LittleRainSiaoYu Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	FWB is the best relationship for both modern men and women Okay.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/24 03:18 PM
0	FWB is the best relationship for both modern men and women Perhaps you need glasses, but my whole point is that most older men aren't in a position to date young women, who in the vast majority of cases won't be interested in them. Not sure what you're upset about, is it that I'm suggesting older guys often wish (in vain) that they could date younger, hotter women that are out of reach?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/24 02:56 PM
1	FWB is the best relationship for both modern men and women A) Not talking about men. I'm not (only), either. Just as you say many women who are childless "by choice" are terrified of getting pregnant, many men are only slightly less terrified of impregnating a woman; but a stupidly large number of men still feel strongly compelled to do it without the condom because "it feels better." What I think is really happening is that a deeper, more primal part of their brain is trying to impregnate women. When women break up with men who don't impregnate them, m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/24 01:16 PM
4	FWB is the best relationship for both modern men and women There's a lot going on under the hood in both men and women they might not be fully conscious of. For example, even guys who say they want a life full of fun, free and fancy casual sex often feel uncomfortable about the idea of getting snipped to facilitate just that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/24 12:47 PM
5	FWB is the best relationship for both modern men and women I don't think it is all social programming. In fact, my suspicion although I'll admit I have no evidence at all for this is that women in childless relationships are more likely to cheat or get divorced than women with kids, not just because it's more convenient and easier to, but because subconsciously women feel like if her man isn't fucking her pregnant he's defective.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/24 12:15 PM
3	FWB is the best relationship for both modern men and women That will make sex feel increasingly mechanical and pointless. Also, as other people have pointed out, if it really turns into every man (and women) for himself, as a dude you will be the one dropped and swapped out. Older guys in FWB relationships are basically asking to eventually be replaced by a younger, fitter model who can fuck harder and has harder abs or whatever. Again, not saying it's any different from marriage or LTR these days.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/24 12:06 PM
15	FWB is the best relationship for both modern men and women As people get older, they have less energy for the party lifestyle. It's also easier for older people to fall into feeling melancholy, bitter, or cynical about basically everything. Constantly shuffling between people you don't really care about to scratch a biological itch like an animal isn't, I think, a recipe for happiness.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/24 12:03 PM
3	FWB is the best relationship for both modern men and women Not really, though. Eventually, you'll get older: and while being a cool guy who gets to bang a lot of chicks (and tbh, most single guys are not doing that, not without paying) but never settle down like a rolling stone sounds cool to young guys... what's it going to be like being that guy propping up the bar or swiping blindly on Tinder when you're 40, or 50? And how are you really going to feel about going on dates with extremely jaded, experienced women your age when you're that old who also …	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/24 11:58 AM
1	Why people overestimate how difficult is for women to get commitment ? Their view of how easy it is for women to get a real relationship or a ring on it is fossilized and stuck in the past, just like so many aspects of dating and marriage still are. It's often forgotten in these debates that men are withdrawing commitment from average women just about as quickly as women are withdrawing the sex, putting it bluntly; and for essentially the same reason - increasingly, ordinary members of both sexes perceive that they are being treated badly. Average women don't want …	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/24 10:59 AM
12	Would you consider the following dating complaints to be valid if they came from a man? Chads unironically do this (a lot of attractive guys are insulted by the presumption that they are horndogs up for being community dick and are as desperate as the average slob; some will be tactful about it because of the misogyny meme, but they basically think like Staceys with penises, i.e. very judgmentally). They're not saying No Fat Chicks, but they're definitely thinking it. Other guys who complain about women hitting on them include basically all dudes with money, and expats overseas who…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/24 09:57 AM
2	Passport bros are actually hurting western men’s reputation in some countries Pretty sure it was a black guy thing that spread to the general community, a lot like other modern dating lingo like simping and save-a-ho.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/24 09:08 AM
1	Passport bros are actually hurting western men’s reputation in some countries Thing is, if some local guys and feminists band together to purposefully make it more difficult for them, they won't get a fairer shake anymore.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/24 09:06 AM
6	Passport bros are actually hurting western men’s reputation in some countries You say this as a joke, but it's kind of... true? It is telling how much more flak Western visitors in many parts of the developing world get now than they used to, back when they had more wealth, power and influence compared to locals virtually everywhere. I'm guessing there a few things going on here. One, people feel more free to express their true feelings obviously given that it's not going to get them punished the way it might have once done (not exactly the same, but this is very much par…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/24 04:30 AM
2	Passport bros are actually hurting western men’s reputation in some countries Let's face it, men are not that well liked anywhere period, that goes twice for single men. Being foreign just ups it that much more, especially in a world where dating apps and social media are already making a) life more difficult for most men and b) making women more and more paranoid about "creeps" and "abusers." I mean think about it: even back in the 19th and early 20th centuries, most young men in developing nations were married or on their way to be, barring exceptional slackers and unfo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/24 04:24 AM
–	Changes post “I do” I mean with guys it's more just being less simpy/romantic and also stuff like getting fat (that admittedly women do too).	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/24 02:06 PM
0	Women are unfair in dating so there’s no obligation for men to be fair in dating Yeah this is a good point. The sort of guys in a position to "get away with" anything are doing it already. Although admittedly even attractive guys can get MeToo'd in the end, they are on a much, much longer leash.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/24 10:14 AM
0	Women are unfair in dating so there’s no obligation for men to be fair in dating What's comical about it? They don't like it, and have moved (with remarkable effectiveness) to stamp it out. You act like anyone is going to turn into a pillar of salt when you point out their hypocrisies. In practice, they will just work harder to shut down any forum where these hypocrisies can be talked about at all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/24 05:59 AM
-1	Women are unfair in dating so there’s no obligation for men to be fair in dating Why can’t men be ruthless and unfair and brutally seek out what they want the same way women do? The real answer to your question is: because society (including most men) will seek to punish them for doing so. Obviously. Some of these punishments are criminal (in the case of, for example, prostitution and punitive age of consent laws). Some of these punishments are civil, but still severe: (how divorce courts treat married men in divorce, for example, is an excellent way to make husbands, but no…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/24 05:48 AM
11	Are many guys here not interested in casual sex? I think there are increasingly large numbers of men who aren't particularly interested in casual sex per se, but also are increasingly aware that long-term relationships aren't necessarily in their interest, for obvious reasons that have been beaten to death on this sub. There's no contradiction here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/24 01:58 PM
1	PickUp was great for young men, RedPill is bad for everyone Didn't you already post this?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/24 11:57 AM
–	There is nothing inherently wrong with men dating much younger women They don't for two reasons: One, coomery and stupidity, some men genuinely think getting it in regardless how or why is a win for themselves so they assume it's always a win for every other man too. Two, some men know relationships can be bad for men, but they see other men being yoked to the proverbial plough and forced to settle down as a win for society and putting money in their pocket. Every woman made quote unquote decent out there has a man made to take responsibility and pay up when she …	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/24 08:13 AM
–	There is nothing inherently wrong with men dating much younger women This would be a fair enough point - if society also defended naive young men from being lured into exploitative relationships in the same way (regardless the age of the woman). But of course, it doesn't: if anything, it tries to push young men into them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/24 08:02 AM
4	There is nothing inherently wrong with men dating much younger women Remember, young women and girls are both helpless manipulable putty and playthings in the hands of aging playboys, but also naturally suspicious and grossed out by anyone more than six months to a year older than them (for being inexperienced, stunted losers) and you have no chance. At the same time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/24 05:17 AM
1	Two parents tell their kids the cash in on their smv when it's the highest? There's no such thing as cashing in anymore, because people (and by people, I mean women) can and will leave relationships if they're not feeling it anymore. You can't count on getting married at 29.999 going bald and fat a few years later and necessarily "getting away with it." And to be honest, it's not really desirable either. There is no optimal strategy here; if you go down, your life is likely going down regardless what age you are or what position you are in. I don't think life in this re…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/24 12:20 PM
1	Women can't have agency while also being perpetual victims The point here, though, is that there's a difference between you can't do that and you can't do that unless your parents agree. The former implies absolute incapacity. I think that also, historically, there was more of an acceptance of even adults being in dependent relationships where they weren't entirely free or responsible. A good example of this is married women historically being legally in the custody of their husband, who was responsible for their good behaviour, to the extent of potenti…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/24 01:53 AM
1	Women can't have agency while also being perpetual victims The age of majority is only tangentially relevant to the topic of our thread, though. Although I will concede that law by definition did subject young people to the will of their parents in all things until that age and that you have proven yourself correct on this point, it didn't preclude them from being active members of society in a number of ways. One could work and pay taxes, have sex and get married, be convicted of a crime and go to prison, join the army etc. before this age. There is a …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/24 01:45 AM
1	Women can't have agency while also being perpetual victims My reference is the laws of the United Kingdom. To the best of my knowledge, when it comes to specific legal liabilities and rights, the laws of the United States were historically very similar. What specific rights or responsibilities did Americans gain or receive at the age of 21? Is this referring to the voting age?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/24 01:34 AM
3	Women can't have agency while also being perpetual victims No, the age of majority has been 18 for centuries. This is not true; for most of history for example the age of consent in most nations, where such a law existed, was in the early- to mid-teens, while, for example, the income tax of 1842 was applied to ALL incomes over 150 pounds, regardless the age of the person. To join the army, one was legally supposed to be at least seventeen years of age. You had to be under seven to avoid criminal responsibility.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/24 01:12 AM
4	The entire “if a girl is really into you, you’ll know and there is nothing that can dissuade her” narrative really needs to die already. This is completely false, and is misleading generations of men. Posts like this and comments agreeing with it are sadly amusing in what they reveal about the men posting them. Believe those of us in this thread who are saying that when women are really into you, you will know. Because when they're actually interested, women do precisely the very same sort of unmistakable slutty and aggressive things men on the prowl do around women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/24 01:08 PM
3	People used to openly acknowledge that women liked assholes until Blue Pillers fabricated this whole narrative, making it a taboo subject and trying to shame people for it If true, how is this not an incredible whitepill? If women literally and unironically want you to put yourself first, be proud and do what you want. The only bad thing about this preference is if it comes with P.S. Chads only, but that's a separate matter.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/24 02:12 PM
2	What do you think is contributing to the male loneliness epidemic? The dark redpill here is quite simple: Women despise men who are powerless. Increasingly, that's 99% of all men. It goes beyond sex, and is really simply a question of power. As a man, not having it is despicable. Even if you might consider yourself completely "blameless," whatever that would mean, there's nothing good about being so; and there's little argument you can make that women somehow should still love and want to be with a man without it. Men aren't insecure because they don't have the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/24 12:46 PM
1	Are guys maturing faster than women in the US and that's a problem? Not exactly, it's not higher, but different.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/24 07:23 AM
2	Are guys maturing faster than women in the US and that's a problem? My cynical take on this is that these days there are more young guys trying to pull beta game and branding themselves as the nice relationship guy as a way to get some, which is why there are more men wanting relationships at that age than women, which would not have been the case in the past. To assume it has something to do with maturity is probably an outdated way of looking at it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/24 04:38 AM
0	Men are seen as more creepy doing the same actions as women. Let's debate Forest for the trees; consider the broader point about what is and is not considered wrong, and what is and is not considered a crime. You are correct that infanticide has existed in many cultures. Once again: Nitpicking. That was just part of a broader point: that it's much more socially accepted AND legal for teenage girls to have abortions (rather than a scandal, as it would have been in the past, not just for moral reasons related to the destruction of the unborn, but because of prevailing s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/24 01:39 PM
2	Men are seen as more creepy doing the same actions as women. Let's debate Think about it a bit more.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/24 01:57 AM
1	Men are seen as more creepy doing the same actions as women. Let's debate Nitpicking. That was just part of a broader point: that it's much more socially accepted AND legal for teenage girls to have abortions (rather than a scandal, as it would have been in the past, not just for moral reasons related to the destruction of the unborn, but because of prevailing standards of sexual morality). All kinds of things that would have been greatly taboo OR illegal historically are legal and more socially accepted today, and all kinds of things that would have been accepted or …	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/24 01:54 AM
2	Men are seen as more creepy doing the same actions as women. Let's debate IIRC, there is also a disparity in criminal sentencing between men and women though... like in the case of black people, it seems likely we're doing more crime, but also doing more time than others would when caught doing the same thing. It's also heresy to say it in this day and age, but let's face it, the list of things that are illegal is very long these days. It's not like the average criminal is a killer, rapist, literal thief who took something from a store without paying, or ravished a yo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/24 01:34 AM
7	Men are seen as more creepy doing the same actions as women. Let's debate My biggest fear is not getting laid This is a glib and no offense short-sighted line. There are other things men might reasonably be anxious or even frightened of when meeting and getting intimate with women, and if you think about it for literally a few minutes, they will come to you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/24 01:31 AM
1	Men are seen as more creepy doing the same actions as women. Let's debate Point taken, and maybe you're right that this is beside the point and it's unfair. I still think my idea kinda works as a way of minimising this reaction.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/24 01:29 AM
6	Men are seen as more creepy doing the same actions as women. Let's debate There's a bit of a whitepill here, in that everything creepy you just described involves being introverted and keeping to yourself. When you keep yourself to yourself, people don't know your intentions, and can fill in the gaps with something bad. While it's possible to be extroverted and creepy, it's harder. The more you go around acting like you have nothing to hide, the less creepy you will seem, for the most part even as an ugly fat guy. The rejoinder to this is that doing the wrong thing so…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/24 12:50 AM
1	CMV: Forcing people who don't want children/marriage to do it anyways doesn't always make a better society It is surely not controversial to say that, tragic as every individual death may be, not really very many Israelis die as a result of suicide bombings or other acts of terrorism, either in absolute terms, or proportionally. I agree that the way I phrased above may come across as somewhat flippant and even callous; it is, nevertheless, substantially true. Do you disagree?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/24 06:33 AM
-1	CMV: Forcing people who don't want children/marriage to do it anyways doesn't always make a better society Not many. Israel has a pretty outstanding K/D ratio.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/24 04:40 AM
10	Humans will eventually become a male-only species. Even in the modern age, male children in the East are prized far more than female children. There are already millions more men than women in the East due to the sheer number of sex selective abortions and other methods to "deal with" unwanted female children. This isn't true anymore, OP. I've noticed a pattern on this sub, and in the West in general: their impression of Asia and the world outside the West generally is stuck in the 1980s, it's taken for granted and assumed that social and politi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/24 11:58 PM
0	CMV: Forcing people who don't want children/marriage to do it anyways doesn't always make a better society Israel seems to do a good job of getting people to have kids.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/24 11:50 PM
2	Men only have importance to women as providers. Ding ding ding.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/24 02:04 PM
5	To all the women out there saying they want a man with "emotional intelligence"... Women are biologically programmed to get aroused by fantasy and 'stories'....I e. Bullshit, and of course it's just living in a house built on sand. a) This is an exaggeration. b) Men like fantasy and stories, too. Most political and social ideologies (which are more of a province of men) are all about fantasy and stories.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/24 05:27 AM
2	Men of this sub, do you believe that most men have practically no standards? Not most men and practically no standards; but a lot of men, and low standards, which is enough to change the curve entirely.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/24 04:43 AM
–	Bluepillers and/or women, I want you to explain this I thought chuddies are mostly cool with Ukrainians though? Because they're hwhite, even if like Russia, it actually is kinda gangsta (and by extension, its people too)	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/24 05:56 PM
–	Bluepillers and/or women, I want you to explain this Not bluepill or woman, so I guess I have to comment here. I'm surprised she's using the phrase men's shelter rather than homeless shelter. The term homeless shelter (fairly or not) more immediately brings to mind images of alcoholism, drugs, bad smells, violence, etc. while men's shelter is obviously more gender war-y. Homeless shelter gets the message across (poor outcast man bad) without saying the quiet part out loud.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/24 05:39 PM
3	A lot of women have an exponential amount of dating/relationship experience in their life, which simultaneously helps them reach their full potential, but men have far more untapped potential that exceeds women when it comes to knowledge in dating/relationships. women are more likely to admit to being\ abused in relationships* FTFY, also think of all the dudes who are run through the divorce wringer and just have to grin and bear it, gotta man up! Right there that's a lot of abuse that's basically normalised, doing a smash and grab on a dude because you got bored is just an occupational hazard for the Nice Guy types who fall for the marriage meme.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/24 06:12 AM
6	Women cannot accurately assess the wall themselves To be honest though, increasing numbers of both men and women don't want to marry any more; at all. So I don't know if this is quite the threat you think it is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/24 09:18 AM
-2	All men are predators? Or irrational fear? The hilarious irony is that women are more frightened and paranoid than they used to be because men aren't as aggressive and violent as they once were. This doesn't make sense to most men, because they aren't putting their caveman glasses on, they are out of touch with primal human instincts. But the evidence is all around us: anyone being remotely honest must concede to the truth that men do the stuff women say they're frightened of less than ever before. Men beat women less. Men rape them less…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/24 02:20 AM
1	Why do red pillers completely leave out young women's preference when discussing "the wall" This: older women are paranoid about their husbands cheating with younger women. Especially if said husbands are part of the attractive minority.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/24 12:04 AM
1	Why do red pillers completely leave out young women's preference when discussing "the wall" I just don't believe older women when they say they're attracting the men they want. As you say yourself, older men and younger men alike have a preference for younger women. So it's reasonable to assume the most attractive minority of the older men both are able to, and do, date younger women. Which leads us to the conclusion that older women are mostly dating same-age and older men they aren't that attracted to. It also seems like older women are sincere when they wax lyrical about how unattra…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 11:58 PM
3	Consequences for high status men High status men aren't punished by hookup culture per se, but by the backlash against it. To the best of my knowledge, he wasn't prosecuted, but the System did for example turn on Russell Brand. It's perhaps true that the Chad that can be MeToo'd is not the eternal Chad; but guys who in any ordinary sense would be considered attractive do get hit with this stuff, although like with so much else, it's less likely to stick to them. Chad and especially Gigachad is less likely to be MeToo'd for runn…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 05:04 AM
26	Why are female “red pillers” called pick me’s? Female red pillers That's not what pick me's are. They are essentially female simps.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/24 05:38 AM
2	Some redpill beliefs are more delusional than the average person. Last gf. Including occasional gifts, travel, and if seeing each other nearly daily, prob $700-$1000 per month tbh lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/24 06:22 PM
3	Science and Dating Not a surprise. Probably tracks with general inhibition as well.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/24 08:29 AM
9	Why are men angry that women like 'Chad'? Why do men consider it something to brag about?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/24 03:43 PM
12	Why are men angry that women like 'Chad'? Why do you suppose status comes with it? Come on now, this is just silly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/24 03:23 PM
14	Why are men angry that women like 'Chad'? That is beside the point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/24 03:19 PM
7	Why are men angry that women like 'Chad'? That "layer" you're talking about has essentially emerged in the context of a more feminist society. It's not a coincidence that this "layer" did not exist (certainly not to the extent it does today) before feminism, and the political expression and dominance of (especially mature) womens' opinions on what should and shouldn't be socially acceptable in the context of relationships between the sexes. I'm also not sure how similar the reactions are tbh. What you're talking about is like a culture …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/24 03:12 PM
20	Why are men angry that women like 'Chad'? It's not the exact same, because men and women are different. Yet it is similar, to the extent that it is a phenomenon for which the "perpetrators" cannot really be blamed: men do not go out of their way to be indifferent or cold to women as they age, they simply are. They cannot help being most attracted to youth in the opposite sex, regardless what the rules of an increasingly feminist society are, because this is a Law of Nature. By the same token, women are so indifferent and cold to the maj…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/24 02:49 PM
36	Why are men angry that women like 'Chad'? Women do the same thing though: they get angry at men for being much more attracted to pretty young things rather than themselves as they get older, even though the dating game is on the whole kinder to them at any age compared to the experience of the average man. I suppose the reason for this is that so many women experience a great change in how they are treated by the opposite sex as they age: they have something to lose. Whereas the majority of men never have a particularly great sexual pow…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/24 02:35 PM
0	Passport game is this generation's version of Woodstock. I mean, this is a nice idea and I don't entirely disagree (people do respond well to honesty and trustworthiness; sadly that can lead the other side to bring out the knives for a sucker like you), but it still means your flair is wrong. That's some pretty bluepilled thinking right there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/24 01:30 PM
-1	Passport game is this generation's version of Woodstock. Even if you're being sarcastic, I still don't get it. Sorry.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/24 01:27 PM
2	Passport game is this generation's version of Woodstock. Few different parties going on. I was talking about the 60s as a cultural phenomenon specifically.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/24 01:20 PM
-1	Passport game is this generation's version of Woodstock. Eh? I genuinely don't follow.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/24 01:14 PM
1	Passport game is this generation's version of Woodstock. I wasn't the one who initially made the specific Woodstock comparison. I do however think its proponents are (often) doing so as an explicit protest against aspects of the politics, society, and gender relations in the West today, which is sort of more counter-cultural than the men who went overseas 100 years ago and perhaps got "easier sex", (although I don't think that was usually their main purpose, given how much longer it took and difficult it was to leave the West for more distant shores b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/24 01:09 PM
2	Passport game is this generation's version of Woodstock. I'm not sure I agree with this. It does depend on the country in general, but in the 1920s in Europe something like 15-20% of the entire male population under 30 was dead. If your goal is to pick up women and have lots of flings... the UK was better than China... which has never, ever been good for this stuff. You're just talking about dating. I was talking about other aspects of expat life that were attractive then as well; but also... Big Chinese cities (especially Shanghai) were a party desti…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/24 12:40 PM
1	The fact that 61% of all adults in the US are lonely clearly shows that it has nothing to do with the individual, it's a problem with society The more interesting question is why it's so socially unacceptable (even in liberal/leftist circles) to really suggest that a lot of individual problems are really collective and social ones, and mean it. This goes beyond dating or even social connections, to economics. Even people who think themselves progressive or whatever still will often deep down think that people who for example end up homeless really are somehow bad or at least flawed people just because of this despite how ridiculous re…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/24 12:00 PM
2	Passport game is this generation's version of Woodstock. It doesn't seem like it is (just) about literal access to sex, though. If it was, these dudes would just pay for it at home, seems easier than dealing with foreign governments, cultures, languages etc. I mean yeah, I do agree with you that the old colonialist lifestyle and earlier classic expat lifestyle were more like Woodstock (I mean, whatever that means, anyway) than modern PPB stuff is, in the sense that there was more of a real sense of cutting free, leaving it all behind, stepping into th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/24 09:50 AM
2	Passport game is this generation's version of Woodstock. Most European men between the 16th and 19th centuries who went to the West Indies, South America, Asia or Africa to have a more adventurous way of life for the most part weren't (at least consciously) doing so mainly for the purposes of getting easy sex. That was just (potentially at least) a perk of the lifestyle, not the main (usually easy wealth and a less tedious, and in the later period of imperialism, a more relaxed way of life) let alone the only event. There also definitely wasn't the sa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/24 09:08 AM
3	Passport game is this generation's version of Woodstock. I mean, for better or worse, it is true that many PPBs today are doing so explicitly as a sort of protest or at least way of trying to escape what they see as feminist and other undesired social aspects of living in the West (they see the Left as having become the new Establishment, at least culturally). It's becoming a cliché. This wasn't true really for Westerners decades or hundreds of years ago. Obviously, yeah, there will be men in any situation pleased to imagine getting with women more ea…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/24 08:22 AM
3	Passport game is this generation's version of Woodstock. To an extent, that actually makes the comparison more valid, lol. Just like the 60s and Woodstock, passport bro is shorthand for a certain kind of hedonistic, dissolute lifestyle (in this case, the classic Western expat lifestyle) that had its heyday between the 1960s and 2000s (at a stretch, it peaked in the early 90s; and indeed there would have been - and were - those Westerners who argued that the traditional Asia expat lifestyle, certainly, peaked in the late 1920s, before the Great Depress…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/24 08:09 AM
1	"Every woman is unique in their taste in men" no they aren't Women love nerds, OP. Touch grass sometime. <image>	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/24 03:40 AM
5	Do people often set their standards to high as a defense mechanism? Maybe, but I think the real reasons are more obvious. For women, they think they can do better, because of online dating and access to quite so many men in a way that is unprecedented. For men, they increasingly find dating and relationships a burden and so they want something exceptional to make it worth the trouble at all, even if it's not realistic for most. For both, it's also worth considering that dating isn't like seeking food and shelter. People don't assume something mediocre or even ba…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/24 01:05 AM
0	Men are being wrongly accused of “blaming women” instead of simply “improving,”when the reality is they are rightly sick of having to work for less than they are worth you don’t owe women relationships after sex This is not entirely true. Not calling her back can lead to claims of abuse or even the R word, and getting her preggo means having to put out financially.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/24 06:07 AM
4	In dating, as a man, it's demanded that you be confident and socially skilled. Meanwhile, women are allowed to be as neurotic and anti-social as they please Meanwhile, women are allowed to be as neurotic and anti-social as they please ... by the sort of undesirable men they don't want. The kinds of men they themselves simp/pick-me for almost certainly won't settle for meme autism, or social awkwardness and don't at all find the idea of bonding over vidya and hot pockets romantic and quirky: they want a woman they can bring to all their many social engagements and introduce to their well-connected, successful friends at dinner parties. "Most men" or …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/24 04:59 AM
1	Signs you ARE the woman's first choice I'm glad you asked! Although I would have thought my attached image was enough of a clue. https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1b55fi4/comment/kt3wx15/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button There are Chads or otherwise very attractive men who women are gunning for or at least signal that they are interested (such dudes literally get girls asking them if they have girlfriends, calling them handsome, doing stuff like winking, lasciviou…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/24 09:31 AM
1	Signs you ARE the woman's first choice Lust. When women do the sort of things towards/to you that would get most men arrested/viral on TikTok/at least banned from that mall/bar/college if they tried them on women, you know it's real. I'll be here for all the comments from dudes telling on themselves with "women don't really do that though." <image>	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/24 06:17 AM
20	I’ve never understood how sex ‘just happens’ so casually for some people in adulthood There are a few things going on here. There are Chads or otherwise very attractive men who women are gunning for or at least signal that they are interested (such dudes literally get girls asking them if they have girlfriends, calling them handsome, doing stuff like winking, lascivious gestures with their lips, finding "subtle" (but not really) ways to rub up against them with their breasts, and stuff like that) in a way that unfortunate, less attractive men often deny women do IRL because it's …	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/24 05:01 AM
1	How should men interested in casual sex go about it? Funny how I'm being downdooted for giving what is obviously the right answer. I don't know if you guys have heard about this... but cooming inside women especially before we had condoms and godless atheism resulted in babby a lot of the time, and so women since basically forever don't actually appreciate men doing the carnal equivalent of dining and dashing, especially if they don't have a provider dude lined up to take care of the matter. Eye-opening stuff, I know.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/03/24 03:19 PM
-1	How should men interested in casual sex go about it? Women are lying, but they do know what they want. They do want you to be committed and to love them and control them, but they want you to do so from a position of strength where you definitely could replace her overnight if you wanted to because you're so attractive AND powerful, but you don't because she's so beautiful and adorable. If that's not possible because it's the 21st century and you're one of the plebs and a cog in the giant 24/7 technological Panopticon, as far as they're concerned …	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/03/24 08:25 AM
2	Do women (really) choose the wrong men? What if... nice men are bad? What if society is so slavish and conformist now, and being "good" so degrading, that women sexually selecting for antisocial men who want to break things is actually a heroic and noble act, or at least one of the more laudable of the things that women do? Those women who actually do choose "nice guys" are rewarding those men who meekly accept precisely that shit sandwich that men on this board complain about ad nauseum, and not just those women, but also their men, …	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/03/24 06:18 AM
3	How would the artificial wombs affect the dating market? 1) Most men actually don't want to become single Dads. 2) Even if they did, most governments will impose restrictions on the use of this technology which will limit its usefulness to single men. Single men seeking to use it will be met with strong suspicion, much as they are when it comes to adoption already. It will mostly be used to extend the fertility of aging women, which will also extend their attractiveness as marriage partners for men who want to have a family.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/24 02:58 PM
0	what would happen if 1 average guy and 100 attractive women were stranded on a desert island Obligatory (starts at 1:45) 롤러코스터 77화만약에극장 세상에 남자가 혼자라면 편AVI - YouTube	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/24 08:51 AM