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I’m an ABDL, which doesn’t involve pain for anyone, but might not be the most comfortable for the wrong partner. It’s one of those things you either get or don’t. To be fair, a lot of people don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 08:22 PM
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I also feel like our respective relationship experiences point to a potential flaw in these kinds of discussions. One the hand, it’s easy to see why such emphasis is given to sexual experience — we learn and grow through experience in general, and sexuality is an important facet to the human experience more broadly. Bearing both of these in mind, it’s easy to see why some individuals would deem those lacking experience as missing some vital piece of the human experience/growth. However, I think …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 11:58 PM
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I’m glad I found something that works for me as well, although I would be hesitant to say I “waited” for an accommodating partner. Back when I was still single, I more or less took it as a given that no partner would indulge this side of myself. In retrospect, though, I am grateful I didn’t fall into a relationship where it wouldn’t be accepted. It’s been beneficial for my mental health to be able to express it freely, that I couldn’t imagine having to repress it. But my inexperience and self-do…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 07:31 PM
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Thought I’d chime in with a man’s perspective, especially since this post has already been met from males whose experiences/positions counter the OP’s. From the vantage point of a male who lost his virginity at 31, there’s some truth to what you say. Granted, this is also the vantage point of a kinkster who was aware from an early age that his desires would be hard sell for a potential partner. In other words, a lot partners would be the wrong partner — though I wouldn’t go so far as to there is…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 05:14 PM
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The central idea is contradictory. Self-improvement has more to do with character development than desirable outcomes. It is often moral in nature. A self-improvement that breeds resentment cannot be self-improvement at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 07:05 PM
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I think most people espousing this position need to consider the “width,” for lack of a better term, of their hobbies. Speaking for partner and I, we’re a success story in meeting through hobbies. However, our specific weren’t the same — but they do overlap. I compose music and write fiction. She is a makeup artist. We met on the set on an independent/student film, and have been together ever since.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 08:43 PM
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What makes kink “sexual junk food” as you so put it? I get that they might seem trivial at first glance. Maybe, in and of themselves, they are trivial. The same could be said for vanilla sex at times, too. What also deserves to be said is that some kinks come with a lot of shame and stigma attached, and finding a willing, enthusiastic partner to engage them with can be an authentic and even profound bonding experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 08:30 PM
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Why would a kink relationship be less fulfilling?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 05:24 PM
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Thanks for your reply. While I don’t doubt, nor would it be within my right to question or dismiss, your experience, I’ve often felt that there’s a degree of unfair assumptions about inexperienced or virginal adults and some of these are reflected in the response. Here I want to stress that I’m not accusing you of being unfair — as my sense is informed by my own experience, which may have its own problems. I lost my virginity a week after my 31st birthday (to my now partner of nearly 4 years), a…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 09:55 PM
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One issue I see with this stance is the relative rarity of people in such circumstances. It could, potentially, make it easier to assert positions like the one above (that someone experiencing heartbreak for the first time is going to be equivalent to a teenager’s first experience) without the burden of needing to give examples. Let me ask: is this something you’ve observed (with any frequency) in the inexperienced adults you’ve met, assuming you’ve met many?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 07:54 PM
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Would one of those somethings happen to be a kink/fetish that may have hard time reconciling themselves to before pursuing a relationship? Does that constitute something wrong? If so, the DSM might disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 08:43 PM
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Here’s what might be a potential grey area: fetishes. Not that fetishes themselves are considered problematic (they’re generally considered healthy, with some exceptions), but cultural biases and stigmas about these practices lead to common assumptions that something is wrong with them. Excluding enthusiastic kinksters, it must be said that growing up with a fetish and reconciling oneself to their sexuality is a difficult process in many of these cases. Barring a few extreme/problematic interest…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 06:03 PM
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Forward your complaints to the School of Athens.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 05:49 AM
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I don’t see why not, though I wouldn’t phrase it like that. Most people have the capacity to be rational, even if their behavior might say otherwise. It’s not too big an ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 06:53 PM
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How? By imposing reason on one’s natural inclinations. A person without confidence or skill would probably lack a reason to be confident, but it’s not as far-fetched for someone with a great deal of anxiety to recognize, on a rational level, that their anxiety is irrational. Doesn’t mean they don’t feel it, but the rational perspective governs the action.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 05:20 PM
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Not only would you not want to date such a person, but given the influence relationships have on us, not the kind of person you should want to become like.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 04:40 PM
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It’s not saying “just have courage” so much as “practice courageous acts.”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 03:56 PM
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Thank you for raising this important objection. However, I feel the need to clarify/expand on a few important points. First, the danger is not physical danger. But dating can carry social risks, depending on how one behaves. Secondly, it doesn’t seem clear that real danger is completely necessary to exercise courage if the person in question has an anxious/fearful disposition. Social anxiety can be a torturous experience, and courage can be exercised against such states of mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 11:18 PM
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Yeah, it does seem that sentiments like the one you were responding to reflect a lack of imagination on the part of some people too. Like there’s some assembly-line process necessary to become a well-rounded adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 06:07 PM
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Can we be sure those skills are necessarily developed by the first relationship, or if they were developed at the same time as that relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 04:03 PM
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Apologies, I didn’t mean to imply that you assumed they were all social autists, just that similar statements lack the qualification you made, and thus, tends to have a more generalized quality elsewhere. As far as the point about sex goes, it’s hard to dispute that it can take a bit of practice. Still, isn’t the more direct concern the relationship inexperience that tends come along with sexual inexperience? That was my impression, at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 09:23 PM
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I think that’s a plausible assumption, and it’s far more reasonable to assume that virgins must lack these skills completely. But that can a lead to a few other questions like: are those particular skills of greater importance than the ones that don’t require prior relationship experience? Also, what role does to indirect experience play? I agree that love isn’t enough on its own to overcome incompatibilities in values and lifestyles. We aren’t mindreaders, that’s true, but there are a few thing…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 07:56 PM
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Question is: are those relationships skills learned only in the context of romantic relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 05:43 PM
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I agree that cases where there’s a lack of opportunity undermine the validity — and I say this while adding that, in some cases, its validity may still be questioned even where opportunities are present. I also think this points to one of the problems we have when talking about this subject: there’s a tendency to frame the sexually inexperienced person by what they haven’t experienced than by what they have (non-sexually). But even if we accept that virginity loss is some sort of transformative …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 08:52 PM
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You make some great points here. In fact, think what you’re saying here points to one of the better objections to the view of sexual début-as-transformative-experience: most, if not all, of the common examples of transformative experiences are those that are actually the culmination of long processes. Getting laid doesn’t take that long, at least in relation to the two people having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 08:38 PM
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I guess it was a good thing I stopped before going into my own rebuttals lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 06:29 PM
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