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2

Yeah. I've come to the conclusion its just not for me. The emptiness doesnt go away. A monogamous relationship feels better.
/r/seduction07/11/25 04:45 PM
3

It means, don't try so hard that you seem desperate. The point is to not come across as someone who has no options, because that means you're not desired, whilst also not appearing entirely disinterested. Its a middle ground approach like so many things.
/r/seduction03/10/24 05:42 AM
62

He doesn't have social skills (like most people in Reddit). Thats why hes asking.
/r/seduction25/09/24 10:13 AM
4

Guys are too afraid to approach 9s and 10s because they think they're out of her league. The result is that 5-7s get way more male attention.
/r/seduction23/09/24 05:58 PM
11

I use girls to hook up with their dogs
/r/seduction29/09/22 07:57 AM
1

If your standard for "the good looking guys women throw themselves at" is less than 5% of men. Then respectfully, stfu. If anything thats proof that looking good does not get you laid on its own. Since the other 15% of dudes who are hotter than 80% don't make the cut.
/r/seduction10/09/22 09:27 PM
1

I can counter your anecdote with an opposite anecdote of my own. I know plenty of guys who are hot, who don't have women throw themselves at them... The only one who is drowning in women, is also charismatic and successful Some women do approach. Most women don't. And even if they do, just looking good won't maintain their interest. They absolutely can get bored of if your game is lame. Even if you're hot.
/r/seduction10/09/22 08:43 PM
7

It's not a prerequisite. You can't be ugly. But it's perfectly fine to be average if you have charisma.
/r/seduction10/09/22 08:06 PM
2

That is not at all how it works. Women only throw themselves at you if you're famous in some way. And even then, it's only a few of them that do
/r/seduction10/09/22 08:05 PM
23

Looks alone aren't enough. I know this from first hand experience. There are plenty of conventionally attractive men who struggle with women.
/r/seduction10/09/22 07:00 PM
115

I have a secret for you. Most guys here, are here because they can't get laid. This subreddit is the blind leading the blind. If we didn't need advice we'd never have come here. You're better off finding a fuck boy in real life, and asking him how he pulls. Can't be a fuck boy if you can't attract women. So he's guaranteed to know something.
/r/seduction10/09/22 04:51 PM
0

Naturally exceptions exist. They however do not change the rule.
/r/seduction08/09/22 05:06 AM
1

Plenty of bald men get laid. Just shave it all off, no partially bald bs. If you don't wanna do that, if you're not far gone yet Propecia stops most male hairloss with little to no side effects in 98% of users, and minoxidil will help restore some of your hair line. If it is far gone, propecia + hair transplant (expensive) Being bald is avoidable today.
/r/seduction08/09/22 05:04 AM
0

Individual variation are why statistics exist. And the statistics are on my side, the vast majority of men agree with my assessment according to said statistics.
/r/seduction08/09/22 05:02 AM
1

I mean, if we're talking history (as implied by beginning of time), you can forget the 18 and up bit. As well as the 25 and up bit The historical standard for when a female is "marriagable" was usually somewhere in the 14-16 range. 18+ being the standard is historically, and even today, fairly rare. And it wasn't unheard of for the men marrying the 14-16ys to be nearing their middle ages, especially among nobility. But yes. Double digit age gaps are not and have never been abnormal. They've alwa…
/r/seduction07/09/22 10:32 PM
0

The only person here hating on anyone is you.
/r/seduction07/09/22 10:28 PM
1

Dating is easy at every age if you have your shit together. And not easy at any age if you don't. Sure, at 30, with equally put together shit, you'll probably do better than at 18. But your age will not be the deciding factor until maybe when your hair starts to go grey.
/r/seduction07/09/22 10:26 PM
2

I think its entirely a myth. The claim that younger women are more vulnerable to being "manipulated". I don't see a basis in reality for it. It's the older women who are easy. They're the ones desperate enough to "put up with shit". Younger women have so many options that many, even most of them chew up men for breakfast and feel no remorse for the trail of victims. They have absolutely no reason to put up with shit.
/r/seduction07/09/22 10:24 PM
12

He drank too much coolaid and cock blocked himself for it. 5 years is not even an exceptional age gap. It's borderline average.
/r/seduction07/09/22 10:18 PM
-2

21y olds aren't any more mature. I've seen no notable consistent differences in maturity from 18-21.
/r/seduction07/09/22 10:17 PM
5

Meh. They're usually very similar. Especially in countries where it's common to move out at 16-17y. Most girls haven't left the "hot girl party phase" by the time they're 22. And most girls are still in college at that time.
/r/seduction07/09/22 10:16 PM
-4

They objectively do become less physically attractive, and after 25, slowly at first, then later on faster, become less physically capable of producing healthy children. They certainly don't get more fun with age, that either stays the same or declines. Assuming what a man is interested in, is her looks and personality, rather than her socio/economic status, which I'm sure most men on this sub would agree is the norm, women are less desirable as they age. The only advantages to older women is th…
/r/seduction07/09/22 10:12 PM
4

Your assumption of how young women act doesn't match my experiences at all. They usually aren't any more timid/submissive than the older ones. If anything, many of them are more self centered and arrogant.
/r/seduction07/09/22 10:08 PM
1

You have to have a thick skin in this sort of situation. People will judge you and there is just no way around that. And if you end up dating, she will face judgment too. People will try to convince her that she's a victim of abuse, even if she was 100% into you and pursued the relationship from day 1. Heck, even if she was the one who approached you. And lots of girls will bring up the age gap as a shit test. Often, so will her friends. You'll need to learn how to judge when she's just testing …
/r/seduction07/09/22 10:03 PM
2

Proboem in Europe (or at least some countries in Europe) is the low population density. There simply aren't enough people do differentiate. A chill lounge in my country will probably have 20 people in it at best.
/r/seduction06/09/22 10:38 AM
2

Videogames are escapism, rather than self actualization. Or at least that's the general perception. You play videogames because your life is boring. This obviously isn't true 100% of the time.
/r/seduction02/09/22 09:03 AM
23

If 1 text is enough to fuck you over, she wasn't interested. You can afford one minor mistake like this if a woman is invested. Her not replying doesn't necessarily mean game over. Wait a few days. If she doesn't get back to you, then text her again. Her response, or lack there of will tell you what the situation is.
/r/seduction31/08/22 11:15 AM
4

It's stage 4 MCU. This is what you'd expect.
/r/MensRights30/08/22 08:48 AM
3

They want that, but only so far as it benefits them. They definitely do not want equal outcome in divorce court.
/r/MensRights28/08/22 05:25 PM
1

By definition. No. The patriarchy is a boogeyman the feminist movement uses to drive a victim hood mentality, which is useful for gernering political power. People who are afraid, will vote for whoever has the solutoln for their fear.
/r/MensRights28/08/22 05:24 PM
3

Yeah. Some girls are looking for the same thing. If I'm not interested in dating a girl, but want to sleep with her, I pretty much always say something along those lines.
/r/seduction27/08/22 10:54 PM
2

Takes between 1-50. I consider a kiss, or a number/snapchat a success.
/r/seduction27/08/22 08:06 PM
2

No. He can't. He gets sued for that.
/r/MensRights27/08/22 12:44 PM
5

It's also not really even true that men where dicks 100 years ago. For most of our "patriarchal" history, the vast majority of men where peasants with no rights. With a responsibility, usually legally enforced, to protect and provide for their wife/kids/sisters. In many cases, women and children also had no legal responsibility, so if a wife killed someone for example, her husband/father/brother would be the one punished for it. "men opressed women" is a gross misrepresentation of history and I …
/r/MensRights27/08/22 07:59 AM
3

Women are far more dangerous than vampires. For a vampire to hurt you, you have to invite it into your house. A woman can turn any innocent conversation into a career ending HR incident. I speak with first hand experience.
/r/MensRights27/08/22 07:47 AM
8

If you must interact. Only do it with someone else present. Another male preferably since women will gang up against you.
/r/MensRights27/08/22 07:45 AM
5

Dressing in weird shit to stand out. Look up Erik von Markovik for an example. Used to be a common strategy in the PUA community, in the mystery method days. But these days it's fallen out of favour.
/r/seduction24/08/22 02:44 PM
3

Hanowa gets my letter of recommendation. Probably the highest quality watches in their price point. €150 you get a Swiss Rhonda quartz movement, and sapphire face. Mine has seen hard use for 7 years now, including 6 months in military basic training, and it's still good as new. Minus a few scratches on the steel band (face is flawless, being sapphire). Only had to change the battery twice so far.
/r/seduction24/08/22 02:40 PM
1

Don't peacock for the sake of peacocking. Wear a weird hat if you like that weird hat. Don't wear it for the sake of being weird. My extent of peacocking are shoes with a hard sole. They are noisy.
/r/seduction24/08/22 02:35 PM
1

The list was not on any specific order. The priority of each attribute depends on the girl and co-relates with her age and social status.
/r/seduction22/08/22 12:43 PM
-1

How many mechanics are millionaires? Heck. How many shop owners are millionaires? If it where easy, or even possible for everyone to be a millionaire, then billionaires would be the new millionaires and millionaires would live paycheque to paycheque.
/r/seduction22/08/22 10:47 AM
0

Your personality is formed over your entire life via a combination of nature/nurture. You can't just flip a switch and say "I have a different personality now". It takes a lot more than that to reprogram decades of development...
/r/seduction22/08/22 10:45 AM
17

Always an option. If you can't be exceptional at anything else? Be exceptionally shit.
/r/seduction22/08/22 07:07 AM
-1

You don't choose to have an unattractive personality. Even your career/income is only 70% in your control.
/r/seduction22/08/22 07:03 AM
7

They don't. As a good looking man, (I've been rated a 7-9/10 by several women and am often approached), I still need to be able to impress girls with my personality. Best looks alone will get me is a few five minute make-outs in nightclubs. Tinder is more about the quality of your pictures than your actual appearance. Anyone can look good or ugly in a photo (just look at girls on tinder dates for proof). Lighting, angles and editing are massive. And on tinder the only people who have it easy are…
/r/seduction22/08/22 07:02 AM
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Looks do not give you dates either. How attractive you are to women is a factor of 3 things. The respective value for each thing depends on the age of the woman. For example, an 18y girl isn't gonna care as much about socio/economic status and will care more about looks. A 45y will be the opposite. The three factors are Looks Charisma/game Socio/economic status. If you only have 1 of the three, you won't have a good time. Its a defeatist attitude to attribute all success to one factor. And isnt …
/r/seduction22/08/22 05:57 AM
3

It's stupid to assume everyone who struggles is just "in their head" and is actually just Casanova being repressed by their insecurity. Humans aren't born with an inate knowledge of social rules. We are supposed to learn them as infants the same way we learn languages. Some people don't learn them as well as others for whatever reason. And once you're an adult, that ability to learn the way infants do, is gone. So you have to learn all the thousands upon thousands of rules consciously.
/r/seduction22/08/22 04:18 AM
1

It's sometimes difficult to flirt in a non-native language I find. Your lack of confidence speaking the language translates.
/r/seduction21/08/22 09:14 AM
1

That's not true. Men outperform women in every sport, including endurance running. The only sports where women are on par with men is ultra endurance (100km+) and endurance swimming. On par, not superior. The top 20% of women can barely match the bottom 20% of men for strength, and endurance isn't much better. As a soldier, who's unit had female soldiers. They simply can not keep up. If a woman is present you have to March slower, advance slower. Do everything slower. Simple as that.
/r/MensRights20/08/22 09:35 AM
1

Because the biological consequence for sex is a lot higher for women than for men. So they evolved to be way more selective with who they let hit. Women also have lower libido than men on average (ovulation is the only time they come close) so it's easier for them to control their urge.
/r/seduction20/08/22 07:08 AM
1

Don't know any
/r/seduction18/08/22 02:52 PM
1

Because it removes the approach anxiety filter than holds most men back in real life. So every woman is approached by hundreds of men per day. Supply and demand does the rest. The supply of dick average is way higher than the demand for average dick. So the value of average dick is low.
/r/seduction16/08/22 10:21 AM
1

I can't point at a specific trait. I just know that people don't enjoy conversations with me.
/r/MensRights15/08/22 04:47 AM
1

But plenty of people have crappy social skills despite not being autistic. Which is how I come across to most people, since im high functioning.
/r/MensRights15/08/22 04:41 AM
5

I struggle greatly with women. Despite the fact that I am attractive physically. This is because I'm autistic and thus my personality doesn't mesh well with most people. Im not saying looks aren't an advantage. It's a huge plus that women will approach me, and are almost always initially warm. I'm just saying your personality/game is more important. Looks don't stand on their own (for men).
/r/MensRights14/08/22 03:27 PM
0

You can compensate lacking looks with good game and a good personality. You can not compensate for bad game and a bad personality with good looks. If all you have are looks, the only action you'll ever get are drunken hookups.
/r/MensRights14/08/22 01:10 PM
6

Looks aren't the most important part. Having the right kind of personality is also vital. You can be hot and still not attract women. They'll lose interest within 2-3 interactions if you don't have a personality to back up the looks. This is from experience. I'm attractive enough to where I am regularly approached by women. Yet, almost never do I make it to a date, because I have an undesirable personality.
/r/MensRights14/08/22 08:25 AM
2

I've found that the core of it is very similar in every western county I've visited. There are minor cultural differences. But the fundamentals remain the same. But i only have western experience.
/r/seduction13/08/22 11:26 PM
1

There are plenty of people who still refer to even full grown adults in their early 20s as children. Especially in the context of a man to woman interaction.
/r/seduction08/08/22 02:22 PM
11

If you can reliably tell the difference between any given 17 year old, and any given 19 year old. I'll eat my hat.
/r/seduction08/08/22 12:14 PM
8

Digging through posting history makes you a creep.
/r/seduction08/08/22 11:25 AM
34

You can mitigate it by approaching in 18+ venues, or college, or something. But there is no way to entirely avoid the jailbait.
/r/seduction08/08/22 11:25 AM
2

I open girls with headphones all the time. As long as you're socially calibrated it's fine. Same with books. The reality is, most people are always doing something. It's very rare a human being will just sit still staring at nothing and listening to nothing. No matter when you approach you will be interrupting them. That's just something you have to accept. The only girls I consider off limits, are the girls who are at work. And even that rule can be broken in the right context
/r/seduction08/08/22 07:12 AM
12

Following this logic would literally lead to the extinction of the human race. No children would be born. Tinder alone is not enough. Given how it's completely ineffective as a tool for meeting partners for most users. And women are never gonna do the approaching. Maybe 1/5 women has ever even tried approaching a man. And far fewer than that do it with any regularity. Nobody is ever going to complain about meeting a great partner. No matter where or how they meet. The rule girls like to spam aro…
/r/seduction07/08/22 11:50 PM
4

For most day game, the best way I've found is to use a prop. Example. Maybe she's reading a book. Start the conversation by asking about that book.
/r/seduction06/08/22 06:33 PM
36

It's a shit test. I've said it before and I'll say it again. These rules ONLY exist to filter out undesirable men. Not one single woman has ever complained about meeting a great guy. Regardless of where/how she met him. Just think for a second. How long do you think it would take for humanity to go extinct if cold approaching women didn't work?
/r/seduction06/08/22 02:14 PM
2

3 will have the biggest impact in day game. For night game 2 is king though. Could also say if you want to date, 3, for hookups 2
/r/seduction05/08/22 09:19 PM
5

Having money on its own is worthless. There are 3 pillars for attraction. Money/status Looks Charisma/game. To be desirable to women, you must have 2 of the 3. If you only have 1, you'll be average joe who gets laid once per year if that. This is true at every age. Though the priority does shift. When you're young it's like 33/33/33 value. But as you age it becomes more like 40/20/40 value.
/r/seduction05/08/22 06:30 PM
10

Yes. Unless you count some guy trying to get with her as a relationship. I personally still consider myself single. Even if I happen to have a girl in my DMs trying to get to know me.
/r/seduction04/08/22 12:48 PM
1

Absence only makes the heart grow fonder if she is already interested, and I a position to think about you. It won't help you seduce a girl who is not interested already.
/r/seduction31/07/22 10:22 PM
2

There are times when double texting is appropriate. But I don't think this is one of those times. If she was interested in you, she wouldn't "forget" for 15 days. I think what happened is that she was interested. But you took too long to make things happen. And she got bored as a result. That, or she met someone else, someone who will make things happen. Girls don't want a texting buddy. They want a date. Generally speaking, if you haven't met within 3 weeks or so. Your chances are extremely low…
/r/seduction31/07/22 04:23 PM
7

Entertaining the men that approach them is a red flag. Anyone with 2 brain cells knows exactly what the motivation is. This is a recipe for her to eventually cheat. The temptation is massive and the fear of consequences is impaired by alcohol.
/r/seduction30/07/22 02:07 PM
1

It's fine if you're looking for friends. Not if you're looking for more than that.
/r/seduction30/07/22 08:30 AM
1

Looking to pound until I find the right girl.
/r/seduction28/07/22 09:30 PM
5

I've pulled from Instagram before. Disclaimer, both girls where girls I already knew from real life (old school friends from years back). Actually wound up dating one of them long term.
/r/seduction28/07/22 08:48 AM
1

Women do not decide whether or not they want to sleep with him instantly, let alone before hand. Unless it's a scheduled date, which is not always the case. And even then, it's usually a case of her deciding whether or not she's open to it. Not deciding that she will or will not before hand. And you know it. There are a million steps between "hey" and taking her to bed. To imply that what a man says or does has no effect on whether or not a woman sleeps with him is frankly ridiculous.
/r/seduction27/07/22 06:20 PM
1

Women on the internet are constantly saying "if she's wearing matching underwear, she pulled you". That's what this post is about.
/r/seduction27/07/22 06:17 PM
6

Thongs cause erections.
/r/seduction27/07/22 03:20 PM
44

Women think letting a guy do all the work counts as her pulling just because she was willing.
/r/seduction27/07/22 03:19 PM
-1

Ok bro. Men and women who evolved in very different environments with completely different social pressure absolutely evolved identical brains. Whatever you say...
/r/seduction27/07/22 01:39 PM
-2

It is absolutely true. There are dozens of neuro imaging studies to prove it.
/r/seduction27/07/22 12:27 PM
-1

Womens brains are wired differently than men's. Men have more connections between the back and front of the brain. While women have more connections between the two sides. For reasons I am not qualified to explain, this makes women default primarily to emotional reality rather than logic. This doesn't mean women are illogical or incapable of logical thoughts, like the feminists will want to strawman. Just that they're more pre-disposed towards prioritizing emotion. Nor does it mean men are never…
/r/seduction27/07/22 08:47 AM
1

Looks are vitally important. And don't let anyone convince you otherwise. You can get laid without looks, but the further below average you fall, the more exponentially difficult it becomes.
/r/seduction25/07/22 10:58 PM
1

Multiple women, is still a tiny percentage of all women. The simply cold hard fact of the matter is that 9 relationships out of ten started with a man approaching a woman. And that's probably a generous estimate. As a physically attractive man in my prime, I still approach 20 women for every 1 that approaches me. Humanity definitely would go extinct. Birth rates are already below replacement. If they suddenly dropped by another 90% we'd literally be 2 generations from extinction.
/r/seduction25/07/22 08:06 PM
2

A lot of dating advice is working on the assumption that you're otherwise normal, but are just struggling with approach anxiety. Or low self esteem. The advice is not meant for guys like us, who where simply poorly socialized, maybe are a little autistic. Who genuinely don't have the social skills hiding behind the walls. The guys who actually have to learn to flirt from scratch.
/r/seduction25/07/22 08:00 PM
1

You can't have relationships if men don't approach women. Because women approach men far too rarely for anything to happen.
/r/seduction25/07/22 08:44 AM
1

If you want humanity to go extinct via not having relationships anymore, then why are you on a seduction subreddit?
/r/seduction25/07/22 08:19 AM
1

"would humanity going extinct really be a bad thing" Listen to yourself...
/r/seduction25/07/22 07:41 AM
2

That is a great way to drive humanity to extinction. Given how incredibly rare it is for women to approach. Thankfully, you are in the minority. The majority of women are not paranoid enough to assume any man who ever approaches them is a murderer. Women like you will never "feel safe". Your feeling of danger is not born of rational analysis of risk. Given you are the safest demographic to ever have existed statistically speaking. Your average child is at higher risk of being abused by a strange…
/r/seduction25/07/22 07:21 AM
10

To be fair, if I saw that, I'd assume they're joking.
/r/seduction24/07/22 09:22 PM
279

The rules are one massive societal shit test. They exist purely to filter out undesirable males. No woman has ever complained about meeting a great guy, no matter where she met him. They only ever complain about the guys they didn't like. The key is the guy, not the place. That's why there is a "do not approach" rule for every place.
/r/seduction24/07/22 05:35 PM
5

Yeah. I realize this is due to my own crappy game. But I've had it up to my neck with girls who will snap you for weeks, and seem warm and interested. But always find an excuse not to meet up.
/r/seduction24/07/22 02:07 PM
3

He's not talking about getting interest form girls who are uninterested. He's talking about tipping girls who are on the fence onto the right side of it.
/r/seduction24/07/22 12:18 PM
1

You have to stop worrying about bugging people. There simply is no way to practice approaching without approaching.
/r/seduction23/07/22 08:17 AM
34

That's stupid. I've met plenty of great women at the gym. Just don't treat it like you're approaching. Instead treat it more like a chance conversation between sets. Do not listen to women when they say "don't approach women at x". Anyone with half a brain knows those rules only apply to men they don't like. Regardless of where the approachong actually happens. The key is whether or not they like you. Not the when or where. Not one single woman has ever complained about meeting a great guy at a …
/r/seduction22/07/22 02:09 PM
3

I can confidently claim I'm at least and 8/10. I have the photo feeler results, and real world compliments to prove it.
/r/seduction21/07/22 06:11 PM
8

She's talking a load of crap. "can I kiss you" in most contexts in the least romantic/sexy way you can kiss a woman. It tells her you do not have self confidence in your ability to read the situation or confidence in her attraction towards you. It might not land you in the friend zone but it will not turn her on. You are supposed to judge based on her body language and take charge of the situation. This is how most women want to be kissed. They do not want to have to give a man permission. And t…
/r/seduction21/07/22 06:00 PM
3

You first priority should be learning how to have a conversation with a stranger. If you can't even do that, trying to get laid just creeps people out.
/r/seduction20/07/22 09:09 AM
3

Not learning how to cold approach is a bad strategy. You probably won't always have a vast network of mutual friends to date. Especially as you get older. New friendships are just more logistically difficult to build so the pool will eventually dry up.
/r/seduction20/07/22 09:05 AM
2

Yeah. Measuring your success by the number of women you sleep with is a recipe for disaster. Since in the beginning you will have a high rate of failure.
/r/seduction20/07/22 09:05 AM
1

Yes. Living with your parents after 20 as a male hamstrings your dating life. Even if you have a perfectly valid reason It makes you look like a failure or lazy to many women. And even ignoring the image issues, it makes it very difficult to date as an adult if you don't have anywhere to hang out privately. That said. It doesn't kill dating entirely. There are still women who will date you. So if you're not getting dates at all, it's probably not only because you live with your parents. This is …
/r/seduction19/07/22 08:10 AM
2

Older people weren't ruined by social media. They're still comfortable of interacting with strangers in real life.
/r/seduction19/07/22 07:07 AM
18

It's better to go to her place when possible. Helps deal with the crazies and most women are more comfortable in their own home. Just a tip.
/r/seduction14/07/22 06:37 AM
2

It's not impossible to get laid. I've been laid. I just have to rely on the 1% of women who don't care that you're not even remotely funny. Yes I definitely am broken. I have a neuro-developmental disorder that directly impacts my social skills.
/r/seduction13/07/22 10:23 PM
7

I'm being realistic. Years of experience has told me that my conversations simply do not entertain people. Regardless of confidence levels. People who are capable of more than pretending to be human wouldnt understand what it's like to completely lack the necessary tools i suppose. "just be confident" works when you're a real person.
/r/seduction13/07/22 08:48 PM
5

Attitude does not add proficiency where there is none. It makes absolutely 0 different to be confident when nothing you have to say is even remotely entertaining.
/r/seduction13/07/22 08:37 PM
14

I wish it where still scripted. As someone with autism, confidence means nothing when I can't hold down a conversation. Let alone banter. "just be confident" relies on you being a fully functional human being who is just having self esteem issues.
/r/seduction13/07/22 07:58 PM
1

Yeah. PUA has become very niche since most of the big fish got scared away by media smear campaigns
/r/seduction13/07/22 07:55 PM
3

90% chance she was interested. That's just not something you do for a stranger spontaneously.
/r/seduction10/07/22 08:57 AM
5

Same appeal as any other kind of model. They're supposed to be some sort of standard for what "the most attractive" looks like. And just like with real models, that's not actually the case, just a perception.
/r/seduction09/07/22 08:22 AM
23

It's just a bunch of guys with no game rationalizing away their approach anxiety.
/r/seduction08/07/22 12:50 AM
6

At some point. "I want someone who lives literally next door" eats up all your options.
/r/seduction05/07/22 07:37 AM
2

If you're fit, they look good. They tend to make your triceps and chest look more muscular if you have some beef to begin with. Which is why they're popular with bouncer. A well fitted polo adds a good 5kg They don't look great if you're skinny though. I don't like any kind of pattern on my polis. It's black, or some other dark colour. White looks too much like daddy's money.
/r/seduction04/07/22 05:58 PM
3

A creepy loner who is probably a serial killer. /s Seriously though. Girls use Instagram to vett/stalk their potential partners. So some women may be more hesitant to date a man without one. Not gonna say most though. Note. I consider having an Instagram with 2 posts in 5 years the same as not having one.
/r/seduction04/07/22 05:34 PM
7

You might be a top 20% attractive man. But that doesn't mean you have a top 20% profile. Hot people often take bad pictures.
/r/seduction30/06/22 10:48 AM
2

Online dating is dead in a lot of smaller cities around the world. It's why I recommend you only ever use it as a supplement.
/r/seduction30/06/22 10:46 AM
12

She sounds crazy. I'd avoid her.
/r/seduction27/06/22 11:15 AM
2

I think the real question is how does one have this mythical fun.
/r/seduction27/06/22 08:49 AM
2

Just make sure there is a sexual undertone to the conversation. Physical compliments don't hurt either though can be overdone.
/r/seduction24/06/22 06:48 AM
15

It means she's not excited by you. Either you're not hot, or your flirting isn't landing.
/r/seduction21/06/22 09:28 AM
2

It's the same as being unattractive. Except people look at you more often and women are more willing to talk to you. Men too to a lesser degree. Maybe every now and then a woman will approach you, but she'll rarely be attractive. It doesn't make up for social anxiety or a boring personality. This is from someone who was a 4, who then became an 8.
/r/seduction21/06/22 05:11 AM
1

Then the answer to "do you think I'll have any luck finding men to date" is, very little. Since you're cutting out 99% of the dating pool by relying on the handful that try the brownie.
/r/seduction21/06/22 05:02 AM
1

Nobody here is claiming personality is not relevant. I'm claiming that looks are, which you just admitted is true, right after claiming I'm making this up. Let's say you're at a bakery. They serve two dishes which you've never tasted before and have heard nothing about. One is a cupcake. It tastes average, but looks pretty. The other is a Brownie. It looks like a pile of dung, but tastes incredible. Being realistic, you are always gonna choose the cupcake. Because you have no way of knowing the …
/r/seduction20/06/22 10:35 PM
3

Age is irrelevant. Men's preferences statistically do not vary greatly with age. Their standards my fall as they age, but what they prefer stays pretty consistent.
/r/seduction20/06/22 09:34 PM
2

Yup. Mine are based on reality. Whilst yours are based upon denial. Attractive men are not effected by you not thinking being fit matters to them
/r/seduction20/06/22 07:37 PM
2

You where hotter when you where thin than you are now. There is a middle ground. That's why we grade on a scale from 1-10.
/r/seduction20/06/22 07:04 PM
2

The most desirable men pay most attention to the most desirable women. As an average. That means fit men, whom most women prefer will exclusively date fit women. Because they have that option. Where as the men who can't date the fit women are the ones interested in fat women. Since men preferring fit women is a huge majority, this means most of the fit men who date fat women have made red flags that make them unable to date the fit women. Tldr: hot people date hot people exclusively because they…
/r/seduction20/06/22 05:03 PM
15

Will you have luck? Yes. There are men out there willing to date fat women Will those men be the ones you want? Probably not. For best results, lose the weight.
/r/seduction20/06/22 08:36 AM
1

Most feminists hate men. The only ones who don't are the ones who haven't delved too deeply into it yet. The ones who claim they're feminists because they think they're supposed to, without having actually put thought into it. (this is why the older the demographic you ask, the fewer feminists you find, the ones who didn't think about it eventually do, then chose a side again) Feminist ideology inherently causes a hatred, or at least a distrust of males, because it pins every single social issue…
/r/seduction18/06/22 05:06 PM
0

No. 30-60% of women are not like that, depending on age group. So just date them instead. Wasting time with feminists is pointlessly infuriating.
/r/seduction18/06/22 05:04 PM
1

You're like a son to her
/r/seduction18/06/22 12:44 AM
1

They don't. That's why they ask these questions.
/r/seduction18/06/22 12:44 AM
1

Way too many people do not understand that not everyone has natural sociability. Not everyone is born a charismatic extrovert. Game exists so that non-naturals don't have to die alone.
/r/seduction15/06/22 12:27 PM
0

Usually either "it's been a while" or "about 30 seconds ago". I don't give them a real answer.
/r/seduction13/06/22 01:57 AM
15

Guys pick up women literally everywhere. Probably there are guys out there with experience picking up women in funerals
/r/seduction11/06/22 05:46 PM
2

If you're hot, and want hookups, clubs. Anything or anyone else? Bars.
/r/seduction11/06/22 05:45 PM
1

No. It's not less appealing.
/r/seduction08/06/22 03:06 PM
1

The only way is to approach them. A man can wait for a woman to meet him half way for the rest of his life and never get laid. Its not possible to not notice the guy who approached you though.
/r/seduction03/06/22 12:07 AM
1

Statistically, probably. People who have cheated are way more likely to cheat in the future.
/r/seduction28/05/22 12:31 AM
1

Yeah. Goes for your friends too. Like attracts like.
/r/seduction16/05/22 08:52 PM
1

That's assuming relationship are constant power struggles. Which I fundamentally disagree with. Relationships are not some constant subtle background struggle for dominance.
/r/seduction15/05/22 09:38 PM
1

It's just feminist doing what feminists do, looking for every and any reason men are evil. Even if they have to invent it. It's amplified by their fear of losing power over men as they age. No sense caring at all about it. You can't win with them. They'll just move the goalposts if your try to. I don't think this is a country thing. It's a political thing could occur anywhere. But of course some countries (US, Sweden, etc) have more feminism that others.
/r/seduction15/05/22 09:33 PM
3

I've been successful with the direct approach probably 3 times In the passed 7 years. It only works with a very warm lead.
/r/seduction07/05/22 01:10 PM
7

Don't chose your hobbies based on what will make you more attractive. Attractive hobbies are hobbies you're passionate in. Unless it's re-assmbling chickens from grocery store meat. That said, I've been getting really into CAD and 3d Printing.
/r/seduction04/05/22 08:55 PM
3

Because your mom and sister told you that's how it works. Then sitcoms confirmed that belief.
/r/seduction04/05/22 01:02 PM
3

Defo psychological. I'd suspect performance anxiety. No idea how to fix it tbh. I used to struggle like this, but it just sort of went away on its own.
/r/seduction03/05/22 02:48 PM
2

To simply not engage in a conversation that can be mistaken as flirting, which she clearly did given her need to mention a boyfriend.
/r/seduction02/05/22 11:00 PM
5

Context is key. If she feels the need to mention a boyfriend it's clearly not just a friendly conversation in her mind. And we all know how difficult it is for and attractive man and attractive woman to be "just friends". It's virtually a given feelings develop on one side or both.
/r/seduction02/05/22 04:41 PM
1

If she cheats, that's on her. But be careful. Some guys direct their anger at the guy she cheated with instead of her.
/r/seduction02/05/22 04:32 PM
6

They don't. You either learn to act like an extrovert with women, or you are celibate.
/r/seduction01/05/22 04:51 PM
1

I'd like to have a relationship, or at least some chemistry in the hookup. Just using women as a fleshlight doesn't appeal to me.
/r/seduction30/04/22 04:27 PM
1

TRT is not guaranteed to kill your sperm count. That's a common side effect, true, but not a universal one. TRT would simply not be a reliable method of BC. This post is frankly ignorant misinformation.
/r/seduction30/04/22 11:55 AM
2

Imagine having money and buying an SUV like some suburban soccer mom :D
/r/seduction30/04/22 09:40 AM
3

You can fairly reasonably expect 6%, so 6k out of 100k ROI in an index fund. A lot more if you invest in real-estate since it's fairly easy to leverage loans in that market and real estate has a higher average ROI than stocks anyway (bubble alert). Still, you need more like 800k in the stock market to make a full time income. 100k will compound to 800k in 35 years. But then again, realistically you're going to be constantly inputting funds, not just tossing in 100k and forgetting it. So you'll r…
/r/seduction30/04/22 09:35 AM
2

Being handsome makes you money. So does having charisma and confidence for that matter.
/r/seduction30/04/22 09:29 AM
2

You can also be rich and not get bitches. Money buys you gold diggers and whores. Not love or lust.
/r/seduction30/04/22 09:28 AM
8

Sounds an awful lot like an excuse to me. Fuck women and make money. There is no reason not to have both. If you wait until you have money, then start dating, you'll find you have no game what so ever and the only women who are ever interested are the gold diggers.
/r/seduction30/04/22 09:26 AM
2

Cognitive behavioral therapy and exposure.
/r/seduction27/04/22 07:23 AM
12

I sort of disagree about going to bars sober tbh. I've done it dozens of times and it's never been a problem. But tbh when I'm with the bros I almost act drunk even when I am sober so maybe that's part of it.
/r/seduction26/04/22 11:56 AM
6

Nope. It's perfectly possible to pick up girls sober. I probably haven't done any social drinking since 2019. Once you have the social anxiety dealt with the alcohol doesn't really help.
/r/seduction26/04/22 11:51 AM
2

Depends on how drunk she is tbh. I've had a few girls who where still interested afterwards. Even without me pulling (though a heavy makeout sesh was always involved). But the common thread was that all of them where only a few drinks in at best. When girls get too drunk they either forget about you entirely, or think of it as a mistake because she did it drunk. Waking up in the same bed helps to fix that.
/r/seduction24/04/22 04:57 PM
0

That's not you taming her. That's her taming herself after she realizes the fun is over and she needs to scrape up the bottom of the barrel for whatever husband's are left.
/r/seduction24/04/22 08:24 AM
1

Lots of "nice guys" out there who get angry when a girl rejects them. They're not the norm, but common enough that most women have encountered at least one.
/r/seduction23/04/22 11:40 PM
1

I only agree with it when it's applied to proven sluts. It's sort of a precautions. You can't tame the party girl.
/r/seduction23/04/22 05:54 PM
1

It most cases it should start in that frame. There are exceptions (for example, new co-worker) where more caution is due. The easiest way to make sure the conversation is man to women to pay her a compliment. Nothing stupid like "you're the most beautiful woman I've ever seen". Something simple, like "I like your hair" it's not too forward but communicates that you're attracted to her. You don't generally want to turn a friendly conversation into a flirtatious one, conversations have momentum so…
/r/seduction19/04/22 01:49 PM
7

Approach as fast as possible. But your approach can't be super gamey during daytime. What works in a nightclub won't work at 4pm on a Tuesday at the park. You have to approach it more as a friendly conversation that escalates.
/r/seduction19/04/22 09:17 AM
2

16-23. That's the range where you really can't tell.
/r/seduction19/04/22 01:36 AM
4

No. I approach. If she says she's under 18 I'll just politely end the interaction. Not that that's illegal where I'm from. I'm just not interested in dating girls who can't legally drink. That said, most of my approaches happen in bars so in theory they're all at least 18 anyway. Occasionally do daygame where the risk is higher, but not frequently.
/r/seduction19/04/22 01:35 AM
1

Being natural is always going to work. The books and courses exist for guys who never managed to develop natural game. They're crutches. Not superior.
/r/seduction18/04/22 04:40 PM
3

I've seen a guy pull opening with "can I pee in your butt". So truthfully, literally anything can work. But yeah that could be better.
/r/seduction17/04/22 09:41 PM
1

She's definitely into you. Guaranteed. That's not something you do to a near stranger unless you want their attention. Ask her out. 90% chance she says yes if you're not a total fuckup.
/r/seduction17/04/22 09:07 PM
47

Ignore them. It's the gender perception they have a problem with, not the gap. Most of them wouldn't care if the situation was reversed. They see women as defenseless children with no agency. And see men as compulsively manipulative monsters.
/r/seduction16/04/22 10:04 AM
2

There is no such thing as "out of my league" and as long as you think that way, you won't get with them. You can't attract someone you don't view as your equal or lesser. The second you pedistalize a woman, you lose your chance. So first off. Remind yourself, it's just a girl. There are 100 000 000 more just like her and more still who are even better. She is not special. She's just attractive. Once you've done that, you then proceed to flirt with her, human to human. If she's the kind of girl w…
/r/seduction15/04/22 02:28 PM
1

Obviously yes. If it wasn't then humanity would probably go extinct and no marriage would last longer than 2 years. Those are just the PUAs you see. Most of the dude pulling are doing it stealthily. They're not advertising it all over social media to build a brand. They're just having fun.
/r/seduction14/04/22 10:44 PM
2

Leagues don't exist. Approach women you find attractive. People are notoriously bad at judging their own attractiveness and you never know what kind of fucked up fetish that 10 has.
/r/seduction14/04/22 12:25 AM
1

What most people think of as muscular is actually jacked as shit. Everyone is used to roided out fitness models.
/r/seduction13/04/22 06:35 PM
137

Pretty much every guy who's ever dated will tell you what happens when you're vulnerable with a women. Most of them like the fantasy of it. But don't like the reality. They want men who are vulnerable. But only when they show the emotions the woman wants to see when she wants to see them. Every other time they're a massive turn off.
/r/seduction13/04/22 03:53 PM
1

Look at the cover of every romantic chick book ever. Or the dudes in porn for girls. Most of them are jacked. Look at how women react in the comment sections of jacked celebrity videos. Anyone who looks like they could be a male underwear model is jacked. Way bigger than most guys ever get. By the time your T levels are so low you can't maintain muscle, hopefully you'll have settled down. Since 20y girls typically don't date men in their late 50s and early 60s. Testosterone level typically only …
/r/seduction13/04/22 02:14 PM
2

No it doesn't. Women love jacked dudes. Can confirm. Its not actually all that difficult to maintain. It's getting jacked in the first place that's moderately difficult. Muscle is way easier to maintain than it is to build.
/r/seduction13/04/22 09:33 AM
7

First. Figure out what your caloric maintenance is. You do this by just counting your calories (don't forget the sauces and drinks) and then comparing that to your change in weight. If your weight isn't changing over a month then you know you're eating at maintenance. There are also calculators but they're frankly inaccurate. Once you know your maintenance add 100-250 calories to daily intake. Without steroids this is enough fuel for maximal muscle growth. More than that will just add fat on top…
/r/seduction13/04/22 09:29 AM
3

Definitely a disadvantage. It's not impossible of course, there are absolutely short guys with dating success. But you should consider getting jacked. That will help compensate somewhat for the shortness. Not completely. But a good bit.
/r/seduction13/04/22 09:15 AM
143

They do it because they're desperate. They where never taught to approach women. In many cases they where taught not to approach them to avoid "harassment". Which has led to a situation where they don't know how to talk to women. Which means they never get laid, despite wanting to. Simping is a desperate attempt to gain female attention when you don't know how to.
/r/seduction11/04/22 08:13 PM
1

You don't need to be confident. You just need to look confident.
/r/seduction11/04/22 01:21 PM
1

That's because of a smear campaign in mass media in 2015. Not an earned reputation.
/r/seduction10/04/22 03:40 PM
3

That's a gross misrepresentation
/r/seduction10/04/22 12:48 PM
14

Yup. Chad's works on looks+social status. They don't need game to get laid because they already have 2 of the 3 sides of the triangle.
/r/seduction10/04/22 12:41 PM
16

Working as a bouncer I see it every now and then. Most guys are honestly just winging it so you don't see much technique generally speaking.
/r/seduction10/04/22 12:39 PM
7

24 isn't very late. You've probably missed most of the college scene, sure. But most guys only really come into their stride in the late 20s/early 30s. Just make sure to take great physical care of yourself so you age well. You can go to bars alone. But you'd best find a group in that bar to tag along with. Or at least, chat with lots of poeple. This might involve buying a couple dudes a drink and telling a few jokes. You can get girls even without this, but it's easier with some social proof. G…
/r/seduction10/04/22 10:58 AM
14

This is probably a calibration issue. I'd guess your game is too obvious and heavy handed for your venue. You have to start small then escalate an interaction. Trying to start from too high a point of investment scares girls away. This is why trial, analysis, adjustment and error is important. Instead of trial an error alone. If 10 approaches add badly. You need to look into your strategy, and tweak it. Then keep tweaking until things start to work.
/r/seduction10/04/22 10:41 AM
7

What I usually do is lead the conversation in a direction that gives me an excuse to invite her to my place. For example, I might comment on how the lines are too long and say "I got drinks at my place, let's head there". Or maybe I'll start talking about a movie or TV show, then when she claims to have never seen it, use that as an excuse to invite her over to come watch it. It could even be something completely stupid. I've once used "I have a killer model airplane collection, let's head to my…
/r/seduction09/04/22 11:40 AM
13

People are shy around people they're attracted too because there is more fear of negative judgment
/r/seduction09/04/22 09:16 AM
5

Social proof and competitive pressure.
/r/seduction09/04/22 05:56 AM
2

It's the easiest environment to get hookups in. And those often can be extrapolated into relationships if that's what you're into. You will need to push passed your introversion and actually approach for it to happen though. If you're hot girls sometimes do approach in bars, but don't count on it.
/r/seduction09/04/22 05:41 AM
1

This is a gender thing. People are not comfortable approaching random men for casual conversations for the most part.
/r/seduction08/04/22 02:38 PM
25

In highschool I was trying to get with this girl. Things just never clicked. Couple years later I met her identical twin sister (different fashion style so didn't look identical) in a bar, and we wound up dating for a few months. Neither sister seemed to mind it. Not quite what you're describing but it is what it is. I personally would not date a girl my brother is trying to get with. No matter how much she prefers me.
/r/seduction08/04/22 02:34 PM
5

It's called double think. The act of believing two contradictory ideas simultaneously. People have gotten really good at it lately. As for why assholes get laid. It's because some of the traits that come with being an asshole are attractive. That doesn't mean you need to be an asshole to embody those traits though. Assholes tend to have high perceived self confidence, are assertive, and don't pedistalize.
/r/seduction08/04/22 12:23 PM
1

If you're not having fun dating. Or it's becoming too platonic. You need better game. Dating in your 20s is basically "do crazy shit to get off" simulator. If you're doing it right.
/r/seduction06/04/22 03:46 PM
13

A 17 year old is not a child. Not technically, or legally. They're late adolescents. The same developmental category as 18-19ys. Pretty much anywhere you go, it is legal for a 19y to date a 17y. Even in the few countries where 18 is the AOC. Because most of those have Romeo and Juliet laws that allow relationships with a few years of age gap even when AOC is not met. Also, assuming OP is in the US, most states actually have an AOC of 16/17y. Only 11 of them have an AOC of 18. And if he's in Euro…
/r/seduction06/04/22 10:32 AM
4

It is. Not that unreasonable either. If you spend and hour per day approaching every 2-4 days, you'd do 900 in a year.
/r/seduction06/04/22 10:27 AM
7

Yes. Unless you're Henry Cavill (rich, famous and handsome) you'll be well off if you have a 30% success rate. Which is only possible if you're hot and are at an easy venue. Also pretty sure 17-19 is legal in most places, even where AOC is 18. Due to Romeo and Juliet laws. And 2 years isn't a large enough age gap for most people to care.
/r/seduction06/04/22 10:22 AM
0

That's not what I'm saying. I'm saying that the problem is not his height. The problem is his perception of his height. I'm not saying don't fix problems either. If you're fat, go to the gym. If you're broke, improve your education and get a better job. If you're lonely, learn to seduce. Just make sure your focus is on the actual problem. Not just a symptom of the problem. Poor body image can not be cured surgically.
/r/seduction04/04/22 02:12 PM
4

Like any other kind of cosmetic surgery. It's a bandaid solution to a problem than can only be cured by changing your mental state. Once you're tall, the problem will be your nose, or your eyes, or your hair, or whatever else you can imagine. You will never be satisfied until you accept imperfection. Cosmetic surgeries in my opinion should be reserved for fixing damage from injuries/mutilations, or fixing the visual effects of health conditions. If the issue is just something that you happened t…
/r/seduction04/04/22 11:44 AM
2

"I just knew" is usually just you imagening things to avoid the pain of rejection. Ignore it in the future.
/r/seduction04/04/22 07:45 AM
1

They're thinking with their dicks
/r/seduction04/04/22 07:23 AM
15

Sounds like a bad idea. Old feeling tend to come back hard in bed. This quite frankly is a recipe for disaster.
/r/seduction03/04/22 09:48 PM
0

She wants aggressive, assertive sex. Take what you want and do it while you imagine yourself as an alpha male Silverback gorilla.
/r/seduction03/04/22 06:17 PM
1

This is true. But it won't help if they don't like what they see. In which case, it's better to remain mysterious.
/r/seduction03/04/22 12:30 PM
15

Not having social media is better than having lame social media. Just anonymize or delete the IG page and focus on dating irl.
/r/seduction02/04/22 03:57 PM
2

Bro... Don't judge a book by its cover. Maybe this guy is actually a stud on the inside. You're just making blanket assumptions about him based on very little evidence because you're bitter his girlfriend rejected you. This far after the rejection, you shouldn't even remember it. Let alone care.
/r/seduction02/04/22 12:32 PM
1

Happens to every man. It's just a way for less desirable women to try and even out the playing field. Just ignore it. As long as she's above the legal age of consent, the only people who's opinions you should care about is you, and her.
/r/seduction01/04/22 09:42 AM
1

In those species, single motherhood is usually the norm. In which case, it makes sense for the female to select the specific male she wants to mate with. There is no need for said male to prove competence to her, because he won't be in the picture after the deed is done. He just needs to be physically attractive to indicate good genetic material.
/r/seduction31/03/22 09:33 AM
1

Yup. Sadly, due to the necessity of monogamous parenting in humans we need to be way more careful with selection than most non-monogamous animals. When the success of your offspring is heavily dependent on the relationship between its mother and father figures, you can't afford to make babies just because someone had a cute dance or amogged harder than someone else. Or at least, women can't. Men might be able to compensate with sheer quantity of offspring. But women's natural selection would be …
/r/seduction30/03/22 09:06 AM
1

Yup. Social anxiety disorder, likely caused by my lack of social skills resulting from autism. When I was 18-20 I was able to push passed it and had some success with women. But after I was conscripted I relapsed hard to the point where I can't even approach anymore.
/r/seduction30/03/22 08:50 AM
1

You just need to have enough confidence to approach women and have conversations with them, whilst also being physically attractive. Narcissism is not a requirement.
/r/seduction29/03/22 04:57 PM
8

Welcome to the magic of social proof and pre-selection What you do to 1 girl, 10 girls and 10 of those girls friends knows within the week. When a girl knows someone you've slept with, she's more likely to want to sleep with you. There are multiple reasons for this. The fact that another girl found you attractive enough to sleep with must mean you're somewhat desirable. Lots of girls have an ego need to be as attractive, or more attractive than other girls. One way to prove this is to be chosen …
/r/seduction29/03/22 01:28 PM
2

More like biological. Man chases woman is universal across every culture. It's caused by a combination of men's testosterone driven propensity for risk seeking, and women's hesitation to take risks, coupled with womens heavier consequences to a bad sexual choice.
/r/seduction29/03/22 01:17 PM
3

This is a subreddit about seduction in general. Not specifically male to female seduction. It just so happens that men have a much higher burden of seduction in the dating world and so are more likely to seek help.
/r/seduction29/03/22 01:15 PM
12

Women are just as terrified of rejection as men are. The reason men are willing to risk rejection while women are not despite the equal fear is because men have more testosterone. Which encourages risk taking behavior. Would you approach if you could sort of stand there and wait for suitors to come to you? There is simply no pressure for women to take that risk when men are biologically predisposed to take more risks than women are.
/r/seduction29/03/22 01:06 PM
2

If you have to ask, the answer is probably yes.
/r/seduction24/03/22 09:51 PM
3

Every girls DMs are full of thirsty dudes. Only time it matters is if they're all in her texts, instead of IG or snap or smth. And then, only if she's "exclusive"
/r/seduction24/03/22 09:42 PM
7

Is it more difficult? Yes. Absolutely. Women, or at least a huge portion of women care about height a lot. Should you care? No. Plenty of short guys get laid and have partners. Being short does not disqualify you from attracting women. Good game, and a good physique go a long way towards compensating for height. If you focus on your short comings that you can't change. That will do nothing but hurt your confidence. Which will do a lot more to damage your love life than being short ever would. Fo…
/r/seduction14/03/22 07:03 PM
2

Nowhere and everywhere. Pretty much anywhere you go will have both types. At a nightclub you'll have more after hookups. At a park you'll have more after relationships. But you can still find both in both venues.
/r/seduction13/03/22 11:03 PM
5

It's college so she probably wants to cheat. Most likely will break up with him within a few months anyway but that won't stop her. What you do depends entirely upon whether or not you see a moral issue sleeping with someone who's taken. Its also possible she's just flirting because she likes your attention. My recommendation is the same.
/r/seduction11/03/22 05:51 PM
3

Pull the skin tight on the section you want to shave. And be very gentle.
/r/seduction09/03/22 09:41 AM
4

I don't tend to shave them. Only trim them. Enough to keep it tidy. When I'm in a relationship, once per week. Otherwise, probably once per month.
/r/seduction09/03/22 09:40 AM
1

It's better to not have an Instagram profile, than to have a boring Instagram profile. Women use it to stalk potential partners, so you can easily ruin a good impression with it.
/r/seduction08/03/22 10:35 AM
1

It has its advantages. But it ultimately depends on your personality. You get to explore your taste, and experiment. So you know exactly what you like and what works for you when you decide to settle down You end up with a better selection of women to choose from because of social proof and having refined game. You don't have to jack off. You don't end up desperate But you also lack the sort of connection and fulfillment only a committed relationship gives you. Also, sex in a relationship is usu…
/r/seduction06/03/22 12:36 PM
5

99% of tinder is down to looks. Other things start to matter once you move to the real world.
/r/seduction05/03/22 05:46 PM
1

If someone else is attracted to you, there must be a reason for it. Thus. You must be attractive.
/r/seduction02/03/22 08:30 PM
0

Not without game you don't.
/r/seduction28/02/22 08:35 PM
0

Hot pictures get you matches. Not dates. Or lays. You still need to have game to turn a match into a lay.
/r/seduction28/02/22 01:35 PM
2

I definitely do have the looks. I'm approached by women on a regular basis and have overheard women talk about how attractive I am (probably intentionally on their part). I constantly catch girls glancing at me at the gym. When I approach women are almost always very receptive initially, a failed approach for me is almost always down to her losing interest as the conversation progresses, rather than the other way around. The simple fact is, looks are not even close to the most important factor.
/r/seduction27/02/22 05:27 PM
1

As someone with looks. No it isn't. Looks mean nothing without game to compliment them.
/r/seduction27/02/22 04:37 PM
0

My highschool had over 1000 students, nor where all of them from the one I was going too. Most where nightclub hookups. Not sure highschool is the correct word either. Schooling works a little differently to the US in my country.
/r/seduction27/02/22 01:37 PM
5

I estimate around 50. Haven't been keeping count. Most of those where in highschool though. Been on a bit of a dry spell since then, due to various personal issues.
/r/seduction27/02/22 11:07 AM
44

No. Creep=socially uncalibrated. Being ugly can make people more sensitive to your creepiness though.
/r/seduction27/02/22 11:00 AM
5

Whether or not you're considered a creep has next to nothing to do with where you're approaching. As long as the approach is calibrated to the venue.
/r/seduction27/02/22 10:59 AM
36

The outcome isn't dependent on where you're approaching. Only the initiation depends on that. The way you approach in a nightclub is different from a funeral. But both can absolutely end in a hookup.
/r/seduction27/02/22 10:56 AM
1

This is what's called onitis. You're too fixated on 1 girl. Dude. You should have moved on when she rejected you the first time. Chasing women who don't want you is a losing game. She isn't special. Her pussy isn't made of gold. She is like every other 8/10 out there. Just shift your interest to one of the 790 000 000 girls just as hot or hotter than her.
/r/seduction26/02/22 11:16 AM
1

If you're hot. You can literally just say anything ridiculous. Like "hi, you're hot, will I come to your place tonight or tomorrow?" My hot friend has proven this works. Helps if you have a killer Instagram profile though.
/r/seduction25/02/22 11:22 PM
2

Yes. As long as those cuvres come from the gym and not the drive through
/r/seduction25/02/22 09:02 AM
1

Probably just down to her cycle, in all honesty. You can do everything right for one portion of her cycle. But that same thing will be wrong for the other portion of her cycle. Women like different things on their fertile phase than they do on their infertile phase.
/r/seduction23/02/22 05:35 PM
4

That's not strictly true. They fuck their "guy" friends. Not their guy "friends" . They use the same word for both but there are two distinct groups. The "guy" friends are her rotation. She just doesn't call them that because she wants plausible slut deniability. The guy "friends" are her orbiters. Being friends with a girl is a losing strategy if you want to sleep with her. Since the majority of them are guy "friends".
/r/seduction23/02/22 05:28 PM
13

25 is prime age for girls from 18-24. You're their ideal. You're "established" relative to them at that point. But still look young, yet also more matured and "filled out" than their age peers. You're a little older than them, but not so old that her friends will look at her side eyed. And yes, it is true that women on average prefer men slightly older than themselves, around 2-5 years generally speaking. The key is to be hot when it comes to younger women. And for a man that is mostly a matter …
/r/seduction23/02/22 01:02 AM
3

This only works if she is already interested to begin with. It takes subtle game to spark that initial interest. Otherwise the woman will never consider you. Unless you're highly popular.
/r/seduction20/02/22 09:36 PM
1

No. Women give men bad dating advice because they are trying it make it reflect well on themselves. They also probably genuinely believe their advice, because for women everything works. And anything that bombs is actually her toxic partners fault.
/r/seduction20/02/22 09:33 PM
1

Intersexual relationships are quite literally the (evolutionary) meaning of life. Or rather, their consequences (children) are. Its no surprise our monkey brains rate reproduction as very high on our list of priorities.
/r/seduction17/02/22 07:58 PM
1

You're 24. Everyone expects you to be broke or close because they expect you to be in school, or just finishing it. Which gives you a free pass. Wait a few years and the standards change.
/r/seduction17/02/22 02:38 AM
0

Unfortunately looks are not everything. As a hot guy. It's still no guarantee you'll get laid. For a man to be successful, there are 3 important traits. Looks Charisma (social status/game) Professional success A man who only has 1 of these traits, will not be successful with women. A man who has 2. Will see moderate success with women. A man with all 3 has 10s lining up to date him. Oh, and also. None of these work without self confidence. That's a pre-requisite for even being considered.
/r/seduction16/02/22 07:59 PM
25

Not the same. Sex dolls are like advanced masturbation. Maybe better than a hand but closer to your hand than to the real thing.
/r/seduction16/02/22 04:54 AM
25

DO NOT take advice from the women you talk to about dating. They don't date women. They don't know. Unless a woman has proven she knows her shit, take advice from men who have active dating lives. Too many men live like virgins because the only dating advice they ever got was from mom and their sister. Maybe their girl friends. Most dating advice most women spout, gives you platonic, obligate friendships. I can guarantee you, no woman will complain that she met a great guy at the gym. Only if sh…
/r/seduction15/02/22 07:22 PM
3

You can approach women everywhere. Though I'd be cautious approaching at work, yours or hers. I would not rule out any other place. Plenty of guys say "not at the gym" but I disagree. I've met many great women, friends and lovers, at the gym. It's an excellent place for it. Everyone is hot and flooded with dopamine and you have at least 1 common hobby to talk about which makes conversation easy. The air in a gym practically oozes a subtle sexuality. You just have to be more subtle about it. Inst…
/r/seduction15/02/22 07:19 PM
1

Yeah, i guess it could be down to the pandemic? Bars closed so no bar hookups.
/r/seduction13/02/22 08:06 PM
2

I usually tell them "probably 15 years older than you" in a joking tone. I can usually launch that into some bullshit funny story about my non-existent lame children who would make perfect partners for her. Generally get good response. I'm 23 and look it btw. Might not work as well if you actually are 15 years older than them.
/r/seduction13/02/22 08:03 PM
3

It's complicated. Ultimately, she is responsible for it. Not you. And often times women don't even tell the men they cheat with. But if you go sleeping with your best friends girlfriend, obviously you've betrayed them.
/r/seduction13/02/22 03:57 PM
6

Just because there are fewer non-single mothers as you get older, doesn't mean they suddenly become equally desirable to the average man as childless women.
/r/seduction11/02/22 07:46 PM
33

Definitely not. Single moms are crazy when it comes to protection. In my limited experience with single mom bar hookups, they're usually the ones who ask you to take off the condom and just pull out. That's why they're single mothers.
/r/seduction11/02/22 06:31 PM
26

The same reason men are generally easier than women. They're more desperate. Most men aren't interested in dating mothers.
/r/seduction11/02/22 06:29 PM
2

I'm tall, dark haired, in shape, a have godlike beard genetics on a decent jaw line (keep it stubbled), and I've been told I have nice eyes. I wouldn't call myself a 10. My facial shape isn't perfect and my hairline is slightly receded on one side. But I'm definitely in the 8-9 territory. I've been hit on at work on multiple occasions, and constantly catch women mirin in the gym. I struggle with women because of my social anxiety. I actually have a relatively high success rate when I'm able to p…
/r/seduction09/02/22 01:02 PM
3

I have no advice. But the risk of pre-cum carrying sperm is only high if you had an orgasm recently and didn't urinate afterwards. Still possible, but unlikely. Don't rely on it. But no need to panic
/r/seduction09/02/22 01:46 AM
3

Hookup or Number? 30%ish. Date? 15% ish.
/r/seduction09/02/22 01:41 AM
2

Watch how women talk about and treat their friends. That's how female friends will treat you too. You have to expect it. Backstabbing is the norm.
/r/seduction07/02/22 01:49 AM
5

Depends a lot on the environment. I'd say, in a night game environment. They're lying 80% of the time. In a day game environment, they're only lying 20% of the time. They lie more often the less attractive you are. If you're extremely attractive they lie in the opposite direction.
/r/seduction05/02/22 07:11 PM
4

If she has one who she has feelings for, she will tell you. If she has one, but doesn't like you, she'll tell you. If she's single. And likes you, she won't. If she has one, but doesn't love him, and wants to date you, she won't tell you any time soon. If she has one, but doesn't love him, and doesn't want to date you, she'll tell you the morning after.
/r/seduction05/02/22 07:09 PM
8

Pump and dump, bang and scatter, have fun then run. Obsession with her ex is a huge red flag for anything more than a hookup. She's looking for revenge or a rebound.
/r/seduction04/02/22 03:20 PM
1

3 numbers out of 25 approaches is a good start. Even guys with killer game are lucky to have a 33% success rate. And even for them, numbers are often dead. Though there are some strategies you can use to reduce ghosting. Mainly, continue flirting after you've received the number, and end the interaction on a high note. When you eventually open via the number. Use a joke or something that reminds her of you pleasant interaction earlier. Dating as a man never stops being a numbers game until you'r…
/r/seduction04/02/22 12:37 PM
71

Is she basically naked and clearly thirst fishing? Probably wouldn't be dating her. Is it just a picture that happens to be hot because she just is? No problem at all. There is a fine line between tasteful hot, and trashy hot I'm fine with her posting a Pic from the beach in a bikini. Not ok with her posting a Pic from bed in her underwear.
/r/seduction02/02/22 01:38 PM
3

Gay men are just more open to expressing attraction than women are.
/r/seduction30/01/22 06:13 PM
5

Where else? The library?
/r/seduction30/01/22 02:23 AM
1

All the time. That's the most common place people get laid. You gotta be brave enough to approach a girl who's with her friends. Women travel in packs almost everywhere.
/r/seduction30/01/22 02:22 AM
4

They don't. They are eternally single until they learn to stop acting introverted.
/r/seduction29/01/22 07:01 PM
1

Trial and error. Some guys hire dating coaches. But most men just either sink, or swim.
/r/seduction28/01/22 10:05 AM
1

Not really, no. What women find attractive is too complicated to be a reliable indicator of anything.
/r/seduction28/01/22 01:57 AM
3

They do. It's just not the only factor. And what women like in a personality is not always what they claim to like. Looks, personality, and social status. Those are the 3 pillars of attracting women. With just 1/3, you don't die a virgin With 2/3, you get to date a few time per year. With 3/3, you get to have a rotation. It also seems the younger the woman, the more looks matter, so they're not all equally valuable. For example, a 20y girl may place a 50% priority on looks, 30% on Social status,…
/r/seduction27/01/22 09:33 AM
1

Just remember that pictures have way more to do with lighting and posing than your actual physical attractiveness. I've had photos which where rated 9.8 in attractiveness, and photos rated at 3. Same guy. Different picture.
/r/seduction27/01/22 01:20 AM
1

I mean a picture that makes you look good to a friend or an employer, doesn't necessarily make you look good to a lover.
/r/seduction27/01/22 01:15 AM
6

No, not really. Not in my experience anyway. Some photos work well other don't. Even if they have high photofeeler rating. I suspect it's a "good for social media or linkedin" vs "good for dating" issue.
/r/seduction27/01/22 01:09 AM
227

Yes. Huge difference. Especially at the beach. Women are way more receptive. Its not enough though, you still need game like everyone else. It's just a little easier.
/r/seduction26/01/22 11:41 PM
4

Maybe I'm overly cautious these days. But in my experience, the girls who don't want to move off tinder are in it for a meal. It's easier to block you on tinder than with a phone number that has her real name attached, so it keeps them safer when they ghost you after the meal.
/r/seduction25/01/22 05:26 PM
1

No, not always. But it is very dependent on context. You have to be very aware of the fact that they have no choice but to be friendly so focus heavily on body language (very difficult in a place like hooters, they're often excellent actors). Also make sure they're not busy at that moment. I've been hit on at work on several occasions (I'm a bouncer). And I've been both happy for it, and highly uncomfortable. Depending on the context, as well as how the pursuer recognizes my body language ques. …
/r/seduction25/01/22 05:02 PM
1

It was blunt. Rude or not, needed to be said.
/r/seduction25/01/22 03:13 PM
0

Finnish culture is basically just a more nihilistic version of Swedish culture to be fair, due to vast historical immigration between our nations. We might not be geographically Scandinavian. But culturally, you can easily lump us into that group.
/r/seduction25/01/22 02:30 PM
0

It's because you're a coward. Not because it's considered sexist. That's just your rationalization. Unless you're ugly, or are actually pushy, women will not take offense. I have personal experience as an ethnically Scandinavian male who has lived in Finland and Norway, as well as visited Iceland to back up my claim.
/r/seduction25/01/22 02:27 PM
1

If she likes you? Yes. If she doesn't? Won't make a difference.
/r/seduction25/01/22 01:38 PM
8

Go for it. If she wasn't interested you wouldn't have her number.
/r/seduction25/01/22 02:24 AM
1

You have to brute force yourself into approaching them until you get used to it. They'll never not make you nervous. But you can learn to deal with those nerves via repeat exposure.
/r/seduction22/01/22 06:06 PM
12

I'm 23, 6` tall, visibly muscular, have full hair, a strong jaw, a killer stubble, and I've been told i have nice eyes too. I get approached by a woman maybe 8 times per year. And of those 8, only 2 of them are attractive. The other 6 are old, fat, or both. And I work as a bouncer, which means in a night life environment I have automatic social status due to my authority. So yeah. It's pretty rare. Its far more common a woman gives you a glance and a maybe a smile if you're lucky, hoping you app…
/r/seduction22/01/22 12:41 AM
1

Seeing as you're incapable of understanding the concept of analogies. I don't know why I'm wasting my time trying to explain this. But the fact of the matter is, 1/10 is an insanely high success rate for any non-famous male. Now I get that you've never actually tried to seduce a woman, so you wouldn't know this. But with men, dating is generally a matter of, it works (sometimes) or it doesn't. And the methods you suggest belong firmly into the later category. And the methods I suggest verifiable…
/r/seduction21/01/22 12:40 AM
1

If you can't think if a reason, then you're not very creative. No. It isn't. My tactic has gotten me laid dozens of times and has even gotten me a girlfriend in the passed. God those girls must have been so creeped out when they agreed to go grab a coffee 10 minutes later... Please, don't give advice when you clearly have no experience what so ever. This is a prime example of why you don't ask the fish how to fish.
/r/seduction22/12/21 10:58 AM
3

Practice self discipline. Don't be a slave to your impulses. Just because you feel like bolting, doesn't mean you have to.
/r/seduction21/12/21 06:28 PM
3

There are definitely women like you. But I've slept with and dated more than a few girls who played that line. Women are not a hive mind, and plenty use the same line for different reasons. I'll take the hint when she leaves the conversation.
/r/seduction21/12/21 01:35 PM
2

Usually just acknowledge it with a "oh, that's cool" then continue the conversation normally.
/r/seduction20/12/21 09:49 PM
45

We've all been there im sure. Nerves happen to the best of us. The only advice I can give, is try again, and again, and again. Until you learn to manage your nerves. It gets easier. Trust me. Often times "i have a boyfriend" is a shit test. I never end the conversation there. A good number of those girls end up warming up to you and giving you their number or go on an instant date. No boyfriend to be found. I used to date exclusively through day-game. Didn't like bars. I found that the most impo…
/r/seduction20/12/21 06:04 PM
8

Genetically, only around 40% of men who ever lived managed to reproduce. So historically you clearly needed to be above average (and survive to adulthood). But generally speaking, you don't need to be high status. Just 1-3 steps above her status. Less if she's old and desperate. Most low status men are marrying women after they've passed 30 years.
/r/seduction20/12/21 03:24 PM
1

The trick is to find some tangent that you're both interested in. For example, maybe she's an enthusiast of blue knitting needles. You don't care about knitting needles, but you do like the color blue. So you pivot the conversation towards that instead.
/r/seduction19/12/21 08:05 PM
1

As with pretty much every kind of body language, it's contextual. It can be dominance. It can be sympathy. It can be a friendly gesture.
/r/seduction19/12/21 12:47 PM
11

Money, status, and looks aren't enough. For every woman (unless you're a billionaire) you need a degree of charisma as a basis. If you can't talk to them, flirty with them, and verbally excite them. You simply will not attract them. It is what it is.
/r/seduction19/12/21 12:06 PM
8

There's your mistake. Never wear a shirt. Ever. Also, you need more tren.
/r/seduction18/12/21 06:51 PM
25

It's just a filter. No girl is gonna complain if a guy she's attracted too approaches her. Regardless of what she told reddit.
/r/seduction18/12/21 09:33 AM
21

Best: coffee shop, public park, bar Worst: Michelin start restaurant, strip club, movie The best first place spots are casual, do not have specific time commitments, are not expensive, and allow for conversation.
/r/seduction17/12/21 09:14 AM
1

Oxford English Dictionary Dude: /d(j)u:d/ Noun 'a man; a guy (often as a form of address)' "hey dude, what's up?"
/r/seduction16/12/21 09:34 PM
1

This isn't a matter of opinion. The definition of dude implies a male.
/r/seduction16/12/21 05:11 PM
3

A woman referring to another woman as dude, is making a grammatical error. It's not sexism. It's the English language.
/r/seduction16/12/21 08:57 AM
1

Which caveman is gonna be more likely to keep your children alive? The submissive one, or the dominant one? Were all just up jumped monkeys. The answer is usually the one that's pragmatic from a reproductive point of view in a word that is actively hostile towards everyone.
/r/seduction16/12/21 08:55 AM
5

Flirting is banter with sexual undertones, and in this context, coupled with basic introductions since you don't know anything about eachother.
/r/seduction16/12/21 01:25 AM
10

Closing is way more complicated and I'm not a good enough teacher to explain in detail.
/r/seduction16/12/21 01:24 AM
1

No. A woman can not be a dude. The word is gendered. There is however a female equivalent, "dudette"
/r/seduction16/12/21 01:23 AM
4

That's one shitty hill to die on
/r/seduction15/12/21 11:14 PM
5

Chic is no different from dude.
/r/seduction15/12/21 11:13 PM
130

This is how I usually do it. But of course, context often causes exceptions. See cute girl on dance floor Make eye contact and smile If she smiles back, approach and start dancing with her If the vibe is right, after a while, ask her to go grab a drink. Or if she's giving indicators, tease her with almost kisses. Whilst grabbing a drink, begin flirting.
/r/seduction15/12/21 11:12 PM
14

Why would a man be intimidated by a woman?
/r/seduction15/12/21 01:59 PM
1

Yes. Women, especially young attractive women, are almost exclusively interested in dating the top 20% of men. That said, women aren't as simple as men, in that, being hot isn't the only thing that matters to them. So you can, in theory, personality and or money your way out of mediocre looks. That won't help your first impression though so you'll have to either hit the gym and get hot, or learn to suffer through the initial coldness.
/r/seduction15/12/21 12:04 PM
3

Every heterosexual girl is willing to hookup with a stranger after just meeting them hours ago. Or near enough to every girl as makes no difference. All it takes is the right combination of alcohol, ovulation, and attractive manliness. The difference between a good girl and a slut is in the right place and time. If you step into the dating world trying to find a girl who isn't a "slut", you're just gonna end up disappointed.
/r/seduction14/12/21 05:16 PM
4

Just wear a condom and you'll be fine in regards to STDs. As for nerves. That's proof you NEED to do this. You'll never get over timidity and nervousness without challenging it. And you do need to get over it. Being overly nervous as a man is gonna make life more difficult than it needs to be. Rip off that bandaid. The worse it feels, the better. Id also advise against "looking for something serious". That's a recipe for onitis. You should be focusing on having fun with girls. Then, if you happe…
/r/seduction14/12/21 05:11 PM
14

Plan it whenever you want. Id plan it for a few days away from date 1 though. Maybe 3-7 days.
/r/seduction13/12/21 05:27 PM
5

Rather, make her work for it. Don't just hop straight out of your pants. But also, drink water when water is presented to you.
/r/seduction12/12/21 08:22 PM
1

The charisma myth is a good one, though not game specific. I don't know how to make friends. But I have gamed with acquaintances before and it was fine.
/r/seduction11/12/21 11:25 PM
2

Back in the day there where Facebook groups for each city where wannabe players from the same cities, or visiting cities would join forces to practice. Not sure those still exist, the whole PUA community took a big hit a few years ago in the media and lots of forums/groups where shut down. Worth checking for though. Could probe your real life buddies to see if any of them are into game.
/r/seduction11/12/21 09:48 PM
13

The risk of STD is 0, since no woman is ever gonna accept
/r/seduction10/12/21 12:48 PM
1

0 Probably not even if you where Brad Pitt. You're more likely to get a restraining order than an encounter.
/r/seduction10/12/21 12:45 PM
1

Most obvious one is looking at your lips.
/r/seduction10/12/21 08:57 AM
2

Dude... Not every man is attracted to 12 year Olds. Don't even pretend that's true Also pretty sure 8-12 both legitimately meet the definition of pedophilia. Since puberty usually starts around 12, and pedophilia is an attraction to pre-pubescents. Oh, and also 8-12 doesn't even meet the classification of "teen" so don't know why you even included that bit. Also, you claim fertility is the reason for supposedly normal attraction to pre-teens. You do realize girls can't be fertile before puberty …
/r/seduction10/12/21 08:52 AM
0

You have to be honest from the start about it. And yes, it absolutely will turn off a lot of girls. That's just the price you pay for trying to spin multiple plates. Don't lie about it. That will eventually bite you in the ass even if you don't see it as morally wrong.
/r/seduction10/12/21 08:48 AM
176

Northern European here. My 2 go too options are a coffee shop, or a wine bar. Don't worry about her judging you. If she doesn't like your choice, that's her problem. There will be other women who will like your choice.
/r/seduction09/12/21 12:20 PM
1

My dad always told me 27-35 was his prime. So I'm gonna assume around then. But I suppose it depends on the person. If you get fat, then maybe you peak in your early 20s. Same if you end up working a non-sexy job that doesn't pay well.
/r/seduction09/12/21 07:48 AM
6

Yes the fucking street. You approach anywhere and everywhere you see a hot girl.
/r/seduction08/12/21 07:10 PM
4

Depends entirely on the approach. Thank God people like you aren't the norm or humanity would go extinct.
/r/seduction08/12/21 06:54 PM
3

It's all in the inner game. You can't stop these reactions. But you can control the way you react to them. Just contextualize your panic as a natural anxiety response meant to help you navigate social interaction. Its your subconscious telling you that she's uncomfortable, and that you need to tread somewhat carefully and be empathetic about it. Step back (naturally) and use an open, relaxed body language. Since if she sees your on edge that won't help her relax. Don't push too hard until she st…
/r/seduction08/12/21 06:53 PM
10

This is terrible advice. You can absolutely meet women and form real connections with them on the street, or pretty much everywhere else. Just need to approach it in a somewhat calibrated manner.
/r/seduction08/12/21 06:48 PM
24

I usually just go with "I think shes cool/cute". Doesn't say too much. Gives her room to doubt. But also expresses some level of interest. I let my actions do the rest of the talking.
/r/seduction08/12/21 05:23 PM
1

If all you want is just casual sex. Then there is no way to avoid "coming across as a slut". If that's what you want, you just have to own it. The label comes with the territory of sex without any sort of commitments. As for how to get it. Men are easy. Just talk to him. Compliment him. Talk about sex with him. Eventually he'll bring it up. If even that is too much effort. Then just ask "do you want to be fuckbuddies?". Maybe send a raunchy picture or 2. That's how every girl who's ever pulled m…
/r/seduction08/12/21 03:56 PM
12

Non-verbal communication. Easiest way is to go dance with your buddies, make eye-contact with a cute girl and smile. If she smiles back, you're golden. Go up to her and start dancing. Don't bother trying to talk yet. If the vibe is good, you eventually ask her if she wants to grab a drink or smth and then lead her to a quieter portion of the venue. That's when you start actually talking. Keep it simple and talk into her ear because even in the quiet corner it's still too loud. You probably won't…
/r/seduction08/12/21 12:11 PM
3

Dude. We're on a subreddit about seduction and I was specifically asked about promiscuity in Finland.
/r/seduction08/12/21 11:00 AM
57

You mean they get desperate and settle for the men they can still attract since the ones they prefer are dating the new 20ys instead of them.
/r/seduction08/12/21 10:48 AM
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"those are the girls that are toxic" that's where you're wrong. Most women, toxic or no, prefer men who are assertive and dominant to one degree or another. Which is probably what your friend means by "harsher". Women instinctively see men who are too "kind" as low value. Because they don't think a high value man would try so hard to please her, due to his abundance of options. It's a commonly accepted fact among the pickup/seduction community that you have to be a little bit of an asshole somet…
/r/seduction08/12/21 10:42 AM
2

Yeah. At least, we have an exceptionally high average number of sexual partners. Once people get out of middle school and move out of their parents homes, having to wait for the 3rd date is rare. And the women aren't particularly shy about approaching. I probably get hit on 1-2x per month. Work as a bouncer though so I tend to hang around drunk girls and have high social status in that environment. So might be other Finnish men get less attention.
/r/seduction08/12/21 09:56 AM
10

I was called a pedophile (when talking to Americans over the internet) when I was 19 for a month while my gf (ex) was still a month away from 18 (14m difference). People really LOVE that word. Tbh I think it's sort of latched onto the feminist culture of man hating. Easy way to drag a man's name through the dirt to just call him a pedophile. So they make the definition as loose as their possibly can. I've even seen feminists call any man with a preference for women in their early 20s who shave a…
/r/seduction08/12/21 08:20 AM
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Because in the US culture. Minors are considered almost like "property" of their legal guardians. Hence, age of Consent is often placed at 18. When the law deems them "mature adults". So people can not consent until they leave the legal protection of their guardians. Where as in Europe/Asia, most cultures consider late minors to be legally autonomous individuals capable of making their own decisions. Hence age of Consent is placed based upon physical sexual maturity. Which typically occurs at 15…
/r/seduction08/12/21 08:11 AM
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She initiated, so I wouldn't bother waiting. Just start chatting with her again. And schedule a second date in the near future.
/r/seduction08/12/21 07:53 AM
1

Yeah, being good isn't enough on a dating app. You have to e great. Dating apps are dating on hard mode.
/r/seduction06/12/21 10:22 AM
2

It's basically just banter with sexual undertones. Usually between 2 people who are physically attracted to eachother. You do it without being a creep by owning it. Then practicing a lot to get the social calibration aspect down. Most "creepiness" is just saying things in an insecure manner that is incongruent to what you're saying. The rest is down to knowing when you can cross lines, and when you can't. Which you learn with experience.
/r/seduction05/12/21 02:07 PM
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If she's cute, accept. If not, politely decline. This has happened to me a few times. Usually doesn't go anywhere tbh. Usually fizzles out after a drink or 2.
/r/seduction03/12/21 01:51 AM
1

You might get a number, if you approach a lot. But the numbers will be low quality. Highly likely the girls will ghost of flake on you.
/r/seduction30/11/21 06:31 PM
1

I don't think in percentages. Looks and personality are equally important. In that you can't be satisfied without both. I'll hook up with a girl who has a bad personality. But nothing beyond that.
/r/seduction30/11/21 01:51 PM
1

Friendliness is the default expectation. Being unfriendly is detrimental, but being friendly will not help you. Because it's the expected norm. There has to be more to your personality than just being friendly. There is a difference between being a friendly person (which even a jock can be), and trying too hard to be nice. The later is generally described as nice guy syndrome. And usually comes with a sense of entitlement and habitual covert contracting which doesn't endear them to anyone.
/r/seduction30/11/21 01:39 PM
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As are the vast majority of Indians if in not mistaken, and yet, they're responsible for the majority of reproduction. Even with the high prevalence of rape in India, it is not high enough to account for the majority of the population. Sorry, but the idea that non-arranged dating doesn't exist in india just does not stand up to logical scrutiny.
/r/seduction29/11/21 07:01 PM
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And yet, you fail to explain why in a culture of women being property and marriage being arranged. Does OP need to cold approach women, instead of cold approaching their fathers with a sack of coin?
/r/seduction29/11/21 02:09 PM
0

Yes, as we all know. 100% of Indian babies are born in wedlock. Tell me. If all marriages are arranged and women are property, then why does OP need to cold approach? Surely he should go the simpler route, of earning enough money to buy someone's daughter.
/r/seduction29/11/21 02:03 PM
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If cold approach didn't work in India, India would not have such a large population. Your therapist is full of shit. You just got unlucky
/r/seduction29/11/21 12:45 PM
1

Nothing weird about telling a girl she's cute. But it is unusual to approach a stranger in an atypical location. You're not commenting on the compliment, your commenting on the scenario.
/r/seduction28/11/21 05:35 PM
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Yes, this is fine. Though you could add a dash of empathy to the mix to show you're not a creep. Ie. "hey, I know this is a bit weird, but you're cute so i had to talk to you" Or something along those lines. A man cold approaching a woman in public during the day is uncommon enough that it can be helpful to acknowledge how unusual the situation is. Makes them feel less uncomfortable since it shows you're socially calibrated.
/r/seduction28/11/21 01:57 AM
2

There are different kinds of 10s. Samantha Cormier is a 10/10, but so is Serena Abweh, even though the two look very different in every manner. The woman who I dream about is a short ginger with curly hair down to her ass that has an athletic, lean body, small tits, tiny waist, blue eyes, freckles. I've seen women with these features individually, but I've never seen one with the whole package.
/r/seduction28/11/21 01:48 AM
3

It's bs imo. You have to invent a cool persona for yourself, then pretend to be that until it sticks. Be yourself is easy but useless advice.
/r/seduction27/11/21 11:40 PM
2

Theres your problem. It's extremely rare for a woman to directly express any interest in any man until he has initiated in some way. Women in general are too afraid of rejection to risk anything more than an imperceptible hint. You just have to take that risk. So what if they gossip? You're a straight man who wants to get with girls. It's not like you're a closet nazi or something. As long as you aren't too pushy with your advances, at worst you'll get a polite, or less polite rejection and the …
/r/seduction25/11/21 01:31 AM
1

Tbh I think it's a stupid thing to do. I would have done so when I was 18 had I been in a relationship. But really, what's the point? You date because it's fun. So if you're having fun in a healthy ltr, why leave?
/r/seduction24/11/21 10:19 PM
1

Are you actively expressing sexual attraction? Or just waiting for things to happen?
/r/seduction24/11/21 04:04 PM
2

There is a reason girls like jocks. And while their bodies are definitely part of that (hit the gym, i don't care if "that's not me", just do it), my belief is they tend to be more unapologetic, assertive, just more masculine in general. Being friendly doesn't get you far with women. You need to polarize to spark extreme feelings, like hate and love. Most guys like you who I know, if my assumptions are correct. Think they're "being them selves" whilst they're actually being incredibly passive an…
/r/seduction24/11/21 03:58 PM
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Typically you don't ask. You create a date that puts you two into a situation where it's convenient, then you make it "just happen naturally". That's why "Netflix and chill" is a popular meme. You invite a girl over for Netflix because when you're already at home on the couch probably cuddling, it's really easy to escalate non- verbally or otherwise. If neither of you lives alone things get more complicated and you probably need a more solidified situation with her first, with a good few dates u…
/r/seduction24/11/21 01:51 AM
2

This is the wrong mindset. A girl is NEVER out of your league. You never know what she prefers, and maybe, you with all your self perceived faults, is what she wants. Or maybe you have other redeeming traits you don't see which she appreciates. Don't think in terms of "league" at all. Think in terms of "is she hot, do I enjoy her company, is she interested in me". Nothing else. Gushing too soon is to be avoided. But isn't always a death sentence just stick it out. Until she makes it clear she's …
/r/seduction24/11/21 12:23 AM
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