😍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 07:11 AM |
| 131 | Scrotes' way of thinkingHow dare she want an engagement ring 🙄 also I do not comprehend why women would take men’s name. I have my own surname- thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 08:42 AM |
| 38 | Never again🤡 - this is all I have to say | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 08:39 AM |
| 209 | The state of Reddit.This to me sounds like a good brainwashing. She basically apologises for having audacity to like what her husband doesn’t. 😂 crazy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 08:39 AM |
| 16 | Welcome to legislation budPutting aside the legality of this. What the f I am supposed to do with it? Is it suppose to amaze me? Should I clap?😂 if the best thing he wants to show off is his d... I am disappointed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 07:58 AM |
| 6 | All the pickmes in the comments 💀Why even bother? Let’s go with no ring at all. tRuE lOvE iS pRiCeLeSs 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 04:18 PM |
| 7 | 3 Weeks Post Dump: LVM is in my emailUsing smart words to sounds smart 😂. Truly I have never seen something like this in my life. Even reading his email is a huge waste of time but a good laugh so it kind of balances out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 04:15 PM |
| 16 | Meanwhile on Reddit...It always amazes me how these women feel ok with this and how they can have any self-respect left? They are literally chasing a grown up men. Wow. Just wow. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 04:10 PM |
| 6 | "FDS is so JUDGEMENTAL" Yes, and we are proud of it! Mate selection is among the most important decisions you will ever make, it is a crucial time to be choosy!We are so judgemental for having the AuDaCiTy to CHOOSE with whom we want to spend our lives. Because having standards is so judgmental. Yes we are judgment just like guys are judgmental when it comes to eg women’s appearance. Men can be harsh AF so they should get used to the fact that we’ll just as judgmental and even more :) Have standards ladies. Always. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 09:10 AM |
| 7 | Me putting one of my male friends in his place (in South Korea and guys often joke like this, and I have none of it).Yep, exactly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 07:37 AM |
| 19 | A reminder to the older Queens of FDS(30+)!Every time I see or hear this BS about women being past their prime age I imagine Jennifer Aniston in her 50s looking amazing and comparing it to Brad Pitt he looks... let’s be polite, not so great. Most men age terribly because all that drinking, lack of skincare routine, lack of sport - it all comes back to them later. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 07:31 AM |
| 15 | Me putting one of my male friends in his place (in South Korea and guys often joke like this, and I have none of it).He misses his mummy. 🥺😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 07:22 AM |
| 23 | What if you AREN'T marriage-minded?I do not have that experience with marriage - only living with someone - to be competent here but from my perspective I do not want to live 24/7 with anyone. I like being with myself and I need to be able to just chill out on my own. For this reason I will always keep my apartment for me and never sell. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 07:16 AM |
| 13 | I found a HVMSo cute. ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 07:10 AM |
| 11 | Why would I want to meet up? With a dude who can’t even have a basic convo?‚Please meet up with me and love me, I get so few matches anyway😥’ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 07:08 AM |
| 15 | Men confirm their “friendships” with women are completely fakeHe’s going to be your ’friend’ (even your best friend) until he realises there’s no chance for anything more. In 99% of cases. I left 1% for homosexual people. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 02:47 PM |
| 9 | More reasons why women need to value their ability to serve a bitch and put men in their place!I was guilty of doing that. I stopped but ugh it was such a irritating habit. I haven’t heard any men in my entire life use this phrase. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 06:24 PM |
| 272 | More reasons why women need to value their ability to serve a bitch and put men in their place!Also this is important for work emails. At the beginning of my career I was using phrases like “if I understood correctly” - generally speaking words which implicated I wasn’t sure. Don’t get me wrong, I sometimes still do use the phrase I mentioned above but in a totally different tone of my voice as an indication - I know what I am talking about (and even if I don’t I pretend :D) and just want to clarify any possible miscommunications. My work emails have changed, I stand my ground firmly and … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 08:10 AM |
| 7 | Seen on a dating site, this man is looking for a follower and he is not subtle...at all.Ready to follow? He meant he was looking for Labrador right? 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 07:37 AM |
| 2 | Guess scrotes don't understand what "routine maintenance" means 🤔Free publicity. Nice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 04:52 PM |
| 9 | The amount of upvotes & awards this has is terrifying.Ah yes. InTeRnEt pOiNtS❤️❤️❤️ my dream truly. Also how can these men spend actually money on some BS ‘awards’ is beyond my comprehension. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 04:50 PM |
| 19 | The amount of upvotes & awards this has is terrifying.Next ‘cool girl’ post would be something like this: “If you don’t give blow jobs every week or two you are terrible girlfriend” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 04:41 PM |
| 21 | Men be like “we ain’t wantin you, you ugly azz b*”, also men...It’s always funny to me how you are the most beautiful woman ever, but once you disagree / don’t want to continue with the dating, you become “ugly b***h” 😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 12:34 PM |
| 11 | From proposition to gaslight in the length of one screenshot.Hahaha this made me laugh. 😂😂😂 like wtf 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 07:39 PM |
| 29 | Why do some women date such ugly men?From my perspective- he will try harder and he will not be a narcissist. I was wrong with both. 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 07:36 PM |
| 35 | Scrotes Rolling Up To Comment on FDS LikeThe only space they cannot invade with their BS. 🙄God I am so happy there is just one place only for women on reddit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 07:35 PM |
| 8 | Saw this on another subreddit, and while everyone was making fun of it, I chuckled because come on, this is true.I just bought myself grey Nike sweatpants 😂 I just like lighter colours on myself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 07:34 PM |
| 40 | Gosh! No thank you, I'm intolerant this bsCoMmUnIcAtE | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 07:31 PM |
| 4 | How can I be/look as high maintenance as possible? What screams “pick me energy”?Teeth are a huge one. It can be both high level or no level... the clothes you wear - if it is polyester or good quality clothing skin - I know to some extent we do not have a control over it, however skin in general plays a big role how we are perceived and how at least I perceive others. perfumes At least this is the stuff I pay huge attention on when it comes to other people in general. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 05:48 PM |
| 4 | Process Changes to the Sub, Flair, and other AnnouncementsCongrats! And good luck! 🤗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 05:24 PM |
| 30 | The oversexualisation of female bodies is ridiculous. A model going out in a coat in a New York WINTER is "covering up" her famous figure...what on earth?Me too. My best decision of 2020. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 05:19 PM |
| 6 | Was invited over to his place, what should I do?This 🙌🙌🙌🙌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 04:44 PM |
| 16 | My(19f) bf(20) didn't let me see his phone. I saw her best friend's name (it's a she) what to do?Huge red flag. 🚩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 04:39 PM |
| 21 | Pleasing yourself sexually after a break-upWell, try thinking about all the bad stuff and the reason you are not together. This was a huge turnoff for me immediately. Also I know this is not the case for you - I get the part about emotional connection but I fantasise about the guy I have a crush on right now which made me completely get rid off my ex from my head during these situations. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 04:39 PM |
| 3 | Do NOT reply to male PMsHow bored must they be?! 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 03:14 PM |
| 4 | FDS made me realize I deserve more and I shouldn't "settle" on men I am not attracted tooI was the same. Happy you are levelling up. 😊🙌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 03:00 PM |
| 23 | Michelle Obama gives advice to girlsI love this woman with all my heart. 😍❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 02:39 PM |
| 84 | The oversexualisation of female bodies is ridiculous. A model going out in a coat in a New York WINTER is "covering up" her famous figure...what on earth?My NVM ex once told me he didn’t like my baggy clothes - especially jumpers - IN WINTER. 😂 of course I should be wearing leggings and fitted tops to fulfill his fantasy 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 02:38 PM |
| 2 | How to cut things short or walk out of a bad/boring date? And how to speak up instead of being too accommodating?“I’ve got a meeting in the morning.” “I have a presentation at work tomorrow morning.” Something along these lines. I just do not want to say “I’m bored I will go” or something bitchy purely because you don’t know who are you dealing with and secondly it’s rude. You don’t know if this guy is a serial killer for example. I know this is huge exaggeration but just to be safe, I would end on a positive note. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 07:10 PM |
| 15 | Stumbled across this exchange.. typical LVM reacting to a rejection 😂He must be broke AF. 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 07:05 PM |
| 40 | PSA!!!!!I was thinking very similar thing with my NVM ex. If I by accident got pregnant would I be raising this child with him as a father? My answer was no. And right now it is the very first question I ask myself if I consider having sex with a man. Would he be a good father? If the answer is no, you know ladies what’s next 😌 let it go. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 07:03 PM |
| 10 | He just learned how to hide it betterHe told you he would delete his IG, he didn’t. You gave him a chance. You later broke up with him, he asked you for a second chance already to go back together. And the same thing with him following models happen again. He twisted your words to fit his narrative with masturbating to other women. And you are contemplating giving him like 3rd chance? Right now he will tell you anything you want to hear just to come back to normal to have free sex. Girl. Don’t waste your time, your nerves and emoti… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 07:00 PM |
| 9 | Hey ladies, I need advice about dating on OLD.First of all I wouldn’t go just because of the pandemic right now but it’s not about me. If you don’t want to go, don’t. Imagine: If a man didn’t want to go to a date, so you think he would? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 06:52 PM |
| 17 | How do you guys feel about the term "Bitch."I just do not feel comfortable using that word and I don’t use it. Also in my life I do not have people who use that word or swearing in general. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 06:51 PM |
| 4 | To Reach or Not to Reach?Yes, it is: ‘Who pays on a date? What women must do!’ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 06:40 PM |
| 6 | He doesn't "date fat"? What a coincidence. Neither do I.My goodness... after the bio I expected Greek God, but I got fat uncle... disappointment | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 09:53 AM |
| 3 | He said I was too difficultIf I found out about him texting other girls during our date I would just straight leave. But maybe first finish the drink or a meal- depending if it was good. Then, get up and leave. 💁♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 09:44 AM |
| 14 | To Reach or Not to Reach?I follow Anna Bey advice. Thank him for the meal and the time you had. Do not reach for wallet, phone etc, no games. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 09:40 AM |
| 6 | I used to be nice as to not hurt someone’s feelings despite unwanted advances. I’m done doing that.I didn’t read until the end because I got bored and after the pics I got a bit 🤢 You can feel the desperation to get laid from kilometres away. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 09:35 AM |
| 6 | Should you continue a relationship with a man who cannot find the clit, does not regularly stimulate it, and does not ask for help? Do you have to show him and teach him and remind him with no initiative from him?Don’t. If he wanted he would know. 🙂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 09:30 AM |
| 7 | Dear Men: Your Opinion Holds No Value Here. Did We Fucking Stutter?Why the f... they have the need to post here? To self indulge how amazing they are? nOt AlL mEn ArE LiKe ThIs 🤡 Truly we don’t need their posts here, if they have too much time please find yourself a new hobby. This reminds me of one of my ex. We had a fight and I had an important meeting at work the next day. I told him- do not call me or text me, I need to be prepared for tomorrow. What did he do? Of course he contacted me tO ExPlAiN🤡🤡🤡🤡 Really guys, we won’t clap for you just because you are … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 09:27 AM |
| 12 | Ladies, we have to keep talking about how as women there is an engrained expectation that we should starve so that others always have a full plate. -Everyone eats or no one eats-I hate these commercials... what I am saying I hate all of them. - dove commercials for showering, it’s luxury for women to take showers - antiperspirants - women with no armpits hairs or even without any sign hairs were there - shaving - we shave no hair because we are so dainty we have hairless skin. That’s why in every shaving commercial we shave hairless skin. Not to mention the amount of money women spend on self care compared to men. Don’t get wrong- I like to take care of myself - for me … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 10:32 AM |
| 26 | Which one of you is this red chick? I found you in the wild.For the lady married for 30 years who also paid I was waiting for her to finish with: “And I gave him blow job on the first date because I do not have any self respect” 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 08:28 PM |
| 27 | He's depressed" "Try couples therapy" "Give him your love and support" Are they serious? DUMP HIM, GIRL!I wish someone told me to get out. The women in my family are more or less pickmeisha’s and when I was with my recent ex I know I would have behaved totally different now. He was not career driven and I was pushing him to basically be more ambitious when he wasn’t. Instead of wasting huge amount of time with him, I should have left loooong time ago. But when I finally did I truly never felt happier with myself. Also yesterday I had a talk with my good male friend - he isn’t HVM but he has a good… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 07:28 AM |
| 3 | The look on his face was worth every pennyYesss Queen 🙌💪 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 04:48 PM |
| 6 | Men don't get itThey are afraid of this sub. God forbid women want to be respected and have their own opinions. More women like FDS women mean their chances of getting laid are even smaller than before. Going towards zero. :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 06:25 PM |
| 2 | Men don't get itDo not reference to other subs here, I think it is not really welcomed ;) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 06:23 PM |
| 19 | One way it could have happened...I would prefer just more trees :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 06:08 PM |
| 6 | What are some HVM in fatherhood green flags ?How he behaves in difficult times for me, eg when you’re tired or have had hard day at work. How he cares about your health and well-being in general. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 06:04 PM |
| 31 | THIS. 👑 👏 (swipe)I wonder why so many men have these mommy issues. Are they intimidated by real women? Or just want to be comfortable in life by finding a woman who will do all the things their mommy did? 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 06:01 PM |
| 14 | The fuck. (Yea I’m sure it was a “mistake”)I would move out of that street. What a creep. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 05:58 PM |
| 36 | A woman's friends got offended by her boyfriend's joke and she now has a problem with her friends' atittude towards men.‘My friends could be less judgemental’ - Sure Jan, it is okay for him to make fun of your friends, which he doesn’t know but your friends cannot have opinion on him. I hope once the butterflies fly out of her stomach she will open her eyes more. I know this type of guy, making fun - oh, it’s just a joke. And then twisting it so it fits his narrative of being ‘funny’ and making his girlfriend the crazy one. Cut his BS short. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 05:57 PM |
| 14 | Something I've encountered on the apps lately as a 30-something...I made a mistake earlier in life on betting on the potential without being realistic. Or I should say - I just chose to ignore my gut telling me it’s not going to work. I hoped I would motivate the guy- he told me himself I motivate him to do things etc. But at the end he hasn’t changed, he still was lazy and I was wasting my time at this point. Don’t do it. Judge in the actions, not possible potential. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 05:54 PM |
| 101 | A father shouldn’t be praised for parenting his own childrenThis is exactly the reason I stopped watching Queer Eye. I love them as the persons, but I just cannot stand every time there is a guy with child, for example in the recent season the father with his daughter who was ice skating. He was being praised for getting to know her, like going to the ice skating competition etc. He did literally nothing for her, I remember this little girl also cooked for him sometimes and the whole episode drove me crazy. He was being praised for BARE MINIMUM he should… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 07:21 AM |
| 1 | 10,000 Km away from home to visit this guy I met online. Did I made the right decision?Excellent, I wish you nothing but good luck and safe travel. 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 06:32 PM |
| 8 | 10,000 Km away from home to visit this guy I met online. Did I made the right decision?I am so happy that you came to your senses at the end. Please be careful on your way back, we are in pandemic and any kind of travel is risky. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 06:28 PM |
| 16 | Glee rant[potential spoiler] I am the same with gossip girl. I just cannot stand most of the shows I used to watch. I started how I met your mother but I watched a video on YouTube how Robin ends and I was like... hell no, I am not spending my time to watch that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 06:23 PM |
| 16 | Woman buys her husband an Apple Watch for their five year anniversary. He gets her...Reddit gold. 🤡I once bought expensive headphones for my NVM ex and he got me a video game. 😂 i cannot believe I didn’t dump him. But i am glad I learnt and I don’t make the same mistake twice 🙂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 03:56 PM |
| 15 | He almost broke up with me after 1 month, now we’re taking a break.As the previous comment, I would totally agree with therapy thing. You need a professional help to deal with it. Also you need to first and foremost focus on yourself and yourself only. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 08:39 PM |
| 5 | Does anyone else get sick of men telling them to smile more?I get that a lot and I am bored by it. I say different things depending on my mood, eg ‘If you said something funny I would. ‘ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 08:34 PM |
| 20 | I....this woman tweeted that her date insulted her body and the amount of men defending in the comments.....I’m done with men FOREVER. No way in hell any of them are worth dealing with.Imagine women on the first date saying to a man: “huh, no six pack?such a shame :/“ EDIT: grammar | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 08:21 PM |
| 10 | At least they are warning us upfront now 🤷🏻♀️I appreciate not wasting my time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 08:17 PM |
| 85 | If they even try to apologize...And then they try to make things back to normal as fast as possible so they do not have to deal with it. 💁♀️🙃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 08:15 PM |
| 46 | PSA to all the young Queens on here: a man wanting to have sex with you is not a compliment, nor does it mean he cares about you as a person!I believe it’s a deeper problem for such women. You clearly must be missing something in life to do it. Attention? Someone to care for you? By posting nudes they are showing they are vulnerable and need men’s validation. I truly wish these women start to take care of themselves, level up and stopped needing men’s validation for anything. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 08:14 PM |
| 26 | Don’t waste a SECOND on LVM!!You can always tell you’re going to the toilet and leave. 💁♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 08:11 PM |
| 88 | All The People Who Judge This Sub are FULL OF SHITMost men have such a problem with this sub because it’s hard to swallow the truth. Women here support each other, don’t fall for men’s BS, and they want to be the best version of themselves. The whole thing about “men hate sub” makes me roll my eyes. In their eyes what we should be doing is to be their servant so they can peacefully do nothing, watch porn, play some vide games and that’s it. I wish every woman here to find their HVM, because they are out there. And all these NVMs and LVMs are sh… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 07:58 PM |
| 27 | I was deleting pictures off my phone and I found this gem. So glad I deleted my OLD profiles. It was just too much effort.Can he read? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 04:31 PM |
| 21 | ‘Eleven-year-old Amy (..) enthusiastically embrace an increasingly sensual dance routine’- Jeffrey would be so happy... 🤮My first reaction exactly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 07:16 PM |
| 6 | Why do men do this, it really irritates me. If you know you're not ready for a relationship or don't want one with her, then just leave her alone. Don't string a woman along just to feed your ego.Why would they want to give up free sex? 🙃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 08:26 AM |
| 30 | I can’t believe this needs to be a PSA. And I get filthy creatures like him also expect sex on the first date 🤢Maybe she wants to be his mother? 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 10:36 AM |
| 7 | I'm actually fine, thanksMediocre sex 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 08:50 AM |
| 20 | NVM expects me to drive 8 hours to hang, proceeds to neg me..What in the actual f*ck?! 😂 he is so pathetic is ridiculous. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 11:33 AM |
| 9 | The texts from this man.... then take a look at the woman he’s saying this to. MindblownThank you for comment. It was very informative ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 06:56 PM |
| 25 | Still working on this one, but 💯Exactly, why do you need more or this BS? If it’s done, it’s done. Do not write long paragraphs, messages, calls etc. Keep your head high and leave, queen. 💁♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 12:04 PM |
| 40 | The texts from this man.... then take a look at the woman he’s saying this to. MindblownThis reminds me of time when I was working late hours and had college at the same time so I was busy AF and my NVM ex told me I should go to the gym more to get a six pack. 😂 I am healthy and slim weight but never wanted and I do not want to get a 6 pack on my abs. while the only thing he was doing apart from going to work was gym. Such trash. 💁♀️🗑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 11:44 AM |
| 23 | Don't doubt your instincts, even when people around you try to make you doubt yourself.Stories like this always makes me want to vomit. He is disgusting... 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 12:31 PM |
| 76 | A post on the ‘seduction’ sub, please don’t get ‘seduced’ by a $3 drink ladiesHe just wants someone to f*ck. Any requirements for such men do not exist. It is enough you are a woman. 🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 12:22 PM |
| 11 | Who comes first?Sorry, but if he leaves you alone in labour instead of coming right away he is NVM for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 08:17 AM |
| 4 | This is why you VET and NEVER have sex too early - bullet dodgedOnce the man likes you, most of them would do anything to get you in bed. Truly it’s so simple how they function. 🙃 disgusting... EDIT: typo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 08:04 PM |
| 56 | Periodt.We are not their mother ladies 💁♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 08:16 PM |
| 18 | The real reason FDS pisses people off so muchI have never realised how much men are frightened of this sub until recently. Calling it incel sub/ cross posting our stuff to other subs and calling us crazy. And I am happy they are doing it- it rises awareness to other parts of reddit. Recently some scrote mode from AskMen made a post about dating in Covid and added FDS in the post. I was happy because if only one woman found it thanks to this scrote - I am satisfied. :) And the dms from LVM/NVM truly make me laugh, especially when one was ca… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 05:46 PM |
| 17 | “Girl he is the SWEETEST, sometimes he just doesn’t text back bc he’s busy you know?? We aren’t even official but he wants to move in w me, he’s THAT into me.”It always amazes me how some people are making up stories which I cannot comprehend. How is it crazy to want a commitment and respect by being official before moving in? What’s so crazy about? 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 06:51 PM |
| 17 | “Girl he is the SWEETEST, sometimes he just doesn’t text back bc he’s busy you know?? We aren’t even official but he wants to move in w me, he’s THAT into me.”This is a true commitment ❤️ /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 06:49 PM |
| 19 | Grown man angry that wife did not pack his camping clothes for him. After she packed literally everything else for their trip!I unsubbed from amItheasshole. I couldn’t stand these poor women’s posts “Am I the Asshole for not wiping my husband’s ass?” Truly, is it too much to ask for self-respect? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 12:36 PM |
| 2 | How I Deliberately Revamped my OLD Profile to Attract HVM and Deter LVM (Example Profile and Rational Included)I truly appreciate you writing that. It was very helpful, saving your post for when I sign up for any online dating sites ;) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 12:23 PM |
| 3 | Look at the edit, men are idiots 🙄Why not? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 06:10 PM |
| 14 | Step 1: Try to sound smart while not actually saying anything. Step 2: Make it known that you don’t know how to plan dates. Step 3: Get blocked.“It don’t matter”. Knowing English as my third language it hurts my soul a bit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 05:47 PM |
| 6 | What is the Ultimate LVM name?Inspired by Anna Bey, I like average Joe 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 09:35 PM |
| 70 | An email from my ex (because I blocked him on everything) A man who cheated on me with ELEVEN different women and dumped me 15 times just to keep coming back to me because (his words) “No other women want me.”The audacity is huge with this one 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 09:31 PM |
| 9 | Old pervs have no shame 🤮Sick 🤢🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 07:14 PM |
| 56 | ✊🏻She is such an inspiration. ❤️ I remember reading about her college “friends” making a group in Facebook titled something like this: “Stefani Germanotta, you will never be famous.” Oh the revenge she got is wonderful. I wish her nothing but the best. 🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 08:53 AM |
| 8 | Girls, we have a lurker 🙂I reported him already but some man are crazy I just laughed when I read it. 🤡 average Joe with porn addiction will call me a pedo for defending a chil....what in the actual f**k?! 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 04:13 AM |
| 13 | Girls, we have a lurker 🙂Also the first thing that happens when you went to his profile is pop up about NSFW content. u/SinCiity if you make up BS about me because I do not fancy a CHILD eating banana by the Ferrari at least be a decent human being who is not subscribed to porn content on reddit 🤣 hypocrisy is strong here 🤣 EDIT: the full convo before I block him can be found here 🤡https://imgur.com/gallery/9POlVAV | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 04:00 AM |
| 7 | A Modern Day Love Story“I’m the special one” translating to “I was the only one desperate enough to fall for it” 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 02:39 PM |
| 10 | Good luck with thatI can see that red flag waving from space 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 08:37 AM |
| 12 | Never, and I mean NEVER, allow a man to disrespect your body like this.Sorry but this sounds like prostitution but without pay... she has never said no to sex. What is wrong with women?! 😳 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 08:31 AM |
| 98 | So Audi put a sexually suggestive picture of a little girl eating a banana in from of their car and decided to use the slogan “Let’s your heart beat faster in every aspect” 🤮🤮This is my assumption of course but I feel like this is what happens when you have a room full of entitled narcissistic, with pedo-tendencies men. I highly doubt there was any logically thinking woman present during the process of creating this campaign... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 09:33 PM |
| 4 | LmfaooooI’m deceased 😂😂😂oh lord 😆 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 04:52 PM |
| 9 | The start of pick meisha‘Let you eat the last piece of cheesecake’ hell no 😂 gosh what a humiliating scene.😳 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 04:52 PM |
| 16 | No you don’t need closure, there’s nothing to talk about. CUT that LVM out your life now!Yes! I used write looong paragraphs and explain my feelings, why what he did hurt me, etc. Since I started behaving more like a bitch - let’s say, which is, I do not write paragraphs. (Just block and I’m done) I have become healthier mentally. I do not waste my time on unworthy men. They will neither change nor understand. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 04:39 PM |
| 77 | Know your worth girls!It’s waste of time, my nerve and mental health to have this discussion. Truly it doesn’t make any sense. He will not change and if you have to explain how he should treat you it’s not worth it. I respect myself too much. 💁♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 09:48 AM |
| 7 | Read the handbook 👑Hahah I got goosebumps 😆 omg if I heard it in real life I would be deceased 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 08:02 AM |
| 16 | If his apology has the word 'but' in it, it's not an apology, it's an excuse.Too many times the apologies I was getting was only said because I got angry. My previous LVMs didn’t have any ability to self reflect. They wanted to just get it over with so I wouldn’t be upset. 🙄 Truly I felt like I was a nagging mother. Of course I dumped their asses. 💁♀️👸 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 08:38 PM |
| 141 | Most importantly, NEVER SETTLE LADIES!What’s even crazier, or at least what I have observed that many pickmeishas think even worse: once the child is born he will change. (magically) 🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 05:28 PM |
| 54 | Sneak attacksGood to know they become even more desperate as the years go by... Wow... truly I am sorry it happend to you. 😔 their behaviour is truly disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 05:27 PM |
| 13 | Just got back from a first date where the guy have some sort of eating disorder and made a whole scene about splitting the bill. So awkwardI would probably leave in the middle of the date... just because I cannot stand such a uncomfortable environment...This guy has some serious problem with himself. O.o | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 05:14 PM |
| 1 | This is what is wrong with my generation. Wife privileges without any commitment... promoted like girls should want this!Simple question what is the point? 🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 09:57 PM |
| 1 | WUT?!How can he be so stupid? Really how it is possible.. 🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 09:33 AM |
| 6 | Living with a “High Value” single man: the observations of an FDS noviceGreat research. It was very interesting to read. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 09:17 AM |
| 2 | Men post things like this to get a Pickmeisha to dance for themIt looks like a teenager party 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 09:13 AM |
| 28 | When your new bestie is your husbands side piece that was born in 98 😂It always baffled me how Kourtney has so little self respect to do this BS. She should be over this and her ex, moved on and grew. Instead she is posting pics of her and her ex’s side chick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 09:08 AM |
| 31 | I don’t believe this man has ever had sexI believe there are enough pickmeishas in this world to fall for it. Hmm even not fall for it, they must know what this invite means and they are okay with it. This guy reminds me of a salesman, or online coach. These teeth are so white it looks fake. 🤨 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 09:07 AM |
| 33 | Why We BLOCK and DELETE and NEVER argue with LVM Ladies!Agree. It’s both tiring and pointless.... I would rather focus that time or something else. 💁♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 08:09 PM |
| 3 | Can we send an FDS rescue squad for this woman?He's a great partner....why? Because there is no physical violence so he is great? O.o Wow, the standards indeed have fallen so low... :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 07:33 PM |
| 1 | The "Ho Test": Why and How Men Test the Women They DateThe men - especially LVM or NVM will try to push their BS as far as they can and test how much they can get away with. I am missing in this article definite decision for example The Back Door Bitch Test, a response for the lady is "the lady is not content" Alright and then what? I would expect sth like this: "The lady doesn't waste her time for that kind of man. She leaves" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 06:59 PM |
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