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It doesn’t have to exclude girls just gear torward more tactile learning which is good for both boys and girls. And schools are doing this. Plenty of schools have robotic clubs. And curriculum that includes audio visual. There is even a new geometry class that is hands on teaching kids how to build so they are learning how to implement the geometry formulas.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 11:34 AM
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No they tend to make it that way themselves. My neighborhood had a guy who would have parties for men. He had a barn that he outfitted with a bunch of games and a karaoke bar, it was all innocent and fun. But he would have these night before thanksgiving parties and make a big deal of the guys getting out of the house so the wives could cook and prep. So of course the women in town thought he was an ass. Looking back it was thoughtful of him but he just had to take it a step to far by implying w…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 11:20 AM
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It’s up to guys to support each other not women to support guys. So a few years back my husbands friend got divorced. I kept bringing up visiting him and my husbands said “no if i was him I would want to be alone”. I think it was bullshit and he just didn’t want to have to sit awkwardly with his friend or try and cheer him up. I was actually a little disappointed in him. A woman gets divorced and her friends are rallying around her but guys just leave their friend out alone claiming they wouldn’…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 11:09 AM
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I think it does. I think short guys should just focus on being a healthy weight with a symmetrical appearance. Having a big upper body whether from muscles or fat seems to put more focus on height.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 06:00 PM
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I haven’t watched in years. But I kinda wonder if it’s kody who gave up on polygamy. Fell in love with Robyn and focused on their marriage and family. Polygamy looks like a lotta freaking work. He probably just got lazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 08:27 PM
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It’s not that sahp are working harder than the working parent. It’s that if both parents are working one parent gets so much more put upon them. Kids need to be woke up and dressed, fed and taken to daycare, preschool or regular school. There is going to be the parent who starts work earlier and gets to get up, shower, grab a coffee and head to work. Whose job allows for more flexibility? Because they’re the ones making doctor appts, staying home with sick kids, attending parent teacher meetings…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 09:16 PM
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It’s called life experience. And both men and women have it. A 28yo trying to date 18 year olds isn’t doing it for the same reason as a 50 year old trying to date 40yos. There is a sea of available woman in their 20s and early 30s who are beautiful, full of energy and youthful. It’s not looks that attract men to teenagers.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 11:46 AM
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To bad. Cheating is not some easy mistake anyone can make. It’s not like getting drunk and accidentally breaking an antique. You gotta meet someone, get to know them, find a place to cheat. Or you’re hitting up bars getting drunk and hooking up with people.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 01:04 PM
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In my experience cheating men (not sure about women as I’ve only known about the men) are the ones who blow it with the kids not the non cheating spouse. My cousins husband immediately changed the locks on the house. Daughter went to get her basketball shoes and couldn’t get in. Called mom mom said “oh there is a spare key in the garage”. Spare key wouldn’t work. So daughter basically dropped dad. I don’t think he meant to keep his kids out of his house. I think he did it on advisement from frie…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 12:54 PM
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But that’s why she makes such a great actress. She’s going to have a better career this way than being a sex symbol. They can do her up to look cute but normal or they can do her up to look absolutely amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 07:58 PM
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No that’s not why. Throughout history queens were seen as weaker so countries pushed for war against them thinking they had a shot at winning. Queen Elizabeth showed them when she kicked Spains ass with her Navy. Basically they weren’t going to war so much as war was coming to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 06:24 PM
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I’ve literally called my friends and say can I vent to you for a few minutes. And they say “go on”.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 06:12 PM
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I think people think, (when someone says having kids to care for you) people are expecting their kids to act like a parent and care for you 24/7 or something. But in reality it’s little things. Taking you to a doctors appt where you can’t drive yourself. Like getting a colonoscopy or minor eye surgery. Taking a few days off work to help out if and when you have a more major surgery. Dog sitting for you when you go on vacation. Helping with your smartphone or smart tv. Sitting with you at the law…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 03:32 PM
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Money doesn’t hurt but usually success comes with having a decent personality, ability to socialize, decent hygiene etc etc. I’m sure if bill gates or Jeff bezos were your average salaried software engineer they would have still met someone and got married. But if they were some weird guy who liked computers yet couldn’t seem to put that desire into an actual career and just lived in their moms basement playing Minecraft they may have had a harder if not impossible time. Steve Jobs had a kid in …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 11:15 PM
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I really don’t think this is the issue some people think it is. Me and my 3 best friends all have bachelors degrees but only 2 of our husbands have an actual bachelors degree or higher. But the husbands without degrees do have higher Ed …certificates, licenses, programs etc just not a bachelors. Most of my female acquaintances with college degrees are married to men in the trades or careers like police or fire. The men aren’t of lower intelligence by any means they just didn’t go to college.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 10:24 PM
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I wonder if this is what’s behind the statistics. My friends husband was the one who wanted a divorce but she was the first to file.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 03:17 PM
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Humor is subjective. But usually the loud obnoxious “funny” guy or girl is the single one of the group. But so is the awkward quiet guy. I think people confuse personality with sense of humor. I don’t want a guy cracking jokes all day. One of those jerks who twists everything you say into a joke. Stumble over a word or use the wrong connotation and it’s joke city. Those guys think they are funny but they are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 10:47 AM
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But don’t you have to both be young for this shared bond?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 11:33 PM
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I disagree. I’m not divorced but I have some divorced friends and sharing custody/co parenting is nothing like being a single parent. I remember going to a friend of my sons birthday party. His mom was divorced but her ex was at party then when party was over he took the kids for his time. I couldn’t help but be a bit jealous of the mom. Lol! She put this stressful party together and when it was over had the house to herself. And the kid got both parents at his party.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 04:38 PM
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When I was a kid my moms brother was always over on Friday nights. He worked afternoon shift so would get out of work around 9 or 10pm, stop over and he and my mom would sit at the table and talk and drink, around 11 he would head out to the bar. My dad worked on Saturdays he would usually go to bed. It’s one of my fondest memories sitting in the stairway trying to listen in on their conversations with out getting caught. I think it’s sad that you don’t plan on hanging out with your siblings soc…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 02:07 PM
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Yep mopey “whoa is me” people are mood killers. They walk into a party and the vibe just goes downhill.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 01:56 PM
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Huh? A woman liking sex is the same as a man who is secretly homosexual? How would it ever be found out? And liking sex and having many past partners is not the same as being a cheater.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 01:50 PM
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I think the previous poster is young. And has no clue how irrelevant your high school experience and even college experience really is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 01:47 PM
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And how many people stay in their small town? Maybe they were a late bloomer and had a lot of fun in college? If you are meeting someone in their mid to late 20s you will have no clue unless they choose to share it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 01:44 PM
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Who talks about it? I’m married and my spouse and I have never sat down and counted out our past relationships. Relationships may come up in conversation but not the sex part. If someone asked me out right a number I would be so uncomfortable I would probably not continue with the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 01:33 PM
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George has got that Warren Beatty vibe just enjoying life until he was finally ready to settle down. Maybe even take a step back from Hollywood. Leo has that Jack Nicholson vibe relationship after relationship… just without all the kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 12:07 PM
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My cousin is 38/39 and I just think she missed her window. And now just prefers to be single. She’s social, is cute and has a good job. But also has too high of expectations. She always seemed to go after relationships that had no chance of succeeding. Like she went to Europe and would keep in contact with some guys she met over there or we would go for a girls weekend to a friends cabin 3 hours away and she would meet and flirt with guys in the bar or at the lake. Yet rarely goes out at home to…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 02:00 AM
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I think it’s different. Never married and childless wonder what they’re missing. Whereas married moms know what they’re missing but often romanticize it. Like I’m a married mom and I remember being in my 20s hanging out with friends Thursday-Sunday and going on weekend trips. I remember it fondly but now I can’t even get my friends to agree on a night out for dinner and drinks so if I was single I can’t imagine it being any different unless they were all still single.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 01:38 AM
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Start out small. Investing in yourself is just as important working toward a well paying career. Someone’s a lot more likely to get a job if you spend money on necessary dental work. If you’ve got acne scarring a few thousand dollars on skin treatment is going to probably pay for itself when it comes to career mobility. Even spending $100 a month on a gym membership (that you actually use) is going to pay off in looks and health. Healthy people are attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 01:14 AM
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I think mid 30s is when it gets hard since so many people are coupled up and starting families. I made plenty of friends in my mid 20s but we were all single and childless.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 01:07 AM
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Take them places. Invite friends over, have kids to sit and talk with the adults. Take the kids for evenings drives or walks, stop in and talk to neighbors who are outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 06:51 PM
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I totally get it. Like if he made a joke about it “well I don’t like soccer but if anyone wants to wrestle I’m game” and in response to anyone ever taking him up on it he could have just winked and made everyone laugh people would think he’s a fun guy who can take a joke. It’s really amazing how humans notice little quirks. Like if an alien landed on earth disguised as a human after studying humans I don’t think they would be able to pass as human and would be found out quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 06:45 PM
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I was at a wedding last night and my 14yo nephew was there. He didn’t dance but I dragged him out on to the dance floor and he just kinda stood there and smirked he was being stubborn and wouldn’t dance but he wasn’t running off the dance floor either. He let me drag him onto the dance floor then some of my nieces grabbed his arms and were trying to dance. He never gave in to dancing but I know he was enjoying all the attention and we were having fun trying to get him to dance. I think this is s…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 06:09 PM
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Are single childless women filling shelters? No it’s women with children and maybe some childless women running from abusive partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 09:36 PM
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Who is getting these women pregnant? My god are you dense? You’re saying women get more social services…to raise the children of men. We are not supporting women we are supporting children.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 04:08 PM
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Women aren’t getting pregnant on their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 04:04 PM
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Then men need to stopping leaving women they impregnate. Do you really think taxes are being funneled to Sue the single childless waitress and Jill the single mother of two waitress? No money is being funneled to the parent who stayed.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 04:04 PM
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And forget if you planned ahead, made choices and saved to make being a sahm possible. It’s like once men see your earning potential forget about any agreement to be a sahm.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 02:28 PM
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Yeah. If a friend came up to me for advice 9 times out of 10 I know why they are single and it’s going to be awkward pointing it out. “It’s one thing to be overweight, but overweight, kinda anti social and unkempt is just asking for a life of bachelorhood” “You are attractive enough but your personality is annoying. Stop talking yourself up so much you don’t come off as confident you come off looking pretentious but also self conscious.” Nobody wants to hear that stuff so you try to be delicate.…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 12:48 PM
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I think a person who dumps someone for working to hard is going to have regrets when they see the positive results of that work ethic….man or woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 11:33 PM
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But does that apply to attracting much younger women? Or just moving you into a position of attracting women in your peer group. I can’t think of a man who somehow all of a sudden blossomed in their 30s. Someone who became super attractive to 20something women, yet couldn’t get a 20 something women in their 20s. Usually good looking 20 somethings become good looking 30somethings. I’m sure there are some but usually you see that in someone’s mid 20s after they get some independence and start a ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 01:39 PM
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Wouldn’t American men also be weaker? You’re not just “breeding” women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 05:20 PM
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It’s why I have very little sympathy for guys who whine about their divorce settlements. Of course there are extenuating circumstances. Take my friend. She meets a guy while she is in college she is 23 he is 30. She gets an associates degree in the medical field. She works through their marriage but it’s part time and takes jobs close to home that pay less than city jobs. Since he has a longer commute and works overtime it just makes sense, someone’s got to be around to get kids to school be the…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 05:09 PM
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And they expect women to just sleep with them as if it’s some kind of right. Why don’t you work out, shave daily, maintain a nice haircut and wardrobe and maybe seek therapy or introspection on you’re personality traits….BUT I want someone who likes me for meeee
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 01:18 PM
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The average woman is looking for a masculine, assertive, confident man who can provide. Provide and protect are the biggest attractors. I was dating a guy and I was kinda on the fence he was nice, tall and had a good job. But was overweight so I was just not falling for him. Then one day we’re out and about and my mom calls because they needed help getting my great aunt to the hospital. So we go over and my parents are struggling with getting her out of bed. My bf just walks over scoops her up a…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 01:02 PM
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This really is the scientific reason why women are much pickier than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 12:48 PM
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But social media has been around for less than 20 years. I had fb in 2009 but didn’t have a smartphone until a few years later.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 12:23 AM
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It used to be good advice but got crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 12:16 AM
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You could just be an average looking woman who got passed up for the flashy women. This was me when I was your age, I thought I was undesirable, my friends always had guys ignoring me to get to them. Once during college when I was home for the weekend some guy called my parents house has asked for me. I wasn’t into the guy but I was flattered this guy tracked down my parents home number. So I get on the phone AND HE ASKED FOR MY FRIENDS PHONE NUMBER! A friend who lived in the same town and whose…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 12:08 AM
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Also two parent. I’m not saying fathers themselves aren’t important. But to have someone to split the parenting duties with is important. And of course the more people who love and care for a child and want to see them succeed the better the kid is going to turn out.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 11:48 PM
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And these are the women you are bummed out about for not choosing you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 05:46 PM
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Of course it’s insecurity. If we’re Katie Holmes and Tom cruise neither are going to be insecure. But we’re just average self conscious people.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 03:58 PM
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I think women just don’t want to be taller or heavier than their date. A 5’4 woman weighing 150 going out with a 5’5 guy weighing 130 is going to be self conscious. The problem is the 5’2 110lb women are in high demand by all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 02:55 PM
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As an average height (5’4-5’5) woman of average weight (140-150) I have had crushes on guys who are my height or an inch taller. They were all nice funny guys who didn’t have insecurities over their height(at least outwardly. But they weren’t romantically interested in me, lol. I don’t think it’s just about height, maybe online, but not in real life. The guys I was interested in had a few women interested in them. We were all in our mid to late 20s and were friends. They had nice faces, healthy …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 02:42 PM
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Ok well then….good luck??? I want to sleep in until 10am,stop working at 2pm and have Fridays off and still collect a paycheck for full time work.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 05:47 PM
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What! The right pick is a woman who was on the run from the police for a month, has been living in hostels, has no make up and probably hasn’t showered in days or slept well in weeks. The right pic is a mugshot of a real person not an actress portraying a criminal with all the stage make up that comes with it. If the woman on the left was walking down the street men would turn and get a second look. They may not pester her but they would think she was hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 02:16 PM
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Sad but true. Look at the single men you know and look at the married men you know. I bet there are more married men you could see yourself in a relationship with (if they were suddenly single) than the single guys you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 01:20 PM
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Women seem to be better suited for downsizing than men. A guy wants to tinker in their garage or maintain a lawn to stay busy. But a woman can just sell the house and buy a condo or apartment and stay busy with their friends so she no longer needs someone to take care of the lawn and outside. It’s easier to hire out jobs husbands usually did at home. It’s a lot easier to call a washing machine repairman or a landscaping company ( jobs the husband might have done) than hire someone to take care o…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 01:06 PM
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I kinda think widowers are more attractive to women than widows are to men. I think in this incidence it’s more women being set up with a widower and them being the pursuer vs the widower going out and asking women on dates. Women like men who have shown they can commit and be in a successful relationship. But my husbands grandma was widowed in her 60s and she told me dudes were pursuing her almost immediately and it just grossed her out. But I can’t help but think these were old school guys loo…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 12:51 PM
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I think having a beautiful face would be hard to disguise. Just look at this mugshot of that cyclist who killed the girl her boyfriend was seeing. Nice chin, symmetrical features, her complexion is nice she has a long neck. I guess she could put on a lot of weight and start taking hormones to make her look less feminine https://a57.foxnews.com/static.foxnews.com/foxnews.com/content/uploads/2022/07/896/500/Kaitlin-Armstrong-split-latest-mugshot.jpg?ve=1&tl=1
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 12:10 PM
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Love and take care of yourself. Work out, get a nice haircut and shave. Learn social skills. Learn to talk to the opposite sex. Practice on your grandma, mom, and aunts. Just talk to them and let them talk. Go out of your way to attempt a conversation with a stranger at least once a week, it doesn’t have to be just women you can talk to men the point is learning to socialize.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 12:01 PM
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I was introduced to my spouse by friends. We had never met before but some of our social circle overlapped and we were introduced. I could sit down and list out several couples I know who met due to their social circle and this is of all ages not a bunch of college kids hanging out together.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 06:25 PM
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Exactly. Women can always get sex but most women don’t want it with someone they aren’t in a relationship with. There was a movie called “the truth about cats and dogs” with uma Thurman and Janeane garafalo. Janeane’s character is the perfect example of the average woman that guys look right past and don’t see. Educated with a good job and a sense of humor. Not fat so she doesn’t stand out in that regard and not ugly but not “hot”….invisible There was a line when her character says “if she was b…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 03:07 AM
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Yes and it’s different for girls. Girls don’t leave their friends alone with strange men. Yeah if I’m with a group of girls I can talk to them and we all keep an eye out. But if it’s just two of us out at the bar I just can’t get up and walk away. I have to sit there and be ignored.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 02:24 AM
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Maybe not the rolling of eyes. But It happens all the time especially with younger people, hopefully by 30 the guy learns some etiquette. 2 friends having drinks at the bar. Pretty friend has guy walk over to strike up a conversation. Average friend tries to engage in the conversation (because it’s just weird to sit there silently) and the guy may not completely ignore her but doesn’t engage with the average girl. And you can’t just get up and leave because girls can’t leave their friends alone …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 02:19 AM
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It would be more equivalent to a rich kid who people only hang out with because they pay for everything. Sure there might be people who truly enjoy their companionship but most just linger for the free drinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 01:30 PM
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Exactly. An average woman can be at a bar and be ignored by every average guy as they try to flirt with her better looking friends. Then when they fail to attract the women they want they start looking at the average women who then want nothing to do with them. Nobody wants to be someone’s second choice. And guys tend to make it pretty obvious in social settings. Also if that same woman went up to a good looking guy and said “hey let’s go out to your car for a little fun” 9/10 times the guy is g…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 01:25 PM
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I feel like some men feel they are average and are shocked when average women don’t date them. But in reality they are not average. Women want men who generally like them and more importantly like themselves. You can tell when a guy just likes being around women. They like the way they smell, talk and laugh. People want to be with people who make their life better. If a guy doesn’t talk to me, doesn’t want to interrupt their video games to do stuff with me and just expects me to exist around the…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 12:03 PM
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And women are the ones who are left to raise the children and possibly defend them and their home from marauders. War isn’t always thousands of miles away. Many times it’s just down the road. Do you think the women were just sitting back enjoying life with the men off to war while London was being carpet bombed. Or France was being invaded?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 11:39 AM
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I think guys wait to long to pursue something serious and many miss their window of opportunity. Everyone talks about women waiting to long but I feel it’s the men or both really. I’m a mid 40s married woman so not really your reference point. But I watch people and they are just too picky in their mid to late 20s, with all relationships not just romantic. Always thinking there is something better around the corner. They will dump friends for minor issues thinking there are plenty of other frien…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 02:36 AM
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What about a cute social worker who makes similar money as the barista? Is it the income or the career?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 01:23 AM
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