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| 1 | I had a man say "enjoy your servitude" when I told him about my job that pays me more than his.this is an old post but I just wanted to say that as a Bio PhD student... getting a faculty position in Bio is a BIG DEAL. your ex is such a toolbag! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 02:53 AM |
| 45 | The audacity is off the charts. This is also why FDS advocates blocking and deleting men as soon as it’s done (NOTE: this screenshot was found on Twitter).Imagine being this much of a broke boy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 02:18 PM |
| 2 | Men’s magazine glamorizes 20 year age gap between old scrote and beautiful woman for their “modern love” edition. 🤮they could've at least edited out his nose hairs haha. flea is super talented though... ugh why does that make it seem more okay in my mind... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 02:46 AM |
| 11 | Cut my date short at the first sign of disrespectYeah tbh this is the only redeeming way I could frame it - he realized he had explained it in a a too-complicated way | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 02:32 PM |
| 23 | Women's lives need to stop revolving around menAnd mother in laws! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 03:16 PM |
| 1 | Never build a man up💀💀💀💀💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 04:57 AM |
| 2 | Why I left my Fiancé. - Woman shares inspiring story of how she trusted her intuition, decided to she deserved better, and left her fiance (a man she had dated for nine years).omg this poor girl shes gorgeous and shes blaming herself and thinks no one will love her cuz it's "too late" for her. she is so hard on herself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 04:34 AM |
| 1 | Our favorite guy just dropped another gem 😂hes cute but men shouldnt say pickme! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 04:23 AM |
| 25 | The Scam of Pre-Liberation Heterosexuality Laid BARE: Vintage Valentines 🔪💔why are they all vaguely or overtly threatening hahaha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 04:03 AM |
| 11 | Vincent Cassel and his girlfriend. 31 years of age difference. This is disgusting.agreed she seems way too good for him. i wish she hadn't taken his name. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 04:00 AM |
| 8 | Vincent Cassel and his girlfriend. 31 years of age difference. This is disgusting.lol no wonder he played the creepy ballet instructor in black swan so well. zero self awareness 🙄how do you take a role like that and not, like, self-reflect at all?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 03:53 AM |
| 14 | He locks himself in the bathroom for minimum 2 hours a day leaving her with the kids in the morning. He “used” to have a porn addiction. Who’s going to tell her?WHY DO SO MANY WOMEN NEVER SAY HOW THEY FEEL?! WHY WHY WHY WHY WHY??? WHY DO WE THINK ITS A VIRTUE TO BITE OUR TONGUES?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 03:51 AM |
| 23 | Men who don't ask questions (99.9%)Ha yup. My PhD advisor didn't even follow up with my when a family member of mine died. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 10:34 PM |
| 7 | Men who don't ask questions (99.9%)Tbh I find that this is a very rare human trait in general | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 10:33 PM |
| 9 | The LVM on Valentine's Dayugh im so sorry! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 01:33 AM |
| 2 | Why overt and extreme misogyny is a problem even for misogynists: It results in women being armed with knowledge misogynists never intended them to have (that they are openly hated, and they will be hated no matter what they do), and this activates women’s “jezebel” side.😂😂😂😂 yea my ex was that fucking bad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 01:22 AM |
| 5 | Author of “Cannibalism Play” Cosmo Article Responds.hahahhahahahahah | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 12:16 AM |
| 26 | A Queen Grandmama.hahaha my grandma did the same thing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 12:16 AM |
| 7 | Queens don't waste our energy on greasy ass napkins.😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 03:35 PM |
| 41 | A thought about sex work: your clients don't think you are working, they think you are performing what every woman should do for free.Why don’t they all just fucking hug one another?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/21 07:41 PM |
| 10 | The importance of learning to think "not my problem" when a man tries to make you responsible for any of his issues or mess or dickhey just wanted to reach out and say i relate to a lot of what you're saying, being lonely in gradschool, being a "friendship pickme" to avoid loneliness, not having time to meet lots of people b/c it is so time consuming to study... just wanted to let you know you're not alone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 02:18 AM |
| 39 | I'm under no obligation to be fake nice to men! This is not Chick Fil A!i got called a "racist bitch" the other day because I ignored a black man incessantly trying to get my attention on the street. I live in a major city where I quickly learned to ignore ALL men talking to me on the street... but I guess he took it personally and said "racist bitch, I was asking for directions, not money." 🤷🏻♀️ ok? You're still not entitled to my time or attention. Plus, why was he singling me out? There were tons of other people walking around, and he was literally right next to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 05:25 PM |
| 2 | Love it! Maybe gouge out your own eyes, boys ❤️I love this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 10:05 AM |
| 9 | Dumped Him For Suggesting That I Pay Rent to Temporarily Stay at His HouseOmg are u serious | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 11:31 PM |
| 9 | Word.true omg. Did the same thing! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 02:32 AM |
| 3 | Her scrote husband strung her along by future faking about adopting a child. Men will lie about absolutely anything to tie a woman downhaha sister knows whats up. this is so sad but good for her if shes able to do it on her own, it will be way better in the long run! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 10:57 PM |
| 2 | When he says he loves smart/strong women...What topics? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 04:06 AM |
| 24 | I want girls and young women everywhere to experience this epiphany!I love the song "most girls" by Hailee Steinfeld, same message! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 01:52 AM |
| 13 | Not enough boobs!!!!! /sYES! It's so amazing that people don't see these movies as the male-valorizing propaganda they are! Like it's so obvious when men watch these movies that they identify with Bruce Willis and think, yea, if I were in that situation, I'd totally be a badass and fight off all the bad guys, yeah, totally.. and when he gets the hot girl in the end, that's how they see themselves ending up too, these movies are part of what teaches them what they're "owed" in life... barf. just cuz it's everywhere does… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 07:04 PM |
| 7 | If women are naturally golddigging, hypergamous, shallow wh+res like the scrotes say...how come we can't just blame mUh BioLogY like men do?Tbf this is a main tenet of red pill, that they have to "accept women's true natures" (AWALT = "all women are like that", one of their most oft-repeated phrases) and act accordingly. In other words: they claim women are cheating whores who only like alphas, so they should act like alphas and treat a woman like dogshit to keep her around, and this will make her happy and is actually what she wants in the long run! otherwise if you're kind she will "beta bux" you aka use you for financial security… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 06:59 PM |
| 7 | We'll make our own rules now, thanksShe looks pretty neutral to me tbh... just cuz a woman isn't smiling doesn't mean she's angry... "RBF", "smile honey it can't be that bad"... just pointing out that there's a cultural prescription for us to constantly be smiling and cheery and just cuz a woman isn't smiling doesn't mean they're angry or upset or anything! Just neutral! This looks like an old picture where it took so long for the photograph to be taken that it didn't make sense to smile | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 06:57 PM |
| 5 | Just another story about how men are 'genius', even when a woman was killed...What the fuck? What is wrong with this world? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 06:55 PM |
| 11 | "Men don't care about your career, all we want is a woman who is young, reasonably attractive, and with a tolerable personality"Ugh, it's so pathetic and short-sighted... how are they the rational sex again? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 06:47 PM |
| 2 | "Men don't care about your career, all we want is a woman who is young, reasonably attractive, and with a tolerable personality"lmao XD yeah i was talking to my dad about this, he grew up working class but is pretty solidly middle class now after working as an engineer for many years... he said he finds rich men to be much more competitive than working class ones. Like everything you have, they want it to, they're always looking over their shoulder and over the fence to see what somebody else has and trying to one up them. Makes sense that they aren't able to turn this off when interacting with a woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 06:38 PM |
| 29 | "Men don't care about your career, all we want is a woman who is young, reasonably attractive, and with a tolerable personality"Honestly most men are so poorly socialized. They literally never learned to get along with others, to be civilized, to have fucking manners. Their parents spoil them rotten and ooh and aah over them being complete assholes, acting like it's just utterly fucking adorable that they're such jerks. That's basically what bravado is, being a rude jerk who doesn't care about the consequences of their actions. And it's somehow valorized in our world. Yeah maybe these traits were useful pre-civilization … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 06:32 PM |
| 5 | Protect your energy from everyoneYea I have a friend who in some ways seemed high value but over time i just realized she is utterly self interested. For whatever reason she just never reciprocated the energy and consideration I poured into our friendship, but was happy to keep taking from me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 10:22 PM |
| 3 | This was a reply to a woman asking for help bc her boyfriend ogles half naked Instagram photos of a woman in her friend group and even subscribed to her OF where she posts sex videosThis is why women just need to leave when a dude starts acting up. Think about how hard it is to change your own behavior. Changing someone else is practically impossible especially when the action you’re trying to get them to change betrays a baseline level of disrespect | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 03:57 PM |
| 5 | The men (and women) in the comments are LOSING IT 😂HAHAHAHA queen | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 02:32 AM |
| 4 | I remember hearing it as a kid and thinking « so that’s how boys behave in a relationship.. » THANK YOU Ciara - Like A Boy (Official Video) !!I thought beyonce's "if i were a boy" totally ripped this off haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 07:59 PM |
| 16 | Hate to see it. Note that the only happy employee is a man who doesn't have to witness or experience the sexual harassment first handTo be honest, I think that's part of the appeal. It turns them on to feel powerful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 07:54 PM |
| 2 | Ouch, this stung. Being the needy one in a relationship really sucked and was always a direct result of me having low self-esteem. I'm still trying to grow into better relationships and value myself more.Basically every relationship I’ve ever been in, especially #9. I actually was starting to think that I had to accept stagnation as part of a romantic relationship :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 03:24 PM |
| 9 | The Qanon ‘shaman’ with horns and bearskin recently arrested for storming the Capitol is a stay at home dad who is addicted to drugs and judging by the telltale bald head, a porn addict as well. The jokes write themselves ladiesYup. This is literally what happened to my mom... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 02:52 AM |
| 14 | Is he motivating you towards your goals or is he a distraction? Is your relationship a liability or an asset?Yup | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 07:11 AM |
| 4 | Wife gets cancer and husband abandons her at the hospitalWOW. Only 18 months. I cannot believe he thinks this is okay. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 11:57 PM |
| 10 | Don’t be the “live-in girlfriend” for someone that will leave you in a heartbeatyeah but she said that she cultivated this vibe on purpose after being overly sexualized in one of her movies as a preteen/teen. like people had those "countdown to 18" clocks for her etc. So she tried to appear as bookish and unsexual as possible to avoid that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 04:23 PM |
| 10 | Why do men do this, it really irritates me. If you know you're not ready for a relationship or don't want one with her, then just leave her alone. Don't string a woman along just to feed your ego.sex. its literally that simple. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 11:04 PM |
| 5 | Why children should take their mother’s surname instead of their father’sagreed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 09:23 PM |
| 7 | We honor our female ancestors by living a life they could have only ever dreamed of.I honestly find this perspective beautiful. Thanks so much. :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 08:07 PM |
| 7 | Real Big Brain sh!t there!tina fey has been side-eyeing liberal feminism/hookup culture for a while, love her | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 06:43 PM |
| 3 | It's time to decenter men in your life, period.fuck so true. i've made so many decisions around men who didn't even fucking like me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 06:16 PM |
| 5 | Men, on a thread about engagement rings. But women are the gold-diggers, amirite? 🙄Yuppppppppppp ugh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 11:25 PM |
| 2 | Men, on a thread about engagement rings. But women are the gold-diggers, amirite? 🙄Ugh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 11:25 PM |
| 13 | Cher tells it like it isas a former mega-pickme, I can attest that this is the truth lol. I literally thought it was better to have a terrible boyfriend who treated me like crap than to not have one at all, and it was almost like a crisis of faith when a friend asked me why I didn't just let myself be and not force the relationship when he clearly didnt give a crap about me. I was so ashamed that I got mad at her, even though I knew she was right. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 02:47 AM |
| 19 | Cher tells it like it isFOR REAL! The fact that that's her first response is so freaking pathetic! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 06:33 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 30 2020To be honest I would go for the money and try to get your MD or PA if your grades and stats are good enough. There is more job stability, even though the job is likely more stressful - but you can live anywhere you want and really have full financial independence. You aren't going to want to live in a 1 br apartment forever - think longer term. With an MD or PA salary you can buy real property for yourself. Even though you said you don't want children, imagine having the independence to buy your… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 06:07 PM |
| 14 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 30 2020How do you guys deal with loneliness? :(. I can barely even keep any friends around who don't end up walking all over me. No wonder I used to jump into relationships with LVM. I get so discouraged by realizing how little I am valued. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 05:55 PM |
| 6 | High standards are a form of self-careYes! This perspective is so freeing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 06:03 PM |
| 2 | Can we send an FDS rescue squad for this woman?ugggggh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 07:33 PM |
| 2 | A tactic LVM use to get you to chase themI’m a PhD candidate in Systems Biology. I know what a SNP is (and it actually stands for single nucleotide polymorphism). Usually these associations are overblown. And CRISPR work on humans, particularly to edit for social traits, is science fiction. Never going to happen. It is unethical. Someone else mentioned height. Height is actually an extremely complex trait that can’t be pinned down to a single gene. While they have identified genes associated with self-reported psychometric scores meant… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 12:16 PM |
| 4 | A tactic LVM use to get you to chase themSorry but this is not how biology works haha. There is no single gene that produces a complex emergent property such as empathy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 11:29 PM |
| 3 | I am officially deleting all my dating apps. This is the second time in two days that shit like this has happened to me. FUCK MEN!Seriously that pissed me off just reading it! He blatantly tried to turn it around on her. THE AUDACITY! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 11:50 PM |
| 56 | Why do modern men act like taking a woman out on a date is a 'chore' and not a privilege?Nailed it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 03:46 PM |
| 7 | So many men say they want a smart woman...GREAT point, explains a lot honestly. It affects their relationships with their female students as well. So many of them just can’t accept it when their students understand something better than they do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 02:40 PM |
| 8 | Just a weekly reminder to drop your toxic friends. They're draining your sanity and your time.I feel like I am and have been this woman at times, but I'm trying so so hard to level up and get rid of my own toxicity! A lot of my family members are like this too - super pickme levels. It's hard to escape from it, but I am praying and working as hard as I can on self-reflection and planning etc to do so! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 06:30 PM |
| 2 | Must be under 5’5, fit, submissive, and stepmother to 4.The fucking audacity | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 02:20 PM |
| 5 | Stay single, sishahaha i love that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/20 01:03 PM |
| 29 | Stay single, sisit's CRAZY how ingrained this is. I literally feel guilty whenever I'm happy/having fun, as if I'm doing something wrong. Definitely comes from my parents (or at least my mom) who believed women should be as miserable as possible and give 1000% to everyone but themselves in order to be "worth" something | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/20 01:02 PM |
| 18 | Stay single, sisughhh my fucking ex did this shit. i got a job as a fucking phd student (which are unbelievably low paying but at least I had a steady income) while he was still in pharmacy school and he'd ask me to buy shit for him all the time. and I FUCKING DID!!!!!!!! SMDH | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/20 01:01 PM |
| 4 | Lvm looking for a bjUgh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 07:56 PM |
| 10 | Men don’t understand or care about the consequences of their selfish actions. I hate that women will destruct themselves to build up a shitty man.:/ why would you try to take assets away from his son that he made before he even met you? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 02:59 PM |
| 12 | Ahhh emotionally abusing your wife for tiktok clout. How romantic!😍just like..literally what is the logic of people who treat their partners like this. how can someone be so fucked up and backwards as to take the most intimate and important relationship in their lives and just... ruin it by being a piece of shit. It actually blows my mind the more I think about it. We have such limited time on this earth, why would anyone waste it by being mean to someone who loves them? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 05:34 PM |
| 32 | Ahhh emotionally abusing your wife for tiktok clout. How romantic!😍my ex always did this, ugh. he would just randomly insult me and like purposefully patronize me to "put me in my place" in his baby voice (and literally anything was fair game - my appearance, my intelligence, anything) and then if I got upset he'd laugh and quickly say i love you. But saying sorry was out of the question. ugh what a piece of work, why are men like this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 05:30 PM |
| 4 | Just when I thought I had seen it all: I was approached by a man who asked me to do work for him, FOR FREE, as a way to flirt with me.is that a stereotype of men from the balkans? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/20 10:59 PM |
| 9 | We've been talking for five minutes and he's already asking for nudes. Should have been way more harsh with this guy, but hey, I'm learning.Ugh what a loser | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/19 01:01 PM |
| 9 | This is why you never settle!Same 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/19 12:55 PM |
| 16 | “Male desire confers no distinction.“:( the last paragraph. me too sis. its rough but i'm trying to lean into my female friendships which tend to be more reciprocal | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/19 05:37 AM |
| 3 | I ain’t sitting there😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/19 07:20 AM |
| 12 | When your husband send you a bouquet just because, you know you got a good one :)Cute! Happy for u sis | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/19 05:58 AM |
| 1 | How to train Womeni couldnt even read the first page. it was so vile and hateful. UGH. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/19 08:53 PM |
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